SAFE SEX FOR QUEER WOMEN & MEN

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
  • SAFE SEX FOR QUEER WOMEN & MEN
    Heeeeey fam! In today's video I decided to provide y'all with some advice on having safe quuer sex! I hope you guys learn something new from this to help ease any anxiety you may be feeling surrounding your first time or your first time with someone new! Hope you enjoyed and can't wait to chat with you all in the comments :) All my loveeee, Dutchy xxx
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Комментарии • 99

  • @gabbyf4281
    @gabbyf4281 3 года назад +92

    I didn't know what a female condom was until college. The U.S. school system needs to do better with teaching sex education. Bless you Dutchy

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  3 года назад +7

      It’s so crooked hey!

    • @daxius2583
      @daxius2583 3 года назад

      @@controller8942 I dont know.

  • @lottied7128
    @lottied7128 3 года назад +83

    Yet again Megan being the high school teacher we all needed (and would have loved to have) :)

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  3 года назад +8

      hehe love you Lottie!!

  • @unicorntomboy9736
    @unicorntomboy9736 3 года назад +63

    I don't understand why there is more of a stigma about men being bisexual as opposed to women?
    I wish more men were open to same sex experimentation

    • @user-lp3qz5ri2m
      @user-lp3qz5ri2m 3 года назад +2

      I agree so much

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  3 года назад +10

      I don’t either!! So do I!!

    • @unicorntomboy9736
      @unicorntomboy9736 3 года назад +3

      @@user-lp3qz5ri2m Like, what does it mean to be "manly" or masculine when you're gay or bisexual? Even as an adult man, I sometimes struggle to answer that question to myself

    • @user-lp3qz5ri2m
      @user-lp3qz5ri2m 3 года назад +1

      @@unicorntomboy9736 tbh I don't think there is a must at all, I think it's just what society has made up and/or stereotypes.
      I get what you mean, I struggle answering that question too sometimes not gonna lie.

    • @vita3726
      @vita3726 3 года назад +4

      Toxic masculinity 😑

  • @jg2745
    @jg2745 3 года назад +3

    wow- I'm from the Czech Republic and I thought sex ed really sucks in here but... as I watched this video I realized we were at least told about like... almost every protection that exists.
    on the other hand from what I know it's probably just the fact I am lucky to attend a school where they teach us this because once I was on a lecture about HIV and I was SHOCKED - there were like fourty or fifty of us and I was the only one who already knew everything!
    but also... we weren't taught about things like... yeah, for example the fact that there's a homosexual sex. we were taught that heterosexual sex exists, they told us how it works (and what's sad - not even that was any proper lecture) and then they just went onto another topic! they really should teach us more about lgbtq+ in general, tbh.
    it's just so nice to see that there's someone who talks about these things because I know there are SO MANY people who don't have an idea about anything.
    thank you, Dutchy, for talking about all these tabboos and teaching us about them!

  • @ouiouibaguette6034
    @ouiouibaguette6034 3 года назад +6

    THANK YOU OML SCHOOL FAILED ME YOU SAVED ME

  • @chancereed1088
    @chancereed1088 3 года назад +4

    I am 15. I have been questioning myself and my sexuality for ten years now. I don't know how I knew but I knew I was gay at 5 years old.

  • @dacringeyfangirl
    @dacringeyfangirl 3 года назад +5

    I remember in sex ed we had to name out he ways to avoid pregnancy and I was so tempted to say queer sex lol

  • @tiziana8242
    @tiziana8242 3 года назад +3

    Always giving you the thumbs up before watching the whole video. Because every video is amaaziiing and helpful😚😚😍❤

  • @vita3726
    @vita3726 3 года назад +8

    Does anyone have practical advice on using dental dams? Do they stay in place?

    • @shelbymcdonald793
      @shelbymcdonald793 3 года назад +1

      Look it up

    • @sharoncox1734
      @sharoncox1734 3 года назад +1

      Yeah I was hoping for some tips about causing sensation through a dental dam

  • @Erin-1090
    @Erin-1090 3 года назад +17

    This video is going to be so informative and awesome. 👉🌈✌

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  3 года назад +3

      thanks Nick! ☺️☺️

  • @mariannebrandon8891
    @mariannebrandon8891 3 года назад +6

    Dutchy I have a question. So I’m not intimate right now but I think about sex a lot. And I think about going down on my future SO and the thought of tasting hair grosses me out no matter the gender. Obviously no one should shave if they don’t want to but how do you get past it if it really bothers you I’m sorry if this sounds immature it’s just some thing that I’ve thought about since I was in high school just the thought of going down on someone and tasting hair just I can’t do it so I’m wondering like what do you do to get past that?

