ali you are fooling yourself if you think free mixing is halal. I would be in fear of being a dayooth if one of those sisters were my wife. stop normalizing this
I’m a new revert and (English born and raised) I work hard all day every day and my wife is a stay at home mom and house wife she keeps the house clean and cooks for me and the children every day and she is happy to do that even before I reverted, I will happily come in and get the children to bed or feed them if she needs it it’s all about mutual understanding and compromise in my opinion. Allahmdulliah
@@irfanshaikh9390 not everyone is that easily influenced. Allah blessed me with the ability to think critically and to not allow life to imitate art or entertainment. I thank you for your concern.
@@irfanshaikh9390 'The PaTH OF THE saLaF'; also known as normative Sunni Islam that 99% of the Ummah follow. Not the path of the 't£rr0ristic bl00d-lust group of MIAW' (read tarikh an Najd and Darus saniya) or any other divisive, isolationist cult that is the Salafi cult. 5 pillars of Islam, 6 pillars of Eman and sincerity of action is all that is needed. Not the self-refuting, contradictory, debate-heavy topic of sifat, which Najdi scholars, themselves, disagree upon. Delving into abstract theology is worthless, especially in today's day and age. Focus on realm issues, you miskeen.
@@KhilafaNow at no point did I say the vast majority of sunni Muslims weren't on the path of the salaf. And at no point did I say, only use Saudi scholars. Imam Hanafi, shafi, malik, and hanbal were followers of the prophet (S) and the first 3 generations. The main point was not to use misguidance. But you're so driven by hate for your own Muslim brothers, you typed out that insult laden drivel.
Shakeel seems a nice, intelligent guy. Truly agree with him - it used to be overlooking each others flaws and now it seems like, ignoring the good and focusing on the flaws.
@@Zazezoo Women asking for a high Mahr that is against the Sunnah. However, it is her whims and desires and it is halal. If women can do that then so can men as long as its not against Islam. So what did he say in the podcast that is against Islam? Women cooking for husband is not against Islam. Women pretending to act like as if this is not her obligation to cook and clean when husbands tells her so (one of the sister did that against Mahdi in that Podcast) is against the Quran and Sunnah. And clearly against Islam.
No he’s a d******d wasteman revert who said that a muslimah shoodl invite her kafir boyfriend home and he goes in tiktok and says he gets p*** f*** clown he’s on this prodcast because he’s begging it thinking sisters will marry him when he is arrogant and boasts about being able to do zina d***h***d yute
I'm a African American Muslim....and wht I love about these shows in the UK and other Islamic based shows around the world is the Universal aspect of Quran and Sunnah....no matter what the race or Nationality carry out the same Sunnah,speak the same language,and praise the same Creater (Allah) SWA.....it makes my heart smile and my eyes water with pleasure....I thank Allah for choosing me and my children to be Muslim and Everyone else who are on the straight path... Allahu Akbar!!!!! I love my brothers and sisters World Wide
I really liked that brother Shakil got the opportunity to give us some context about his situation and teach us to not be so condeming and try to believe the best about each other. I got a bad first impression of him but in this episode he made my heart soften and cleared his intentions. Also this video was much more islamic and reasonble and compassionate. This is what Young people need to hear. May Allah bless you all❤️
Non productive discussions AGAIN. Muslims the most deprived & most discriminated against demographic in the UK by a mile but these useless pointless discussions that help our Ummah no shape or form take heed? Make it make sense
@@Zazezoo Deprived & Discriminated but ‘who belongs in the kitchen’ discussions need to take place? That delusional view you share is the reason things will never change!
Literally amazing podcast. From watching some of the old ones, the viral one, to this one… As a revert Muslim woman, THANK YOU. May Allah bless you all 💕
Great podcast this time guys May Allah bless you From my point of view… Before I reverted to islam I was a feminist without even realising I was a working mother, I went back to work when my son was 3 months old because I wanted to prove I could do it all. Guess what - biggest regret of my life! I missed my sons first word, his first steps & I was always stressed trying to find childcare! After reverting to Islam I got married elhamdulillah & I worked until we had our first child together, after that I never returned to work. We now have 4 wonderful children subhanAllah I’m a stay at home mother and wife and my husband works away 6 days a week. SubhanAllah my husband calls me the tree and our kids are the fruit. He kisses my hands after he takes his first bite of the food I made him, he says thank you and he shows love and affection, that is all i need subhanAllah all i need is a little appreciation and it fuels me. Having been on both sides, being a non hijabi no muslim, being a non hijabi muslim, being a hijabi muslim, being a working mother and a full time house wife and mother. I can honestly say i’ve never felt more content & I gain more respect not just from my husband but from outsiders who see me do what i do, they always say how are you coping so well, how have you not lost your mind with your kids 24/7. I do lose it sometimes but I know in my heart that Allah SWT will not burden upon me more than i can bare. So i tell myself that yes I’m struggling but Allah SWT has trusted this upon me so I know only I am putting myself down and standing in my own way. I will also add that me and my husband fought a lot when he started working away, because all i’d see was him before and after work going out for coffee with friends and me at home with the kids 24/7, I was comparing our tasks and feeling sorry for myself ya Allah forgive me. It caused a lot of arguments. But Subhanallah I took a step back and realised I was looking for a fight for no reason, that I don’t need coffee and friends every day, I was just jealous! But my husband maşaAllah he was a lot more stressed than he let me see, once he opened up to me and we had dialogue, my ego settled and I could see how wrong i was, I apologised and now subhanAllah we have found our middle ground. My advise to brothers and sisters out there is , marriage is 2 imperfect people coming together and learning about each other, you’re going to argue, irritate and disagree with each other but you both got to win some and lose some. &&& remember always apologise, please never be too proud to say sorry, it really goes a long way. May Allah SWT bless you all abundantly!
Manshallah, ask any men who is the strongest woman you know ? he will say his mother. Not because she is a CEO, not because she is a career woman not because she is a celebrity. But because she took care of him because she nurtured him because he have seen her struggle in the home of his father and never abandon her duty nonetheless. I swear I am talking from experience you have made the right choice.
@@ldrago6031 there come the feminist trying to brainwash a woman that already has gone through that and understand that there is no point doing that 🤦🏾♂️. Also cooking and cleaning are not required by Allah but obeying your husband is. Please don't come here spreading your venom at Muslim marriage.
Assalamu alaikum, I'm an asian girl, I came in Europe 10 years ago when I was 8 and I didn't know how these feminists (actors, musics, shows..) have affected me until I watch your podcast. JazzakaAllah for this beautiful show, may Allah bless you. You are doing such a great job brother Ali may Allah give you the reward, I'm thanking from the bottom of my heart...
Yes sister but there is no shame in having your Husband help you out when you really need it . If the messenger of Islam did it why can’t your husband do the same to get more reward from Allah azzawajal. The purpose of marriage ultimately is to win the pleasure of Allah not to say cooking and cleaning and kids are your job as a Somalian women.
@@jamaalshaikh122 yes because men don’t have the mental capability to care and have patience the way women do in the house . I don’t think you got my point . I said men should help around a little and their is no shame for men to help their wife and kids
@@shakila5674 yes he should but if he is breaking his back all week and she is at home where she has been nice and comfortable and cosy, should she really expect him to work around the house? Is that reasonable?
@@jamaalshaikh122 sister i dont know what house you have been living in but in my house the work never ends. And I have worked outside in order to help my family as well both at the same time. So I have done both sides of the argument. A man's work ends when he comes home. When does a woman's? The children and cleaning and cooking never ends. On top of this she needs to find time to commit to her deen. You are oversimplifying a ladys situation in the home.
Why did he apologise I do not understand. I think the sister bullied him into an apology for even remotely looking like he agreed with Mahdi in one or 2 things.
@@Valley6 people came with hate an negativity because he looked like he sided on some topics with a guy that doesnt pander to the female ego. Hence they came with hate. This is why Mahdi will continue to grow. No one can tell these sisters anything.
@@shadmani9687 Because that Arab sister has some issues and being a Karen for no reason . Why attack the guy who was silent and not the ones talking and laughing? So because his black he should speak up and control other peoples mouth and actions ! She is picking on the wrong group of people!
