"Fuck you, you're a bitch!" FINALLY, A CHARACTER REACTED TO BULLYING THE WAY I WANTED THEM TOO It's almost as infuriating as watching the bully treat them like shit to watch them just take it. I'm explooooosive but I never see bullied characters who also are. So this scene gave me so much joy 😂
A better respose WOULD BEEN TO PUNCH THAT WITCH IN THE HEAD! AND BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF THE OTHER TWO! i don't support they/them people,but I CAN'T STAND BULLING!!
The worst part is that it's completely wrong, singular they/them is an actual thing 😭 Istg these transphobes are so dumb, i am not a native english speaker and even i know that singular they/them is a thing
@@Awesomefy11 incorrect, you new kids don't understand that GENDER is tied into SEX. Just because you feel like they/them doesn't actually mean its true, just like how if someone believes in God it doesn't actually make him true. What im trying to say is, just because you believe something, doesn't actually make it factually correct/right. All you havto do is look at every single mega great empire and you will see that the blending of genders has ALWAYS been the first of a downward spiral that ALWAYS leads to a nations failure. Literally every single one of em' that has ever done it, fell, VERY shortly after it was made the "standard" when you blurr the line between man and women, things get nasty real quick, don't worry you Americans will see in about 35 years i reckon.
Im not trying to be that weird person but ela is one of my main subjects that I'm good at and they and them is more than one person like a group of people... How can 1 being be more than 1. Like if I'm going to a store do I pay for two since I'm not one? Im not confused with my pronouns I'm a she her since that's how I was born but I am confused on how a person can be more than one aka a they/them... How does that work?
“you’re like my hero…” “you’re still a nerd tho” this describes the relationship between siblings exactly. like, i’ll give you my kidney, but why tf would i ever let you borrow my charger?
"Do you use the woman's or man's restroom?" Ah, in fact, I use the Restroom 9 and 3/4, ignoring the restroom signs, and simply walk into the wall in the middle of it where I will do my business.
@@Neels01 But the word f*ck doesn’t necessarily refer to someone’s race now does it? Whereas the “N” word does because you can’t be simply throwing that word around like it’s nothing. Unless you are actually a person of colour only then are you entitled to use that word. Otherwise you are just plain racist.
@rudolfshitler no there really isn't and before you say "it's basic biology" yeah maybe you should learn some more advanced biology because the biology your probably basing this off you learned when you were 14/15 and your high school teacher only had 8 months to teach it too you so obviously they had to simplify it and they over simplified it to the point where it is incorrect
10:00 the hyperfeminization, the denial of who you are, trying to hide it, I know that shit all too well. and 15:15 ripping up the paper is so fucking powerful. i fucking love this. and 18:08 the friends clapping indespite of Dominique was just *muah* amazing, and then the teacher crossing out their name and writing ash instead, fucking love this
For me it was the opposite being amab but I soon stopped kidding myself I was still angry and hurt at everything for a long time just because I didn't know I was actually Non-Binary but it was certainly one of the biggest things contributers to the biggest the anguish/inner turmoil cornering my sense of self.
The ending hit so hard whenever the teacher crossed out Jillian and out ash. It brought me to tears!! Then I absolutely felt the "what's the point in being myself if it makes me want to f^cking die." It has proven so true whenever I didn't have a strong community to back me up and I felt like I was alone.
I've had this in my "watch later" but never got around to actually watching it until now. I'm in tears. My parents are not supportive in the slightest, and ever since I tried coming out to them (which was immediately shut down by a "no you're not') they have been more homophobic than ever. I'm just waiting for the day I can finally move out of this hellhole and be myself.
It's alright, just keep on pushing, friend. I know how you feel because I've had my fair share of homophobic parents as well. Many times, I've thought about just ending it all, but I'm glad I've had friends to pull me back to my senses. I hope you have someone or will have someone like that to support you. One day, you will be free. One day you'll be capable enough to be able to fly amongst the clouds and just be yourself.
That is horrible, I can’t understand how some parents dislike and shut down things that are both healthy for the child to express and makes them comfortable. It is meant to be their job to make the child feel safe and happy. I wish you the best of luck in your situation.
@@TabFPcrea That's very sweet of your best friend and their parents! I'm so happy for you friend ^^ I hope things get better after your birthday and happy birthday in advance :)
i remember going to an airport and they had a stall and the sign on the stall said “a stall for all genders and identities”. it was nice to see a stall like that
I am a cis girl I go by she/her and your gender identity or sexuality should NEVER change the way people treat you I will always support the people in who they are and I hope the people in the life of everyone who has to deal with similar problems as Ash will too If you are reading this I just hope that you will one day be ok
"you wanna use they them? What are you, multiple people?" Yes Infact, I have stolen the souls of the children I keep in my attic and feed off of them, making me, plural.
@@user-il2mm2ip8i No, they/them is still made for plural use. No matter how you look at it. I do agree though, English speakers have used they/them outside of plural use. It's the hypocrisy in some people that is bafflingly funny.
That describes the feeling so accurately I can't. I'm non binary and even though I've came to this realization long ago only now this word sits in my brain as something describing me and not just a word. It has a meaning. Thank you so much for creating this.
@@ludokewls1208 According to the Bible there was only ever one person who didn't sin. And it took also being the son of God for them to not sin. According to your book, yes, we are sinners, but so are you and everyone else who is telling you to hate us. It is important for people like you to read Matthew 7:4-5. For those without a Bible, it is Jesus speaking and it reads "How can you say to your brother 'Let me take that speck out of your eye', while there is still a beam in your own eye? You hypocrite! First take the beam out of your own eye, then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye." -Sincerely, A former Christian
I’m a trans man but Ash’s story is very relatable. Genuinely, trying to convince myself I was a girl was the worst point I was at. But tbh me coming out was kinda shitty because the bullying I face in person. And online I see people debating my rights and thinking I was “groomed” into feeling this way. Despite me having to go through multiple phases of discovery and rejection. My family when I first came out as non-binary didn’t believe me until I got more comfortable and came out as a trans man. My family all know me as a boy and Parker. I recently had my birthday and I was actually me. Parker. The birthday boy. If you’re struggling, please know there are people who love you.
Ive heard "youre too young to choose" "stop being silly" "that isnt possible" "you gotta be kidding" "UsElEsS GaY" ive heard all of these from my own MOTHER and i hate it. I cant talk to anyone at school, its a private christian school.
I treat everyone with respect that they deserve, whether they’re different or not, and if I met someone that goes by the pronouns they/them, I’ll respect that! It’s not fair that society criticizes someone for being different.
God, I started tearing up when they screamed “Mom! Can I borrow your makeup?” after they had the most realistic and relatable mental breakdown I’ve ever seen.
