Cringe or say "eww" every time your parents or family mention "yOuR fUtUrE hUsBaNd UwU" I don't really do this as I'm bi, but for gay girls this will work ❤️❤️❤️
My parents always say "husband or wife" when talking to me and my sister about marriage. 1, you're wasting your breath you could just say spouse. 2, Non-Binary people exist so husband or wife doesn't apply to them implying that my family does not approve of Non-Binary people so I'm screwed. 3, JOKES ON YOU I'M ACE/ARO I'M NEVER GETTING MARRIED
@@thatonerandombooknerd1632 I wish I could get married soon. I would like to be married by time I graduate. On a side note, I don't think that nesserceeily means they don't like non binary people.
My problem is, where I live everything what is “stereotypical bi” is fashion. Everybody wears cuffed pants, Vans, oversized hoodies / shirts and have their hair in *this* length
For the lesbians: Loudly start playing music from a widely known lesbian artist. (Girl in red, king princess, Jessie paege, Dodie, haley kiyoko etc.) If that would be too conspicuous, maybe pretend you didn't slip the headphone jack in enough. Chances are she'll say smth or give you a look if she's gay, and you don't even have to confront her. Ask if she's seen She Ra, Amphibia, Owl House, Lengend of Korra or Steven Universe etc. There's also the stereotype of how you pick up a coffee cup: hand wrapped around it = ur out of luck😔, gripping the lid with fingertips = she gae.🌈 But I wouldn't rely on these too much lol Compliment her on gay aspects of her appearance while making deliberate eye contact. These may include short nails, doc martins/combat boots, under cut, flannels, extreme eyeliner, beanie, anything rainbow, eyebrow slit, bizarre earrings, rolled jean cuffs, died hair, beanies and rings- especially a thumb ring.
Hehe so my best friend said that she had feelings for me and that she really liked me. **gay panic** so I said I think ur cute to and I had a quiet meltdown Soooo yh
The bad thing about this for me is that everybody at my school does a lot of these things even if they're straight... Or are they trying to tell us something... Nah it's just the trends going around
I got kinda happy when my dad was like "does her new glasses have boy repellent on them?" Because I was like, "ohh gotta have that, yea does it?" Also most of these are just coming out, I wanna make them know im gay, without outright telling them.
Thank you so much for this, I will definitely use some of these non-verbal hints seeing as I find social interactions and flirting difficult🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I have “love is love” on my light box and a drawing saying love is love in different lgbtqia+ flags in my room. I also have two small drawings, one is a rainbow and one is a sky in the colours of the bi flag. No one have asked any questions or acknowledged it. But you can try if you want🏳️🌈
Brooo i have been doing all of this stuff without realizing it til after watching this video. I color rainbows on everything, i wear a beanie and a snapback, i have a rainbow bracelet i wear, i have an obsession with flannels, i have a jean and leather jacket, i had a bi flag painted on my phone case before i took it off cause i am acrually a lesbian and not bi. I cuff my jeans, i have a rainbow pillow, i make jokes about how stuff is almost as gay as me, ect. I've been dropping all this onto my family for years and only just recently realized im lesbian!!! I also had a crush on my best friend for 3 years before she moved schools ;-; this comment is super long now, im gonna stop now, im just so happy!
time to start doing some of this y'all also, if you don't like coffee (like me), you just say "i like my coffee like i like my men." and wait til somebody notices. if nobody notices, just send more hints, but if they do notice and are like "but you don't like coffee..?" just be like "i know" and walk away because you're 🎶afraid of what they'll say🎶
My FaMiLy Is HoMoPhObIc... it sucks and it is stressful and it hurts to know that they ignore the fact that I'm bi because if they payed attention to it then they wouldn't love me...
I plan on to get some acrylic paints and color that rubbery material stuff.. on my sweater into the lesbian flag and see how long it takes for my parents to notice. Edit: sorry forgot to add in the part about to being my sweater 😂
I came out 4 days ago and I feel amazing. My mom knew it since I was little and when I started doing what every "straight" girl would do, so basically since I was 14-15 years old. My sister was super cool, same for my brother. My friends took it so cute and lovely, last but not least my dad is supportive of me even though I was more scared to tell him. I'm super lucky to have such good people around me and I hope that you all are going to have that.