Masha'Allah you guys are good ecample of how we need to keep open communication to improve relationships. Some conversations are hard to have but once had can develop our mindset and make room for positive growth.
True, he is a rare find these days. May Allah bless him and his family. Wish more men were like him. But sadly more men are like Mahdi Tijani these days
@Shadman I can you list one he said that's reasonable? Everything he said was completely unreasonable. He won't lift a finger to help the wife what kind of an idiot is that.
I always thought that working is not that difficult until I started working as a financial auditor. I was so stressed like I was never before. After ten months of stress I quit and alhamdulillah enjoying every moment of my housewife life. After that no housework or looking after my child seem stressful to me. Believe me, workinb in a professional service is not easy and cannot be compared to being in the comfort of your home and cooking or cleaning. I was always enjoying looking after my family but after working myself I started appreciating my husband's efforts waaay more. And nope, looking after household and kids can be physically exhaustinh but it cannot be compared to the mental exhaustion that work gives.
I think sisters who work an office job whether that be from home or in office may end up appreciating their husbands even more because they understand the effort it takes, Also I have traditional values however am not opposed to the idea of a married sister working in the office as long as it's in an environment that won't subject her to compromise her Deen there are some good sisters only workplaces out there although rare, having said that though where I have an issue is when some sisters use the fact that they work in office and complain about having to do housework when they can do it out of choice whereas, many Muslim men don't work high stress high paying jobs out of choice it's because it's a Islamic obligation for us to do so.
I found the opposite true for myself.I had to work full time until my oldest child was two, then stayed home because my husband’s work schedule was erratic. I was much more stressed and exhausted being home full time. When I had two children at home, I found part-time work so I could have a break! I love being a mom, but I could not stay home all the time and keep my sanity. I think we are all different. Kids are different, too. Mine were and are good kids, but we’re very energetic and rarely needed a nap, which meant no break.
Dream seal 0 seconds ago I found the opposite true for myself.I had to work full time until my oldest child was two, then stayed home because my husband’s work schedule was erratic. I was much more stressed and exhausted being home full time. When I had two children at home, I found part-time work so I could have a break! I love being a mom, but I could not stay home all the time and keep my sanity. I think we are all different. Kids are different, too. Mine were and are good kids, but were very energetic and rarely needed a nap, which meant no break.
@@Muslim_Momma i think it also depends on work. When I was working as a teacher it was not stressful at all, but when I started working in Big4 audit firm it was a nightmare. The level of stress was horrible.
Much better than the last podcast Alhamdulillah. I'm glad things were cleared up & everyone is in agreeance that it's just common sense to help your spouse. May Allah bless you all 🤲🏻
I saw the panel, and I was hesitant to open the video. But I am so happy that did! Thank you for talking about what happened before. I don't want to mention it. But thank you for fixing the mistakes that happened. Allah bless you all.
This is so refreshing to hear this time round. The last discussion stirred more bad than good. It was refreshing to see brother shakil clarify everything just goes to show how much people really pin point things. Mashallah so amazing, very good points highlighted. Please do more discussions like this and be wise in the candidates that join the show. After all, the public do get ‘influenced’ to a certain degree. One tip: please don’t talk over one another, it wastes precious time. Jzk!
@@GlassmindProject assalamualaikum brother wow subhanallah you have so much attractive personality wow, and you are so much mature I am 2 yrs older than you and not even have 20 percent of your personality wow may Allah bless you ❤
Listening to brother Shakeel felt more real, it doesn't feel like it's a social media or internet thing. I agree with the brother on the idea that, if you have nothing good to say, don't speak. I rarely comment on anything online, but Brother Shakeel's words deserved a compliment, I hope brother Ali can convey them to him, from me.
So true, Ali Dawah. The rate of divorce is sky rocketing. May Allah SWT grant our youth the ability to remain patient, respectful and oversee each others flaws, and maintain relations.
I’m so happy this was released, the last video left me feeling literally sick and left me questioning is this what my religion is and am I the only one that finds this unfair? This panel of sisters were much better in showing the true reality and both sides and not just trying to live up to the opinions of the toxic males on the panel. Thank you so much may Allah bless you all!
If a voumen can't cook clean the house and do house chores she ain't marriage material but an entitled leech and unnecessary burdon specially those keep singing my rights while ignoring husbands right and talk like modern western wahman
Asalaamualaikum, study Islam thoroughly from a scholar if need be. No video should have you questioning Islam. That just means you need to acquire more knowledge. Allah made Islam perfect, not Muslims.
I feel so bad for brother Shakil. Glad he got to say his peice. People will just nit pick at anything and only shows the sickness thats in their own heart. When I watched that episode with Mahdi I was genuinely admiring brother Shakil for his silence as it shows hes not speaking for the sake of it. Silence is a sign of dignity
He said he didn't speak because he would be labelled a mysogynist. He also stated that men should not have to debate with a woman if the woman has to cook or not.
I want to be a traditional wife when I get married. But most men nowadays want an independent woman. 🙄 I have been working since I was 19 and I want to put the effort in my future family. In Shaa Allah, anyone who reads this, make dua for me to get a good husband.
I don't know of any males in my circle looking for "independent women" who won't stop reminding you of how much they don't need you. That's not a majority of men.
I'm an afghan man living in the USA I'm in love with your show brother Ali you opening the eyes of those who don't have Islamic knowledge It's so amazing that have amazing sister here to give their own idea may Allah bless you ALL 🤲
@@NoName-fv5oo no wonder the most hypocrites lol my mom always debates these Taliban pashtoon living in Democracy breathing democratic air and lecturing about Taliban and how they are great ahhaha no wonder the west hates us ! I’m Afghan and despise these ppl
I'm always gonna be with my wife and she'll never get sick of me. Being sick of me is being sick of herself. We're 1 and her limbs are my limbs. I'm there by her side and I'll do everything for her and with her.
Brother Shakeel, so pleased you clarified your stance, I know from experience how it feels to be misunderstood. People always misunderstand me too. Although, that comes from their own selves as you were speaking English, they choose to misunderstand and not think better of their Muslim brother. I hope that you have not lost hope in your Muslim brothers and sisters as we are not all quick to judge.
What was he misunderstood to be and why? Is it because he looked like he sided with Mahdi? What did Mahdi say that was bad and how did iyu determine that is bad?
Shakeel had expressed himself really well! THE NIQABI SPOKE NOOO LIES 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Straight factssssss!!! May Allah bless her and continue to strengthen her in her knowledge and speech. Ameen
Good on Shakil for coming, may Allah keep him firm, and all the muslimeen. Islam today has many faces and like the prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salam said it will split into 73 sects.
So glad I’ve got me a traditional woman, cooks & cleans without me ever having to tell her to do so because she wants to do it, I just go to work then come back with everything prepared.
@@uzairkhan1080 he's the only man who has the cojones to speak out against feminism and hold his position like an army defends its fort...all the other men are too cowardly even ali dawah is a fence sitter...this is why he will keep growing
@@youtubeuser2579 nah you are just another Mahdi simp. It isn't what Mahdi said, but more so the way he said it. No man of Qur'an and Sunnah talks about women in such a degrading manner. He speaks about women without any compassion or kindness. As if they are his slaves to command...and that is the problem. You just found an excuse to justify your own unjust mentality in regard to women through Mahdi which is why you have described him as a hero. The best of you and the ones who are good to their wives is what the hadith described. We all have our roles in the home, but without respect and compassion...the days are numbered.
I Love this Content so much! Its so Important and Interesting that they just talk daily Problems of not only Muslims but general Humans. I feel.sometimes when you ask Scholara for Advice they dont go deep in,in explaining and analysing Daily life matters and thats why i like this Shows its not just about duty and right but about going deeper in the Nature of Men and Women.
May Allah bless brother Shakil He clarified himself, showed his maturity and dignity and did not throw Mahdi under the bus but showed honourably his disagreement
My dad after his marriage had shifted his bangle manufacturing unit to our home so the first and the ground floor was completely occupied to his unit and on the second floor our family used to live . I remember the time when workers from pakaging section were less amd the work load was too much to handle . It was my mother who used to go down stairs to help my dad while he was alone working their she used to help him while the workers were absent , but she never said its not my job I'm a women i must just cook n clean . Why can't married couple just work as a team and help each other . In case if husband have to travel long distance for his work , its alright for his wife to take all home responsibilities on herself and the other member of the team i.e the husband can just earn the bread .simple.
