In fact, all such ladies are not housewives but House Managers, worthy than the so-called MBAs because converting and managing a house into a home and taking care of a self-centered, phone-engulfed husband and sundary chores without outside help is not a child's play. A thankless job indeed, because she never expects anything in return except love, respect, and care. A typical middle-class family's struggles shown so accurately in a tightly drawn script without any pomp and show. Both main performers did a commendable job, particularly Pallavi's down-to-earth persona. Worth watching and emulating. Apart from "Thank you," Ajay would have said: "I love you."
@@nareshdev4119 yeah, cuz when a spouse says Thank you, it's the highest form of gratitude than I love you. So yep correct, there's a huge difference. Aaaisa mera manna h.
@@smriti-rl9tq I may disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. However, we say "thank you" almost to every person to show our gratitude whereas "I love you" is a special phrase meant for parents, siblings, wife, or beloved, because this phrase represents our innermost feelings and not merely gratitude. "Love" has a special connotation.
bhutiya hai phir wo I am a man and I can't see maa washing utensils never let her wash my bedsheets may be shirts or t.shirts sometime. Never ever socks and undies. I love to cook for her and when dad was alive after being busy whole day at office I saw him cooking food making snacks in the evening for us. In mountaneous regions borh men and women conteibutes equally to the family. be it fields orchards garden business or kitchen.
Housewives ( and mothers ) are silent worker through out their life and we men easily take it granted !! But, sharing household work is one way to express love to our better- half !!
Every housewife should have her own identity and she should be independent in every work as how much ever we work at home it will never be enough and no value at home
In husband or baccho ko v pta lgna hi chahiye ki ghar ka kaam itna v easy ni hota😢 🙄☹️ isko krni prti hai tb hi pta lgta hai dusron ka dard 💔 jb khud pr😂
Western countries mein jyadayar women aajkal homemaker(housewife) ban rhe hai, maximum log kuch year job krte fhir chorr dete, housewife k responsibility hai, wo rahkr app apne husband ko financially help hi kr rhe. Kyuki cooking cleaning ka paisa save ho ja rha, child nanny k bhi jarurt nhi na hi childcare mein bachon ko rakhne ka jarurt. in sab se kitna paisa udd jata hai. Wahan women bachoon ko home schooling bhi krati khud se, toh ek tarah se benefits hi ho rha. Sabko freedom hai, wo chahe housewife rhe ya bahar work kre.
Aaj mere tabiyat kharab thi, maine unse kaha, mujhe vometing sensetion tha, stomach pain bhi likin mere husband ne puri bhaji chatni khane ki farmayish ki,
I used to work but once I had kids, I stayed home because my husband worked overseas. Without realizing it, I lost my confidence, my self worth and became heavily dependent on my husband. My husband used that to his advantage and divorced me after 19 yrs. Thankfully, I had an education and was able to go to my field of after 5 yrs of the divorce because it was difficult getting hired back into my field. I even picked cleaning jobs. Thankfully, I was able to get a job in my field of studies after a few years and was eventually able to pick up the pieces of my life. I never regretted staying home with kids but what I regret is that I lost everything about me during my marriage and that made it a challenge to regain the person who I was before having kids. Lesson for anyone being a homemaker, don’t lose yourself and your self worth in the process.
I dont understand why staying at home and being a homemaker make u lose confidence and self worth. I stay at home, still studying, aint earning for a long time, my love my husband earn everything for me, even when my family get into problems he helps us financially bt he never taunt me for that and staying at home never decrease my confidence as a woman, that's a position that is naturally suitable for a woman, so why feeling down! I had earn for some period of time in my life and that life wasnt better than life of staying at home, i get not all people like the same bt at least as women we should never feel down as homemaker or as staying at home. Who wonna earn that's their personal choice and who wanna be homemakers we shouldn’t scare them by saying no u should earn, get a job, get independent. Society would be terrible if there's no homemakers or women at home at all, what will happen to generation upbringing, feminity will be long gone and women will loose essence of being women and men will become lazy and not willing to provide for their family, their kids. So we should learn the importance of homemakers women and preserve this tradition. I feel sorry for what happend to you bt that's wasnt your fault or because u were a homemaker, your husband was a bad man
@@The_Psychotic_Beauty You don’t know my story or trauma so please don’t compare yours to mine and I have also worked in shelters for women of domestic violence. It’s my life’s lesson learned and I truly believe each woman MUST have an education if they can afford it to fall back on if something goes wrong in life. All too often, my life story repeats it self in other women’s lives over and over again. You missed my point today. I NEVER regretted staying home with my kids and if I had to do it all over again, I would do it but under different circumstances. I think if one can stay home with their kids while raising them, that’s wonderful. Being a homemaker is a lot of responsibility that people take for granted.
