It's their rotten mindset. They will spend money on wedding but they won't spend money for education. I'm unfortunate enough to have a couple of relatives like this.
I don't know why you need to disclose that but good luck being a doctor hope you have a long life (your going to need it) hope you have a good four to five years of pre-med preparation, another four years of medical school, and three to seven years of residency. It doesn’t end there, though.
No you should don't think like this how you will manage a whole life without a life partner This is the wise choice of becoming the doctor Iam also a doctor
Being 16 I can't mange the house chores alone, forget being pregnant. It's very difficult in such situations. We can educate and hope for the society to think better.
so we just gonna ignore the fact that she married at 13, like it' not a problem??? This video kinda makes child marriage seem fine if the girl is taken care of, and I don't like it this way.
@@aliya4012 Zakir nalayak unk video lectures me kehta tha -- a girl can get married as soon as she attains puberty !!! accha hua, india se bhaag gaya saala. warna kitne log unk baato me aake child marriage karwa dete the 🙄
The fact that we're relieved by the fact that her husband was supportive and doing the bare minimum shows the lack of respect and support women get after marriage. Truly devastating.
Now a days some girls wish to marry at the age of 15... Is this good??? At this age acc to to studies the chances of divorce is high... And absolutely thats her choice M the only one to guide
After seeing this ...I will never ever complain abt my life to God ..coz He gave me a good life which I was not aware of it before....Thank You God for this beautiful life that u have given to me...I wish all the female who is living on this earth live a good and prosperous life bless all ur child God....Amen🙏🙏
I bet ruchita you're 10 year old... Don't be afraid, it's not like that, both men and women seek company, it's natural... Nothing nightmarish if she consents
Can we talk about how she shouldn't be bearing children or being married off at 13 years of age? I know that you should protect a mother and child, but this feels like it's just glossing over the whole problem. If she'd stayed in school she wouldn't have the issue of poverty and SHE could provide for her parents.
@@gorillagripcoochie631 Does not make it ok to sell off your daughter. If she had gone to school and stayed home, she could have had an education. It's why these poor countries stay so poor.
@@gorillagripcoochie631 well then, as harsh as it might sound, those countries need to put educating their people first. It might not be easy but a country which does not educate their people will always have huge financial disparities. That's been the stepping stone for nearly every developed nation. Forcing your uneducated daughter to wed at an early age doesn't make you any less poor and only perpetuates the problem.
@@gorillagripcoochie631 Its the people living in these countries that dont stand up and you know, they have such big populations it wouldn't be so crazy to think they could force some real change. It's sad. But the thing about advertisements like this, is that they normalize something that, uneven in their own country, should be seen negatively by the people.
@@gorillagripcoochie631 As someone who comes from one of these cultures, excusing their actions just keeps them going. The adults who’re abusing their own children don’t require sympathy or understanding, but the innocent children deserve and need a loving childhood. Obfuscating the abuse by calling it “normal” helps no one and simply continues the cycle of abuse.
@@draphy7026 I’m embarrassed. I wrote my comments a year ago and my view has definitely changed. I agree that excusing the culture is being complicit in it
Child marriage is a common problem in Bangladesh even when I was 15 years old I used to get many marriage proposals but no one can marry me for my mother's support. Today I am 19 years old and now I going to Getting my university admissions preparation ☺️☺️
Noor Asma no it’s not. It depends on the girl and boy. There r a lot of ppl who get married earlier or later, and they r happy. So it entirely depends on the person.
Sadly this is mostly happening still in villages.... I have seen a 15year old at hospital getting scan.... when I talked to her I couldn't stop crying....she was not allowed to study further...n in such small age she was married to a man who was 15 years older than her...😔
You don’t understand in India it’s their culture (Sirine your right) they are sometimes forced to have children it’s just their culture and it would be against it if they wouldn’t so he probably does feel bad impregnating her at this age.... but besides all of this he seems to care for her for example he seemed to care for her rest and he was very kind to her
The good thing is that despite having been ripped away from her youth, she got to marry a caring man who actually wanted to learn and help her out. Most girls who are forced into such childhood marriages never get the proper education nor the proper care and therefore are abused and even die in such unhealthy conditions... The truth is that we need more companies like (Image plus) who go to rural places and try and teach these people the right way to take care of one's health when in this kind of situation. Really powerful video!! Side note; People need to learn to let their children be children, IF YOU CAN'T BEAR THE BURDEN OF HAVING TO PAY FOR A CHILD'S LIFE AND TUITION DON'T GO ON AND HAVE 20 CHILDREN!! EDUCATE YOURSELVES!!
Main reason why women's are going through this because people think they are not adding any value to the family....after seeing this women should start shaping their future....don't cry that you are women you can not do this thing that thing.....rise your voice for your self for your coming generation....you are not more or less than any one.....you are just perfect the way you are
The mother-in-law though....she is responsible for the miscarriage Being an adult she should have known asking a child from child could be very disastrous and even though the birth was due to happening she didn't even told the daughter-in-law to rest or gave her proper nourishment or still find a skilled midwife .. she just went on telling the DIL to do heavy works and tiring the pregnant girl more and more which is not really healthy for her and the baby.. It's a pity that the most human thing to do don't even exist in the MIL. It's like the girl is just the servant of the MIL... I hate this
@gandam sheeba My mom had been married off at 14 and well let's just the real shit is not that but the shits after the wedding ... so yeah....its really common in india and other parts in the world but still a real messed up and suffocated life for the Young Bride or Young Groom..... I can just say I Hate This old "tradition"
There's no thing as perfect time for marriage. One should get married when he/she is mentally ready as this is one big commitment. Marriage should be a conscious decision.
