Hey Dutchy fam! This was my last sit down video for the year 🥰🥺 show some lurveee! let’s blow up the comments & make sure you send this to any friends who need this advice ❤️❤️❤️❤️ P.S wishing you all a very MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY NEW YEAR ❤️❤️❤️
Honestly I just wish being gay and stuff wasn’t awkward in society because it wouldn’t be such big news that I’m gay... like all I ever hear is “are you gay, are you bisexual, what boy do you have a crush on?”
16 and still haven't had my first kiss, my parents made jokes about it for ages but then found out it's because I'm gay and where I live, there's literally nowhere safe that I can kiss my girlfriend without fear. Sad but it gives us more of a reason to keep fighting so hopefully the next generation won't live in fear of who they love, no matter where they live.
istg Australia is the country equivalent of that one Minecraft world where u just destroy e v e r y t h I n g except it’s god and he’s just giggling as he sets flames to the continent
She’s my current girlfriend and is also going to be my first kiss but also need serious help with this because I am a super shy chicken. Thanks for making a video about this!
Last week I went on a date with my crush (that also watches you. I posted a comment about it on your last video) She wants another date and guess what...I think this video was the perfect fit for my needs Thank you so much Dutchy! I probably wouldn’t have dared to ask her out if it wasn’t for your videos (: This is the first girl I’m officially dating after coming out to myself and my family/friends❤️
Lol my first kiss was with a girl who was my crush and my friend for a long time and she literally went like "I wanna make out with you, can we make out?" And I'm just like.... SURE?! And nothing like that ever happened to me again 😔 too bad because I'm way too shy to even ask people out for coffee.
You're sooo lucky... I have a crush on my best friend and I don't know if she's straight cuz she's never really dated anyone or even considered dating someone.... She literally confuses me along with the physical tension I'm already in when I meet her....😔😔
The flirting doesn't help.. Bc my friends flirt with me A LOT and I flirt with her I go like "kiss me" and she's like "make me" But she actually doesn't like me so..
My crush and I told each other last night that we wanted to kiss each other and we’re meeting up today so I’m nervous (this is going to be my first kiss ever)
I've kissed my crush already. A lot actually. She's also my best friend. I know she's bi and she's said she likes me too but she has a boyfriend.sooo.....fingers crossed🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
oml thank you so much for this video i really needed it dutchy!! i met this girl through a friend and she’s bi (i’m pan) i said that she was pretty and she said i was too, ive been texting her for about a week now and she keeps dropping serious hints and all of my friends keep saying that i should ask her out but she keeps saying that she’d like a girlfriend for christmas so on christmas day i’m going to ask her out wish me luck!!!!! 😁😁❤️ update: turns out she felt the same way too! I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND:)))))
This is so freakin useful because now I have gf and I'm her first partner so she hasn't had a kiss yet and I wasn't sure how to make her feel comfortable and now I know how!! Thank you so much Dutchy!! I NEED YOU TO BE MY PERSONAL ROMANCE COUNSELOR ❤️❤️❤️
A couple weeks ago, I told my friend I had feelings for her, and now I have a cute as hecc gf. I seriously never thought she would like me back, because she never said if she was into girls, but I'm so glad she is because she is the absolute sweetest little angel ever.
Story time! My best friend invited her friend to the indoor park we were heading to. I realized I had a crush I on this girl and told my best friend. My best friend told this girl and the girl admitted to liking me. Dutch you always post the stuff I need just when I need it!
Early. Love you Dutchy after I came out to my friends and parents (I’m bisexual) and some of them didn’t understand I watched your LGBTQ videos and they really helped you are a queen!!!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈 I now have a girlfriend who I love, you really helped me accept myself so thank you. Much love and Merry Gaymas🏳️🌈🎄❣️❣️❣️
Aww we have had a amazing decade and an amazing years. We will be excited for the gay content of 2020!!! Best of luck, happy holidays, and merry gaymas.
ughh im so nervous i'm going over to my crush for new year's eve and i wanna kiss her sooo bad but i'm very scared of her pulling away or don't wanting too and that would make the rest of the night super awkward. anyone any tips ?