@@The_Psychotic_Beautybecaise men and in-laws make you feel that way..the mother-in-laws particularly either ant the bahu out working so that they can get a complete gold onthe house or else they want bahu to stay home and be on toes for everybody plus take orders from mother in laws at all times.
Such things happen only in videos 😂. My husband has not cooked anything for me in 16 years of our marriage whether I’m sick or not I only have to cook 😢
Marriage is never a relationship of equality , the system in which girl is forced to leave her home to stay in her husband house is itself the beginning of imbalance of power ..it's so surprising that bride leaving her home is so normalised that we don't even see the fault within it , we don't question it at all .majority of women have accepted it without even critically examining it ....plus dowry plus domestic labour plus getting pregnant, plus taking care of their children ..if we calculate the monetary value of the free services that women provides without any holiday and retirement , it will exceed the income of husband way ahead
free services ,lmao . salray of husband. then do one thing. make countries based on gender . for reproduction , you can abrter and transfer babies according to gender. then we will see who does more
There are women construction workers and labour as well if you really look around. Some even manage their children but they also end up as child labour. A man has just one job because he doesn’t have the burden of child care. A woman does along with her job as well as managing house and a man child husband. So don’t try to take too much credit for doing one thing.
Anyone doing work at home is often devalued cos it doesn’t bring money. But it is actually a money saving and supporting duty. Whether it’s a lesbian couple or not. For male workers who don’t have a maid usually face double burden of managing house work and job outside. But I think they have their mothers at home who do the work. Men always have some woman supporting them with their unpaid labour otherwise they really can’t sustain alone unlike women who can do both.
It is not only a housewife , nowadays addressed as homemakers, but a woman, in fact ,any woman who has to shoulder responsibilities in various ways. It is indeed a thankless job, all that we seek is not thanks, but respect. In fact, I am a senior citizen in myearly 60's, who has been taking care of both parents ( dad passed away), my Amma is wheel chair bound and a super senior. I have to take care of all domestic chores and tender to her( not easy as those caregivers out there will know). Moreover, I suffer from severe bone loss . The driving force behind, is will power , especially as older people will need affection, which not all paid caregivers can give. Cleanliness, hygiene, proper diet( even if it a small portion), has to be ensured. I pray that the hands of tge divine graces all those ( women and men) who seek to strive without any expectations.
@anindian7 because they are underestimated for their work as you can see in video ...and in category of men now in current time they are also getting same response but it was not same few years back ..it is happening more in todays time
I really like this video, they showed that a woman can still be busy at home even with no kids. A lot of people assume that women with no kids have nothing to do. I have seen my friends go through this situation where people think they are always free because they don’t have kids. I also always saw them busy just like they showed in this video but most people wouldn’t understand them. Thank you for this amazing video!
Nice video. Respect homemakers. They are the main pillars of home. Without their contribution the husband or kids can not perform well into their areas. Whatever tasks or activities are not done by anybody at home is done by the wife. After all she takes up all the responsibility and in turn expects only love and respect.
@@UserYy1 i mean i dont agree with this bullshit of being housewife wtc neither it is tiring neither it is neverending in fact it is not a job at all it is just alifestyle choice
Ok my upbringing is a little diff.....My mother had always told to be self sufficient so from cooking rice and dal to baking cakes i know all... Even do my own dishes. As a boy it feels strange when todays boys dont know anything its almost a cultute shock for me. My mum has told when u get married ensure that u have a dishwasher and both of you cook. Cooking is a skill both sexs should know. Do your own work yourself, surprise her with small gifts doesnt matter a small flower. Marriage is a two way process. My confusion is that itna understanding ke hone ke baad bhi merko marriages mein auur love mein rejection hi mila he......lets see what life has in it for me (a confused 27 yr old boy)
This can only happen in these reels. I am having fever from 3 days, and still cooking and cleaning utensils in that.. Since yester'night, i was feeling very weak and so whiney, while cooking..my husband was yelling on me, for that 😢
@@aditi3112 ask your husband for some help, kabhi yun na mile to mang liya koro, sometimes we sit with our ego hum kyun puche, unko dikhta nhi kya, main to mang leti hu aur dete h,
Many woman love to take care of husband and home, cook good food for family. Seeing their happy face and clean licked plates itself gives so much satisfaction. But when they aren't appreciated for the work they do, when they are not respected, that's when many woman leave their happiness go for jobs just to prove their capabilities. I don't mean all, there woman who are ambitious and passionate about their jobs. I am talking only about women who want to be homemakers, but don't opt for it because they aren't respected and their efforts aren't recognized.
