Navigating Her Attachment Style: Dealing With Distance Or Clinginess
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- Опубликовано: 13 апр 2024
- How to Handle Her ATTACHMENT STYLE When She Pulls Away Or Is Clingy... Knowing how to handle her attachment style when she pulls away or is clingy can strengthen the relationship and promote understanding and support. I want you to know how to handle her attachment style, whether on first dates, online dating, or elsewhere in the dating process. Embrace this relationship advice to learn how to handle her attachment style.
I want you to know how to handle her attachment style so that the relationship can thrive and both partners feel secure. Understanding and effectively managing her attachment style will nurture trust and promote a sense of stability within the relationship. Please pay attention to this dating advice video to learn how to handle her attachment style when she pulls away or is clingy.
When she pulls away or is clingy, it's essential to understand the situation, recognizing that her behavior is likely rooted in her attachment style. It would help if you learned how to handle her attachment style and respond in a way that meets her emotional needs while maintaining your boundaries. Learning how to handle her attachment style will contribute to establishing a healthy dynamic and strengthening your bond.
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Thank you Wingmam, excellent advice! EVERYONE should read the book "Attached" that you recommend. The first seven years of our lives we take everything in as the gospel truth; good, bad, or indifferent and it stays with us in our subconscious until we actively seek to reprogram. So important to understand for both ourselves and for all of our relationships. May it be so!
Thank you! And on that note... my wakeup2luv program helps reprogram unhealthy self-bashing, biases, and blind spots! (It's the short-cut for how I did it.) If anyone is curious: members.wingmam.com/get-women/
Note: It's still a lot of work but won't take years like it did for me!
Forgive the blatant plug, your words perfectly introduced it!
I've dealt with all of this, what I've learned is to not argue and stay calm when your woman starts up, just be the best guy you can be.
Buddhist koan: “What is the sound of one hand clapping?”
@@philodonoghue3062 dude, you are so deep
Sometimes, tough to do but essential! Note to others reading this: staying calm doesn't mean accepting bad behaviour.
@@YourWingmam lots of tongue biting and deep breathing involved lol
One challenge with being a secure attachment style person is learning how to navigate a relationship with people who aren’t. I believe it is possible, but until we had resources like this it was a lot more confusing. Thanks for another helpful video. Please keep up the great work!
Definitely challenging. Depending on the level of insecurity and potential other personality disorders can determine how likely your patience can help. Glad you appreciate this one!
Wishing you a very happy week ahead and I really like your energy.
Thank you. This makes sense. I am more a mature/secure person, and in a relationship, I need my personal space as well. Getting things done. Work, hobbies, friends... In the beginning, with my past relationships, everything fine, and then they get insecure, clinging, and controlling. That's usually when I start to pull away. Eventually, I check out. The last thing I want is big arguments over nothing. I have been accused of cheating, while I am not that kind of person. The thing is, if my past girlfriends would have reacted differently. Like I know you are busy, but I would appreciate it if you would make more time for me, I certainly would have. Instead, they got clingy, controlling, argumentive... I'm always pulling away more. Then they become even more controlling... Vicious circle.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
My story:
-We met few years
-She came in with a child
-she tried to be ‘the woman she thought I want’
-she failed attempting to be that woman
-blamed me for manipulation, tried to jump off a balcony
-low self esteem + diagnosed severe depression
-Police was involved in an attempt to get me in jail (it failed)
-she went to lie to her family & friends for support
-I broke up with her, she went online posting ‘fresh single selfies’
I advised her early that the way she was behaving wouldn’t make us last because she’s selfish & her love only goes as far as the attention she seeks/gets.
I’m better now, new girlfriend (with no kids), better life, career & both ambitious.
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Thanks Anna! Quite honestly when I found out about attachment theory it was such a lightbulb moment for me because of my own push/pull cycles in relationships. Fixing your own stuff is always the first order of business. Becoming more secure yourself will help you better deal with things no matter who you’re involved with and their particular attachment style.
Absolutely! Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you Anna much love back at you. God bless have a good Sunday.
Thank you so much!
Excellent description and coping methods,thank you😊
Found this helpful .......Thank you ☺
Thank you very much.
