Don't Get Fooled: 5 Signs You're Dealing With An Evil Person

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  • @user-wm6rv6xo5q
    @user-wm6rv6xo5q 10 месяцев назад +4044

    What hurts most is if that evil person is part of your own family.

    • @nikkiturnup1688
      @nikkiturnup1688 10 месяцев назад +281

      Yes family these days are the worst !

    • @user-hk2wr5yi3p
      @user-hk2wr5yi3p 10 месяцев назад +151

      Feel your pain

    • @tamtamtt63
      @tamtamtt63 10 месяцев назад +87

      Yeah tell me about it

    • @avasmith3451
      @avasmith3451 10 месяцев назад +208

      That will be my parents and my 2 sisters , im the middle child , they made me the scrapegoat for everything , they were like clones of each other the things they did and said the smirks the eye rolls , i knew though they were pure evil , hence i left home soon as i could 17 years old , and live as far away from them as possible

    • @robertc.6441
      @robertc.6441 10 месяцев назад +64

      @@avasmith3451 I know how you feel, with me it's not necessarily my sister's, but my brother, SAD!

  • @blessedacre2933
    @blessedacre2933 8 месяцев назад +969

    Serious question. Does it seem like evil people are increasing, or is it just me? Seems like it is REALLY hard to find people who are genuine and kind.

    • @NewKasuto
      @NewKasuto 8 месяцев назад +61

      I think people are just more open about it now. Occasionally you would see people looting stores after a riot or a natural disaster years ago, but now in 2023 you can see some people just walk into a retail store just fill up a cart or bags and walk out the store.

    • @everrealeuginia75
      @everrealeuginia75 8 месяцев назад +33

      I know right! So crazy!

    • @elsiegreer826
      @elsiegreer826 8 месяцев назад +71

      Very hard to find genuine caring friends. If you have one - that’s enough

    • @Matthew_85k
      @Matthew_85k 8 месяцев назад +34

      In my experience, I walk into places where I know people and most of them are "decent" but a truly nice person is always hard to find. I suppose it's worth pointing out that sometimes it's easy for nice people to give a bad impression. I myself have definitely put my foot in my mouth more than once. There have been times where I blurted out something mean or should have given someone more attention than I did.
      Perhaps part of it is your perception has changed over the years which has made you more aware of peoples flaws. I suppose, sometimes we have to take the good with the bad. Even my closest Christian friends have displayed their ugly side to me before.
      If indeed evil people are increasing, I blame the media and world around us for telling them that it's OK.

    • @charleswhite758
      @charleswhite758 8 месяцев назад +36

      Many people are genuine and kind - but only up to a limit. Perhaps we expect too much? The worst are "Christians" who are so nice and kind to you but you know it's all fake because they want to go to heaven. When people are nice but are not religious, that is quite something, because it's genuine with no self-interest tacked-on.

  • @randomvintagefilm273
    @randomvintagefilm273 8 месяцев назад +531

    One clue that comes to mind is they never say they are sorry (because they aren't)

    • @netosampaio8548
      @netosampaio8548 6 месяцев назад +33

      Yes, they do say sorry when they think they can get more out of you, or when they need to fake empathy. It's all transactional with these monsters.

    • @YakyahMuhammad-ep9ne
      @YakyahMuhammad-ep9ne 5 месяцев назад +1

      Wow lol

    • @YakyahMuhammad-ep9ne
      @YakyahMuhammad-ep9ne 5 месяцев назад

      Yep Antonio Finn and Sebastian manning

    • @bettyh3747
      @bettyh3747 5 месяцев назад +5

      I had bosses like that

    • @dannyg6053
      @dannyg6053 5 месяцев назад +2

      Or thank you

  • @dekka888
    @dekka888 6 месяцев назад +76

    After 50 yrs of life on this planet I have learnt to see Everyone as evil until they show me otherwise.

    • @vordman
      @vordman 2 месяца назад +11

      I think that's a sensible policy. I'm ten years older, and outside family and long-term friends I don't trust anyone. I've been stung a few times and now I don't care who I offend while sticking to my beliefs. One tip I'll happily share is, never trust anyone in a suit. Unless you're at a funeral or a wedding!

    • @billfarley9167
      @billfarley9167 Месяц назад +1

      You must be fun to be with.

    • @DavidReyes210TX
      @DavidReyes210TX 26 дней назад +5

      We are all born in Sin. It's inevitable we are all evil
      We all have pride ego and Arrogance. We seek pleasure in food, money, sex, drugs, attention, etc. no matter if we have it all we will still feel empty.
      The Bible states we do not wrestle with flesh and blood, but against rulers, against the authorities of the unseen world,
      Against might powers of this dark world and against evil spirits in the heavenly places
      Ephesians 6:12.
      That's why we Must trust in the Lord. Jesus died in the cross for us. Resurrected on the 3rd day so we can have everlasting eternal life in he's presence of LOVE.
      Once you Follow Christ.
      Chris will live within your heart and you will no longer be a part of this evil world we live in
      You will stand out. Your love & peace will be recognized.

    • @CoreyWagers-hi6cu
      @CoreyWagers-hi6cu 23 дня назад +1

      Good ? Evil ?? These terms are childlike descriptions... Nobodys evil until they are.... No bodys good until they are... All a stage .. all bs..

    • @yamiyo6050
      @yamiyo6050 11 дней назад

      Bible agrees with u

  • @ana.d5367
    @ana.d5367 9 месяцев назад +1197

    1) Charming/too good to be true
    2) Lack of empathy
    3) Manipulative/lying/gaslighting
    4) Controlling/violent/noisy
    5) Pathological liar

    • @mssoulsister2186
      @mssoulsister2186 9 месяцев назад +4

      = A NARCISSIST!!

    • @judycrisenbery2982
      @judycrisenbery2982 9 месяцев назад +34

      My 2 sisters

    • @fjj310
      @fjj310 9 месяцев назад +97

      Also the signs of a narcissist

    • @dylanx9327
      @dylanx9327 9 месяцев назад +54

      looks like you are describing Mohamed in the Koran..

    • @salmaabbasi6978
      @salmaabbasi6978 9 месяцев назад +33

      @@dylanx9327May Allah guide you to treat people the way you want to be treated. Have a blessed life🤲

  • @redfritz3356
    @redfritz3356 11 месяцев назад +1337

    Blaming you for their mistakes is also a very common trick.

    • @LION-on4gd
      @LION-on4gd 11 месяцев назад +37

      Anyway these ones Always do "Blameshifting".

    • @flintwestwood3596
      @flintwestwood3596 10 месяцев назад +12

      Blaming others is not necessarily a sign of evil. It may just be they have a hard time relating to people, but big picture, they actually protect you and bail you out of sticky situations. Their actions then show they're good people. I live with someone who's exactly like this, they abuse me verbally and physically, always blame me for thigs I'm not responsible for, theaten me with destroying property under my name to "punish" me when they feel disobeyed, tell me I'm nothing but a failure and will always fail at my projects and accuse me of being a bad person, but this person always has my back when faced with challenges from the "outside world." Has never dropped the ball once on me.

    • @jeffreyfunke8866
      @jeffreyfunke8866 9 месяцев назад +16

      Any politician!

    • @olavi401
      @olavi401 9 месяцев назад

      Good call. I just worked for a devil for six months. What a stereo type of an untruthful, uncivilized, and evil person. Scary thought is that perhaps 75 - 85 percent of small businesses are run by criminals like him. Never again!

    • @nataliecampbell2439
      @nataliecampbell2439 9 месяцев назад +19

      Shifts focus off of them and placing blame on you to make themselves feel better

  • @iamjustsaying4787
    @iamjustsaying4787 8 месяцев назад +217

    Being “aggressive” to get your way is not usually yelling. The yelling is very often the victim trying to draw boundaries. The most evil is the passive aggressive. The ones who quietly make the victim look like the bad guy. Now that’s evil.

    • @xthexskrillex
      @xthexskrillex 7 месяцев назад +11

      underated comment!

    • @VeronicaDavis-zv3mo
      @VeronicaDavis-zv3mo 5 месяцев назад +6

      My mother was narcissistic.God rest her soul.

