This is more for nervous girls, like myself 😂 they will tend to not want you to know they like you, so a lot of the time they will refrain from complimenting you a lot. However, you might still notice that they will either make their voice lower or higher while talking to you, depending on the level of masculinity they think you will be attracted to (this is usually subconscious). They may also fix their hair a lot or use their hand to cover a part of their face they are insecure about, once again subconsciously, so that you don't notice it. Other things girls might do are mirroring your body language, looking at you a lot or becoming a bit shy if they are usually quite confident/trying to be more confident if they are usually shy
I just wanted to add that I think the body language thing is something that also has kind of two different ends of the spectrum. I'm a very shy, awkward person and usually when I'm around the girl I like I do try to stand close to her, but I never touch her because I don't want to violate her space and I mostly just fiddle with my hands or pick my nails, which is one of my bad nervous habits. So yeah, if she is sort of fidgety or acting nervous that may be another sign she is into you.
my best friend and me flirt ALL THE TIME but she's super religious and says she CANT be gay but it's obvious she's questioning but i'm like ok in love with her and i want to spend every moment with her and i want to kiss her but i don't want our friendship to end also she's literally so cute like what how
These are so accurate!!! Plus there's one more. One of my exes (we're FWB now haha) showed obvious signs of being into me by always making me the center of her video recordings during road trip gatherings! All of our friends are present, but she always keeps that camera focus mainly on me. Granted, I'm probably chattering a lot, but so are the others! Focus on them! They're beautiful people, too! 😆
For me, my gaydar never fails. All of the femmes I’ve been with...I have known they liked me even before they said anything. Seriously, use your intuition when all else fails. Mine hasn’t failed me...yet lol
I need advice! So, I like this girl, but we only talk about the club we're both on. I like her because she is so awkward, but I don't think she likes me. What should I do? How do I start talking to her?
Maybe ask if you can hang out/talk on the phone/text outside of the club. I’m really not experienced with this stuff. Also try to make it obvious that you like her that way (if you feel comfortable with that) sorry if this was bad advice, hope you get ur girl!
Try to know her interests and if you have something in common keep it up in a conversation. Like I really like this band or this book... something like that. U can do it sis!!!🎉🤞🏻
I'm in the same boat, there is a girl in my class and I know that she is Bi... we only talk really briefly though just like "Hi" "Hello" and that's about it.
So I'm 16 and my siblings found out that I'm bi last week and my older brother hasn't talked to me since, my younger brother tried to book me in for counseling to "straighten me out" and my younger sister told me she hates me and now she doesnt talk to me either.
Aw bless you. I really hope your family come round, some of them may need time. But if not, you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Love is love, they're blind for not seeing that :)
@@fhhfhdfghnj4470 I hope so too and I’m sorry that happened I have four sisters and a brother all younger than me and I would be devastated if they stop talking to me because I’m bi but just give them some time and continue being yourself and know that you’re valid
I think your younger brother sounds like he really cares about you but is confused and worried because he's been taught it's a bad thing or a mental illness. If that's the case, maybe you could try explaining that there's nothing wrong with you and you're happy. I hope they will get over it and come around. Here is my story, in case you find something you can relate to. I'm bi too and 23, I realized I was bi at 21. It came to me as a bit of a shock (by falling strongly in love with my friend) but after a while it made me really happy and like a weight was elevated because I used to have this fear that boys wouldn't find me attractive because they would think I was gay (because of how I dress etc) and I would never find love because of it. Knowing I, in fact, was a bit 'gay' helped me not be worried about how I come off or what I'm allowed to be like to fit this sort of idea of a 'proper woman'. It was something that made me happier that I knew myself a bit better. Even if other people may have their prejudices against me because of that, to be honest, they always have, long before I knew what was different about me, and it's a lot easier to accept myself when I know what the reason other people ostracise me is. Like, I can tell it's their bias and not something inexplicably ugly about me. I've come to terms with my childhood better knowing why the pretty girls were mean, and it was not because of something I did wrong. My love is very real, I think it's pure and I'm happy identifying as bi. So this is what I would tell my loved-ones if they rejected me. I can't change what I'm like, I can only change how I deal with it. Pretending to be someone else could never make you happy. I'm sorry you weren't able to come out on your own terms though and you have to do this so young.
Dutch I need advice. I like my best friend and we have been friends for 5 years. We talk about lots of things but crushes and the lgbtq+ community has never come up. I have no idea how to ask him out. Do you have any advice?
I'm really really into this girl since a long time and this video gives me hope. In the end she won't like me this way anyway since we're just good friends but I'll keep on dreaming😭😭😭
I need advice. I found out the woman I'm madly in love with started a relationship with another woman. I don't want to be selfish, I truly want the best for her, but it really breaks my heart to know she's with someone else. I've been crying every day since I found out and I don't know how to cope. Any advice? Thank you ❤
Hi, I get you, I was there about 1-2 years ago. Honestly, just crying and listening to love songs but also I wrote and drew comic strips about my feelings to my diary and vented to my friends. But also she later broke up with them and told me she didn't understand how she stayed in it so long - maybe she wouldn't have minded if I was more direct sooner about how much I loved her and how it hurt every time her girlfriend hurt her. I kept my storm to myself because I didn't want to be selfish. Maybe it was the right thing to do in the context. But I don't have the right answers. I guess, just be there for her if she needs you, and try to stay friends. Hopefully if she's not happy with her girlfriend she'll be able to break up with her by herself. But if it goes on for a long time, don't hold your breath, allow yourself to fall in love again. But also, don't take advice from me I've never been in a relationship and I get in trouble for my emotionality.