@@BonnieSilva-je2yb no no no no no give me her Instagram, Twitter, WhatsApp, snapchat, pinterest, Facebook, number, tumblr, RUclips, tinder, discord, tiktok, twitch whatever you can find imma cuss her out respectfully I have people who can cuss her out respectfully please respond I want to have a talk with this bully
The poem: I'm a girl, or maybe I'm not. The first time I breathed in that thought I was far too old to be redefining myself, so I coughed it out like a stale cigarette after a long night of bad decisions, looked at my reflection and told myself, "You're wrong." That night I put on the shortest skirt I had and went out dancing. 'til I realised I was only skirting around my deepest fears. You see, every time someone calls me "she", my stomach turns and my skin feels thick, like someone raised a panic alarm in my brain. And with every "her" that gets hurled my way, I get turned around. I'm not lost, just never seemed to have the right map. But see, I'm not trapped in a body I hate. Just wrapped in words that don't relate to the way my skin feels on my bones. Or the way that I only feel like home, when no one knows what exactly it is I am, so... Maybe I'm a man. Except I don't think that's right. There's never been a fight like bar brawls through my veins telling myself that I need to change. "Him"...feels like synonymous with someone else. "He", a chorus unto itself. And "his" just fits too loosely. So, maybe I'm not. Either, I mean. I go online to see, "do you realise no one's buying this?" Do you realise, I'm not selling myself short anymore? 'cause for the first time I opened up the door to possibility of being myself, I found a treasure map I left for myself back when I was a kid. When the only thing I was scared of losing was my sense of self. You see, I never thought we were speaking the same language until someone said "they" instead. So tell me I'm wrong, tell me I'm broken, tell me I must hate myself to be the way I am. And I will tell you I never knew what it was like to fly until I let myself breathe in. I finally found my map, you know, X marks the spot.
Even though I’m cisgender, I still fully support nonbinaries, agenders, intersex, and transgenders, demiboy/girls, and any other non-cisgender identities.
I told my mum I was non binary and that I was getting harassed by more then half the guys and girls in my year. She immediately disregarded that I was being harassed and said "I'm a pretty girl and that guys are going to flirt with me" Yeah _parent of the year over here_
@@ChaosCrystalArtist I’m so sorry, I hope your mom accepts that you are who you want to be and I hope she helps you feel more comfortable for being yourself, I’m proud of you
@@rutherfardcareelium Yeah but at the end of the day you just want to be accepted by your parents. It’s seen as more of an excuse to not accept your kids than a way of showing you “care” in the end, your kids will still want to be referred to as whatever and no matter what kids get teased (no matter gender, sexuality, appearance, name) so why not just accept your kids and help them through their troubles?
As a non binary person myself, I’m really proud of Ash reading the poem aloud, and not caring what other people thought, because, I would never have that courage !
When my mom saw that I thought I was ace and gender fluid she said I’m too young for labels :D What she said was a big f u to the face in my opinion so this comment is something that actually makes me wanna give you a hug
As Non-binary myself I also go through this unfair treatment, yes there are times where I hate myself for choosing to be like this. But what can one do? I chose to be like this and I'm proud to be like this, but hey there will always be someone who has to make fun of you and disrespect you and when they do don't listen, stay strong, proud and be happy. Be happy that you were able to break these barriers. Be happy that you are still who you are today, 𝔸ℕ𝔻 𝔹𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕪 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕠𝕤𝕖 𝕨𝕙𝕠 𝕝𝕠𝕧𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕖𝕡𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕛𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠u.
Hey friend, I am a Trans-man, and I know that I am 11 months late for your comment but I just want to let you know that you are loved, and those who do not love and appreciate you are not worth it.
"u heard her, they don't exist" um actually intersex people do exist... because I'm one of them... I was born this way. literally born this way, with both male and female body parts. it was extremely stressful at first but I have become proud of who I am with time 😁
“What about intersex people?” “Didn’t you hear her? They don’t exist.” *what am I? A roach?* I mean, she’s one to talk. Her name is Dominique. I’m pretty sure that’s a gender neutral name
Sorry , but I think you mean gender neutral. There's no such thing as a non-binary name unless you are referring to a non-binary person's name maybe. Anyways , I'm a girl on a family member's account and bye Felicia (lol).
i don't know why that hurt me knowing i hate my red hair although this is irrelevant and just plain stupid, thank you for making me feel common because i hate being considered "rare" i'm also just here to send this video to my enby friend, i hope you guys have a nice day
I am a trans woman and my heart goes out to all the non-binary people in our gorgeous community! I stand with all parts of the trans and gender diverse communities, and I strongly support you. You are valid! You matter! Free hugs for all the people in our beautiful community!🤗🥰🥰
As a Non Binary, I live with parents who dont really believe or support about this type of stuff. I'm so glad to know I'm not crazy into believing that this is what I idenify with. I almost cried happy tears. Thank you so much for creating this, I feel so alive. This comment might get buried, but if someone reads this, I hope you have a great life.
i understand your feeling. i hope that you and every genderqueer and non binary person are able to live freely and happily without judgement of people scared of (not-so) new ideas and changes in the way life goes on. i hope you have a great life too :)
I'm a accident though the plus is my parents bye me what ever and am always alone in my room though I still have chores and half the time I'm my lazy moms personal maid but I have an amazing life
i can relate to their poem so much. it hurts when people call me by she/her pronouns. but my friends accepted me and call me by they/them. when my friends accidently call me by she/her, they immediately correct themselves and apologize.
to all my fellow non-binary folks and just the lgbtq community in general, i fucking love every single one of you. you are all valid, no matter what anyone says. I love you all no matter gender, sexuality or anything. to anyone that might read this: I hope you have a lovely day, love u
School office doesn't care about the students' feelings, but if you defend them or yourself, they intervene. Just like when Charlie refuted Dominique at the poem scene.
School guidance sucks. They don’t care until you’re grades start slipping then they’re like “we noticed you haven’t been doing the best” like were all of the other signs not enough?
This was so relatable I cried my eyes out watching it. I’m not non-binary, but I’m gender fluid, and it’s really hard to fit in with that identity. In my old school I was constantly bullied because of it. I had supportive friends thankfully, but very few. I moved this year and I’ve been hiding it for a while. Only two people I really trust know about it. I honestly don’t want it to get out as it could cause more problems, but at the same time it’s torture trying to keep it in. I love how Ash was so confident and was able to speak their mind in front of their class. I for one could never. I just wish transphobic and homophobic people didn’t exist, or at least just kept to themselves instead of feeling the need to tell us how they feel about us. This was really beautiful, and I loved every second of it. Thank you so much for this, it really made my day.
I'm genderfluid, and I feel this. I haven't gone through the bullying, but the fear of getting bullied. And the self disrespect about it. I'm also gay. I feel this so much.
I’d assume she was talking about changing her name in the school book, and I I am correct then yes you would have to legally change your name, school books don’t accept nicknames
THAT POEM MADE ME CRY i might use it to come out, i've been confident in being non binary for a few months now because i didnt know it existed until then. and that poem felt like how i feel so often--truly powerful :)
I wish you luck in coming out dear friend. But in case someone doesn't accept you, please remember that i accept, respect and see you for who you are. Although we don't know each other, it's not that important. I love you❤️
Indeed, i learnt this in neurolingüística programming that life is the road and how we approach it is the map, sometimes all it takes is to navigate with a different map one that is updated in our needs, sometimes we are given this map by our parents it worked for them but we have other needs.
