HOW TO KNOW IF YOU'RE BI
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- HOW TO KNOW IF YOU'RE BI
Hey fam! In honour of pride month, I thought i'd sit down and get a lil sentimental and deep with y'all. In today's video I decided to take you guys on a journey to my coming out experience, how I realised I was bi, what I did to realise this etc etc! I seriously hope this can help some of you out if you're struggling with your sexuality atm whether its bisexuality or not. I'm here for you always! So much love and respect for the Dutchy fam!! If you have any other qs please don't hesitate to dm me or comment below and i'll be sure to answer you! :) xxxx
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I know last video I said I was probably not bi but I'm starting to think I am more and more.
Thanks Dutchy for the video!
Dutchy I’m a bi baddie lol 😂 and I always will be
Dutchy I’m hear! X
Just came out as Bisexual 2 weeks ago your videos have been a great help in getting the courage to tell my parents.❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Dutchy right here!
I’m so far into the closet I probably rule Narnia by now
Update: I’m pan, non-binary, and ace and have been out of the closet since September of 2021!
oOp felt that
Rock Styler lmaooo
Underrated
same
HAHAHAHAHAHA
Lol I'm confused I like guys and I'm attracted to girls but I carnt imagine being in an actual relationship with a girl
ineedhelp same
ineedhelp Same
Literallt
You could be bisexual but have a strong preference regarding your romantic feelings :) as I understood bisexual doesn't equal biromantic. Take your time to figure it out though, I am still as well xx
ineedhelp kinda same.. I don’t know if I’m attracted to girls but I think I could but I can’t imagine being in a relationship with one
Me: Im straight tf
Also me: *sees a hot girl* HOLY SHI WAIT WHA-
Elmo’SWorld Oof SAMEEE HAHAAH
omfg same bro, i can’t even fall asleep because i’m thinking about my sexuality idk why. i haven’t had a crush on a girl, only guys but i’ve seen so many pretty masculine girls that idk i get this feeling about but i’m so fucking confused. idk why i’m telling you this but yeah i need help haha...ha
Ella Haley same here ...I’m sooo confused I need serious help lol
Ella Haley you just explained my exact situation
I am so confused right now. I'm fantasizing about an old friend and I feel so bad and ashamed. Like we're not tk but I crave to be with her. And I just knew I used to have crushes on guys. Jokingly said to my therapists I might've crushed on her when I was younger as well but now I'm actually having weird feelings. It's so godamn odd. And I had a bam moment and usually it doesn't happen like that so now I'm confused af.
Watched this
Realized I was bi
But didn’t have my headphones in
My sister found out the same time I did
😂
Lol
😂😂
Lol that would be even more funny if she found out she was bi too
That’s a mistake I’m watching with headphones in
Oof
me: i’m gay
also me: **sees hot guys abs**
“wAiT-“
Yeah
Same
Ricardo Milos
me: I’m gay.
also me: **sees hot guy abs**
also also me: wait, I’m a male
Mood saw my crush abs😳😳❤❤
I def like both genders.... but I just can’t see myself dating or marrying a girl....help
(im a girl btw)
if you grew up in a heteronormative society (one that promotes heterosexuality as the normal or preferred sexual orientation) then you may have internalized homophobia, causing you to not be able to see yourself with someone of the same gender. hope this helps ☺️❤️
Same
@@bug7313 I-
Sorry to be a pain but plz can you help me and give me tips to figure my self out thanks
Cherry Cola I like both but I would see myself to be only with a guy
Like I like girls but guys
But girls but guys
I AM CONFUSING THE CONFUSION
"I am Bi till the day I die"
-Dutchy 2019
Iconic
THATS WHAT I SAID IN THE CHAT AFTER SHE SAID IT EXACTLY
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@@christinatsomp3416 Are u sure cause I commented it when she said it just not on the chat
@@hannaho2867 i mean i just said it in the chat not in a comment lolz 😂
@@christinatsomp3416 Sorry I couldn't tell if you were mad at me and i was really confused lmao
I'm definitely attracted to both genders, but I can only see myself married to a guy. This is why I've been questioning my sexuality so much and don't know if I'm bi or not. Any answers?
Edit: I already posted this in the comments, but it seems like people have not seen it.
I love seeing all of these comments helping me out and others asking me for help. In these past six months I have come out as liking both guys and girls. I have not put a label on myself, because labels are for food and clothing and I just don't feel I need one. I have recently come to terms though with the fact that I am most likely bisexual, but heteroromantic. That being said, there is still room for my sexuality to change as I have never been with either. Also, I do lean more towards guys than girls, but that doesn't mean I am any less attracted to girls. I have found that this is a normal thing as well and many people who come out as bi or anywhere around that label tend to have a preference. I hope my experience has helped anyone who has been asking themselves the same question I asked before and thank you to the other comments who have given me great advice and have helped me in some way come to terms with and accept my sexuality.
Ooh really well come 🌷🌷i love u forever i like you merry with me am seiouse 😍😍💑💑💗💗💗
i feel the same way, it could be a preference? i don't know but i do know i feel this way too..
literally same!!
Me too! It's so confusing.