Idk, ask her if she's cool or something and if she says no it's okay too, you'll find someone eventually. You have to be okay to the situation and she has too, good luck 😊
Yesterday I told my crush i have feelings for her, it went really well, she didn't reject me, but also didn't confess back, so like I guess it was a maybe. But her reaction was so cute, we had a good conversation on a quite sweet walk and she was super happy I chose to tell her, because she wasn't sure if I liked her (she was suspecting it). Anyway, after watching this video I think I'm prepared to kiss her if we're ever in a situation where it feels right and if I think she wants to. Thank you
I had my first kiss literally a couple days after my birthday and it was a girl I had a crush on for almost 2 years now, and at the time she was 13 and I was 14 so it was hard to tell someone you like them in middle school when your gay, but I actually needed advice b/c I wanted to make the first move but literally 2 months ago she walked me home and she kissed me and I didn’t even need to go for it so Dutchy glad your here to give some advice
IF YOU'RE WITH AN ASEXUAL OR DEMISEXUAL PARTNER, MAKE SURE THEY'RE OK WITH KISSING/HUGGING/TOUCHING ETC! SOME PEOPLE ARE FINE WITH IT, SOME AREN'T! Of course, this goes for any partner, not just ace pals, but just be extra respectful!
I'm watching this again 2 years after it came out because I just got myself a girlfriend, we've been on a few dates to get to know each other but we haven't kissed yet, or even held hands or anything lol. We have our 5th date later this week, and instead of going for coffee or ice cream as we have on all our other dates, this time we're going to be watching TV at her place. I want to begin the more intimate stuff with her, but I haven't had a whole lot of practice. I've dated 2 girls before, the first was my best friend and we made out a few times, but the second was a Tinder date and we pecked lips 2 or 3 times and cuddled, but not more than that. However, this girl I'm dating has never been kissed, I'm the first person she's dating. At any rate I want to try holding her hand as we watch TV, and maybe cuddling if she's up for it, and I might want to go in for the kiss, if she's comfortable with it. Wanted some good old Dutchy tips lol. Anyway most likely no one will read this but I'm going to post it anyway for the heck of it.
OML NO JOKE MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP WAS A TOTAL *NIGHTMARE* Swear to god it would be 10000 times less terrible if i had seen this video when i was in it. (Well maybe a *little* better -m-) Listen so Im shy like SUPER shy, but despite this, *I* was the one to ask my crush at the time, out. We were best friends until i realized i liked as more than a frendo. So I ask her out, she says yes, and the first week is great. We were hanging out more and since it was still the beginning of my first relationship, I was super shy and REALLY bad at flirting. So like, I mostly didn't, except occasionally because well im shy (but like at the time I was SUPER shy. So like basically me now just like times 200) and i just wanted HER to do all the flirting and i was just gonna go along with it. In spite of my hopeful thinking, she never did make any moves so LITTLE SHY WEEBISH KID HERE HAD TO DO HER BEST TO MAKE ALL THE MOVES, WITHOUT HAVING HER LITTLE HEART BEAT SO HARD IT FELL OUT OF HER CHEST. (Anyways, enough speaking in 3rd person) SO, the relationship kept going and i tried to do my best to flirt but it really wasn't going anywhere. One day she started acting different. She started to snap at me a lot, and push me around and take my small size to her advantage. (Not like sexually just like hitting me and pinching me and grabbing and not letting go, just like stuff i wasn't comfortable with. And i couldn't fight back because well 1) Im like really weak and 2) I dont like confrontation, but nonetheless, i did my best to ask her to stop but she just DIDNT. She'd just laugh it off and say "Calm down it's just a joke!") So i also had this one friend, who I considered to be my best friend and before my relationship with this girl, she really didnt like her, but later on they became friends. (This'll be important in a sec i promise) So as my gf at the time was doing this, i started to get fed up w/ her bs and started to fight back. When she would snap at me, I would snap at her, when she would push me around, i would snap at her, and when she would take advantage of me, i would snap at her. So remember how i mentioned my best friend at the timr right? She started to snap at me too. My gf had been telling her all about me snapping at her and now my best friend started calling me a terrible gf and wouldn't even *think* about thinking otherwise. Thats RIGHT my gf had been talking about me BEHIND MY BACK, WITH MY BEST FRIKING FRIEND. After that they BOTH started snapping at me, they BOTH started pushing me around, and guess wut? THIS SHY LITTLE WEEB LET THEM. I am SO pissed at myself for letting them do that shit to me, i swear to god. Anyways, you might be asking rn 'But why does that have anything to do with this video??' Well let me give u the answer my little gay children. The two of us decided to break up and i asked her why she was also so pissed at me. HER RESPONCE MAN- I CANT EVEN. SHE SAID THAT THE REASON THAT SHE WAS ALWAYS SO PISSED AT ME, WAS BECAUSE I WAS SO SHY, THAT SHE WAS SCARED TO MAKE A MOVE AND DO ANYTHING THAT WOULD REMOTELY MAKE US A COUPLE, BECAUSE SHE DIDNT WANT TO FORCE ME INTO ANYTHING. I SWEAR TO GOD MAN. ALL YOU EXTROVERTS OUT THERE DONT UNDERSTAND THE PAINS OF A GAY INTROVERT.