@@konianfatima7025 mere maa aur bhai bii yahi kehthe the aapka bhai half right hain balking ka mujhe Pata nqhin yeh aapke aur husband ki beeches ki baat hain aapke bhai aur aap ki nahin unless aap bhai pe depend ho Jo aapko nahin reh Sakshi unless koi problem type ho toh Bina job ki mere halal bear hain
I dont understand the logic of housewife or a working woman. Ghar ka kam sab ko karna padta hai kisiko kam ya kisiko jyada. Aur rahi respect ki baat, wo to person pe depend karta hai ke woh kitna understanding hai. I am a working woman and i think i am a good house wife too. But jitna v karo respect to nahi milta
Managing house, giving birth to children, bringing up children, adjusting with in-laws is very difficult job. Proper value and respect should be given to all home makers by husbands if they want peace and happiness in family.
Working women's life is much easier...ur inlaws will look after ur child during 10hrs office work...try staying at home, u have to look after ur inlaws, ur kids and husband...atleast u can have some happiness at office
@@ahmkhal now a days in laws does not look after kids .. they have their senior citizens priorities.... Also after corona since we have a work from home, they just forget that their daughter in law is at home; does not mean, she is available for a house work during office time. SHE IS STILL TRYING TO MANAGE OFFICE AND HOME TOGETHER. So let us at least acknowledge her efforts
@reshmajoshi19 work from home I agree is a disaster! I agree 100%.... it was so horrible for me that I finally quit ! They called me every 10mins for something or the other ...I get ur pain...
@@ahmkhalboth are hard. Working mother does 3 jobs, house, kids and work. It's enough to drive you insane. That doesn't mean ant disrespect to full time homemakers who also face challenges
Now a days women are doing both job and home maker work,at a time ,real to say that will be most toughest. Maid if comes also she cleans only utensils that also only 1time with pocha
The way giving birth to a child is not mens responsibility that way supporting financially or earning money is not women's responsibility,,when we will start understand this there will be no conflict about men's and women's rights,,,
In many sectors, women are performing better in their career and earning more than men. Sometimes, the husbands get insecured if the wife is financially independent, as he can't control her anymore. That time they say supporting financially is just the responsibility of the men. Single mothers raise the most confident children, who become successful both in their personal and professional lives.
I felt good to see that thehusband was open minded enough to appreciate his wife many times. Once he realised her work is also very hard he appreciated her for that too. He is a good husband. Not a stubborn person, but one willing to change.
I loved the script by Shloka. All the things the characters do are so lived-in. From hesitating to touch the dustbin at one go to not finding the turmeric kept right in front of you. And, ofc the used utensils waiting for him to be washed. I like how his character is not entirely changed at the end. He is just shown to h've a realisation.And, The most interesting aspect of her character is her "un-complaining" nature. I expected in the eating with the couple scene the camera would give the glimpse of the friend's wife rxn to the "doing the kitchen stuff requires nothing". As she looked newlywed to me. She would h've resonated with her. nevermind.
Bina paisa tu nahi hota yeh baat loag ghalat kehtay hain. Agar unn ko rent, bills, grocery, yeh sub pay nahi kurna tu ek Tarah Paisa unn ka bhi hua. Jab khud pay kurna ho sub kuch jab paisay ki zaroorat hoti hai. Mein ghar pe hotee houn Lekin Mein husband ko appreciate kurtee houn kiyo ke Mujhe pareshani nahi paisay ki, kiyo ke woh sub expenses pay kurtay hain, agar Mein ghar ka kaam kur rahee aur woh bahar tu paisa tu mera bhi hai kiyo ke Mujhe kisee baat ki fikr nahi pay kurnay ke lien.
@@shaleent-yl4yfsunder vicar. Unko bhi aise hi Sochnaa chahie aapke gh are ke kaam ke bare mein. Mutual respect zaroori hai is rishte mein. Baat aur zaroorat ko samjho aur ek doosre ki respect Karo. Koi chhota bada nahi koi gairzaroori nahi. Dono ki importance hai
Very nice video... But the problem is koi normal banda esi situation main chutti ni lega.. This man was atleast worried for his wife that's why got the understanding of her work
Whenever my mother was get ill and we were kids that time. My father was cooked lentil & rice for us And washing dishes also. Now I am 23 and my sis 20. Now we both can handle all house hold work.😊
Hey VSF production nice direction and script by shloka Shetty and hatt's off to the cinematography to giving realistic effects nice work from VSF PRODUCTION 👍
That's my mother...single parent...two notorious children...job..managing house...no maid...now we r doctor and doctorate....single handedly she did everything...now just with one toddler I'm into different types of psychology issues....stress, depression etc etc etc..just by imaging about my mother I almost faint...she is just a call away still I feel she is so far...kudos to all mothers 🎉
Divorce is increasing from 2006to2024 In mosts of the villages because of the patriarchy female slavery mamiyaru mamanaru mapillaikka sachothara sachotharigalukka Adhikathinala than
In fact, all such ladies are not housewives but House Managers, worthy than the so-called MBAs because converting and managing a house into a home and taking care of a self-centered, phone-engulfed husband and sundary chores without outside help is not a child's play. A thankless job indeed, because she never expects anything in return except love, respect, and care. A typical middle-class family's struggles shown so accurately in a tightly drawn script without any pomp and show. Both main performers did a commendable job, particularly Pallavi's down-to-earth persona. Worth watching and emulating. Apart from "Thank you," Ajay would have said: "I love you."
