Many husband's try to balance..,but mother in law's should understand taking the place of mother by just removing that two extra words..then..., almost every ending is a happy ending
I got tears in the end.... Marriage has become the new fear for every Indian girl just because of the sacrifices she does after marriage. I AM ALSO THE ONE WHO FEARS MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF THIS ALL.....
If boys become so sensible in balancing his mother and wife, I guess it will soon be a better world and many better homes. The girl is an inspiration, her work life, her home life, anyone would miss a thing here or there. But respecting your partner and helping him accordingly will surely save many relations. Great work. 😍
It's not only the husband, but the in laws were open minded enough to see it. It's rare to see that... usually our older generation, parents are never like this... double standard exist. Also, the daughter in law too was very quiet. It can only happen if everyone is on the same page... which is one in billion... Nice show, great acting! Love it. Thanks for a your great commend Idna.
Every girl deserve this kind of understanding husband. Mother in law should understand their doughter in law bcz its really difficult to manage every responsibility when women is working.
@@Userforall29 ohh you know men very well.. Yeah women are goddesses it's men who have problem & ego.. do a favor on them (b'cos u are goddess afterall) don't marry a man let them be happy.👍
Many mother in laws are bad. Many daughter in laws are bad. Many husbands are bad. Mother in law- always tend to judge, feel to insecure, don't want son loving wife more Daughter in law- doesn't accept inlaws, wants to rule the house Husbands- either they blindly do what their mom wants them to do, or what their wives want. Tend not to keep a balance I feel like everyone has flaws. But what we mainly hear is that the mother in law is bad because they always want to judge. They don't look at their kids flaws, but are first to point out everyone elses.
Mahalakshmi Thirumurthy Please don’t consider yourself to be Bechari. Take a stand for yourself and every battle is fought alone if it is to be. Either it will make you or break you
No-one treat daughter in laws as Daughter....they never realise their unfair partial behaviour towards Bahu's...A mother in law till her last breath can't accept her mistakes... this doesn't happen in reality....Sad
Nicely taken....the issue is that one is daughter and the other is daughter in law....Who has duties.....both should be treated as daughters .....ryt????
Wish Indian mother in laws will start treating their daughter in laws with love and understanding and vice versa. Sons and husbands too play a role in creating that understanding. Its not as simplistic as protrayed but definitely a positive intiative. Well done 👍👍👍
Vidya Sheshappanavar Thankyou . It’s from my personal experience . When you love her as your partner’s mom .. she can’t hurt your feelings and vice versa . I think that’s better . 😊
I really don’t know for how many people this works out. As I have done so many things for my MIL than ever I have done for my own mother. But still my MIL is never happy or satisfied she just keeps on cribbing.
It's not like that ....No evil mother-in-law frnd , grandparents will not be with them till end of their life So , she should know her responsibilities. Practical life is different.......
Very nice and a right approach to relationship sometimes we forget how indifferent we are towards each other Mother in laws always has problems with daughter in laws This movie shows how a change can be brought by accepting one another with their talents and flaws making it better to live Husband played a neutral role too
@@vineybhatia3943 boht hasi a ri h na, may you become a woman in your next birth and suffer then you will learn your lesson, women endure so much all their lives that men can not even imagine.
What we have learn from this movie is that a little effort from husband side can make a big difference. But Do you really think a husband would say this stuff to his mother? I doubt that.
As a husband I love my wife, I even convinced her to come with me to leave Delhi and live as a 'joint family' in Lucknow. She gave up a lot,even I sacrificed. After spending four terrible years, under one roof. I moved out along with my wife to a rented apartment, daily at night I regret that decision of mine being a shravan Kumar, making her suffer. As a man I can say , one house can never be big enough for two decision makers( son/father)(mother/mil).. I think the previous generation of ours were the flag bearers of nuclear family. Live separately ( from both in laws),as a man and wife we must make our home and decisions , wheather they are correct or not.
divyanka charan I am Sorry to hear that but I think that we both sail in the same ship. Even I don’t know whether I can forgive my in laws or not. But one thing I am sure of that I can’t let them take me granted. My side of story goes like that I am housewife and capable of doing everything. Despite all the odds it’s been 2 years that I have stopped talking to my in laws and always make them realize that they have done wrong things. After all they are the one who is getting older and requires our support in their old age but they behave as if we are the one who needs support. Please don’t underestimate your power. Only support that you require from your in laws is financial and if you can earn it out then you are highly independent.
