50 DIFFERENT WAYS to COME OUT

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  • 50 DIFFERENT WAYS to COME OUT
    Hey Dutchy fam!! With the festive/holiday season fast approaching, I thought it was a perfect time to film a video on different ways to come out. The holiday season can be a pretty tough time for people people in the LGBTQ+ community so I hope this video can help some of you! Whether you're out of the closet or still in the closet, you are VALID. I love you all so much and hope you enjoy this video! Can't wait to hear your thoughts in the comment section xxx
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  • @MsDickerz
    @MsDickerz  4 года назад +919

    Hey fam!! What was your FAVE coming out idea?! 🏳️‍🌈💘👌

    • @jt_the_baybee
      @jt_the_baybee 4 года назад +28

      Writing a letter and ally hills coming out song!

    • @TheCrazedLife
      @TheCrazedLife 4 года назад +12

      Def the B-99 one!

    • @timmyshimies4653
      @timmyshimies4653 4 года назад +24

      put a paper on ur pet saying this person is gay or nonbinary

    • @moelester4420
      @moelester4420 4 года назад +22

      100% the I am one of you to the pans

    • @Kit-ev5jp
      @Kit-ev5jp 4 года назад +15

      Nr.26 💗💜💙

  • @kizirana
    @kizirana 4 года назад +420

    "Hey how's the boyfriend?"
    "I don't have a boyfriend"
    "Oh I thought you were dating someone."
    "I am. She's not a boy"

    • @Georgi343
      @Georgi343 3 года назад +2

      Cool 😎

    • @Ashleighclark9608
      @Ashleighclark9608 3 года назад +15

      My parents think I’m straight (I’m a lesbian) and I’m dating a girl and they don’t know

    • @lynnoxid2047
      @lynnoxid2047 3 года назад +3

      @@Ashleighclark9608 Howw, thats literally impossible for me--

  • @rivereatswords
    @rivereatswords 4 года назад +1562

    “It’s cool” says dutchy “and gay. We love gay”
    Me: *slams like button so hard it hurts*

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +73

      hehehe yassss

    • @cringemastero6056
      @cringemastero6056 4 года назад +11

      @@MsDickerz hiii I love your channel

    • @1967buickriviera
      @1967buickriviera 4 года назад +8

      **crushes like button with a hydraulic press**

    • @pinkxlights4106
      @pinkxlights4106 4 года назад +14

      That moment you realize that the like button will get more smashes than u ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • @sendr5968
      @sendr5968 4 года назад +2

      @@1967buickriviera How dare you watch me through my window?!

  • @ha-4275
    @ha-4275 4 года назад +320

    *me a female making it obvious I like girls but not saying it*
    Family: So WhErEs ThE BoyFrEInd

    • @isa.n.hermusic5910
      @isa.n.hermusic5910 3 года назад +4

      SAME LOL

    • @Ashleighclark9608
      @Ashleighclark9608 3 года назад +3

      Same

    • @kneehad3994
      @kneehad3994 3 года назад +2

      LMAOO

    • @thriftieswiftie
      @thriftieswiftie 2 года назад +3

      I literally gave my family SO.MANY.HINTS that I’m bi and they still didn’t know??

    • @bbacream8427
      @bbacream8427 2 года назад

      Omg same
      Here's the thing
      I have a guy bestfriend
      And
      And
      They say we love each other
      *help*

  • @jessicadurn276
    @jessicadurn276 4 года назад +188

    I built a giant bisexual flag in my minecraft world with pistons under it. My best friend and I play it a bunch, so I invited him to my world. I told him to flick the lever and the pistons extended to spell out "I'm bisexual" in the flag. Turned out super well!!!

  • @anahislewis3573
    @anahislewis3573 4 года назад +1252

    i put a pride flag in my room and my mom STILL hasn’t realized

    • @AngelicPelican
      @AngelicPelican 4 года назад +109

      My mum said it was "cute" so now I actually have to tell her😭😭😭

    • @kyleerussell9642
      @kyleerussell9642 4 года назад +63

      Omg same like how many times can I basically flat out come out using gay pride items and clothes and completely get ignored

    • @thebitchwiththesauce5071
      @thebitchwiththesauce5071 4 года назад +18

      SAME

    • @moondash475
      @moondash475 4 года назад +33

      Sameeee i stuck a pride flag that I got when I went to pride, onto my bed, and she didn’t even say anything

    • @randymarshsbbg
      @randymarshsbbg 4 года назад +19

      Same I text my mom I can tell you one thing straight I ain't straight

  • @allora_li
    @allora_li 3 года назад +66

    How about:
    "So how was my impression of a straight person?"

  • @fallo1661
    @fallo1661 3 года назад +80

    I wrote "I'm bi" on my phone and handed it to my mom and she still thinks I'm straight lol.

  • @ericdary8421
    @ericdary8421 4 года назад +1625

    I came out the other day.
    But it was cold so I went back in.