Take time for yourself and just make sure you are ok and healed. Allow yourself to cry, treat yourself, get yourself some gifts and remember you are worthy of love❤
@@raapyna8544 Thank you for sharing that with me. I truly appreciate it. It means a lot to me now. None of my friends are gay, so I don't know who to talk to and I feel so alone. I haven't been in a relationship (with a woman) either (I'm a lesbian), so don't worry. I truly appreciate what you shared. Thank you. ❤
I mean she noticed that i was wearing black nail polish and she was wearing it too is that a sign? Shes bi btw, so theres a chance but im a little shy.
And this is why its better to do online dating and then go towards real life. You already know what the person you will meet is. Then ofc its about having chemistry or not. Either way if everyone is okay there can be a friendship
Sometimes i think my friend from uni has a crush on me, she has a boyfriend tho, but i feel this vibe when we’re alone and yes she acts masc when we’re with our friends group. I don’t even know if she’s bi and i’m so afraid to ask her. Another thing is that i haven’t came out lol
She also does the touch thing when i say something funny and sometimes she says these “jokes” when we’re hanging out like “diana do you like me?” and laughs
OK, what if that person actually does all of that to me. She knows that I like her but she keeps on doing all affection type of actions towards me plus gets protective when some of my friends try to fluster me by doing seductive stuff (I'm easily flustered, hence they might fund it quite fun to do this kinds of things to me). I found out from a mutual friend of ours that she said that she isn't sure about dating and neither am I. I haven't confessed yet. Argh I don't know what to do! She keeps on popping up in my mind when I least suspect it. Edit: Aha update... She is currently dating a other gal.. I'm very okay with them dating and she seemed happy with them. Right now, I feel hurt and confused why after spending so much time together, long talks, physical touch, paying so much attention to me and suddenly she is dating with someone else. I fully support them. Our relationship wasn't deterred, we're still very good friends. Just that I'm so heckin confused..
I wish I could like your videos, and I miss hearing your voice, but my religious parents look through my phone:’( You make my day, so I wish I could support your channel more
Also, I tend to mention my onscreen crushes to them. So e.g. 'Omgosh I'm so excited for the new wonderwoman, I think Gal Gadot is so hot. I could stare at her all day'. I'm saying it to gauge their reaction. If they get all excited about Gal them I'm like 'I see you, and good now I know crushing on you is probs not a dead end' whereas if they're like 'hmmm that's nice' I'm like, 'lol found a straight' and give up on my crush 😂
i liked this girl and i thought she also liked me because she was flirting with me. turns out she’s straight but she’s still my friend lol. she’s really touchy and she holds my hand a lot and this teacher thought we dating lol.
I definitely had a moment with a girl where it felt like a movie - we had such good but intense eye contact where I got lost in her eyes a few minutes into meeting her… I feel like she felt it too! But idk. I feel there’s a vibe for sure but I’m not sure! She was my acupuncturist too so now idk how to approach it but I feel like there’s something… she was flooding me with comments non stop I just don’t know how to go from here🥺
For me there really is something to loose. She’s a new, great friend of mine and we will be in school together for the next 2,5 years. But maybe I have a chance that it will turn out. She’s also bisexual and idk we’ve been more touchy lately (laying head on shoulders, comforting each other) and I noticed some more eye contact and I always hit her with a little cute smile when we gave eye contact, and she hits me back with a smile. I don’t see her doing these things with other friends. We’re doing clubbing on Saturday so I’m gonna try to make some moves while dancing if the vibe feels good.
Well, I just showed this girl a bisexual meme and that worked out pretty well for me, it especially works if you have her number bc then you can't chicken out lol
Just find a way for her to ask if you're bi too. On my instapage I have three heart emojis with the bi colors in my bio. My classmate asked me personally if I am bi, because of that thing in my bio. This worked for me cuz I'm also not up front about it and I don't look gay/bi. But first you should find small talk, for instance, say that you like her style. Get the ball rolling.
I have only seen her when she is at work because she works at the pharmacy I use. I have been blunt and told her that I flirt with her. We make each other laugh whenever we talk. One of her coworkers said that her ex husband did a number on her and she doesn't want a relationship. She KNOWS I like her and I definitely make eye contact. I'm not shy about it at all. She is literally my dream woman and I don't know what to do. 😔
why did this video call me out😂😂 I’m more feminine looking bi and I literally compliment every girl I like just like how u described, I also act more…masculine when I like someone or whatever? Idk but anyways 0; yesssss
i am in *the most* complicated situation ever. a good friend of mine, who is in a three year long relationship with her boyfriend, has very clearly (and i mean VERY clearly) developed feelings for me, and i cannot lie when i say i have begun reciprocating them. now, almost our entire friendship is teasing each other and then letting the situation be, because she has a healthy relationship to respect and tend to. it is so difficult at times. all she ever does is rub and touch my thigh, maintain deep eye contact, play with my hair, brush my cheek, hug me from behind, tell me how significantly i stand out from the people we are with, and literally imply that she would like for me to kiss her. IM GOING INSANE. i know this makes me sound like a terrible person, because all the things i listed are debatably hints of cheating in themselves and i don’t stop them, but i have never felt this before. i have just been trying my best not to display my feelings quite as severely, because i don’t want to be a home wrecker…
You are not a terrible person. Your friend needs to get her s*** together and it would be good for you to date other girls. Because She Will really drive you insane. Been there. Enforce boundaries.