I watched this as a 10 year old kid and thought “it’s simple. Just pick one”. I was raised in such a homophobic household, but when my best friend said they had a crush on me, and that they were gay, things changed in my mindset. I questioned everything my family said, but also was programmed to believe everything they said, I was so conflicted. Until now, when I realized how toxic my family was, through mental and (rarely) physical abuse, it finally clicked that I can choose what I believe, and if I just become what my parents believe, I would have to live a complete lie, and wouldn’t be able to be my own person. 3 years from the last time I watched this, I have now decided I’m a bisexual *person*, who doesn’t have to live in the confines of gender unless I feel it’s true to me that day. This video and it’s title has been engraved in my mind for those 3 years, and will be forever remembered until I die. Thank you for helping mine and so many others’ journeys.
Sorry, but that isn't healthy. You got influenced by lgbtq just bc you can. This is what people should be warned about. You shouldn't be able to 'choose' your sexuality. Society has become a disgrace and now there are younger individuals thinking they want to be bi or change their gender just to fit it. Why can't people see how wrong that is?
@@queerdeer4134 exactly even if people use “science says” blah blah blah as an excuse. It’s stupid because they’re saying that “intersex people” aren’t science when it actually is anyways :/
The part where Charlotte to Charlie but then she wouldn't accept Julianna to Ash was such a common thing to happen. the only reason the second wasn't acceptable was because of the reasoning behind it.
@@fadliahahmad4553 Eh, I've had cis/cis-appearing classmates ask to be called by a vastly different nickname by the teacher/class, just because they thought it sounded cooler or it's what all their friends called them and it was a change in a heartbeat. Most of the time it really is just the reasoning of "oh but that doesn't fit what I perceive you as.... so no"
In my school days teachers call us by our prefered names. Many students had nicknames, my best friend is trans and teachers just went along with his new name. I hope in the future this applies to everyones school and life in general. :)
@@samuelbealer608 PERIIOODDDTTT. people wanna struggle with my preferred name regardless of how long they've known me bUT FOR A CISHET GIRL I DIDNT EVEN KNOW HER BIRTHNAME FOR 2 1/2 YEARS!!! staff and student all just called jordan --> raine w/o question
When I first find that film, I was around 9-11 years old. I liked it, but didn't completely understood it, and thought to myself "Nah. That's definitely not about me. I know who I am". But anyway, LGBTQ community caught my attention, and I started my research, exploring something I never thought about before. No I came back after few years. I don't know if it's just "a phase" as most people around me say, but right now, I feel completely *related to that video*
Can we talk about how this was filmed at a Catholic school because it implies that maybe this school isn't so against the idea of other genders and sexualities, makes me happy.
We don't agree with the lifestyle, but we don't treat people like jerks for having that lifestyle. Edit: yeah you don't have to mention it, i realized, error in my words.
@@Noahed_ Sadly as a Catholic myself there aren't many who are chill with these people, most are jerks when it comes to the topic of lgbtq+ but I'm glad you aren't one of them.
Your name is Ash and whatever else you want to identify with!! Anyone who tells you different is wrong and doesn't deserve your time. You are so loved and valid!!!!!
I just started watching this but I almost cried when Charlotte said they wanted to go by Charlie. My name is Charlotte, but I want to go by Charlie/Wolf, but am still closeted and ashamed. It made me happy to hear someone stand up and say that.
You are amazing and loveable and VALID ni matter what Name, pronouns, or gender you use. :) It xan be so hard to come out, it DEFINITELY was for me. If you do diode to come out, goof luck! And you are amazing Charlie! You are amazing Wolf!
Love the poem? Give some love to the original, full length version by Kaitlyn Alexander ruclips.net/video/79R4YsVeacQ/видео.html
I loved ittttt! My sister its like ash :)
Managerialisms
Hello
Great job❤❤❤!!!!!
hi my pronouns are they them
Only thing you could have added was "I'm a girl, but I am not. Am I a man or am I not. Either way, dominique's a thot" /j
Charlie: "Hey Ash"
Ash: " *unintelligible salty sounds* "
Charlie: **confused screaming**
that is so true-
this is soo trueeee
I love ur name- probably because imma oikawa stan tho-
Haha
Lol 😂
"Are you a boy or a girl?"
Batman: "I'm Batman" *Vanishes into thin air*
I wheezed-
YES
"What's in your pants?"
"JUSTICE"
The word *"man"* in the name Batman tells a lot...😁😁😁😁
@@bradanims2616
"Man" could mean "human" as well.
" what is the point in being myself if it makes me wanna fucking die "
That part hit HARD
Hit so so so hard, gave me chills
do you fr want to die?
Hit me harder than my parents hitting me-
@@zzzdivie no
@@Shion11037 yes
I love how the bully was like "that's a boy's name" Bitch, your name's DOMINIQUE
And what kind of name is dominique too 💀
@@mudkip984 my cousin's stepbrother
REALLLLLL
@@mudkip984 It's a french name actually
“Are you a boy or a girl?”
“No, I’m an American.”
I’m Dominican 😂😂😂😂😂
@Sal m well thats a stupid question too
@@milliewilkinson6414 how is it not?
@@milliewilkinson6414 bruh it’s a question
And i'm brazilian
“You want to use they/them? What are you, plural?”
Yes Jessica. I’m 56 rabbits in a shape of human body.
Lest we not hate on Jessica?
I'm 30 rats in a trenchcoat
I’m 69 Cans of Soup that is Morphed into a Human
@@phoenixdragon2422 this comment is now the readon i live lmaoo
@@he1uvvsmel lmfao
"Fuck you, you're a bitch!"
FINALLY, A CHARACTER REACTED TO BULLYING THE WAY I WANTED THEM TOO
It's almost as infuriating as watching the bully treat them like shit to watch them just take it. I'm explooooosive but I never see bullied characters who also are. So this scene gave me so much joy 😂
Stamp?
What time stamp
time stamppppp
A better respose WOULD BEEN TO PUNCH THAT WITCH IN THE HEAD! AND BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF THE OTHER TWO! i don't support they/them people,but I CAN'T STAND BULLING!!
@@ThatFnafKidAtTheBackOfTheClass 8:27
"Are you a boy or a girl?"
✨I am an experience✨
“You want to use They/Them? What are you, plural?”
Yes Jessica, I am in fact 3 hamsters wrapped in a trench coat.