My tears were just rolling after watching this..I wish every girl could get such husband who will clear all the misunderstanding between his mom and wife..I just loved it.💕💕
also remember that those daughters cam still go to their mother but the mother in law has the only son. I am mot favoring the Mother in Law but thing is, both have to show understanding amd accept each other. Until daughter in law does not take step as daughter no mother in law would be able to see the daughter in their daughter-in-laws. Give the love you will get the love
The guy was real here..bcs he understands the prospect of being daughter in law and daughter.. If all men r like this sensible and daring..then i think no will be no barrier in love marriag and arrange marrige.
Great msg but all of the people are not understand it, god plz that kind of people also understand it🙂 so proud of her husband such a kind hearted n xplaining her mom in correct way Hatsoff to him😍
Bfr I got married my mother in law had a son and a daughter. Her son got married to me. N now my mil has 4 kids😂😂😂😂 ( previous 2+ me + my son)... she s da sweetest person. She manages all 4 kids very well 😘😘
Sangita aap n unko apni maa samajha aur unhone apne dil se aapko apna bacha tabi to sab set hua moreover she really loves his son alot tabi to aapko sabse zada pyar krti h because she knows very wel agar aap kush to unke beta aur beti pori life kush aur unite rehege ...inshort she is very intelligent nd loveable person ...u too dear
My Mother's mother in law(my grandma) is very polite to my mother she even cried for my mother when my Nani died .She was so worried about my mother . I love her and my mother too May Allah bless her
A good mother in law does exist I love my mother in law ❤️ and I am soo lucky to have her in my life She have always been more of a mother to me n less of a in law !! I think it all depends on the husband the way he balances things between his wife n his mother ❤️
Mrs Globaldesi Woow!! Great You are really so lucky. I miss all this in my love. May God bless you and your family with a happy and successful long life.
Reality is far more bitter than this... I went through a lot where husband used to listen his mother & yelled at me... most of the husband don't even think about their wives but mothers only... they make their wives as a serve to & house maids & don't understand that they have responsible for their wives too...
This is a beautiful relationship which I have with my mother-in-law... Taur tareeke dono taraf k logon ko smjhne hote h... Ek ldki apna ghr chod kr aati h nayi family me settle hoti h toh jo usne apne mayake me itne saal guzare hote h wo ek dam se kaise badal le ye cheez meri saas bahut acche se smjhti h wo mujhe cooking me help b krti h... Mujhe smjhati h ki ye kaam aise krlo hojayega...main study b kr rhi hu STH ki STH meri saas mujhe khud appreciate krti h ki main padhai krun job krun and she is 68 years old... Tb b wo mujhe itna support krti h... Main subh late utthti hun wo apni chai khud bna leti h or kbhi complain nhi krti h ki tum itna late utthti ho ye wo... She is beautiful
I have seen many short videos on this issue and have faced it as well. I believe this clip had a positive side and showed how one can tackle the situation rather than addressing the issues that we all know happen in the household. We can all say that in real life this doesn't happen and go on about behaviour of the man of the house till the cows come home. But Look at the larger picture, it won't change in a split second but it is a start. To communicate better with the members of the family. I liked the positive energy in the clip and it is a new begining, new times, change is around the corner only if you ready to walk all the way there..
This only had a happy ending because the son didn't allow his mother to behave or overreact unjustly because of a simple misunderstanding. Unfortunately in most Asian/ Deshi communities men behave like cowards when it comes to their moms, these men(Boys) would rather stand back and pit his wife against his mother or vise versa. The son in the video is a definition of a man and not a boy. Unfortunately we are living in a Deshi (Bengali, Indian, Pakistani) community where grown men still behave like boys in the presence of their mother(momma can't be WRONG EVER), men like them who lack maturity to behave justly should never get married. And father when marrying of their daughter must take extra care in making sure that their daughters end up in home that aren't bias for any reason.
Lol your comment reeks of misandry. *At last it gonna be a man which has to face agony from both the sides(mother & wife) and supposed to satisfy both.* & Ofcourse the same can be said for wifes too..-Most of our desi women(girls) are coward and not mature. Unfortunately we are living in desi community where grown women still behaves like immature girls( where they can't be WRONG EVER!!) & break the family when they get married. It's better for immature women(girls) to not to get married at all. .... *see, it's so easy to rant..& blame others*
Although it is the girl who changes her home and is almost always a victim, husbands or I should say men always find a way to portray themselves as "suffering". They make jokes about women's shopping, doing nothing, relaxing at home etc. And these are the "good" men who do this. Because the "bad" ones torture women openly. Don't you think that neglecting the womanhood is also a form of torture? Even if they shop, to look beautiful, don't they do it for their respective mens? Not in all cases,but in many.
