And that's exactly why Nick is so emotionally intelligent! The mother did an amazing job raising him and even a better one being the kind of person she is.
Out of all the scenes in this show that make me grin like an idiot, this is probably the cream of the crop. Sure, Nick’s mother only shows up in a handful of scenes. But God, her immediate and loving acceptance of her son for who he is just fills me with happiness. (Not to mention that, as a bisexual man, I greatly appreciate the representation here. We don’t see this often enough, frankly.) Olivia Colman is the best.
I swear, I saw you in many other comment sections as well, I didnʼt know that you watched Heartstopper! Thatʼs amazing, iʼm bisexual as well & seeing this scene made me cry.
I agree. I love how precisely they filmed every detail of this scene too.... because we don't see Olivia too much, we aren't really given a clue as to how she would react to news like this. When Nick first says it, she doesn't react right away... she just listens. And there is a few moments of pause, while we wait to see how this news is going affect her.... I love that. Because when she does break and accept him, its such a welcome relief... and that is exactly the right emotion for every LGBTQ person who has ever had to come out to a parent before. Unfortunately not everyone gets that acceptance... but the relief we ALL feel for Nick when he does... that is real and this scene was done so well.
So many people are talking about how sweet it is of Sarah to have said “I’m sorry if I ever made you feel like you couldn’t tell me that” but I also really love that she said “you don’t have to say you like girls if you don’t” because that shows that she loves him no matter what his sexuality would be
I mean its Olivia Colman what do you expect ? And the way Kit corner embodied Nick is absolutely phenomenal. I did not expect him to be this good. Its fascinating to see his emotions unfold through out the series.
The acting from the other kids isn’t the best. But Kit is just amazing and Olivia manages to convey so much emotion despite the fact we barely get to see her. She feels like a mother
as someone who has been 'discovering' about herself, growing catholic in a very homophobic area, it definitely makes me smile that nick was able to come out to him mom. but it's hurts for me, realizing that's its not easy for me.
Stay strong love! I also grew up in a small, Catholic town, and accepting my bisexuality took a long time. I’ve been with my girlfriend now for 3 years, and my family all love her and accept us. There is always time❤
I have learned over my 67 years that the family you make is the one that is most important. If you are lucky, it will include blood relatives but if it doesn't, that's okay.
You don't have to be catholic, these religions are pure stupidity mostly filled with idiotic people. Make the Bible your religion, trust your own interpretation, not what other people tell you.
This scene so adorable… i wish a lot of moms like this one when their children come out, it s really important to their children feeling accepted and loved
Legit crying, I can never tell my parents about me and my girlfriend. They know about me being bisexual but they refuse to accept it and it hurts so bad… She’s the mom of the year 100%
It took 2 years my mum finally accepted it and don't be so cold on me. She told me she wished me change my mind myself but when time passed by 2 years, she gave up and understood that I don't have confused head and feelings. From that time she loved every my girlfriend. I am 2 years married with my wife and my mum loves her and accepted her as her ,,second daughter" because my wife hasn't parrents (long story). My mum And my wife know each other almost 5 years and my mum is glad that I found ,,love of my life". So, be patient. One day your mum open eyes and accept you as you are :)
Feel this. Every time I watch this, i end up ugly sobbing. My gf is a long time friend of mine that my mum knows too. I thought it'd go better, hopefully like this clip almost but was told to try out guys instead. Woah you luck w ur relationship and ur family man
THE best scene in the series. It is tickeling all over, even after the 10th time. Kit is just genious and we lerned, every child should have the Queen as mum!