    • @scarletevans4474
      @scarletevans4474 3 месяца назад +1

      I usually try to reply to them with passive-agressive too, it can be quite effective! 🙂People are often demonizing passive-agressiveness too much, while it's often good both for being assertive, as well as opposing people that are trying to be too manipulative!

    • @Confused_Biracial
      @Confused_Biracial 2 месяца назад +1

      yes!

    • @dannyg6053
      @dannyg6053 2 месяца назад +1

      Ya bc passive aggressive ppl have no spine they are sneaky nosey jealous and irrational people.. Matter of fact they are full of sociopathic traits.. A cowardly manipulator can create a lot of chaos thru others, although they are usually stupid AF and CANNOT handle confrontation

  • @claytonangotti1784
    @claytonangotti1784 8 месяцев назад +45

    A “friend” who I thought was my friend turned out to be evil, don’t let a persons looks or nice personality fool you

  • @lucillekluivert343
    @lucillekluivert343 11 месяцев назад +2070

    DONT TELL PEOPLE TO SET BOUNDARIES WHEN DEALING WITH AN EVIL PERSON BUT TELL THEM TO STAY AWAY FROM THEM OR RUN FROM THEM

    • @sanzupun4713
      @sanzupun4713 11 месяцев назад +90

      Most of the time it's impossible to get away from evil person as it can be any one in our family..we won't be able to run from them..we can't just change our job whenever we want or ghost our siblings if any of them turns out to be evil person.its easier to say than done...it's good to know how to set boundaries and fight back than just running away

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 11 месяцев назад +104

      Agreed. Evil people don't respect boundaries. What they do respect is a punch in the nose.

    • @lucillekluivert343
      @lucillekluivert343 11 месяцев назад +56

      @@sanzupun4713 I WOULD RATHER DO WHAT PLEASES GOD THAN MEN BECAUSE I DONT WANNA WALK ON EGG SHELLS WITH ANYBODY NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE ITS BETTER TO CONNECT WITH PEOPLE ON THE SAME PATH LIKE YOU THAT MEANS EQUALLY YOKED AND IF NOT I DONT WANNA DEAL WITH YOU TO TAKE ME OF MY PATH WITH GOD ,I CAN PRAY FOR THEM FROM A DISTANCE I WANNA LIVE IN PEACE WITH GOD AND MEN

    • @laurenduvall8547
      @laurenduvall8547 11 месяцев назад +26

      Hell yes! It doesn't matter if they are your boss or parent.

    • @lucillekluivert343
      @lucillekluivert343 11 месяцев назад

      @@laurenduvall8547 TRUE BECAUSE THEY LOVE TO RUIN YOUR PEACE AND BREAK YOUR SPIRIT

  • @davidhunter2824
    @davidhunter2824 11 месяцев назад +1625

    Evil parents and relatives are even harder to deal with. If you're dealing with a toxic parent or relative, the best way to deal with them is to avoid being around them as much as possible. Show them that their behavior is unacceptable and you will not be around them. Its hard to deal with toxic parents and relatives, but remember this: you deserve respect and anyone who doesn't respect you should be removed from your life.

    • @LION-on4gd
      @LION-on4gd 11 месяцев назад +31

      Thank You!!

    • @Deborah-kt8yw
      @Deborah-kt8yw 11 месяцев назад +46

      Don't deal with them.

    • @anthonymangia8890
      @anthonymangia8890 11 месяцев назад +42

      I agree, I've done this and I'm much happy in life! It was hard at first, but I managed and I have no regrets.

    • @tommyparkerparker
      @tommyparkerparker 10 месяцев назад +26

      I’m very minimal with them if I have to deal with them.

    • @arcwellhernandez9127
      @arcwellhernandez9127 10 месяцев назад +20

      This is gold , well said bro

  • @MauriceRivers415
    @MauriceRivers415 8 месяцев назад +208

    When dealing with evil people, distance yourself ASAP and cut off all contact. Silence is killer to their ego, because then they have no access to you, which is what they crave in order to feed their insecurity.

    • @elizabethbowie9753
      @elizabethbowie9753 5 месяцев назад +12

      True, but when I went No Contact, they got crazier, to get a reaction out of me.

    • @tanyawales5445
      @tanyawales5445 5 месяцев назад

      Eventually that sort of behavior stops. It can take a long time though. In my ex-husband's case it was when I got the third protection order for myself and my son. My ex-husband's lawyer told him that if he didn't give me what I wanted that he would lose all contact with our son. I got physical custody, 100% child support and medical coverage for my son. I was also able to move with my son to within a 600 mile radius from where I was living. I called it the "Zone of Freedom". Prior to that, I was confined to the county where the divorce was granted. Up to that point I was dragged into court multiple times, harassed and our son who had mental problems had his medication and treatment withheld periodically by my ex. I was bankrupted from the legal fees. My ex also tried to ruin my reputation. This happened for SIX years after the divorce.
      Once I had my freedom, my ex left the area suddenly and didn't contact his son ONCE in over three years. My ex did pay his child support. All of this childhood trauma ruined my son. He won't take his medication for bipolar illness since his father always told him that I was the crazy one and my son became threatening towards me. I had to cut my adult son out of my life for my physical and emotional wellbeing.
      What I learned was to always stick to the letter of the divorce agreement and to never compromise with the ex-spouse because they will always end up double crossing you by stating to police that YOU violated the divorce agreement in an effort to get you arrested. Use the court system to protect you and your children if there is violence with Orders of Protection. If you can get alimony - take it! Alimony would have paid my legal bills from when I was dragged into court by my ex who had more money than I did. With alimony I would have avoided bankruptcy.

    • @janharris8949
      @janharris8949 4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks!

    • @spaideman440
      @spaideman440 2 месяца назад

      @@elizabethbowie9753 yes, when you go no contact, they will try every mean to get a reaction out of you, including trying to influence my children to achieve the evil person's goal.

    • @kd741
      @kd741 2 месяца назад

      @@elizabethbowie9753just do. All you can to keep them away.

  • @LeniDell
    @LeniDell 8 месяцев назад +50

    As crappy a situation as it is, people like this are unavailable. Sooner or later we’ll ALL have to deal with one.
    Best piece of advice… never tell them your secrets, your fears or your wants in life. Keep them at a polite arm’s length. Especially if it’s a coworker.
    Don’t live by the old adage of “giving the benefit of the doubt”. Some people aren’t worthy of trust. So don’t.

    • @Stubbornclarity
      @Stubbornclarity 2 месяца назад +2

      I wish wish wish I'd known that years ago! Would have saved me a world of pain!!! Never again will I trust ANYONE!

  • @angelacarbon4010
    @angelacarbon4010 8 месяцев назад +169

    Sometimes they only seem interested in you to get information about you to attack you at a later time.

    • @fishstar3740
      @fishstar3740 5 месяцев назад +10

      That’s true, I have experienced it.

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 4 месяца назад

      Please forgive my manner of approach, for dropping a non related comment here on your personal page. I'm trying to be cool and believe me I'm cool. Please feel free to become friends with me and talk to me, I will really appreciate that.Your profile was suggested to me, so I decide to drop a comment as a medium of asking permission and friendship, so it wouldn't had been possible to know that such an amazing young lady like do exist if you were not suggested to me

    • @angelacarbon4010
      @angelacarbon4010 4 месяца назад +2

      @@Morisonparker10 Who suggested my profile to you?

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 4 месяца назад

      @@angelacarbon4010 I was just going through some news here and your profile popped up, wanting to know you so i write to you so we can get to know each other. i mean no harm.

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 4 месяца назад

      @@angelacarbon4010 I don't know if you had a whatsap so we can get to know more about our self if you don't mind

  • @georgeenke4937
    @georgeenke4937 11 месяцев назад +178

    I just want to live in a small cabin on a little island.

  • @younoticedme
    @younoticedme 8 месяцев назад +21

    When I discovered someone I was close to was evil, I was devastated and I didn't want to believe it. However, over time, it became more apparent, and I cut ties with them and never looked back. It was hard to do but their destructive stealthy behaviors would have destroyed me so I made a tough decision. The thing is they look so sweet and innocent in the outside, but it couldn't be more further from the truth.

