Jan Jacobszoon I also have a lot of patience, but I don't like that these people are so inconsiderate and disrespectful. it's hard not to believe they do it intentionally, it does come to a point you have to confront people about it because keeping quiet effect self confidence and such
Great video. I think it is important to address it when people are being disrespectful. When nobody says anything, it allows people to continue to behave badly and maybe even become corrupt.
That's so true Suszanna. What do you think if people of the street doesn't respect me in a way, i dont like getting touched or stressed by anyone! Do you think it Is imposible to avoid that! Today i was just fucking up everyone in a respectful but very direct way, befire they could even come to close to me, because i saw their intensión literly in their eyes. But it takes so much Energy that gets me thinking AND Is really depressing.
BRO!!!! It's hella dope to know there's still a few of us left, that actually understand the importance of direct honesty, and self worth. I'm 100% with you all the way! #PREACH
Love it! DIRECT, not ask nicely, RESPECTFULLY DIRECT THEM that they can't speak to you this way. If they laugh or snark then GTFO, but if they go serious and understand and communicate back and change... Good Work!
Nice job man. Thanks for taking the time. Just remember that, it's really their problem not yours. Boils down to what you want to tolerate. It took me many years to eliminate toxic people like them from my life. But, now I'm very good at eliminating toxicity from my life. Love yourself. I worked for a narcissistist for nearly 10 yrs. I couldn't figure what his trip was. Beat me down constantly. I searched his traits on Google. He was extreme narcissistist. If you come across one of them, run as fast as you can. Cut all ties immediately. Very sick people.
If it’s some random jerk you’ll never see again - you ignore If it’s someone in your life or someone you have to deal with (like coworker), you address it or that monster will grow I used to have a hard time with the first. But I’ve come a long way once I realized it’s Just ego messing with me
It really doesnt matter if it's a random person or not. Ignoring or should I say not checking someone who disrespects you will be taken as weakness in most cases. So say if you are with friends or family or your spouse and some stranger disrespects you in public, you gotta check the disrespect or THEY will think you are weak and not a leader.
I am the best version of myself yet people disrespect me all the time. I dont accept it which leads me to cut out most people from my life. I'm fine with it.
Thank you for this! A huge part of having healthy boundaries is to address respectfully how others treat us!.. I appreciate your words in this video! Thank you! 💖
Great video man! currently going through similar issues and this gave me a good insight on what to do and how to handle my situation. Thank You, God Bless.
Honestly brother. It's too much. In the street always people touching me because they look on the ground or on their stupid cellphone. I can't tolerante it but life Is so depressing. I've had to call out almost everyone on the street today. I feel so clean from the inside but at the same Time depressed, because someone Will take it the wrong way AND then things Will escalate.
Wow amazing Video. So much value. I use to ignore it but like lth I just can not relate to that. I'm so happy you did this video. Confirmation that my feeling are what matter the most.
Thx. Triggering and provocating people are destructive people and predators on others wellbeeing and since Im not atheist anymore things got more and more easy to shield from toxic behavior. I say behavior and not human. Its a very important difference between peoples opinion and behavior. First of all its changeable. If you were those it couldnt change in life. Im not a slave under all Toxic people anymore. 😊 💜
The main people who would not be addressing that are people who have (barely) survived long-term abuse. To us: the part he says about ignoring it for the rest of your life… …disrespectful people *will* continue for the rest of your life. You’ll look up decades later unable to find your voice. You have to find your feet again in whatever ways you can manage, to halt the people who feel Jack squat about disrespecting you. On God’s word, they’ll never stop themselves- ever- they will disrespect your grave- it’s that deep- because they’ve been allowed to believe they can. Don’t let them.
Don’t. Handle it the right way. Don’t let yourself sink to their level. I understand you want to flip out and give them what they’ve been giving you, but simply cut them off. If it keeps going on, then confront them but not in a hostile manner. Keep your cool no matter what.
Don't talk to me tht way, don't disrespect me. I don't deserve tht. Try to remember to say what I just typed above this in the heat of the moment. It will be hard to remember. If you forget, it's too late. Tho, these are the correct sentences
It's true, some people really are unaware of how disrespectful they are towards you or a group. Other's who confirm and acknowledge their purposeful disrespect are the real toxic that needs to be kicked out of your life no matter how much they throw a fit or claim you are nothing without them (epic toxic if they say that).
Why bother respectfully telling someone who was just rude to u , to respect u? Im not a fan of man or woman. I just dont tolerate it. I just pray for them & keep The Lord in ma mind going through those times.