  • @lottiestirling8043
    @lottiestirling8043 4 года назад +1716

    how come the rainbow flag has strait lines, *Gay confusion intensifys*

  • @giiselea
    @giiselea 3 года назад +133

    *when your parents are overly religious and you can’t come out as bi-gender and pansexual* :) *internally dies*

    • @simplycharming123
      @simplycharming123 3 года назад +9

      @CottonWolfie 1778 omg good for you. My gma is overly religious and a Trump supporter. Gotta love that 😛

    • @ellienewman9659
      @ellienewman9659 3 года назад +8

      @@simplycharming123 oop pray for you

    • @simplycharming123
      @simplycharming123 3 года назад +5

      @@ellienewman9659 thanks LOL

    • @abbysmith5878
      @abbysmith5878 3 года назад +6

      I understand you, I’m trans, and my parents are Trump supporters!

    • @anonymousmia
      @anonymousmia 3 года назад

      if they dont support you drop kick them,
      "officer, I DROP KICKED THAT CHILD IN SELF DEFENSE"
      "we r made of atoms and atoms never touch, so no officer i did not drop kick that child" (well it would be parents in this case)
      (/j/j/j/j/j/j//j/j/j/j)

  • @leonornoivo487
    @leonornoivo487 3 года назад +42

    5 days ago I was talking with my dad about gay rights, and my dad said
    "And why are you suddenly so interested in this so called LGBT community?" And I said
    "O-oh I don't really know I just think it's cool" my sister (who I'm out to) was standing right next to him and she put on the weirdest face ever
    And I never felt so much gay panic in my whole life

    • @eclipse_eternal8178
      @eclipse_eternal8178 3 года назад +4

      Yeah I think my mum is a bit sus now since I asked her what she thought of the LGBT community and she was like I don't get them but they are ok and she asked if I liked girls and I was like......no
      Lies in Bisexual :)

  • @wugglr9102
    @wugglr9102 4 года назад +671

    I came out the closet and said "I just came out the closet fam" but no one understood so I left the room lol

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +67

      awk but love the confidence and you xxx

    • @gray6386
      @gray6386 4 года назад +10

      Lmao same

    • @lakegulian3598
      @lakegulian3598 4 года назад +13

      Aw... I did the sane thing and then I was just like 'Ya know what? Just wait until October and then you'll firgure it out'

    • @LifeofMarie267
      @LifeofMarie267 4 года назад +3

      I did that once when we moved into an apartment and my parents laughed. When we moved last summer, I did that again and my niece who is a lesbian was like, "It's about time!" Of course what I didn't say to her is that I'm not a lesbian...I'm bi.

    • @thatgirlzaria2789
      @thatgirlzaria2789 4 года назад +2

      Same

  • @Saturn-yg7tk
    @Saturn-yg7tk 4 года назад +796

    When i was like 5ish my favriot song was I kissed a girl by Katy Perry and it expains alot about me now

    • @wugglr9102
      @wugglr9102 4 года назад +30

      I so relate like it all falls into place 🏳️‍🌈

    • @ravioliravioli118
      @ravioliravioli118 4 года назад +19

      Oh gosh me too I was scared to listen to it in case someone heard 😂

    • @kyryl.dls24
      @kyryl.dls24 4 года назад +21

      Mine was born this way by lady gaga (I was 4)

    • @Saturn-yg7tk
      @Saturn-yg7tk 4 года назад +8

      Omg YASS

    • @Calfea
      @Calfea 4 года назад +15

      Born this way, I kissed a girl, cool for the summer yeah I think I’m starting to see the signs 😂

  • @janbrrevik9937
    @janbrrevik9937 4 года назад +55

    Option inspired by this video:
    Person 1: I like my men how i like my coffie
    Person 2: Sooooooo... what does that mean
    Person 1: *sips tea*

    • @ivyc4867
      @ivyc4867 3 года назад +1

      Oop

    • @lastgrlonearth
      @lastgrlonearth 3 года назад +1

      I like my 3d men like I like my raw onions

  • @mirnaurquia9050
    @mirnaurquia9050 4 года назад +73

    If i ever come out to my mom by text, she'll probably be more confused of why I'm texting her during school time than finding out my sexuality.

    • @marquisdelafayette3333
      @marquisdelafayette3333 3 года назад +2

      Same

    • @michellelohde8683
      @michellelohde8683 2 года назад

      @@marquisdelafayette3333i coming out as gay tonight hope my mum and dad apcet me right ?????.

    • @amynamai
      @amynamai 2 года назад

      I cant decide whether to use a meme, joke or write it on something and leave it for them to find

  • @alyssa7505
    @alyssa7505 4 года назад +430

    My plan: wait until I have a girlfriend and then figure it out

    • @megansworld2130
      @megansworld2130 4 года назад +29

      Sme i think im bi but only if i act on it then i will come out

    • @5demonsinatrenchcoat498
      @5demonsinatrenchcoat498 4 года назад +6

      LITERALLY SAMEE

    • @fernandesjuveliefybsc7550
      @fernandesjuveliefybsc7550 4 года назад +3

      Hey

    • @sgdhhcagr2148
      @sgdhhcagr2148 3 года назад +3

      Same

    • @DoktorVinter2011
      @DoktorVinter2011 3 года назад +8

      That's basically what I'm doing but it pains me because I really don't have the confidence for a new relationship I think.. After being with a man on and off for 10 years it's seriously weird to "get back out there" again. O_O And I really need people to know. I think my mental health would be better because of it.