This is so crappy that I actually can relate (except I’m too shy to even get a gf let alone ask someone out). I’m feeling your pain ‘man’. God that sucks.
GASP :0 YES. I HAVE MET ONE OF MY SHY BRETHREN. COME, SISTER, LET US FIND HAPPINESS TOGETHER IN OUR MUTUAL LACK OF DESIRE FOR SOCIAL INTERACTION. (yay! im so happy that someone gets it!) (also im sorry i get really weird around other shy people lol)
BIGGER GASP :00 FINALLY I HAVE MET ANOTHER SHY ONE THAT UNDERSTANDS HOW TO ACT NORMAL (kinda) BUT STILL QUIET AROUND OTHERS SOCIAL HUMANS BUT WHEN THEY COME ACROSS ANOTHER ONE LIKE THEM THEY GO CRAZY AND IT’S LIKE AN ANTISOCIAL SOCIAL PARTY!
Thaaaaanks dutchy! ❤️ that actually helped a lot! I'm 16 and haven't kissed anyone before, but I have someone I really like, and I might think we could be something, I don't know 😶 but I hope 😅🤞🏼🍀 But whit your advise I feel a little bit more ready than before I watched this video! 🥳❤️ So thank you! ❤️ I love you a lot! And I hope you will have a merry Christmas and a happy new year! 🥳❤️
just finished the video and I loved it 10/10 content from our bi baddie daddy lol do y'all have tips for have a crush on ur straight close friend?? (not quite bestfriend but we are super close) hope y'all have a great day!!
Me: can’t even get my crush to like me back and skips step two (ask her out) and gone to three (🎵 “gO oN aNd KiSs ThE GiRL” 🎵) that was a sad Disney joke nobody will recognize... :,3
When you said A B or C I yelled out A lol. Okay here’s the tea, so I’m a lesbian and my best friend is a lesbian and I’ve liked her for awhile now, and then something bad happened and I’m not able to see her anymore, well since I couldn’t take the sadness anymore I secretly got her number and texted her a huge paragraph on how I was sorry and I missed her and then I told her how I had feelings for her because I may never get to tell her in person so- and she replied back saying she has had a crush on me too and SJSJS- btw have I mentioned I’m 13.. LOL IK IM YOUNG. But I’m just learning young cause you never know..
I want to come out to my family as a lesbian. I know they’ll be accepting about that, but I don’t know how happy they’ll be when I tell them I’m not a virgin... 😂
(Also low-key wish I could have shown this to my last guy-kissing partner because that whole “tongue straight in” thing happened and he NEVER MOVED IT)
Thanks for the great video! I only found your channel a few days ago and I love it! Finding this channel was like an early much needed christmas present. Greetings from Germany!
I just saw my gf today at my basketball practice and we haven’t kissed yet because were really not able to see each other and im so nervous and this video really is helping right now thank you 🥰❤️
I can successfully say that these videos have helped me get my current girlfriend. Thank you, from a random stranger in England. ❤️ Also, have a happy holiday season!
I’m planning on confessing to my crush that I like her in just over a year. I’ve told her before but I know I need to let out my feelings properly for her eventually. The reason I’m planning to in just over a year because that seems like such a long time. I know my feelings will still be so freaking real in just over a year still. We’ll also both be at different unis so I won’t have to see her everyday if I completely embarrass myself by telling her. Even if she has a boyfriend or girlfriend she deserves to know right idk. I mean she’s my best friend so hopefully things will turn out well anyway. I also know I’ve felt things and I think she has too at some point. I’m gonna see what happens in a year but that’s what I’m planning
Yesterday I was sitting in front of the sea with my crush and I really wanted to kiss her but didn't know where to start! How unlucky I am for not watching this before!
i wish i would get a crush on someone who would like me even a little bit i think my crush liked me for a while but when we tried to meet again it was really hard cause she's so busy :[
Hey Dutchy fam! This was my last sit down video for the year 🥰🥺 show some lurveee! let’s blow up the comments & make sure you send this to any friends who need this advice ❤️❤️❤️❤️
P.S wishing you all a very MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY NEW YEAR ❤️❤️❤️
Merry christmas dutchy i love you!!!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year :)
I love you and Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year thank you for your advice
merry christler!! ❤️
Honestly I just wish being gay and stuff wasn’t awkward in society because it wouldn’t be such big news that I’m gay... like all I ever hear is “are you gay, are you bisexual, what boy do you have a crush on?”