Billionaire BrownOnline ... I rather show some one love man. So i get u. It’s kind of like how if your input is love, it’ll touch them to a point where they respond back with love without them knowing. Bless u bro. All the way from ny 🙏🏼
I believe Telling them dudnt Woek so back Away staying away keeping Safe Walking Away Yes. IGNORE Yes I was very Clear and Direct Boot Up kick them out Yes. You're Right.
A lady talked down to me she said I trashed her on Facebook which I didn’t write anything about her on the Facebook I don’t write trash on Facebook I am too sweet I try to treat sweet and friendly I’m crying because she hurts me and I feel ignored by people too
How to deal with rude people. They know I don’t want to be around dogs but they are constantly out my door with dogs and I want to be able to go outside they don’t care at all about it that’s so rude.
You're right but you repeated yourself so many times... honestly this video could've been done and dusted in 3 minutes. But thanks for the advice it's very good 😊
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Being talked down to & insulted is a red flag & should never be tolerated.
Not true, this you just have to ignore.
Not all situations can be resolved with a respectful response, unfortunately. Sometimes you have to mirror the disrespect that is thrown at you.
I could never act that way. It's not in my nature.
That’s where I’m lost
YES! TRUTH!!!
Im very patient with disrespectful people until I snap. When they see my eyes trembling thats when the bullying stops. It works everytime.
Jan Jacobszoon I also have a lot of patience, but I don't like that these people are so inconsiderate and disrespectful. it's hard not to believe they do it intentionally, it does come to a point you have to confront people about it because keeping quiet effect self confidence and such
people don't respect me and I hate it
Same
@@SuperMan-nk5bq You need to fight with them
Adam I have done on a few occasions, there are serious consequences.
You know. You're absolutely right. I'm always trying to smooth the waters and be patient and tolerant but there is a limit.
cops disrespected my passed away father any ideas?????
Sell said my friend
Well*
Great video. I think it is important to address it when people are being disrespectful. When nobody says anything, it allows people to continue to behave badly and maybe even become corrupt.
the cops disrespected my passed away father?
That's so true Suszanna. What do you think if people of the street doesn't respect me in a way, i dont like getting touched or stressed by anyone! Do you think it Is imposible to avoid that! Today i was just fucking up everyone in a respectful but very direct way, befire they could even come to close to me, because i saw their intensión literly in their eyes. But it takes so much Energy that gets me thinking AND Is really depressing.
BRO!!!! It's hella dope to know there's still a few of us left, that actually understand the importance of direct honesty, and self worth. I'm 100% with you all the way! #PREACH
Love it! DIRECT, not ask nicely, RESPECTFULLY DIRECT THEM that they can't speak to you this way. If they laugh or snark then GTFO, but if they go serious and understand and communicate back and change... Good Work!
Nice job man. Thanks for taking the time. Just remember that, it's really their problem not yours. Boils down to what you want to tolerate. It took me many years to eliminate toxic people like them from my life. But, now I'm very good at eliminating toxicity from my life. Love yourself.
I worked for a narcissistist for nearly 10 yrs. I couldn't figure what his trip was. Beat me down constantly. I searched his traits on Google. He was extreme narcissistist. If you come across one of them, run as fast as you can. Cut all ties immediately. Very sick people.
If it’s some random jerk you’ll never see again - you ignore
If it’s someone in your life or someone you have to deal with (like coworker), you address it or that monster will grow
I used to have a hard time with the first. But I’ve come a long way once I realized it’s Just ego messing with me
Honestly this Is a Really intresting way of seeing it! Mil thanks for that advice!
So if it's a random jerk i just ignore it, maybe, until i Explode 😂😂👍
It really doesnt matter if it's a random person or not. Ignoring or should I say not checking someone who disrespects you will be taken as weakness in most cases. So say if you are with friends or family or your spouse and some stranger disrespects you in public, you gotta check the disrespect or THEY will think you are weak and not a leader.
God help us with these type of people who are disrespectful towards us
I am the best version of myself yet people disrespect me all the time. I dont accept it which leads me to cut out most people from my life. I'm fine with it.
You teach people how to treat you! You never allow abuse! If it doesn’t feel right, it’s NOT!!!!
Thank you for this, it's made a huge difference to those rare occasion where I need to respond keeping an intelligent way forward
That's why I don't have any friends and don't talk to anybody as much!!!!
Dat part
You need to find friends like you
I'm with you FeeFee!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤
Dope video. Real talk. Helpful video. We need more videos on this topic. Especially about people that look for fights.
People who disrespect others are sados they have issues.
Thank you for this! A huge part of having healthy boundaries is to address respectfully how others treat us!.. I appreciate your words in this video! Thank you! 💖
Appreciate the respect that you stated for your step dad by adjusting your cursing around him.
Definitely it's personal boundaries 👌
People dont like Adjusting Aint that Too Bad Sucks For Him.Yes.....