  • @myLordSaves
    @myLordSaves 8 месяцев назад +35

    I live in a development that has a few people just like this.
    They go around and cut the people they don't care for down and when you confront them, they play the "innocent card".
    This is so true and spot on.

  • @renecurry9978
    @renecurry9978 9 месяцев назад +231

    Through my experience evil people don’t tolerate boundaries. They resent your attempt to have them and seek revenge.

    • @Dawn737
      @Dawn737 8 месяцев назад +14

      Yeah, that's what I thought. The video describes evil people well but gives absolutely terrible advice about how to handle them. If evil people listened when told "I need credit for my own work", they wouldn't be so evil in the first place! The better way to deal with the evil person is to cut them out of your life as much as possible and never be shy to tell everyone else why. For instance, tell the boss that your coworker keeps claiming credit for your work, not your evil coworker. If your boss is the one who is evil, leave him scrambling while you walk away to your new job.

    • @laurabrown6522
      @laurabrown6522 8 месяцев назад +5

      Agreed - the retaliation is fast & fierce.

    • @phylliscruz7090
      @phylliscruz7090 5 месяцев назад

      You said exactly what I am thinking but I wasn't sure if I was thinking correctly. So thankyou and God Bless Us Everyone!

    • @people_are_sheep
      @people_are_sheep 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Dawn737 I disliked the video due to the awful advice.

    • @RekhaSharma-gh7hs
      @RekhaSharma-gh7hs 5 дней назад

      This is sooo true @renecurry9978

  • @kathymankin1624
    @kathymankin1624 8 месяцев назад +154

    Run for your life once you realize someone is evil. They can’t change.

    • @lamonthamilton667
      @lamonthamilton667 5 месяцев назад +4

      Or Rarely!!!!! DO.

    • @tommcdonough6086
      @tommcdonough6086 5 месяцев назад +7

      Agree life is to short to be around TOXIC people, don't have time for drama. Peace.............

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 4 месяца назад

      Please forgive my manner of approach, for dropping a non related comment here on your personal page, I saw your profile and found you intriguing .Your personality of fun loving is very attractive to me. You seem quite intelligent and have a mature perspective on life.I'm looking for friendship please feel free to talk to me here on our comment section i will highly appreciate that❤❤❤

    • @people_are_sheep
      @people_are_sheep 4 месяца назад +1

      💯

  • @Elisabeth19031978
    @Elisabeth19031978 8 месяцев назад +14

    And then those people cut you out of their lives when you set boundaries and they still won't learn..😢

  • @ahmaiingaihi007
    @ahmaiingaihi007 8 месяцев назад +24

    Everything you said is what ive been through . Exactly, Evil people exist and they were very busy trying to destryed me .Theyve turned my life into a horrible nightmare. Everything you said is true and im protecting myself by distancing and cutting off myself and them .

  • @Awake-Free-CT
    @Awake-Free-CT 8 месяцев назад +523

    I have one more important piece of advice when dealing with these people. Never tell them your personal business or your fears, or anything you dont want people to know as they will most definitely use it against you to control you and possibly blackmail you with and get inside your head, making you feel guilty etc, turning other people against you.
    I find the best way is to just keep certain things to yourself and don't trust anyone fully.

    • @reeseythings6575
      @reeseythings6575 8 месяцев назад +10

      Weaknesses is the word your looking for

    • @Rhiannoncout
      @Rhiannoncout 8 месяцев назад +7

      You are so right!

    • @RonHolland-ke8jc
      @RonHolland-ke8jc 8 месяцев назад +6

      Hello. I remember seeing a poster decades ago that said "trust everyone but cut the cards" took me awhile to understand it. However I didn't know it also refered to relatives.

    • @Kim-427
      @Kim-427 8 месяцев назад +15

      Absolutely do not tell them your fears. They will use them against you and to manipulate you to control you emotionally.

    • @yolandabendter903
      @yolandabendter903 8 месяцев назад

      I had one,,,Who planned his evil strategy,,,from the onset,,,An evil minded android"(NOT EVEN,,,AT LEAST AN ANDROID,,,IS NOT EVIL ON ITS ON FRUITION),,,Why must you destroy,,,a person who did nothing to you---because you are decayed within---"(NOT EVEN---AT LEAST DEAD MATTER DOES NOT Destroy)",,, WHAT MATTER OF concoction is this thing,,,

  • @diopfifi4937
    @diopfifi4937 11 месяцев назад +285

    Yup. They take pleasure causing pain, humiliation. I worked with a lady like that.

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 11 месяцев назад +22

      So did I. I had a co-worker who gave off bad vibes that made me nervous just being around her, even though I had never met her before. But as time went on, she deliberately gave me bad info so I would make a mistake, and the boss bawled me out in front of the crew. She smirked, enjoying my embarrassment. She did everything she could to make me quit or get fired. She sabotaged my work, used verbal and physical intimidation, lied to the boss about me, and tried to start a fight with me one day by getting within an inch of my face. She was lazy, did the bare minimum of work required, and didn't help when the workload got heavy. We worked together for 18 months, then she quit. Nobody was sad to see her go, because she had alienated the rest of the crew with her laziness and lying. *if someone is giving off bad vibes trust your instincts*

    • @diopfifi4937
      @diopfifi4937 11 месяцев назад +13

      @@lindaoneil5085 that's exactly what I was dealing with. OMG they are scary and evil 😈💔😭

    • @melissagreene4174
      @melissagreene4174 11 месяцев назад +13

      I had one of those coworkers.

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 11 месяцев назад +15

      @@melissagreene4174 I understand totally. You have enough stress about work, without some hateful person trying to trip you up and cause more unnecessary stress.

    • @jamesbyrne9312
      @jamesbyrne9312 10 месяцев назад +4

      My friend does this through sports we play together. They can't stand looking second to me. They are mad

  • @jennieosborne3530
    @jennieosborne3530 2 месяца назад +5

    I can't tolerate anyone that is controlling or manipulative. I had to either step back or cut it off completely with them.

  • @cjmarshall0221
    @cjmarshall0221 8 месяцев назад +7

    One major difference between a bad person and an evil person is only an evil person will do evil just for the sake of doing evil. They do it simply because they enjoy it - worse they thrive on it. Watch their reactions when a third party you both know has some type of misfortune. The evil person will usually react with indifference - unless they themselves were responsible. Then they smile and act happy about that misfortune. Questioning them will bring on an immediate denial - they will claim to be thinking of something else. Yet the smile returns each time they see the person who is having trouble. Beware!

  • @garycordle5295
    @garycordle5295 10 месяцев назад +303

    Boundaries is nothing but challenge fuel to these evil parasites, once you know you go you get out and you stay out,no contact 🙏

    • @kristineloader1876
      @kristineloader1876 9 месяцев назад +4

    • @SJJewel-fl2jl
      @SJJewel-fl2jl 9 месяцев назад +10

      I had someone in my life for a few years that was the poster child for being a boundary crossed. It was the fight of my life and the most exhausting thing I ever experienced. I finally had to totally ignore this person to the point of being cruel which was foreign to me but I persevered. It really was them or me. I knew I would win because ultimately they cannot stand to lose..it's too much of a hit for their fragile ego. They are finally gone..ŵell it's been a year since last contact..what's important I am gone..because they may try contact even after a long time. I do not respond and that is the key...never..ever respond.

    • @batphink2655
      @batphink2655 8 месяцев назад +4

      AND return or preferably throw out ALL gifts they may have given you or anything you let them borrow as these object will have 'Spiritual Attachmendt' with them increasing their power over you.

    • @courtneymeyers82
      @courtneymeyers82 8 месяцев назад +6

      Boss trying to get me to quit or get fired, scapegoated and sabotaged. High turnover, she can't resist playing her twisted games. She has actually gone in and manipulated files in my work queue. I really think she enjoys harassing and tormenting people until they quit, like a cat plays with a mouse before killing it

    • @tatie7604
      @tatie7604 8 месяцев назад +7

      ​Consider changing jobs. Seriously.

  • @theresahaines2647
    @theresahaines2647 10 месяцев назад +319

    You’re describing all narcissists!