More please! More of this for the ummah! I’m sure this is how scholars of the past used to talk amongst themselves to agree or disagree on different topics, fields & skills etc…
I recently added a comment onto a video stating that basically a woman can work behind the scenes to make her man great and hold down the forte and that makes her great, his reflection is her reflection and visa versa. I had to delete the comment because I got some female sending me a patronising comment as if I'm a wounded bird and can't think and feel for myself. She is telling me how I feel, that I feel worthless and I need to have more faith in myself to be great on my own and get out there and make my own greatness because I shouldn't stand behind a man and support a man behind the scenes. She said that men don't need us to make them great, they are great all on their own. I was disgusted at the fact that some stranger, who doesn't know me, seems to think she knows how I feel deep down and can't accept the fact that not all women are feminists and not all women see the need to compete for materialism and meaningless things, forsaking the real reason they are here and not all women hate men. For me, I've worked full time before and been at home doing everything for my family and beyond and I believe, going out to work for a female, put the kids in childcare to be raised by people with different ideologies and then complain about them being brainwashed. It's is so much easier than staying at home holding down the forte whilst her man's away. Being a real housewife is the hardest job on the planet. It's a huge world you have to take care of just inside the home environment and that includes the backyard and front yard if you have one and if you work from home or you also help with the husband business. The point is, don't belittle women who actually care for their families and men and want to hold down the forte when their men are away and are proud of that. Remember for those Muslim women, in Islam we are told it is a wife's job to take care of her husband's assets when he is away. This is clear and you and the kids and everything he has worked for is his assets. If you feel that you need to be a feminist and stand against your roles as a woman, then question yourself as to why and if it doesn't benefit your afterlife and give you reward from Allah, then why are you doing it? We will all die and if you have focussed on materialism and putting others under you, may Allah have mercy on your soul.
I am so proud of this panel for clearing the air about a certain content creator and his message. The youth need to be protected. May Allah swt protect you all and elevate your status in this life and the next. Ameen.
Such a learning curve fr everyone ineven told my husband about this show and someone is going thru a divorce but if they had listened to ur discussion it may have saved the girl and boy frm a divorce.
I don’t believe these podcasts are beneficial for the ummah. The fact of the matter is that the prompts for all the episodes aren’t black and white, they’re grey. To assume these dialogues will help the Muslim couple next door in their personal affairs, when in reality, it’s all based upon subjectivity and personal experiences (to and extent). Muslim men shouldn’t be taking from Mahdi and use him to justify their behavior while the same applies to sisters taking from feminist niqabis and projecting onto their own marriage. These conversations need to be held privately.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Correct Akhi May Allah reward you and give you ease I have commented the same thing many times on how these issues fade away when one reads the Quran and sunnah and people still want to neglect it. Astagfurallah
Really good series. Well done brother Ali, May Allah reward you immensely for your efforts. I must say, as someone who'd watched the episode in question and had no idea about the backlash you'd received. I am baffled at some of the criticism that was discussed. I genuinely feel for brother Romero as I genuinely didn't feel like he was supporting any of the nonsense Mahdi was spouting. In fact I completely agreed with the point about the fact it was even a conversation was baffling. I completely understood his point and thought that was one of the most rational comments made. I think it was also very unfair of the other sister to have criticised him like that on social media. She herself sat quietly and passively during that episode and didn't speak up so I don't feel she had any room for criticism. Also, if she was nervous or feeling uncomfortable about speaking up then firstly why was she sat reserving the spot of another sister who might have been better at speaking for the sisters corner. And lastly, if she was nervous then as brother Romero has explained he had his own reasons for not wanting to say too much unnecessarily. We can't show up wanting to have an opinion on a panel and then criticise someone else for not condemning someone when you've done exactly the same thing.
Honestly, I feel like this is a very online issue. People online from both sides love to argue from both extremes and they can go on forever. Everyone I know who is married don't have this argument between husband and wife about who should do what and "you should do this" or "I don't have to do that". I genuinely believe the people online arguing over this stuff are younger brothers who aren't married and feminist sisters who are also not married and they are all speaking from their extreme idealistic point of view. I have yet to see a couple who love each other and have their lives in order argue over this matter.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته This topic can be tackled better and I believe this podcast or discussion is not the best way for it الله أعلم And you are correct in your saying that most of these people are speaking with their whims and desires and they have no knowledge at all and they are spewing their ignorance that becomes widespread. Once you stick to the Kitab And Sunnah everything becomes clear. Once you deviate from it you don’t have guidance nor will you find peace.
This is the comment I was looking for and what I have also observed from married couples. The online arguments honestly make me scared if getting married.
@blue_594 that's very judgemental of you. I am actually a teacher and I have been working for about 16 years ever since I was a teenager. I have always loved cooking, I actually find it very therapeutic
To everyone who was in this show! Absolutely fantastic!!!! You did an amazing job! I wish I could write a positive personal message to everyone, but I’ll keep it brief and say, that I really hope you all come again, you seemed well-balanced, fair and very careful of how the audience (especially young ppl) view your message. Well done on that point! In the end, you seemed to have cleared whatever that was happening behind the scenes - or maybe in TikTok world (don’t have TikTok, maybe I should? 🤔) - and as an audience I left with a very good sense of fairness between brothers and sisters in Islam, ultimately I see a good group of people who wish the best for married people, families and the ummah. Lastly, you even held brother Ali Dawa accountable for his thumbnail videos, which was very fair and funny 😅🤓 All the best to everyone, and keep the peace🤍🌸🤲🏾 AliDawa, well done to you and your wife - BarakaLahu Feekum🤲🏾
I have worked for 20 years (11 years of my married life) because I have to...I use leave home before my husband, on my way back home do the shopping for cooking, come home cook meal, clean,. contribute to bill. Husband - goes to work, comes home, eats and relaxes. Now on maternity leave, still do shopping (online shopping so contributing financially), cook, clean and look after baby...there is no rest...24hrs literally Husband - works from home, has time to go out with friends like he is still living the single life.. There is a lot of conversation and noise, but no one is going back to the examples of the prophets and companions...
Salam aleykom. Good for you if it suits you. Im a stay at home mom and for me working and doing mum stuff at home would be exausting.May Allah bless your family.
If you had to work and your husband didn't help it's a bit selfish from your husband. It's good to help your wife esoecially if she just had a baby. I hope he changes but hmdl that you can stay at home now.
Brother shakil! Allahuma barik. I never thought you were laughing agreeing with him . I saw the laughter at him. I'm glad you've spoken up brother. Mashallah you're great . May Allah bless your marriage.
I HATE it when my husband does housework, I can't lie. He enjoys ironing and I don't mind that as I hate it BUT anything else? Drives me up the wall, why? Because that's MY job and I take great pride in that. The same way I expect him to enjoy providing for me and our childre. I like to ensure the roles are crystal clear.
MashaaAllah to my somali sister Suad, she is dropping some real gems that needed to be heard! So proud that she is representing for us all! Please bring her back on inshaaAllah
Comparison is the killer of joy. Stop comparing JOBS. Start appreciating each other. I don't have anything more to say to this topic. It gets silly and people focus on things that does not matter. Find problems when there needs not be. You reach a point in life where all that noise doesn't matter and being right doesn't matter. If you think you know better, then be a good example with the way you lead your life and build your home. Period.
Overall, a better panel, this time. Alhamdullillah. The sister who said that mahdi gives power to the men who think like him, is so spot on. Well said, sister. And the sister, who called mahdi, dangerous is also not exaggerating. He is impressionable on young minds. Many Muslim boys don't have role models and God forbid, they take mahdi as their role model.
@@GokuBlack-sn5dr, you tell me. In my life, the Prophet pbuh, and good people around me, such as my parents or inspirational people who work hard to follow their deen.
@@icecoldcousin3617 Sisters didnt even watch Mahdis podcast with Ali Dawah, and made assumptions about what he said and called him a dangerous liar. Sisters here are triggered, and brothers should have checked her for being disrespectful of a man who you didn't even see the full videos off. Give one point Mahdi made that was bad in that podcast?