Yup it should be a conscious decision ... but girls can marry only after 18 and boys after 21 ... not before that ( it's illegal before as most children don't know how to make decisions for themselves )
No.....I didn't mean that....its so harmful for a little girl....girls 'offspring are at increased risk for premature birth and death as neonates, infants...that's why I wrote that....
@@ranajitgoswami6993 aww yeah.. I'm sorry :( I just can't stand this video like the way it ended I was hoping that someone will help her to get the fuck out but the ending was disappointment :(
I've seen this in Kota (Rajasthan).. A family of 3 members (Husband (Age-26/27), His wife (Age-16/17), and her mother-in-law (Age-44/45) )used to be in my hostel as caretakers/workers.. The girl was 6 month pregnant with almost no medical heathcare and regular treatments.. She was married at the age of 14 and had faced most worst situations of human life.. Her left hand arm was partially burnt (when asked she told it happened accidentally while she was cooking food in her village home on firewoods).. She was very weak and pain and trauma she suffered in her so early age was visible in her eyes 😶😖😖
@Lannie Novelli Hoping for the same but the reality is far from the expectation! As told, she was there as a caretaker so she was made to do all the daily chores along with her mother in law. That includes cleaning and moping of hostel, and that's not a joke, like a 5 floor building with about 35 rooms, balcony, terrace plus cooking food for all twice! 😶
Imagine this: You go through pregnancy and birth. Exhauseted but glad you survived, you are breast feeding for the first time while looking down on the most precious creature in your life: Your baby girl. ... and knowing that the only thing that awaits her in the future is a life of abuse and hardship. Now you start to feel that cold emptiness inside, the complete absence of any emotion, like falling inside a black hole. This is how my grandmother described the birth of her first daughter to me, 11 years old. I felt like suffocating, I still can't imagine how helpless she must have felt. That was the same day I swore to myself to never have children of my own. When I grew older I wanted to adopt as many girls as I could. Today I am supporting MICROFINANCE CHARITIES instead. Adoption is one of the best things imaginable, the sexual orientation of the parents shouldn't matter to anyone involved. If possible, children should grow up knowing their biological parents/mothers. Change always begins with mothers. Women knowing how to support themselves and their children are most likely not willing to endure an abusive marriage. An independent and headstrong mother is the best role model every girl can have. More important, the only way for a man to respect women is by learning it from his mother as a child. Fathers are also important, don't get me wrong. But all over the planet and throughout human history most women were on their own. Men started wars and then forced other men to fight in those wars. Leaving behind mothers, sisters, wifes and daughters. And there was/is the "hit it and quit it" type of course. Even with men around, raising children has always been a domain for women, not because women were particularly eager to change diapers and breast feed all day, but them having those two dairy farms and stuff - you get it right!? Because they are good at it, they are stuck with it for eternity. Not to forget every woman's god given purpose in life. Then not to forget the obeying men thing because of the whole rib thing and being a servant thing et cetera. Just giving women some money won't change their lives. Those institutions are helping women from all over the world to build up their own small business. By paying back the micro loan they received, they help financing other women and their small businesses. A global network of helping hands. Every country has it's own list of trusted charities and their international partners. Just contact any of them to make sure your money will be put to good use. After two decades of research I can assure everbody: This is by far the best and most sustainable form of "welfare".
My mom's grandma got pregnant at 14 . We are not allowed to pursue higher education.The rule of my family is that girl should get married at 19 yrs old. And after marriage Washing dishes ,take of children .
Everybody is talking about the situation in India. But this short film portrays the real scenario of rural Bangladesh. So let's acknowledge that. Thank you
People are blaming the parents I agree they are wrong But think deeper That's their education That's how they were brought up The same way we've been learning ABCD It won't be easy to automatically adjust to another way of learning the alphabets The same way Child mariage is in their culture, it's their education, that's how they were brought up and that's how their parents married them off The change will come The case of this girl She's been educated She won't choose the same for her daughter She knows the risks and dangers She knows it's wrong What's important is education Baby steps add up These practices will take time to be eradicated But with the proper education, it will
Its so sad and heartbreaking. I almost cried watching the girl suffering through so many things.. How could their parents be so heartless that they married her at young age 13 ...
@@haninm583 I see 🤔 hair like that is common here in South Asia, that's why I found this comment a bit striking... Well, I know though, the secret to that hair is sea foods, because the region that the actor belongs to has that as its staple diet, fishes basically
Same case, I was in 12th standard giving tuition to poor needy kids that was kamla she was so smart and hardworking in studies she use to respect me a lot. One day she came saying "didi, abhise Mai class nahi aa paunggi" I asked what's the matter she told me her parents are forcing her to marry, I asked if she needed help from me she said it's her family tradition but she wanted to study more. It's been 3 years now I'm in final year of my college now. After seeing this I missed that time
I was so confused as to why this was in my recommended but all I know is I'm glad the mother got all that help and I don't think she'll force her child to go through what she did so I think it's a good new beginning so yaay!
This makes me so sad, I don’t know how can your own parents sacrifice you at such a young age. The part where the girl was telling her mom that she didn’t want to get married and her mom didn’t even said anything or stop the plans for the marriage and acting so cold like her child was nothing, breaks my heart, I wouldn’t stand it having a mother like that. I really thank God for the mother I have she’s everything to me she’s the nicest and forgiven and most loving person I know. We people that have everything we need to be thankful for everything we have and for our families, and I really feel bad for all the girls that have to go through this, this is so unfair so disgusting I won’t ever agree with this, I would give my life for my children idk how these mothers just sit there and act like nothing’s happening like it doesn’t matter it’s unbelievable.