    • @catarinaroberto6427
      @catarinaroberto6427 3 года назад +4

      there are some things that you learn to be comfortable with after trying and other you wont. I myself didn't like the thought of me going down on anyone until i tried it. But if it is something you really don't feel comfortable with it's totally ok, you're not forced to be comfortable with it.

    • @kay-lee8571
      @kay-lee8571 10 месяцев назад

      You can use a dental dam so you don’t have to taste anything

  • @Karina-ej9dj
    @Karina-ej9dj 3 года назад +1

    This Video should be shown in school! It is soo helpful and educating witout beeing weard

  • @AnonYmous-ez7ce
    @AnonYmous-ez7ce 3 года назад +3

    I was once told by my PE high school teacher aka my sex Ed teacher that I will never have sex with a women because LGBT does not exist and she said that because I asked a innocent question which was what would you recommend about been safe when having lesbian sex I made me very upset

  • @a.b.thehardcoresimp1119
    @a.b.thehardcoresimp1119 3 года назад +9

    I MISSED THE BEANIE!!!!

  • @chaoticdemonpunk
    @chaoticdemonpunk 3 года назад +15

    Well this will be.. interesting..

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  3 года назад +6

      Yassss! Important!

  • @hexodevil5993
    @hexodevil5993 3 года назад +4

    Hey Megan, I have come out as bisexual to two of my friends and I am telling the rest of them tomorrow at school but I was just wondering how long it took you from knowing your sexuality to actually telling people. Btw I love your videos they have really helped me to come to terms with my sexuality thanks alot!
    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
    💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
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    • @chancereed1088
      @chancereed1088 3 года назад

      Its been 10 years for me and im still closeted

  • @Kotifilosofi
    @Kotifilosofi 3 года назад +2

    You're doing the job of so many schools here 😑👍👍

  • @xandermoore2464
    @xandermoore2464 2 года назад +1

    I work for the San Francisco Community Health Center, can we use this video in our Queer Sex Ed roundtable this Friday, Nov 19th?

  • @kathyd9883
    @kathyd9883 3 года назад +5

    I just came out to my mom and I don’t think she loves me anymore😭😭😭😭

    • @catarinaroberto6427
      @catarinaroberto6427 3 года назад +1

      she will always love you. It might come as a shock to her but you will always be her child

    • @kathyd9883
      @kathyd9883 3 года назад

      Catarina Roberto thanks ❤️

    • @bubba283
      @bubba283 3 года назад

      @@kathyd9883 I wish I could do the same

  • @harryferguson1812
    @harryferguson1812 3 года назад +4

    I'm so very confused. I feel like a lesbian, I want to be a lesbian but I keep feeling attracted to men even tho sex with me disgust me and I really don't want to touch or kiss them (sorry if that was kinda offensive). But I'm just confused. I don't feel like I'm Bi. I feel turned on by women and whatever I feel for men feels different. I just want this to stop. Does anyone have any advice?

    • @moss5538
      @moss5538 3 года назад +3

      You could be biromantic so you feel *romantically* attracted to two genders and just attracted to women for *sexual* attraction
      Remember you are valid no matter what I’m sure there are some Reddit’s and chats to discuss this with people who feel the same way ❤️

    • @harryferguson1812
      @harryferguson1812 3 года назад

      @@moss5538 thank you. I'll look into that

    • @adriannafleckenstein4891
      @adriannafleckenstein4891 3 года назад

      I feel the same way...

    • @harryferguson1812
      @harryferguson1812 3 года назад +2

      @@adriannafleckenstein4891 I think may have figured it out. I feel like I see men as attractive, like objectively attractive, but I'm not personally attracted to them. Is that how you feel?

    • @adriannafleckenstein4891
      @adriannafleckenstein4891 3 года назад +2

      @@harryferguson1812 YES

  • @emilycampbell9272
    @emilycampbell9272 3 года назад +7

    I'll be in school again 😥

  • @notoriously_nixxo1996
    @notoriously_nixxo1996 3 года назад +1

    Everybody, I might not be as gay as I thought.
    So, I’ve known I was a lesbian for about 9 months now, right?
    But then-BUT THEN-I discovered that the music that I had been trying to find for months was by a band called BTS (this all happened today, btw).
    So, obviously, I go to look at the videos.
    FU-
    I have come up with a new term.
    “Homoflexible”.
    I think you all can guess what it means?