If you want to know a short story :👇 Hi this is one of my storys and I'm so sorry if my English is bad I'm French and please read it i spend a lot of time on this.😭 One day a girl called Olivia was new to our school, when I saw her I knew I had a crush on her! She was just so pretty, funny and friendly... One day, she came to me and said > I said yes quickly and blushed❤She asked me is I was okay because I was turning red😂 Anyways, back to the story! Then we started hanging out and we made a group of friends! I also found out that she was Bisexual so I was happy because I'm Pansexual and I liked her! One day we went outside to read books and suddenly she put her head on my lap!!! I blushed so hard and I tried to calm down. I started to play with her hair and it was so soft👌 An other day she came to my house we went to my room and SHE KISSED ME!!! She also said that she really liked me!!! Now we're together!! And a little message : 👇 Hello guys! Thank you so much for reading my story! I hope your having a good day/night/morning/afternoon💛💜
I’m so lost… I’m in high school and I like a girl in my class so much !!! She is seating next to me in class so we’re talking a lot. She never touch me but she compliments ( abt my outfit, my drawing)me sometimes and always laugh to my jokes. I’m shy so that’s almost always her who starts the conversation. One day one of her friend came to me with her ( she was kinda embarrassed) and ask me if she could see my eyes bc someone said that they are beautiful ( my crush was blushing a lot ) Idk if this is a sign. Today she ask me to give her an advice abt a new shoes that she wants to buy. Idk if she flirting with me. She never text me and never try to touch me or anything and never try to makes eye contact. Help me please !🙏🏻 Sorry for the mistake I’m French
There is a girl in my ELA class and is pan and lit switched seats from 1-2 rows away...... She sits behind me now...... I like a girl in my art class, idk how I feel about the girl in my ELA....
Ok, so my country is soo controversial. but i truly like this girl in my class, and i noticed she listens to girl in red, but she listens to EVERY KIND of song. so i struggled a bit to make a decision. she is touchy but i think she is touchy with everyone. also she is preparing on SAT-kind of test and said that she does not have time to talk to me like in a polite way because of that test. but i know that she likes me as a friend but idk if she likes me in that way. i am sooo confused, idk should i step back or continue. i am worried if we stop being friends after i tell her i like her or that i am bi. any advises? Also her bd is soon. any ideas about a gift? like a hint love message? thank you ^^
one time i went to our kitchette at work and saw my crush was inside and i quickly turned around and didnt even noticed the door right in front of me and hit my head lol 🤣
Hey, idk if this is relevant to the video but im a lesbian but i just realized i may not want to be in a relationship. I have never dated women and i want to in the future, i just dont know if ill ever be ready or if i truly dont want a partner. Does anyone have information to help me or possibly a video?? Thanks💖
Girl I feel exactly the same rn. I haven't dated women before and I also struggle with knowing if I want a partner or not or if I'm ready. The thing I'm sticking with now is, that if I ask myself if I'm ready, then I'm not ready for a relationship. Don't stress about it too much. You'll feel ready when you're ready :)
There's a girl that often makes eye contact with me often being around me and looking for me.... I asked her if she likes me but she refused to answer the question. The day after she stayed away from me but after that day she made eye contact again..... What does it means?
Dutchy or any other fellow LGBTQ members, I need some advice! How do you know a girl likes you over text?? I've been talking to her for a few months now everyday, but can't meet her to test these signs due to corona... I know she's gay and I match the description of her ideal type, but I really don't know if she's just being nice or not!
Me goes to school near end of school girl come near me light punches me giggles blushes and walks away At home dad a girl walked up to me today light punched me and giggled and blushed and walked away and wispering to her friends my dad well she likes you me 😐😅 No way dad says yes me ok...
please someone help we have gym together, and whenever we are on the same team (for sports) she always stands right next to me, like inches away, and she's always trying to talk to me (about anything) and she always makes sure she's not doing anything "embarrassing" around me, and the other day I noticed her eyes, so I told her that they were really pretty and her face went red (but we had just got done running so she could have just been hot or out of breath) and I feel like I've caught her staring a few times but I'm not sure
Ok so I’m not lesbian. I don’t really like other girls like i’ve never been attracted to any other girls. But, i think i’m falling in love with my best friend and she’s straight. but she’s straight and i’ve been looking for signs, only girl i really like is her and i just love her so much.
the girl does both eye contac things. Sometimes she looks to the ground immediately when caught her looking and sometimes we just stare at eachother :p lol. She recently "punches" me often and stands very close to me where I almost feel uncomfortable myself hahah. we chat everyday about randoms things or work. I hope my gaydare is right, otherwise it's awkard lol
Do you think a gay/bi girl would be dissing gay men? 🤔 I have absolutely no idea about my crush's sexuality (I'm bi), but sometimes I feel like she's flirting. This being said, I've heard her saying offensive things about gay men. I believe that a gay girl wouldn't do it, am I right? (being attracted to a person who is disrespectful to other people is another story😂)
Me: watches this video to know she likes me or not Also me: figures out me obviously into her so much I think I like girl since long time ago. I flirt to girls many times. But never chance for dating any of them. It seems impossible in my place. My friends will think that I'm weird and then they'll leave me
Advice please, thank you.. I just wanna ask about this girl i like, she's always complimenting me, the way how i look and she's always flirting with me, and one more thing i caught her 4x checking me out, and when i ask her or talk to her she's like happy or being playful coz she likes to tease me a lot when i approach her, her aura changes when i talk to her than when she talks with the other people, and she's calling me MY then my name is she being nice or she's into me also... I actually didn't understand her if she's toying with me or she likes me.. She's older than me probably she's seeing me as her sister right..
I think u should just shoot ur shot. But before you telling her about her feelings, make sure she wont be awkward so ask, "hey, just wanna say, whatever I say, just can u promise it wont ruin our friendship and stuff?" If she says, "it depends" then u know that shes a real one. If she does say that it wont make them awkward, it could be a sign u should just lay low and wait for a bit longer. But it really depends on the person, so dont take my advice too seriously, but to me I think she likes u!