I always wonder if I'm biased by the subject, but Kit Connor is a incredible actor right? Like I wouldn't be surprised to see him have a very successful career. His acting of Nick's journey was so real and powerful and I feel he truly did an unbelievably great job.
it's not about her being supportive cuz he's bi, it's about her feeling sorry that she indirectly suffocated her son and made him feel like he couldn't tell her the truth. it's about her wishing her son would be comfortable around her, and nothing more of it. it gets me good
The fact that after watching this scene i cried so much,and actually triggered me to come out to my mom is honestly fantastic and everything went so much better than i expected,i'm just so thankfull for this show ❤
On top of how amazing this scene is, there's the fact that Olivia Colman cried while filming It 'cause she just felt It so much and the guy thought "oh she's good I have to step up my game"
I swear when I saw this scene it literally hit so close to home as a bisexual person myself I started crying during this scene when Nick's mom accepted him because when I came out to my mother she "accepted " me rather unwillingly due to the fact that I'm too young to be kicked out of my own home (in the country i live in)but seeing Nick's mom genuinely accepting him makes me so happy :')
I just love everything about this scene! So sweet :) This is how every LGBT-person deserves to be treated when they come out. I'm a bisexual man and we're finally getting some representation 💜
This is the parental reaction all LGBTQ people deserve to have - it is so beautiful! I tear up every time I see this. Unfortunately it is also very idealistic portrayal. I was grateful my family has supported my coming out very well for the most part. Other friends I have have not been so fortunate to have accepting parents and have been condemned, sent to conversion therapies or kicked out of their homes. I believe this show has the power to change lives because it shows the happiness and love every person is craving and deserves from one another and really shows LGBTQ people finding and being oh so deserving of happiness, friendship, kindness, joy, love and acceptance.
I don't cry nearly enough, but this scene makes me blub every single time. And it's been a lot of times. OC is the OG of queerkid mums (she was also amazing & hilarious as Debbie Doonan in Beautiful People)
Came out to my mum (for what feels like the hundredth time). Didn't go well. So I'm here rewatching this scene and fantasizing. If anyone's reading this, a big hug to you. Someone out there will care, someday, for each one of us. Fingers crossed.
I remember telling my mum I was bi sexual and I liked a girl from my university ( we had already started seeing eachother) and my mums response was “I think this is just a phase because your last boyfriend was horrible”. To this day she still believes I’m not truly bisexual despite the fact I have been in same sex relationships - she literally met my girlfriend at the time. My mum isn’t outwardly homophobic just subtly. She over the moon I’m in a heterosexual relationship and pregnant but still fails to understand that I’m still attracted physically, sexually and emotionally to women
Also I like the fact that the only reason Charlie can’t come on holiday with them is because she already bought the tickets not because she didn’t want him too
This is how every LGBTQ+ people should have when they come out to their parents or friends or whoever they want approval from, however not a lot of them do but we should always know that even if they don't support you there are more people that support you, more than you realize. This is coming from a demisexual lesbian so yeah, love ya'll and.... Love wins! yeah! 🏳🌈🏳⚧
Olivia Colman is always wonderful. If you can find it, you need to see the British series "Beautiful People." Colman plays the mother of another gay teen, and she is hilarious and the Mama Bear to end all Mama Bears.
WE STAN A SUPPORTIVE MOM
OMG YESS😭
Mum
Yes!! Love it when she shuts down the Dad and David!! Mother be mothering!!👏👏🔥🔥
And that's exactly why Nick is so emotionally intelligent! The mother did an amazing job raising him and even a better one being the kind of person she is.
Shame about Nick’s big brother
@@BossySwan Its fine. Tori will chew him out.
Out of all the scenes in this show that make me grin like an idiot, this is probably the cream of the crop.
Sure, Nick’s mother only shows up in a handful of scenes. But God, her immediate and loving acceptance of her son for who he is just fills me with happiness. (Not to mention that, as a bisexual man, I greatly appreciate the representation here. We don’t see this often enough, frankly.)
Olivia Colman is the best.
I swear, I saw you in many other comment sections as well, I didnʼt know that you watched Heartstopper! Thatʼs amazing, iʼm bisexual as well & seeing this scene made me cry.