What fictional,this is what these young girl children has to go through,this is so wrong on many many levels.When is this going to changeI HOPE TO GOD THAT IT IS SOON RATHER THAN LATER.MY HEART BLEEDS EVERYTIME I SEE A VIDEO LIKE THIS.
this made feel good i have asian parents that not even that strict they really supportive.i always thought my parent is really unfair they take my phone away for many month but at least they feed me and take care of me and support me no matter what .at least they bring me to earth for me to enjoy these daily activity .am thankful for them but there will always be other days were u think they not doing much for u or u don't have what other kids my age have .BUT ATLEAST THINK THAT U GOT WAY BETTER LIFE THAN THESE POOR KID STRUGGLING IN MANY COUNTRIES
@@sunaynananiwal5028 Neither. You're comment is just very... weird. Most people here understood the story by reading the subtitles. It's nothing new or special. It's like me saying "I watched the video with my eyes."
when i was married my wife age was 23.She conceived soon and we had a baby boy within 11 months of marriage.but after that she did not want second child soon.I supported her.Now my first child is above 5 years and she is pregnent again.She always said i am so lucky as u are my hubby.who understood me .I care her a lot and now we want baby girl
I don't know how a supportive parents should be like but the only thing I know if your parents are educating you and if you are a girl then you have to be good at studies good at doing household chores be a good girl respect everyone even if they are taunting you and after completing your studies and getting a decent job marry a person (stranger) and from their you have to take care of your parents and inlaws ,doing job, doing household chores raising your kids and taking care of many other things that people won't notice .. In short you have to be perfect.. they say it's our duty to do this because we are women but nobody wants a controlling life half of the time your so called supportive parents will control you by saying that "in our time we didn't get enough options or opportunities" that doesn't mean it's my fault. Parents biggest mistake is that they didn't realize this thing that time was different and comparing that time with today's time will not gonaa work ...you have to build trust with your in kids and tell them yes I'm with you ... I'm addressing this topic here because even if your parents are educating you they will make sure that you should be good at studies every parent want this but that doesn't mean the problem is solved . Even after doing great in studies many girls face soo many problems that people won't address it They just randomly think giving education= freedom in soo many cases it's not soo true Many girls can relate with this it's 2023 and mental health is the biggest issue even if you are married or unmarried employed or unemployed educated or uneducated. (In short: educating your gir child doesn't mean that you're doing mercy on her ...by constantly telling her on every mistake that you should be grateful to us that we are educating you ..... it's her right you can't say this. They should have to change their mentality).
That's the reason why education is important for both men and women. In india parents have money or even arrange money for their daughter's wedding but can't afford for their education(like seriously🤷)
well its common in bangladesh ..my mom got married at 15 , had me at 16 and my brother at 18 ..even though my grandpa was a highly established person but to him daughters are nothing but a piece of product to sell ..
i live in keraniganj, Dhaka. here most of the girls get married before 18. recently one of my friends who is just 15 has got married. when we read in class 6 she was our class monitor and one of the good students. she got married just for her grandpa.i was really so shocked after hearing this.
Whenever i see these 13 year olds getting married and giving birth at such a young age , i cannot believe that we are still lacking behind. For us who are getting higher education , freedom and support from our parents all this seems like a parallel universe or something . May be we are blessed .
Instead of spending money on the marriage you can give her good education.if it is a boy you will not marry.but if it a girl you will marry her soon.and consider her as a burden o For the family.hmm girls join your hands up I have started already to raise my voice so you should do the same
Well agree to your some points But a paper can't make your relationship and can't break it Rituals must be followed Relationship can happen so many times
@@seven7enhypen only those rituals which helps in mankind is ritual those rituals which grab freedom of someone then it is not ritual but superstition and malpractice and child marriage is one of them 😏😏😏
Girl has the right to study and right to make a career whether her husband is caring and loving or not. She has a right to live her life with freedom. She may have a dream about her own life. All the time her parents can't take the decision of her life...like when to go to school, when to study, how to behave, when to get dropped out of the school everything they decide on their..but at least one time she should be given a chance to decide. If she has a goal her parents should help her and support her to achieve that...Thank you parents for nourishing us.I am just saying sometime u also should keep faith in us....because we all need ur support and blessings...love u ammu and abbu for ur hard work for us..
we should avoid child marrage because some girls want to study but their parents are not allowing them to study i feel shame that still child marrage is going on 🙁🙁🙁
Just having an arrange marriage makes me want to run away, but knowing that this girl was 13? Imagine having sex at that age... That alone creeps me out. I mean when I was 13, I didn't even know how babies were even made.
I get married recently in my 17... I wanted to study I wanted to continue my college... but since I'm from rural village my family forced me to marriage ...at last I agreed in a condition that they have to let me study and my father talk to my husband and he accept that but after my wedding they forcefully stopped my study... my father even try to make them understand and begged in front of them telling that, i can't deceive with my daughter....but they didn't agree...and my whole life became dark for forever....i wanted to be a teacher...i wanted to do something good and be best but now that's a pure dream...
Run from your house for your dreams for anyone you should not sacrifice your dreams you are not less than anyone if we are girls that didn’t mean we will live our life on others terms and conditions
Sharm karooo dislike Karne Wale.... Shame on you and your family . After watching this video Why I am crying I don't know.... Please don't do this in real life.
Disliked this because it is promoting pregnancy in adolescent kids instead of punishing or educating her molester it is showcasing how she could get pregnant while in her adolescence .
Jo log dislike kiye unhne isliye dislike kiya ki 13-14 saal ki bachi ki sadi ho rahahe bache ho raha he or us chis ko highlight krne k bajay pregnant hone k bad keya krna h wo bol raha h R a vai child marriage hi bahat bara crime h ,usko is video ma kahi na kahi se to barava diya gya h
It is so sad that there are girls who have to give up their childhood like this and become wives and mothers before they are ready. Child marriage is always wrong. However I am glad for organizations like this that can help them. I am also glad they help husbands too.