Dutchy please help me!!!! I have a friend, we have a LOT of skinship...we are very very velyyy close, and lately we've been really nervous when we are together...like, really gay panicked lol, but idk how i can confess what i feel for her. Is there any chance that she likes me back?
I don't know what to say, all 5 signs was there but l always have to keep conservation on social media, she never liked my post on instagram but do with other my friends, and she ignore me now. I always asked her to hang out for a coffee but she wouldn't reply to my messages just seen. And suddenly she invited me for coffee with our friend. She behaved like she is trying to inspire me. So I'm confused, does she like me or just playing with me? 😢
I can help🙂 I’m just going to give you certain points so it’s not too difficult for you to read😊 . Attraction that is the main thing you need to think about because I think people struggle to understand the difference with finding somebody pretty and finding somebody attractive this may take some time but you’ll figure it out but that’s the main thing you need to consider if you think you might be into girls if you find Them just pretty or attractive? . Do you look at guys The same way you look at girls also are you more nervous around a Particula gender? . Time , Time is going to be your best friend in this situation there is no rush toto be anything or anyone and if you think you might like the girl you probably do but it’s okay don’t freak out just take your time and try to enjoy the journey as much as you can. I hope this helped you I’m sorry if it did it but remember sexuality is like One big Science experiment and it can change and move so don’t be scared, sexually can be fun and exciting so just take it as it comes. If you need any more advice feel free to comment ack🙂
So wait if a girl says i really like your outfit today like it all goes really well together like the colors and stuff is that being more then just nice??
What's your secret? Do you have any tips on how to know if a femme girl is into you?! Comment below :D
@Heidi Cusic YESSS
@@emmalee4208 awww so cute!!!
I don’t really have any except for body language because I’m still trying to figure out my sexuality and who I like but yuh 😎🥸
Always look at her eyes. I feel eyes show a lot and it shows your soul, emotions, a lot of things :)
This is more for nervous girls, like myself 😂 they will tend to not want you to know they like you, so a lot of the time they will refrain from complimenting you a lot. However, you might still notice that they will either make their voice lower or higher while talking to you, depending on the level of masculinity they think you will be attracted to (this is usually subconscious). They may also fix their hair a lot or use their hand to cover a part of their face they are insecure about, once again subconsciously, so that you don't notice it. Other things girls might do are mirroring your body language, looking at you a lot or becoming a bit shy if they are usually quite confident/trying to be more confident if they are usually shy
I just wanted to add that I think the body language thing is something that also has kind of two different ends of the spectrum. I'm a very shy, awkward person and usually when I'm around the girl I like I do try to stand close to her, but I never touch her because I don't want to violate her space and I mostly just fiddle with my hands or pick my nails, which is one of my bad nervous habits. So yeah, if she is sort of fidgety or acting nervous that may be another sign she is into you.
Exactly, yes
Omg this reminded me I went up to a girl and said "hey small" she looked at me and said "hey tall"
WHEN I TELL YOU I HAD GAY PANIC
I HAD GAY PANIC
That’s sounds like something i would do 😂
A lot of my friends are really short and I’m the tell one-
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My social anxiety and ADHD would highly disagree with the eye contact 😂
Mine too, I wish I knew what to do with girls flirting with me all the time, and u not like it.
Same
Same Im Antisocial its difficult ☠️
Same! The more I like someone the harder it is to make eye contact when it's already really hard for me. 😂
Same
In conclusion, no gay/bi/pan/wlw girl has ever liked me 😭😭😭😭
Me in a relationship the next time I want to compliment a girl: “nice....something...” 😂😂
Hahahaha 😂
we’ve already acknowledged that we like each other but i’m gonna watch the vid to double check-
LOL
my best friend and me flirt ALL THE TIME but she's super religious and says she CANT be gay but it's obvious she's questioning but i'm like ok in love with her and i want to spend every moment with her and i want to kiss her but i don't want our friendship to end also she's literally so cute like what how
NOT ME HAVING BEEN IN THAT EXACT SAME SCENARIO BUT IM THE SUPER RELIGIOUS BEST FRIEND WHO WAS SO FAR IN THE CLOSEST IT MIGHT AS WELL BE NARNIA
These are so accurate!!! Plus there's one more. One of my exes (we're FWB now haha) showed obvious signs of being into me by always making me the center of her video recordings during road trip gatherings! All of our friends are present, but she always keeps that camera focus mainly on me. Granted, I'm probably chattering a lot, but so are the others! Focus on them! They're beautiful people, too! 😆
For me, my gaydar never fails. All of the femmes I’ve been with...I have known they liked me even before they said anything. Seriously, use your intuition when all else fails. Mine hasn’t failed me...yet lol
Don't get my hopes up high 😂
I need advice! So, I like this girl, but we only talk about the club we're both on. I like her because she is so awkward, but I don't think she likes me. What should I do? How do I start talking to her?
Maybe ask if you can hang out/talk on the phone/text outside of the club. I’m really not experienced with this stuff. Also try to make it obvious that you like her that way (if you feel comfortable with that) sorry if this was bad advice, hope you get ur girl!
@@ivyc4867 Thanks!
@@ivyc4867 Great advice!!!
Try to know her interests and if you have something in common keep it up in a conversation. Like I really like this band or this book... something like that. U can do it sis!!!🎉🤞🏻
I'm in the same boat, there is a girl in my class and I know that she is Bi... we only talk really briefly though just like "Hi" "Hello" and that's about it.
So I'm 16 and my siblings found out that I'm bi last week and my older brother hasn't talked to me since, my younger brother tried to book me in for counseling to "straighten me out" and my younger sister told me she hates me and now she doesnt talk to me either.