I too cried. It's really tragic in india that a daughter in law is always treated so different from one's daughter..whatever IN laws say but at heart they can neva accept her as daughter...neva IN India atleast
One of the best videos I've ever seen. I'm sharing this with everyone I know. It's so beautiful. The story of every house will change if they understand the message in this. And usually guys don't know how to balance or handle situations like this but in this case he handled it very gently and sensibly 😇
Thank you for making this film. In the context of modern society , it perfectly underlines the difference between a daughter and a daughter in law. Daughters have become like princesses today's time. The apple of everyone's eyes in the family. Hence everything about them is loved more. Perhaps even more than the sons , the rajdulara betas. Parents to elder siblings put up with their tantrums , those cute little expressions and dramas they come up with downright to a simple smile. But a daughter in law has a different , an uphill task altogether. Mind you she too has already lived through the above scenario at her place. She has to move to a new home , adapt a new lifestyle and family , treat them as her own ; care for little brother / sister in laws like her own children. Why such stark contrast ? And as long as we keep such double standards a daughter in law can never become like our own daughter and our daughters can never become someone's daughter in law. Maturity is expected , yes. Completely fine. You cannot relive your childhood all over again just because you have moved to a new place. And hence the margin for error will always be lesser than that for a daughter. So it becomes equally important for in laws to become patient as it's important for daughter in laws to realize that they can never have the same opportunities. What we really need to do is be a bit stern with our own children , sons or daughters. And give someone else's son or daughter a little more time. Life lessons will not consider parameters like your age , experience , understanding etc first. They'll strike you like a hard slap across the face without a warning and then maybe will spare you some time to comprehend what you just learnt. This is not to undermine the role that daughters play compared to their in-law counterparts. Just an observation of what hasn't changed despite the changing times.
What a lovely message spreading video...How I wish all mother in laws treat their DIL's as one of their own child. And hats off to the smart son who explained discussed and solved the matter with such calm attitude and respect. My special thanks to the director of this video.
Supeerrrb yrr...just amazing...n seriously exactly this happens afte marriage....i had saw this in my relative families...seriouly society needs yo change this thought that daughter in laws must be treatened as daughters🙂
Beautiful it happened to me when I lived with my in-laws. Everything I did was wrong and called chamaar because I was from different culture a Hindu girl marrying into a Muslim family but my husband was always there for me and eventually my sincerity won their heart and loved by all as my brother-in-law who married his cousin showed her true colors even though she was treated like their own. There were many nights I cried myself to sleep having given tears to my family for bringing shame upon them but my husband’s love helped me through difficult times.We have supported them in every way we can which is highly appreciated now. Sometimes in-laws do not realise what they are doing is wrong until it happen to them
Beautiful beautiful beautiful. See here Mother in law is supportive and she realized what she was doing wrong. Even the daughter in law so calm and wants to keep good relationship. Extraordinary
Superb and moral story. Thanks to understanding between husband and mother in law. They didnt argue like " son taken wife side or son taken mom side" . Both have understood at same time.
Watched it last nite and again this morning. My overall take on this is; it has a good message but it really does not happen in real life mainly because everyone is caught up in doing their things and are madly in some kind of a rat race. From the creative angle; I think it is a well made film with a nice social theme, neat story board, crisp script, the flow is good, well directed, beautifully edited and amazing acting skills. Everyone has acted well especially the daughter in law and the Father in law. I also felt if the duration had been 20 or 25 minutes it would have still held the interest of the audience. I understand how short films are normally made . With shoe string budgets and severe constraints; it does get a little difficult to think big....My best to the man who not only conceptualized this film but also garnered the support of his friends and colleagues and crafted this neat film which definitely is required in this day and age. So many congratulations to all of you and my best too, to everyone. Looking forward to watching a few more in the coming year before each of you branch out to doing feature films....Cheers to this !!!