She was taken away from school, got pregnant at 13 from a guy who looks 30, forced into miscarriage... Tbh we all expected the guy to beat her up for suggesting contraception. "You won't give me a male heir???"
The best thing in her life is, her husband wasnt abusive
Yes 👏
Yes she was lucky🍀 I glad😊
@@kusumsharma2255 lucky how?
@@Nehagrows A lot of times forced marriages would result in abusive husbands, especially among cultures were women are seen as inferior to men.
that's bare minimum tbh
WAIT. Hold up. If they have money to buy wedding wear, jewellery etc. Why can’t they afford an education for her!?
Marriage>education. Simple.
Education is more expensive than wedding supplies in India
Because spending money on a girl is waste in India
Tan MK Irene in India having gold is a sign of wealth when marrying off
It's their rotten mindset. They will spend money on wedding but they won't spend money for education. I'm unfortunate enough to have a couple of relatives like this.
I have decided i'll study harder become a successful doctor and stay single for the rest of my life
I don't know why you need to disclose that but good luck being a doctor hope you have a long life (your going to need it) hope you have a good four to five years of pre-med preparation, another four years of medical school, and three to seven years of residency. It doesn’t end there, though.
Wise choice
Mee to I'll be single forever
No you should don't think like this how you will manage a whole life without a life partner
This is the wise choice of becoming the doctor
Iam also a doctor
I am going to do the same
Education is the most powerful tool to empower women.
Correct
Accurate statement
Their self worth and self love is.
Education can only go so far.
Correct
Through empowerment we can change the world too
We shoud be thankful to our parents...that they allow us to do what we want to do..
Most parents are not away right
Indian parents : doctor or get out 😄
@@the_international_weeb so true
@@the_international_weeb so rude ......
Child like u are curse
basic human rights
Being 16 I can't mange the house chores alone, forget being pregnant. It's very difficult in such situations. We can educate and hope for the society to think better.
I can but like hell I'm gonna do it for someone I was forced to marry, I'd leave as soon as possible.
@@Kalani_Saiko yeah exactly
The husband was surprisingly very supportive. I expected an outrage after the wife revealed about the classes and contraception.
My husband is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her😭😭
@@ishanshetty7930 ???
@@kusumsharma2255 They meant their sister, it has been copied and pasted on every comment
@@Kalani_Saiko ohhh
Cute but this is also sad ki aajkal bhi kahi-kahi hota h aisa😢
Bein pregnant in only 13-14 years is very very very very very difficult.... Child marriage is Such a Idiot type of thing 😭😭....♥️
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
@@ishanshetty7930 you can't visit her?
@@duckyduck6563 what's your problem
@@seven7enhypen wdym what's my problem
How inhuman of her mother In-law.
At least she got a good husband though
Aroob Khan if he was good , he wouldn’t have got her pregnant so early on in her life
He got her pregnant within the same year her first child died
Me too
I swear, it like the mother in law didn't go through the same thing when she got married, what logic is she even using
How inhuman her own mother father family n husband were who made this little girl married n have baby
"What do you do sitting all day?"
Someone give me this woman's location
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 im also thinking tht how can she talk like this
This is just an acting it is not real
I’ll come with you
Almost all in-laws talk same.... U can't stop only one...
Nah the daughter in law should have been like “no you”
:)
so we just gonna ignore the fact that she married at 13, like it' not a problem??? This video kinda makes child marriage seem fine if the girl is taken care of, and I don't like it this way.
Felt the same💯
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
You are absolutely correct.
It's make me angry 😡
@@aliya4012 Zakir nalayak unk video lectures me kehta tha -- a girl can get married as soon as she attains puberty !!!
accha hua, india se bhaag gaya saala.
warna kitne log unk baato me aake child marriage karwa dete the 🙄
Thank God her husband was so good
Some husbands abuse their wives
@@ellina0606 Yeah, they're horrible people
Did you miss the part where he married her and got her pregnant at 13 or am I just crazy to think that's wrong
Selena Jones no you r not crazy, that husband is a real jerk and mom’s son
Ummmmmm, that still is an adult guy married to a little girl.
Girls and boys both should never be allowed to marry before the age of 20 by law.
It is 18 but these peoples from small villages doesn't know that law and no one report
@@DevikaRani. I think 18 is still too young. Both men and women should get education because thats the only way a society can progress.
@@battlelover666gaming2 yes it is too young to get married
My age is 20 now, my husband is 33 , we get married 12 Jan 2018 , but yet we haven't any baby, cuz I'm still studying
@@DevikaRani. you are an army
Early married is crime
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Water retention in body
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Timely marriage is a Sunnah
@@abdurrahmansagor2906 i know but not in 13yo
The fact that we're relieved by the fact that her husband was supportive and doing the bare minimum shows the lack of respect and support women get after marriage. Truly devastating.
people in the comments are praising the husband for "being supportive" like he didn't just impregnate a 13y/o
It's so obvious that the mother in law runs the household
I would never allow my daughter to marry before 28😅
She will decide that 😂
Now a days some girls wish to marry at the age of 15...
Is this good???
At this age acc to to studies the chances of divorce is high...
And absolutely thats her choice
M the only one to guide
@@kishorekumar-xn5nt lol I was saying when she will become an adult 😂
Me too.
@@DevikaRani. army spotted..
It just made me feel that how good and supportive my parents are😭
hmm😟😥 I love them so much❤
*I cannot believe this was an ad of Image Plus 😒😒 before clicking I thought m gonna watch some documentary*
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@@user-ld1om4qp7j thank you😄😄
I need to start studying harder in school and be more appreciative because I have such a good life compared to some people out there suffering 🙁
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
I want to marry at 26 only after becoming a doctor I am still studying to be one
All the best ..
