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  • Опубликовано: 19 дек 2019
  • HOW TO KNOW IF A FRIEND LIKES YOU (LIKE THAT)
    HEY DUTCHY FAM!! This has been a longgg awaited video! I'm so glad I finally got a chance to film it! Sooo here's a video on how to know if a friend likes you more than a friend? There's a fine line between love and friendship sometimes so I sincerely hope these tips can help you out a little. Can't wait to chat with y'all in the comments! Love you all & hope you have a great week xxx
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  • @MsDickerz
    @MsDickerz  4 года назад +373

    Hey Dutchy fam! I hope these tips really helped! Have you ever dated a friend? Tell me your stories 🥰🥰🥰

    • @Zanderren
      @Zanderren 4 года назад +10

      Dutchy they did how do you become comfortable in yourself after you come out because you never feel like yourself after you have came out just ne

    • @idk4855
      @idk4855 4 года назад +20

      Dutchy I haven’t dated anyone heck I haven’t even talked to anyone. I don’t even know if there are any gays in my town

    • @robynnelson8060
      @robynnelson8060 4 года назад +6

      Dating a friend right now. 😃❤️😃

    • @amiekko
      @amiekko 4 года назад +13

      I has crush on ma friend

    • @moelester4420
      @moelester4420 4 года назад +8

      Nah I always fall for the straight guys🤙

  • @mostcreativenickname
    @mostcreativenickname 4 года назад +1949

    This video taught me 2 things.
    1. I’m really obvious
    2. My crush doesn’t love me
    (At least my onesided feelings made me famous in this comment section)

    • @moon_on_the_clouds
      @moon_on_the_clouds 4 года назад +65

      This comment killed me cuz it’s true 😭

    • @Emily-gl7cv
      @Emily-gl7cv 4 года назад +23

      Same 🤦‍♀️

    • @danceboi3001
      @danceboi3001 4 года назад +32

      aaaaaaaaaaaaaihaveacrushonastraightgirl

    • @moon_on_the_clouds
      @moon_on_the_clouds 4 года назад +9

      @@danceboi3001 oof same but we can get over it!!

    • @amberb7135
      @amberb7135 4 года назад +7

      Same, i got rejected....

  • @evielevy3629
    @evielevy3629 4 года назад +1362

    Me knowing very well that my crush doesn’t like me: *still watches video*

  • @bridgetnickole9824
    @bridgetnickole9824 4 года назад +1157

    The three dislikes are straight girls is denial

  • @bentaylorsversion
    @bentaylorsversion 4 года назад +750

    How to know if you have a crush on someone-
    You were thinking about them throughout this video

    • @emilyrongen5666
      @emilyrongen5666 4 года назад +31

      Ace Animals hahah fuck

    • @caoimhe3897
      @caoimhe3897 4 года назад +47

      Dammnn I wont be able to face my bestie anymore.....SHIT😅😬

    • @fandom.freak_
      @fandom.freak_ 4 года назад +14

      @@caoimhe3897 same hehe..... help

    • @ablesige2773
      @ablesige2773 4 года назад +5

      Thinking about no one

    • @diamondd5846
      @diamondd5846 4 года назад +4

      @@caoimhe3897 Same

  • @macyrogers9641
    @macyrogers9641 4 года назад +416

    When you and your friends just casually hold hands sometimes

    • @eiffellyember2433
      @eiffellyember2433 4 года назад +27

      When you and your friend just casually cuddle in bed sometimes

    • @WhatRemainsofNovaJames
      @WhatRemainsofNovaJames 4 года назад +5

      Me and my friend do that but she’s straight

    • @bladesofderp4649
      @bladesofderp4649 4 года назад +3

      I hold my friends hands it isn’t that weird

    • @elaizquierdo6930
      @elaizquierdo6930 3 года назад +5

      I sit next to my crush in most of my lessons and she enjoys to draw on my hand and on my leg and she is always playing with my hair it’s pure tour her

    • @sydneyv4903
      @sydneyv4903 3 года назад +7

      me and my friend cuddle each other a lot and are very touchy and stuff BUT I STILL DONT KNOW IF SHE LIKES ME

  • @courtneym5523
    @courtneym5523 4 года назад +402

    Eye contact is kind of the exact opposite for me. I'm terrible at eye contact, unless I like you. Then, for some reason, I think I make way too much eye contact and worry that I'm making them uncomfortable...

    • @sophiakapoor5563
      @sophiakapoor5563 4 года назад +1

      Courtney M omg same!!!!!!