It really can be that society shows us the males as the best, so it may be that or just your preference, in the end you are the one who can know❤️❤️
Being bi has got to be the most difficult, cause you can’t understand straight or gay, you’re just stuck in the middle of confusion. Dam!
I understand
yea but you get the best of both worlds ;)
I've always just had crushes on boys and never on girls but i recently discovered I'm sexually attracted to women so I think I'm bisexuell. Bur I am still very young so I decided to just wait and to not lable myself until I am sure.
Same
omg me too
Same
Same
How old?? Cus me too
Pride quote
You can't punch the gay out of me more than I can punch the ignorance out of you.
Yes, this is from a different video, it just struck my heart.
_xXDarkWolfXx _ love!!!
but ignorance is outpunchable
_xXDarkWolfXx _ a similar quote was said by my baby Chris Colfer(or as I call him by the nick name I gave him Chrissy bear)in my favourite tv show Glee
Glee!
Yep
*Me: is straight*
*Also me: sees a really gorgeous girl and imagining our furture together and naming our future kids*
Me: excuse me
Bruh I’m so confused
Me: I’m not bi I like guys only
Also me: **has dreams of dating girls and then adopting little babies and having a cup of coffee every morning since the day we got married**
TF?!
littlekitten Fr I’m over here like “ah yes I’m straight.”
And my minds like “lol are u sure about that?”
me: sees pretty girls
me: omg they are so pretty wow🥺
also me: *panicks because i think im bi*
also me: *goes too this boy on tiktok*
me: never mind😍
Right?!
Me literally talking to myself bc I’m freaking out: I’ve only had guy crushes
Also Me: Wait, but why do I suddenly want to kiss my best friend *confused screaming*
littlekitten furniture
Me: says something that sounds gay-ish
Mom: r u gay?
Me: n-no
Mom: oh I wouldn't care if u were I would still love u!
Me: IK!
Me later by myself: I'm mean....I'm bi not gay....so I didn't lie...
bisexuality is just either kids who think they’re hip and then they kiss a girl and vomit OR people who are too scared to say they’re a lesbian
But it’s different for Boys .
@@funeebuneegirl700 is that a joke? If yes, it's not funny
Hahaha literally..... Mom just decided I was without me admitting it
My mom asked me if I liked girls because I knew about lgbtq+ and the bisexual colors
Edit: I'm pan
Same tho
list of people who make me think i’m bi:
1. a best friend
2. Billie Eilish
3. That one girl from “The Grinch” that the mayor proposed to when she was young
4. lesbians from tiktok/girls from tiktok
5. any rando girl i find attractive
6. another one of my best friends
7. billie eilish
McMegaLego Teo Billie 🥰
Or jade from victorious lmfao
Same, There's just something about Billie eilish
8. Marceline from Adventure time
9. That one villan from Kimpossible
What about lola from shark tale
I'm so confused because idk if I'm bi or if I'm just making up the whole thing in my head. I don't know what's real (as in my feelings) and I don't feel ready to start dating for a lil while, I feel like that/experimenting would help me realize if those feelings are real. Idk im just trying to figure my brain out. I think I kinda realized that I might have a crush on a girl but am still wrapping my head around it.
edit: hello, I made this comment 2 years ago now which seems crazy. About a year after I wrote the comment and watched this video I was comfortable and accepting of my own sexuality :) I identify as bi and lemme tell you the amount of crushes I have because I like men and women is astounding (though theyre mostly fictional crushes lmao). Take your time and don't pressure or expect anything, that is what I did and one day I just realized "oh, yeah im bi". Things will work out in the end and if any of you need help or want someone to talk to we can chat on insta/snap etc :) stay strong and be open with yourself
this is exactly me and i haven’t been able to put it into words. reading through these comments is helping knowing other people are in the same situation. good luck! 💕
Ella Hinkle good luck to you too! I’m still processing and I keep going back and forth but I feel like I’m slowly getting somewhere
Same- I’m confaued
Same
THATS EXACTLY WHAT IM GOING THROUGHHH
all of my bi friends have a preference towards the same gender and i feel insecure because im bi and yet im more attracted to the opposite gender. im lowkey scared of being straight after being so open about being bi, which is why i get so insecure about having a preference for the opposite gender... welp
It's still valid. You can be either homosexual-leaning or heterosexual-leaning, but your still Bi. I'm personally the former, but both are valid.
Same😭
Me too! Sometimes I feel like I'm straight bc I have a strong preference for the opposite gender (boys in my case) But I've been attracted to girls as well.
Same this is me
Saaaaame. My solution is to just experiment, what else can you do?
my best friend is bisexual and mostly into girls, and it’s been that way since 6th grade, and it’s kind of our joke that i’m the most straight person alive and we’re totally opposite, but i honestly think i’m bisexual. not towards her but, in general. i’m the most stereotypical straight person but i feel attracted to girls, and it’s not crazy to imagine myself kissing one. ive always been boy crazy, and always will be. i’m become obsessed with girl in reds music, and i cannot tell if i just am confused, or i’m actually into girls too. i feel i’d prefer guys but would still be into girls. i feel like i can’t talk to my best friend about this and it’s always on my mind, like a little secret between myself and i. i feel like i can’t talk to her because she was so sure of her sexuality. i’m not. and she knew so early and i didn’t.