I have like no clothes and I want to dress emo/punk/goth but I have like 4 shirts and 4 pants besides my school uniform. I'm blowing all my money at thrift stores once quarantine is over
I recently figured out I was gay, and I have only came out to 3 people (not family) and I just wanted to hint to other people that I was gay. Thank you alot Dutchy. You have helped me alot. 🏳️🌈 ❤ 🏳️🌈
The worst thing abt this is I want to try to hint that I’m bi but I’m the only one in my family and extended family that’s lgbtq so no one knows stereotypes and things lgbtq people do and they won’t know the flag meanings but I can’t just come out to them because I would get nervous and not be able to do it and I would change the subject:)
My coworkers keep shipping me and this other dude, and their brothers and blah blah but I’m too embarrassed to admit I’m lesbian cause after that, people see and treat you differently.
When I was still in the closet, a very pretty woman, asked me if I listen to Girl In Red, helped me cuff my pants and I had feelings for her. A group of ladies close by said, are they about to kiss? Then she asked if I was a lesbian. I made one of the worst choices in my life and said no. I have been out of the closet since October 2019 and I have my first girlfriend that I asked to be mine. She is amazing. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I have gave my parents loads of hints that I’m bi cause I told them my favorite on Andi Mack was Cyrus who was gave and then I said we are the same cause irl he bi I think my mom knows cause she bought me sunglasses that looked like a pride flag and said LGBTQ LOVE U DUTCHY
When I came out to my mother as a lesbian (Panromantic now), She said she saw it coming lol I mentioned how I always play game of life with 2 females instead of a female and male and claimed I "Wanted to mix it up" She said that, she never even realised that. I also mentioned when I took a "Am I Gay" quiz a year before coming out and said "I TOOK AN ONLINE QUIZ AND IT SAYS IM GAY" and she also said she didn't notice anything at the time.
Hi dutchy i now it's a bit late for u to reply but i just wanted to say thanks for being like a emotional support buddie to me through all my tough times
@Dutchey i have a question... what if im too young to order pride stuff or there is nowhere i can go to get pride stuff. how do i hint some stuff if i dont have pride stuff?
How come cuffed sleeves or pants are a hint for being gay? Just wondering. (Yeah I've worn cuffed sleeves for almost all my life so... I just wanna know if there's an answer, lol).
I’m worried if I come out to my parents they’ll say that I’m too young and don’t understand what being Bisexual is, or they will say it’s just a phase. I don’t know what to do.
*Kiss someone of the opposite sex and say "no hetero"*
Lol
Cringe or say "eww" every time your parents or family mention "yOuR fUtUrE hUsBaNd UwU"
I don't really do this as I'm bi, but for gay girls this will work ❤️❤️❤️
My parents always say "husband or wife" when talking to me and my sister about marriage. 1, you're wasting your breath you could just say spouse. 2, Non-Binary people exist so husband or wife doesn't apply to them implying that my family does not approve of Non-Binary people so I'm screwed. 3, JOKES ON YOU I'M ACE/ARO I'M NEVER GETTING MARRIED
@@thatonerandombooknerd1632 Lmaoo at least they don't imply you're straight, like 99.9% of my relatives do 😂😂❤️❤️
@@thatonerandombooknerd1632 I wish I could get married soon. I would like to be married by time I graduate.
On a side note, I don't think that nesserceeily means they don't like non binary people.
• Mara • saaaaaaame
Lmaooo
lowkey recommended this for her pride month series
i thought that said lowly. I was scared lmao
if ur a coffee HATER & ur lesbian: i like my men how i like my coffee, i dont like coffee XD
Okay
I love coffee. It always helps me in the mornings 😉
@@unicorntomboy9736 always gives you that motivation to wake up XD (ps. i always see u around for some reason lmao)
@@jxderin Am I bothering you at all? I should probably go then.
For the people like me how hate veggies say I like men like I like vegetables.. I don’t 🌽 😌😂
My problem is, where I live everything what is “stereotypical bi” is fashion. Everybody wears cuffed pants, Vans, oversized hoodies / shirts and have their hair in *this* length
That's exactly how I dress but w long hair☠️
Ok, I just started listening to girl in red like, a couple.of days ago, and I'm already OBSESSED ❤
Hehe welcome to the dark side
*we have cookies*
@@h.5361 no we have pancakes. And lesbipops (lollipops). And a bunch of other totally not lgbt food joke items
The SK Squad haha
*wE hAvE fOoD*
Welcome to the very gay side, we have rainbows and June
The SK Squad
We have Pepsi.
Yes. Pepsi and only Pepsi
Oh and cakes.
I am very subtle: I blurted that im Bi to my friend groups when the LGBTQ community topic came up. Oops.
same....
You should be proud. If they hate, oh well.