Allahumma barik, it was very good what the sister said at the end about bringing or talking to married Muslim who actually are married for 20,30,40+ years.
What Brother Shaquil was talking about I call 'purity spiraling', I know some sisters and brothers who love to 'toot their own horn' and just sit in judgment of others jumping to conclusions, it's not right and it does turn people off, and it is destructive, May Allah guide us and keep us firm on the deen with sincerity and without hubris.
1. I watched the previous full podcast however I did not help but laugh at Mahdi as well. I can not believe people were getting upset at the whole cast. I am very happy Shakil cleared the assumptions so he does not get any backlash. I feel like now everyone has to put a "Disclaimer" at every given moment of conversation especially when you are on a Podcast ( Which I notice Ali doing, bravo) I appreciated the sisters speaking on the importance of holding women in a high regard when speaking about them. 2. Both sides answered the header question very classily and brought up some good points. 3. Finally, as the sister said, Ali can bring ANY guest he wants but the point is to have a meaningful debate and ask challenging questions and when you disagree make it shown by actions or words during the conversation.
I completely agree with you, I watched the last podcast and I found him hilarious, gosh don’t people know what humour is anymore. And the Muslims getting so offended by everything anyone says, can’t anyone say anything it’s their own opinion.
Almost the half of the podcast was about Mahdi. If you don't agree with him why didn't you interrupt him there and now? The sister who is totally against Mahdi that she even didn't go to the podcast because he was going to be there why is she NOW mad about the other guests not speaking or arguing with him. why she bringing him up while she didn't even wanted to be associated with him in the first place. You guys didn't do Mahdi any good in this podcast. you talked about him(not in a good way) and he doesn't have the chance to defend himself because he isn't in the podcast.
wow, what an entertaining and insightful episode! Mashallah. I want to say these discussions (along with other videos on YT) have really helped me unlearn, learn about feminism. Alhamdulilah! Allahuma bareek
Sister Suad Allahumabarik stood out by her responses, such wisdom and femininity in her speech. I know many were saying that on her JustPearlyThings ep as well. Maybe she should start her own channel and speak more about these issues inshaaAllah
In my somali culture no NEGOTIATION and dicussion about cooking and cleaning when you get married it is a prerequisite to get married .and its abeautiful thing i enjoy it😊
Kudos to you brother Ali if I were in Europe or UK you would just get tired of me being your guest am single and this podcast is like a shoe shiner for me you know like what I should be and what I should expect from my future Habibi may she be the coolness to my eyes and to you too out they as well, salaam.
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As salaamu alaykum...Free mixing plus you allow sisters that dont cover their hair on show!
Ali your sining plus promoting it! STOP IT!!!!!
ali you are fooling yourself if you think free mixing is halal. I would be in fear of being a dayooth if one of those sisters were my wife. stop normalizing this
Semen retention is the dumbest idea and serves no point. The clown should have stayed home. Repeating himself over and over and not saying anything.
I’m a new revert and (English born and raised) I work hard all day every day and my wife is a stay at home mom and house wife she keeps the house clean and cooks for me and the children every day and she is happy to do that even before I reverted, I will happily come in and get the children to bed or feed them if she needs it it’s all about mutual understanding and compromise in my opinion. Allahmdulliah
Love you brother Adam
@@positiveali9214 👍🏻👍🏻
@@aliaziz1145 allahmdulliah so far do good brother
ask your quastions live interactive stream please EFDAWAH channel and HAMZAHS DEN channel and dawahwise CHANNEL on UTUBE 💞💞💞 is live interactive
welcome to islam brother! so many people are coming to the truth these days!
Ironically, I'm in the kitchen preparing everything for iftar whilst listening to this 😂
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😂😂😂 Me three
Allah bless and preserve you all, Ameen!
Me too!!!!😂😂
Lol i just made some kebab, the best cooks are men😂
This is one of the reasons I became a Muslim. These women value virtue, femininity, and modesty. Ramadan Mubarak ☪️
May Allah bless you brother, Welcome to the deen and ramadan mubarak
Please, stay off these online 'dawah' scenes. They will only corrupt. Stick to major scholars who are on the path of the salaf.
@@irfanshaikh9390 not everyone is that easily influenced. Allah blessed me with the ability to think critically and to not allow life to imitate art or entertainment. I thank you for your concern.
@@irfanshaikh9390 'The PaTH OF THE saLaF'; also known as normative Sunni Islam that 99% of the Ummah follow. Not the path of the 't£rr0ristic bl00d-lust group of MIAW' (read tarikh an Najd and Darus saniya) or any other divisive, isolationist cult that is the Salafi cult. 5 pillars of Islam, 6 pillars of Eman and sincerity of action is all that is needed. Not the self-refuting, contradictory, debate-heavy topic of sifat, which Najdi scholars, themselves, disagree upon. Delving into abstract theology is worthless, especially in today's day and age. Focus on realm issues, you miskeen.
@@KhilafaNow at no point did I say the vast majority of sunni Muslims weren't on the path of the salaf. And at no point did I say, only use Saudi scholars. Imam Hanafi, shafi, malik, and hanbal were followers of the prophet (S) and the first 3 generations.
The main point was not to use misguidance.
But you're so driven by hate for your own Muslim brothers, you typed out that insult laden drivel.
Shakeel seems a nice, intelligent guy. Truly agree with him - it used to be overlooking each others flaws and now it seems like, ignoring the good and focusing on the flaws.
this guy Shakil the guy that cleared the air MashaAllah....really defined the ummah majority of us. May Allah guide him and us all and bless him
He was in fire for people thinking he is supporting Mahdi, but can one please state what did Mahdi say in the podcast that was unreasonable?
@@shadmani9687He has no respect for sisters and he’s not using the Quran and Sunnah, just his whims and desires
@@Zazezoo Women asking for a high Mahr that is against the Sunnah. However, it is her whims and desires and it is halal. If women can do that then so can men as long as its not against Islam. So what did he say in the podcast that is against Islam?
Women cooking for husband is not against Islam. Women pretending to act like as if this is not her obligation to cook and clean when husbands tells her so (one of the sister did that against Mahdi in that Podcast) is against the Quran and Sunnah. And clearly against Islam.
@@Zazezoo So cookie are you going to reply to the brother that asked the question? Or is cookie getting cooked by some basic question?
No he’s a d******d wasteman revert who said that a muslimah shoodl invite her kafir boyfriend home and he goes in tiktok and says he gets p*** f*** clown he’s on this prodcast because he’s begging it thinking sisters will marry him when he is arrogant and boasts about being able to do zina d***h***d yute
As brother Shakil said from the Sunna “if you have nothing nice to say it’s better to stay quiet” SubhanAllah ❤️🤲🏽🙏🏽🏆
its a hadith
I'm a African American Muslim....and wht I love about these shows in the UK and other Islamic based shows around the world is the Universal aspect of Quran and Sunnah....no matter what the race or Nationality carry out the same Sunnah,speak the same language,and praise the same Creater (Allah) SWA.....it makes my heart smile and my eyes water with pleasure....I thank Allah for choosing me and my children to be Muslim and Everyone else who are on the straight path... Allahu Akbar!!!!! I love my brothers and sisters World Wide
i feel exactly the same way. Thanks for putting it into words.
I really liked that brother Shakil got the opportunity to give us some context about his situation and teach us to not be so condeming and try to believe the best about each other. I got a bad first impression of him but in this episode he made my heart soften and cleared his intentions. Also this video was much more islamic and reasonble and compassionate. This is what Young people need to hear. May Allah bless you all❤️
Finally some Muslim men and women who are making sense. May Allah bless them all ❤️
Non productive discussions AGAIN. Muslims the most deprived & most discriminated against demographic in the UK by a mile but these useless pointless discussions that help our Ummah no shape or form take heed? Make it make sense
@@kb-gj9lfIt has to start from our homes, then to the outside world. So these discussions are needed. No matter how baseless they appear to you…
@@Zazezoo Deprived & Discriminated but ‘who belongs in the kitchen’ discussions need to take place? That delusional view you share is the reason things will never change!