LMFAOOO
"They say that your gender is what's in your pants"
O h w e l l
The worst part is that it's completely wrong, singular they/them is an actual thing 😭
Istg these transphobes are so dumb, i am not a native english speaker and even i know that singular they/them is a thing
@@osmanthuswine4928 okay then I guess my gender is bombs
Isn't this from tiktok-
Nobody:
The kid who has to read their
poem after them: 👁👄👁
Fr
oh shiet that must’ve been difficult
lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll haahhaha loolllll
Lmaoo theyy can’tt compete 😂
bro your pfp. ( o _ o ), that speaks volumes. I can totally relate, stay strong out there
The fact that my catholic church has female, male and an all gender restroom-
I'm jealous rn-
People don't know the difference between sex and gender 😂😂😂😂
@@Awesomefy11 incorrect, you new kids don't understand that GENDER is tied into SEX.
Just because you feel like they/them doesn't actually mean its true, just like how if someone believes in God it doesn't actually make him true.
What im trying to say is, just because you believe something, doesn't actually make it factually correct/right.
All you havto do is look at every single mega great empire and you will see that the blending of genders has ALWAYS been the first of a downward spiral that ALWAYS leads to a nations failure.
Literally every single one of em' that has ever done it, fell, VERY shortly after it was made the "standard" when you blurr the line between man and women, things get nasty real quick, don't worry you Americans will see in about 35 years i reckon.
LUCKY
Once someone said:
“His pronouns are They/Them”
I could see them trying to hold in their laughter, and so was I.
my pronouns are they/them yet that sounds like something i would do 😭
so ridiculous you can't even keep up with it in the same sentence 💀💀
@@no-one-1yup...
Im not trying to be that weird person but ela is one of my main subjects that I'm good at and they and them is more than one person like a group of people... How can 1 being be more than 1. Like if I'm going to a store do I pay for two since I'm not one? Im not confused with my pronouns I'm a she her since that's how I was born but I am confused on how a person can be more than one aka a they/them... How does that work?
@@PrecausTHATS THE POINT ITS CRAZY
“Do you use the boys or the girls restroom?”
Neither, I in fact stand at the water fountain awkwardly waiting for my friends to be done
imagine having friends
@@miyahsthoughtz fair 😩😩
@@e-brown ya same i'll usually just wait till i get home if there isnt a gender neutral one
Have you never ran at the wall between both bathrooms to get to stall 9 3/4?
@@miyahsthoughtz ouch
"they?? what? are you plural?"
yes. i am three children in a trench coat. and you will refer to me as such.
Luv ur profile pic and name❤️
@@tablesugar13 thank you 👹💕
Children??? I'm a few cats
I thought you were Numerous Bees??
I'm thousands of tortured souls form the nineth circle of hell
I am 60 and just realising I am nonbinary -this moved me to tears
THERE ARE ONLY 2 GENDERS
I'm so happy for you!
Good for you!
@@user-xr5wp8wv3f2 sexes only sorry. Gender isn’t sex
Welcome to the secret special club of nonbinariness, we are so glad to have you!!!
“you’re like my hero…”
“you’re still a nerd tho”
this describes the relationship between siblings exactly. like, i’ll give you my kidney, but why tf would i ever let you borrow my charger?
"Do you use the woman's or man's restroom?"
Ah, in fact, I use the Restroom 9 and 3/4, ignoring the restroom signs, and simply walk into the wall in the middle of it where I will do my business.
ah yes, the common thing to do.
Omg same
BRO I WAS THINKING OF THAT LOL
I use a restroom where I can close the door and then put an out of order sign so I can have it to myself and effectively make it single stall.
@@Neels01 But the word f*ck doesn’t necessarily refer to someone’s race now does it? Whereas the “N” word does because you can’t be simply throwing that word around like it’s nothing. Unless you are actually a person of colour only then are you entitled to use that word. Otherwise you are just plain racist.
"intersex people don't exist"
Me: Baby I'm not even here, Imma hallucination
Oh wow, I've never seen a person, who doesn't exist^^ cool
@rudolfshitler no there really isn't and before you say "it's basic biology" yeah maybe you should learn some more advanced biology because the biology your probably basing this off you learned when you were 14/15 and your high school teacher only had 8 months to teach it too you so obviously they had to simplify it and they over simplified it to the point where it is incorrect
@rudolfshitler no theres way more so shut
my humanoid is a marge
@@t0adfa1ry well tell us some
10:00 the hyperfeminization, the denial of who you are, trying to hide it, I know that shit all too well. and 15:15 ripping up the paper is so fucking powerful. i fucking love this. and 18:08 the friends clapping indespite of Dominique was just *muah* amazing, and then the teacher crossing out their name and writing ash instead, fucking love this
For me it was the opposite being amab but I soon stopped kidding myself I was still angry and hurt at everything for a long time just because I didn't know I was actually Non-Binary but it was certainly one of the biggest things contributers to the biggest the anguish/inner turmoil cornering my sense of self.
im a trans guy, trying to explain why i was so feminine at one point is so annoying, its trying to supress who you are, its not good
This was so nice and good!!!
The ending hit so hard whenever the teacher crossed out Jillian and out ash. It brought me to tears!! Then I absolutely felt the "what's the point in being myself if it makes me want to f^cking die." It has proven so true whenever I didn't have a strong community to back me up and I felt like I was alone.
Bathrooms: men and woman
Me: walks through the middle of the wall to 9 & 3/4
Yes
LMAO
I just use the family bathroom
@@nonstopzayzay2154 schools dont usually have those
@@baguette8882 oh yea I forgot. I don’t use the bathroom at school. It’s nasty
Me: *scrolling through all the comments seeing all the non-binary pfps*
Also me: *That's my s**t right there*
same
Dominic:roses are red, violets are blue
Me:if you don't shut up im gonna hit you with my shoe
1k like UwU
THATS ME SHIT RIGHT THERE
Same
I dont understand how non binary feel, but i think everyone deserves to be themselves
Thank you!
C: Thank you
Thanks :p
I've had this in my "watch later" but never got around to actually watching it until now. I'm in tears. My parents are not supportive in the slightest, and ever since I tried coming out to them (which was immediately shut down by a "no you're not') they have been more homophobic than ever. I'm just waiting for the day I can finally move out of this hellhole and be myself.
It's alright, just keep on pushing, friend. I know how you feel because I've had my fair share of homophobic parents as well. Many times, I've thought about just ending it all, but I'm glad I've had friends to pull me back to my senses. I hope you have someone or will have someone like that to support you. One day, you will be free. One day you'll be capable enough to be able to fly amongst the clouds and just be yourself.
Bro same
@@royalteabagels thanks buddy
That is horrible, I can’t understand how some parents dislike and shut down things that are both healthy for the child to express and makes them comfortable. It is meant to be their job to make the child feel safe and happy. I wish you the best of luck in your situation.
@@TabFPcrea That's very sweet of your best friend and their parents! I'm so happy for you friend ^^ I hope things get better after your birthday and happy birthday in advance :)
“Are you a boy or a girl?”
I’m a monarch and you will bow to me peasant
Lol that made my night
@@autumnbreeze4214 I’m glad :D
@@apollosmuse_ :)
wow ur so edgy 😐
@@karenduncan9070 I wasn’t tryna be edgy lol
"what's your gender?"