    • @mel-ej6ly
      @mel-ej6ly 4 года назад +1

      Sameee

    • @I_love_alexg
      @I_love_alexg 2 года назад +4

      I cant look someone in the eyes while talking to them, not even my family or friends idk why

  • @_mel_9953
    @_mel_9953 4 года назад +453

    Gay girls really be like
    “You’re really cool.”
    “Thanks! You too.”
    “I’m gay, and I want a girlfriend.”
    “Same. What a coincidence!”
    It’s me, I’m gay girls.

    • @noeliaestevez9095
      @noeliaestevez9095 3 года назад +3

      HAHHA

    • @thatweirdtransdudett1588
      @thatweirdtransdudett1588 3 года назад +2

      Oh gosh 😂

    • @sannaandmoodyfanpage3476
      @sannaandmoodyfanpage3476 3 года назад +1

      Back then people would make fun of gay people but now being gay is pretty cool 😎 🤗

    • @whatislifeitsjimin.whylife4342
      @whatislifeitsjimin.whylife4342 3 года назад +4

      I need advise
      My lesbian best friend just confessed to me after I jokingly asked her to be my girlfriend
      But I'm straight and I love her very much but only as a best friend
      Now I feel nervous everytime I think about her
      Idk if I'm falling for her or not
      I'm confused rn
      Idk what to do

    • @angel_3461
      @angel_3461 3 года назад +4

      @what is life? it's jimin. Why? Life's short idk if u still need an answer or not first of all don’t even jokingly ask someone out especially if yk they’re 💅 it’s rly harmful and can hurt them pretty bad, she probably got super excited and thought u actually liked her and if she liked u back that obviously hurt her, don’t use her as a way to figure out if u also aren’t straight bc she doesn’t deserve that make sure yk before u do anything

  • @bijouxan3181
    @bijouxan3181 4 года назад +459

    I got the best freaking christmas gift!
    She told me she liked me backkkkkkk

  • @laurene111
    @laurene111 4 года назад +470

    Last night she just confessed to me that she had a crush on me, I confessed it was mutual, we're now a thing, I love my life
    2022 update: we just celebrated our 3 years anniversary yesterday !!

  • @lenecedadzie1896
    @lenecedadzie1896 4 года назад +444

    Liking ur girl bestfriend over 5 years is not best feeling if she maybe don’t like u bck😭😭

    • @Ast3rdraws
      @Ast3rdraws 4 года назад +25

      omg im in that situation XDDD

    • @navi_9347
      @navi_9347 4 года назад +23

      i’ve liked mine for 4 years 🤣 it sucksss

    • @destinywickham3505
      @destinywickham3505 4 года назад +7

      same agreed

    • @theaeklof4084
      @theaeklof4084 4 года назад +9

      my best friend just told me she liked me and i dont know what to do bc im not homo but i still dont want to lose her (we both are girls)

    • @onlyblook
      @onlyblook 4 года назад +8

      I’ve known mine for my whole life and she’s in a relationship...

  • @madisonhowitt7290
    @madisonhowitt7290 4 года назад +295

    If someone says “Oh I hate being single” then you can just say “If you hate it so much then why aren’t you my girlfriend/boyfriend?!?” And just watch their reaction

    • @michaeldunn5319
      @michaeldunn5319 4 года назад +62

      i am way to terrified to do that.

    • @_maddie_makes_music
      @_maddie_makes_music 3 года назад +29

      @@michaeldunn5319 yeah like I'm way too socially awkward for that. Like...I can barely talk normally let alone smooth talk

    • @crowzier
      @crowzier 3 года назад +6

      @@_maddie_makes_music dude you literally have a wife, a women who likes you, someone who might have used you- and Laurens. If I were you, I’d choose Laurens. Alright imma stop now; my addiction is too big

    • @_maddie_makes_music
      @_maddie_makes_music 3 года назад +4

      @@crowzier
      heh
      *laughs in married to Lauren's in underworld*

    • @thatweirdtransdudett1588
      @thatweirdtransdudett1588 3 года назад

      :0 future advice thanks

  • @carlygraham9044
    @carlygraham9044 4 года назад +258

    My friend just became my girlfriend

  • @lemurblue6041
    @lemurblue6041 4 года назад +509

    You mean likes me as like...
    A SUPER BEST FRIEND!?!!