I agree. I love how precisely they filmed every detail of this scene too.... because we don't see Olivia too much, we aren't really given a clue as to how she would react to news like this. When Nick first says it, she doesn't react right away... she just listens. And there is a few moments of pause, while we wait to see how this news is going affect her.... I love that. Because when she does break and accept him, its such a welcome relief... and that is exactly the right emotion for every LGBTQ person who has ever had to come out to a parent before. Unfortunately not everyone gets that acceptance... but the relief we ALL feel for Nick when he does... that is real and this scene was done so well.
this has me sobbing. Literally i feel like everyone should see it, just to see how bullying can affect people, and how confusing sexuality can be
I'm a bi guy and I could not feel happier that there is representation of a bisexual man, there is not much so that the one is appreciated 😌👍
As a bi guy myself I cannot agree more. Like we're bullied from all sides. It was about time we got a w
Hell yeah, nice to see more bi guy rep that isn’t focused on the character cheating on anyone
Olivia colman legit cried reading the script for this scene
Well, she is a bit of a crier ;-) I love how emotional she is.
she was overwhelmed by hes little face 😭
@@lukebaker9116 his little face. So honest, adorable and a little tear to spill. I would too..
So many people are talking about how sweet it is of Sarah to have said “I’m sorry if I ever made you feel like you couldn’t tell me that” but I also really love that she said “you don’t have to say you like girls if you don’t” because that shows that she loves him no matter what his sexuality would be
This actually made me cry the acceptance on her face
The acting in this scene from both is amazing.
I mean its Olivia Colman what do you expect ? And the way Kit corner embodied Nick is absolutely phenomenal. I did not expect him to be this good. Its fascinating to see his emotions unfold through out the series.
@@SyedSaifAbbasNaqvi of course! She is amazing. And he has amazing potential.
The acting from the other kids isn’t the best. But Kit is just amazing and Olivia manages to convey so much emotion despite the fact we barely get to see her. She feels like a mother
@@adorabasilwinterpock6035 agree!
"I started liking him way before that..."
🥺✨♥️
Out of all the lines in this scene, THAT’S the one that broke me 😭
olivia coleman´s reaction is so heartwarming and makes me sobb every time!!!
Off topic but that was the fastest cup of tea ever made
"I'm sorry if I ever made you feel like you couldn't tell me that." I am on the FLOOR- 😭😭😭😭😭😭
as someone who has been 'discovering' about herself, growing catholic in a very homophobic area, it definitely makes me smile that nick was able to come out to him mom. but it's hurts for me, realizing that's its not easy for me.
I'm sorry that it's not as easy for you. I hope you find peace and love in the world!
@@handsomelyerin 💜
Stay strong love! I also grew up in a small, Catholic town, and accepting my bisexuality took a long time. I’ve been with my girlfriend now for 3 years, and my family all love her and accept us. There is always time❤
I have learned over my 67 years that the family you make is the one that is most important. If you are lucky, it will include blood relatives but if it doesn't, that's okay.
You don't have to be catholic, these religions are pure stupidity mostly filled with idiotic people. Make the Bible your religion, trust your own interpretation, not what other people tell you.
This scene so adorable… i wish a lot of moms like this one when their children come out, it s really important to their children feeling accepted and loved
Ngl I cried the entire show 😪😭
same
Legit crying, I can never tell my parents about me and my girlfriend. They know about me being bisexual but they refuse to accept it and it hurts so bad… She’s the mom of the year 100%
It took 2 years my mum finally accepted it and don't be so cold on me. She told me she wished me change my mind myself but when time passed by 2 years, she gave up and understood that I don't have confused head and feelings. From that time she loved every my girlfriend. I am 2 years married with my wife and my mum loves her and accepted her as her ,,second daughter" because my wife hasn't parrents (long story). My mum And my wife know each other almost 5 years and my mum is glad that I found ,,love of my life". So, be patient. One day your mum open eyes and accept you as you are :)
@@misal.3793 thank you for saying this, it means a lot to me, I wish you and your wife the best and same to your mom. :)
Feel this. Every time I watch this, i end up ugly sobbing. My gf is a long time friend of mine that my mum knows too. I thought it'd go better, hopefully like this clip almost but was told to try out guys instead.