  • @Gravity_draws
    @Gravity_draws 4 года назад +460

    I wrote on a pencil “lesbians only” and proceeded to use it. My friends were SHOOKITH

  • @Raine_-
    @Raine_- 4 года назад +41

    This video: "Ways to come out"
    Me:Hey mom look at my watch history

  • @Clari_lotl
    @Clari_lotl 4 года назад +42

    I came out to one of my friends on April fools by saying " I'm straight, APRIL FOOLS"

    • @sweetfox3501
      @sweetfox3501 3 года назад +5

      That's THE idea!🤯

    • @lightrayy
      @lightrayy 2 года назад +1

      I have to come out to someone like that

  • @AngelicPelican
    @AngelicPelican 4 года назад +207

    I tried to come out to my mom: I said, "mom, I like both" and she looked at me and said, "both what?" Then I got nervous and said peanut butter and jelly, then I walked away😐
    Have a nice holiday!!!

  • @blueberycow
    @blueberycow 4 года назад +189

    you could do the "let's get one thing straight, I'm not" and the cake one together.
    like make a cake and write "let's get one thing straight, I'm not" in icing on the top.

  • @emilywalton1778
    @emilywalton1778 3 года назад +50

    Dad: I feel sorry for the boy who ends up with you
    Me: Boy, yeah totally....

  • @shadowheart287
    @shadowheart287 4 года назад +58

    When my friend comes out to people she says “I’m as straight as a rainbow” or “I’m a frying pan” because she’s pan

    • @ellawise6976
      @ellawise6976 3 года назад

      but the lines on a rainbow are straight.

    • @anonymousmia
      @anonymousmia 3 года назад +1

      @@ellawise6976 if ur talking abt the flag then yeah but like a rainbow is curved

  • @GamingLikeAGirl
    @GamingLikeAGirl 4 года назад +384

    Where did I come from you ask?
    Me: The closet.

  • @Demol1tion-lovers
    @Demol1tion-lovers 4 года назад +576

    My favorite one is to not come out because *F E A R*
    The closet has heating,ac,water,food and is comfortable

    • @lakegulian3598
      @lakegulian3598 4 года назад +35

      For me it has love and care. I almost came out a few weeks ago but then I heard my parents say "glad their strait! Didn't want to have to kick them out!' My parents are HUGE homophobes

    • @Demol1tion-lovers
      @Demol1tion-lovers 4 года назад +17

      ShadowX Gacha yikes on the homophobic parents! I hope when you do come out you’re in a safe place!

    • @katchatt9827
      @katchatt9827 4 года назад +8

      Mine has a attic entrance.. my room and poems are my closets..

    • @bonjour621
      @bonjour621 4 года назад +3

      Mine is not

    • @333missydug5
      @333missydug5 4 года назад +2

      Zenia omg really??

  • @mx.giraffe1971
    @mx.giraffe1971 4 года назад +34

    Its gonna be fun explaining what Biromantic gray-asexual is to my parents

    • @Variane-zg3lr
      @Variane-zg3lr 3 года назад +2

      Oof relatable I’m a homoromantic ace

  • @luzarellano3051
    @luzarellano3051 4 года назад +66

    the way i came out to my friends: *google translate "im lesbian" in a hard language to understand*
    2020 btw.

    • @user-ec6ue8jy7p
      @user-ec6ue8jy7p 3 года назад +2

      I used Spanish and they found out o.o

    • @jadegreenwood8730
      @jadegreenwood8730 3 года назад +5

      Bro I should have done that, I could have come out in French to my french-speaking friend. Or greek I guess cause she speaks that too.. The way I did it was just: Let's get one thing straight. I'm not.

  • @miles7885
    @miles7885 4 года назад +444

    some more ideas if these weren’t stated
    1. Yell “IM A ______” instead of happy new years
    2. Make a tiktok with the sound “Oh my god, this girl straight and this girl not” with who u want to come out to
    3. Make a kahoot! on who knows u best and add your sexuality

    • @lydiakelli2363
      @lydiakelli2363 4 года назад +39

      Omg I love that kahoot idea (now I wish I wasn’t out)

    • @ravioliravioli118
      @ravioliravioli118 4 года назад +8

      Kahoot yes

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +18

      YESSSS

    • @emmabloom1793
      @emmabloom1793 4 года назад +6

      The kahoot idea is great! Maybe I'll do it for my 18th Bday...

    • @miles7885
      @miles7885 4 года назад +7

      I’m coming out to my parents tmmrw (the kahoot way), i’ll share my experience if y’all want me to, but ik they’ll accept me

  • @toadbarks2293
    @toadbarks2293 4 года назад +120

    It’s so hard cause I can’t just say “I’m asexual panromantic”, like most lgbt people just say “I’m gay” or “I’m trans” but nobody even knows my sexuality so it’s not as simple as that.