  • @jeffreygallahar4650
    @jeffreygallahar4650 5 месяцев назад +11

    I have cut ties with a family member after years of being passive about the abuse that I suffered and witnessed. I was a full blown practicing alcoholic . After 7 unsuccessful trips to treatment I was able to stop drinking (almost 900 days now) by standing up to him. He is very good at playing the game. Now my other family members have turned against me, it's Christmas and I'm spending it with my dogs, sober though. Sure beats slowly killing myself with alcohol.❤

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 5 месяцев назад +1

      When I tried to tell my siblings about my childhood abuse they stood up for my parents. That is when the relationship ended.

    • @sandradsouza3272
      @sandradsouza3272 2 месяца назад

      Pls don't Drink I Beg of U...God Will Surely Heal U. I Will Pray for U. U Will Even Testify to the GLORY of God Amen!!

  • @donnahaynes2325
    @donnahaynes2325 3 месяца назад +11

    He was nice, giving and charismatic to everyone but me, the girlfriend. In addition to verbal & physical abuse. I finally managed to get out of it. Thank God! 🙏

    • @Stubbornclarity
      @Stubbornclarity 2 месяца назад +1

      They target kind people. And use them for everything they can! Wishing you healing and recovery. And happiness.

  • @joekidd1057
    @joekidd1057 8 месяцев назад +187

    Spotting Evil is getting really easy in these Days. Try finding someone kind and righteous, now there's a challenge. Thanks for the thumbs up, it's a shame there wasn't more. It's more than 1 though. Keep up the good work, and God Bless.

    • @user-tr5ts6dp6i
      @user-tr5ts6dp6i 8 месяцев назад

      Evil people lie, dominate, burn with jealousy, make u sick n eye your money. I know two people, n only God can save me from them.

    • @anony5021
      @anony5021 8 месяцев назад +3

      💯

    • @seanodwyer4322
      @seanodwyer4322 8 месяцев назад +1

      Royal Prophet/seer/ Intercessorr- Sean O'Dwyer- 136- 140 Hobson street.- Auckland city.- 1010. - new zealand.- South pacific.'''

    • @janaleland9038
      @janaleland9038 5 месяцев назад +1

      YSHUA Said that when HE Came Back, would HE Find even one person of this Faith and belief --in reference to the legionnaire's beloved and very ill servant.
      And JESUS Said, " Take ME to him and the legionnaire said for HIM to just speak the healing out and it would happen.
      The Moral of this story is that there is a Remnant that is in place. We just have to be able to discern whether we want to be that Remnant or be the popular many. Being the Remnant is and can be lonely. But, it's Rewards are mighty.

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 5 месяцев назад +2

      Agree! I have not found a real friend.

  • @carlosmatthews8652
    @carlosmatthews8652 10 месяцев назад +71

    Once u been around the block, so many times, evil people don't surprise me, I could spot them a mile away they all got the same game, and u could feel the bad energy

    • @debbieallen2686
      @debbieallen2686 9 месяцев назад +7

      Yes. The person I work with the air in the store was always heavy . I felt so tired all the time. Now the air is light and the whole place is different..

    • @anzelac5808
      @anzelac5808 8 месяцев назад +2

      Absolutely!

  • @georgemallory797
    @georgemallory797 8 месяцев назад +22

    You're right about evil people being pathological liars. My dad is evil. I last saw him in 1999. He's a sociopath. He has 6 kids yet has ZERO contact with any of them. He's never met my 9 year old son or my sister's two sons. He's 81 and I hope I never see him again. I got to where I couldn't believe ANYTHING he said. He'd lie when the truth would have been far easier and simpler. I haven't missed him for even 5 minutes.

    • @SteveJohnson-uu9ew
      @SteveJohnson-uu9ew Месяц назад

      My dad is 65, I surely hope he won't still be trashing me behind the scenes until 80

  • @people_are_sheep
    @people_are_sheep 4 месяца назад +9

    Perfect description of my boss. 10 working days left as have resigned. Today one of our customers said to me he is a narc, a brat and a coward. Correct!
    I have been exposing him to our customers, most already know. The business is on life support, hopefully it will go bust and the trauma bonded staff will be free.

    • @people_are_sheep
      @people_are_sheep 3 месяца назад +2

      Out now! Mind you he did try a hoover a few days back! I have blocked him.

  • @Godwins47
    @Godwins47 9 месяцев назад +143

    Until Karma hits!!!! Then they lose! True story!! Seen it happen right before my eyes!

    • @OumyLand-wf7tp
      @OumyLand-wf7tp 8 месяцев назад +22

      I don’t know I’ve seen people that did horrible things but they seem living their best life 🤷‍♀️

    • @bridgettestone5585
      @bridgettestone5585 8 месяцев назад +6

      Me too

    • @Monatio79
      @Monatio79 8 месяцев назад +14

      @@OumyLand-wf7tp But are they really "living their best life" or does it just seem that way?
      And the thing about karma is spot on. The laws of nature dictate that you cannot keep getting away with being an evil person and expect nothing to happen. Maybe not tomorrow, next week or next year, but eventually; what goes around comes around.

    • @OumyLand-wf7tp
      @OumyLand-wf7tp 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@Monatio79 i hope so

    • @PacDarRelaxation
      @PacDarRelaxation 26 дней назад

      @@Monatio79 This is very true. I saw this happen many times to people who treated me badly for no reason.

  • @nicole7642
    @nicole7642 11 месяцев назад +83

    Evil people have mean souls

    • @christianbenn316
      @christianbenn316 11 месяцев назад +12

      & God will punish such persons

    • @newjerseydevil6115
      @newjerseydevil6115 11 месяцев назад +18

      They have no souls.

    • @abba1459
      @abba1459 10 месяцев назад +15

      They’re soulless, due to their behavior & choices, they’ve already lost their souls

    • @user-qi8vj2bi8j
      @user-qi8vj2bi8j 9 месяцев назад +10

      Or no soul because the devil has their soul.

    • @chef1549
      @chef1549 3 месяца назад +2

      Lost souls

  • @karenbell4145
    @karenbell4145 5 месяцев назад +8

    There are a few people in my life who I feel are evil. One of whom is really sick and out of control. I would start to get palpitations from this person. That's not good 😢. This video was so on target on so many levels. Thanks for showing this.

  • @adamstevens3263
    @adamstevens3263 8 месяцев назад +5

    Evil actions don't deserve kind words. Don't enable evil behavior

  • @sleepydoppy8516
    @sleepydoppy8516 9 месяцев назад +172

    If you think you are with a narcissist, run as fast as you can. And for your own health and sanity, no contact as much as possible

    • @batphink2655
      @batphink2655 8 месяцев назад +7

      When you live near Toronto that means half the people you've e met!

    • @mariaalexander7037
      @mariaalexander7037 8 месяцев назад +5

      When the evil person tries to destroy you that vampire ends up destroying himself when you detatch yourself completely. Children included. They chose his controlling and disrespect toxic behaviour. I won. They lost.

    • @BST-lm4po
      @BST-lm4po 8 месяцев назад +2

      Just remember, anyone who would cheat on a partner,.. would stab you in the back too!
      They're narcissists,..all they care about is themselves!

  • @igtgw
    @igtgw 10 месяцев назад +132

    Thinking being evil makes you a badass is the dumbest thing I have ever heard 😊

    • @lindahollander3588
      @lindahollander3588 10 месяцев назад +12

      Being a badass is not a good quality, I guess they don't know it

    • @johncorson6599
      @johncorson6599 10 месяцев назад

      Yep, one of my brothers’ thinks exactly like that .. I believe he is psychopathic and barely escaped living in his house during Covid lockdowns after getting laid off just over a year ago … a totally fake person and knows how to pretend to be a good person but is nothing of the sort .. I believe he poisoned me after he took control over all food coming into the household and started cooking the meals and he can’t cook to save his soul . I couldn’t figure out why his 3 adult kids never visited him, his son visited for a hour and half once in a blue moon .. I thought it was because I was there and they would feel uncomfortable or something as they didn’t know me very well .. nope .. it’s all him .. fake smiles, fake kindness, terrible jokes trying to be funny .. contrived humanity .. a month after I moved far away (4.5 hrs) he found his ex gf with her brains blown out .. he was the last one to speak with her .. she had left her paid off house to him but had broken up with him over a year prior but they remained ‘friends’ .. I wondered after I found out about her if my leaving triggered him to go on a narc rage and took it out on his ex gf (I had planned for over 6 months and coordinated with good friends in another city before getting the help out of there) .. I don’t know nor will I ever

    • @petesaria-hf1xh
      @petesaria-hf1xh 8 месяцев назад

      Says who?@@bmascariful

    • @ym2931
      @ym2931 8 месяцев назад

      @@bmascarifulyou're so right. They are

    • @user-gc4ce3vr5x
      @user-gc4ce3vr5x 3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you

  • @2RideorDie
    @2RideorDie Час назад +1

    Another self absored thing they do is not say " I love you ". Not one time did I EVER hear those 3 little words. If anyone is reading my comment & unfortunately has Evil within their life, I just would like to say Your not alone please Stay Strong & do not give the evil person the power (Satisfaction)of feeding into their draining EVIL B.S.