I felt the exact same way, but I ended up forcing myself to talk to some friends about it and figure my shit out. I'm a total lesbian but everyone always thinks I'm straight so I was in pretty much the same situation with you. Even if your experience is very different from your best friend's, you're still valid and you'll figure it out! It's okay to be unsure and to ask for help with figuring it out, and it might actually help a lot to compare notes with her since you think you might have the same sexuality
Arielle Nason i ended up talking to my best friend, and she knows now!! she has discovered she’s a lesbian and only into girls, and i discovered i’m bisexual! i feel a lot better then i did 5 months ago:)
lydia rosario
Congrats!
Oof I Am so bored thank you so much!!!
So true
When I think of being bi I start crying, I feel trapped on being straight.
how do I stop that?
(edit: 8 months later, i'm happy and planning on coming out to my parents soon! this is proof things do and will get better
hey i was like that in the beginning... I tough for a long time i was a lesbian but then i was straight again and so go one.. until I finally realised i’m bi. It’s just a matter of time. I used to cry to but i’m learning to accept myself as a bisexual. You just have to accept yourself like the way you are.. And maybe you’re crying bc you’re afraid of smth (like your parents) so please don’t cry it’s normal for everyone. I know it’s hard but if you love someone you can’t hide it so yeah
@@Leticia-rc2lf 💙
Sameeee
AmyPondOfficial same 🥺, it feels good. When persons have the same problems
I listened to a song and just said, oh I'm bi and I stick with that, if I feel uncomfortable in situations surrounding my sexuality I just remember that song and remember the freedom and turmoil and how I overcame it slowly.
I still have anxiety about it but it's comforting to remember the night I came out to myself because what I learned is that not many people really care what you like as long as no one gets hurt without consent.
What you like is what you like and that's not gonna change with defiance but with acceptance in time you'll feel better.
I’m bisexual and proud. I’m out and I feel so comfortable with my sexuality and with myself now 🙃Love you Dutchy, you are so inspiring!
Larissa L So proud of you!! Love you too! 😻😻
Dutchy thank you 😊
i’m still not completely comfortable with being bi, I haven’t come out yet cause i’m too nervous
@@bentek3654 Same here. Nobody in my family knows I'm bisexual. I wish I could just proudly say to them.
Larissa L
Very proud! It takes a lot of courage to come out to people.
I’m definitely bisexual but I have such a fear to “act” on it because of internalized homophobia from growing up with bigots
Is it just me or has anyone else had a crush in their best friend??
I did once. It didn't end that well 😢😢
Damn don't attack me like that
My best friend had feelings for me (one year ago) and we’re still best friends I don’t have problems with that
Yup
Yup -//////-
something that kept me from coming to terms with my sexuality was that (just like you) i never had girl crushes or anything like that when i was a kid. you're the first youtuber that says you never looked back and realized how gay you were and i'm so glad now i can see myself in someone else's story
Letícia Bastos Same here. ❤️
Looking back at childhood........holy shit I was so fucking gay 😳
@@slug8913 XD
I feel exactly the same. I’m soo happy that I’m not alone with it
Me being a closeted bisexual 😐
Me: sees a cute girl
Me being sad that I can’t talk to her without my dads girlfriend saying “ew a lesbian”
I’m sorry, and I completely understand you. I’m not sure if I’m bisexual, but I’ve been consistently showing signs for almost a whole year now. I’m Christian, so my parents don’t exactly support being attracted to the same sex 😞
screw your dads girlfriend🙂🙂🙂
😭this made me so sad (I also relate to this)
He kicked her out the door literally last month!
Cutie Potato YAYY
parents: who are you watching?
me: *lists many youtubers*
parents: how many of those are straight?
me: one...
that one youtuber came out as bi two weeks later...
Sarah D 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
capitalsscareme lol
Shane Dawson?...
was it superwoman?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I had that dreams too, and I like it. In real life, I'm not really into girls. But sometimes I do feel sexually attracted to them. This is confusing.
minister zero I feel you on that..... I’m confused too
Same
I literally dont even know if im bi so i fr looked up "how do you know you're bi" 😭
ME PLEASE ✋💀
@@serenity9926 same🥲
I feel like if we are that far deep into the Google searches we are bi
Same omg
I'm still not sure if I'm bi or a full on lesbian, bc now that I think of it, a lot of the guys I liked I forced myself to like. (Like I tried to convince myself I liked them until I kind of had feelings for them) But I never have had to do that with girls. Sadly, the only other girls who like girls at my school either already have girlfriends or are my two best friends, so...I think I'm gonna be single for a hot minute.
Lily O. Same girl same 😔✌️
Lily O. legit i always thought boys were the hottest and my crushes were so obsessive & then i got a boyfriend and was like “ummm ...gross”
THIS IS LITERALLY MY SITUATION RN! i’m not sure if i’m bi or lesbian and my best friends are both gay. i’ve dated guys and now that i think about it i really never felt like real relationship feelings. i- WOW!