  • @eneen
    @eneen 4 года назад +152

    How does my friend not know that I’m into her?? I am SO OBVIOUS omg
    the worst thing is she’s my best friend and she’s very affectionate and i keep misinterpreting whatever she does and end up getting my hopes up oof

    • @kiwibanana7590
      @kiwibanana7590 4 года назад +12

      same lmao I just want to believe that she has a crush on me

    • @eneen
      @eneen 4 года назад +12

      @@kiwibanana7590 i feel you, sometimes I really believe it for a second but then I remember that she's straight

    • @streamsetmefre3
      @streamsetmefre3 3 года назад +4

      That's what im dealing with but she does everything in the vid AFTER i came out to her as lesbian amd she asked the classic "how did you know you were gay" so im hella confused

    • @MA-rn2xp
      @MA-rn2xp Год назад +3

      I'm in this situation with a friend of mine who I have feelings for. I feel she does too but not 100% sure. Now she's single and she keeps saying "when she finds her next bf"... and talks about guys and says she loves me so much because we're such great friends but we don't act like friends. I'm terrified of being rejected.

  • @mariminou
    @mariminou 4 года назад +133

    Sometimes, I tell my crush "I WANT TO F**KING MARRY YOU" when she says/does something really nice/funny

    • @ablesige2773
      @ablesige2773 4 года назад +14

      Mark her reaction when you say that.

  • @_.sock75._72
    @_.sock75._72 4 года назад +57

    Is anyone else here so they can give off the right hints? Because same.

  • @angelrosez
    @angelrosez 4 года назад +176

    Us: (crush and me)
    hanging out around the school in places ahere we are more "alone".
    me: Pins her to the wall.
    me: thouching her nose with mine for a second.
    her: completely comfortable.
    her: S M I L E S
    ps: her smile is just so bright like wtf how.
    edit2: We aren't close at all but whenever we sit on the floor one of us just touches the other with knee/thight/arm/head and my face probably goes
    👁💗💗👄💗💗👁

    • @aliceowen2264
      @aliceowen2264 4 года назад +5

      You're so lucky! 😭

    • @Peanutbutterjellytime231
      @Peanutbutterjellytime231 4 года назад +6

      That's awesome, it makes me happy.

    • @billiesbagles2917
      @billiesbagles2917 4 года назад +3

      Wish I can do that

    • @billiesbagles2917
      @billiesbagles2917 4 года назад +3

      @@linw3897 oop-

    • @prismic_
      @prismic_ 4 года назад +5

      omg me too, one time she even said
      “EW WHAT THE HELL WHY ARE YOU IN MY HOUSE??? NO..DONT TOUCH ME, PUT THE GUN DOWN PLEASE, I’LL DO ANYTHING”

  • @misery_of_mika
    @misery_of_mika 4 года назад +50

    I’m in school and one way I show affection is waiting for my crush to get out of class and walking with her to her next class. If we’re in the same class, I try to leave when she does 😁

  • @yourqueerasstheaterkidwhol5868
    @yourqueerasstheaterkidwhol5868 4 года назад +62

    I told my crush I liked her today and she said f you, so yeah its good to watch one of my favorite RUclipsrs.

    • @Ana-uy8ch
      @Ana-uy8ch 4 года назад +10

      Omg I’m so sorry

    • @letsgolesbians4143
      @letsgolesbians4143 3 года назад +2

      That sucks, I’m so sorry I’m sure you’re going to find the right person soon!

    • @brontesmith965
      @brontesmith965 3 года назад

      I’m so sorry :(

  • @finch3333
    @finch3333 4 года назад +63

    I got a Bible add.
    "You need Jesus in your life?" Well we have the perfect book for you
    *Shows picture of bible*
    Even my phone knows I need Jesus.

    • @idk4855
      @idk4855 4 года назад +1

      _xXDarkWolfXx _ omg I love that

  • @sirratsush3964
    @sirratsush3964 4 года назад +71

    The people who disliked this must have had their phone upside down x

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +7

      Jemma Johnsontompson hahaha aw!!

    • @sirratsush3964
      @sirratsush3964 4 года назад +1

      Dutchy 🥰 Also, I hope u enjoy the festival x (tho it’s a bit early)

    • @samdoesstuff4924
      @samdoesstuff4924 3 года назад +1

      i saw you in live chat ~

    • @idk_mcr_3488
      @idk_mcr_3488 3 года назад

      Or there likes from the upside down

  • @yara7371
    @yara7371 4 года назад +165

    **me watching this to take notes on what NOT to say around my straight best friend who i now have feelings for :,)**

    • @alliamazing8750
      @alliamazing8750 3 года назад +3

      I'm in the same situation as you, she's already taken :'')

    • @eurovision4lifee
      @eurovision4lifee 3 года назад

      same, same

    • @professionalrockeater
      @professionalrockeater 2 года назад +2

      same, I'm like 80% sure she's straight but she's also into mythology and colored her hair once so????