    • @kid9171
      @kid9171 4 года назад +12

      were the exact same, so I feel that. like oops sorry I forgot my PowerPoint presentation -_-

    • @bondyczep4368
      @bondyczep4368 4 года назад +9

      I feel that. I'm panromantic graysexual (I don't know wether i'm asexual or demi so I just took the umbrella term) and if i were to come out i'd have to explain both labels

    • @gremlin2305
      @gremlin2305 4 года назад +2

      same. i used to identify as pan ace but now i just identify as pansexual. it will take some explaining but you can do it

    • @briannagage4402
      @briannagage4402 3 года назад +3

      OMG right I'm agender, panromantic, and Omnisexual. Lol

    • @gabrijelabajlo5459
      @gabrijelabajlo5459 3 года назад

      Im Omnisexual

  • @ghostie_4099
    @ghostie_4099 4 года назад +22

    Lately my mum has been talking about gay stuff more and more often (gay celebs, gay friends, ect) and I’m kinda scared she knows cause I have a bunch of gay posters hidden by wigs in my room and stuff

  • @averyklahn4082
    @averyklahn4082 4 года назад +38

    *yeets myself off the ceiling fan* (don’t ask)
    *”IM GAY.”*

  • @marta9184
    @marta9184 4 года назад +320

    It is going to sound weird but how to be attractive to girls? Like... How to make them look at me and think: damn, she's hot. by using body language etc.
    Could you please make a video about it?

  • @soiehaberman2708
    @soiehaberman2708 4 года назад +252

    my aunt: remember when u find the right man make sure he’s not too controlling
    me: k, i know
    my aunt: or girl, it’s ok if you like them too
    me: *bi panic*

  • @deedeeanimates2977
    @deedeeanimates2977 4 года назад +33

    “It’s a full moon tonight, perfect for werewolves to come out, and for me. Hi, I’m (insert identity/sexuality)”

  • @alien.invasion
    @alien.invasion 3 года назад +8

    10:39 "lettuce are honestly so cute, i love receiving lettuce from people"

  • @arpandher
    @arpandher 4 года назад +58

    i’m constantly coming out so i usually just either
    - make a comment about something being straighter than me (my fav)
    - dress super “bi”
    - subtlety slip in how i find a certain girl cute
    - “accidentally” let them see my “bi culture” playlist
    - join into guys’ convos about dating girls

  • @niyahlmao
    @niyahlmao 4 года назад +265

    Mom: Someone in this family had to be lesbian or bi
    Grandma: I wonder who it might be
    Me: *bi panics*

    • @clare_9438
      @clare_9438 3 года назад +1

      😅

    • @niyahlmao
      @niyahlmao 3 года назад +6

      GUYS TURNS OUT IM A LESBIAN- AND I CAME OUT AS BI LIKE 2 MONTHS AGO- BUT IM SCARED TO COMEOUT AS LESBIAN

    • @clare_9438
      @clare_9438 3 года назад +1

      @@niyahlmao CONGRATS!! big accomplishment it’s hard and i’m glad u find out!

    • @nici9549
      @nici9549 3 года назад

      Ur pfp 😂

    • @niyahlmao
      @niyahlmao 3 года назад +1

      @@nici9549 HI FELLOW ARMY

  • @spatulatheweeb3097
    @spatulatheweeb3097 4 года назад +15

    I come out to random guys at my school by staring at them for a long time... then I pull out a sign that says "I like..." then I flip it around and it says "GIRLS"... I often have this sign with me...

  • @candiedblxxd
    @candiedblxxd 4 года назад +42

    My gma is gonna kill me, she says its a sin,im still telling her

    • @sodium223
      @sodium223 3 года назад +4

      Oof good luck

    • @candiedblxxd
      @candiedblxxd 3 года назад

      @Lucy Jenniges i still havnt told her TwT

  • @Ellenchattergirl
    @Ellenchattergirl 4 года назад +185

    I have pictures of girls kissing as my lock and home screen.

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +28

      CLEVER!

    • @ariawalker3284
      @ariawalker3284 4 года назад +1

      werq

    • @Grace-pb6og
      @Grace-pb6og 4 года назад +6

      my lock and home screens are both bisexual flags 😂

    • @witchyyycat
      @witchyyycat 4 года назад +1

      @@Grace-pb6og sameee

    • @swirlingfizz9990
      @swirlingfizz9990 3 года назад +1

      I have my Sexuality flag on my wallpaper and it has a rainbow and LGBTQ+ qwq I’m gonna tell the girl I like that I have a tiny crush on her-

  • @chiraday321
    @chiraday321 4 года назад +14

    I was on a vacation with my mom and aunt, and since I haven’t seen her in so long, she asked me questions. Two of them I remember. One, “do you have a boyfriend?”. I replied no (I’m female :>). The other question though, it made me so happy. She asked if I had a girlfriend. *That. That right there tells me she’s the awesome supportive aunt*

    • @sodium223
      @sodium223 3 года назад

      Aw that's so sweet

  • @lakegulian3598
    @lakegulian3598 4 года назад +12

    "And gay. We love gay!"
    FaCtS.