Loved this...valuable information and well researched.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
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I'm securely attached and i would like to add perspective because i think theres confusion about our emotions. I get frustrated and make mistakes in relationships just like evryone else. The difference between myself and my anxious partner is that my emotions are on a normal scale and typically have a justifiable reason. I do not reward my anxious partners attempts for validation unless they are healthy. If she asks in a mature way for reassurance then she gets it. If she manipulates to get it, she gets confronted and bumps right into my boundary regarding manipulation. So secure people arent these always bubbly unlimited abuse taking people like they are described. The reason secure people have secure relationships is because they have boundaries and dont tolerate toxic behavior. They have a network of secure friends and family. An anxious partner can cause me to pull away and an avoidant can cause anxiety in me. After enough of the drama, sometimes just one interaction, i just walk away. I'm not molding people into what i want. I know theres lots of great people for me out there and i am totally cool alone so why would i waste my peace and time on earth being stressed over someone because we dont jive well.
You do great work
Thank you so much Anna
I find all of your videos so very helpful.....and you are so frickin adorable I can't stand it... love you ❤
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My ex is an extreme avoidant....not sure which type of avoidant yet...maybe fearful. This is all new to me. I found out I'm an anxious. We are like oil and water, yet deeply in love. She's afraid to show affection. Drives me crazy. Now we both are waiting in NC. She broke it off ..got scared, so I wait. Day 36...but she's breadcrumbing. Don't respond to breadcrumbs after you tell your partner exactly what you need in the relationship. It's up to them to see if they want to meet those needs and express their own needs Good luck
Lol don't wait up, talk talk talk to others
One tiny modification: Don't settle for breadcrumbs. Do reaffirm your desire to work things out IF she can work on meeting your needs. Wingmam motto: always leave them wanting more (but give them enough to want more). As an aside, often anxious and avoidant types are attracted to each other.
As always a very thorough explanation of social styles . God Bless you too !!
I look forward to your next video ! You really put a lot of time and effort into these ! Your such a sweet person too !! God Bless !!
Thanks!
Thank you so much! 🙏🥰
You can be my wingman anytime ! Great advice Fair Wingy Lady Dream Girl.
You really have bloomed into a professional beauty Anna
I'm so glad to have found you and your channel It's been like some healthy addiction
So there's no need to quit watching and learning
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Wonderful compliments, thank you so much, glad you're finding value in my videos!
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Gonna need to watch this a few more times. Lots to consider in here.
Let me know which attachment style you think you have :)
@@YourWingmam It's a conundrum. Secure Attachment is the one to strive for obviously, but a lot of water has passed under my bridge. I think I have some of all 3 of the others at one time or the other. I think I'm a little leery side so I will say I have at lease a foot into #4. I was that way before I had met my former wife to when I had a totally botched romance with someone I really liked but I just had a gut feeling of danger from her.
Great video Anna! I had to learn from the dismissive avoidant. Back in those days, I had an anxious preoccupied attachment style. You can bet that was a fun mismatch with a dismissive avoidant coupled with a lack of awareness of all this at the time 😅 Nevertheless, it laid the groundwork for my later evolving into a secure attachment style. Every ending is a new beginning, and every lesson paves the way for the experience we've been dreaming of! #GlassHalfFull
Your channel is so good! I wish I could subscribe twice! :)
Wow, thank you!
I seem to have developed an anxious attachment because of my ex's avoidant traits... didnt even realise until it was too late. Now im gunna have to go no contract and wait.
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I hope you enjoyed my video, "How to Handle Her ATTACHMENT STYLE When She Pulls Away Or Is Clingy"
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I had never been in a relationship before, but most of the traumas caused in my childhood and it has nothing to do with my parents, but the rest. Sometimes I avoid people for the good of mine, and sometimes I'm anxious to be attached with others. There are times I were needy and messaged women a lot, but lot has changed now since I started watching your videos Anna. I believe we are very good friends dear Anna ❤. You are beautiful ❤️ and funny as always. Have a great Sunday and God bless Anna.
Glad my videos have helped you change in positive ways! We're all a little broken. :) God bless! 💞
3:46 The cat found a good vantage point from which to watch both the backyard and what the human was doing inside of the house. 4:41 The cat heard something of interest and headed upstairs.
10:17 "Avoiding people who are toxic." That is an absolutely essential to do constantly, if you want to maintain your sanity in this world.
My ladyfriend is in the "Secure" category, but I learned something throughout this video, regardless of what you were discussing.
Cat: check and lol Toxic people: true! Glad your lady is secure and glad you learned something, thanks for watching!