That "thank you" was actually their way of saying "I love you"
lmao you couldn't be a bigger simp
@@smriti-rl9tq Saying "I love you" has its own importance & connotation than saying "thank you."
@@nareshdev4119 yeah, cuz when a spouse says Thank you, it's the highest form of gratitude than I love you. So yep correct, there's a huge difference. Aaaisa mera manna h.
@@smriti-rl9tq I may disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. However, we say "thank you" almost to every person to show our gratitude whereas "I love you" is a special phrase meant for parents, siblings, wife, or beloved, because this phrase represents our innermost feelings and not merely gratitude. "Love" has a special connotation.
As a 20 year woman, I've never seen my father cook in my life. Never have i seen him appreciate my mother. I hate this. I'm so scared of marriage.🙂💔
Mee too
Mat kar fir :)
Don't get married. Its a trap.
bhutiya hai phir wo I am a man and I can't see maa washing utensils never let her wash my bedsheets may be shirts or t.shirts sometime. Never ever socks and undies. I love to cook for her and when dad was alive after being busy whole day at office I saw him cooking food making snacks in the evening for us. In mountaneous regions borh men and women conteibutes equally to the family. be it fields orchards garden business or kitchen.
Same 😢 this is not right upbringing..
Housewives ( and mothers ) are silent worker through out their life and we men easily take it granted !!
But, sharing household work is one way to express love to our better- half !!
My husband is very supportive, he can cook,do dishes,wash clothes, care our child, Blessed to have him . 😊
@@Userstr549 and do you help him? Do you support him? Do you financially contribute like him?
Sameee..... he daily help me in household works❤❤❤❤
Do you financially support him
@@loveyourself-n6y no ,not yet
Simple subtle messaging. No bravado in delivering it. All sides represented in balance and practical.
Every housewife should have her own identity and she should be independent in every work as how much ever we work at home it will never be enough and no value at home
Well said bro!
And where time left to be independent after marriage, it's all thing to do before marriage
Even her husband can understand the situation and is trying to do something for her. But here 😢 even though he doesn't ask anything
It is not easy to housewife even we dont earn money
Huge respect 😍😍😍😘😘
Superb acting..💐💐💐...& an excellent social message..👌
Such natural acting.. ❤❤❤
Acting means fake not natural
Very nice husband should realise how women manage
If u love someone doesn’t mean u have to stay even if u r sad….moving on is the best option
Nice video Trying to show responsibility of a husband when wife is ill
Yeh sab sirf reel ya videos me hote hai. Real life me Aaj bhi home maker ka koi respect nhi hota
Or upr se krti hi kya ho pure din ye alg se kahte h
Nahi ab aisa nahi hota
Empower yourself, respect or no respect but empower
Nahi ye galat generalize Kar rhi ho aap. Me karta Hu respect.me aapni mummy ke sath kaam bhi karvata hu jab free Hota hu tab.
Jab respect nahi milti to mat bano homemaker job karlo koi😂
Such a great story love the concept and the simplicity ❤️🤌🏼
Basic skill should be taught to both the boys and girls........ Not only girls......
@@Arjun70275 True! daily life work is not a gender role.
@@Miserablepiyush right bro.....our society needs change in mindset about this matter ......
We women are just treated like slaves, never appreciated or cared for .Hum ko toh bimar hone k a bhi haq nahi hai😢
Best one the acting level of both the actors just mind-blowing ❤
Agar ek home maker ki ye halat h toh imagine a working woman who has to be a homemaker too 😢😢
Bahut bahut acha story hai har husband ko dekhna chaiye ❤
This is brilliant, kudos to the young voices bringing in much needed conversations to the fore!