Very nice. The son's role is very good n all daughter-in-laws should have this compromiseing nature which is very necessary in the second home. Nice.. Very good work
This happns in real life.... But kuch din bad vapis sab vaisehi behave krte hai.... Complains n all... Ye nahi kiya... Vo nahi kiya.... Gharpe dhayn nahi hai n all
Nice video for all married ppl. Truely it shows how mother in laws ignores their daughters mistakes but calculate and keep in mind even the silly mistakes that her daughter in law has done. Thank god here she has a Great husband who made the mother realise how bad her thinking was but yes all mother in laws will not have the understanding and all husbands will not be same but will daily crib abt their daughter in law or wife to make her life a hell
Kudos to the director for making such a thoughtful and heartwarming movie...ultimately the men of the family need to make the mom understand not to make mountains out of molehills..if men were supporting like this in all families most of these in law issues would not surface!
vryyyg nicee lucky to hv understanding nd careing husband for a women bt its vry vrrrry difficult coz most men r selfish in ds epi husband cn create a drama aftr listening hs mom words against hs wife bt he didnt
This story made me cry. I really want this type of hubby in my life. beti chahe apne ghar par ho ya apne sasural me hoti to beti hna. apne sasural me bs nand ki kami ko pura krti h beti bn kr. Beti chahe khi bhi rhe karge dono parivao ka naam rosn. Jai beti power 😘😎🤚i salute those girls who made their parents feels proud of them 😎.
Why not BOTH FAMILIES MOVE TOGETHER in a SINGLE HOME...why girls only has to move to groom's home...in ancient times MALE DOMINATED over female... it's the time to FIGHT FOR EQUALITY GIRLSSSS💪
Mahi forAchange mein Na apna ghar chor ka kabi be nhi jau ge pkka soch liya ha mein Na agar ladki ghar chor ka Jaa sakti ha Toh ladka be chor sakta ha 😊😂
@@mohammedraseef7442 It is not about equality, which is very broad term. men will always have more oportunities cause thay are physically stronger. What do you mean "step ahead"? Girls have it difficult, and men do not face periobs, pregnancies, they are less likely to be raped. So if men can't care for needs and feelings of wife and find compromise between his parents and wife, he should not marry at all, not to spoil woman's life.
Nice plot !!!! It turned good coz husband stood up for his wife !!!! Many support their mom and believe in her blindly without seeing the other side of the story
wow what a husband...m literally crying while watching the film.....i know i may nt be that luckybwife.....bt i hope....kash meri life v asi ho...with a understanding husband
2:28 vaha sabko khush rakhna.... Ye bhi bol diya hota ki khush rehna I'm just 16 to mother in law ke baare me to comment nai kr skti.... But daughters ko daughter in law banana pata nai kyu mom's ka mission ban jaata h.... Betiya dono gharo me Betiya rha skti h... Beti or bahu ki jroort hi kyu h
May this is the story of each nd every home in this generation...but we hope that may every home have a family just like this, which accept their mistakes and rectify the same as soon...😊😊
Meri mother in law hoti to aur bhadak jaati k biwi ki side le rha h aur ghr me toofan aa jata aur phir wo apni betiyon ko phone kr k bulati aur panchayati shuru ho jaati ghr me
mostly in todays lifestyle most of the people kisi k yha shadi krne se phle hi sbse first question yhi krte hain ki khana bnana aata h kya ladki ko qkii sasural wale bhuke marrhe hote hain itne saalo ..
Commenting for the first time for a short film...The exact portrayal of things happening in every household... little issues get piled up and never are they solved in most cases and it's not very frequent to find a warm relationship with the in laws....Added to it, such understanding partners are also not very frequent....a bitter truth...😶
It barely happens in real life. Although daughter in law is of their daughter's age, she is treated like someone who should know everything beforehand. Otherwise petty flaws and issues are pointed out. Her intentions are always doubted. A lot of dutifulness is expected from a new member which is unrealistic. This very irrational behavior of the in laws is creating degradation of families. But they don't realize it and aren't ready to change. There is no problem with son sleeping till 9 but daughter in law has to wake up early..else she gets criticized...No aporeciation..no consideration...is not even allowed to fall sick..else faces hostility for not being able to do household work. Mother in law is not to be blamed here. Patriarchy is the culprit. We all are victims of patriarchy.
All credit goes to Mr. Perfect husband....who made this balance 😍😍😍😍😍😍
Many husband's try to balance..,but mother in law's should understand taking the place of mother by just removing that two extra words..then..., almost every ending is a happy ending
mother-in-law sab ek jsi hoti h
Bilkul sahi...only husband can manage all.
Right.. aagar pati samjdar ho to thoda aasan ho jata hai sasural mai adjust krna
You are right. But most husbands shirk this responsibility and blame the Saas Bahu relationship.
I got tears in the end.... Marriage has become the new fear for every Indian girl just because of the sacrifices she does after marriage.