“tried to convince myself i liked them” - oof i felt that
Then ur lesbian duh jus being honest lesbhonest u lesbian
Am I bi if I have a crush on a guy and I think a lot of girl are pretty attractive!?
I am *CONFUSION*
Same!
Same that's literally why I'm here
Ye
That’s why I’m here aaa
that’s why i’m here too🥴
You know, the more I think about it, the more I feel like I really am bi. It's hard to tell tho because despite being a 17 year old girl, I've never had much experience with any gender (probably because of my low self-esteem and feeling of unworthiness). But anyway, when I was younger I only had crushes on guys, although occasionally I might have felt attracted to female celebrities, but it still somehow felt different from liking males. Then there was this weird time-period a couple years back when I was mildly attracted to one of my best friends who had just recently come out as a lesbian (and now identifies as non-binary/gender fluid), but nothing ever happened with that and we're now just really close friends. I've also always been kind of obsessed with anything LGBTQ+ related so that sometimes makes me question my sexuality. But, I guess time will tell eventually, though it would be nice to know for sure instead of having to just guess 🙃
Omgosh why is this meeeee
Like is like you are considering your profile pic
Are you me? Same tho, my self esteem is too low and I'm not atracting anyone, how am I supposed to experiment with that.
Same :/ 20 yrs old and still not sure what’s going on in my head
Okay, this really explains me. I’ve noticed how I would always want to watch shows and read books with lesbian characters, and how I find straight couples so boring on shows/movies and books. And I also noticed that I became more attractive to multiple people after realizing they liked girls...idk if that’s just me wanting to be bi??? I have a homophic family so idk why I would want to, since I would have to go through h*ll dealing with them. But I think that a part of me does want to be bi, or at least will be disappointed if I was straight. If anyone in the comments can help me out and tell me if they relate to this(and if they know their sexuality), I would really appreciate it! :)
“Dutchy you silly b*tch” ICONIC
Eliza Grace Rowell hahahahaha
I love ur pfp
Maybe I jus think girls are pretty🤷♀️??? But there’s this one girl that makes my heart pound❤️😬🥺
Same.... idk..... wat am i??
@Nerish Marak
I was so sure I was straight until this one girl, who I thought was very pretty and was a good friend of mine at the time, brushed up against my leg and I felt a little something. Also I discovered the singer Billie Eilish and also felt something different.
@@addieeeson There is this one girl i like , who i also thought she likes me back.. so i texted her literally everyday, cause i knew she wasn't straight so i thought to give it a try. She was really nice but the sad part is, i was always the first one to text and she would just reply then i felt she was just being polite and i stop texting her.... tbh she was the only girl who i actually liked though. I just felt gay only around her.
@Nerish Marak
I get this so much. It’s worse when they lead you on too. The girl I’m talking about would just stare into my eyes and look at my lips every time I talked to her, but she did that with some other people too so I thought it was just her... but she would always be the one to face time me first because I don’t have enough balls to just face time someone out of no where I’m barely good friends with.
@@addieeeson I thought this girl likes me cause even my friends noticed her staring at me often alot. When i was absent at school, My friend told me that she was asking my friend whether i knew she was gay or not....
I feel sad cause now when i m actually feeling for her she is just like being polite😑 i hate it..
8 year old me: im straight
13 year old me: **sees a girl in mom jeans**
hippity ho hippity hi i am now bi
A deep coming out story
@beginner drawing bro same its so painful 😿
Lol btw nice pfp
I am like 🥰💖😳Women😳💖🥰 but also 😍✨🌟men🌟✨😍
@@originalitea8271 for me its more like 💕🧚♀️😻women😻🧚♀️💕 and 👁👄👁👍men👁👄👁👍
this just showed up in my yt recommendations.
IT KNOWS
Devon watched sweater weather once too many times
You made me feel so valid because of this video. It’s hard to explain how you figured out you’re bi, well it’s hard for me. I didn’t experiment, i just knew. But hearing you saying this made me feel very valid. Thank you for making this video ❤️
Laura Xx Aww Laura that makes me so happy, I’m so glad! Yes absolutely! You’re so welcome ❤️❤️
I find guys and girls attractive, but when I imagine it, I can’t see myself with a girl, but I’ve had dreams of me being with a girl
me too idk what that means lol
Same
Wow I’ve been questioning my sexually for sometime. I currently identify as bi (but I’m in the closet irl 😣) but idek if I can identify as bi because I’ve only ever had crushes on boys (granted, they were a long time ago) and never a girl but I do think that girls are pretty and stuff which is why I identify as bi but idk because it feels like I’m just pretending to be bi because I watch a lot of lgbt stuff and am trying to fit in or whatever and idk what I’m saying anymore lol. Great video though! This kinda helps me feel better
I’m in the same situation....
I’ve have 2 crushes on girls tho
this is sooo where im at rn, except a bit behind lol. We'll figure it out, the best thing i've heard was when this girl told her coming out story and she said even though she's out, she's still sometimes unsure. You can be out to yourself and still be unsure, as she said, take your time hon
This is kinda late but you could be biromantic! I don’t know whether you’ve heard of this or not because I find that In the community we talk more about sexual attraction and not romantic. You could be both sexually and romantically attracted to boys, but with girls you only want a romantic relationship. There are many different forms such as panromantic, biromantic, homoromantic, heteroromantic, demiromantic, etc. maybe you’re one of these?