  • @dempy0317
    @dempy0317 4 года назад +176

    DUTCHY IS THE NEXT TIK TOK QUEEN ❤️🌍

  • @makena_g15
    @makena_g15 4 года назад +46

    14:57
    Dutchy: I mean what is more gay then a pantsuit?
    Me: *laughs and points at self*

  • @allyisalright
    @allyisalright 4 года назад +28

    My grandma: there's my sweet little girl!!
    My non binary ass: *panic*

  • @bacalaitos23
    @bacalaitos23 4 года назад +50

    I only have 1 problem...
    I don't know *w h e n* to come out.
    EDIT: OKAY- I *COMPLETELY* FORGOT I EVEN COMMENTED THIS BUT HERES AN UPDATE: I CAME OUT BACK IN MAY 💃💃🕺🕺
    It was kinda awkward at first but my parents are okay with it :v (i still think that my mom thinks that I have a lean towards guys- so she just keeps assuming im straight- but ok-)

    • @lucykohl6807
      @lucykohl6807 3 года назад +3

      Same in nervous to come out to my Christian grandma 😫😫😫😖😖😖

    • @lovelydemon9001
      @lovelydemon9001 3 года назад +1

      @@lucykohl6807 umm true 😰

    • @urmom9624
      @urmom9624 3 года назад

      Try to come out when the person u wanna tell is happy

    • @thetwomusketeers391
      @thetwomusketeers391 3 года назад

      I also have this problem and I'm thinking next Christmas

    • @bacalaitos23
      @bacalaitos23 3 года назад

      @@thetwomusketeers391 oooo I hope it goes well!! ✨✨

  • @femkebocker
    @femkebocker 4 года назад +72

    Dutchy: "It doesn't need to be that straight to the point."
    Me: "Well they may be even not so straight when they come out though..."

    • @beesworld7436
      @beesworld7436 3 года назад +1

      @Heidi Smith I'm gonna wait until Christmas to give my family a present that has a paper saying "Surprise! I'm bi." hopefully they'll take it well.😊

    • @beesworld7436
      @beesworld7436 3 года назад +1

      @Heidi Smith thank you, and good luck as well!

  • @roseditslunasofficialyoutu9250
    @roseditslunasofficialyoutu9250 4 года назад +85

    Me: *blasting girls by girl in red in my room which everyone in my house can hear*
    My mom: “do you have something to tell me?”

    • @sirlously9685
      @sirlously9685 3 года назад +6

      I DO THAT ALL THE TIME but no one cares 🙂

    • @Astraios_sky
      @Astraios_sky 3 года назад +3

      Best song ever

    • @anonymousmia
      @anonymousmia 3 года назад

      i listen to sweater weather all the time and no one has noticed yet :/ well my sister has but she doesnt get it ._.

  • @spilltheteasis5271
    @spilltheteasis5271 3 года назад +12

    I’m coming out to my class on monday by saying:
    “Alright..Lets get one thing straight. I’m not “

    • @sweetfox3501
      @sweetfox3501 3 года назад +1

      It's too bad, this doesn't work in german😔

  • @Tizzy_Rose
    @Tizzy_Rose 4 года назад +5

    20th March 2020 is a day I’ll never forget. I came out to the first person, my best friend and it was amazing 😭😭

    • @95centchicken15
      @95centchicken15 3 года назад

      I know I’m super late but I’m proud of uuuuu! How did it go? Are you out to anyone else? Totally ok if you’re not or don’t wanna say :)

  • @cle479
    @cle479 4 года назад +44

    Dutchy: where did u guys come from?
    the closet

    • @stelpirt7840
      @stelpirt7840 3 года назад +2

      Yaasssss kwwweeeennn/kkkiiiiiinnnnnnggg

  • @raem8443
    @raem8443 4 года назад +50

    I impulsively just said “i’m gay” to my sister last night and she told me she knew since I was like six

    • @Soph-TV
      @Soph-TV 3 года назад +6

      Lmao-
      Wait why is my girlfriend your pfp?!

    • @nagito177
      @nagito177 3 года назад +1

      @@Soph-TV LMAOO

  • @idk_potatos_idk2554
    @idk_potatos_idk2554 3 года назад +2

    I just came out to both my parents that I was lesbian using the "let's get one thing straight" "I'm not" and they got it right away and said they didn't care as long as I was being me TwT probably one of the most happy conversation I have had in my life =D

  • @piney_studios
    @piney_studios 3 года назад +4

    Every single time I go visit my family my grandma asks “do any boys like u yet?” Or “You have a crush on a boy?” And she doesn’t know I’m 13, and gay. Iconic, coz every straight person says I’m too young to know, yet all of them keep forcing me to tell them about my crushes of the opposite gender

  • @christopherandchristian5632
    @christopherandchristian5632 4 года назад +58

    I got Anxiety of postponing it so I just told my parents “I’m Queer, it means that I like Men, but I don’t know if I’m into Women” i had to wait until I was 18 because I made sure it was safe. It was and they loved me either way or even more now 🥰