I feel like same way
YEP
Hey hmu on insta at lil_dawg_16
Yeah, it's not like you have to come out as straight is it?
bold of you to assume my crush likes me lmao
oh god same
My crush hates me :/
My crush hardly knows I exist
The most coming out thing i got from my crush is asking him to sign my spare shirt. It was graduation day for primary.
Hahaha bless
16 and still haven't had my first kiss, my parents made jokes about it for ages but then found out it's because I'm gay and where I live, there's literally nowhere safe that I can kiss my girlfriend without fear. Sad but it gives us more of a reason to keep fighting so hopefully the next generation won't live in fear of who they love, no matter where they live.
Same but I'm going to get my first kiss soon
@@sammybeddingfield1014 congratsss
me:
-has a crush
-never took it a step forward to even being friends
-still watches this video and takes notes
Xdd same
Same
Sameee
Nice likes 👌
@@diamondd5846 HAHAHAHA
Sis that's gay 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
no u ;)
@@b4tsnbugs Ya caught me XD
It'sMePinkyyy hi how are you
Heck yeah sis
@@Zanderren I'm pretty snazzy. You?
*sobs in single bisexual*
Same here
Same here
you aint alone mate.
Joanne Kelleher can relate
Joanne Kelleher you single? JK
Imagine your crush likes you back... Imagine having a crush... I'm so lonely...
*cries in gay*
Daddiii_Sam ❤️❤️❤️❤️
*gay screeching*
Cactus Cat hahahahaha oath
I mean... Yeah.
dutchy: your local aussie therapist
Em the Witch bless upppp ❤️❤️
Dutchy
The bushfires though!
istg Australia is the country equivalent of that one Minecraft world where u just destroy e v e r y t h I n g except it’s god and he’s just giggling as he sets flames to the continent
She’s my current girlfriend and is also going to be my first kiss but also need serious help with this because I am a super shy chicken. Thanks for making a video about this!
Aww that's so cute good luck hope all goes well
Good luck dude!
I finally got up the courage to kiss her (on the cheek because I’m a coward) and she kissed me back! She is the most adorable person on this earth.
Update:
I kissed her on the lips and she was my first kiss and it was amazing! Thank you for your time.
@@atlaslamb6503 congrats
Bro the only time I’ll ever kiss my crush is in my dreams
chloe suarez YESSSS ME TOO
aww i dont even get to do that. ive never dreamed about any of my crushes...
8:35 she said only do 90% and let them do the other 10%.. but what if we both watched this video😂
It'd be a good 180%😂😂
Tbh it should be 100/100
Dutchy: thinks it’s weird to kiss her hand
Also Dutchy 19:07
Last week I went on a date with my crush (that also watches you. I posted a comment about it on your last video)
She wants another date and guess what...I think this video was the perfect fit for my needs
Thank you so much Dutchy! I probably wouldn’t have dared to ask her out if it wasn’t for your videos (: This is the first girl I’m officially dating after coming out to myself and my family/friends❤️
Nysne Oh my goodness this melts my HEART 🥺❤️ bless UP! I’m so proud and happy for you!!!!
Lol my first kiss was with a girl who was my crush and my friend for a long time and she literally went like "I wanna make out with you, can we make out?" And I'm just like.... SURE?! And nothing like that ever happened to me again 😔 too bad because I'm way too shy to even ask people out for coffee.
By reading that I got butterflies.
You're sooo lucky... I have a crush on my best friend and I don't know if she's straight cuz she's never really dated anyone or even considered dating someone.... She literally confuses me along with the physical tension I'm already in when I meet her....😔😔
The flirting doesn't help..
Bc my friends flirt with me A LOT
and I flirt with her
I go like "kiss me" and she's like "make me"
But she actually doesn't like me so..
Oof
Oof indeed
Damn :/
i feel like she does
My crush and I told each other last night that we wanted to kiss each other and we’re meeting up today so I’m nervous (this is going to be my first kiss ever)
EllaLee good luck! I want to kiss my first girlfriend soon and it will also be my first kiss.
@@atlaslamb6503 Good luck to you too!
Ahh! How did it go? :)
EllaLee
Good luck y'all! Tell us how it went!
@@beewilliams1344 I became very very shy, but it happened :D
1. Get an anime crush
2. Realizes they’re all very feminine (longish hair, rounder hips, etc)
3. Realize your a lesbian
Congrats now your gay
Pppperioyt
Periodt
No way that was me but with a kpop idol
THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED TO ME IM CRYING
My life
I kissed my girlfriend the first time yesterday, we were having a netflix night and she made the move-
Jesus Christ, I’m gay af.