@@aquaphobia1369 No it's not late! Thanks for the response! I actually am not very into sex (but maybe it because im still young lol). And I think that I may be into girls more lol. Its funny how things change
Oh my gosh this is exactly me! I never know how to explain it because I don’t want to label myself something I’m not and be a poser....
I feel like I’m sorta bi but I’m young so I don’t want label myself or anything, I think I have a crush on this girl but I also think it’s my brain almost thinking that if I’m bi I think I need to have a crush on a girl so I think I have a crush on her, but idk I also think of some girls as... pretty... like I want to be “friends” with them but I think it’s jut like how I find some guys cute I find some girls cute too but this video helped a lot thank you so much
Omg same exact thing happening to me rn
I want you to know that it’s ok. You can label yourself and labels also can change. It doesn’t mean your begging label was a lie or fake.
Same for most of that
Same but now I am having fantasies of marrying of a woman-
@@apbern4797 I tried to push myself to be straight for so long but I got a girlfriend and now it just feels so right
Hearing someone that's bi say that the majority of their crushes were on boys in childhood feels so validating. A lot of stories I've read, people had crushes on the same sex in childhood and I felt alone as someone who was boy crazy. Thank you for sharing :)
Mom: are you gay? I won't be mad
Me: uh.. yes?
Mom: *gets mad*
Me: HHHH YOU SAID YOU WERENT GOING TO-
The “I won’t be mad” is always a trick 😳
@@sibby4754 Well I'm trying to figure out how to tell my parents, so this helps a lot, thx so much 😳
May I just say...
l love you.
Layla Anne I LOVE YOU
I truly needed this. 🤍🥺
i didn't like it
because i don't want to ruin 420 UwU
Me: thinks I’m straight
Also Me: goes through a “am I bi?” Phase
Also me: nah
Also me:6 months later “hmmm?” Idk
Me rn: I’m having the biggest crush on ruby rose
Me: IS CONFUSION
Understand!
I'm going thru the ''am I bi?'' phase right now and it's too fucking confusing
Update: i am bi :)
Impxrfxction ikr
Tiana Harriott yup
@@moony2352 same and I am scared because I am in serious relationship with a guy
So basically I'm having a hard time with my sexuality because I am atracked to both but I'm Christian and I'm scared if its wrong. I know you are gonna say your Bi obviously but it makes it much more harder to decide if its ok when not knowing if its ok.
rachel holmberg I feel you girl. I’ve been raised a Christian my whole life, and my parents don’t agree with gay/lesbian/bisexual
I’m not religious but I know that god would have only made you like that If he intended you like that. Gods whole thing is love. He forgives others for sins (this isn’t a sin) and the Bible also says stuff like not to wear mixed fabric.
He will love you for you.
My advice...
Just chill the fuck out. It's not that complicated.
I’m not sure if it’s ok or not but I heard someone ask a priest if homosexuality is a sin or not and he said only if you act on it
It is ok. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise.
I would like to think that God would love everybody unconditionally (If there was a God of course)
Im 13 and bi curious im not sure still
Love u 🙋🌷😍💑💗
Muhammad Imran tf is that
mia gacha hey... i’m bicurious too... just turned 14 ... im a girl lol
Same here
I'm bi curious too (12) and all I know is I'm not 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual
I can't ever see myself with a girl. But I I'm still confused.
I feel the same, including that i have so much anexity and i also cry so much. Somethimes i have pannic attacks.
No se Hernandez SAME
same
Also, I'm going to come out to my parents next year, by jumping out of my closet, and throwing rainbows everywhere.
_xXDarkWolfXx _ That’s the best thing I’ve ever heard! Proud of you!
That's great I'm also coming next year to my mother,in June🌈
UwU
Wish y'all the best.
_xXDarkWolfXx _ good luck 😱
I’ve seen some girls at my school and I lowkey thought they were really cute. But I am into guys as well. Tbh I don’t really know if I am bi or if I just generally thought that that girl was pretty.
I know I’m late, but same with me! I have a friend, and at the beginning of the year, I was obsessed with trying to get her attention. I wasn’t trying to be friends because of her looks, but she looked so kind and so cuteeeee (she still does :D)! Around that time as well, I was starting to notice that everyone looked really cute for some reason (boys and girls), but it never even occurred to me that I might be bi. I’m still questioning my sexuality, but little by little, I’ve been starting to tell myself that I probably don’t identify as straight. I’ve only had guy crushes, but some girls are really pretty, and you seriously have to question yourself for a second 😳
I have a problem and I need help. I’ve had crushes on guys and never on girls but I’m attracted to girls and I think I’m bi but I don’t know for sure and I’m still really young (13) and I’m scared that if I come out I will figure out that I’m actually not. Does anyone have any advice that could help me? I’d really appreciate it!!