    • @PastelShadow
      @PastelShadow 2 года назад +3

      Aha same but we role play as a couple online and she once said she wished she was lesbian, she insists she’s straight. This is very confusing lol-

  • @galaxy.mariah6280
    @galaxy.mariah6280 4 года назад +106

    I am coming out to my family on Christmas. I made my own bi flag and i wrote im bi on one side and on the other side I wrote i am still the same person.

  • @theomace1471
    @theomace1471 4 года назад +81

    I have a crush on my best friend (who's also a girl). Help!
    Love you Dutchy!

    • @audrinatompkins7797
      @audrinatompkins7797 4 года назад +7

      Im in the same position and someone suggested i write her a letter telling how i feel and if she doesnt feel the same way, we can still be friends. If that helps

    • @laurieferland4277
      @laurieferland4277 3 года назад +1

      @@audrinatompkins7797 omg should I do that but by texting?

    • @audrinatompkins7797
      @audrinatompkins7797 3 года назад +1

      @@laurieferland4277 thats what i ended up doing!

    • @Jess-uo2xn
      @Jess-uo2xn 3 года назад +1

      @@audrinatompkins7797 did it work?

    • @audrinatompkins7797
      @audrinatompkins7797 3 года назад +3

      @@Jess-uo2xn she didnt like me at first but it worked for communication. but also she likes me now and weve been a couple !

  • @um6098
    @um6098 4 года назад +75

    I feel like my friend likes me but I don’t like her that way at ALL. She’s just not my type

    • @nancyfancy1830
      @nancyfancy1830 4 года назад +9

      boOOooP I Got no Type, baad bitches is the Only Thing That i like

    • @misslauryn1
      @misslauryn1 4 года назад +2

      @@nancyfancy1830 ayyy rae sremmurd

  • @emperorpalpatine3125
    @emperorpalpatine3125 4 года назад +18

    Interpreting someone's feelings incorrectly is scarier than getting in the shower before testing the water

  • @thegreatking_6664
    @thegreatking_6664 4 года назад +46

    I figured out my crush liked me at a sleepover and she is one of my best friends we still don't know if we will date

  • @dalsheshum
    @dalsheshum 4 года назад +45

    My friend did EVERY SINGLE OF THESE TIPS and she wasn’t into me ....

  • @forestbrynes4803
    @forestbrynes4803 4 года назад +216

    Oh my god, my bestfriend/crush and I were playing a board game with our friends and at some point in the game, she put her hand on my thigh and then we made eye contact and I... I really thought I was gonna die right there. I still don’t know if she likes me or nottt!!! 😳

  • @vanessa2603__
    @vanessa2603__ 9 месяцев назад +4

    I'm watching in 2023 and the intro here killed me 😭 we were so innocent, so optimistic....

  • @leonlovegood350
    @leonlovegood350 4 года назад +51

    Sobbing in the distance because my closest friends are crushing on each other and I've been crushing on both of them for years oof.
    (mostly over the both of them but it still aches)

    • @randomkid3569
      @randomkid3569 4 года назад +13

      Both my friends are dating and they ask me for dating advice and how to please each other and yea it hurts

    • @unknownpiceofchesse2654
      @unknownpiceofchesse2654 3 года назад +5

      This hits home to hard

  • @katkatar3821
    @katkatar3821 4 года назад +97

    My friend "flirts" with me but I can't tell whether she means it or not... but I'm too scared to ask😿 but luv this video and have a Awesome Merry Christmas 💕😹😹😹

    • @papikaflipflap6319
      @papikaflipflap6319 4 года назад +15

      Oh my gosh me too! We call ourselves wives and we are "planning our future" and we act like a couple but i am very sure that she's not into me :(

    • @ncttzenmew
      @ncttzenmew 4 года назад +3

      @@papikaflipflap6319 omg same :""(

    • @nathaliewilson1817
      @nathaliewilson1817 4 года назад +6

      @@papikaflipflap6319 She is soooooo in-love with you. Woman up and get her....put you both out of your angst....but then again- enjoying the glow of angst is a slow slow burn of outright professing your love.

    • @nathaliewilson1817
      @nathaliewilson1817 4 года назад +2

      @@ncttzenmew ditto: She is soooooo in-love with you. Woman up and get her....put you both out of your angst....but then again- enjoying the glow of angst is a slow slow burn of outright professing your love.

    • @ncttzenmew
      @ncttzenmew 4 года назад +3

      @@nathaliewilson1817 but she has a crush that is guy :""/

  • @depstein3847
    @depstein3847 4 года назад +92

    Jokes on you, I don't even have friends!

    • @jessicapatrick2360
      @jessicapatrick2360 4 года назад +3

      Good one

    • @m.vuevenoire8085
      @m.vuevenoire8085 4 года назад

      Jessica Patrick what’s funny?