I've kissed my crush already. A lot actually. She's also my best friend. I know she's bi and she's said she likes me too but she has a boyfriend.sooo.....fingers crossed🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Ahhh she liked my comment I love you Dutchy!!!!!
Strangely enough, I'm in the same exact boat that you're on!
@@mayusky3955 really??
@@Ash-ph2eb yeah she's like my oldest friend and she's bi but she has a boyfriend and I don't think she's planning on leaving him..
@@Ash-ph2eb well yeah I've done that too, then I realized I was gay so 😗
oml thank you so much for this video i really needed it dutchy!!
i met this girl through a friend and she’s bi (i’m pan) i said that she was pretty and she said i was too, ive been texting her for about a week now and she keeps dropping serious hints and all of my friends keep saying that i should ask her out but she keeps saying that she’d like a girlfriend for christmas so on christmas day i’m going to ask her out
wish me luck!!!!! 😁😁❤️
update:
turns out she felt the same way too!
I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND:)))))
This won't happen to me for a while because my girlfriend is an adorable, innocent little bean, but I'm watching anyways!
SAME HERE!!!
I have a crush on my friend who isn't my friend anymore, she already said she doesn't like me. But I still want to hang out..
This is so freakin useful because now I have gf and I'm her first partner so she hasn't had a kiss yet and I wasn't sure how to make her feel comfortable and now I know how!! Thank you so much Dutchy!! I NEED YOU TO BE MY PERSONAL ROMANCE COUNSELOR ❤️❤️❤️
A couple weeks ago, I told my friend I had feelings for her, and now I have a cute as hecc gf. I seriously never thought she would like me back, because she never said if she was into girls, but I'm so glad she is because she is the absolute sweetest little angel ever.
14:39 Lmao forget to cut something of there 😂😂
Story time! My best friend invited her friend to the indoor park we were heading to. I realized I had a crush I on this girl and told my best friend. My best friend told this girl and the girl admitted to liking me. Dutch you always post the stuff I need just when I need it!
Early. Love you Dutchy after I came out to my friends and parents (I’m bisexual) and some of them didn’t understand I watched your LGBTQ videos and they really helped you are a queen!!!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈 I now have a girlfriend who I love, you really helped me accept myself so thank you. Much love and Merry Gaymas🏳️🌈🎄❣️❣️❣️
How did you get a partner? I don't know how to get one (preferably a boyfriend)
Just go for it the worst that will happen is they reject you and you cry and eat ice cream then get over them good luck ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@@cake_pop6217 I did/do had a crush on another bisexual guy, but sadly he was engaged to someone else.
Dutchy you have made such a positive difference in my life and thank you so so so so much for that🌈
Also I read the description
The thing is at my school there is no other lesbian my age that I could talk to and re!ate to
#lonely lesbian
big_gay_ass_girl 123 same. Sometimes I just need someone to talk to or relate to (when it comes to homosexuality) but everyone is straight
probably just closeted ones all around you
DUDE. I FEEL YOU.
Just run into school and be like
Come out the fucking closet!!!!!
I have a ton of bi and pan people but no lesbians😭
Rainbow is everywhere🌈🌈🌈
Magdaléna Fojtů Heck yeah ❤️🌈
Oh, I think im in gay heaven
@@hellcritter6668 ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@MsDickerz yay rainbows!!!!!
I came out to my mom recently and it was such a big reaction, it felt weird, as coming out to my friends was not a big deal, as most of them at lgbtq+
After being depressed watching the Rise Of Skywalker ending, Dutchy made my day ❤️
мαяα тѕl Hey
@@Zanderren Hi ❤️
мαяα тѕl I was worried well not worried that you have got a crush on me I would understand?
@@Zanderren Actually no, I view you as a good Internet friend. I have a bf irl
@Crescent Tears ok ❤️
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(Commenting this coz I'm an OG who always reads every inch of the description!❤❤)
YESSSSS a new video from my favo youtuber love youuuuuuuu
Jade Poortinga bless ahhh love you!
Dutchy OMG YOU REACHT I AM SOOOOOOO HAPPPPYYY YOU ARE SOOOO AMAZING
Hey Dutchy love ur videos so much
Kinda Gay aww hello! thank you so much that means the world to me
I. HAVE. BEEN. WAITING. ALL. DAY.
Luv ya c;
my firsst kiss with my gf went wrong 3 times and we still haven't had a proper make out session… I actually feel so stupid
Eeeeeee I’m so excited! I can be early for once! 😂
i just kissed my first boy friend it was so awkward
@AceOfSpades 93 thanks i had a fase of calling myself that its not my real name
@AceOfSpades 93 thanks
8:15 *”why am i nervous? it’s my fucking hand”*
Hi dutchy I'm yorck I'm gay and I love it
yorck van Someren I love that!!