I actually lost it a few months back, I'm still searching for it
How's the search?
[Gender not found. Error. Gender not found.]
@@awa4906 dude, wtf?
@@mlisp what was it 🧍♀️
@@b1nn13blxsh8 it’s about Jesus I guess?
i remember going to an airport and they had a stall and the sign on the stall said “a stall for all genders and identities”. it was nice to see a stall like that
was it a sticker?
They could just say unisex though
I am a cis girl I go by she/her and your gender identity or sexuality should NEVER change the way people treat you
I will always support the people in who they are and I hope the people in the life of everyone who has to deal with similar problems as Ash will too
If you are reading this I just hope that you will one day be ok
@@TheUnforgiven59 its not a problem, its just who you are.
@@TheUnforgiven59 you shouldn’t stop it just be who the real you deep inside is
You're not "cis" anything - cis is bs label - you're just normal
@@pumpkinpony yeah, it is. not your identity in itself, just the dysphoria, bullying, and fear of unnaceptance.
@@TheUnforgiven59 i dont mind
"you wanna use they them? What are you, multiple people?"
Yes Infact, I have stolen the souls of the children I keep in my attic and feed off of them, making me, plural.
Lovely.
lmao people are so stupid saying shit like “they/them is plural” and then going on to say “the mailman came, they gave us some mail.”
@@user-il2mm2ip8i exactly
@@user-il2mm2ip8i No, they/them is still made for plural use. No matter how you look at it. I do agree though, English speakers have used they/them outside of plural use. It's the hypocrisy in some people that is bafflingly funny.
@Brain Burg AAVE dialect has soared in popularity and use, as well as texting language. One of which either you, or someone close to you uses.
Charlie: *brings up non-binary*
Me: *starts tearing up* "you go Charlie, educating the masses even if the masses are one person"
Me a they/them watching this:🥺🥺🥺
@@innocentweeb9863 Same 🥺
,,Educating” no talking about non binary ,,people” is not educating but implying agenda
@@mateusz4660 fix the quotations
@@jupiterrose7838 I don’t think I will
That describes the feeling so accurately I can't. I'm non binary and even though I've came to this realization long ago only now this word sits in my brain as something describing me and not just a word. It has a meaning. Thank you so much for creating this.
@iamme25yagohave you heard of “Marjorie Taylor Green”?
Bruh what
„Are you a boy or a girl?“
*im a lizard, that can shift into your worst nightmares*
“Are you a boy or a girl”
I’m a ✨Person✨
Are you a boy or a girl?
I'm a WHY DO YOU CARE!?
That's what I say =)
clover fox Lol
@@ludokewls1208 According to the Bible there was only ever one person who didn't sin. And it took also being the son of God for them to not sin. According to your book, yes, we are sinners, but so are you and everyone else who is telling you to hate us. It is important for people like you to read Matthew 7:4-5. For those without a Bible, it is Jesus speaking and it reads "How can you say to your brother 'Let me take that speck out of your eye', while there is still a beam in your own eye? You hypocrite! First take the beam out of your own eye, then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."
-Sincerely, A former Christian
Aren't we all
@@BAVR28 Doing Yoga is a sin-
Funny thing: Dominique, the bullie' s name, is actually gender neutral in french, and mostly assigned to men
How the turntables bish
@shrimp lmao
congratulations, you played yourself
Right that's what I thought. To me Dominique sounds more like a male name that Ash
Yeah, but it's written Dominic for a boy
This is a reminder that trans rights, non-binary rights and intersex rights are ALWAYS human rights. Seriously!
i like your profile and yes that is right
lol, no. But of course I don't understand anything, I'm a fool and a Nazi, of course...
then why do you have to remind people?
@@RJISThat's, honestly a stupid argument... it can be flipped easily. Why do you have to keep reminding people they're not human rights?
@@ilovet5926 then why are y’all still trying to convince us?
I’m a trans man but Ash’s story is very relatable. Genuinely, trying to convince myself I was a girl was the worst point I was at. But tbh me coming out was kinda shitty because the bullying I face in person. And online I see people debating my rights and thinking I was “groomed” into feeling this way. Despite me having to go through multiple phases of discovery and rejection. My family when I first came out as non-binary didn’t believe me until I got more comfortable and came out as a trans man. My family all know me as a boy and Parker. I recently had my birthday and I was actually me. Parker. The birthday boy. If you’re struggling, please know there are people who love you.
Happy very very late bday Parker!
@@theharshtruthoutthereget outta here
Happy bday!
Happy late bday Parker!
So basically your a woman
"it's just a phase"
"get over yourself"
"it's because of that damn phone"
no it's not.
@jess ikr
@jess preach
@jess _yes._
Ive heard "youre too young to choose" "stop being silly" "that isnt possible" "you gotta be kidding" "UsElEsS GaY" ive heard all of these from my own MOTHER and i hate it. I cant talk to anyone at school, its a private christian school.
Decided to come out to my mum today before picking out my glasses and she said those exact things and it hurts so much
“are you a boy or a girl” *im a threat.*
never agreed more to something in my entire life
If I where no-binary I would say: **I'm a yes**
I'm a 🥚
tiktok stuf
.. Wow so rude
I treat everyone with respect that they deserve, whether they’re different or not, and if I met someone that goes by the pronouns they/them, I’ll respect that! It’s not fair that society criticizes someone for being different.
THE WAY THEY SMILED WHEN CHARLIE CALLED THEM THEY THEM PRONOUNS
That's a lot of 'they's
IT MELTED MY FUCKING HEARTTTT
That's unreadable
lemme fix that for you " THE WAY SHE SMILED WHEN CHARLIE CALLED HER SHE/HER PRONOUNS"
ps. it was a joke
charlie calling ash they/them before ash even realised it themself i cant even
@@michelleliu9858 no, its themself. just like saying themselves.
@@michelleliu9858 that’d be like saying “hisself” instead of “himself”
Did somebody say my name
God, I started tearing up when they screamed “Mom! Can I borrow your makeup?” after they had the most realistic and relatable mental breakdown I’ve ever seen.
This was amazing!!! I actually cried! The way Charlie stood up for Ash and said they/them!!! I loved this so much!
The thing that hurts the most is knowing that people actually do this and act this way.
Yeah- I’m currently getting bullied at my school for being non-binary by one of thos “popular gurls” that says she’s apparently bi
@@BonnieSilva-je2yb no no no no no give me her Instagram, Twitter, WhatsApp, snapchat, pinterest, Facebook, number, tumblr, RUclips, tinder, discord, tiktok, twitch whatever you can find imma cuss her out respectfully
I have people who can cuss her out respectfully please respond
I want to have a talk with this bully
@@BonnieSilva-je2yb remember be yourself
@@BonnieSilva-je2yb I feel that so much, but don't ever change who you are.