  • @Betterversion09
    @Betterversion09 7 месяцев назад +58

    To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life. I hope anything that bothers you and makes you feel depressed will go away and you will feel comfortable with this video. Don't worry, tomorrow is a new day. Start over. It's not too late yet.

  • @elizabethcameron6045
    @elizabethcameron6045 8 месяцев назад +348

    My mother was this. A malignant narcissist.
    As a child I was terrified of her and, after years of hard work in therapy, I feel the best I have ever felt in my 65 years on this earth.
    20 years with her almost did me in and I have a brother and a sister who didn't survive her both mentally and physically.
    Evil people are no joke! Get away from them any way you can. You deserve your freedom!

    • @funsiwemargaretmzyece9601
      @funsiwemargaretmzyece9601 8 месяцев назад +9

      Read the bible about PARENTS

    • @danielconde001
      @danielconde001 8 месяцев назад +28

      ​@@funsiwemargaretmzyece9601 doesn't matter what it says. parents should earn their honor, not given by default.

    • @Dom-vo9ni
      @Dom-vo9ni 8 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@funsiwemargaretmzyece9601Mary has to have faith Jesus is the messiah.

    • @nancyranft4801
      @nancyranft4801 8 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@danielconde001
      In my opinion most parents do "earn" the respect they're entitled to...and then some. The "troubled" child (be they 15 or 50) will not recognize what they are not capable of understanding, respect.

    • @Khalfrank
      @Khalfrank 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@nancyranft4801shut up

  • @larrymaxwell8565
    @larrymaxwell8565 11 месяцев назад +103

    If you just meeting someone and they tell you they have a personality disorder "runnnnn".

    • @breakthroughmoment1647
      @breakthroughmoment1647 10 месяцев назад +10

      @@dextermorgan4490Right. With narcissists it’s a CHOICE. They choose to do evil.

    • @jaquayjenkins538
      @jaquayjenkins538 9 месяцев назад +1

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    • @petesaria-hf1xh
      @petesaria-hf1xh 8 месяцев назад

      Yes, it is, and yes, they do.@@dextermorgan4490

  • @user-gv1yg8ym7m
    @user-gv1yg8ym7m 21 день назад +3

    Most people try to be a good person but greed has corrupted most people so much that when they actually meet a genuine human being, they try to exploit them without any regrets.
    Humans will be the reason of extinction of humanity.

  • @Rottenkirsche13
    @Rottenkirsche13 8 месяцев назад +8

    It’s worse when you know that evil person is yourself.

  • @nancystinger7393
    @nancystinger7393 8 месяцев назад +58

    It’s so hard in a work environment, I am now happily retired but had a bully manager at a job. I went to HR and they defended her. I went to a doctor because of stress and he had other patients from my office with complaints about her!!!!! Evil people can wreck your health and if at all possible remove them from your life period.

    • @randyg.7940
      @randyg.7940 6 месяцев назад +1

      Shes not evil. You just never really cared about doing your job right. Coming in late, taking longer than alowlled lunches, and standing around gossiping all the time would pass anyone off. They why HR sided with her, everyone knew the way you were!!!!

    • @Morisonparker10
      @Morisonparker10 4 месяца назад

      Please forgive my manner of approach, for dropping a non related comment here on your personal page. I'm trying to be cool and believe me I'm cool. Please feel free to become friends with me and talk to me, I will really appreciate that.Your profile was suggested to me, so I decide to drop a comment as a medium of asking permission and friendship, so it wouldn't had been possible to know that such an amazing young lady like do exist if you were not suggested to me

  • @josiah5776
    @josiah5776 11 месяцев назад +388

    My parents were narcissists, and I later married a woman who was diagnosed as a psychopath. Her father was also a narc. All of them strongly displayed all five of these traits.

    • @rizcayrecordings
      @rizcayrecordings 11 месяцев назад +36

      That is terrible i hope you are doing well in life though!

    • @josiah5776
      @josiah5776 11 месяцев назад +50

      @@rizcayrecordings Thanks man! Happiest I’ve ever been after cutting all of them, and Corporate Amerika, out of my life.

    • @SmokeyMcb
      @SmokeyMcb 11 месяцев назад +19

      Earlier tonight I called out my mom's error while calling her to repent of her blasphemy of taking Jesus's name in vain because my mom professes to be a Christian and yet she proudly blasphemes Jesus's name and refuses to repent and here written below is my narcissistic mother's response:
      "You are a worthless son."
      Be aware that my mom used to verbally, emotionally, spiritually and physically abuse my younger brother while gaslighting him which is what caused my younger brother to commit suicide.
      My mom was smiling when my mom rejoiced in my brother's suicide while my mom told me these words which were:
      "I'm glad your brother is dead."
      My mom has even threatened to murder my unborn children through a forced abortion if I ever get my fiancée pregnant.
      That means that my mom will resort to even pushing my pregnant fiancée down the stairs in order to kill both her and our unborn children if my fiancée refuses to do what my mother says and get an abortion.
      My mom wants to kill off my bloodline because my mother does not want me to fulfill God's will which is fall in love, get married and start a family all because my mom does the will of her father the devil who comes to steal, kill and destroy.

    • @mickac4073
      @mickac4073 10 месяцев назад +12

      @@SmokeyMcb omg, how horrific i!! Are you ok …. Did you go to therapy…?

    • @arcwellhernandez9127
      @arcwellhernandez9127 10 месяцев назад +15

      @@SmokeyMcbro you need to run now no matter how bad the situation is u need to get out fast . That’s an evil spirit on her . I have delt with something similar as well

  • @nadiakhan6577
    @nadiakhan6577 3 месяца назад +3

    To stay away from EVIL PEOPLE.... I have nobody I socialize with beside my immediately family.... It keeps me safe from these horrid evil people 😮

    • @theresaaubry2481
      @theresaaubry2481 17 часов назад

      👀 This is exactly why I love being an introvert...

  • @jadegreen1554
    @jadegreen1554 4 месяца назад +1

    “Too good to be true” is a phrase that needs to make a HUGE comeback, FAST.
    We all need to Recalibrate about what “good” is and what “too good to be true” is.

  • @mattansell8275
    @mattansell8275 8 месяцев назад +25

    People are never more evil when they see themselves as good and those they are harming 'deserve it'.

  • @Andrea-LovesYouStill
    @Andrea-LovesYouStill 8 месяцев назад +86

    Trying to set boundaries with evil people is difficult because it tends to set them OFF so they start yelling / get defensive / deny / gaslight you. The worst is when it’s hard to escape the situation you’re in with them…

    • @AnthonyManzio
      @AnthonyManzio 8 месяцев назад

      ignore them, bullies always win.

    • @MalikaBourne
      @MalikaBourne 3 месяца назад

      Have you noticed they have the knack of making everything an "urgent crisis"?

  • @Jason-Moon
    @Jason-Moon 5 месяцев назад +2

    We all have the potential for good and evil within us and we have free will to choose between them in our thoughts, words, and actions. It's the choices we make between good and evil that define the shape of our souls.

  • @mrwindsor9082
    @mrwindsor9082 8 месяцев назад +3

    I have one consistent problem when dealing with evil people. Frankly, this is that they have harmed me by the time I recognize their true nature. Hopefully watching excellent videos, such as this, will help to wise me up. Please keep posting on RUclips.