I love you so your asom
@@MsDickerz thanx
Aww we have had a amazing decade and an amazing years. We will be excited for the gay content of 2020!!! Best of luck, happy holidays, and merry gaymas.
ughh im so nervous i'm going over to my crush for new year's eve and i wanna kiss her sooo bad but i'm very scared of her pulling away or don't wanting too and that would make the rest of the night super awkward. anyone any tips ?
Just wait until the ligts are out🤫then she maybe dont know who kissed her
Idk, ask her if she's cool or something and if she says no it's okay too, you'll find someone eventually. You have to be okay to the situation and she has too, good luck 😊
Yesterday I told my crush i have feelings for her, it went really well, she didn't reject me, but also didn't confess back, so like I guess it was a maybe. But her reaction was so cute, we had a good conversation on a quite sweet walk and she was super happy I chose to tell her, because she wasn't sure if I liked her (she was suspecting it). Anyway, after watching this video I think I'm prepared to kiss her if we're ever in a situation where it feels right and if I think she wants to. Thank you
I had my first kiss literally a couple days after my birthday and it was a girl I had a crush on for almost 2 years now, and at the time she was 13 and I was 14 so it was hard to tell someone you like them in middle school when your gay, but I actually needed advice b/c I wanted to make the first move but literally 2 months ago she walked me home and she kissed me and I didn’t even need to go for it so Dutchy glad your here to give some advice
i manifested her to like me back so now i just needed this😌
IF YOU'RE WITH AN ASEXUAL OR DEMISEXUAL PARTNER, MAKE SURE THEY'RE OK WITH KISSING/HUGGING/TOUCHING ETC! SOME PEOPLE ARE FINE WITH IT, SOME AREN'T!
Of course, this goes for any partner, not just ace pals, but just be extra respectful!
I AM *NOT* GOING TO USE THIS BECAUSE NO ONE LIKES ME :’,D
Same
"Why am I nervous? It's my fucking hand."
Honestly, girl, same
I'm watching this again 2 years after it came out because I just got myself a girlfriend, we've been on a few dates to get to know each other but we haven't kissed yet, or even held hands or anything lol. We have our 5th date later this week, and instead of going for coffee or ice cream as we have on all our other dates, this time we're going to be watching TV at her place. I want to begin the more intimate stuff with her, but I haven't had a whole lot of practice. I've dated 2 girls before, the first was my best friend and we made out a few times, but the second was a Tinder date and we pecked lips 2 or 3 times and cuddled, but not more than that. However, this girl I'm dating has never been kissed, I'm the first person she's dating. At any rate I want to try holding her hand as we watch TV, and maybe cuddling if she's up for it, and I might want to go in for the kiss, if she's comfortable with it. Wanted some good old Dutchy tips lol. Anyway most likely no one will read this but I'm going to post it anyway for the heck of it.
love you dutchy
Love you more!