Aw bless you. I really hope your family come round, some of them may need time. But if not, you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Love is love, they're blind for not seeing that :)
@@redfox3481 aw thank you so much. Hopefully they eventually accept me
@@fhhfhdfghnj4470 I hope so too and I’m sorry that happened I have four sisters and a brother all younger than me and I would be devastated if they stop talking to me because I’m bi but just give them some time and continue being yourself and know that you’re valid
@@mariannebrandon8891 thank you so much
I think your younger brother sounds like he really cares about you but is confused and worried because he's been taught it's a bad thing or a mental illness. If that's the case, maybe you could try explaining that there's nothing wrong with you and you're happy. I hope they will get over it and come around.
Here is my story, in case you find something you can relate to.
I'm bi too and 23, I realized I was bi at 21. It came to me as a bit of a shock (by falling strongly in love with my friend) but after a while it made me really happy and like a weight was elevated because I used to have this fear that boys wouldn't find me attractive because they would think I was gay (because of how I dress etc) and I would never find love because of it. Knowing I, in fact, was a bit 'gay' helped me not be worried about how I come off or what I'm allowed to be like to fit this sort of idea of a 'proper woman'. It was something that made me happier that I knew myself a bit better. Even if other people may have their prejudices against me because of that, to be honest, they always have, long before I knew what was different about me, and it's a lot easier to accept myself when I know what the reason other people ostracise me is. Like, I can tell it's their bias and not something inexplicably ugly about me. I've come to terms with my childhood better knowing why the pretty girls were mean, and it was not because of something I did wrong. My love is very real, I think it's pure and I'm happy identifying as bi. So this is what I would tell my loved-ones if they rejected me. I can't change what I'm like, I can only change how I deal with it. Pretending to be someone else could never make you happy.
I'm sorry you weren't able to come out on your own terms though and you have to do this so young.
i got lucky this time! i don’t have school during the premiere so i won’t have to miss it!!!
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Neither do I. I’m in the middle of a 5 day lockdown
Dutch I need advice. I like my best friend and we have been friends for 5 years. We talk about lots of things but crushes and the lgbtq+ community has never come up. I have no idea how to ask him out. Do you have any advice?
Yeppp what Victor said!!
Damn! I'm definitely subconsciously totally acting like I have a crush on my best friend. I hope she doesn't notice...
YES BONUS TIPS! Thanks, Dutchy!
When I thought a girl liked me and she was giving me all the signs but then I learn she toxic and she said no when I asked her out. 😑😑😑😑😑💀
That's rough girl
Y’all makin me wait til 5:30 ahhhh I neeed this rn
Me ttoo🙈
sorry sorry, hope you enjoyed!!
What if she compliments my sketches? She is an artist too, is she flirting or friendly?
She's giving you feedback. Take her seriously.
I'm just here to support the Queen, I don't have a chance with her anyway😭😂
love you cutie!!
4:45 they hold their GAYZ
I love how we assume either one of us makes the first step.. I'd be fine with only knowing somebody is gay 😂
I'm really really into this girl since a long time and this video gives me hope. In the end she won't like me this way anyway since we're just good friends but I'll keep on dreaming😭😭😭
You don't know until you ask! You'll regret it if you don't!
@@redfox3481 I knowww but it would be embarrassing if she just sees me as a good friend
@@helena6230 some things are worth the risk
@@redfox3481 you're right I just need to find a good way to tell her
I need advice. I found out the woman I'm madly in love with started a relationship with another woman. I don't want to be selfish, I truly want the best for her, but it really breaks my heart to know she's with someone else. I've been crying every day since I found out and I don't know how to cope. Any advice?
Thank you ❤
Hi, I get you, I was there about 1-2 years ago. Honestly, just crying and listening to love songs but also I wrote and drew comic strips about my feelings to my diary and vented to my friends.
But also she later broke up with them and told me she didn't understand how she stayed in it so long - maybe she wouldn't have minded if I was more direct sooner about how much I loved her and how it hurt every time her girlfriend hurt her. I kept my storm to myself because I didn't want to be selfish. Maybe it was the right thing to do in the context. But I don't have the right answers.
I guess, just be there for her if she needs you, and try to stay friends. Hopefully if she's not happy with her girlfriend she'll be able to break up with her by herself. But if it goes on for a long time, don't hold your breath, allow yourself to fall in love again.
But also, don't take advice from me I've never been in a relationship and I get in trouble for my emotionality.
Take time for yourself and just make sure you are ok and healed. Allow yourself to cry, treat yourself, get yourself some gifts and remember you are worthy of love❤
@@raapyna8544 Thank you for sharing that with me. I truly appreciate it. It means a lot to me now. None of my friends are gay, so I don't know who to talk to and I feel so alone.
I haven't been in a relationship (with a woman) either (I'm a lesbian), so don't worry. I truly appreciate what you shared. Thank you. ❤
@@adriannafleckenstein4891 Thank you! ❤ It means so much
@@tearwordmelody no problem ❤ i am here for you
I mean she noticed that i was wearing black nail polish and she was wearing it too is that a sign? Shes bi btw, so theres a chance but im a little shy.
And this is why its better to do online dating and then go towards real life. You already know what the person you will meet is. Then ofc its about having chemistry or not. Either way if everyone is okay there can be a friendship
It's almost midnight and Here I am watching this for the Second time even though tomorrow is tuesday and I have school Bit idrc. Hahaha
My close friend likes to talk to me aggressively in a flirty way to seem like she’s rude do girls sometimes do that even if they like you?
Yes. I once said to a girl, "looking at your face makes me laugh", and failed to add, "bacause you're so cute."