Thank you
Me too.....best of luck to u
mansi prasad same to you also sister
All the best 👏👍
After seeing this ...I will never ever complain abt my life to God ..coz He gave me a good life which I was not aware of it before....Thank You God for this beautiful life that u have given to me...I wish all the female who is living on this earth live a good and prosperous life bless all ur child God....Amen🙏🙏
MARRIAGE IS THE WORST NIGHTMARE OF EVERY GIRL IN THIS WORLD 😕😕😕
If you are forced to marry then yes. Either it can go extremely upstream or go in the extreme downstream.
😂😂
@youcometome9 😂😂😂
I bet ruchita you're 10 year old... Don't be afraid, it's not like that, both men and women seek company, it's natural... Nothing nightmarish if she consents
Maria Khan I AM 19 YEARS OLD
Can we talk about how she shouldn't be bearing children or being married off at 13 years of age? I know that you should protect a mother and child, but this feels like it's just glossing over the whole problem. If she'd stayed in school she wouldn't have the issue of poverty and SHE could provide for her parents.
@@gorillagripcoochie631 Does not make it ok to sell off your daughter. If she had gone to school and stayed home, she could have had an education. It's why these poor countries stay so poor.
@@gorillagripcoochie631 well then, as harsh as it might sound, those countries need to put educating their people first. It might not be easy but a country which does not educate their people will always have huge financial disparities. That's been the stepping stone for nearly every developed nation. Forcing your uneducated daughter to wed at an early age doesn't make you any less poor and only perpetuates the problem.
@@gorillagripcoochie631 Its the people living in these countries that dont stand up and you know, they have such big populations it wouldn't be so crazy to think they could force some real change. It's sad. But the thing about advertisements like this, is that they normalize something that, uneven in their own country, should be seen negatively by the people.
@@gorillagripcoochie631 As someone who comes from one of these cultures, excusing their actions just keeps them going. The adults who’re abusing their own children don’t require sympathy or understanding, but the innocent children deserve and need a loving childhood. Obfuscating the abuse by calling it “normal” helps no one and simply continues the cycle of abuse.
@@draphy7026 I’m embarrassed. I wrote my comments a year ago and my view has definitely changed. I agree that excusing the culture is being complicit in it
Child marriage is a common problem in Bangladesh even when I was 15 years old I used to get many marriage proposals but no one can marry me for my mother's support. Today I am 19 years old and now I going to Getting my university admissions preparation ☺️☺️
All the best sister ❤
I think after 25 is the perfect time for getting married for a girl. after 25!!!
After 25 it could be any age.
I said after 25
Yess
when the girl and the boy is ready for marriage....
i think only then they should get married
25 is to late
Noor Asma no it’s not. It depends on the girl and boy. There r a lot of ppl who get married earlier or later, and they r happy. So it entirely depends on the person.
My sis got married at 26 😊
Sadly this is mostly happening still in villages....
I have seen a 15year old at hospital getting scan.... when I talked to her I couldn't stop crying....she was not allowed to study further...n in such small age she was married to a man who was 15 years older than her...😔
Why didn't you report to the police?
@@DevikaRani. Because nothing can be done...The police will stop them but what will happen to the girl then?
@@Agnet_Faze She can be admitted to shelter fro women or orphanage.
@@DevikaRani. because in shitholes nothing can be done
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her😭😭
The husband was very supportive. He seemed like a good person.
Eh I dont Think so...He looked very dumb to me for some reason 🙄
Oh yea marrying her and impregnating her at a young age is very supporting and sweet. Not gonna lie, he was being “nice” but still he’s a sicko.
You don’t understand in India it’s their culture (Sirine your right) they are sometimes forced to have children it’s just their culture and it would be against it if they wouldn’t so he probably does feel bad impregnating her at this age.... but besides all of this he seems to care for her for example he seemed to care for her rest and he was very kind to her
@@giannam7813 this video was made in Bangladesh
@@jajnaseneexihumanities-b5668 India has the highest number of child brides
Her acting was too good
The good thing is that despite having been ripped away from her youth, she got to marry a caring man who actually wanted to learn and help her out. Most girls who are forced into such childhood marriages never get the proper education nor the proper care and therefore are abused and even die in such unhealthy conditions... The truth is that we need more companies like (Image plus) who go to rural places and try and teach these people the right way to take care of one's health when in this kind of situation.
Really powerful video!!
Side note; People need to learn to let their children be children,
IF YOU CAN'T BEAR THE BURDEN OF HAVING TO PAY FOR A CHILD'S LIFE AND TUITION DON'T GO ON AND HAVE 20 CHILDREN!! EDUCATE YOURSELVES!!
Main reason why women's are going through this because people think they are not adding any value to the family....after seeing this women should start shaping their future....don't cry that you are women you can not do this thing that thing.....rise your voice for your self for your coming generation....you are not more or less than any one.....you are just perfect the way you are
I totally agree but India, most people I've seen in my state are against feminism , its like a myth to them
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
The mother-in-law though....she is responsible for the miscarriage
Being an adult she should have known asking a child from child could be very disastrous and even though the birth was due to happening she didn't even told the daughter-in-law to rest or gave her proper nourishment or still find a skilled midwife .. she just went on telling the DIL to do heavy works and tiring the pregnant girl more and more which is not really healthy for her and the baby..
It's a pity that the most human thing to do don't even exist in the MIL. It's like the girl is just the servant of the MIL... I hate this
Wings And TEARS Hi ARMY
@@dulminiadikari9843 Hii💜
Wings And TEARS r u from India?
@gandam sheeba My mom had been married off at 14 and well let's just the real shit is not that but the shits after the wedding ... so yeah....its really common in india and other parts in the world but still a real messed up and suffocated life for the Young Bride or Young Groom..... I can just say I Hate This old "tradition"
ARMYYYU
There's no thing as perfect time for marriage. One should get married when he/she is mentally ready as this is one big commitment. Marriage should be a conscious decision.