@@MsDickerz Merry Christmas Dutchy❤🌲
we are early yass I turned the bell notifications onn
Oh my goodness you liked my comment ahhh
OML NO JOKE MY FIRST RELATIONSHIP WAS A TOTAL *NIGHTMARE* Swear to god it would be 10000 times less terrible if i had seen this video when i was in it. (Well maybe a *little* better -m-)
Listen so Im shy like SUPER shy, but despite this, *I* was the one to ask my crush at the time, out. We were best friends until i realized i liked as more than a frendo. So I ask her out, she says yes, and the first week is great. We were hanging out more and since it was still the beginning of my first relationship, I was super shy and REALLY bad at flirting. So like, I mostly didn't, except occasionally because well im shy (but like at the time I was SUPER shy. So like basically me now just like times 200) and i just wanted HER to do all the flirting and i was just gonna go along with it. In spite of my hopeful thinking, she never did make any moves so LITTLE SHY WEEBISH KID HERE HAD TO DO HER BEST TO MAKE ALL THE MOVES, WITHOUT HAVING HER LITTLE HEART BEAT SO HARD IT FELL OUT OF HER CHEST. (Anyways, enough speaking in 3rd person)
SO, the relationship kept going and i tried to do my best to flirt but it really wasn't going anywhere. One day she started acting different. She started to snap at me a lot, and push me around and take my small size to her advantage. (Not like sexually just like hitting me and pinching me and grabbing and not letting go, just like stuff i wasn't comfortable with. And i couldn't fight back because well 1) Im like really weak and 2) I dont like confrontation, but nonetheless, i did my best to ask her to stop but she just DIDNT. She'd just laugh it off and say "Calm down it's just a joke!") So i also had this one friend, who I considered to be my best friend and before my relationship with this girl, she really didnt like her, but later on they became friends. (This'll be important in a sec i promise)
So as my gf at the time was doing this, i started to get fed up w/ her bs and started to fight back. When she would snap at me, I would snap at her, when she would push me around, i would snap at her, and when she would take advantage of me, i would snap at her. So remember how i mentioned my best friend at the timr right? She started to snap at me too. My gf had been telling her all about me snapping at her and now my best friend started calling me a terrible gf and wouldn't even *think* about thinking otherwise. Thats RIGHT my gf had been talking about me BEHIND MY BACK, WITH MY BEST FRIKING FRIEND. After that they BOTH started snapping at me, they BOTH started pushing me around, and guess wut? THIS SHY LITTLE WEEB LET THEM. I am SO pissed at myself for letting them do that shit to me, i swear to god. Anyways, you might be asking rn 'But why does that have anything to do with this video??' Well let me give u the answer my little gay children.
The two of us decided to break up and i asked her why she was also so pissed at me. HER RESPONCE MAN- I CANT EVEN. SHE SAID THAT THE REASON THAT SHE WAS ALWAYS SO PISSED AT ME, WAS BECAUSE I WAS SO SHY, THAT SHE WAS SCARED TO MAKE A MOVE AND DO ANYTHING THAT WOULD REMOTELY MAKE US A COUPLE, BECAUSE SHE DIDNT WANT TO FORCE ME INTO ANYTHING. I SWEAR TO GOD MAN. ALL YOU EXTROVERTS OUT THERE DONT UNDERSTAND THE PAINS OF A GAY INTROVERT.
Damn that turned into more of a vent than a youtube comment holy shit
*SCREECHES IN HAPPY LESBIAN IN RESPONSE TO A HEART FROM DUTCHY*
This is so crappy that I actually can relate (except I’m too shy to even get a gf let alone ask someone out). I’m feeling your pain ‘man’. God that sucks.
GASP :0
YES. I HAVE MET ONE OF MY SHY BRETHREN. COME, SISTER, LET US FIND HAPPINESS TOGETHER IN OUR MUTUAL LACK OF DESIRE FOR SOCIAL INTERACTION. (yay! im so happy that someone gets it!) (also im sorry i get really weird around other shy people lol)
BIGGER GASP :00
FINALLY I HAVE MET ANOTHER SHY ONE THAT UNDERSTANDS HOW TO ACT NORMAL (kinda) BUT STILL QUIET AROUND OTHERS SOCIAL HUMANS BUT WHEN THEY COME ACROSS ANOTHER ONE LIKE THEM THEY GO CRAZY AND IT’S LIKE AN ANTISOCIAL SOCIAL PARTY!
Thaaaaanks dutchy! ❤️ that actually helped a lot! I'm 16 and haven't kissed anyone before, but I have someone I really like, and I might think we could be something, I don't know 😶 but I hope 😅🤞🏼🍀
But whit your advise I feel a little bit more ready than before I watched this video! 🥳❤️
So thank you! ❤️
I love you a lot! And I hope you will have a merry Christmas and a happy new year! 🥳❤️
getting ready for when I finally meet my long distance girlfriend in person
This women deserves more subscribers!
I haven’t had a crush yet, I’m a loner.
Great advice video! We just recently had our 25th dating anniversary, so it's also 25 years since I last kissed my crush for the first time.
Video: how to KISS your CRUSH for the first time
Me: Been there, done that, never got the promotion -_-.
I've never been this early lmao. Love you Dutchy❤❤🏳️🌈🏳️🌈💗💜💙💗💜💙
YASSS
Isabella Alvarado ❤️❤️❤️❤️
not sure this will work for 5000 miles away I can only try
Lottie Stirling Hundred from me if I could
@@Zanderren it sucks
Good luck.
Smudges hi like your profile picture
@@Zanderren Thanks! xD I drew it
just finished the video and I loved it
10/10 content from our bi baddie daddy lol
do y'all have tips for have a crush on ur straight close friend?? (not quite bestfriend but we are super close)
hope y'all have a great day!!
Love a bicon who talks about consent! Consent is SO IMPORTANT!