Some things aren't cut and dry. All women are not the same. (neither are men) Some love space and are so so with closeness.....some crave closeness. and hate space. Pull back from a woman that loves space and you may get a rude awakening...especially if you really like her. She'll fly off for quite sometime and then maybe come back and act like nothing ever happened. She'll do that your whole life together. You'll never be comfortable with her unless you are able to go through a major change in your life. Unlike anything you've ever done. You'll never be really happy because closeness is at your core. Pick wisely....if you need closeness find a closeness girl. Don't expect to change her! It will always be at her core even if she can and wants to change a bit. In my opinion, space and closeness is at the root of all divorce. Everyone needs some of each...some need a lot of one or the other. You got a 50/50 chance of picking correctly when you wing it. If you love closeness don't pick a girl who loves space. Don't even risk that she's playing a love game with the space she shows you. A closeness girl can't play the space game very well. No one in this world is perfect....just don't match up with the polar opposite! If she's always flying away then coming back like it's nothing...it's time for you to fly for good. That will be hard for you....cause you're a closeness person! This is what you have control over....leave for good....jump back on the horse immediately with another. Making a change will take a real long time....like half a life. Don't think this is something you can be aware of and change it tomorrow....Find a lover that is more similiar so you both can evolve slowly. This video sounds like you can snap your fingers and be a new person. Be careful! This won't happen! It takes years!
This has more rules than a game of chess! (Teasing you, Anna.) BTW Good segment today; Fits my professional training in child / adolescent development. The Basic Personality of a person is developed by age 5. This also relates to girls with "Daddy Issues", and boys with "Mommy Issues". What you mention about 'conflict' being normal in a relationship is true. It is at this point, in pre-marriage counseling, that I start talking with the couple about "What role will 'Forgiveness' play in this marriage?" The young couples don't understand the question because they can't ever think of themselves having a problem. With the older couples, they start laughing because they know exactly what I am getting at.
Wisdom, indeed!!
I think I leveled up to a secure attachment style.
😜attached to me
Testing if i am secure in a connection with others is the level. Alas still have to work on that
Finishing a race with handy caps… not easy.
Ive not been religious, but the idea that a hard life will have a payoff in a afterlife…. There are worse things.
But im not looking to fill that „suffering „ portfolio a millimetre more than i absolutely cannot avoid
03:45 there you are!!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
well your new hairstyle is nice 😊😊😊😊😊😊
And getting nicer lol. Although I like the length so I'd "prefer" it this length. Just works.
Thank you! I grow it out and cut it off regularly to keep things interesting lol
Stuff stuff cat i peek you
Lovely living space.
If it’s yours, i love the dynamics of it. Its very angled but has enough plants to make it feel also organic. Its light and dark, giving a sence of depth and gravity and scale and volume. It seems to be multi leveled toofuther enhancing the feel of dynamics and scale.
Dare i say i like
Great video, thank you. Really hit home for me. I thought my wife had BPD; But maybe that's just women. 😅
...or the women you're attracted to, though there are a lot of emotionally damaged people out there. She very well could have had BPD *and* insecure attachment. We should be taught "how to do" relationships in school lol
Background doesn't look like it's your space (insertion of Stuffy aside). Seems too cluttered for you (I notice because I'm a clutterer). Sounds like my late wife was #4: fearful avoidant. I'll probably watch this a couple more times to be sure. The hot/cold thing was baffling to me as a young man. I could not understand how her attitude could change so quickly. Very useful topic; seems to be getting a bit more popular these days (for semi-obvious reasons -- m/f relationships seem worse now than any other time during my lifespan). Your energy seems consistently strong in recent weeks: bravo! Keep it up! Always praying for you. -- Russ P PS/My teenage granddaughter is alternating taking each dog for a walk around the neighborhood. I think she and both dogs will be out cold for the next couple hours. ;)
Plant sitting, definitely allergic to clutter lol Ah yes hot/cold...fear of abandonment + fear of getting too close (both vulnerabilities). Great exercise and responsibility for your granddaughter. :) Most days I'm hovering around 85% thanks to your prayers, Russ! Though I do lean a bit on caffeine on filming days lol
So, my issue is that I struggle to discuss my problems and weaknesses with her. I fear that women generally prefer strong men, and I worry that opening up about my vulnerabilities would make me seem unattractive to her. However, she frequently talks about her own problems and urges me to do the same.
A few days ago, she expressed frustration that I was unwilling to admit my problems or accept help. I maintained my silence, stating that I preferred to handle my issues on my own because I felt she already had enough to deal with. In response, she commented that facing one's problems is a sign of maturity, implying that I was immature for not doing so. I countered by explaining that not burdening others with my problems didn't mean I wasn't aware of them.
Since then, we haven't spoken for three days. This isn't uncommon; she often enters periods of silence without explanation. When we eventually do resume communication, she typically cites something I've said or done-or sometimes, what I haven't done-as the reason for her silence.