  • @soal3415
    @soal3415 9 месяцев назад +272

    You've described my son's wife. Boundaries mean nothing to these people and they enjoy stepping all over you and your boundaries.
    What bothers me most is the lieing and then the manipulation.
    My son is brain washed.
    It's so hurtful.

    • @elisacullari5557
      @elisacullari5557 9 месяцев назад +16

      My husband 100 percent and his family.

    • @Lisa-mg3ms
      @Lisa-mg3ms 9 месяцев назад +15

      I'm so sorry your son is going through this. Prayer sent for him

    • @anzelac5808
      @anzelac5808 8 месяцев назад +6

      Same situation!😢

    • @ruthokelley5833
      @ruthokelley5833 8 месяцев назад +4

      It may be best as hard as it seems to stay away…I find it hard to believe that your son is satisfied with the status quo. If so…he could lack empathy.

    • @insidertimes
      @insidertimes 8 месяцев назад +6

      That is really hard for you and sadly there is only one way out of this situation: keep in touch with your son as long as you can and don't try to change his mind. He has to see it by himself and then you can love and help him!

  • @edemontfort9482
    @edemontfort9482 8 месяцев назад +115

    I'm an empath. Very good radar. What's scary to me is when I know a person is evil or split personality but nobody believes it even when it is obvious to me. I call it cloaking, covering their evil with a veneer of niceness.

    • @ananamu2248
      @ananamu2248 6 месяцев назад

      O'Callaghan it illusion spinning

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 5 месяцев назад

      My daughter came to visit. I told her about the man in the complex being evil. He said hello to her and all she sees is a nice old man.

    • @DavidAKZ
      @DavidAKZ 4 месяца назад

      What do you think causes splitting thanks ?

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 4 месяца назад +3

      @@DavidAKZ trauma causes splitting. But splitting does not always cause a person to become evil. Evil people choose to follow that lifestyle. We all have a choice because we are all given free will.

    • @DavidAKZ
      @DavidAKZ 4 месяца назад +2

      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql thanks for replying. I have a partner from a religious family who displays spliting and can refer to herself as evil. It's very sad. I hesitate to think what happened in her childhood. Thanks again.

  • @debbiesimons3059
    @debbiesimons3059 2 месяца назад +1

    I have recently realized that I was brought up by a narcissist mother, who manipulated me into bad relationships because she was so afraid of being alone. My father dumped her& my older sister listened to every single thing my mother told her! She & I were never close & that's how she liked it! I then realized that when I told my sister that I was an empath. She in turn seemingly (my mother used to laugh at her saying that she was the most gullible person she'd ever known) so then I realized that she'd been literally manipulated into believing everything my mother ever told her!

  • @byron8657
    @byron8657 7 месяцев назад +1

    Yah what hurts most is that A Narcissist evil person is part of your family I endured and outlived 2 Grandmothers on both sides and A Narcissist Father and now married to a Narcissistic wife for 28years what for sure i have learned is that whatever Goodness you do to them they will never appreciate it or accept it my love and efforts are always undermined always lacking to their standards. Well now i got an epiphany thats not my problem its their own problem. As for me im continuously doing what is right and what is Good towards my family to my 2 daughters who appreciate everything I’ve done and to my wife who is unappreciative. I don’t need her appreciation n approval. The love and respect affection of my two lovely smart daughter is enough for me to live happily k!

  • @robertc.6441
    @robertc.6441 10 месяцев назад +129

    Evil people tried to ruin my life, first it was my dad at age 5, then my ex wife at 25, then my brother 5 years ago, he was even jealous that I had a kid and he didn't, he tried to claim my daughter as his own. Him and my ex are so evil they tought my daughter to gradually be narcissistic. Now at 56 I don't trust anyone at all and live alone in the country with my dog.

    • @michellesibille8281
      @michellesibille8281 9 месяцев назад +20

      A dog will never deceive you. It s true. I THINK THE SAME. My all family 's membres are narcissists. Im' the only one walking with Jesus. Who saved me from their curses. They are from the Devil.

    • @user-hj6cp5ex1t
      @user-hj6cp5ex1t 9 месяцев назад +11

      Wish I could get away from it like that. Good for you.

    • @shellymaconi143
      @shellymaconi143 8 месяцев назад +8

      People NEVER FAIL TO FAIL YOU !!! Sad 😢

    • @grimreeper7225
      @grimreeper7225 8 месяцев назад +4

      You should write a song 🎵 or a book

    • @KAMRULHASAN-gw9re
      @KAMRULHASAN-gw9re 8 месяцев назад +2

      I'm with one evil entity here who tries every way to destroy me but I'm aware now and will dish him bigger plate of something and later go my way

  • @robertc.6441
    @robertc.6441 10 месяцев назад +48

    The problem is a evil person will take credit for your work or whatever even if you tell them not to! Because evil people are so evil they don't care, they only care about themselves.

    • @BEve218
      @BEve218 9 месяцев назад +1

      Oh yes

    • @romancetips365
      @romancetips365 8 месяцев назад

      They would even take credit just to harm you even if they don't care about it. You can never tell them anything or be open and honest with them about anything.

  • @jamesgarde8495
    @jamesgarde8495 8 месяцев назад +3

    EVERY HUMAN BEING NEEDS TO LEARN HOW TO COHABITATE. LEARN TO GET ALONG & SHOW RESPECT 🙏 & MINE OUR OWN BUSINESS. IF THESE THINGS DON'T EXIST OR MATTER. BEST TO BE ALONE.

  • @deborahmccarthy8000
    @deborahmccarthy8000 5 месяцев назад +1

    I have a so called Friend who stated that I'm suffocating , I make them nervous and they can't leave fast enough, Yet their still willing to take from me!

  • @pyr1017
    @pyr1017 8 месяцев назад +161

    As a young woman in my 20's, I was always running into brick walls that I didn't understand why they were there. So, one day I began to read the Bible from beginning to end. I didn't skip around like some people encourage you to. I got a King James version and a NIV and started reading. Soon, the Bible readings described people in my life as evil doers and how to spot them. After reading and learning about people from the Bible, I was able to live my life with ease and caution. Whenever I came across an evil person, I eventually separated myself from that person and stayed away from them. After awhile, my life was easier and happier. People say they have to have someone in their life, but, for me, I'd rather be by myself than get caught in an evil person's web. I'm 60 now. It's been a long road to peace.

    • @bigd-ui6zs
      @bigd-ui6zs 8 месяцев назад +11

      I'm 60 and a very similar story.

    • @royjohnson465
      @royjohnson465 8 месяцев назад +6

      “Very” good testimony!

    • @Rhiannoncout
      @Rhiannoncout 8 месяцев назад +7

      You are very smart and I couldn't agree more.

    • @virginiadesanto91
      @virginiadesanto91 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@bigd-ui6zsditto

    • @rogerwilliams7639
      @rogerwilliams7639 8 месяцев назад

      You just described my ex-wife.

  • @courtneybealdavis6493
    @courtneybealdavis6493 9 месяцев назад +492

    This basically describes Anti Social Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and possible Psychopathy. Very good video.

    • @meticulousperversions9064
      @meticulousperversions9064 9 месяцев назад +17

      or sociopathy in general

    • @Dischordalchorous
      @Dischordalchorous 8 месяцев назад +3

      Don't forget the Machs

    • @Dillion-me7ne
      @Dillion-me7ne 8 месяцев назад +27

      I'm anti-social because there are way more evil people than good people, go with God amen 🙏

    • @Dischordalchorous
      @Dischordalchorous 8 месяцев назад +12

      @@Dillion-me7ne the word you're looking for is asocial.

    • @Dillion-me7ne
      @Dillion-me7ne 8 месяцев назад +3

      Amen 🙏 God bless u

  • @shadnunemaker5869
    @shadnunemaker5869 3 месяца назад +1

    Good points from the comments. Its always been a strange paradox to me that they try and make it feel like you are a sociopath because you don't like being around people for that reason, when in reality it is they who are the sociopaths. Some people's moods are so toxic that i cringe just looking at them. Their tone of voice spews out horrible bad energy. And they never can seem to understand anything you say to them. Nightmare.

  • @CarmenGarcia-sq2ld
    @CarmenGarcia-sq2ld 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for letting me know about evil people. I've ran across people like that. It's beast that if you feel funny about being around a person, please stay away from that person. I was in a 3 situations that I felt funny whenever I see that person; I've ignored that feeling and went on ahead and delt with them anyway. I was lied to, cheated on, lied on, used and played with by them.