I’m watching this for my girlfriend 😂 because I want to make our first kiss important because I love her 🥰
Hi
Bye
Daddiii_Sam excuse me that rude treat people the way you want to be treated
Ellie Nichols i'm pretty sure ... that wasn't meant to be rude...
Che Nupet hi thank you I just want to make sure you can’t be to careful🙂🙂
Hi back
EXITEDDDDD IS MY LIFE HAS COME TO THISSSS
Omg, im going to my gf's house soon and we've discussed our first kiss together so this was perfect timing. Wth
Kissing my girlfriend of 2 weeks for the first time. Its my first ever kiss but not hers.im super nervous, wish me luck! 😬
Dutchy i cant believe your nearly at 70k
Me: can’t even get my crush to like me back and skips step two (ask her out) and gone to three (🎵 “gO oN aNd KiSs ThE GiRL” 🎵) that was a sad Disney joke nobody will recognize... :,3
You make all my bad days better and you are the best person in the world and I got over not knowing my sexuality with you
it's hard to watch a video about kissing when you have no one to kiss 😩
When you said A B or C I yelled out A lol. Okay here’s the tea, so I’m a lesbian and my best friend is a lesbian and I’ve liked her for awhile now, and then something bad happened and I’m not able to see her anymore, well since I couldn’t take the sadness anymore I secretly got her number and texted her a huge paragraph on how I was sorry and I missed her and then I told her how I had feelings for her because I may never get to tell her in person so- and she replied back saying she has had a crush on me too and SJSJS- btw have I mentioned I’m 13.. LOL IK IM YOUNG. But I’m just learning young cause you never know..
My love life:
Me:I like u
Her:I’m straight
Me:I like u
Her:I have a GF
I want to come out to my family as a lesbian. I know they’ll be accepting about that, but I don’t know how happy they’ll be when I tell them I’m not a virgin... 😂
I- just dont tell them that part
I wanted to say "You do you, mate!" But then i finished reading your comment and now i'm not so sure
I know this may have been awkward to film but this is a really good tutorial. I wish I’d seen it when I was in that period of life ❤️
(Also low-key wish I could have shown this to my last guy-kissing partner because that whole “tongue straight in” thing happened and he NEVER MOVED IT)
Idk why I'm watching this now but I'm still taking notes for when the quarantine is over
Thanks for the great video! I only found your channel a few days ago and I love it! Finding this channel was like an early much needed christmas present. Greetings from Germany!
dutchy: do not break eye contact
my adhd:
*no*
I just saw my gf today at my basketball practice and we haven’t kissed yet because were really not able to see each other and im so nervous and this video really is helping right now thank you 🥰❤️
I feel like I’m getting my hopes up by watching these videos as if it gonna happen 😂😂😂
I’m so exited I’ve been waiting all day!!
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
I can successfully say that these videos have helped me get my current girlfriend. Thank you, from a random stranger in England. ❤️ Also, have a happy holiday season!
Oh Dutchy, what I would’ve done without you this year! Love you, have an awesome Christmas and New Year! ❤️
GUURRRRLLL UR THE MOST AMAZING RUclipsR EVER!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
you are literally saving my life
I’m planning on confessing to my crush that I like her in just over a year. I’ve told her before but I know I need to let out my feelings properly for her eventually. The reason I’m planning to in just over a year because that seems like such a long time. I know my feelings will still be so freaking real in just over a year still. We’ll also both be at different unis so I won’t have to see her everyday if I completely embarrass myself by telling her. Even if she has a boyfriend or girlfriend she deserves to know right idk. I mean she’s my best friend so hopefully things will turn out well anyway. I also know I’ve felt things and I think she has too at some point. I’m gonna see what happens in a year but that’s what I’m planning
Yesterday I was sitting in front of the sea with my crush and I really wanted to kiss her but didn't know where to start! How unlucky I am for not watching this before!
Duchy: make sure your breath smells nice
*Mommm we needa go shopping!*
i wish i would get a crush on someone who would like me even a little bit
i think my crush liked me for a while but when we tried to meet again it was really hard cause she's so busy :[
I should've watched this last night before I went on a date
"where do you want to kiss your crush"
at Mc Donalads after I treat them some Mcnuggets :3
no one:
Dutchy: 1:20 h e c k
🥺💕
Have an amazing Gaymas Dutchy!! Hehe 💖💛💚💙💜🏳🌈💖💜💙
great timing i wanted to kiss my girlfriend THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO ❤
Dutchy be like: WOOO. IT IS HOT. I AM HOT.
and I’m like: IKKKK🥵🥵❤️❤️