  • @RyelynCaster
    @RyelynCaster 4 года назад +357

    So I was with my little cousin and asked her “ Do you like apples or bananas”
    She said “Oh, Bananas” in a VERY suggestive way (I was literally just asking her favorite fruit I don’t know why she took it like this lol)
    Then I said “ Oh you mean it like that. In that case I like apples and bananas.”
    And that’s how I came out to my cousin 🏳️‍🌈

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +22

      So creative! Love that :D

    • @lenaofthevalley
      @lenaofthevalley 4 года назад +18

      haha i asked my friends the same thing and my crush said apples and i said apples too. then we were so nice to each other and she asked me "why are you so nice to me?" i shrugged because I didn't want her to know yet but I also did at the same time lol. then during Winter Break I texted her and told her she's like my bestest best friend ever and then i said I wanted us to be more than friends and she said she felt the same so there we go lesbian love story

    • @RyelynCaster
      @RyelynCaster 4 года назад +2

      Lena Robbins Lucky

    • @sassanyberg9086
      @sassanyberg9086 4 года назад +1

      My cousin and i came out to each other at the exact same time😅

    • @jaiyden4819
      @jaiyden4819 4 года назад +1

      I-

  • @sophiabob5278
    @sophiabob5278 4 года назад +9

    I am preparing even though I’m still 10 and know my identity
    I’ll probably come out when I start middle school

    • @suju257
      @suju257 3 года назад +2

      I'm 11 and I'm prob coming out after covid and middle school or high school. I want to go to a family gathering or something and randomly go: “Oh my oh my oh my god this girl straight *points at someone straight* and this girl not *points to self* ”

    • @Variane-zg3lr
      @Variane-zg3lr 3 года назад +1

      Me too, I’m 13 and just want to tell you that you’re valid and don’t let anyone tell you that you aren’t

  • @justiny.jr.2330
    @justiny.jr.2330 3 года назад

    "I love you all so much, whether you are out or closeted, no matter what sexuality you are, you are valid" ok, I simplified it, but, like, I love this statement. It made me tear up and I will now take it to heart. Thanks, Dutchy.

  • @trashy.cosplayer8418
    @trashy.cosplayer8418 4 года назад +133

    When youtube starts to get creepy (I wanna come out and I said to my friends today that I wanna come out what should i do and now i get 50 ways to come out very creepy if you ask me)

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +10

      HAHAHA I know everything .. ;)

  • @rivers.6792
    @rivers.6792 4 года назад +124

    If you come out, you don’t have to get straight to the point, because your not!😊
    Ok I’ll leave now

  • @gregh4150
    @gregh4150 3 года назад +4

    I'm doing it's raining men and I'll walk down the stairs while that song is going with a pride cape

  • @derppan9215
    @derppan9215 4 года назад +7

    For me, Everytime someone says "pan" I just say "did you say my name??" as a way to come out
    Somehow, most of them don't know still XD

  • @caria1274
    @caria1274 4 года назад +25

    my friends at the lunch table started making the “pansexuals are attracted to pans” joke so as a fellow pansexual i came out to them by proving them wrong lmao

  • @bonjourbaguette7796
    @bonjourbaguette7796 4 года назад +22

    I came out to my best friend by just keep saying "truth" in a Truth or dare, hopefully, I acted gay enough for the "R u gay or straight ?" And I just responded "Both."
    And he went "O H ."

  • @moonlightisgreedy1027
    @moonlightisgreedy1027 4 года назад +5

    My friends asked what my favorite RUclipsr was
    I said “dutchy”
    Does that count as coming out to my friends?
    Ahahahh

  • @maleahw09
    @maleahw09 3 года назад +15

    i plan on staying in the closet till i get a girlfreind😭😭

  • @A-qd8zj
    @A-qd8zj 4 года назад +191

    *looks at sexuality list*
    “HmMmM wHo Am I?”
    Also me: “ oh well, still don’t know, but I know I’m not straight”
    (More on the bi and pan side but still very unsure)

  • @fluffylux6969
    @fluffylux6969 4 года назад +22

    You know, I’m lesbian and today a boy said that I look like girl who does not have social media.... MISSION ACCOMPLISHED

  • @lavacake1765
    @lavacake1765 3 года назад +2

    I’m coming out to my family tomorrow by writing a letter! Thanks for the advice! 💜
    Maybe sending them the classic, “I’m gay” meme.

  • @lunaticchild7892
    @lunaticchild7892 4 года назад

    You are oozing postivi-tea hunny☕❤️✨
    I just turned on post notifications 😤✨

  • @maybeeapril4607
    @maybeeapril4607 4 года назад +15

    Life hack: come out with this video as your sister walks in 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @dempy0317
    @dempy0317 4 года назад +56

    DUTCHY IS THE NEXT QUEEN OF TIK TOK ❤️🌍

  • @emily6857
    @emily6857 3 года назад +7

    I WILL GET A GIRLFRIEND THEN SAY "HEY MUM, SIS , BRO, DAD MEET MY GIRLFRIEND " I'm honestly terrified to come out

  • @justerin8558
    @justerin8558 3 года назад +3

    I came out 2 years ago and my mom just laughed- never talked about it again. She just- laughed.