(Sorry if it came out rude)
@@awesomenessiswelcomed I am proud and now I am trans and Pan so...*Got to come out again*
@@anastasiashistoryproductio6791, good luck
@@awesomenessiswelcomed thank you
Basically just put loads of King Princess, girl in red and Harry Styles rainbow paradise Tip kiss your friend and say we are just roommates❤️😂
Oh my god they were roommates
• Mara • oh my God yess❤️😂
yes Harry ;)
And Sam Smith. He's gay
@@Izzypookiebea4yesss
For the 1 person who disliked this. HOW CAN U NOT LIKE DUTCHY??!!!
Maybe they were homophobic or just didn't like Dutchy. But how can someone not love Dutchy? She's amazing!
Exactly. Thx
Yeah how can on one like her she is beautiful and cute
@@emilyhill6971 hi
U mean the 15?
Here’s something to say, “I like my men how I like my coffee, I don’t like coffee”
WAIT THATS SMART TY-
How to hint you’re gay: Walk into a room and scream I AM GAY.
hopefully someone would pick up on the hint.
I'm going to like these recommendations to indicate that I'm gay with the girls, since I don't know how to flirt 😂😉🏳️🌈
So lesbian
@@awesomenessiswelcomed AKDKSKDKDK
For the lesbians: Loudly start playing music from a widely known lesbian artist. (Girl in red, king princess, Jessie paege, Dodie, haley kiyoko etc.) If that would be too conspicuous, maybe pretend you didn't slip the headphone jack in enough. Chances are she'll say smth or give you a look if she's gay, and you don't even have to confront her.
Ask if she's seen She Ra, Amphibia, Owl House, Lengend of Korra or Steven Universe etc. There's also the stereotype of how you pick up a coffee cup: hand wrapped around it = ur out of luck😔, gripping the lid with fingertips = she gae.🌈 But I wouldn't rely on these too much lol
Compliment her on gay aspects of her appearance while making deliberate eye contact. These may include short nails, doc martins/combat boots, under cut, flannels, extreme eyeliner, beanie, anything rainbow, eyebrow slit, bizarre earrings, rolled jean cuffs, died hair, beanies and rings- especially a thumb ring.
I'm really excited for this, only issue is that it's the holidays so I ain't waking up at 8:30. See ya a couple hours after the premiere ❤😴
I just realised why all my friends and family and practically the whole world thinks I’m gay I do like all of these most unintentionally
K, SING WITH ME:
ive been hiding for so longgg
Can I tell anyoneee
Afraid of what they'll say
So I push them aAwayy
I'm acting so strangeee
They’re so pretty IT HURTS 😫😫
They're so pretty it hurts I'm not talking bout boys I'm talking bout girls
Hehe so my best friend said that she had feelings for me and that she really liked me.
**gay panic** so I said I think ur cute to and I had a quiet meltdown
Soooo yh
"Tuck your dang shirts in, bisexuals!"
I'm feeling very called out right now. LOL
I'm that girl that buys so much rainbow stuff. I have a lil pride section in my room. 🏳️🌈 Lol gotta make it obvious.
Awww that is so cute 💛🧡💚💜🤣💞💖💗💝💘💙♥️💕😍🏳️🌈💓
@@davidwhitaker836 thanks. It's a neat idea
Its 4:23am I just finished watching blackpink new comeback it was amazing
How to hint that your gay:
Me: ye, I was born
On the coffee one, I made a joke about this recently: "I like my women like I like my coffee. I drink tea."
2:26 you could also say “I like my men/women how I like my coffee! And I don’t like coffee.” 😭
Thanks for helping me come out to my father! 🏳️🌈
i like my men like my coffee. i haven't had coffee yet but i'd love to try it someday
well, since we are facing this corona thing, just wear a rainbow mask
I'm going to try to start subtly hinting to my friends and family that I'm bi :)
Dutchy is that one super suportive/kind/loving teacher that loves everyone!😭💕
I really need this😳💕🏳️🌈
Heyy, My name's Emmie too😂
The bad thing about this for me is that everybody at my school does a lot of these things even if they're straight... Or are they trying to tell us something... Nah it's just the trends going around
I got kinda happy when my dad was like "does her new glasses have boy repellent on them?" Because I was like, "ohh gotta have that, yea does it?"
Also most of these are just coming out, I wanna make them know im gay, without outright telling them.
It’s 4:30 AM for me lol.
For me it's 00:30 AM 😂😂❤
5:45 am here
For me it's 10:18am
It’s 3:24 here :)
How tf are yall putting times without putting links to the video??
I have almost used all of these hints, but no one suspects I'm bi.