@@kb-gj9lf how are muslims discriminated in the UK? I'm muslim but have never faced discrimination for it...
@@PIXELGamerzXvlogs I don’t recommend you to travel to towns or villages in England as you will receive a rude awakening of how you a truly perceived.
Literally amazing podcast. From watching some of the old ones, the viral one, to this one… As a revert Muslim woman, THANK YOU. May Allah bless you all 💕
Great podcast this time guys May Allah bless you
From my point of view…
Before I reverted to islam I was a feminist without even realising
I was a working mother, I went back to work when my son was 3 months old because I wanted to prove I could do it all.
Guess what - biggest regret of my life! I missed my sons first word, his first steps & I was always stressed trying to find childcare!
After reverting to Islam I got married elhamdulillah & I worked until we had our first child together, after that I never returned to work. We now have 4 wonderful children subhanAllah I’m a stay at home mother and wife and my husband works away 6 days a week.
SubhanAllah my husband calls me the tree and our kids are the fruit.
He kisses my hands after he takes his first bite of the food I made him, he says thank you and he shows love and affection, that is all i need subhanAllah all i need is a little appreciation and it fuels me.
Having been on both sides, being a non hijabi no muslim, being a non hijabi muslim, being a hijabi muslim, being a working mother and a full time house wife and mother.
I can honestly say i’ve never felt more content & I gain more respect not just from my husband but from outsiders who see me do what i do, they always say how are you coping so well, how have you not lost your mind with your kids 24/7.
I do lose it sometimes but I know in my heart that Allah SWT will not burden upon me more than i can bare.
So i tell myself that yes I’m struggling but Allah SWT has trusted this upon me so I know only I am putting myself down and standing in my own way.
I will also add that me and my husband fought a lot when he started working away, because all i’d see was him before and after work going out for coffee with friends and me at home with the kids 24/7, I was comparing our tasks and feeling sorry for myself ya Allah forgive me.
It caused a lot of arguments.
But Subhanallah I took a step back and realised I was looking for a fight for no reason, that I don’t need coffee and friends every day, I was just jealous!
But my husband maşaAllah he was a lot more stressed than he let me see, once he opened up to me and we had dialogue, my ego settled and I could see how wrong i was, I apologised and now subhanAllah we have found our middle ground.
My advise to brothers and sisters out there is , marriage is 2 imperfect people coming together and learning about each other, you’re going to argue, irritate and disagree with each other but you both got to win some and lose some.
&&& remember always apologise, please never be too proud to say sorry, it really goes a long way.
May Allah SWT bless you all abundantly!
Ameen MashAllah well said. 🙏
Manshallah, ask any men who is the strongest woman you know ? he will say his mother. Not because she is a CEO, not because she is a career woman not because she is a celebrity. But because she took care of him because she nurtured him because he have seen her struggle in the home of his father and never abandon her duty nonetheless. I swear I am talking from experience you have made the right choice.
@@ldrago6031 there come the feminist trying to brainwash a woman that already has gone through that and understand that there is no point doing that 🤦🏾♂️.
Also cooking and cleaning are not required by Allah but obeying your husband is. Please don't come here spreading your venom at Muslim marriage.
@@ldrago6031 cooking and cleaning are fardh
gaahh you had me in tearss :') so beautiful Ma sha Allah May Allah bless you moree!such a beautiful reminder!! JazakAllahh ❤❤❤❤
Assalamu alaikum, I'm an asian girl, I came in Europe 10 years ago when I was 8 and I didn't know how these feminists (actors, musics, shows..) have affected me until I watch your podcast. JazzakaAllah for this beautiful show, may Allah bless you. You are doing such a great job brother Ali may Allah give you the reward, I'm thanking from the bottom of my heart...
Bringing brother sirtaj and his wife was positive examples and it might encourage ppl to show love and mercy towards their spouses inshaAllah
Thank you brother
Exactly 💯
Which one is sirajs wife
@@hamdiyazid200 if you watch it you will know is the one with the cream head scarf
@@mrironsirtajrahman8487 But they barely looked at each other
I absolutely love brother Ali. The amount of patience he has 😭 subhanallah.
I don’t why Ali does these videos lately really just unnecessary feminist and men screaming at each other
@@Dhuxul9 Views akhi. Views and relevance.
@@Dhuxul9 Its because the Higher-Ups tell them so.
@@GhettoDetective who
@@rubixcube7234 Well it's kinda like a pyramid with an umbrella on top of it.
From the World Cup Qatar to the Wizards of Najd.😎
Listening to this on the 9th April at 02:25 in South Africa, preparing suhoor for my family with a smile on my face
God bless you sister!
Cooking, looking after kids, washing clothes, mobing house, that's my job as a muslim somali woman❤😊
Yes sister but there is no shame in having your Husband help you out when you really need it . If the messenger of Islam did it why can’t your husband do the same to get more reward from Allah azzawajal. The purpose of marriage ultimately is to win the pleasure of Allah not to say cooking and cleaning and kids are your job as a Somalian women.
@@shakila5674 that's a given but the responsibility falls on her not him
@@jamaalshaikh122 yes because men don’t have the mental capability to care and have patience the way women do in the house . I don’t think you got my point . I said men should help around a little and their is no shame for men to help their wife and kids
@@shakila5674 yes he should but if he is breaking his back all week and she is at home where she has been nice and comfortable and cosy, should she really expect him to work around the house? Is that reasonable?
@@jamaalshaikh122 sister i dont know what house you have been living in but in my house the work never ends. And I have worked outside in order to help my family as well both at the same time. So I have done both sides of the argument. A man's work ends when he comes home. When does a woman's? The children and cleaning and cooking never ends. On top of this she needs to find time to commit to her deen. You are oversimplifying a ladys situation in the home.
honestly felt for shakil, may الله bless him and keep him firm on the deen💗
Why did he apologise I do not understand. I think the sister bullied him into an apology for even remotely looking like he agreed with Mahdi in one or 2 things.
@@Valley6 people came with hate an negativity because he looked like he sided on some topics with a guy that doesnt pander to the female ego. Hence they came with hate. This is why Mahdi will continue to grow. No one can tell these sisters anything.
@@shadmani9687 Because that Arab sister has some issues and being a Karen for no reason . Why attack the guy who was silent and not the ones talking and laughing? So because his black he should speak up and control other peoples mouth and actions ! She is picking on the wrong group of people!
Masha'Allah you guys are good ecample of how we need to keep open communication to improve relationships. Some conversations are hard to have but once had can develop our mindset and make room for positive growth.
Example* lol
That brother, sitting next to Ali Dawah is masha Allah, a good man.. With the right balance.. We need more men like him.
True, he is a rare find these days. May Allah bless him and his family. Wish more men were like him. But sadly more men are like Mahdi Tijani these days
@@urwashahid9210 Mahdi didnt say anything bad in the podcasts. Just because your ego is triggered by what he said doesn't mean he is bad.
@@shadmani9687 like I said, more men are like Mahdi these days. You just proved my point.
@@urwashahid9210 Could you please give one point he said that you deem to be bad? Please let it be a logical point and not one of emotions.
@Shadman I can you list one he said that's reasonable? Everything he said was completely unreasonable. He won't lift a finger to help the wife what kind of an idiot is that.
I always thought that working is not that difficult until I started working as a financial auditor. I was so stressed like I was never before. After ten months of stress I quit and alhamdulillah enjoying every moment of my housewife life. After that no housework or looking after my child seem stressful to me. Believe me, workinb in a professional service is not easy and cannot be compared to being in the comfort of your home and cooking or cleaning. I was always enjoying looking after my family but after working myself I started appreciating my husband's efforts waaay more. And nope, looking after household and kids can be physically exhaustinh but it cannot be compared to the mental exhaustion that work gives.
Well said. I've never worked in an office environment, but my husband does.. And masha Allah, I appreciate him 100%
I think sisters who work an office job whether that be from home or in office may end up appreciating their husbands even more because they understand the effort it takes, Also I have traditional values however am not opposed to the idea of a married sister working in the office as long as it's in an environment that won't subject her to compromise her Deen there are some good sisters only workplaces out there although rare, having said that though where I have an issue is when some sisters use the fact that they work in office and complain about having to do housework when they can do it out of choice whereas, many Muslim men don't work high stress high paying jobs out of choice it's because it's a Islamic obligation for us to do so.