  • @Zanderren
    @Zanderren 4 года назад +124

    I said I can’t find a closet big enough to fit my wheelchair into to my teacher and we laugh about it all the time so now every time we have finished talking we say bi bi bi

    • @killjoytw1nk
      @killjoytw1nk 4 года назад +3

      This is awesome

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +7

      awwww! that's wholesome xx

    • @killjoytw1nk
      @killjoytw1nk 4 года назад +1

      @@MsDickerz ikr ❤️

    • @Zanderren
      @Zanderren 4 года назад

      Dutchy thanks for helping me

    • @Zanderren
      @Zanderren 4 года назад

      мαяα тѕl thanks

  • @sophhiebn
    @sophhiebn 4 года назад +27

    I came out to my parents with the straight as a ruler meme and my dad didn’t understand it at first so I had to explain it to him 😂

  • @leoharrison4532
    @leoharrison4532 3 года назад

    How can one person be so positive!
    You've gained a new sub Dutchy.

  • @kokichiouma1831
    @kokichiouma1831 4 года назад +4

    The way I’m coming out is; gift wrapping a mini canvas that says “I’m a lesbian” (yes omg I’m not the real kokichi) on it and handing it to them

  • @Lucian-zz9lb
    @Lucian-zz9lb 4 года назад +43

    Dutchy "And gay we love gay. "
    Lmao that's my life right there

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +4

      HEHEHE

    • @Soph-TV
      @Soph-TV 3 года назад +1

      I-is tat me and Adora?!

  • @Zoe-rc9py
    @Zoe-rc9py 4 года назад +11

    One time, I was with my gay friends and an innocent friend, oblivious of all of us and I was like, "Yeah, I've been in the closet my whole life" and she was like "you're Harry Potter, too?"
    She still hasn't gotten it...

    • @edalynclawthorne2415
      @edalynclawthorne2415 3 года назад +1

      This had me laughing out loud. Also, LOVE your Adora pfp. Love She ra too

  • @Dylan-vh9bd
    @Dylan-vh9bd 4 года назад +2

    I’ve been making a lot of gay/bi jokes lately. Recently came out bi and now I know what all the jokes were for. Making myself comfortable with the idea of coming out

  • @ohitssprout1339
    @ohitssprout1339 4 года назад +5

    DuTcHy Is ThE nExT tIkToK qUeEeEeEn u.u period
    Edit: xd a tiktok queen lol uwu we gotta keep charli and addison :>

  • @dyinginside8822
    @dyinginside8822 4 года назад +7

    "Its cute!... and gay, we love gay" this is my favorite thing ever now.

  • @Inevitably_Invisible
    @Inevitably_Invisible 4 года назад +58

    Ack, I’m bisexual and panromantic. I’m scared to come out because of religion, I can’t date regardless of who I like but I want them to know because I love them 🥴. Also I like my bi friend, my friends and sister know I’m bi but I don’t wanna ask out my bi friend or tell her cuz I dint Wanna ruin our friendship 🥺

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +10

      This is such a tough one. I think if you can find at least one person that you can confide in and tell that would be a massive weight off of your shoulders. We're all here for you.

    • @Inevitably_Invisible
      @Inevitably_Invisible 4 года назад +5

      Dutchy
      Thank you! I have a lesbian friend who understands, I want to come out to my mom because she said that she’d love me no matter what in other situations, I just haven’t found the courage to yet. :/

    • @katieee8809
      @katieee8809 4 года назад +5

      I’m a lesbian and I used to have a crush on my (straight) best friend. All our friends knew that I liked her, but she didn’t. I debated for a long time about whether I wanted to tell her or not. I knew she wouldn’t like me back, which didn’t make it easier. I was almost completely sure she would hate me or not want to be my friend anymore. Anyways, my friends ended up peer pressuring me into telling her. In the end, she didn’t really care if I liked her. She was actually fine with it.
      Basically, the moral of the story: If your crush is a true friend, they won’t care if you like them. They should continue to be your friend no matter what. And, who knows, they might even like you back!
      I wish you the best of luck for coming out and telling your friend you like them. 🏳️‍🌈

    • @Inevitably_Invisible
      @Inevitably_Invisible 4 года назад

      Dutchy update I came out to my mom and she’s supportive!!!!

    • @Inevitably_Invisible
      @Inevitably_Invisible 4 года назад +1

      Tsuki update, I came out to my mom and she’s supportive!!! Also now I have a crush on a different girl and idk if she’s straight or not and I have a crush on my male friend at the same time so fml

  • @Sapphic_Schedule
    @Sapphic_Schedule 3 года назад

    These videos build up my confidence so much ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @MeepBeepBeep
    @MeepBeepBeep 3 года назад +1

    "We love gay."
    This is why we love Dutchy.

  • @A.H._
    @A.H._ 4 года назад +24

    This video has a perfect timing. I'm preparing to come out before 2020 starts. After almost two years, I think I'm ready. Wuuuju

    • @jt_the_baybee
      @jt_the_baybee 4 года назад +1

      Good luck! Tell me how it goes if you want.