@@raapyna8544 Awh, *pats* there there
Sometimes i think my friend from uni has a crush on me, she has a boyfriend tho, but i feel this vibe when we’re alone and yes she acts masc when we’re with our friends group. I don’t even know if she’s bi and i’m so afraid to ask her. Another thing is that i haven’t came out lol
She also does the touch thing when i say something funny and sometimes she says these “jokes” when we’re hanging out like “diana do you like me?” and laughs
Maybe you can ask her some questions, get to know her
@@adriannafleckenstein4891 i don’t even know how to ask her😭😭 i get so nervous when im alone with her i dunno what to say
@@dianacorreia8706 that's ok, just give it time
@@adriannafleckenstein4891 :) thx
dutchy your the best and I hope u have a good life uwu
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OK, what if that person actually does all of that to me. She knows that I like her but she keeps on doing all affection type of actions towards me plus gets protective when some of my friends try to fluster me by doing seductive stuff (I'm easily flustered, hence they might fund it quite fun to do this kinds of things to me). I found out from a mutual friend of ours that she said that she isn't sure about dating and neither am I. I haven't confessed yet. Argh I don't know what to do! She keeps on popping up in my mind when I least suspect it.
Edit: Aha update... She is currently dating a other gal.. I'm very okay with them dating and she seemed happy with them. Right now, I feel hurt and confused why after spending so much time together, long talks, physical touch, paying so much attention to me and suddenly she is dating with someone else. I fully support them. Our relationship wasn't deterred, we're still very good friends. Just that I'm so heckin confused..
Exited for the video but I’ll be in school :(
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(DO NOT ACTUALLY DO THIS) Skip school, then when you're teacher asks you why you weren't there, all you need to say is Dutchy had a premiere!
Aww that's okay! Watch it whenever
Talking to girls, femme or not, in general is quite difficult and intimidating.
I wish I could like your videos, and I miss hearing your voice, but my religious parents look through my phone:’( You make my day, so I wish I could support your channel more
I like my best friend of 8 years. I’m non-binary and i know for a fact that she is lesbian. But idk how open she is to liking non-binary people ;-;
Also, I tend to mention my onscreen crushes to them. So e.g. 'Omgosh I'm so excited for the new wonderwoman, I think Gal Gadot is so hot. I could stare at her all day'. I'm saying it to gauge their reaction. If they get all excited about Gal them I'm like 'I see you, and good now I know crushing on you is probs not a dead end' whereas if they're like 'hmmm that's nice' I'm like, 'lol found a straight' and give up on my crush 😂
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i liked this girl and i thought she also liked me because she was flirting with me. turns out she’s straight but she’s still my friend lol. she’s really touchy and she holds my hand a lot and this teacher thought we dating lol.
Oof I feel you. I hope she's not playing with your emotions :(
@@redfox3481 nah it’s alright she was already crushing on this other dude and i came out to her last week
@@rinahhphobic oh congrats on coming out x
@@elinehegrand5487 thank u !!
@@rinahhphobic ofc
Damn I gotta wait so LONG
Sorry sorry!
@@MsDickerz wait I didn’t mean to make you feel bad I just love your videos and was exited to see it!
I could have done with this 10 mins ago I’ve just confessed to a girl i like her 😅
Aww how did it go?!
@@MsDickerz pretty bad ngl she would rather be friends but that’s fine with me 😅💀
@@evie-gracewallace1166 Compliments for the guts you have omg.
You were so brave!
I definitely had a moment with a girl where it felt like a movie - we had such good but intense eye contact where I got lost in her eyes a few minutes into meeting her… I feel like she felt it too! But idk. I feel there’s a vibe for sure but I’m not sure! She was my acupuncturist too so now idk how to approach it but I feel like there’s something… she was flooding me with comments non stop I just don’t know how to go from here🥺
Hey ask if she likes to go out maybe
For me there really is something to loose. She’s a new, great friend of mine and we will be in school together for the next 2,5 years. But maybe I have a chance that it will turn out.
She’s also bisexual and idk we’ve been more touchy lately (laying head on shoulders, comforting each other) and I noticed some more eye contact and I always hit her with a little cute smile when we gave eye contact, and she hits me back with a smile. I don’t see her doing these things with other friends.
We’re doing clubbing on Saturday so I’m gonna try to make some moves while dancing if the vibe feels good.
OK, so, I like this girl and I don't know how to talk to her. She is bi, I know that, but I don't really know how to tell her (I'm closeted).
Well, I just showed this girl a bisexual meme and that worked out pretty well for me, it especially works if you have her number bc then you can't chicken out lol
@@dianaw6025 thank you I will probably use this lol
Just find a way for her to ask if you're bi too. On my instapage I have three heart emojis with the bi colors in my bio. My classmate asked me personally if I am bi, because of that thing in my bio. This worked for me cuz I'm also not up front about it and I don't look gay/bi. But first you should find small talk, for instance, say that you like her style. Get the ball rolling.
Well screw that plan, recently found out that she got a new gf so yeah fml.
@@amberjenkinson4791 ouch, that must hurt. Keep strong girl. You'll find a keeper
Will you make a video about crushes on an older women or something because a lot of people crush on older wemon and they don't think it's normal
Yes omf I need this too!!
I have only seen her when she is at work because she works at the pharmacy I use. I have been blunt and told her that I flirt with her. We make each other laugh whenever we talk. One of her coworkers said that her ex husband did a number on her and she doesn't want a relationship. She KNOWS I like her and I definitely make eye contact. I'm not shy about it at all. She is literally my dream woman and I don't know what to do. 😔
Ok, Dutchy literally here to save us all!
WAIT NO DUTCHY IS SO UNDERRATED UGHHHH
Awww bless 💗
why did this video call me out😂😂 I’m more feminine looking bi and I literally compliment every girl I like just like how u described, I also act more…masculine when I like someone or whatever? Idk but anyways 0; yesssss
I just KNOW im going to need this video a lot in the future :)))
hehe you’re welcome!