Wow, ekdum tagada content banaya hai sir, lekin outro mein ussi video ke related kuch motivational quotes provide kartee toh aur achha hota 🙏
on my way to find more contant creators like this ❤
Husband role karnewala actor bahot achha abhinay kar Raha hain
In husband or baccho ko v pta lgna hi chahiye ki ghar ka kaam itna v easy ni hota😢 🙄☹️ isko krni prti hai tb hi pta lgta hai dusron ka dard 💔 jb khud pr😂
A sweet relationship between the two. The husband looks almost like her son.
lol lmaooo rofll😂😂😂😂😂
Same story my mom ❤❤❤❤❤
Very nice concept ❤
husband looks rude not a glance at his wife
Jai sabhi bhgwan ji 🕉️🧿📿 nice vedio
The best vlog I have come across. 🙏👌👍 for sharing
Yes that's true
Itni jldi hr ldka smjh jaay to koi bt h unke samjhte samjhte to chije bigad jati h😢😢😢😢
Full video 😊
Thankfully ladka aacha nikla vrna typically yahi dekhta hai ladka kharb btw gud content
Bhai mai. Family se door surat m rehta hu, bahut mehnat lagti h khana bnane m safai krne m
I just love your content ❤
kuch log kbhi nahi samajhte h saari umr nikl jaati h
Bro I really request u to make more vedios
Everyone’s acting is so good! ❤
Film name?
Shi he sbke kaam ki ezzat krni chahiye
these are real inflluencers ..genzes should have to influence from u guys
VEDANT SHETTY SISTER
GOOD CONSCEPT😂❤
Congratulations
Mere sadh bhi yhi hota hai
Western countries mein jyadayar women aajkal homemaker(housewife) ban rhe hai, maximum log kuch year job krte fhir chorr dete, housewife k responsibility hai, wo rahkr app apne husband ko financially help hi kr rhe. Kyuki cooking cleaning ka paisa save ho ja rha, child nanny k bhi jarurt nhi na hi childcare mein bachon ko rakhne ka jarurt. in sab se kitna paisa udd jata hai. Wahan women bachoon ko home schooling bhi krati khud se, toh ek tarah se benefits hi ho rha. Sabko freedom hai, wo chahe housewife rhe ya bahar work kre.
Relatable video ❤
Very nice video
4:46 😢😢
That lady is me
HOME MAKERS🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
U look like Sharman Joshi 😊
Aaj mere tabiyat kharab thi, maine unse kaha, mujhe vometing sensetion tha, stomach pain bhi likin mere husband ne puri bhaji chatni khane ki farmayish ki,
when will next video come?
Ghar ke chaukat pe ate hi phone banda bina chahiye.
I used to work but once I had kids, I stayed home because my husband worked overseas. Without realizing it, I lost my confidence, my self worth and became heavily dependent on my husband. My husband used that to his advantage and divorced me after 19 yrs. Thankfully, I had an education and was able to go to my field of after 5 yrs of the divorce because it was difficult getting hired back into my field. I even picked cleaning jobs. Thankfully, I was able to get a job in my field of studies after a few years and was eventually able to pick up the pieces of my life. I never regretted staying home with kids but what I regret is that I lost everything about me during my marriage and that made it a challenge to regain the person who I was before having kids. Lesson for anyone being a homemaker, don’t lose yourself and your self worth in the process.
I dont understand why staying at home and being a homemaker make u lose confidence and self worth. I stay at home, still studying, aint earning for a long time, my love my husband earn everything for me, even when my family get into problems he helps us financially bt he never taunt me for that and staying at home never decrease my confidence as a woman, that's a position that is naturally suitable for a woman, so why feeling down! I had earn for some period of time in my life and that life wasnt better than life of staying at home, i get not all people like the same bt at least as women we should never feel down as homemaker or as staying at home. Who wonna earn that's their personal choice and who wanna be homemakers we shouldn’t scare them by saying no u should earn, get a job, get independent. Society would be terrible if there's no homemakers or women at home at all, what will happen to generation upbringing, feminity will be long gone and women will loose essence of being women and men will become lazy and not willing to provide for their family, their kids. So we should learn the importance of homemakers women and preserve this tradition. I feel sorry for what happend to you bt that's wasnt your fault or because u were a homemaker, your husband was a bad man
@@The_Psychotic_Beauty
You don’t know my story or trauma so please don’t compare yours to mine and I have also worked in shelters for women of domestic violence. It’s my life’s lesson learned and I truly believe each woman MUST have an education if they can afford it to fall back on if something goes wrong in life. All too often, my life story repeats it self in other women’s lives over and over again. You missed my point today. I NEVER regretted staying home with my kids and if I had to do it all over again, I would do it but under different circumstances. I think if one can stay home with their kids while raising them, that’s wonderful. Being a homemaker is a lot of responsibility that people take for granted.