In situations like these, I'm unsure how to proceed. I feel like we both are fearful-avoidant type. Should I simply initiate a conversation and break the silence? I worry that doing so might make me appear weak and reinforce the idea that I'll always come back and she will not respect me...
Your instincts are correct! Women say they want men to open up but they get turned off by a man's fears and vulnerabilities. I may do a video on your situation. In the meantime, watch my balancing masculinity with emotions/vulnerability: ruclips.net/video/t9K2gSuPKmc/видео.html
and master masculine vulnerability: ruclips.net/video/2koXC6OC_D4/видео.html
Also, if you discuss the problem, do so with a potential solution included. Mother mode suppresses lover mode.
Another comment that may help some.... Evaluate sleep hours, caffeine and sugar consumption and highs and lows. Sugar lows or caffeine lows can rival drug abuse crashing and is frequently ..........very very frequently ........overlooked by self and medical professionals. And all three can be problems met with denial and attacks from the person involved.
True!
Stuffy cat identified😊
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I don't use attachments anymore. That's for her.
Sometines i dont know if knowing everything all the time with things i learned. There are short time periods where i feel and enjoy when ignorance was bliss. Until it wasn't
I totally get that!
Just got done pouring 5 months of time and energy into a woman who was I think fearfully avoidant. Maybe even BPD. My recommendation is to completely avoid these people. Find one of the 60% of people who are secure. The rest of your life will be so much easier.
And become one of the secure!
I agree with you but what about factor X? Her hormone fluctuations inform her changing behavior sometimes hourly. What about factor X influences? .
Great question! Generally, if she's secure, she'll apologize and it won't be a repeating pattern. True story: I have a friend who recently apologized to her beau for being cranky with PMS. (Not joking, unicorns do exist.)
Anna will you please do a video on dateing and disability thank you.
This is about dating in a wheelchair but much of it can be applied to any disability: ruclips.net/video/sQa7JCrJc4M/видео.html
@@YourWingmam thank you
What it comes down to is….is this person an adult or are they childish. Men, don’t deal with childish women. You’re not her therapist and it’s likely (98% of the time) that she’ll just get worse over time. Run at the sign of this red flag 🚩
Statistically, ~60% of people have a secure attachment style. Seems high to me but regardless if someone recognizes their own insecure attachment style if they work on it they may eventually be less likely to ignore red flags in others.
@@YourWingmam- True. Wouldn’t you say that they’re likely the red flag, though?
I find your tips extremely useful, however is it so bad watching your video for the pleasure of hearing your voice and watching your beauty ?
If you’re finding value and learning, something, win-win! And thank you for the compliment!
@@YourWingmam I do!💙
Is that stairs where cat is?
It is! :))
You need a handrail, you know a great deal about the passion, does it impact your own search for a lasting love?
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Thanks for showing up! Which attachment style do you think you have?
In Rome, Italy, it's 25 degrees Celsius, beautiful views and incredible food. When will we see you in Italy to shoot some videos? I offer to be your motorcycle driver.
1. I'm jealous lol
2. This fall
3. I have my moto licence ;)
@@YourWingmam this seems a test, great I take the challenge. I am jealous too, so , you drive in Canada but , believe me , you don't have the special license to drive in Rome . This fall ... Let me check my agenda .. 😂 besides. Talking can you dance ?
I'm an IT professional.... and let me tell you... managing a 3 tier Enterprise network feel much easier than managing a relationship.... 😂
I concur! And I'm not IT lol
great video but its hard to hear you with that mic
Sorry about that, it's actually the location...working on it, thanks for powering through it!
@@YourWingmam all good. thank you for your advice it’s life changing!
I'm fearful avoidant the worst kind
High quality woman are rare nowadays i guess... All became feminists or narcissistic.
The ones I'm finding are not singles... Am I late in the game LoL.
It will be good if you can share some points to identify these female gems 💎.
Indeed! You'll have to filter women in the real world but here's what you're looking for: ruclips.net/video/KqeCnsadgmc/видео.html
Can someone do one style with GF #1 then do a completely different style with the next?
Yes, absolutely. There may be something familiar in any attachment style that draws you in. Usually, if it's unhealthy there are childhood wounds to heal around the pattern.
Pass........juice aint worth the squeeze..,....
Next week's video is for you :)
Secure Attachment tools Stay "Open Honest & Pathetic " 😂 me to a tee, no need for conflict in me.