Ilyyy you are my favorite RUclipsr you are the reason I came out
I’m so proud of you!!
Thank you so much for this video!
i am in *the most* complicated situation ever. a good friend of mine, who is in a three year long relationship with her boyfriend, has very clearly (and i mean VERY clearly) developed feelings for me, and i cannot lie when i say i have begun reciprocating them. now, almost our entire friendship is teasing each other and then letting the situation be, because she has a healthy relationship to respect and tend to. it is so difficult at times. all she ever does is rub and touch my thigh, maintain deep eye contact, play with my hair, brush my cheek, hug me from behind, tell me how significantly i stand out from the people we are with, and literally imply that she would like for me to kiss her. IM GOING INSANE.
i know this makes me sound like a terrible person, because all the things i listed are debatably hints of cheating in themselves and i don’t stop them, but i have never felt this before. i have just been trying my best not to display my feelings quite as severely, because i don’t want to be a home wrecker…
You are not a terrible person. Your friend needs to get her s*** together and it would be good for you to date other girls. Because She Will really drive you insane. Been there. Enforce boundaries.
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One day a girl called Olivia was new to our school, when I saw her I knew I had a crush on her! She was just so pretty, funny and friendly... One day, she came to me and said > I said yes quickly and blushed❤She asked me is I was okay because I was turning red😂 Anyways, back to the story! Then we started hanging out and we made a group of friends! I also found out that she was Bisexual so I was happy because I'm Pansexual and I liked her! One day we went outside to read books and suddenly she put her head on my lap!!! I blushed so hard and I tried to calm down. I started to play with her hair and it was so soft👌 An other day she came to my house we went to my room and SHE KISSED ME!!! She also said that she really liked me!!! Now we're together!! And a little message : 👇
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I’m so lost… I’m in high school and I like a girl in my class so much !!!
She is seating next to me in class so we’re talking a lot. She never touch me but she compliments ( abt my outfit, my drawing)me sometimes and always laugh to my jokes. I’m shy so that’s almost always her who starts the conversation. One day one of her friend came to me with her ( she was kinda embarrassed) and ask me if she could see my eyes bc someone said that they are beautiful ( my crush was blushing a lot ) Idk if this is a sign. Today she ask me to give her an advice abt a new shoes that she wants to buy.
Idk if she flirting with me. She never text me and never try to touch me or anything and never try to makes eye contact. Help me please !🙏🏻
Sorry for the mistake I’m French
There is a girl in my ELA class and is pan and lit switched seats from 1-2 rows away......
She sits behind me now......
I like a girl in my art class, idk how I feel about the girl in my ELA....
Ok, so my country is soo controversial. but i truly like this girl in my class, and i noticed she listens to girl in red, but she listens to EVERY KIND of song. so i struggled a bit to make a decision. she is touchy but i think she is touchy with everyone. also she is preparing on SAT-kind of test and said that she does not have time to talk to me like in a polite way because of that test. but i know that she likes me as a friend but idk if she likes me in that way. i am sooo confused, idk should i step back or continue. i am worried if we stop being friends after i tell her i like her or that i am bi.
any advises?
Also her bd is soon. any ideas about a gift? like a hint love message?
thank you ^^
I have a girlfriend now because of this video thanks!
one time i went to our kitchette at work and saw my crush was inside and i quickly turned around and didnt even noticed the door right in front of me and hit my head lol 🤣
Pov: you described me and my crush 😂🏳️🌈
Hey, idk if this is relevant to the video but im a lesbian but i just realized i may not want to be in a relationship. I have never dated women and i want to in the future, i just dont know if ill ever be ready or if i truly dont want a partner. Does anyone have information to help me or possibly a video?? Thanks💖
Girl I feel exactly the same rn. I haven't dated women before and I also struggle with knowing if I want a partner or not or if I'm ready. The thing I'm sticking with now is, that if I ask myself if I'm ready, then I'm not ready for a relationship. Don't stress about it too much. You'll feel ready when you're ready :)
Me too!
@@zaviera_7547 we are in this together
@@adriannafleckenstein4891 Hell yeah
@@zaviera_7547 😌🙂
There's a girl that often makes eye contact with me often being around me and looking for me....
I asked her if she likes me but she refused to answer the question. The day after she stayed away from me but after that day she made eye contact again.....
What does it means?
I get so nervous around girls i like i can't hold eye contact for more than a second without getting red faced
Hello my fellow lgbtq+ community! Quick question:how do I know if I have a crush on someone?
It can feel different for everyone! But thinking about them a lot, wanting to see them/be with them/talk to them, nervous around them etc
@@MsDickerz thanks! I’ve never really had a crush before but that helped!
Me watching this to figure out if one of my bffs 😂😂
Can't wait!!!
Eeekk :D
I’m here to see how much of this apples to me 😂😊
Nice video idea
Dutchy or any other fellow LGBTQ members, I need some advice! How do you know a girl likes you over text?? I've been talking to her for a few months now everyday, but can't meet her to test these signs due to corona... I know she's gay and I match the description of her ideal type, but I really don't know if she's just being nice or not!
you could call her....
Yeah you could video call her! Also how she comments your pics may give some hint, if she compliments you and how.
@@raapyna8544 that's a good idea! She's commented on a few of my pics saying she thinks I'm really pretty so 😳
@@redfox3481 she likes you
Me goes to school near end of school girl come near me light punches me giggles blushes and walks away
At home dad a girl walked up to me today light punched me and giggled and blushed and walked away and wispering to her friends my dad well she likes you me 😐😅 No way dad says yes me ok...