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
Yup it should be a conscious decision ... but girls can marry only after 18 and boys after 21 ... not before that ( it's illegal before as most children don't know how to make decisions for themselves )
...and a consentuous one!
@@user-ld1om4qp7j it's 21 for girls now too
A big shameful clap for the dislikers
What? So you promote child marriage? Wow amazing wtf is wrong with you?
No.....I didn't mean that....its so harmful for a little girl....girls 'offspring are at increased risk for premature birth and death as neonates, infants...that's why I wrote that....
@@ranajitgoswami6993 aww yeah.. I'm sorry :( I just can't stand this video like the way it ended I was hoping that someone will help her to get the fuck out but the ending was disappointment :(
First get to know why we disliked the video n then tell dear
First get to know why we disliked the video n then tell dear
I've seen this in Kota (Rajasthan).. A family of 3 members (Husband (Age-26/27), His wife (Age-16/17), and her mother-in-law (Age-44/45) )used to be in my hostel as caretakers/workers.. The girl was 6 month pregnant with almost no medical heathcare and regular treatments.. She was married at the age of 14 and had faced most worst situations of human life.. Her left hand arm was partially burnt (when asked she told it happened accidentally while she was cooking food in her village home on firewoods).. She was very weak and pain and trauma she suffered in her so early age was visible in her eyes 😶😖😖
This is nothing but abuse every human is right to choose what he/she wants
R u studying in Allen kota
@Lannie Novelli Hoping for the same but the reality is far from the expectation!
As told, she was there as a caretaker so she was made to do all the daily chores along with her mother in law. That includes cleaning and moping of hostel, and that's not a joke, like a 5 floor building with about 35 rooms, balcony, terrace plus cooking food for all twice! 😶
Imagine this:
You go through pregnancy and birth.
Exhauseted but glad you survived, you are breast feeding for the first time while looking down on the most precious creature in your life: Your baby girl.
... and knowing that the only thing that awaits her in the future is a life of abuse and hardship.
Now you start to feel that cold emptiness inside, the complete absence of any emotion, like falling inside a black hole.
This is how my grandmother described the birth of her first daughter to me, 11 years old. I felt like suffocating, I still can't imagine how helpless she must have felt. That was the same day I swore to myself to never have children of my own. When I grew older I wanted to adopt as many girls as I could. Today I am supporting MICROFINANCE CHARITIES instead. Adoption is one of the best things imaginable, the sexual orientation of the parents shouldn't matter to anyone involved. If possible, children should grow up knowing their biological parents/mothers. Change always begins with mothers. Women knowing how to support themselves and their children are most likely not willing to endure an abusive marriage. An independent and headstrong mother is the best role model every girl can have. More important, the only way for a man to respect women is by learning it from his mother as a child. Fathers are also important, don't get me wrong. But all over the planet and throughout human history most women were on their own. Men started wars and then forced other men to fight in those wars. Leaving behind mothers, sisters, wifes and daughters. And there was/is the "hit it and quit it" type of course. Even with men around, raising children has always been a domain for women, not because women were particularly eager to change diapers and breast feed all day, but them having those two dairy farms and stuff - you get it right!? Because they are good at it, they are stuck with it for eternity. Not to forget every woman's god given purpose in life. Then not to forget the obeying men thing because of the whole rib thing and being a servant thing et cetera.
Just giving women some money won't change their lives. Those institutions are helping women from all over the world to build up their own small business. By paying back the micro loan they received, they help financing other women and their small businesses. A global network of helping hands.
Every country has it's own list of trusted charities and their international partners.
Just contact any of them to make sure your money will be put to good use.
After two decades of research I can assure everbody: This is by far the best and most sustainable form of "welfare".
Wait..your grandma had a child at eleven!?!?!
My mom's grandma got pregnant at 14 . We are not allowed to pursue higher education.The rule of my family is that girl should get married at 19 yrs old. And after marriage Washing dishes ,take of children .
Everybody is talking about the situation in India. But this short film portrays the real scenario of rural Bangladesh. So let's acknowledge that. Thank you
People are blaming the parents
I agree they are wrong
But think deeper
That's their education
That's how they were brought up
The same way we've been learning ABCD
It won't be easy to automatically adjust to another way of learning the alphabets
The same way
Child mariage is in their culture, it's their education, that's how they were brought up and that's how their parents married them off
The change will come
The case of this girl
She's been educated
She won't choose the same for her daughter
She knows the risks and dangers
She knows it's wrong
What's important is education
Baby steps add up
These practices will take time to be eradicated
But with the proper education, it will
well said..
Yeah u r right
But parents instead of spending their money to daughters marriage. They can spend the same money to their education.
@@yrgirishgirish5817 that won't be enough
@@pranavgupta5323 wat else
I'm
Its so sad and heartbreaking. I almost cried watching the girl suffering through so many things.. How could their parents be so heartless that they married her at young age 13 ...
The most amazing thing I loved abt this part was... The husband was really caring n there was no domestic violence on her.....
Programs like these are awesome and people volunteering there are an inspiration to me
Atleast her husband is supporting.
@@arwen3478 very true!
No he is not. If he was, he wouldn't impregnate his wife at such young age
What wrong with those people wtf child need to learn not forced them marry to early
Her husband is so caring and understanding....she told him to stay and he did😍😍😍😍😍
Early marriage z equal to jail 😫
Really? 😶
I've seen in my own family....girls getting married in early 20s n suffering with family problems.