I found the opposite true for myself.I had to work full time until my oldest child was two, then stayed home because my husband’s work schedule was erratic. I was much more stressed and exhausted being home full time. When I had two children at home, I found part-time work so I could have a break! I love being a mom, but I could not stay home all the time and keep my sanity. I think we are all different. Kids are different, too. Mine were and are good kids, but we’re very energetic and rarely needed a nap, which meant no break.
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I found the opposite true for myself.I had to work full time until my oldest child was two, then stayed home because my husband’s work schedule was erratic. I was much more stressed and exhausted being home full time. When I had two children at home, I found part-time work so I could have a break! I love being a mom, but I could not stay home all the time and keep my sanity. I think we are all different. Kids are different, too. Mine were and are good kids, but were very energetic and rarely needed a nap, which meant no break.
@@Muslim_Momma i think it also depends on work. When I was working as a teacher it was not stressful at all, but when I started working in Big4 audit firm it was a nightmare. The level of stress was horrible.
This podcast is so calm and refreshing from all the other podcasts that yell at eachother and belittle eachother. Thank you❤️
Much better than the last podcast Alhamdulillah. I'm glad things were cleared up & everyone is in agreeance that it's just common sense to help your spouse.
May Allah bless you all 🤲🏻
is it because last podcast there was a guy that refused to pander to the female ego?
Brother Michael is the best human being on here MashaAllah. Only 22 years old. What a lovely soul. May Allah protect him and his family ❤
Thank you
I saw the panel, and I was hesitant to open the video. But I am so happy that did! Thank you for talking about what happened before. I don't want to mention it. But thank you for fixing the mistakes that happened. Allah bless you all.
Glad to know I wasn't the only one who was disappointed about the last podcast, this clears alot of things alhamdulilah. Allah SWT protect us ameen
What were you dissapointed with, give clear points.
Allahu Barik Shakil, your authenticity is so refreshing and encouraging 👏👏
this eppiissoodddee
I am not a Muslim, but I love the conversations you have on this podcast!
May Allah guide you InshaAllah to Islam
Christine, SISTER MAY ALLAH GUIDE U TO ISLAAM - The straight path of all the Prophets of God Almighty, Ameen"
Follow islam the relegion of Jesus pbuh
Stay away from islam, religion of immortality
@@studyquranmultipletimestoc2560 isa is not Jesus
This is so refreshing to hear this time round. The last discussion stirred more bad than good. It was refreshing to see brother shakil clarify everything just goes to show how much people really pin point things. Mashallah so amazing, very good points highlighted. Please do more discussions like this and be wise in the candidates that join the show. After all, the public do get ‘influenced’ to a certain degree.
One tip: please don’t talk over one another, it wastes precious time. Jzk!
Brother Michael 👏👏. Spoken wisely after waiting his turn.
I also love sister Soul. She spits facts. May Allah guide us all. Ameen.
22 year old broski Sat, listened, then spoke. He said it perfectly. Big up. Big up to all the nani's.
Thank you ma bro, I appreciate it
@@GlassmindProject assalamualaikum brother wow subhanallah you have so much attractive personality wow, and you are so much mature I am 2 yrs older than you and not even have 20 percent of your personality wow may Allah bless you ❤
Listening to brother Shakeel felt more real, it doesn't feel like it's a social media or internet thing. I agree with the brother on the idea that, if you have nothing good to say, don't speak. I rarely comment on anything online, but Brother Shakeel's words deserved a compliment, I hope brother Ali can convey them to him, from me.
So true, Ali Dawah. The rate of divorce is sky rocketing. May Allah SWT grant our youth the ability to remain patient, respectful and oversee each others flaws, and maintain relations.
The saying goes unfortunately • we’ve made marriage hard & divorce easy • may ALLAH Help us in this. Aameen
Ameen
G I wonder why 😂😂😂
Shakeel expressed himself really well! THE NIQABI SPOKE NOOOO LIES 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 well done for articulating herself so well, Ma Sha Allah ❤
Thank you for protecting a sister and telling the trolls to be gone! May Allah bless you as well ❤️
I’m so happy this was released, the last video left me feeling literally sick and left me questioning is this what my religion is and am I the only one that finds this unfair? This panel of sisters were much better in showing the true reality and both sides and not just trying to live up to the opinions of the toxic males on the panel. Thank you so much may Allah bless you all!
Yes and this one didnt have the mehdi guy
If a voumen can't cook clean the house and do house chores she ain't marriage material but an entitled leech and unnecessary burdon specially those keep singing my rights while ignoring husbands right and talk like modern western wahman
@@Ya39oub_G it made Muslim men look like pigs in my opinion. Which is sad bc there are so many great Muslim men out there.
Amiin
Asalaamualaikum, study Islam thoroughly from a scholar if need be. No video should have you questioning Islam. That just means you need to acquire more knowledge. Allah made Islam perfect, not Muslims.
I feel so bad for brother Shakil. Glad he got to say his peice. People will just nit pick at anything and only shows the sickness thats in their own heart.
When I watched that episode with Mahdi I was genuinely admiring brother Shakil for his silence as it shows hes not speaking for the sake of it. Silence is a sign of dignity
He said he didn't speak because he would be labelled a mysogynist. He also stated that men should not have to debate with a woman if the woman has to cook or not.
I want to be a traditional wife when I get married. But most men nowadays want an independent woman. 🙄
I have been working since I was 19 and I want to put the effort in my future family.
In Shaa Allah, anyone who reads this, make dua for me to get a good husband.
im 23 y/o do you have discord or insta because i want a traditional wife
Most men don't want "independent women" ........STOP LYING!
Most men still want traditional women we just can't say we do because we will be branded toxic masculinity.
I don't know of any males in my circle looking for "independent women" who won't stop reminding you of how much they don't need you. That's not a majority of men.
@@Augustin87 then your circle is good. Kudos to you all. MashaAllah Tabarakallah
Love this ❤ its nice to hear all sides
I'm an afghan man living in the USA I'm in love with your show brother Ali you opening the eyes of those who don't have Islamic knowledge It's so amazing that have amazing sister here to give their own idea may Allah bless you ALL 🤲
@@hashbrown4me those are Arabs honey not us but you know what can’t make any promises 😂😂I actually love actually doing it personally
@@Cleanwhitebeige95actually the guy with a beard is a pashtun from Pakhtunkwa
@@NoName-fv5oo no wonder the most hypocrites lol my mom always debates these Taliban pashtoon living in Democracy breathing democratic air and lecturing about Taliban and how they are great ahhaha no wonder the west hates us ! I’m Afghan and despise these ppl
Shakeel is on point👍👌👌
I'm always gonna be with my wife and she'll never get sick of me. Being sick of me is being sick of herself. We're 1 and her limbs are my limbs. I'm there by her side and I'll do everything for her and with her.
Brother Shakeel, so pleased you clarified your stance, I know from experience how it feels to be misunderstood. People always misunderstand me too. Although, that comes from their own selves as you were speaking English, they choose to misunderstand and not think better of their Muslim brother. I hope that you have not lost hope in your Muslim brothers and sisters as we are not all quick to judge.
What was he misunderstood to be and why? Is it because he looked like he sided with Mahdi? What did Mahdi say that was bad and how did iyu determine that is bad?
I love this podcast and all the pious brothers and sisters on it mashallah. Brother Shaqil is a good chap
Brother Michael is wise for his age. May Allah bless him, his wife and his Nan
Shakeel had expressed himself really well! THE NIQABI SPOKE NOOO LIES 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Straight factssssss!!! May Allah bless her and continue to strengthen her in her knowledge and speech. Ameen
Good on Shakil for coming, may Allah keep him firm, and all the muslimeen. Islam today has many faces and like the prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salam said it will split into 73 sects.
And he forbid it. Yet you are doing it
So glad I’ve got me a traditional woman, cooks & cleans without me ever having to tell her to do so because she wants to do it, I just go to work then come back with everything prepared.
May Allah bless you.