@@ScorpihoeOfficial OKI her social on
ig: yktv_johanna
Snap: Johanna.8212
And she blocked me on tiktok
The poem:
I'm a girl, or maybe I'm not.
The first time I breathed in that thought I was far too old to be redefining myself, so I coughed it out like a stale cigarette after a long night of bad decisions, looked at my reflection and told myself, "You're wrong."
That night I put on the shortest skirt I had and went out dancing.
'til I realised I was only skirting around my deepest fears.
You see, every time someone calls me "she", my stomach turns and my skin feels thick, like someone raised a panic alarm in my brain.
And with every "her" that gets hurled my way, I get turned around.
I'm not lost, just never seemed to have the right map.
But see, I'm not trapped in a body I hate.
Just wrapped in words that don't relate to the way my skin feels on my bones.
Or the way that I only feel like home, when no one knows what exactly it is I am, so...
Maybe I'm a man.
Except I don't think that's right.
There's never been a fight like bar brawls through my veins telling myself that I need to change.
"Him"...feels like synonymous with someone else.
"He", a chorus unto itself.
And "his" just fits too loosely.
So, maybe I'm not.
Either, I mean.
I go online to see, "do you realise no one's buying this?"
Do you realise, I'm not selling myself short anymore?
'cause for the first time I opened up the door to possibility of being myself,
I found a treasure map I left for myself back when I was a kid.
When the only thing I was scared of losing was my sense of self.
You see, I never thought we were speaking the same language until someone said "they" instead.
So tell me I'm wrong, tell me I'm broken, tell me I must hate myself to be the way I am.
And I will tell you I never knew what it was like to fly until I let myself breathe in.
I finally found my map, you know, X marks the spot.
Thanks :)
This is underrated
how long did that take you to type
Oh my god thank you so much ❤️
this is such a beautiful poem
Even though I’m cisgender, I still fully support nonbinaries, agenders, intersex, and transgenders, demiboy/girls, and any other non-cisgender identities.
Thank you 😊
We thank you for your support! ^_^
цисгендеров не существует, только гетеро
same
@@mashababakha цисгендер означает тот же пол, с которым вы родились, если его не существует, мы все транс, ура
As a closeted they/them with un-supportive parents. Thank you
You're amazing 👏👏
@@RandomDuck-ProductionsYou are as well :)
@@BackroomsloverfreakProtecting of what
protecting children from this delusional crap@@ericks.
@@Backroomsloverfreak thats abuse not protection
Everytime they said “I’m a girl” it really did feel like a punch to the gut...
fax no printer
good
I told my mum I was non binary and that I was getting harassed by more then half the guys and girls in my year.
She immediately disregarded that I was being harassed and said "I'm a pretty girl and that guys are going to flirt with me"
Yeah _parent of the year over here_
Yeah
@@ChaosCrystalArtist I’m so sorry, I hope your mom accepts that you are who you want to be and I hope she helps you feel more comfortable for being yourself, I’m proud of you
i hate it so much when parents say “i don’t want you to get teased.” it’s just an excuse for not accepting their kids.
Who would want their children to be teased, wtf-
@@rutherfardcareelium
Yeah but at the end of the day you just want to be accepted by your parents. It’s seen as more of an excuse to not accept your kids than a way of showing you “care” in the end, your kids will still want to be referred to as whatever and no matter what kids get teased (no matter gender, sexuality, appearance, name) so why not just accept your kids and help them through their troubles?
@Otaku P basically her parents could allow her to do whatever she wanted, but guess what would probably happen next - bullying
@@tsukkisfrown1429 I would help my kids to find themselves in a safe way. Jesus, why do you all have to be drama queens, It's not such a big deal
@@rutherfardcareelium well, you've never met my dad or my stepmom.
As a Non-binary person this hit SO FUCKING HARD! I relate to this so much
As a non binary person myself, I’m really proud of Ash reading the poem aloud, and not caring what other people thought, because, I would never have that courage !
Same, because i know at my school i’d get beat up
@@ilikecats-sn3oh omg fr
"It hurts me to see you hurt!"
"Then accept me for who I am and not who you want me to be."
I’m pretty sure the mom didn’t knew, or i miss understood.
@@vuhigins7890 That’s was what the OP was gonna reply to that statement.
Lavarose, that's me and my mom's view on me being a lesbian in a nutshell
It actually hurts
When my mom saw that I thought I was ace and gender fluid she said I’m too young for labels :D
What she said was a big f u to the face in my opinion so this comment is something that actually makes me wanna give you a hug
I'm non binary and when my parents asked if they have a daughter or son, I said, you had a child.
Such a great response
@@esanderyb4638 Thank you
amazing respond ✋🏼
But you can't stay a child forever!
@@Gaia_Seraphina Then they had a person.
As Non-binary myself I also go through this unfair treatment, yes there are times where I hate myself for choosing to be like this. But what can one do? I chose to be like this and I'm proud to be like this, but hey there will always be someone who has to make fun of you and disrespect you and when they do don't listen, stay strong, proud and be happy. Be happy that you were able to break these barriers. Be happy that you are still who you are today, 𝔸ℕ𝔻 𝔹𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕪 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕥𝕙𝕠𝕤𝕖 𝕨𝕙𝕠 𝕝𝕠𝕧𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕖𝕡𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕛𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠u.
As a non-binary person who is surrounded by people who don’t approve and harass me for it, thank you for making this ❤️.
Hey friend, I am a Trans-man, and I know that I am 11 months late for your comment but I just want to let you know that you are loved, and those who do not love and appreciate you are not worth it.
@@Codiagamerthank you so much for that! I’ve been going through a riff time recently and your comment really and me feel better❤️
“are you a boy or a girl” bro i’m literally just swag
exactly smh, #swaglife
#swag
S w a g
*SWAG*
#swag 😰
when the teacher marked off “julianna” and replaced it with ash i cried like a baby
Metoo 👉🏼👈🏼
same
All my fellow babies, hello
Same here! As an enby this video means so much to me!
s a m e
we should have unisex bathrooms in every building, so that everyone feels emotionally safe and comfortable.
"u heard her, they don't exist"
um actually intersex people do exist... because I'm one of them... I was born this way. literally born this way, with both male and female body parts. it was extremely stressful at first but I have become proud of who I am with time 😁
There are only two genders: girls and boys. Don't try to be stupid!
I'm Just curious here what do you mean by both female and male body parts? I just can't imgine it
“What about intersex people?”
“Didn’t you hear her? They don’t exist.”
*what am I? A roach?*
I mean, she’s one to talk. Her name is Dominique. I’m pretty sure that’s a gender neutral name
its a female version of dominick i think lol
@Logan Roof is this a reaction of joy or mockery? I'm confusion
no such thing as non binary name
Sorry , but I think you mean gender neutral. There's no such thing as a non-binary name unless you are referring to a non-binary person's name maybe. Anyways , I'm a girl on a family member's account and bye Felicia (lol).