That's exactly how i see it brother. You are the first one ever that thinks like me. 💯💯💥
True I stopped being a doormat to this people including my sister I cut her off for publicly humiliating me as if I had no standards.
Great video man! currently going through similar issues and this gave me a good insight on what to do and how to handle my situation. Thank You, God Bless.
glad you found of value and thanks for sharing!
Honestly brother. It's too much. In the street always people touching me because they look on the ground or on their stupid cellphone. I can't tolerante it but life Is so depressing. I've had to call out almost everyone on the street today. I feel so clean from the inside but at the same Time depressed, because someone Will take it the wrong way AND then things Will escalate.
That is a great quote to live by . 100 percent truth!!!!!
Wow amazing Video. So much value. I use to ignore it but like lth I just can not relate to that. I'm so happy you did this video. Confirmation that my feeling are what matter the most.
Nice
I needed this ✊ thanks man.
I needed this. Thanks man
Thx. Triggering and provocating people are destructive people and predators on others wellbeeing and since Im not atheist anymore things got more and more easy to shield from toxic behavior. I say behavior and not human. Its a very important difference between peoples opinion and behavior. First of all its changeable. If you were those it couldnt change in life. Im not a slave under all Toxic people anymore. 😊 💜
The main people who would not be addressing that are people who have (barely) survived long-term abuse.
To us: the part he says about ignoring it for the rest of your life… …disrespectful people *will* continue for the rest of your life. You’ll look up decades later unable to find your voice. You have to find your feet again in whatever ways you can manage, to halt the people who feel Jack squat about disrespecting you. On God’s word, they’ll never stop themselves- ever- they will disrespect your grave- it’s that deep- because they’ve been allowed to believe they can. Don’t let them.
I m tired of ppl disrespecting me next time i recieve it i m gona flip out and do something
Don’t. Handle it the right way. Don’t let yourself sink to their level. I understand you want to flip out and give them what they’ve been giving you, but simply cut them off. If it keeps going on, then confront them but not in a hostile manner. Keep your cool no matter what.
It always leads to violence and hostility and that leads to being terminated and prison
But do you have videos on what to actually say to people when setting boundaries so that there is little to no defensiveness etc....
Goes for anybody, if they’re breathing. Sniff sniff. Lol, that couldn’t be a said any better.
Thanks a lot sir
Thanks bro👍👍👍
My roomate doesn’t change though & I’m too poor to move 😖. I tried. Several times.
People only do to you what you let them do to you!
Don't talk to me tht way, don't disrespect me. I don't deserve tht.
Try to remember to say what I just typed above this in the heat of the moment. It will be hard to remember. If you forget, it's too late. Tho, these are the correct sentences
thank you
You talk about communicating with people as if they give a fuck. Disrespectful people are *disrespectful*.....THEY DO NOT CAAAARE
It's true, some people really are unaware of how disrespectful they are towards you or a group. Other's who confirm and acknowledge their purposeful disrespect are the real toxic that needs to be kicked out of your life no matter how much they throw a fit or claim you are nothing without them (epic toxic if they say that).
This video is the truth
GOD bless you sir
thanks dude
What about if they know you want to address it but won't let it happen then what sir?.
You the truth bro
refreshing you are !!
thank you for sharing!
Why bother respectfully telling someone who was just rude to u , to respect u? Im not a fan of man or woman. I just dont tolerate it. I just pray for them & keep The Lord in ma mind going through those times.
Billionaire BrownOnline ... I rather show some one love man. So i get u. It’s kind of like how if your input is love, it’ll touch them to a point where they respond back with love without them knowing. Bless u bro. All the way from ny 🙏🏼
Thanks man
thank you for watching!!! My pleasure 🙏🏽👲🏽
I believe Telling them dudnt Woek so back Away staying away keeping Safe Walking Away Yes. IGNORE Yes I was very Clear and Direct Boot Up kick them out Yes. You're Right.
What does talking down to someone mean?
Hello Sir how are you today??
A lady talked down to me she said I trashed her on Facebook which I didn’t write anything about her on the Facebook I don’t write trash on Facebook I am too sweet I try to treat sweet and friendly I’m crying because she hurts me and I feel ignored by people too
dont sweat the small stuff and of course keep it moving in a positive direction!
How to deal with rude people. They know I don’t want to be around dogs but they are constantly out my door with dogs and I want to be able to go outside they don’t care at all about it that’s so rude.
🤙
Wow
We need the purge
Knock em out
🙏🙏
You're right but you repeated yourself so many times... honestly this video could've been done and dusted in 3 minutes. But thanks for the advice it's very good 😊
That's RIGHT😂
Haha funny but this dude has knowledge and i say right two times as much as he does.