Did he pay you alimony and child support did he remarry
You must be having a strong backup family from your parents side.@@The_Psychotic_Beauty
@@The_Psychotic_Beautybecaise men and in-laws make you feel that way..the mother-in-laws particularly either ant the bahu out working so that they can get a complete gold onthe house or else they want bahu to stay home and be on toes for everybody plus take orders from mother in laws at all times.
Such things happen only in videos 😂. My husband has not cooked anything for me in 16 years of our marriage whether I’m sick or not I only have to cook 😢
😢😢
It's true even in my house it's the same condition 😢
90 percent Ghar me yehi haal hai, hamare bhi ghar me😢
It's so toxic, I will advice you to get out of this
@@justplay3955are you idiot or something . I know it's not a good thing but it's not so much of a big deal for divorce 🤦 . Immaturity at it's peak
Actually in schools life skills should be introduced for both boys and girls involving cooking, banking , diy home repairs
खरय होईल भविष्यात!
These things were taught in schools in 70s and 80s. It was called home science.
Marriage is never a relationship of equality , the system in which girl is forced to leave her home to stay in her husband house is itself the beginning of imbalance of power ..it's so surprising that bride leaving her home is so normalised that we don't even see the fault within it , we don't question it at all .majority of women have accepted it without even critically examining it ....plus dowry plus domestic labour plus getting pregnant, plus taking care of their children ..if we calculate the monetary value of the free services that women provides without any holiday and retirement , it will exceed the income of husband way ahead
aww feminist mad at a fictional video. now compare housewife of a labour or a auto driver
free services ,lmao . salray of husband. then do one thing. make countries based on gender . for reproduction , you can abrter and transfer babies according to gender. then we will see who does more
what about lesbian couples or single men who are blue collar workers who cant afford a maid or cook ?
There are women construction workers and labour as well if you really look around. Some even manage their children but they also end up as child labour. A man has just one job because he doesn’t have the burden of child care. A woman does along with her job as well as managing house and a man child husband. So don’t try to take too much credit for doing one thing.
Anyone doing work at home is often devalued cos it doesn’t bring money. But it is actually a money saving and supporting duty. Whether it’s a lesbian couple or not. For male workers who don’t have a maid usually face double burden of managing house work and job outside. But I think they have their mothers at home who do the work. Men always have some woman supporting them with their unpaid labour otherwise they really can’t sustain alone unlike women who can do both.
That's why we should always respect every person's work either doing job or homemaker ..especially to women and our beloved Mothers ❤
It is not only a housewife , nowadays addressed as homemakers, but a woman, in fact ,any woman who has to shoulder responsibilities in various ways. It is indeed a thankless job, all that we seek is not thanks, but respect. In fact, I am a senior citizen in myearly 60's, who has been taking care of both parents ( dad passed away), my Amma is wheel chair bound and a super senior. I have to take care of all domestic chores and tender to her( not easy as those caregivers out there will know). Moreover, I suffer from severe bone loss . The driving force behind, is will power , especially as older people will need affection, which not all paid caregivers can give. Cleanliness, hygiene, proper diet( even if it a small portion), has to be ensured. I pray that the hands of tge divine graces all those ( women and men) who seek to strive without any expectations.
@anindian7 because they are underestimated for their work as you can see in video ...and in category of men now in current time they are also getting same response but it was not same few years back ..it is happening more in todays time
I really like this video, they showed that a woman can still be busy at home even with no kids. A lot of people assume that women with no kids have nothing to do. I have seen my friends go through this situation where people think they are always free because they don’t have kids. I also always saw them busy just like they showed in this video but most people wouldn’t understand them. Thank you for this amazing video!
Hmmm or wo log muuh pr bhi bol dete he kitna hurt hota he
Akom correct 😊😅just 6 month of my marriage n people around say such things 😂😂😂
N jab sochna nai bolna ko society jawab wahi da Dena chahiye.😅karara wala
@@birinaL hmmm in logo ka bas chle to dahej me hi bacha lekr ldki saath 😭ye chahte he ye log
Nice video. Respect homemakers. They are the main pillars of home. Without their contribution the husband or kids can not perform well into their areas. Whatever tasks or activities are not done by anybody at home is done by the wife. After all she takes up all the responsibility and in turn expects only love and respect.