Wait, what? Did I say pathetic?? lol "honest and authentic"
Therapy in a broad brush:. Jack, Jill wants an open relationship where she can have sex with elephants..... Jack says "thats not cool" therapist says "now jack, that not being considerate of her opinions!". "Thats not fair to Jill..."…..….. so, in a nutshell, thats how it boils down. And worse.......if children are involved then they dont learn that you cant always get what you want, and dont learn to appreciate what good does things they do have, but they learn how to get a third party involved to stand their ground and throw a fit have a meltdown and power thru for a toxic vindictive selfish self mutilating victory. And thats bad for all parties, enables more conflict and harms any future generations......except for the therapist....more money.
Jack and Jill should filter potential mates better.
The flaw highlighted is most contemporary therapy... A flawed path to rationalization of toxic self destructive behavior.....instead of a path to remove/treat unnecessary destructive anxiety. Contemporary therapy gives fradulent empathy to the patient. .......in most cases. People can talk to friends for free, to hear the words "it's not your fault". The worst problem with therapy is paitents will purposefully withhold information from therapist and or medical professionals to slant the picture/outcomes. Most people lie their asses off to the shrink. Badly. ...... Massively.......... More so for anxiety with relationships involved for the treatment. And not for drugs. For empathy. Ergo.......the epitomy of self harming behaviors.
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Dear Anna:
Happy Sunday, beautiful!!! I hope all is well in your part of the world. Nice to see you in a nice and warm environment, instead of outside freezing.
This was such a good video. I think you could have kept going and going, and going. Each attachment style you mentioned could have been its own video, but I know you are time limited.
I have definitely dealt with all the attachment styles you mentioned, and as you know, some are no fun. Especially the ones who are anxious pre-occupied. I once dated a woman whom if I told her, "I'll call you back in 30 minutes ," if I did not my phone rang at minute 31. That relationship was a bit stressful.
I hope you have a fun Sunday and a great week. Thank you for the video again. Your hair looked amazing and you looked so sexy in this video. Hug and a peck on each cheek. See you next week.
There's definitely a lot more to be said on this topic! Glad you found it helpful and thank you for the compliment! It's still cold in Canada :((
(stiffler voice here). ....."that sounds like alotta work".......
It is lol
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Question If a man's supposed to approach be self confident strong assured and well employed as well as take care of a woman so with àll those qualities why share them with a woman her behavior most likely will be parasitic and when she most likely divorces she can take all he has and he pay for the divorce. What's the man's advantage to having a woman?
Next week's video is for you :)
@@YourWingmam Thank You
Actually about 60% are secure.
Correctamumdo ✔️
@@YourWingmam So avoid the non secure ones and save yourself a headache. Last relationship taught me to not to allow myself to be therapy for someone who needs to pay for a therapist.
Avoid People unable to learn and grow......... I think i know where you are going here but in this context it seems like you embodied it as your struggle with men. Wanting s partner to learn and grow, or forcing a partner to learn and grow, is often a struggle to win a gunfight......or multiple gunfights .......arguments/disagreements that never should have started in the first place. I disagree with most therapy since it really forces concessions on a partner out of unrational emotions instead of facts and is more divisive instead of problem solving, because it enables bad actors to push boundries further based on a mediator that enables opinions and unrational thinking for profit. If i wanted to wear boxers instead of briefs, i get forced to wear briefs. Or i refuse to learn or grow...... The process enables irrational manipulation and personal attacks instead of fact driven solutions. It also enables encourages toxic destructive behavior of the complaintive side. People need to learn to appreciate what they have. ....in some cases.....even moving on to other relationships is more self destructive.
The best way to be with someone with incompatible self-development ideals is to avoid being with someone with incompatible self-development ideals. lol You don't have to avoid people unable to learn and grow if they're perfect for you and also don't want to learn and grow.
Bi Polar. No discussion of this very prevalent condition. I was married 5 years to a woman who was bipolar. Before we divorced, she said no one will love and miss you more at your funeral than me, AND no one will hate you more at the moment I kill you. Mental health is a huge issue today, and no offense, I like your videos, but you seem to largely ignore this predominant aspect of life. My current girlfriend is a child abuse, and an adult rape survivor. She's an absolutely wonderful person who also comes with low self esteem, and in occasional terror of life. Life and relationships are complicated and damaged.
Thank you for sharing your experience. As a survivor of both those things and a chaotic childhood, I understand. Difficult to get all relevant things in a 10-12 min video. I have a whole playlist on emotionally damaged women, including a video on bipolar and borderline personalities, and several on narcissism. If you're curious, you can check out those videos here: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkSudIvtlVD37IgqIWXnaMQ Everyone is a little broken. :)
Take your hrt and drink tea to relax
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