Woah you luck w ur relationship and ur family man
THE best scene in the series. It is tickeling all over, even after the 10th time. Kit is just genious and we lerned, every child should have the Queen as mum!
my mom reacted the same way when i came out, i’m so grateful for her and this show😭
mee too, i actually had to hold my tears back even though i was already expecting a good reaction
You guys are really lucky :)
Coming from a religious southern family I can only dream about this kind of interaction... So sweet and accepting
The 18th century... is a reference to her oscar winning role in 'The Favorite'. 😉
In the comic she says 1920s I think.
@@robbyten100 That's why they changed it. ;)
He is such a good actor and she is an amazing actor they made me cry like crazy
I always wonder if I'm biased by the subject, but Kit Connor is a incredible actor right? Like I wouldn't be surprised to see him have a very successful career. His acting of Nick's journey was so real and powerful and I feel he truly did an unbelievably great job.
I’ll cry everytime really hits hard
it's not about her being supportive cuz he's bi, it's about her feeling sorry that she indirectly suffocated her son and made him feel like he couldn't tell her the truth. it's about her wishing her son would be comfortable around her, and nothing more of it. it gets me good
The fact that after watching this scene i cried so much,and actually triggered me to come out to my mom is honestly fantastic and everything went so much better than i expected,i'm just so thankfull for this show ❤
And it's here, the moment I'll never have
On top of how amazing this scene is, there's the fact that Olivia Colman cried while filming It 'cause she just felt It so much and the guy thought "oh she's good I have to step up my game"
this is like a therapy for me 🥺🤧
From an older persons view point this is so powerful and amazing to watch honestly, well done to all ❤️
The anxiety when he sat down is so relatable
I love this scene so much. We don’t see this supportive coming out stories enough on tv series or movies.
This scene makes me cry each time
This show, and this scene in particular made me dangerously dehydrated. I just sobbed.
haven’t been able to get through this without crying yet
I swear when I saw this scene it literally hit so close to home as a bisexual person myself I started crying during this scene when Nick's mom accepted him because when I came out to my mother she "accepted " me rather unwillingly due to the fact that I'm too young to be kicked out of my own home (in the country i live in)but seeing Nick's mom genuinely accepting him makes me so happy :')
his lil happy face when he says they're going out 🥹🥹🥹🥹
crying because when I came out I was told that wasn't okay
I’ll watch anything Olivia is in, but this show reaffirms why I love her so much.
I love this mum
One of the most emotional scenes in the whole series!!! Jus beautiful!!!!
I just love everything about this scene!
So sweet :)
This is how every LGBT-person deserves to be treated when they come out.
I'm a bisexual man and we're finally getting some representation 💜
Waterworks.. I bet, like me, so many people would’ve wanted this to be exactly as it happened. It’s a beautiful scene. Great job, Alice! ❤
This is the parental reaction all LGBTQ people deserve to have - it is so beautiful! I tear up every time I see this. Unfortunately it is also very idealistic portrayal. I was grateful my family has supported my coming out very well for the most part. Other friends I have have not been so fortunate to have accepting parents and have been condemned, sent to conversion therapies or kicked out of their homes. I believe this show has the power to change lives because it shows the happiness and love every person is craving and deserves from one another and really shows LGBTQ people finding and being oh so deserving of happiness, friendship, kindness, joy, love and acceptance.
I don't cry nearly enough, but this scene makes me blub every single time. And it's been a lot of times.
OC is the OG of queerkid mums (she was also amazing & hilarious as Debbie Doonan in Beautiful People)
its delighted that a oscar winning actress willing to do a minor role in this series.