  • @kennedynagel6463
    @kennedynagel6463 3 года назад +2

    im allergic to latex...

    • @rx500android
      @rx500android 2 года назад

      Not all protection is made of latex

  • @brodybelford1196
    @brodybelford1196 3 года назад +4

    I’m back and I’m the 33 like on the vid

  • @sewper_swaggy4363
    @sewper_swaggy4363 3 года назад

    How do you talk to girls I'm polysexual and my my friend who is pansexual (when I say friend I mean a girl who likes me and I like her) were 8th graders and can't flirt or talk to eachother it's kind of how awkward and just how do I talk to her and we have been talking about us being girlfriends but how do I ask her???

    • @sezzybear1686
      @sezzybear1686 3 года назад +1

      try not to think about it too much. don't put pressure on making your relationship with this girl into what you think it should be. i guess spend more time with just her and go with the flow, keep an open dialogue, but mostly have fun! if you don't know how to ask her to be girlfriends yet it's a sign you're not quite ready. don't rush anything just enjoy each others company.

  • @dudetheater4864
    @dudetheater4864 3 года назад +2

    Hi

  • @haytabayam4064
    @haytabayam4064 3 года назад

    Dutchy sister god keep you happy forever😓

  • @zoecain6625
    @zoecain6625 3 года назад +1

    You kept saying we could use latex items as a dental dam but what about those of us including myself who have latex allergies? Is silicone or something else just as safe?

  • @thedailyshaver1171
    @thedailyshaver1171 3 года назад +1

    Im early wooooo yyyyeeaahhh guys & ladies.

  • @fantasticfrances
    @fantasticfrances 3 года назад

    Noeee i missed the premiere 😢

  • @childofgod9492
    @childofgod9492 3 года назад

    Can you please do a pan starter pack? GOD BLESS

  • @JungleEddie
    @JungleEddie 3 года назад

    Testing and fidelity because eating plastic is bad.

  • @meghansmith7884
    @meghansmith7884 3 года назад +1

    Female condom not supposed to rip. Sounds scary thou ahhahah. Never heard of it until now, thou i may not use it anytime soon hahahah 😂😭😢🐹. Forget the hamster emoji ahhaha....Meow

  • @poncerodriguez3179
    @poncerodriguez3179 3 года назад

    I missed the beanie

  • @lamystique9295
    @lamystique9295 3 года назад

    Nooo I missed da premiere

  • @ruthiecasimiro3483
    @ruthiecasimiro3483 3 года назад +2

    Hi lmao just want to introduce myself
    I’m Rue, but my family calls me Ruthie and my full name is Ruthann. I don’t really care which one you call me
    I’m pan💖💛💙
    Switch
    14
    I live in Pennsylvania
    Idk lmao I know nobody’s gonna see this but just in case...
    I’m single

  • @zacsbigburgers371
    @zacsbigburgers371 3 года назад

    God damn your still on the grind

  • @georgiarose4613
    @georgiarose4613 3 года назад

    abstinence only sec ed people where you at (damn did i learn some stuff)

  • @monicamarieadams717
    @monicamarieadams717 3 года назад

    Fruit roll ups

  • @kay-lee8571
    @kay-lee8571 10 месяцев назад

    Who in the comments has actually used a dental dam? And if so how did you keep it in place? 😂

  • @cutebeans8827
    @cutebeans8827 3 года назад +4

    It makes me feel so weird knowing that I was homophobic last year... like wtf

  • @TurtlePlayzRl
    @TurtlePlayzRl 3 года назад

    Hey Dutchy, if you’re nonbinary and you’re only attracted to women then are you still a lesbian if you were before you were non-binary?

    • @anayarose5104
      @anayarose5104 3 года назад +2

      im not dutchy, but non binary lesbians exist, so yeah you can if that's how you want to label yourself

    • @TurtlePlayzRl
      @TurtlePlayzRl 3 года назад

      @@anayarose5104 Thank you ^w^ I just wanted to know so thanks

  • @user-cj7ul5dy6k
    @user-cj7ul5dy6k 3 года назад

    I like transgenders woman very much, I am a normal man but if I find like-minded transgenders, I want to get married and spend my life with her.

  • @lurapesce5643
    @lurapesce5643 3 года назад

    03:54 Superb 😍💋