    • @SpikeyBagel
      @SpikeyBagel 4 года назад

      m //.vuevenoire the joke, silly! ahahaha!

    • @m.vuevenoire8085
      @m.vuevenoire8085 4 года назад

      Idk I just do stuff sometimes why is it even a joke it’s insensitive

    • @newt4334
      @newt4334 4 года назад

      Idk I just do stuff sometimes I’m the joke ;(

  • @Algo1
    @Algo1 4 года назад +16

    15: I'm an introvert that will answer in monosyllables if at all possible, but I become a public speech expert around my crush.
    16: I was a hoodie and jeans guy until I met her and whenever we hang out I put on a shirt, formal pants and belt, no tie or suit, that's overkill but yeah, total 180.
    19: I'm *always* making advances and not one has been blocked, and she's not that much of an affectionate person. Hell, we were on my **mother's car** because I was supposed to just be dropped where we would meet and we were holding hands in the open. My mom is the biggest fan of this ship so I felt at ease but they haven't known each other for long so it was a risky move, that went sufficiently well.
    21: definitely us. 100%

  • @joedijarvis3682
    @joedijarvis3682 4 года назад +47

    I wish she would do how do u know how u like a friend

    • @joedijarvis3682
      @joedijarvis3682 4 года назад +5

      And I have crush on a girl but I donk know how to tell her so pls do a video on that pls

    • @pauw4850
      @pauw4850 4 года назад +3

      @@joedijarvis3682 hey I also get that kind of problems!! So first I suggest you to write down your feelings or imagine how you would tell the person you like her. You can write it a few time on different days I do that a lot to really know how I feel and how to tell things to some people. And if you aim to tell the person you like her by message do something natural and simple tell them that you like them but without being too direct like tell the person you like her and than propose them to talk or let them think about it just to see what can happen and what they think about it. I think the most important when you tell someone you like them is to take your time and to be patient and understanding toward them because it's hard for you but it can be a choc for them sooo you'll have to wait probably a lot.
      I wish you good luck with your crush I hope it will be fine and I also hope I helped you with this comment!

    • @joedijarvis3682
      @joedijarvis3682 4 года назад +2

      @@pauw4850 thank u for the help and I will do the stuff that u said on here and I will try and I'm just scared to ask the person

    • @pauw4850
      @pauw4850 4 года назад +1

      @@joedijarvis3682 yeah I understand It is not the easiest stuff to do! Be brave!

  • @ssandeman5827
    @ssandeman5827 4 года назад +51

    my crush was bi but ended up dating my best boy friend

    • @unicorntomboy9736
      @unicorntomboy9736 4 года назад +6

      I had a burning crush on another bisexual guy. Sadly he was engaged to someone else 😭

    • @ssandeman5827
      @ssandeman5827 4 года назад +2

      @@unicorntomboy9736 aw nooo :( you'll find someone tho

    • @unicorntomboy9736
      @unicorntomboy9736 4 года назад +2

      @@ssandeman5827 it's not easy finding anyone.

  • @Zanderren
    @Zanderren 4 года назад +95

    Duchy start a series called “ bi asks why?” And it’s basically where you ask really dumb questions and people can’t judge you because you can say” I’m bi don’t ask why?” Just a thought love you Duchy forever and always ❤️❤️

    • @sirratsush3964
      @sirratsush3964 4 года назад +5

      Ellie Nichols yes plz x

    • @Zanderren
      @Zanderren 4 года назад +1

      Jemma Johnsontompson yes what? Sorry I didn’t understand

    • @sirratsush3964
      @sirratsush3964 4 года назад +4

      Ellie Nichols I’m bi don’t ask why x

    • @Zanderren
      @Zanderren 4 года назад +1

      Jemma Johnsontompson I am always here for you ❤️❤️

    • @sirratsush3964
      @sirratsush3964 4 года назад +2

      Ellie Nichols k thx

  • @user-kd5xb2hn1v
    @user-kd5xb2hn1v 4 года назад +18

    i got friendzoned by a friend who i thought was completely straight. she said i made her question her sexuality but she said it was just friendship between us. BUT MIXED SIGNALS ARE STILL THERE.

    • @trainwithme3462
      @trainwithme3462 2 года назад

      same .

    • @MA-rn2xp
      @MA-rn2xp Год назад

      I'm in this situation with a friend of mine who I have feelings for. I feel she does too but not 100% sure. Now she's single and she keeps saying "when she finds her next bf"... and talks about guys and says she loves me so much because we're such great friends but we don't act like friends. I'm terrified of being rejected.