@@luke3912 I never said that
"intersex doesnt exist" says the person with ginger hair, a trait just as common as being intersex
That trait is even expected to be non existent by 2035
I didn't even know for a long time people think intersex doesn't exist we talked about it in school in grade 6 when you talk about the human body
@@thunderusnight I mean not really, some studies have said it but others say it won’t.
i don't know why that hurt me knowing i hate my red hair
although this is irrelevant and just plain stupid, thank you for making me feel common because i hate being considered "rare"
i'm also just here to send this video to my enby friend, i hope you guys have a nice day
I want to like your comment but its at 666 likes, ik some idiot will like it to destroy it but im not that idiot who will destroy it
I am a trans woman and my heart goes out to all the non-binary people in our gorgeous community!
I stand with all parts of the trans and gender diverse communities, and I strongly support you.
You are valid! You matter!
Free hugs for all the people in our beautiful community!🤗🥰🥰
As a Non Binary, I live with parents who dont really believe or support about this type of stuff. I'm so glad to know I'm not crazy into believing that this is what I idenify with. I almost cried happy tears. Thank you so much for creating this, I feel so alive. This comment might get buried, but if someone reads this, I hope you have a great life.
Nah u r crazy
@@_Spider4 just bc you haven’t experienced it doesn’t mean others haven’t either. please educate yourself
@@astralanarchist nah y'all just mentally ill :-
@@_Spider4 real
i understand your feeling. i hope that you and every genderqueer and non binary person are able to live freely and happily without judgement of people scared of (not-so) new ideas and changes in the way life goes on. i hope you have a great life too :)
We don't have gender pronouns in Turkey, we just call everything and everyone "o" instead of "They, he, she, it"
why wasn't i born Turkish
[everyone liked that]
TIME TO MIGRATE
Brb moving to turkey
@@mallow2332 or "dia" 😃
“Are you a boy or a girl?”
Me: No. I’m a problem.
I'm a problematic threat.
i’m shane dawson
I'm a accident though the plus is my parents bye me what ever and am always alone in my room though I still have chores and half the time I'm my lazy moms personal maid but I have an amazing life
Same
I’m a ✨SnAkE✨
i can relate to their poem so much. it hurts when people call me by she/her pronouns. but my friends accepted me and call me by they/them. when my friends accidently call me by she/her, they immediately correct themselves and apologize.
to all my fellow non-binary folks and just the lgbtq community in general, i fucking love every single one of you. you are all valid, no matter what anyone says. I love you all no matter gender, sexuality or anything. to anyone that might read this: I hope you have a lovely day, love u
Thanks! I love you too, thanks bro!
they should've ended the poem with "eat shit Dominique"
Pfft
Frank Iero pfp 😩🙏🏻
y e s
Yes but give her a chance?
@@cringeycakebear9566 no. she called them the t slur multiple times. she doesn't deserve Ash's forgiveness or their friendship.
I hate so much how the teachers can CLEARLY hear what the mean girls say to them and even with that they don't do anything.
School office doesn't care about the students' feelings, but if you defend them or yourself, they intervene. Just like when Charlie refuted Dominique at the poem scene.
That pretty much happens in real life, it has happened to me and one of my friends, school is a bitch in general lmao
School guidance sucks. They don’t care until you’re grades start slipping then they’re like “we noticed you haven’t been doing the best” like were all of the other signs not enough?
I've had that happen to me, I'm glad i graduated that shit
you guys deserve to get bullied
This was so relatable I cried my eyes out watching it. I’m not non-binary, but I’m gender fluid, and it’s really hard to fit in with that identity. In my old school I was constantly bullied because of it. I had supportive friends thankfully, but very few. I moved this year and I’ve been hiding it for a while. Only two people I really trust know about it. I honestly don’t want it to get out as it could cause more problems, but at the same time it’s torture trying to keep it in. I love how Ash was so confident and was able to speak their mind in front of their class. I for one could never. I just wish transphobic and homophobic people didn’t exist, or at least just kept to themselves instead of feeling the need to tell us how they feel about us. This was really beautiful, and I loved every second of it. Thank you so much for this, it really made my day.
I'm genderfluid, and I feel this. I haven't gone through the bullying, but the fear of getting bullied. And the self disrespect about it. I'm also gay. I feel this so much.
How can someone be homosexual if gender fluid?
i discharged some gender fluid this morning
How are you gay if your gender changes? Just curious
Edit: nvm turns out I’m a genderfluid lesbian
There are only two genders: girls and boys. Don't try to be stupid!
My teacher: "Are you a girl or guy?"
Me: "Yes"
“Or” is what u should’ve said 😂
me
"Or"
Guygirl
I'm a ME
"I'm not lost, just never had the right map."
This line alone is amazing.
k
@@lemau8458 k
ً kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
@@snowstar1239 NOOO TOO MANY K’s
yes it is amazing
this actually really helped me understand why some people go by they/them I never really understood before so I'm glad I found this
"Are you a boy are a girl"
"I'm breathing."
Person: are you a girl?
Me: yesn't
lolol same
Person: gender?
You, aka, Kokichi Ouma apparently: g r a p e
I love this.
HELLO, DANGANRONPA FAN
@@Rainecat im his wife
"Oh I'm sOrRy, YoU'lL hAvE tO lEgAlLy ChAnGe YoU'rE nAmE, bEfOrE wE cAn UsE iT" ....
so nicknames are illegal?
Edit: I leave for a week I-
Abigail Luscher EXACTLY. And “Charlie” is more masculine than Ash- at least in my opinion 🗿
I’d assume she was talking about changing her name in the school book, and I I am correct then yes you would have to legally change your name, school books don’t accept nicknames
That scene mad me SOOO mad!
@@vin.2 yeah i agree
😭
The fact that the teacher crossed out juliana and wrote Ash at the end made me cry 😭
THAT POEM MADE ME CRY
i might use it to come out, i've been confident in being non binary for a few months now because i didnt know it existed until then. and that poem felt like how i feel so often--truly powerful :)
I wish you luck in coming out dear friend. But in case someone doesn't accept you, please remember that i accept, respect and see you for who you are. Although we don't know each other, it's not that important. I love you❤️
@@kidzumasstudio8217 thank you :)
Dude: “Hey good looking, wanna dance?”
Ash: *takes shot and walks of*
*MOOD*
they drank like half the bottle lmao
@@JaxieFlaxie uh they not a she-
They just went: *fuck off*
@@JaxieFlaxie dude the video is literally about non-binary ppl and you calling ash "she"?
* *facepalm* *
@@JaxieFlaxie bro u messed up
"i'm not lost, just never seemed to have the right map." woah- total goosebumps.
you know what also crazy? that this comment has no replies
@@gloomycrewmate2622 holy shit i didn't even realize how many likes i got 😭🖤
Why?
*”anybody have a map” intensifies *
Indeed, i learnt this in neurolingüística programming that life is the road and how we approach it is the map, sometimes all it takes is to navigate with a different map one that is updated in our needs, sometimes we are given this map by our parents it worked for them but we have other needs.