I AM ALSO THE ONE WHO FEARS MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF THIS ALL.....
Me too 🥺😑😕
so trueee :(
You literally stole my words😭
😌😌😌
Mt krna. Settle beautifully..take care of your parents.
Husbands actually can make an effort to maintain balance.but in reality they choose to stay silent and play safe
Not all it is different person to person
Cos husband are like bel if they seek to speak all problems can be solve in a speed .
Right
Right
So so so true
If boys become so sensible in balancing his mother and wife, I guess it will soon be a better world and many better homes. The girl is an inspiration, her work life, her home life, anyone would miss a thing here or there. But respecting your partner and helping him accordingly will surely save many relations. Great work. 😍
agreed
Idna Munawar zara i loved your replie
So true
Exactly.totally agreed
It's not only the husband, but the in laws were open minded enough to see it. It's rare to see that... usually our older generation, parents are never like this... double standard exist. Also, the daughter in law too was very quiet. It can only happen if everyone is on the same page... which is one in billion... Nice show, great acting! Love it. Thanks for a your great commend Idna.
In real life this mother will say " yeh dekho mere bete ko v apni taraf kar liya..ussey bhadka rahi hai mere khilaaf"😂
Pooja Gupta so true😀😀
Nischita Nataraj yup...but stilll....nyc way to open every one's eye...and it can change people as well
Yeah true
Lol.. true
😂
No mother in-law realize or regrets for their mistakes in reality.
So true but bad part husband don't want to understand
Thats true @janhavi
Ryt
Absolutely teue.
She is also not regretting.
She is doing drama in front of her husband and son.
True to the core..truth is ugly
Nice husband. This is called love and understanding.
Every girl deserve this kind of understanding husband.
Mother in law should understand their doughter in law bcz its really difficult to manage every responsibility when women is working.
Husband has take care of wife but there is not such mirackels happend yet. So men have to change for women in all relationship.
@@aakifatahseen7906 why only men has to change..?
@@SomeOne_1409 because men needs to change women changes happily its men who have a problem and ego
@@Userforall29 ohh you know men very well.. Yeah women are goddesses it's men who have problem & ego.. do a favor on them (b'cos u are goddess afterall) don't marry a man let them be happy.👍
Many mother in laws are bad. Many daughter in laws are bad. Many husbands are bad.
Mother in law- always tend to judge, feel to insecure, don't want son loving wife more
Daughter in law- doesn't accept inlaws, wants to rule the house
Husbands- either they blindly do what their mom wants them to do, or what their wives want. Tend not to keep a balance
I feel like everyone has flaws. But what we mainly hear is that the mother in law is bad because they always want to judge. They don't look at their kids flaws, but are first to point out everyone elses.
Unmarried Indian girls: This movie is the most terrifying horror film. Just imagine what will happen if the husband only listens to his mother
Mahalakshmi Thirumurthy
Please don’t consider yourself to be Bechari. Take a stand for yourself and every battle is fought alone if it is to be. Either it will make you or break you
Husband only listens to his mother not wife
Mera pati sirf apni maa ki sunta hai isliye Mai 2 mhine se mayke me hu😂
Girls life is hell
i have decided to not get married
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No-one treat daughter in laws as Daughter....they never realise their unfair partial behaviour towards Bahu's...A mother in law till her last breath can't accept her mistakes... this doesn't happen in reality....Sad
Live & Let Live very wrong. My in laws love me more than my own parents. I am blessed . They love me like a little kid😍😘
@@satinderjitkaur8789 No iam right.i didn't got such loving people.you are lucky.
Satinderjit kaur l love my daughter in law like my own daughter. I'm glad you have loving in laws. I wasn't so lucky.
This applies to those Daughters’ mothers who are complaining for their Mother in Law
So true..thy cn nv accpt their dil
Heart touching story
Every girl needs a second home like her own home Kudos to whole cast and crew for such a good message
Nicely taken....the issue is that one is daughter and the other is daughter in law....Who has duties.....both should be treated as daughters .....ryt????
Wish Indian mother in laws will start treating their daughter in laws with love and understanding and vice versa.
Sons and husbands too play a role in creating that understanding. Its not as simplistic as protrayed but definitely a positive intiative. Well done 👍👍👍
“Mother in law “ can never be our “Mom “ . I think it’s always good to love her the way it is .. as your loving partner’s mom .
V true, 110%. I love ur msg.
Vidya Sheshappanavar Thankyou . It’s from my personal experience . When you love her as your partner’s mom .. she can’t hurt your feelings and vice versa . I think that’s better . 😊
I really don’t know for how many people this works out.