Thank you so much for this, I will definitely use some of these non-verbal hints seeing as I find social interactions and flirting difficult🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I have “love is love” on my light box and a drawing saying love is love in different lgbtqia+ flags in my room. I also have two small drawings, one is a rainbow and one is a sky in the colours of the bi flag. No one have asked any questions or acknowledged it. But you can try if you want🏳️🌈
I haven't watched the Video yet, but I've already liked because I know, it'll be good 👌
Brooo i have been doing all of this stuff without realizing it til after watching this video. I color rainbows on everything, i wear a beanie and a snapback, i have a rainbow bracelet i wear, i have an obsession with flannels, i have a jean and leather jacket, i had a bi flag painted on my phone case before i took it off cause i am acrually a lesbian and not bi. I cuff my jeans, i have a rainbow pillow, i make jokes about how stuff is almost as gay as me, ect. I've been dropping all this onto my family for years and only just recently realized im lesbian!!! I also had a crush on my best friend for 3 years before she moved schools ;-; this comment is super long now, im gonna stop now, im just so happy!
My mom was like "were u meeting a booooooooyyyyyy?" I was like, "I met a girl, Hanna" (my friend lol)
I NEED A GIRLFRIEND BEFORE PRIDES OVER HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP
Oof
U still need one?
@@burntrice4418 lol
@@burntrice4418 omg a shera stan
That's not how it works.
Oh my god I just came out to my parents and I already feel so much better about my sexuality 😂
literally came on youtube to search that up and my girl dutchy has got it in my recommended. best youtuber ever😎💕
time to start doing some of this y'all
also, if you don't like coffee (like me), you just say "i like my coffee like i like my men." and wait til somebody notices. if nobody notices, just send more hints, but if they do notice and are like "but you don't like coffee..?" just be like "i know" and walk away because you're 🎶afraid of what they'll say🎶
This also a way to see if they are gay
My FaMiLy Is HoMoPhObIc... it sucks and it is stressful and it hurts to know that they ignore the fact that I'm bi because if they payed attention to it then they wouldn't love me...
I legit used the call a tv character cute one lmao 😂 I said that mike and Max from stranger things were both cute and my guy friends were chill.
SO CLOSE TO 90K OMG, LOVE YOU DUTCHY 🌟
Dutchy your amazing and great at giving advice. I love your videos they're so helpful and I love you you're such a creative person :)
I plan on to get some acrylic paints and color that rubbery material stuff.. on my sweater into the lesbian flag and see how long it takes for my parents to notice.
Edit: sorry forgot to add in the part about to being my sweater 😂
I like my men how I like my coffee.
I don’t like coffee.
I’ll stay up whatever time to watch dutchys vids!!
Love your profile pic 🥰🏳️🌈🧡🤍💗
@@Bee-xs1vk thank you bby❤️❤️
@@radiofish395 I already have one online girlfriend, I don’t need another
@@Bee-xs1vk daym I mean good for you but I wasn’t really asking but I hope your happy with your boo
I came out 4 days ago and I feel amazing. My mom knew it since I was little and when I started doing what every "straight" girl would do, so basically since I was 14-15 years old. My sister was super cool, same for my brother. My friends took it so cute and lovely, last but not least my dad is supportive of me even though I was more scared to tell him. I'm super lucky to have such good people around me and I hope that you all are going to have that.
@@Soph-TV I hope you get a supportive group, but don't forget, sometimes it's hard for them to. Lots of love to you 🥰
@@Soph-TV No worries, take your time. I told my my last year about it and I was 21 at that point. You will find what's right for you.
I have like no clothes and I want to dress emo/punk/goth but I have like 4 shirts and 4 pants besides my school uniform. I'm blowing all my money at thrift stores once quarantine is over
Same tho-
lmaooo sameee im itching to buy more denim for my wardrobe XD
I recently figured out I was gay, and I have only came out to 3 people (not family) and I just wanted to hint to other people that I was gay. Thank you alot Dutchy. You have helped me alot. 🏳️🌈 ❤ 🏳️🌈
First time ever watching your videos, I think this one will be awesome. Lol I'm gay af andddd yeah this is the exact vid I need rn, ty🥰
yelling I'm gay when you enter a room is more of a statement than a hint
Girlfriends over the years just randomly have asked me if I was, something that would shock me everytime
casually mention your girlfriend and hope no one questions it
The worst thing abt this is I want to try to hint that I’m bi but I’m the only one in my family and extended family that’s lgbtq so no one knows stereotypes and things lgbtq people do and they won’t know the flag meanings but I can’t just come out to them because I would get nervous and not be able to do it and I would change the subject:)
Me and my brother were watching a show and he asked who my favorite character was and I said a lesbian character(Luna).