That’s not a traditional woman that’s a servant
@@aatamf8156 ok feminist
You are blessed
hold on to her and never let go because you have a gem in your life
Mahdi watching this in a dark room while eating popcorn and laughing at all the chaos he caused last episode 😂😂🤣😂
Ppl Acc love it when mahdi comes secretly. The engagement of vids without mahdi is so less and boring to be frank.
@@uzairkhan1080 he's the only man who has the cojones to speak out against feminism and hold his position like an army defends its fort...all the other men are too cowardly even ali dawah is a fence sitter...this is why he will keep growing
@@youtubeuser2579 I see no lies
@@youtubeuser2579delusion…
@@youtubeuser2579 nah you are just another Mahdi simp. It isn't what Mahdi said, but more so the way he said it. No man of Qur'an and Sunnah talks about women in such a degrading manner. He speaks about women without any compassion or kindness. As if they are his slaves to command...and that is the problem. You just found an excuse to justify your own unjust mentality in regard to women through Mahdi which is why you have described him as a hero. The best of you and the ones who are good to their wives is what the hadith described. We all have our roles in the home, but without respect and compassion...the days are numbered.
Absolutely loved this episode man keep it up ma sha Allah Allah bless you all and whoever reads this Ameen ! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼
I Love this Content so much! Its so Important and Interesting that they just talk daily Problems of not only Muslims but general Humans. I feel.sometimes when you ask Scholara for Advice they dont go deep in,in explaining and analysing Daily life matters and thats why i like this Shows its not just about duty and right but about going deeper in the Nature of Men and Women.
May Allah bless brother Shakil
He clarified himself, showed his maturity and dignity and did not throw Mahdi under the bus but showed honourably his disagreement
He’s a f*** wasteman he’s been trying it with so many sisters hes a d***h***d
My dad after his marriage had shifted his bangle manufacturing unit to our home so the first and the ground floor was completely occupied to his unit and on the second floor our family used to live . I remember the time when workers from pakaging section were less amd the work load was too much to handle . It was my mother who used to go down stairs to help my dad while he was alone working their she used to help him while the workers were absent , but she never said its not my job I'm a women i must just cook n clean . Why can't married couple just work as a team and help each other . In case if husband have to travel long distance for his work , its alright for his wife to take all home responsibilities on herself and the other member of the team i.e the husband can just earn the bread .simple.
More please! More of this for the ummah! I’m sure this is how scholars of the past used to talk amongst themselves to agree or disagree on different topics, fields & skills etc…
‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “Do not think badly of a word uttered by your brother, when you can find a good interpretation for it.”
please dont interrupt each other so much brothers and sisters... may Allah swt bless you all
I recently added a comment onto a video stating that basically a woman can work behind the scenes to make her man great and hold down the forte and that makes her great, his reflection is her reflection and visa versa.
I had to delete the comment because I got some female sending me a patronising comment as if I'm a wounded bird and can't think and feel for myself.
She is telling me how I feel, that I feel worthless and I need to have more faith in myself to be great on my own and get out there and make my own greatness because I shouldn't stand behind a man and support a man behind the scenes. She said that men don't need us to make them great, they are great all on their own.
I was disgusted at the fact that some stranger, who doesn't know me, seems to think she knows how I feel deep down and can't accept the fact that not all women are feminists and not all women see the need to compete for materialism and meaningless things, forsaking the real reason they are here and not all women hate men.
For me, I've worked full time before and been at home doing everything for my family and beyond and I believe, going out to work for a female, put the kids in childcare to be raised by people with different ideologies and then complain about them being brainwashed. It's is so much easier than staying at home holding down the forte whilst her man's away. Being a real housewife is the hardest job on the planet. It's a huge world you have to take care of just inside the home environment and that includes the backyard and front yard if you have one and if you work from home or you also help with the husband business.
The point is, don't belittle women who actually care for their families and men and want to hold down the forte when their men are away and are proud of that.
Remember for those Muslim women, in Islam we are told it is a wife's job to take care of her husband's assets when he is away. This is clear and you and the kids and everything he has worked for is his assets.
If you feel that you need to be a feminist and stand against your roles as a woman, then question yourself as to why and if it doesn't benefit your afterlife and give you reward from Allah, then why are you doing it? We will all die and if you have focussed on materialism and putting others under you, may Allah have mercy on your soul.
I am so proud of this panel for clearing the air about a certain content creator and his message. The youth need to be protected. May Allah swt protect you all and elevate your status in this life and the next. Ameen.
Give one point Mahdi stated in the podcast with Ali Dawah, that you have a probelms with. Mahdi is very needed for the Muslim youths.
Mahdi is there just to make money on weak people’s vulnerabilities
@@artsybluecat Give proof of this. Slander against a Muslim without proof will result you being sinful in the day of judgement.
@@93boxing81they can't give any. Lol. They're just doing the bandwagon fallacy.
Where are the women refuting the toxic feminists destroying Muslim community.
Much respect to brother Shakeel man
Mashallah Ali always makes the best videos
Such a learning curve fr everyone ineven told my husband about this show and someone is going thru a divorce but if they had listened to ur discussion it may have saved the girl and boy frm a divorce.
Somali sisters are very clean, cooks really well and are very strong women when it comes to tarbia May Allah bless our sisters.
Is there any somali person inthe vedio
I don’t believe these podcasts are beneficial for the ummah. The fact of the matter is that the prompts for all the episodes aren’t black and white, they’re grey. To assume these dialogues will help the Muslim couple next door in their personal affairs, when in reality, it’s all based upon subjectivity and personal experiences (to and extent). Muslim men shouldn’t be taking from Mahdi and use him to justify their behavior while the same applies to sisters taking from feminist niqabis and projecting onto their own marriage. These conversations need to be held privately.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Correct Akhi
May Allah reward you and give you ease
I have commented the same thing many times on how these issues fade away when one reads the Quran and sunnah and people still want to neglect it. Astagfurallah
I agree bro
You could argue this case for an overwhelming majority of 'Dawah' today. Best to stick major scholars.
it's all to generate views and arguments in the comment section fuel the algorithm
What behaviour did Mahdi display that was bad?
Definitely one of the best Podcasts that you did Ali. May Allah bless all of you ❤
Really good series. Well done brother Ali, May Allah reward you immensely for your efforts.
I must say, as someone who'd watched the episode in question and had no idea about the backlash you'd received. I am baffled at some of the criticism that was discussed. I genuinely feel for brother Romero as I genuinely didn't feel like he was supporting any of the nonsense Mahdi was spouting. In fact I completely agreed with the point about the fact it was even a conversation was baffling. I completely understood his point and thought that was one of the most rational comments made. I think it was also very unfair of the other sister to have criticised him like that on social media. She herself sat quietly and passively during that episode and didn't speak up so I don't feel she had any room for criticism. Also, if she was nervous or feeling uncomfortable about speaking up then firstly why was she sat reserving the spot of another sister who might have been better at speaking for the sisters corner. And lastly, if she was nervous then as brother Romero has explained he had his own reasons for not wanting to say too much unnecessarily. We can't show up wanting to have an opinion on a panel and then criticise someone else for not condemning someone when you've done exactly the same thing.
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Love these 3 brothers and sisters made clear this discussion... The way they think are really true
Honestly, I feel like this is a very online issue. People online from both sides love to argue from both extremes and they can go on forever. Everyone I know who is married don't have this argument between husband and wife about who should do what and "you should do this" or "I don't have to do that". I genuinely believe the people online arguing over this stuff are younger brothers who aren't married and feminist sisters who are also not married and they are all speaking from their extreme idealistic point of view. I have yet to see a couple who love each other and have their lives in order argue over this matter.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
This topic can be tackled better and I believe this podcast or discussion is not the best way for it
الله أعلم
And you are correct in your saying that most of these people are speaking with their whims and desires and they have no knowledge at all and they are spewing their ignorance that becomes widespread.
Once you stick to the Kitab And Sunnah everything becomes clear. Once you deviate from it you don’t have guidance nor will you find peace.
This is the comment I was looking for and what I have also observed from married couples. The online arguments honestly make me scared if getting married.
Unfortunately that is what I thought as well, until I experienced it myself in a introduction process with a potential wife. This affected me badly.
You would be surprised. You havent experienced the reality.