True😢😢
I'm married in 18
Omg true 😷😫😫
Off topic but her hair is Amazing
What exactly about the hair is amazing, I'm curious
Maria Khan it’s long and it looks pretty healthy
@@haninm583 I see 🤔 hair like that is common here in South Asia, that's why I found this comment a bit striking... Well, I know though, the secret to that hair is sea foods, because the region that the actor belongs to has that as its staple diet, fishes basically
Maria Khan oh wow that’s why my hair is a mess I never eat sea food
I was thinking thes ame throught the video..lmao
Same case, I was in 12th standard giving tuition to poor needy kids that was kamla she was so smart and hardworking in studies she use to respect me a lot. One day she came saying "didi, abhise Mai class nahi aa paunggi" I asked what's the matter she told me her parents are forcing her to marry, I asked if she needed help from me she said it's her family tradition but she wanted to study more. It's been 3 years now I'm in final year of my college now. After seeing this I missed that time
If I were you I would have taken some serious action
The videography and the actors are top notch. This channel is amazing
Few years ago I saw a girl in hospital came for checkup.I saw her prescription in which her age shown as 17.she couldn't wear her Saree properly
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her😭😭
@@ishanshetty7930 what???
@@ashwini1859 he is an IT cell 🤣🤣🤣
I want to be CA and untill my dream come true i will not marry anyone and i am so thankful to my parents for supporting me.....
I was so confused as to why this was in my recommended but all I know is I'm glad the mother got all that help and I don't think she'll force her child to go through what she did so I think it's a good new beginning so yaay!
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her😭😭
I am so relieved to see that her husband is soo supporting and caring
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her😭😭
This makes me so sad, I don’t know how can your own parents sacrifice you at such a young age. The part where the girl was telling her mom that she didn’t want to get married and her mom didn’t even said anything or stop the plans for the marriage and acting so cold like her child was nothing, breaks my heart, I wouldn’t stand it having a mother like that. I really thank God for the mother I have she’s everything to me she’s the nicest and forgiven and most loving person I know. We people that have everything we need to be thankful for everything we have and for our families, and I really feel bad for all the girls that have to go through this, this is so unfair so disgusting I won’t ever agree with this, I would give my life for my children idk how these mothers just sit there and act like nothing’s happening like it doesn’t matter it’s unbelievable.
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
Parent who dose this to there kids need to be taken to jail directly!who marry age 13?!
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her😭😭
She's Lucky bcz his husband is supportive.....
U r exactly right, husbands shld be supportive
Usually I used to joke that its not the man who the woman should know before marrige , its his mom.😂😂 this film explains exactly why
delivery pain...and post partum pain is unimaginable how can this sick society impose this pain of a little teen girl shameeee
When you educate a man
You educate an individual
Butt
When you educate a women
You educate a nation
What fictional,this is what these young girl children has to go through,this is so wrong on many many levels.When is this going to changeI HOPE TO GOD THAT IT IS SOON RATHER THAN LATER.MY HEART BLEEDS EVERYTIME I SEE A VIDEO LIKE THIS.
Sandra Radhay you are so dumb,by fictional.They mean that it was like a play,it’s not a real version.So your dumb
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her
Both my dad’s sisters were married at 13 to men in their 40s
this made feel good i have asian parents that not even that strict they really supportive.i always thought my parent is really unfair they take my phone away for many month but at least they feed me and take care of me and support me no matter what .at least they bring me to earth for me to enjoy these daily activity .am thankful for them but there will always be other days were u think they not doing much for u or u don't have what other kids my age have .BUT ATLEAST THINK THAT U GOT WAY BETTER LIFE THAN THESE POOR KID STRUGGLING IN MANY COUNTRIES
Very effective work and that's true in our society. God bless them. carry on. ♥️♥️
I understood the story by reading subtitles
Wow, you know how to read?! That's insane! Congrats 👏
@@darkninja1693 are u insulting me or do u think I am illiterate
@@sunaynananiwal5028 Neither. You're comment is just very... weird. Most people here understood the story by reading the subtitles. It's nothing new or special. It's like me saying "I watched the video with my eyes."
I'm sure we all did....
“Mama said marry a rich man
I said ,mama,I'm the rich man”
when i was married my wife age was 23.She conceived soon and we had a baby boy within 11 months of marriage.but after that she did not want second child soon.I supported her.Now my first child is above 5 years and she is pregnent again.She always said i am so lucky as u are my hubby.who understood me .I care her a lot and now we want baby girl
Thank god! That her husband is supporting. 🤗
That's why education very important for us
Kavyam Bhagat wth seriously how u saying that
Education is really important for people like u
@@siddrabibi8846 it's ok dear, i don't mind what he saying about me and muslim people
It is
I don't know how a supportive parents should be like but the only thing I know if your parents are educating you and if you are a girl then you have to be good at studies good at doing household chores be a good girl respect everyone even if they are taunting you and after completing your studies and getting a decent job marry a person (stranger) and from their you have to take care of your parents and inlaws ,doing job, doing household chores raising your kids and taking care of many other things that people won't notice .. In short you have to be perfect.. they say it's our duty to do this because we are women but nobody wants a controlling life half of the time your so called supportive parents will control you by saying that "in our time we didn't get enough options or opportunities" that doesn't mean it's my fault. Parents biggest mistake is that they didn't realize this thing that time was different and comparing that time with today's time will not gonaa work ...you have to build trust with your in kids and tell them yes I'm with you ...
I'm addressing this topic here because even if your parents are educating you they will make sure that you should be good at studies every parent want this but that doesn't mean the problem is solved . Even after doing great in studies many girls face soo many problems that people won't address it
They just randomly think giving education= freedom in soo many cases it's not soo true
Many girls can relate with this it's 2023 and mental health is the biggest issue even if you are married or unmarried employed or unemployed educated or uneducated.
(In short: educating your gir child doesn't mean that you're doing mercy on her ...by constantly telling her on every mistake that you should be grateful to us that we are educating you ..... it's her right you can't say this. They should have to change their mentality).