I know this was a while ago lol but just remember that you don’t have to label yourself right away. Give yourself time to understand your sexuality and how you feel. I’m going through the same thing :)
That’s exactly the same with me😔
I wouldn't suggest coming out since you're still so young & haven't had a crush on a girl yet, but even if you're wrong at first there's no shame in that! The only way you'll truly know if through time and experience. Like literally I started out identifying as pansexual when I was 12, then went to straight until I was 15, and then to bisexual until a month ago when I realized I'm a lesbian (at 17). So really don't worry about being right or wrong, just take it as you go and learn more about yourself!
going through the exact same thing sis
I'm so glad there is someone out there like me, I'm 14 and never had a real crush on a girl but sometimes when I see a girl I notice that I'm like "damn, she hot". I have a crush on a boy rn but there is also a cute girl in my class and I don't know if I'm "forcing" myself to think she's cute or if I'm really attracted to her. Halp
ITS UR FAVORITE BI BADDYYYYYYYYYY
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My parents: who are you subbed to...
Me: Dutchy
Them: but she's gay
Me:Okie, Katzun
Them: She's gay too...
Me: fine. Halsey
Them: Still gay
Me: him and him
Them: again, gay.
Me:😀🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🤦
I don't want to be in this world...
The real question is: how do they know all of these people are gay?
My parents don’t even know who Rowan Atkinson is, let alone Dutchy or Katzun.
Maybe my parents aren’t internet educated enough.
Because I talk about them being gay....
_xXDarkWolfXx _
Whoop. That’s a hint hint towards your parents, huh? Lol
When you can relate to this
Your parents sound great, wish I could meet em
Me: I’m straight
Also me: *sees a cute girl in public* I-
Can i be bi curious like liking girls but being curious on boys(im girl)?
Poowoys The Puppies Yes!!
I at some point said I'm bi curious too so no problem. It's your choice of words
Notification-but-I-was-away-so-I'm-30-minutes-late squad!
3 hours for me...
Anne HP HAHAHA YAS
Anne HP poogiepis
Telling myself I’m straight... Watches euphoria for the first time: I’m in love with rue
I’m bi and proud you’ve helped me so much and I just wanted to say thanks! :)
i just want say happy pride to you
I am so so proud of you cutie!! You’re so welcome!
I actually felt really awkward when I first started having sexual thoughts for one of my mates, and I have come to a conclusion. It is easier for girls to accept bisexuality than it is for boys, because the pure thought of sex with another guy feels painful. At least my experience. Still discovering my sexuality here
Thank you so much for making this video. I've been struggling recently because I think I may be bi, but because I never had any tell-tale signs growing up that you always hear people talk about, I've been doubting myself. Hearing you say the same is so encouraging!!
I've only been attracted to boys so far, but im still open to girls.
Anybody else?
Yeah..
I'm here...
Yeah...
Is it a sign that when people say "that's gay" in school I get all defensive..
I do too lol its ok
No, it just means you aren’t homophobic
Me toooooo
Not necessarily, I have an ally friend (she has a bi sister) she gets super more defensive than me (I'm bi or gay, but I'm super shy)
When she talked about how girls r so pretty I really felt that cause I watch tiktok and I see all these guys on there doing dances and there cute and all but they don’t compare to girls honestly I’m only 13 so I’m still confused about it all
i knew i was bi when i had crushes on guys but i couldn’t imagine myself living with a guy in the future
I’m confused and I’m kinda young SOOOOO I’m never coming out 😩✌🏻
YALL UPDATE I CAME OUT A COUPLE WEEKS AGO TO MY DAD AND HE SUPPORT!
Stranger Thingsss congraaats!❤️
my family would smack me.But my brother knows that I’m bisexual lol.
Honest i want to come out but im to scared
Sarai Caldwell don’t be afraid, being closeted is worse than not because you won’t be ble to fully express yourself, if you come out you might feel more happy and a weight will be lifted of your shoulders
I’m just nervous because most of my friends are girls and I don’t want them to be like, “Don’t develop a crush on me or anything.”
I was 12 when I figured out I was bi I got bullied a little but my bff always said “go way you’re just jealous that you haven’t figured yourself out”
Me to my sister: Hey, I'm bi
My sister: Hey, me too
Damn
Funniest part is how we kinda look alike and used to pretend we were twins.
Same lol
that sounds like me and my sister😂
Also: being bi isn’t about being attracted 50/50 to both genders. We all have different relationships with each genders. You could be more Emotionally and romantically attracted to this gender, and physically attracted to that gender, you could also you can be like for ex. 20% physically attracted to girls and 80% on guys. And 80% emotionally attracted to girls and 20% on guys..