As I have done so many things for my MIL than ever I have done for my own mother. But still my MIL is never happy or satisfied she just keeps on cribbing.
@@ishitachaurasia7402 same here
Every mother in law must see this film , nicely portrayed
The son is so sensible......
My hubby's just like him mashallah......
Touchwood.......
Umme Habeeba Mannan you are very lucky:)
beautiful. shes also a daughter. jz bcz she got married to yur son dsnt mean shes a servant. shes havin her own life too. treat equally.. luv d story
well said
1k dislikes? May be from those evil mother in laws😂
It's not like that ....No evil mother-in-law frnd , grandparents will not be with them till end of their life
So , she should know her responsibilities.
Practical life is different.......
😂😂😂
Also from evil daughter in law.
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ThePeanutbutterGirl 😂😂😂
Husband Goalssss😭 though it's super fictional, in reality nope not happening!!
Yes rey nothing is real, husband never supports wife
husbands never care what's happening in house all they need is food to eat and bed to sleep
Well...there are mother in laws who does consider daughter in law as a daughter..... I'm lucky to be so blessed...
Very nice and a right approach to relationship sometimes we forget how indifferent we are towards each other
Mother in laws always has problems with daughter in laws
This movie shows how a change can be brought by accepting one another with their talents and flaws making it better to live
Husband played a neutral role too
Yes very very true n well said indeed
This shows us that right words and right tone can heal anything in any relationship ......love it
Awesome , I got tears when MIL hugged her daughter in law, in real life hardly this happens as people lack understanding,
We alwz expect from girls to treat our parents like her, But first we should accept her like our daughter As simple as that.
loved it!!!
I have seen this video 3 times and have cried when ever have seen this video
My mother in law can never be my mother how much ever i try
lol
@@vineybhatia3943 boht hasi a ri h na, may you become a woman in your next birth and suffer then you will learn your lesson, women endure so much all their lives that men can not even imagine.
Then y u trying Samina...
Yes v true MIL can never be Mother .
Same here yaar😭
I'm feeling afraid of being married
Soumya Prasad you should be
Soumya Prasad
I m also
Don't worry.. it's not as bad for you as it would be for a guy 😛
Prashant Chouksey
😐 how mean u r
Arati Prasad ,2kg. 😂
On a serious note I just tried to express guy's side of the story..It's bad deal for men.
What we have learn from this movie is that a little effort from husband side can make a big difference. But Do you really think a husband would say this stuff to his mother? I doubt that.
No.. not at all
I was treated badly at sasural post marriage in the name of traditions and customs. Can never forgive them.
As a husband I love my wife, I even convinced her to come with me to leave Delhi and live as a 'joint family' in Lucknow.
She gave up a lot,even I sacrificed.
After spending four terrible years, under one roof.
I moved out along with my wife to a rented apartment, daily at night I regret that decision of mine being a shravan Kumar, making her suffer.
As a man I can say , one house can never be big enough for two decision makers( son/father)(mother/mil)..
I think the previous generation of ours were the flag bearers of nuclear family.
Live separately ( from both in laws),as a man and wife we must make our home and decisions , wheather they are correct or not.
divyanka charan
I am Sorry to hear that but I think that we both sail in the same ship.
Even I don’t know whether I can forgive my in laws or not. But one thing I am sure of that I can’t let them take me granted.
My side of story goes like that I am housewife and capable of doing everything. Despite all the odds it’s been 2 years that I have stopped talking to my in laws and always make them realize that they have done wrong things. After all they are the one who is getting older and requires our support in their old age but they behave as if we are the one who needs support.
Please don’t underestimate your power. Only support that you require from your in laws is financial and if you can earn it out then you are highly independent.
Same with me 😔
I know. New customs banate hain ye log hahaha.
My tears were just rolling after watching this..I wish every girl could get such husband who will clear all the misunderstanding between his mom and wife..I just loved it.💕💕
Remember daughter in laws are also someone else’s daughter... love her like you do your own daughter....... 😊😊😊
also remember that those daughters cam still go to their mother but the mother in law has the only son. I am mot favoring the Mother in Law but thing is, both have to show understanding amd accept each other. Until daughter in law does not take step as daughter no mother in law would be able to see the daughter in their daughter-in-laws. Give the love you will get the love
Yeah exactly... ☺️☺️ it should be from both sidesss 🧚🏼♀️🧚🏼♀️🧚🏼♀️
agreed
Her husband's reply changed the complete perception of his mom 😍😍
The guy was real here..bcs he understands the prospect of being daughter in law and daughter..