  • @pj3770
    @pj3770 10 месяцев назад +178

    It's never too late to break free from evil relatives and others. Make sure that you stay far away from them. Always be polite. Even then they want to retaliate. Stay safe and away. Once you do, they will continue to lie in a worse way behind your back. Others will notice their evil. You maintain your truths and be strong in spite of it all. It is extra sad when the ones most jealous of you are your relatives. If that hate is from your own kin then, you might fall to fast in trusting others. They can take advantage of your siruation too. Stay vague about yourself until you know what others are up to and want from you. It is a harder world to live in for an empath born into an evil manipulating family. You can survive it and the liars who who took advantage outside of the family. You stay strong. You are not different or weird. Other good people are out there. And sone of them might be empaths. You can put your true friendship list out to the Universe and receive like-minded people in your life. Not all are on the same page as you, we're all on different levels of our journeys. It is okay to rock solo alone for awhile waiting rather than being with the wrong one making your life a living hell. Patience. Believe. And do sonething to have fun alone or with invitations from others. Just because people invite you over doesnt mean that you have to be loyal to them and tell them your business, dreams and goals.

    • @Patricia_Stewart337
      @Patricia_Stewart337 9 месяцев назад

      pj3770
      I want to tune in your channel

    • @marthaisley-wansley1256
      @marthaisley-wansley1256 9 месяцев назад +4

      Iamdealingwiththisrightnow❤❤❤❤❤
      8:36

    • @batphink2655
      @batphink2655 8 месяцев назад +3

      My now deceased Uncle was a total narc, compulsive liar., Racist and Freemason. He was a 'Tool & Dye' guy so not a simpleton. HE was a music fan and my family are musicians some of us ex pro, he used to tell us' how it was' he never attended one of our shows in his life though his wife my Aunt did.

    • @pj3770
      @pj3770 8 месяцев назад

      @@Patricia_Stewart337 Thanks but I don't have a channel. I just watch videos here and sometimes I comment on something I view.

    • @pj3770
      @pj3770 8 месяцев назад +6

      @@marthaisley-wansley1256 This too shall pass. It's only a temporary situation. Plan ahead. Keep your plans in your mind. Don't leave around evidence while you're planning to create your positive future. Whether it's going to a better work environment, home environment, even switching churches, keep it to yourself because some people won't want you to leave for their own selfish reasons. Keep yourself, kids and fur babies safe.

  • @annamassek9064
    @annamassek9064 8 месяцев назад +18

    There are way too many evil people in the world. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @1jtwister
    @1jtwister 23 дня назад +1

    Don't second guess yourself... don't think of yourself as capable of dealing with them and don't attempt to verify the evil. Trust your instincts and cut contact any way you can.

  • @keithakers5871
    @keithakers5871 5 месяцев назад +1

    The system is designed to churn out soulless people detached from their higher self and totally absorbed by material things. It's done a damn good job too.

  • @nohometv5730
    @nohometv5730 Год назад +67

    And if all else fails....whoop they ass! 💯

    • @SnrLoape
      @SnrLoape Год назад +3

      The best boundary setter is this last resort

    • @EGOLLC1295
      @EGOLLC1295 Год назад +2

      real

    • @wisesavedone2721
      @wisesavedone2721 Год назад +2

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @diopfifi4937
      @diopfifi4937 11 месяцев назад +1

      You said it all.

    • @lindaoneil5085
      @lindaoneil5085 11 месяцев назад +1

      Just don't do it on company premises; that's a good way to get fired.

  • @harvelle1
    @harvelle1 9 месяцев назад +30

    “ If they appear too good to be true, they are”. Initially, they are all very charming. Got it!

  • @ROCKNROLLFAN
    @ROCKNROLLFAN 7 месяцев назад +2

    I do my best to keep them OUT of my circle especially for peace of mind and focus.

  • @janmcsween7079
    @janmcsween7079 Месяц назад

    When I discovered that the evil person ruining everything was me I had to separate from things and go inward, and in therapy and via a newfound spiritual life I was led to find my real self, a self who has morals and values and can actually strive to live up to them.

  • @salomesidiropoulos8343
    @salomesidiropoulos8343 8 месяцев назад +48

    What terrifies me are the groups of evil people working in a concerted effort to force their will upon others in underhanded and covert ways.

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 8 месяцев назад

      Very astute comment. A perfect description of the various military and spy agencies (DoD, CIA, DHS, NATO, MI-6, Mossad, etc).

    • @stoots1000
      @stoots1000 8 месяцев назад +6

      Politicians?

    • @wydryfly
      @wydryfly 8 месяцев назад +4

      Democrats specifically 😂

    • @Robert-bg2nm
      @Robert-bg2nm 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@wydryfly democRATS!........100% spot on!

    • @people_are_sheep
      @people_are_sheep 4 месяца назад

      ISLAM.

  • @marjutpaech
    @marjutpaech 8 месяцев назад +14

    People who lack empathy do not care about other people's feelings.
    Nor can they feel guilt.
    They lack the ability to understand the interaction with other people.
    They lack the ability to feel pity and compassion for others ... 😢

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 5 месяцев назад

      My son came to visit. He is an adult, but raised by his dad, who is narcissistic. I see tendencies of narcissistic behavior in him. Not a lot of empathy. When he left, I looked at his face. All I saw was a little boy.

  • @nikiyubari5499
    @nikiyubari5499 3 месяца назад +1

    you hear it in their voice and see it in their eyes.

  • @TA-yf7hh
    @TA-yf7hh 8 месяцев назад +4

    I think as humans we have traits of both good an bad. It's a balance

    • @davidslavinski8197
      @davidslavinski8197 Месяц назад

      Humans are inherently selfish"non bad context " by nature,if this is denied they it you are denying a part of themselves eg lie'ing to self the worst kind of lie . It's a disservice to the person .
      I learned this
      No one will come to save you ,you gotta save yourself
      Amoral Realism
      Amoral self reliance great skills
      A very realist look on life and the world ..
      Babies gotta be taught to see outside theirselves empathy,sympathy ,tc gotta be taught by parent
      humans are inherently selfish by their nature . Very true

  • @eastafrika728
    @eastafrika728 10 месяцев назад +21

    The origin of evil is the entitled, neglected and traumatized child in us. At this level is Hell as fear, rage, grief and hate, negative self identifications of physical death, hunger, pain. We must train ourselves to think positive of ourselves against these negative mental conditions or be caught in the hell of those who live and organize themselves by these conditions.

  • @edwardsferrazza9646
    @edwardsferrazza9646 8 месяцев назад +8

    The great, Mike Tyson said “not everyone that helps you is your friend and not everyone you fight with is your enemy“ a profound line from a what would be fierce competitor that knows what it’s about to live a life of true freedom. Freedom from naysayers and fake people, trust in people but keep the people you have doubts about close to you.

  • @juanitasullivan3372
    @juanitasullivan3372 5 месяцев назад +1

    At a job I had a few years ago, there was this one guy that reeked of evil. I swear I could feel it each time he walked by. You could see it in his eyes. It would send chills down my spine.

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 5 месяцев назад +2

      I have a neighbor like that. Just walking past him feels horrible. His wife comes across nice. She brought me candy and I immediately threw it in the garbage. I have been poisoned before by someone I trusted.

    • @juanitasullivan3372
      @juanitasullivan3372 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql Wow! I would have thrown it in the garbage too. It's really creepy to get that feeling around someone.

    • @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql
      @RaptureReadyforJesus-qv2ql 5 месяцев назад

      @@juanitasullivan3372 I wont eat any food a person gives me. I only trust my children.

  • @davidrussell4104
    @davidrussell4104 6 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve seen lots of scheming by jealous & insecure coworkers & supervisors. An office can be a minefield. I’m really surprised that workplace violence isn’t more common than it is.