@@ismailahmed2501 exactly..why is divorce so high even amongst muslims if this is exclusively an online problem? idealistic thinking
I'm a woman and I love being in my kitchen
Cooking healthy delicious meals for the people I love - what's not to love?
@blue_594 that's very judgemental of you. I am actually a teacher and I have been working for about 16 years ever since I was a teenager. I have always loved cooking, I actually find it very therapeutic
To everyone who was in this show! Absolutely fantastic!!!! You did an amazing job! I wish I could write a positive personal message to everyone, but I’ll keep it brief and say, that I really hope you all come again, you seemed well-balanced, fair and very careful of how the audience (especially young ppl) view your message. Well done on that point!
In the end, you seemed to have cleared whatever that was happening behind the scenes - or maybe in TikTok world (don’t have TikTok, maybe I should? 🤔) - and as an audience I left with a very good sense of fairness between brothers and sisters in Islam, ultimately I see a good group of people who wish the best for married people, families and the ummah.
Lastly, you even held brother Ali Dawa accountable for his thumbnail videos, which was very fair and funny 😅🤓
All the best to everyone, and keep the peace🤍🌸🤲🏾
AliDawa, well done to you and your wife - BarakaLahu Feekum🤲🏾
This is one of the most wholesome podcast in the bitter truth show🥹🫧🫶
I have worked for 20 years (11 years of my married life) because I have to...I use leave home before my husband, on my way back home do the shopping for cooking, come home cook meal, clean,. contribute to bill.
Husband - goes to work, comes home, eats and relaxes.
Now on maternity leave, still do shopping (online shopping so contributing financially), cook, clean and look after baby...there is no rest...24hrs literally
Husband - works from home, has time to go out with friends like he is still living the single life..
There is a lot of conversation and noise, but no one is going back to the examples of the prophets and companions...
Salam aleykom. Good for you if it suits you. Im a stay at home mom and for me working and doing mum stuff at home would be exausting.May Allah bless your family.
@@ucyyesra - I'd rather stay home and focus on my child and home life....but financially the husband wants me back at work....
@@021guest may Allah reward you and give you strength
If you had to work and your husband didn't help it's a bit selfish from your husband. It's good to help your wife esoecially if she just had a baby. I hope he changes but hmdl that you can stay at home now.
lol, you're not climbing mount Everest here. none of that takes 24 hours.
I loved the Somali sister’s character ❤
Same
Brother shakil! Allahuma barik. I never thought you were laughing agreeing with him . I saw the laughter at him.
I'm glad you've spoken up brother. Mashallah you're great . May Allah bless your marriage.
I HATE it when my husband does housework, I can't lie. He enjoys ironing and I don't mind that as I hate it BUT anything else? Drives me up the wall, why? Because that's MY job and I take great pride in that. The same way I expect him to enjoy providing for me and our childre. I like to ensure the roles are crystal clear.
MashaaAllah to my somali sister Suad, she is dropping some real gems that needed to be heard! So proud that she is representing for us all! Please bring her back on inshaaAllah
Comparison is the killer of joy. Stop comparing JOBS. Start appreciating each other. I don't have anything more to say to this topic. It gets silly and people focus on things that does not matter. Find problems when there needs not be.
You reach a point in life where all that noise doesn't matter and being right doesn't matter. If you think you know better, then be a good example with the way you lead your life and build your home. Period.
Big shoutout to brother Shaquille-much respect.
Mashallah keep up the good work brothers and sisters may Allah accept and give you barakah
Amazing podcast! ❤❤❤❤❤
Why is 80% of this podcast about Mahdi Tidjani and people getting triggered by him lol
Overall, a better panel, this time. Alhamdullillah. The sister who said that mahdi gives power to the men who think like him, is so spot on. Well said, sister. And the sister, who called mahdi, dangerous is also not exaggerating. He is impressionable on young minds. Many Muslim boys don't have role models and God forbid, they take mahdi as their role model.
and who are the role models for the sisters? I will wait.
@@GokuBlack-sn5dr they are actually quite respectful
@@GokuBlack-sn5dr, you tell me. In my life, the Prophet pbuh, and good people around me, such as my parents or inspirational people who work hard to follow their deen.
How conveniant to just refute someone who is not even there to defend himself.
@@icecoldcousin3617 Sisters didnt even watch Mahdis podcast with Ali Dawah, and made assumptions about what he said and called him a dangerous liar. Sisters here are triggered, and brothers should have checked her for being disrespectful of a man who you didn't even see the full videos off. Give one point Mahdi made that was bad in that podcast?
My husband is a chef, he cooks, I clean.
Rip to him
You won😂
@Yahyeh Yusuf stop it
Do you share the bills?
She said he cooks and I clean 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Allahumma barik, it was very good what the sister said at the end about bringing or talking to married Muslim who actually are married for 20,30,40+ years.
What Brother Shaquil was talking about I call 'purity spiraling', I know some sisters and brothers who love to 'toot their own horn' and just sit in judgment of others jumping to conclusions, it's not right and it does turn people off, and it is destructive, May Allah guide us and keep us firm on the deen with sincerity and without hubris.
1. I watched the previous full podcast however I did not help but laugh at Mahdi as well. I can not believe people were getting upset at the whole cast. I am very happy Shakil cleared the assumptions so he does not get any backlash. I feel like now everyone has to put a "Disclaimer" at every given moment of conversation especially when you are on a Podcast ( Which I notice Ali doing, bravo) I appreciated the sisters speaking on the importance of holding women in a high regard when speaking about them.
2. Both sides answered the header question very classily and brought up some good points.
3. Finally, as the sister said, Ali can bring ANY guest he wants but the point is to have a meaningful debate and ask challenging questions and when you disagree make it shown by actions or words during the conversation.
Wallahi facts people get triggered too easily nowadays
I completely agree with you, I watched the last podcast and I found him hilarious, gosh don’t people know what humour is anymore. And the Muslims getting so offended by everything anyone says, can’t anyone say anything it’s their own opinion.
Ma sha Allah the couple with the revert sis! ❤❤ spoke gems!
Just watched full podcast
And it was so good
Almost the half of the podcast was about Mahdi. If you don't agree with him why didn't you interrupt him there and now? The sister who is totally against Mahdi that she even didn't go to the podcast because he was going to be there why is she NOW mad about the other guests not speaking or arguing with him. why she bringing him up while she didn't even wanted to be associated with him in the first place. You guys didn't do Mahdi any good in this podcast. you talked about him(not in a good way) and he doesn't have the chance to defend himself because he isn't in the podcast.
wow, what an entertaining and insightful episode! Mashallah. I want to say these discussions (along with other videos on YT) have really helped me unlearn, learn about feminism. Alhamdulilah! Allahuma bareek
Thank you all for clarifying!
Ngl brother Shakeel words really did hit hard, may Allah bless him. When he was speaking his point really thought provoking, thanks bro luv ❤️
Ali tate cant stop speaking over the women, but the women respect his time and dont speak over him. sad to see.
Ali Dawah please make dua to remain as genuine as possible.
Sister Suad Allahumabarik stood out by her responses, such wisdom and femininity in her speech. I know many were saying that on her JustPearlyThings ep as well. Maybe she should start her own channel and speak more about these issues inshaaAllah
I genuinely think that every side doing their own duty as it should be is the most beautiful thing. It makes a beautiful family.
In my somali culture no NEGOTIATION and dicussion about cooking and cleaning when you get married it is a prerequisite to get married .and its abeautiful thing i enjoy it😊
I never saw a somali man cooking unless he's young yet cooking for his mum
May Allah bless our girls 👧 💖 ❤
Let be fr Iam somali too born and raise in somaliland so are you trying somali man cooks
@@abdiwadudmaalim38 Ameen wllo
@@MarwaAhmed-ni3tw 😁
That's right 😊
I agree with the men here , fathers are so undermined.
All I hear nowadays is how much women do.....
The last 2 min was great :) Allahumma barik ...good advice watch your circle
Thank you 🙏🏾
Kudos to you brother Ali if I were in Europe or UK you would just get tired of me being your guest am single and this podcast is like a shoe shiner for me you know like what I should be and what I should expect from my future Habibi may she be the coolness to my eyes and to you too out they as well, salaam.