If all men r like this sensible and daring..then i think no will be no barrier in love marriag and arrange marrige.
Great msg but all of the people are not understand it, god plz that kind of people also understand it🙂 so proud of her husband such a kind hearted n xplaining her mom in correct way Hatsoff to him😍
Bfr I got married my mother in law had a son and a daughter. Her son got married to me. N now my mil has 4 kids😂😂😂😂 ( previous 2+ me + my son)... she s da sweetest person. She manages all 4 kids very well 😘😘
Ha ha u r such a lucky girl
Very rare... N v lucky... God bless u and ur MIL...
Sangita aap n unko apni maa samajha aur unhone apne dil se aapko apna bacha tabi to sab set hua moreover she really loves his son alot tabi to aapko sabse zada pyar krti h because she knows very wel agar aap kush to unke beta aur beti pori life kush aur unite rehege ...inshort she is very intelligent nd loveable person ...u too dear
Lucky u . I really want to see such good people
thanks for understanding. my family is also like that .
This is probably a fairy tale.....
The director soo is trying to give a good message...kudos to him
This is all imagination of how it should be but in reality no mother in law will accept her son siding with wife and accept her fault👵👵
Karishma Nehar k
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Indian cooking
Karishma Nehar y
My Mother's mother in law(my grandma) is very polite to my mother she even cried for my mother when my Nani died .She was so worried about my mother . I love her and my mother too
May Allah bless her
This act deserves more than 1million likes ....I just love it 😍😍
A good mother in law does exist I love my mother in law ❤️ and I am soo lucky to have her in my life
She have always been more of a mother to me n less of a in law !! I think it all depends on the husband the way he balances things between his wife n his mother ❤️
Mrs Globaldesi yes u r ri8 mere husband ne kabhi yeh nhi socha ki khali meri jimedari h rista nibhane ki sabki h unki bhi h kash wo samjhpate..
U r so r8
Mrs globaldesi you r absolutely rit..😊 thats d only husbands responsbility...
Mrs Globaldesi you are one hell of a lucky soul..touchwood 🤞
Mrs Globaldesi
Woow!! Great
You are really so lucky.
I miss all this in my love.
May God bless you and your family with a happy and successful long life.
Reality is far more bitter than this... I went through a lot where husband used to listen his mother & yelled at me... most of the husband don't even think about their wives but mothers only... they make their wives as a serve to & house maids & don't understand that they have responsible for their wives too...
Sana Sheikh ,It's true.l and unfortunate. One should fight for their right.👍
true
Did you divorce? Or your husband and you compromised? It is Ok to say you are sick or tired after job or during periods and refuse to do housework.
This is a beautiful relationship which I have with my mother-in-law... Taur tareeke dono taraf k logon ko smjhne hote h... Ek ldki apna ghr chod kr aati h nayi family me settle hoti h toh jo usne apne mayake me itne saal guzare hote h wo ek dam se kaise badal le ye cheez meri saas bahut acche se smjhti h wo mujhe cooking me help b krti h... Mujhe smjhati h ki ye kaam aise krlo hojayega...main study b kr rhi hu STH ki STH meri saas mujhe khud appreciate krti h ki main padhai krun job krun and she is 68 years old... Tb b wo mujhe itna support krti h... Main subh late utthti hun wo apni chai khud bna leti h or kbhi complain nhi krti h ki tum itna late utthti ho ye wo... She is beautiful
Awesome, very well msg conveyed.. I never got inlaws like this.. But at least I can be a good mother in law
I have seen many short videos on this issue and have faced it as well. I believe this clip had a positive side and showed how one can tackle the situation rather than addressing the issues that we all know happen in the household. We can all say that in real life this doesn't happen and go on about behaviour of the man of the house till the cows come home. But Look at the larger picture, it won't change in a split second but it is a start. To communicate better with the members of the family.
I liked the positive energy in the clip and it is a new begining, new times, change is around the corner only if you ready to walk all the way there..
Best ever..If I was there what I would do to the mother in law, I even don't know...😠
This only had a happy ending because the son didn't allow his mother to behave or overreact unjustly because of a simple misunderstanding. Unfortunately in most Asian/ Deshi communities men behave like cowards when it comes to their moms, these men(Boys) would rather stand back and pit his wife against his mother or vise versa. The son in the video is a definition of a man and not a boy. Unfortunately we are living in a Deshi (Bengali, Indian, Pakistani) community where grown men still behave like boys in the presence of their mother(momma can't be WRONG EVER), men like them who lack maturity to behave justly should never get married. And father when marrying of their daughter must take extra care in making sure that their daughters end up in home that aren't bias for any reason.