    • @bitchee_unkxnd8222
      @bitchee_unkxnd8222 4 года назад +1

      im going to subtly drop hints (wear a rainbow denim jacket) to my extended family at my cousins wedding on saturday lmao

    • @Is4bellem4rie
      @Is4bellem4rie 4 года назад +1

      Good luck!!!

    • @A.H._
      @A.H._ 4 года назад +1

      @@jt_the_baybee Well, update! I told my mom yesterday and she said that she already knew. To be fair, she once asked me before I knew myself, so I didn't confirmed it. She's totally cool with it, and that's why I came out to her first, I kinda knew her reaction.
      Now I'll come out to my dad next week. That's what I'm a little bit scared of.
      (I'm noticing I wasn't clear, I'm just coming out to my parents, I'm already out to my friends so yeah. It's going well!)

    • @jt_the_baybee
      @jt_the_baybee 4 года назад

      @@A.H._ omg thats great! I haven't really came out to my parents yet but i have a secret girlfriend (im bi) so im out to my whole friend group. Good luck coming out to your dad!!

  • @bakugouthekinkyleprechaun6205
    @bakugouthekinkyleprechaun6205 4 года назад +12

    Nosy aunt: So, are you dating anyone? Any pretty girls caught you eye?
    Me: * pulls out uno reverse card *

  • @albinofury0552
    @albinofury0552 3 года назад +3

    I’m gonna be like there’s a Biposter in here... 🤣✌🏻

  • @tammymc8018
    @tammymc8018 4 года назад

    Thank you for making thisssss!!
    💗💜💙👭🏼👫🏼

  • @felixarchives8424
    @felixarchives8424 4 года назад +39

    DUTCHYYYYYYYY
    Hi I’m quite possibly bi...
    (My sexuality is very confusing lol I’m confused) YAY.

    • @cheyennearnett8534
      @cheyennearnett8534 4 года назад +1

      YAY! I'm confused too, but I'm pretty confident that I'm bi

    • @swirlingfizz9990
      @swirlingfizz9990 3 года назад

      CheyChey :P me too- I don’t know IF I HAVE A CRUSH ON A GIRL OR NOT I think she’s kind of pretty-

    • @Sanjay-eo6xe
      @Sanjay-eo6xe 3 года назад +1

      @@cheyennearnett8534 same

  • @simbathealmighty1111
    @simbathealmighty1111 4 года назад +35

    I’m gonna message my mum
    ‘Mum
    I’m queer
    Let’s get this clear
    I like girls and boys
    It’s my choice
    Don’t judge me
    Love is love 💗 ‘

  • @hellcritter6668
    @hellcritter6668 4 года назад

    Tysm dutchy
    You make me feel like I have somebody who understands me :D

  • @user-ih3hw8bj5e
    @user-ih3hw8bj5e 3 года назад +2

    After Dutchy said Holiday/Holidays
    Me-The flashbacks from the 6 Minutes podcast are back...

  • @ameliakreitz5369
    @ameliakreitz5369 4 года назад +81

    I just came out to one of “my friend “ and then she went and told everyone In our homeroom and my other friend tried to back me up but it’s hard because I haven’t came out of the closet to my mom and step dad so I can’t really talk to them .😢👩‍❤️‍👩🏳️‍🌈

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +18

      I'm so sorry to hear that, that's so rough and you didn't deserve that at all. You deserve better friends too. Love you and always here for you x

    • @Saucystitch
      @Saucystitch 4 года назад +2

      Aw sweaty

    • @altf4582
      @altf4582 4 года назад +5

      Thats rough. They should have known thats it was your personal information.
      Ayyy your a hamilton fan to(aka hamiltrash)

    • @lanagrace2959
      @lanagrace2959 4 года назад +3

      Amelia kreitz oh you tell that birch to get the frick out of your life us rainbows don’t need rain and storms in our life!

    • @akwardburrito5383
      @akwardburrito5383 3 года назад +3

      Amelia kreitz oMG frikin SaME tho

  • @chaoticdemonpunk
    @chaoticdemonpunk 4 года назад +15

    My friends know I'm bi but my fam doesn't and me and my friends always joke about how I dress like a bisexual stereotype and how none of fam have figured it out lol. Love ya Dutchy 💖💜💙!! Also I drew the bi flag and put it on my wall nobody has questioned me lmao!!

    • @chaoticdemonpunk
      @chaoticdemonpunk 4 года назад +2

      Just an update but I've realised I'm pan so yeh 💖💛💙

    • @arlorowins
      @arlorowins 3 года назад

      Nice

  • @Yongelife
    @Yongelife 3 года назад

    thank you so much for this you make my day much better

  • @letsplayboyz3351
    @letsplayboyz3351 3 года назад

    Thanks to dutchy I come out to my friends it was scary but at the end I felt a relief after telling my friends. Thank you Dutchy.

  • @siljenilsson2533
    @siljenilsson2533 4 года назад +32

    I live in Sweden and this will be late but I will do it anyways