I salute all the homemakers because their life at home is not easy
Thank you dear so much ❤
Home maker doesn't mean you are non working it's a tiring job with no money it's a never ending job
Rubbish
@@anushaiyer2487what you mean by this 🙄
I agree it's so tiring
@@UserYy1 i mean i dont agree with this bullshit of being housewife wtc neither it is tiring neither it is neverending in fact it is not a job at all it is just alifestyle choice
No money and no respect😢
Ok my upbringing is a little diff.....My mother had always told to be self sufficient so from cooking rice and dal to baking cakes i know all... Even do my own dishes. As a boy it feels strange when todays boys dont know anything its almost a cultute shock for me. My mum has told when u get married ensure that u have a dishwasher and both of you cook. Cooking is a skill both sexs should know. Do your own work yourself, surprise her with small gifts doesnt matter a small flower. Marriage is a two way process. My confusion is that itna understanding ke hone ke baad bhi merko marriages mein auur love mein rejection hi mila he......lets see what life has in it for me (a confused 27 yr old boy)
This can only happen in these reels. I am having fever from 3 days, and still cooking and cleaning utensils in that..
Since yester'night, i was feeling very weak and so whiney, while cooking..my husband was yelling on me, for that 😢
Aap hadd se jyada kavi karne ki kausis na kare, aapna khyal pehle rakhe, logo ka badme
@@manishazaman6647
Thanks a lot.
But since, we are in the USA, i have no option of house help or any other help. So for food at least..i have to work.
@@aditi3112 ask your husband for some help, kabhi yun na mile to mang liya koro, sometimes we sit with our ego hum kyun puche, unko dikhta nhi kya, main to mang leti hu aur dete h,
So insensitive
. आप ला आत्मसन्मानं वाढवा उच्च शिक्षण घेऊन किंवा वर्तणुकीने!
Aajkal ki housewives itna bhi darr kar nhi rehti....😅
Many woman love to take care of husband and home, cook good food for family. Seeing their happy face and clean licked plates itself gives so much satisfaction. But when they aren't appreciated for the work they do, when they are not respected, that's when many woman leave their happiness go for jobs just to prove their capabilities. I don't mean all, there woman who are ambitious and passionate about their jobs. I am talking only about women who want to be homemakers, but don't opt for it because they aren't respected and their efforts aren't recognized.
Bakwaas band kar
@@konianfatima7025 mere maa aur bhai bii yahi kehthe the aapka bhai half right hain balking ka mujhe Pata nqhin yeh aapke aur husband ki beeches ki baat hain aapke bhai aur aap ki nahin unless aap bhai pe depend ho Jo aapko nahin reh Sakshi unless koi problem type ho toh Bina job ki mere halal bear hain
I dont understand the logic of housewife or a working woman. Ghar ka kam sab ko karna padta hai kisiko kam ya kisiko jyada. Aur rahi respect ki baat, wo to person pe depend karta hai ke woh kitna understanding hai. I am a working woman and i think i am a good house wife too. But jitna v karo respect to nahi milta
तोच आदर तू मिळव!
Managing house, giving birth to children, bringing up children, adjusting with in-laws is very difficult job. Proper value and respect should be given to all home makers by husbands if they want peace and happiness in family.
I wish someone will make film on a working woman managing home... Apart from all house work, she has to dedicate 10 hrs to office work 😢
Working women's life is much easier...ur inlaws will look after ur child during 10hrs office work...try staying at home, u have to look after ur inlaws, ur kids and husband...atleast u can have some happiness at office
@@ahmkhal now a days in laws does not look after kids .. they have their senior citizens priorities.... Also after corona since we have a work from home, they just forget that their daughter in law is at home; does not mean, she is available for a house work during office time. SHE IS STILL TRYING TO MANAGE OFFICE AND HOME TOGETHER. So let us at least acknowledge her efforts
@reshmajoshi19 work from home I agree is a disaster! I agree 100%.... it was so horrible for me that I finally quit ! They called me every 10mins for something or the other ...I get ur pain...
@@ahmkhalboth are hard. Working mother does 3 jobs, house, kids and work. It's enough to drive you insane. That doesn't mean ant disrespect to full time homemakers who also face challenges
Working woman can hire help.
They can even take help from their husbands. They are respected more than housewives.
Now a days women are doing both job and home maker work,at a time ,real to say that will be most toughest.
Maid if comes also she cleans only utensils that also only 1time with pocha
It would be nice if he gives a hug to his wife at the end. Also it would be really great if he gives a hug to her whenever he goes to office....
The way giving birth to a child is not mens responsibility that way supporting financially or earning money is not women's responsibility,,when we will start understand this there will be no conflict about men's and women's rights,,,
Ideally yes. But not everyone has a partner. What about single women, widows n divorcees?
In many sectors, women are performing better in their career and earning more than men. Sometimes, the husbands get insecured if the wife is financially independent, as he can't control her anymore. That time they say supporting financially is just the responsibility of the men. Single mothers raise the most confident children, who become successful both in their personal and professional lives.