  • @KallieDonut
    @KallieDonut 4 года назад +16

    You:I'm ready for 2020.
    Corona: well thats too bad

  • @applesong01
    @applesong01 4 года назад +39

    My crush is 3½ years younger than me. That doesn't sound like a lot except I'm a senior and she is a freshman in highschool so it's not socially acceptable to date her yet

  • @OliverandAverie858
    @OliverandAverie858 9 месяцев назад +8

    Hi I’m from the future 2020 is a dumpster fire don’t be excited

  • @jenniferl3682
    @jenniferl3682 4 года назад +12

    Thank you for making this video! You have no idea how much this helps me understand flirting behaviours.

  • @user-ql5ck6fv4f
    @user-ql5ck6fv4f 4 года назад +56

    has anyone got any advice on how to find out your sexuality because i dont know if im bi pan or lesbian :)

    • @mysweetbeef9567
      @mysweetbeef9567 4 года назад +15

      You don’t need to force it you have ages to figure it out, don’t come out with a label if your not sure what you are

    • @lillylilly5422
      @lillylilly5422 4 года назад +2

      Saaaaame

    • @queerpotato
      @queerpotato 4 года назад +3

      I know that feeling but I'm glad that I have become more chill about it this year. I realised that it really doesn't matter that much, when you'll like someone, you'll know. Until then, you can just say you're queer or just not straight. But I get that you wanna figure it out

    • @burntpieceoflasagna9178
      @burntpieceoflasagna9178 4 года назад +2

      You don’t have to put a label on it immediately if you’re not sure, you can just use queer or questioning. But, if you want to know your sexuality, I recommend looking at all of your past/current crushes and/or what genders or people you find attractive. That’s how I figured out my sexuality, because I was very confused.

    • @veronicathibert8256
      @veronicathibert8256 4 года назад

      I'm feeling the same thing right now. !

  • @kieran163
    @kieran163 4 года назад +24

    So excited!

  • @mynameisglitter2220
    @mynameisglitter2220 4 года назад +27

    I have so much trouble making eye contact with my crush 🙃

  • @tori5372
    @tori5372 4 года назад +37

    What if she puts her head on my shoulder edit: I'm serous does that mean she might like me I need help

    • @lifeisbitvlover171
      @lifeisbitvlover171 4 года назад +6

      It might, but it also might mean she's just very comfortable showing her feelings with everyone. If she only shows her feelings and such with you, she probably likes you. If that's just something she does with everyone, that's just how she acts

    • @cosmicone8447
      @cosmicone8447 4 года назад +5

      Damn, my crush does the same thing, we are on class together and sometimes she puts head on my shoulder and then I lay my head on hers to hint it but I don't think she gets it😐. It's really frustrating cause I don't know if she is actually hinting or not, but probably not cause she likes a guy (she's bi). But overall I hope you figure it out.😊

    • @audrinatompkins7797
      @audrinatompkins7797 4 года назад +4

      Oh my crush did that too once and i almost died

    • @angxlkitty753
      @angxlkitty753 3 года назад +1

      @@nanihuerth7085 right this is going to be a kinda long comment... I have this "friend" (we call each other wifey and waifu) and she is pan. I've eneded up falling in love with her and I think she likes me back! When we are watching a movie or video she'll put her head on my shoulder, put her head in my chest and just generally cuddle (sometimes even flirt with me). We also hold hands very often and even our families (we are both not out yet) joke about us dating. Once we where on holiday together and us and outer families where out side near a park and a lake, it was really nice. Me and my waifu went and sat by the lake for a bit and started attempting to skip rocks. Then we went to sit down on a bench, she was wearing a fluffy jacket and realised I was cold and wrapped it around me. We sat like that for ages just talking and enjoying each others company, it was really nice... I think she likes me

  • @qkndc
    @qkndc 3 года назад +9

    Me in 2020 thinking: you're NOT excited for 2020

  • @myprioritiesareunkempt2504
    @myprioritiesareunkempt2504 4 года назад +9

    heya dutchy, hope you aren’t being affected by the fires across the country. sending hopes and wishes that you’re alright 💕

  • @scarletwandas
    @scarletwandas 4 года назад +7

    Me? Watching this even though I just recently started dating my best friend after months of liking each other? Absolutely.

  • @EmmaD-ts1pp
    @EmmaD-ts1pp Год назад +3

    Her: I can’t wait for 2020!
    Me in 2022 👀 *coughs* 🦠😷

  • @lottiestirling8043
    @lottiestirling8043 4 года назад +17

    hard to know when she lives literally 5000 miles away😔

  • @shesustho2880
    @shesustho2880 4 года назад +20

    Could you make a video on the difference between a crush and loving someone, that would be helpful😁 keep up the great work!