I sang I kissed a girl and girl in red today my parents still haven’t caught on
God i love your energy, what a kween
when you said short nails i realized i was already biting my nails short-
My coworkers keep shipping me and this other dude, and their brothers and blah blah but I’m too embarrassed to admit I’m lesbian cause after that, people see and treat you differently.
2:20
Also bisexuals could use:
I like my coffee how I like my men, I also like tea
When I was still in the closet, a very pretty woman, asked me if I listen to Girl In Red, helped me cuff my pants and I had feelings for her. A group of ladies close by said, are they about to kiss? Then she asked if I was a lesbian. I made one of the worst choices in my life and said no.
I have been out of the closet since October 2019 and I have my first girlfriend that I asked to be mine. She is amazing.
🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I really like the leaving pride flags around until someone notices
Lol when I wrote "say I'm gay" I was tired out of my mind
I like my men how I like my coffee. *sips tea*
Cinnamonroll. Absolute cinnamonroll. You be proud of those plants. And thanks for the advice.
Gurl I love your energy
I've done most of these, my family is very
I don't know the word but you get it
I have gave my parents loads of hints that I’m bi cause I told them my favorite on Andi Mack was Cyrus who was gave and then I said we are the same cause irl he bi I think my mom knows cause she bought me sunglasses that looked like a pride flag and said LGBTQ LOVE U DUTCHY
When someone says “your future husband” or “future wife” say “gross” or just cringe or you can mumble “ or my future (same-sex)”
Hamilton yay!!!
Anyone who loves dutchy
Omg the am I gay quiz is how I came out as questioning to some of my friends
When I came out to my mother as a lesbian (Panromantic now),
She said she saw it coming lol
I mentioned how I always play game of life with 2 females instead of a female and male and claimed I "Wanted to mix it up"
She said that, she never even realised that.
I also mentioned when I took a "Am I Gay" quiz a year before coming out and said "I TOOK AN ONLINE QUIZ AND IT SAYS IM GAY" and she also said she didn't notice anything at the time.
I just dressed masculine and drew rainbows on school papers and then told my mum.
Hi dutchy i now it's a bit late for u to reply but i just wanted to say thanks for being like a emotional support buddie to me through all my tough times
Looks at myself:cuffed jeans,cuffed sleaves,flannel,tucked in shirt.
I think there starting to catch on
I listen to Girl in Red. She is my favourite singer ♥️
Tysm im using these to try hint to my parents and its going well so far!!!
So you're saying I should blast Girl In Red LOUDER?
Dutchy: talk about how doc martens are superior
Me: but I do that already.....
Not this being recommended to me....im a closeted bisexual 🧍♀️
I'd definitely mention you! ❤️❤️❤️
I wear a dang moodring (technically rainbow) on my thumb. The good old thumb ring trick.
"scream *IM GAY!* every time you go in a room"
Principal: Can you please send him down to my office
Me: ĮM GŸ!
i’m addicted to doing the thumbs up lmfao
3:22 I don't think I can talk about something that has never happened...single 4 life ;(
Same.
I just slit my eyebrow to look GAY and it looks so dope! I highly recommend. Just look up a tutorial on RUclips!
It’s 10:40 am for me
Same
it’s almost 5 in the morning for me lol
Right now it's 8:30 am for me, but it will be 6: 30 when this premieres
@Dutchey i have a question... what if im too young to order pride stuff or there is nowhere i can go to get pride stuff. how do i hint some stuff if i dont have pride stuff?
also my dad know im bisexual but my mom dosent. and my dad insults the LGBTQ+ community... even though he knows im bisexual
Beautiful plants 👌
No dislikes... Just as it should be!!
Plant a mini cactus or some aloe Vera in the little keep growing pot!!
How do you wear flannels right or wrong?
Me who is gay and in the closet who just thought cuffed skinny jeans looked good with my blazers.
Can you do how to give hints that bisexuality
Playing girl in red and bisexual anthems out loud 🌝 though only my bro understood 😅 my parents were like yah don't sing with that voice our ears hurt
How come cuffed sleeves or pants are a hint for being gay? Just wondering. (Yeah I've worn cuffed sleeves for almost all my life so... I just wanna know if there's an answer, lol).
I’m worried if I come out to my parents they’ll say that I’m too young and don’t understand what being Bisexual is, or they will say it’s just a phase. I don’t know what to do.
Hide it like hell
Gonna look like a walking visible light spectrum after all this 💀