The way u say “knew” and “girl” is so cute
I’ve been confused my whole life. I am a Christian and I believe in God but I also believe he loves everyone here and wouldn’t discriminate yet I still feel like I’m wrong. I definitely know my family would not approve they’ve been telling me my whole life that it’s not okay. Yet when I was 7 years old in third grade I remember having a crush on my bestfriend. And I wanted to love her and kiss her and I don’t even know. But I also liked boys. I’ve always found them attractive in their own way. But at that age I still didn’t truly know what was right and what was wrong. A few years went by and I never thought about it again until I hit 8th grade and I discovered many many things. It’s been 8 years since I be been thinking about this and I’m so scared to say anything. I feel like I have always had this feeling where I know I like both yet I don’t want to admit to myself. And I’ve never said this out loud not texted it 😂 so i truly feel vulnerable but I’m scared to confirm anything yet
I totally understand. I'm Catholic, but I think I have feelings for boys and girls. My mom said she would support me if I was gay, but she doesn't really understand the whole Bi sexual thing. I still think she would support me though. But I'm also worried that I wouldn't be excepted in my church or school ( I got to a Catholic school) if I came out as bi. I think I'm going to give it some time before I know what I want. But I totally understand! Just know that I believe in you!💞
me: i’m so gay
sees guy: ew tf im more gay than i thought
Omg my crush came out to me
Sophie YAY
I’m still confused. The only girls I’ve ever been attracted to are like 3 girls off of TikTok. They all have short hair and look like boys.
Ya same I am also attracted to manly Tom boy womans. I am confused. Did you find out that you are a bi or not !?
Are you might just be attracted to more masc women. Which I experience too, therefore still not being sure if I’m Bi or not
Well then... Something you just said shook me to the core. You said how when you were younger you'd look at women and say to yourself they were so pretty and wanted to look like them..... When I was about 12 my grandparents caught my search history LMFAO but I was confused as hell. They asked me if I just wanted to look like them and out of fear said yes... Which was partly true. I aspired to have big boobs and got my wish lmaooo 😂 but even then something told me that wasn't all.
I've only ever been romantically attracted to men during my 26 years of life... But God. My friends were starting to notice I'd exclaim women's bodies were so gorgeous and I would say it was just from an artist point of view. But this one friend... It ended up being I couldn't sleep over with her anymore, or be in the same room when she was wearing certain things cause I couldn't handle the rush of hormones I've never gotten in such a way around a guy.... Which makes me sad... She was one of my best friends. I've never come out to anybody before. I'm 26 and in a relationship with a guy I love being with... But find myself accepting more everyday bi is probably my truth.
I'm a 17yo girl aspiring to be an artist , I do the same !!! But I'm not understanding if I am really liking female body form just because of my admiration as an artist or because I am attracted to them.
I'm Bisexual, I would say I'm leaning more towards girls but the thought of me having a boyfriend is still existent.
:3
same bro help 😭
Everyone here says they find girls attractive but cant imagine themselves with a girl 😭 I'm the opposite, I can imagine myself with a girl and wouldn't mind. BUT I dont get the same attraction when I see a girl, unlike when I see a guy where my heart beats fast and ughh - anyone else??
Yes! This is literally me! Like I can see myself with a girl, but with boys it be hitting different 😭 I feel more flustered/drawn to boys for some reason 😭😒 So glad it's not only me tho
@@bellatr1xz yesss I always thought I was the only one 😭 I had a dream about having a girlfriend literally this morning, but for some reason, guys are just "different" like girls are just *oh shes pretty* but guys are *okay wow- dammmmmm* 😩
@@callmeray663 Lmaoo sameee that's why I think I lean towards guys more but idk. It's hella confusing 😭😭😭
Me
I’m freaking out cuz it’s 1:52am and my girl best friend just asked me out 😅
How did it end?
how did it goo bro y'all together? 👀
Thank you so much for this video Dutchy. I am questioning my sexuality since a year now and today is the first time I really feel comfortable with my whole situation and with the thought of me being bisexual. It is so inspiring to me how open you are about your coming out story.🏳️🌈❤️
The idea with the video with your parents sounds like a really good idea :) You should totally do it 🏳️🌈💖
P.s.
So I live in the UK, and today I had this thing called a speaking and listening exam where I stand in front of my class and speak about a topic of my own choice from 3-5 minutes, and then answer questions about that topic.. I'm not out yet but I chose the LGBT Community, I was literally shaking all day and couldn't stop stressing out. But your videos gave me so much confidence and made me believe in myself.. Love ya Dutchy! HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONE!! 🏳️🌈❤💖
I'm alsi from the uk and had to do that last week and I also done a topic on the LGBTQ+ community but my teacher stopped me halfway through it and said thats all the time I have even though I still had at least two more minutes and most of the kids in my class were being super annoying and mean towards me but tbh I don't care what they think of me!😐❤🏳🌈 (I'm a girl and I'm pansexual)
@@frankie5602 It was the complete opposite with me, most people were super respectful, and some were just disrespectful idiots 😂 my speech lasted like 4 mins and 4 mins of questions.
That's really disrespectful that they were so mean and annoying to you.. At least you had the courage to go up there and talk about it 🏳️🌈💖 I was so stressed about it 😂and couldn't calm my self down for literally like 1-2 hours... (I'm a lesbian btw)
So I (male) have a crush on a girl. But mostly attracted to guys on TV and stuff. I don't know if I'm bi, gay, bi with preference of male, bi with preference of female or straight.
Your probably bi with a preference for guys :)
That's what I'm thinking at the moment. :)
When I look back at my childhood I can tell there were moments when I was crushing on girl😂 I remember having a crush on Jade from Victorious hahah
Lea Cherry that’s a mood!!