  • @keeperofkeys3186
    @keeperofkeys3186 4 года назад +14

    WHATS THE TEA SIS!?!?!?💗💜💙😍😘🍵

  • @qbeauty9291
    @qbeauty9291 2 года назад +5

    Yeah she definitely likes me
    she told me she was fighting the urge to kiss me

  • @weirdnerdygoat
    @weirdnerdygoat Год назад +3

    me: I'll study a lot today
    also me: spends an hour looking at videos about crushes XD

  • @whizzytsunamico3034
    @whizzytsunamico3034 4 года назад +19

    I have a crush on a friend of mine that I met when she was in my city for two weeks this summer. We live in neighboring states, and she doesn't get to visit that often. We email often, and we've shared a lot of very personal things. I don't know how to tell if she likes like that or not, since I don't get to see her very often. Help?

    • @whizzytsunamico3034
      @whizzytsunamico3034 4 года назад +20

      Update: I told her how I feel, and she feels the same way!!! (Idk if you guys care, I just thought I'd say it in case someone does)

  • @the_.accident
    @the_.accident 3 года назад +6

    Dutchy: Excited for 2020
    Me when its already 2020: you dont want to know what its like... ITS HELL

  • @thefairygaymother2374
    @thefairygaymother2374 4 года назад +25

    So i have friend that does all Of these but my other friend does not and the friend that does that i actually Like her😳😳

  • @lifeonmars3147
    @lifeonmars3147 2 года назад +7

    SHE LIKES ME BACK! FIVE HOURS BEFORE THE END OF OCTOBER WE CONFESSED! ILH SO MUCHHHHHHHH! She's everything I wanted and more :3

  • @formlessbl0b814
    @formlessbl0b814 4 года назад +42

    Yay

    • @MsDickerz
      @MsDickerz  4 года назад +1

      Fujoshi Weirdo ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-pixis967
    @user-pixis967 2 года назад +2

    Jokes on you bc she's an extrovert and the "signs" can all just be nice interactions with me 💀

  • @ash1118
    @ash1118 4 года назад +16

    My crush wants nothing to do with me.. so that's fun

    • @queerpotato
      @queerpotato 4 года назад

      same :/
      hope it gets better for you though

    • @samdoesstuff4924
      @samdoesstuff4924 3 года назад

      LMAO
      wait i feel kinda bad now

  • @marijablecic2978
    @marijablecic2978 4 года назад +14

    my crush is bi and idk if i should make the first move.. she seems to like me but im hella nervous..

  • @chloeboey
    @chloeboey 4 года назад +12

    I NEED IT!!! IM SO READY! Eeeeeeeeee

  • @theuglybeing4673
    @theuglybeing4673 3 года назад +3

    0:28 OH YOU HAVE NO IDEA

  • @bryceb4264
    @bryceb4264 2 года назад +4

    Watching the intro to this video in 2021 knowing everything that coming in 2020 is hard

  • @mak6ne567
    @mak6ne567 4 года назад +5

    Feel like most of people have a crush on their best friend at first

  • @jsk4867
    @jsk4867 4 года назад +5

    All of my friends tell me that my best friend likes me and I didn’t see it and got frustrated at them but after watching this I can see so clearly now😂

  • @maxies4090
    @maxies4090 4 года назад +6

    4:42 I'm so socially awkward I wouldn't even know how to react with this

  • @kueen_ruby2275
    @kueen_ruby2275 4 года назад +14

    dutchy... do you think you might be able to come to nz on tour at somepoint, please?

  • @amirah2257
    @amirah2257 4 года назад +12

    Loving the new videoooo ❤️🤟🏽

  • @vivixxando
    @vivixxando 4 года назад +11

    I only recognized things that I do but my crush doesn't do anything :(

  • @sarahrothwell1967
    @sarahrothwell1967 4 года назад +13

    Sooo excitedddd

  • @cfeaster6962
    @cfeaster6962 3 года назад +6

    "I can't wait to see what 2020 has in store for us!"
    2020: Oh, hun, you have noooooo idea

  • @idk4855
    @idk4855 4 года назад +12

    We all love you

  • @ninaiseli-adams2977
    @ninaiseli-adams2977 4 года назад +16

    yass dutchy

  • @gray42069
    @gray42069 2 года назад +2

    "Cant wait for 2020" hit me like a fucking freight train

  • @abbeyleigh6877
    @abbeyleigh6877 4 года назад +15

    It’s school holidays and I just got the notification. Do I sleep in or do I watch video.... I think we both know the answer to that ❤️❤️❤️

  • @emilywelsh6751
    @emilywelsh6751 3 года назад +3

    Little did she know what was to come in 2020.....