As an nonbinary person it warms my heart so much it made me cry thank you so much for making
I watched this as a 10 year old kid and thought “it’s simple. Just pick one”. I was raised in such a homophobic household, but when my best friend said they had a crush on me, and that they were gay, things changed in my mindset. I questioned everything my family said, but also was programmed to believe everything they said, I was so conflicted. Until now, when I realized how toxic my family was, through mental and (rarely) physical abuse, it finally clicked that I can choose what I believe, and if I just become what my parents believe, I would have to live a complete lie, and wouldn’t be able to be my own person.
3 years from the last time I watched this, I have now decided I’m a bisexual *person*, who doesn’t have to live in the confines of gender unless I feel it’s true to me that day. This video and it’s title has been engraved in my mind for those 3 years, and will be forever remembered until I die.
Thank you for helping mine and so many others’ journeys.
There are only two genders: girls and boys. Don't try to be stupid!
Sorry, but that isn't healthy. You got influenced by lgbtq just bc you can. This is what people should be warned about. You shouldn't be able to 'choose' your sexuality. Society has become a disgrace and now there are younger individuals thinking they want to be bi or change their gender just to fit it. Why can't people see how wrong that is?
@@AbbyBolt_10people dont do that to fit in, they do it to be more comfortable with themselves
“Intersex people don’t exsist”
My friend: “mr stark… I don’t feel so good….”
me: my time has come
HAHAHA I CANT LMAO
When they said that I thought “Bro learn basic biology, idiots.”
@@queerdeer4134 exactly even if people use “science says” blah blah blah as an excuse. It’s stupid because they’re saying that “intersex people” aren’t science when it actually is anyways :/
I’m not supposed to laugh my parents are asleep 💀✋🏻
the fact that she said intersex’s don’t exist 😭 straight up ignoring science, not even just being transphobic.
bigots and many conservatives (not all) have a problem with science, especially in the US
Science supports transgender people?? And all of the others, what are your sources
Transgender people, are male and female they just identify with a different one then their birth sex
@@atomeves shut up you ignorant a$$hole and accept that we exist
@@atomeves They're talking about INTERSEX people, not trans people, look it up, they're real.
Omg you made me cry. I wanted to hug charlie for what she said and when Ash finished their poem I applauded manically. Thank you.
i literally cried when the teacher crossed out their deadname and put Ash🥺
The part where Charlotte to Charlie but then she wouldn't accept Julianna to Ash was such a common thing to happen. the only reason the second wasn't acceptable was because of the reasoning behind it.
it’s probably because charlie and charlotte sound alike and ash and juliana is like very different
@@fadliahahmad4553 Eh, I've had cis/cis-appearing classmates ask to be called by a vastly different nickname by the teacher/class, just because they thought it sounded cooler or it's what all their friends called them and it was a change in a heartbeat. Most of the time it really is just the reasoning of "oh but that doesn't fit what I perceive you as.... so no"
In my school days teachers call us by our prefered names. Many students had nicknames, my best friend is trans and teachers just went along with his new name. I hope in the future this applies to everyones school and life in general. :)
@@samuelbealer608 PERIIOODDDTTT. people wanna struggle with my preferred name regardless of how long they've known me bUT FOR A CISHET GIRL I DIDNT EVEN KNOW HER BIRTHNAME FOR 2 1/2 YEARS!!! staff and student all just called jordan --> raine w/o question
@@samuelbealer608 There was a dude named Robert in my class and he made everybody call him Trey
"No matter straight,gay or bi,lesbian, transgender life I'm on the right track baby I was born this way" -Lady Gaga
I listened to that song on repeat when I was working on this. Along with This Is Me.
Great song 💕
@@hungrylyly Ikr? my respect for lady gaga went sky high📈📈
Lady Gaga is queen 😌💅✨
What's the name of the song ?
When I first find that film, I was around 9-11 years old. I liked it, but didn't completely understood it, and thought to myself "Nah. That's definitely not about me. I know who I am". But anyway, LGBTQ community caught my attention, and I started my research, exploring something I never thought about before.
No I came back after few years. I don't know if it's just "a phase" as most people around me say, but right now, I feel completely *related to that video*
I actually crying this is amazing! It’s nice to see myself represented like this!
Can we talk about how this was filmed at a Catholic school because it implies that maybe this school isn't so against the idea of other genders and sexualities, makes me happy.
We don't agree with the lifestyle, but we don't treat people like jerks for having that lifestyle. Edit: yeah you don't have to mention it, i realized, error in my words.
@@Noahed_ ?? being lgbtq+ isn’t a lifestyle lmao. we didn’t choose to be this way.
@Rowen Reid you get the point. We don't agree with it, but we aren't going to be jerks to someone because of it.
@@Noahed_ Sadly as a Catholic myself there aren't many who are chill with these people, most are jerks when it comes to the topic of lgbtq+ but I'm glad you aren't one of them.
@@Noahed_ it's not a lifestyle
i do appreciate what you do tho
When your deadname is in the film but also one of your preferred names
That's super cool
same here!! I was a little shook haha
@@sage2226 ME TOOOO but i still identify as my deadname... i don't know what to do 😨😳😳😳
@@jujusiwa14 maybe go by jul? idk if its still too feminine or masculine but i hope this helps 🥺
Your name is Ash and whatever else you want to identify with!! Anyone who tells you different is wrong and doesn't deserve your time. You are so loved and valid!!!!!
I just started watching this but I almost cried when Charlotte said they wanted to go by Charlie. My name is Charlotte, but I want to go by Charlie/Wolf, but am still closeted and ashamed. It made me happy to hear someone stand up and say that.
a more appropriate animal pronoun for you to go by is Charlie/pussy
Ok Charlie I hope you will have the courage to be yourself one day but for now I will wish you luck!!!
You are amazing and loveable and VALID ni matter what Name, pronouns, or gender you use. :) It xan be so hard to come out, it DEFINITELY was for me. If you do diode to come out, goof luck! And you are amazing Charlie! You are amazing Wolf!
I feel bad for your parents, Charlotte
@@Crafty_Breeze hhahahahahhahah
Seeing the teacher change it to ash hit so close to home because one of my teachers did the same and it made me feel so good
The profile pictures in these comments really said “🟨⬜️🟪⬛️”
aye they did but what’s wrong with that
@@kam1run nothing lol
I was abt to say that! lol its so true tho
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Ikr being non binary isn't a personality trait
I changed my name to "Alex" and someone litterally said "that's a boy's name"......
F them!! Be who you are, you are beautiful
Isn’t Alex gender neutral anyways lol
@@Akyure that's what i thought 🥴
@@Kitty4u I think it is because the second protagonist of Minecraft is named alex
@@Akyure And one of the Totally Spies is named Alex too
As a non-binary person, this is the BEST FILM EVER! ^w^ 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
That breakthrough when they ripped the page and presented themselves to the class gave me so much euphoria☺️