Bengali language and bengali short film....that was a good concept 👍👍👍
That's the reason why education is important for both men and women. In india parents have money or even arrange money for their daughter's wedding but can't afford for their education(like seriously🤷)
well its common in bangladesh ..my mom got married at 15 , had me at 16 and my brother at 18 ..even though my grandpa was a highly established person but to him daughters are nothing but a piece of product to sell ..
i live in keraniganj, Dhaka. here most of the girls get married before 18. recently one of my friends who is just 15 has got married. when we read in class 6 she was our class monitor and one of the good students. she got married just for her grandpa.i was really so shocked after hearing this.
I am a girl and i am proud to be a life giver .....!!!
What the ...!!!!
@@nirmalarvrp please don't use any bad word sister , I know u wanted to say what the f*** 😤
Whenever i see these 13 year olds getting married and giving birth at such a young age , i cannot believe that we are still lacking behind. For us who are getting higher education , freedom and support from our parents all this seems like a parallel universe or something . May be we are blessed .
When I will have a baby, l will not let them get married before 22.
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
I know where you are coming from, but honestly, you shouldnt try to control your childs life, its their life, their body, therefore, their decision.
Bless her husband he was good to her..it's a very touching story
you mean getting her pregnant at 13-14 is good? he was at least not abusing her but at least he could have helped with some chores?
Atleast her husband is supportive which is rare in reality 🥺💔
Instead of spending money on the marriage you can give her good education.if it is a boy you will not marry.but if it a girl you will marry her soon.and consider her as a burden o
For the family.hmm girls join your hands up I have started already to raise my voice so you should do the same
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
Well agree to your some points
But a paper can't make your relationship and can't break it
Rituals must be followed
Relationship can happen so many times
@@seven7enhypen only those rituals which helps in mankind is ritual those rituals which grab freedom of someone then it is not ritual but superstition and malpractice and child marriage is one of them 😏😏😏
@@ShubhamKumar-vd9xy well want is freedom according to u
And freedom without morality is cancer 🤌
Btw she seems to be lucky at some point of view, her husband seems to be good and takes care of her😘 whatever this has to be strictly stopped😢
Girl has the right to study and right to make a career whether her husband is caring and loving or not. She has a right to live her life with freedom. She may have a dream about her own life. All the time her parents can't take the decision of her life...like when to go to school, when to study, how to behave, when to get dropped out of the school everything they decide on their..but at least one time she should be given a chance to decide. If she has a goal her parents should help her and support her to achieve that...Thank you parents for nourishing us.I am just saying sometime u also should keep faith in us....because we all need ur support and blessings...love u ammu and abbu for ur hard work for us..
I am blessed that my parents support me for my dreams & career too. I hope every parents do support them for education & career too.
Very painful to watch.
I must say she is lucky to have a loving husband.... every girl wish...
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
Great acting. Well delivered.
It's a public service message.Great job
we should avoid child marrage because some girls want to study but their parents are not allowing them to study i feel shame that still child marrage is going on 🙁🙁🙁
Just having an arrange marriage makes me want to run away, but knowing that this girl was 13? Imagine having sex at that age... That alone creeps me out. I mean when I was 13, I didn't even know how babies were even made.
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her 😭😭
Her husband is actually nice and not abusive
I get married recently in my 17... I wanted to study I wanted to continue my college... but since I'm from rural village my family forced me to marriage ...at last I agreed in a condition that they have to let me study and my father talk to my husband and he accept that but after my wedding they forcefully stopped my study... my father even try to make them understand and begged in front of them telling that, i can't deceive with my daughter....but they didn't agree...and my whole life became dark for forever....i wanted to be a teacher...i wanted to do something good and be best but now that's a pure dream...
Run from your house for your dreams for anyone you should not sacrifice your dreams you are not less than anyone if we are girls that didn’t mean we will live our life on others terms and conditions
Sharm karooo dislike Karne Wale....
Shame on you and your family .
After watching this video
Why I am crying I don't know....
Please don't do this in real life.
Disliked this because it is promoting pregnancy in adolescent kids instead of punishing or educating her molester it is showcasing how she could get pregnant while in her adolescence .
Kyu dislike kiye pehle jano
Jo log dislike kiye unhne isliye dislike kiya ki 13-14 saal ki bachi ki sadi ho rahahe bache ho raha he or us chis ko highlight krne k bajay pregnant hone k bad keya krna h wo bol raha h
R a vai child marriage hi bahat bara crime h ,usko is video ma kahi na kahi se to barava diya gya h
@@healthtips371 yes exactly
My sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her😭😭
Im so glad that even if im indian and pakistani they want me to get married after the age of 28
Except the negative things, one thing which I liked is the husband wasn't abusive.
It’s so stupid they want the child but also force her to do chores that risks the child from dying, there’s totally a lot of logic
Id just run for my life.
they kill you if they find yoi
lila husain bro I’m Indian , south India isn’t this bad.
The marriage below 18 years is not considered as legal and it is punishable under pocso act.
This is indeed so beautiful
Thank got her husband is kind and loving unlike others 😍
Kub sundor 😍
I'm 18 year's old and I have a son and right now I'm again pregnant😟
So sorry for you girl...
😢😞😞😭 please be strong girl
Feeling bad for you😟 But if possible start studying again else your life will be not worth.
You should be careful
Great massages for our uneducated society.
It is so sad that there are girls who have to give up their childhood like this and become wives and mothers before they are ready. Child marriage is always wrong. However I am glad for organizations like this that can help them. I am also glad they help husbands too.
Well the husband was so sweet and she seemed happy
She was taken away from school, got pregnant at 13 from a guy who looks 30, forced into miscarriage... Tbh we all expected the guy to beat her up for suggesting contraception. "You won't give me a male heir???"
. my sister is just 18 year old and married it's been two months of her marriage I really miss her