  • @unicorntomboy9736
    @unicorntomboy9736 4 года назад +12

    I've never experienced this sadly.

  • @WhoamI-su7pg
    @WhoamI-su7pg Год назад +1

    It’s weird watching this and seeing you be so excited about 2020 lol

  • @trinityhorn7182
    @trinityhorn7182 3 года назад +1

    little did she know what 2020 was going to bring us

  • @youdrankmymonster4841
    @youdrankmymonster4841 4 года назад +6

    I really needed this so thank you dad !

  • @emmaallen7290
    @emmaallen7290 4 года назад +6

    My friend that had a crush on me wanted to play a prank on her dad that we were dating and that confidences me that she liked me. Guess what. She asked me out 1week ago and I said yes. We are dating now!☺️

  • @ateyourmother
    @ateyourmother 4 года назад +3

    Yo- okay let me just full on tell u how many signs she has.
    -Fixes my necklace all the time out of no where.
    -try's to hug me legit all the time.
    -carries everything for me.
    -wants me to be next to her everywhere.
    -pokes my face (in a nice cute way-
    -calls me a cutie a lot
    -picks me up
    -walks and waits for me at every class
    -makes me tie my shoes
    -makes me put my coat on
    -goes with me everywhere
    I feel so bad for ignoring it but I'm way to embarrassed to ask. But.. she might be leaving my school.

  • @strange_sage1113
    @strange_sage1113 4 года назад +5

    Girl I feel bad. U was excited for 2020💀

  • @finlayroper.5745
    @finlayroper.5745 4 года назад +28

    Yoo

  • @sunflowergarden9794
    @sunflowergarden9794 2 года назад +5

    5 months ago I was in denial. 4 or 3 months later I finally accepted that im bisexual (only my 2 best friends and my crush know about my sexuality). I even have a huge crush on a girl and I recently found out she is bisexual too!!

  • @jazzybeanss
    @jazzybeanss 4 года назад +16

    Today my friend asked me to review her on a book, and when everyone left she asked me to date her. I said yes we told one of our friends. And we allowed her to tell one of our other friends and she said “ew that’s weird I’m not homophobic but friends shouldn’t date”

    • @j_3ss
      @j_3ss 2 года назад

      You to still together 🖤

    • @happinessandcats
      @happinessandcats 8 месяцев назад

      Sounds homophobic 😂 how else are you supposed to get to know the person you're gonna date?

  • @user-ly3pj1yz4l
    @user-ly3pj1yz4l 4 года назад +15

    The one girl who I know is bisexual and I have a massive crush on doesn’t want to date anyone until 12th grade... :(

    • @user-ly3pj1yz4l
      @user-ly3pj1yz4l 4 года назад +4

      She also gave me her flannel bc I was cold and stole my beanie bc she though I “looked cute in it” and she wanted to see if she looked as good.

    • @_maddie_makes_music
      @_maddie_makes_music 3 года назад +1

      @@user-ly3pj1yz4l AWWWWWWW but honestly I feel you sis

  • @ImGoingRogue
    @ImGoingRogue 3 года назад +3

    This was posted before everything went to crap.

  • @ayeshas0786
    @ayeshas0786 3 года назад +4

    2019: Let’s wait to see what 2020 has in store for us!
    2020: Trust me you don’t.

  • @bsproductions4636
    @bsproductions4636 2 года назад +1

    “Can’t wait for 2020 and what it has in store”
    HA.

  • @insecto4207
    @insecto4207 4 года назад +2

    This video doubles as a how to subtly flirt with said crush 😂

  • @ailenavalos5859
    @ailenavalos5859 4 года назад +3

    You call me up with this video I hope my friend don't see it because they gonna know
    Ily Dutchy💖💜💙

  • @stefandlenafan1684
    @stefandlenafan1684 4 года назад +4

    Thank you this is exactly what I need! This exact video! MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR DUTCHY!!! 💝

  • @pinkfairy1599
    @pinkfairy1599 4 года назад +10

    WOUHOUUU I LOVE YOUR VIDSSS

  • @ChaoticCaitlin1
    @ChaoticCaitlin1 2 года назад +3

    I know she doesn’t like me because she’s getting into a relationship but today I felt it. We made eye contact for quite a long period of time. Maybe because I might’ve been staring at her and she caught me and just stared into my eyes and I swear I felt it. She said she used to like me but now nothing is gonna happen when she’s getting into a relationship but I feel like she kinda feels it too. Idk. Obviously not gonna ruin their relationship but it makes me sad

  • @georgiaharris2236
    @georgiaharris2236 3 года назад +3

    Watching this in 2021 and just laughing at the intro, "can't wait for 2020 and what it has in store..." 😂😂😂