This is what we all wished for when coming out.
I cried during this scene it’s so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️🥺
Charlie fell first but nick fell harder
As someone that came out 20+ yrs ago, this scene still makes me feel all warm and safe and wonderful
whenever i watch this i start frantically flapping my hands and making weird pig squeals and i love it.
I told my sister first and then got wine drunk to tell my parents. Balled crying. They were so lovely and still so supportive.
I'm literally crying😭
AWWWWWW THIS IS SO CUTEEEEEE
I'm glad Sophie and her son found peace after that whole debacle with Mark
Lol
Olivia Coleman is a national treasure. Her acting in this scene - and Kit’s too - was sublime. Nothing extravagant but very moving and genuine
Can we just appreciate how supportive she is ❤
2:17 me to good food
I'm not crying, you're crying 😭
A teenager talking as a teenager would do in real life. Asking her Mother ir she knows the meaning of bisexual. Si cute.
I cried watching this
Coleman, Coleman, Coleman! She can do anything it seems. Just great. And the kid is a great actor too!
This is so cute 🥰 love it xxxx
Her last line “oh I love you” felt like it was actually coming from Olivia to Kit. Not just from her character to his. Genuinely and deeply felt.
Most have been hard to tell that to the Queen
LMAO
THANK YOU I NEEDED THIS :D
This is the type of parent I'll be to my future kids.
What an amazing woman! 🥰🥰 I feel mothered everytime she's on screen🥰🥰
Iove Nick Nelson my favourite character ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love Olivia Coleman. I haven't seen this show, but this clip popped up on my feed. She is wonderful.
Came out to my mum (for what feels like the hundredth time). Didn't go well. So I'm here rewatching this scene and fantasizing. If anyone's reading this, a big hug to you. Someone out there will care, someday, for each one of us. Fingers crossed.
i'm not going to cry, i'm not going to cry, i'm not going to cry-
I'll cry for you 😢
I really want a mother like her..
Our Emmy award winning actors!
TYSM FOR THE SCENE 😈
the company that sells that shirt should come out with a Nick shirt.
Watched this for the 100th time and still crying😭😭😭AdOrAbLe❤❤❤
Awwww we love a supportive mum
Gets me every time.
So amazing great scene
I remember telling my mum I was bi sexual and I liked a girl from my university ( we had already started seeing eachother) and my mums response was “I think this is just a phase because your last boyfriend was horrible”. To this day she still believes I’m not truly bisexual despite the fact I have been in same sex relationships - she literally met my girlfriend at the time. My mum isn’t outwardly homophobic just subtly. She over the moon I’m in a heterosexual relationship and pregnant but still fails to understand that I’m still attracted physically, sexually and emotionally to women
Wish mine was like this
This’s ❤amazing
💅slay💅
Also I like the fact that the only reason Charlie can’t come on holiday with them is because she already bought the tickets not because she didn’t want him too
SHE WON EMMY FOR THAT ROLE
This is such wonderful rep but goddamn it was so hard to watch because this is NOT how it went for me 😭
I love this serie
I adore this guy 😍😍😍
I wish they would replace going out with “together” or “dating” they said going out so many times lol
Haha that’s how we normally call it though
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i wish my mum loved me
I'm all verklempt
Does anybody know the name of the painting on the background?
Does anyone knows the artist of the painting that's behind him?
Imagine being able to work with Olivia!!!!!!
This is how every LGBTQ+ people should have when they come out to their parents or friends or whoever they want approval from, however not a lot of them do but we should always know that even if they don't support you there are more people that support you, more than you realize. This is coming from a demisexual lesbian so yeah, love ya'll and.... Love wins! yeah! 🏳🌈🏳⚧
Olivia Colman is always wonderful. If you can find it, you need to see the British series "Beautiful People." Colman plays the mother of another gay teen, and she is hilarious and the Mama Bear to end all Mama Bears.
Olivia Colman