@@Anandi1206yes..but unfortunately no moral support from in laws .you slog at both the places.
I felt good to see that thehusband was open minded enough to appreciate his wife many times. Once he realised her work is also very hard he appreciated her for that too. He is a good husband. Not a stubborn person, but one willing to change.
I loved the script by Shloka. All the things the characters do are so lived-in. From hesitating to touch the dustbin at one go to not finding the turmeric kept right in front of you. And, ofc the used utensils waiting for him to be washed. I like how his character is not entirely changed at the end. He is just shown to h've a realisation.And, The most interesting aspect of her character is her "un-complaining" nature. I expected in the eating with the couple scene the camera would give the glimpse of the friend's wife rxn to the "doing the kitchen stuff requires nothing". As she looked newlywed to me. She would h've resonated with her. nevermind.
10:08 bhaiii ek hug de !!!!
Real Life me ye koi nhi samajhta hai..sirf movie me hi log itne samjhdaar log paye jate hai 😂😂
Because they are paid for it
Aur comments m
My husband does
@@anutarakesh408send this video to him and talk him about clear sis you deserve better and respect care too
My husband know every household chores, Blessed to have him 😊❤
Bina 😊paise ke Ghar m wife Kam karti he phir bhi log kehte he Kam hi kya hota he
Bina paisa tu nahi hota yeh baat loag ghalat kehtay hain. Agar unn ko rent, bills, grocery, yeh sub pay nahi kurna tu ek Tarah Paisa unn ka bhi hua. Jab khud pay kurna ho sub kuch jab paisay ki zaroorat hoti hai. Mein ghar pe hotee houn Lekin Mein husband ko appreciate kurtee houn kiyo ke Mujhe pareshani nahi paisay ki, kiyo ke woh sub expenses pay kurtay hain, agar Mein ghar ka kaam kur rahee aur woh bahar tu paisa tu mera bhi hai kiyo ke Mujhe kisee baat ki fikr nahi pay kurnay ke lien.
@@shaleent-yl4yfsunder vicar. Unko bhi aise hi Sochnaa chahie aapke gh are ke kaam ke bare mein. Mutual respect zaroori hai is rishte mein. Baat aur zaroorat ko samjho aur ek doosre ki respect Karo. Koi chhota bada nahi koi gairzaroori nahi. Dono ki importance hai
Very nice video... But the problem is koi normal banda esi situation main chutti ni lega.. This man was atleast worried for his wife that's why got the understanding of her work
Whenever my mother was get ill and we were kids that time. My father was cooked lentil & rice for us And washing dishes also. Now I am 23 and my sis 20. Now we both can handle all house hold work.😊
Kya kam hota hai wife ko ghar pr to rehti hai....always insult krte hai...husband aur uska bap...
Dear boys..plz understand it....your words break us
Yaha to husband samajdar hain, mere husband ne kaha mujhe ki meri kaam sirf khana pakkane aur bartan dhone hain usko aur Sara kaam dikta nahi.
It is also his mother’s and wife’s fault they never taught him any housework. Because if he knows everything then women will become redundant
Will he able to give birth too?
@@vidyasonavane9602 I will tell you a secret, most urban men don’t want children.
Hey VSF production nice direction and script by shloka Shetty and hatt's off to the cinematography to giving realistic effects nice work from VSF PRODUCTION 👍
He even helped her during illness but there are many women who worked after taking medicine
Really handling a family is very tough task🙂
Bhindi ese ni banate h yrrr... Bhujiya.. bhindi ki bhujiya.. Wrna log bolte h unhe bhindi ni psnd. huh
Still her husband is not bad man.. 💗
Its happened only when husband is this much caring and supportive
Very nice but can only happen when you stay alone with your husband and not pura khandan
Just imagine who manages dual roles without a maid.....
That's my mother...single parent...two notorious children...job..managing house...no maid...now we r doctor and doctorate....single handedly she did everything...now just with one toddler I'm into different types of psychology issues....stress, depression etc etc etc..just by imaging about my mother I almost faint...she is just a call away still I feel she is so far...kudos to all mothers 🎉
Maine pehla house dekha jahan fan ki dusting daily hoti hai😂...hum to sirf Diwali par karte hai
👏 Those men who appreciate their partners who are homemakers will love their lives. They will be rewarded accordingly.
Literally you guys are too good .
The acting and script writing is top notch❤❤❤❤
Keep up the good work.
Divorce is increasing from 2006to2024 In mosts of the villages because of the patriarchy female slavery mamiyaru mamanaru mapillaikka sachothara sachotharigalukka Adhikathinala than
Mardon ko ehsas hojye na apni bv k leye wohi kafi hai. ❤
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