  • @DANCEGARAGEPUNK
    @DANCEGARAGEPUNK 9 месяцев назад +7

    Evil is Simply the Lack of Love ! !
    We all have it to some extent ! ! !
    Evil is the reason that we still have Poverty in the World ! !
    Lack of Love is the only thing stopping us from creating Heaven on Earth ! ! ! :

  • @leonardgibney2997
    @leonardgibney2997 10 месяцев назад +45

    Narcissists are fairly common. I've run into half a dozen in my life. I can't figure them out. I had one guy who started with me in a new job but from day one mounted a campaign to get me sacked. If you asked him why all he could say in my opinion would be, "felt like it".

    • @xsamitt
      @xsamitt 10 месяцев назад +3

      I am working with just such and individual......He even wanted to have a fist fight!

    • @lorrainedovey5073
      @lorrainedovey5073 10 месяцев назад +3

      Narcissists are terrified of being alone

    • @nelsonfischer9501
      @nelsonfischer9501 8 месяцев назад +2

      They will usually project their own personnality onto you and say that to others.

    • @c.pc.5805
      @c.pc.5805 8 месяцев назад +3

      I work with a guy like that too!!! Tried ruining my career and would just run his mouth but yet didn't have a clue to what his job was

    • @desertweasel6965
      @desertweasel6965 8 месяцев назад

      @@xsamitt they often resort to violence when their manipulations don't work on certain people. They become so frustrated that none of their crap is working so they move to plan B, which is, physically destroy any competition.

  • @wirrldwideundawirrld
    @wirrldwideundawirrld 8 месяцев назад +3

    It's amazing how on point this is against my ex that's crazy helps me see I wasn't wrong for leaving it's so many like this out here I'm staying single

  • @bbbelay
    @bbbelay 5 месяцев назад +1

    “I appreciate your interest in my work, but I would prefer it if you didn't take credit for it. It's important for me to receive recognition for my own contributions. “ thank you for your words of wisdom. I’ll memorise those words and hopefully I’ll be able to protect myself in the workplace.

  • @pamelabeaton6667
    @pamelabeaton6667 9 месяцев назад +30

    When you realize what they are silence is truly and always the best policy. As well as distance.😊

  • @traceypalangio9615
    @traceypalangio9615 8 месяцев назад +12

    You’re describing 5 of my family members. Yep hell on earth.

  • @scottyoung1489
    @scottyoung1489 2 месяца назад +1

    Sadistic people are often quite manipulative.

  • @calliopivogiatzis2235
    @calliopivogiatzis2235 5 месяцев назад

    I know someone who constantly begs me for money. Up to now,I've given in to her. She calls just about every day to say hi but I'm getting cautious now about when her next money attack will come!

  • @derekdowney8793
    @derekdowney8793 9 месяцев назад +45

    This to me sounds exactly like what a narcissist is and I have experienced narcissist in my life. Evil is exactly what I can see and feel from narcissist.

    • @WndD_74
      @WndD_74 8 месяцев назад

      These traits describe Trump, everyone of them. He has done nothing but cause KAOS and hate in the country to explode. He caused a separation in people.

    • @jackiedunn9404
      @jackiedunn9404 8 месяцев назад +2

      It is

    • @Rhiannoncout
      @Rhiannoncout 8 месяцев назад

      Exactly

  • @donallan6396
    @donallan6396 8 месяцев назад +17

    A friend of twenty years just ghosted me and a few others that he has known long term.
    The older he got , the more manipulative and self serving he became.
    I'M happy he has gone from my life . I learned from the experience and have grown spiritually and mentally.

  • @ann.obrien5139
    @ann.obrien5139 3 месяца назад +1

    The child and the food part is not manipulation, that’s bribing ! Lol

  • @oldcaptainjack
    @oldcaptainjack Месяц назад

    Things that go wrong are also never, ever their fault, it's yours, or someone else's fault. They have an incredibly hard time accepting any responsibility or apologising, they just put it all on others.

  • @lindawest4580
    @lindawest4580 8 месяцев назад +13

    They're not necessarily an evil person but a misguided person. Yet time will tell you the difference between whether they're a narcissist, liar, manipulator or a controller. If they refuse to actually change their behavior then you need to distance yourself from them and either not see them very often or not at all.

  • @charlottepembroke5446
    @charlottepembroke5446 10 месяцев назад +11

    I know a man EXACTLY like this - he will do anything, go anywhere just to be the centre of attention. He doesn't even care WHO is watching him or listening to him, it could be anyone, so long as all eyes are on him. I find it truly bizarre.

  • @sofiya7786
    @sofiya7786 8 месяцев назад +6

    Nobody is completely bad. It’s up to you and what you focus on to what they become. If nothing changes, avoid them. But always give people a chance to become better, you might find a treasure

  • @caboodlebricks6930
    @caboodlebricks6930 7 дней назад

    Videos like this make me thankful for my loving sister

  • @Giulgrey
    @Giulgrey 10 месяцев назад +71

    Currently going through criminalization from my own family. They are extremely evil but really try to play it off. They do all these things listed in this video. The big part is the fact that when I rise up against them , they play coward and call the police. It’s extremely sad. I know for a fact they want to leave me with a smoking gun in the situation.

    • @Ryukikon
      @Ryukikon 9 месяцев назад +2

      ?? Why can't you leave? I have been in a situation with family were I could not leave. Why can't you leave?

    • @missfreshair
      @missfreshair 9 месяцев назад

      I hear you!

    • @missfreshair
      @missfreshair 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Ryukikondid you leave

    • @lindahathaway3519
      @lindahathaway3519 9 месяцев назад +6

      Run, don't walk. If your family is calling the police on you. Either they are correct and you are dangerous to them... or they are dangerous to you. The police do not play around. If you develop a profile of a potential predator in police eyes ( caused by family calls for help) you could end up shot... or worse. Start over away from them. If you really ARE a predator, make that "run" a long one off a short pier. No one needs predation in his/her life.

    • @d10bro
      @d10bro 9 месяцев назад

      ​@Ryukikon "Once you're in this family, there's no getting out."

  • @draganamarevic
    @draganamarevic 10 месяцев назад +55

    When they are family it is difficult to cut them out of your life and it takes a long time to reinforce boundaries but well worth the effort, wish I had done this even earlier. No exceptions for family, especially as people with evil tendencies are not only toxic but dangerous to your well being and safety.

    • @Dawn737
      @Dawn737 8 месяцев назад +5

      My mother is the evil person in my life and, I hate to say this, but I've found the safest way to cut her out of my life was to claim to her that random strangers were now robbing me of my time, so I had none left to spend on her. She gets angry and quite vengeful if she thinks my downtime is spent relaxing rather than doing chores for her. I just assure my mother that I am being bullied by the world, just as the doormat she raised me to be, meaning the entire world now expects me to run around doing whatever they want, so I have no time left to do what she wants. This explanation satisfied her well, so she now leaves me alone so I can be "busy mowing neighbors' yards", etc. If she ever asks if I'm being paid, I remind her that just as a good daughter would never expect payment, neither would a good neighbor, which is what I am.

    • @charleswhite758
      @charleswhite758 8 месяцев назад

      @@royjohnson465 Beware, that might make them search for you. You don't want them showing up on your doorstep, no doubt with a tirade of abuse. Probably better to tell them you are moving away and just let the relationship wither away naturally. If you never contact them eventually they will tire of contacting you, especially if you remain taciturn on the phone

    • @foreverunsaved6661
      @foreverunsaved6661 7 месяцев назад

      ​​​​@@royjohnson465Good thinking, but that is not enough. You will want to cut ties with everybody connected to the toxic person as well. If you want to get away from a toxic friend that has - for example - a brother that is not toxic, the last thing you want to do is move, and write to the brother. You might end up putting your return address in the upper corner of the envelope. The toxic person could always find it. I myself am taking disappearing to the extreme by getting my name, and social security number changed LEGALLY. All you have to do is go through a complete federal, state, & local police check, not have any arrest warrants - or be wanted, not owe any court costs, and not be on Megan's Law.

  • @Luckystoic
    @Luckystoic 17 дней назад

    WOW, I have never heard these things before, thanks for your video

  • @jonathank4278
    @jonathank4278 2 месяца назад

    My Mother worked in Washington DC, and Michigan for 39 years total as a Government worker.
    She knew 2 truly Evil people. They gave her the chills .That feeling when your hair on you head stands up as if the room temperature dropped from 70°F to 0°F (21°C to -18°C).