Just sayin that your one of the reason I came out as bi
please someone help
we have gym together, and whenever we are on the same team (for sports) she always stands right next to me, like inches away, and she's always trying to talk to me (about anything) and she always makes sure she's not doing anything "embarrassing" around me, and the other day I noticed her eyes, so I told her that they were really pretty and her face went red (but we had just got done running so she could have just been hot or out of breath) and I feel like I've caught her staring a few times but I'm not sure
I always want to spend time alone with this one girl at my school, and I always divert my eyes when I see her looking at me.
i needed that thanks😅😹💕
Ok so I’m not lesbian. I don’t really like other girls like i’ve never been attracted to any other girls. But, i think i’m falling in love with my best friend and she’s straight. but she’s straight and i’ve been looking for signs, only girl i really like is her and i just love her so much.
I'm going to wear mascara when i go to go to school and see if she compliments me!!!!!!
the girl does both eye contac things. Sometimes she looks to the ground immediately when caught her looking and sometimes we just stare at eachother :p lol. She recently "punches" me often and stands very close to me where I almost feel uncomfortable myself hahah. we chat everyday about randoms things or work. I hope my gaydare is right, otherwise it's awkard lol
How to find the gays. : dutchy, dutchy and dutchy....
🙏 Dutchy isn't just a name, it's a way of life🙏
Do you think a gay/bi girl would be dissing gay men? 🤔 I have absolutely no idea about my crush's sexuality (I'm bi), but sometimes I feel like she's flirting. This being said, I've heard her saying offensive things about gay men. I believe that a gay girl wouldn't do it, am I right? (being attracted to a person who is disrespectful to other people is another story😂)
maybe she is taking her comhet out on gay men ? 🤔 i am not condoning dissing anyone but it says a lot about her (🚩)
Me watching this even tho I know nobody wants me 🥲fun times
Me: watches this video to know she likes me or not
Also me: figures out me obviously into her so much
I think I like girl since long time ago. I flirt to girls many times. But never chance for dating any of them. It seems impossible in my place. My friends will think that I'm weird and then they'll leave me
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Advice please, thank you.. I just wanna ask about this girl i like, she's always complimenting me, the way how i look and she's always flirting with me, and one more thing i caught her 4x checking me out, and when i ask her or talk to her she's like happy or being playful coz she likes to tease me a lot when i approach her, her aura changes when i talk to her than when she talks with the other people, and she's calling me MY then my name is she being nice or she's into me also... I actually didn't understand her if she's toying with me or she likes me.. She's older than me probably she's seeing me as her sister right..
I think u should just shoot ur shot. But before you telling her about her feelings, make sure she wont be awkward so ask, "hey, just wanna say, whatever I say, just can u promise it wont ruin our friendship and stuff?" If she says, "it depends" then u know that shes a real one. If she does say that it wont make them awkward, it could be a sign u should just lay low and wait for a bit longer. But it really depends on the person, so dont take my advice too seriously, but to me I think she likes u!
Um my friend mostly hugs me A LOT I'm scared lol 😂
Dutchy please help me!!!! I have a friend, we have a LOT of skinship...we are very very velyyy close, and lately we've been really nervous when we are together...like, really gay panicked lol, but idk how i can confess what i feel for her. Is there any chance that she likes me back?
Thank you
I don't know what to say, all 5 signs was there but l always have to keep conservation on social media, she never liked my post on instagram but do with other my friends, and she ignore me now. I always asked her to hang out for a coffee but she wouldn't reply to my messages just seen. And suddenly she invited me for coffee with our friend. She behaved like she is trying to inspire me. So I'm confused, does she like me or just playing with me? 😢
Oof I still remember this time in class when I was staring at my crush then she made eye contact with me and I quickly looked away lmaoo
ok so i like my bsf and we're both girls. i think she might be in denial abt being like bi/pan but ik she does like guys. she 'flirts' a lot too lol
Not me having a crush on my barista and confused af
Hii Dutchy!! I love ur videos! You help all of us soo much! It woud be my dream for you to notice me!!
hiiii Stella :D
@@MsDickerz OMGG HIIII
One thing I wish is that there was like more gay male content
How do u know if u like a girl
I can help🙂
I’m just going to give you certain points so it’s not too difficult for you to read😊
. Attraction that is the main thing you need to think about because I think people struggle to understand the difference with finding somebody pretty and finding somebody attractive this may take some time but you’ll figure it out but that’s the main thing you need to consider if you think you might be into girls if you find Them just pretty or attractive?
. Do you look at guys The same way you look at girls also are you more nervous around a Particula gender?
. Time , Time is going to be your best friend in this situation there is no rush toto be anything or anyone and if you think you might like the girl you probably do but it’s okay don’t freak out just take your time and try to enjoy the journey as much as you can.
I hope this helped you I’m sorry if it did it but remember sexuality is like One big Science experiment and it can change and move so don’t be scared, sexually can be fun and exciting so just take it as it comes. If you need any more advice feel free to comment ack🙂
@@Baller319 not that easy😊
@@Zanderren thank u so much u are amazing
@@tessamuddle5008 you’re welcome 🥰
@Mid_ Night congratulations enjoy the experience of finding yourself🙂
I like my girl best friend I need some tips because I don't know if she likes me back she's also by
Go for itt!
I’m so confused, she complemented my rainbow nails?!
IT'S ARE GIRL, DUTCHYYYY!!
YEAH IT ISSSS
Okay but can u do this quarantine edition meaning over text cuzzzzz
I was the 500th like 🥰
So wait if a girl says i really like your outfit today like it all goes really well together like the colors and stuff is that being more then just nice??
Watching this bc im afraid to talk to her lmao