🙋🌷😍💑💗💗
i'm pretty sure i'm bi. but i'm just gonna be dating a guy because my parents don't support it.
I've seen a lot of comments on here from people who seem to be struggling, so I want to jump in and give my two cents: Give. It. Time. Don't rush anything and take as much time as you need. Don't let anyone rush you, either. Ever. Ever. It can be so hard (trust me, I know, had a horror year with it all last year but I'm through the worst of it now) but I PROMISE it'll be okay. Also (and I've also seen this pop up on this comment thread too) give your (romantic or otherwise) feelings time. Sometimes they develop later for one gender as opposed to the other, which was what happened with me. So, in summary: -Reach out for support if you feel you need it -Take your time (and don't let anyone rush you for anything) and -I PROMISE you, you'll be okay/it gets better. ❤️🌈
Hey random, question but do a lot of your videos get demonatized?
Bob ross the boss not yet actually, I’m pretty lucky!
I am pansexual but most of my friends are bi. Love yu vids Dutchy yur amazing!❤❤❤🏳🌈
Maisie Dewings That’s great 🥰 love you too cutie!
Is it normal for me to be bi but I'm only 11
It’s totally normal. There’s no specific age to figure out your sexual identity, and sometimes it happens while you’re young.
Thank you
I'm still in the closet ;w; at least for my family, thanks to your videos my bestfriends know now ⭐ Bi baddie here 🙋Love you our Bi Queen ❤
Sophie Mabbe aww I’m so proud of you Soph!!! 💕💕
@@MsDickerz thank you ^w^ ❤❤
Hi there Sophie (: id like to chat with you if possible. I swear im not a tiger, wont bite you. Anyways, greetings from California ✌
@@jordanvannadier2266 Sure! No problem ^w^
Im 13 help..
I think om bi Idrk
Like im.. open and idrc abt gender. as long as they treat me right
Also i feel like i fit in LGBT
But i still prefer guys
literally same ..
@@hejajhss1152 im only 12 am i too young to now if im bi?
Rachell Macias no i don’t think so , i don’t think there is an age to know who you are as a person
@@hejajhss1152 thanks! That helps a lot 😁😁
Rachell Macias anytime!
idk dude, like im definitely attracted to guys but like also girls? but i cant imagine myself marrying one or being in a long-term relationship with one, just maybe making out with a girl or have a fling with one lmao
same tho
literally same
im the total opposite. i can see myself in a relationship with either but i dont wanna have sex with EITHER lol. making me so confused.
Dutchy im (bi) your side lol sorry i had to make a funny joke
Do the video with your parents
Team Toasty Okey 🙏🙏🙏
Me: of course I’m not gay, I like boys!
That one corner of my brain: but you also like girls...
i find myself having a crushes on girls but i can never see myself with a girl
mine is the opposite, I wouldn't mind dating a girl and I could see myself dating a girl but i don't think I've ever had a crush on one.
Impxrfxction Girl same djdjdjjdjd
@@paulina1351 uhm well- its been 3 weeks since i wrote that comment and i've actually had a crush on a girl 😅
Impxrfxction SAME!
same
i didn't have sex dreams but i had a dream im marring a girl and had multiple dreams i flirted with girls😂
DaveThePlant hehe that’s so cute!!
I once had a dream where I was holding hands with another guy and walking along a countryside lane
Omg I had a dream I was kissing my friend (I’m a girl) now I’m here questioning my sexuality
bi squad!!💖💜💙 (i recently found out i was bi thanks to your videos! thank you so much 🥺🥺🥺)
Thank you so much! I asked you for advice on instagram and you made video! (I know its not only for me but ♥️ love you)
365 Lemons ikr! I asked her too haha
hehe yes yes! love you too!!
What a lovely intro
wolfblood356 😂😂😂😂
Uh is there a support group for this? I just feel like things have changed since I came out in like 8th grade literally 08. People are more understanding and I feel I could have a conversation and ask questions without it getting weird. I’m just really proud of the generation below me because you guys are so supportive and can have these kinds of conversations.
I don’t really know what to do because I am still young I have girl crushes but I also like boys but I can’t really know if I could be with a girl
I know I’m late, but you might be hetero romantic if you can see yourself with guys, but only crushes on girls :)
me after this video: *yea i’m bi*
I've been feeling really confused for a pretty long time and this really helped me thank you!!❤ (I pretty sure i'm bi)
I’m 16. I have been out as bi to my friends for nearly a year but don’t know how to tell my parents. I know they probably won’t react badly and I want to tell them but I just don’t know how to tell them and am scared. Help!
Harry Palmtree Ugh, I went through the same thing (except I’m lesbian). My plan was getting my guidance officer to tell them and maybe you should to. But my parents beat me to it and found out before it happened 😐 Or just go feck it I’ll go and tell them
Hii ya Ya thanks for your advice
I told my parents today. I left a letter in the kitchen before leaving to go out and they read it and everything was fine. I’m out now as bi and it’s great. Thanks for support and help 🏳️🌈