True*
Lol your comment reeks of misandry. *At last it gonna be a man which has to face agony from both the sides(mother & wife) and supposed to satisfy both.*
& Ofcourse the same can be said for wifes too..-Most of our desi women(girls) are coward and not mature. Unfortunately we are living in desi community where grown women still behaves like immature girls( where they can't be WRONG EVER!!) & break the family when they get married. It's better for immature women(girls) to not to get married at all. .... *see, it's so easy to rant..& blame others*
Although it is the girl who changes her home and is almost always a victim, husbands or I should say men always find a way to portray themselves as "suffering". They make jokes about women's shopping, doing nothing, relaxing at home etc. And these are the "good" men who do this. Because the "bad" ones torture women openly. Don't you think that neglecting the womanhood is also a form of torture? Even if they shop, to look beautiful, don't they do it for their respective mens? Not in all cases,but in many.
This will never happen anywhere. My dad's home will always be my Home. Here I just survive. This is every girls fate in India
Liked it.. No Mom-in-law is bad.. she just needs a patient, calm talk, without annoyance...
Maa kasam.....I pray to god ki sabhi bahuko aisi saas mile....so awesome I felt so amazing after watching this movie....Good Job👍
You should actually make whole series on this topic. It will be more good i think. Great work .👌👏
Gaud!!!! Now I want a husband just like him!!!!!! He's so supportive and cute!!! He understands her and lives her truly!!!
I too cried. It's really tragic in india that a daughter in law is always treated so different from one's daughter..whatever IN laws say but at heart they can neva accept her as daughter...neva IN India atleast
Aise husbands sirf dreams mein hote hai but I hope I am wrong !!!!😞😉
Never saw a man like this in real life. It's a dream and a movie
My hubby is exactly like that.... He always Balances everything..... I love him so much
My husband is best. Like my best friend. We're not couple, we're Tom and Jerry. Always together
Nhi bhnn aisaa nhii hh mere husband aisee hi hh Orr vo buut achee hh
Excellent movie, every family member should understand each other and support and every daughter in law is daughter only when she comes to your home.
One of the best videos I've ever seen. I'm sharing this with everyone I know. It's so beautiful. The story of every house will change if they understand the message in this. And usually guys don't know how to balance or handle situations like this but in this case he handled it very gently and sensibly 😇
Thank you for making this film. In the context of modern society , it perfectly underlines the difference between a daughter and a daughter in law.
Daughters have become like princesses today's time. The apple of everyone's eyes in the family. Hence everything about them is loved more. Perhaps even more than the sons , the rajdulara betas. Parents to elder siblings put up with their tantrums , those cute little expressions and dramas they come up with downright to a simple smile.
But a daughter in law has a different , an uphill task altogether. Mind you she too has already lived through the above scenario at her place. She has to move to a new home , adapt a new lifestyle and family , treat them as her own ; care for little brother / sister in laws like her own children.
Why such stark contrast ? And as long as we keep such double standards a daughter in law can never become like our own daughter and our daughters can never become someone's daughter in law.
Maturity is expected , yes. Completely fine. You cannot relive your childhood all over again just because you have moved to a new place. And hence the margin for error will always be lesser than that for a daughter. So it becomes equally important for in laws to become patient as it's important for daughter in laws to realize that they can never have the same opportunities.
What we really need to do is be a bit stern with our own children , sons or daughters. And give someone else's son or daughter a little more time.
Life lessons will not consider parameters like your age , experience , understanding etc first. They'll strike you like a hard slap across the face without a warning and then maybe will spare you some time to comprehend what you just learnt.
This is not to undermine the role that daughters play compared to their in-law counterparts. Just an observation of what hasn't changed despite the changing times.
You would be the perfect husband or mother in law or father in law or tevar. A new daughter in law would feel safe around you.
What a lovely message spreading video...How I wish all mother in laws treat their DIL's as one of their own child.
And hats off to the smart son who explained discussed and solved the matter with such calm attitude and respect.
My special thanks to the director of this video.
The last scene just brought tears in my eyes. Hope so each and every girl gets understanding life partner and caring in-laws.
I dono y, my tears were came without my wish....😑😥
But felt nyc after watching this
Y don't ppl feel the same in second home too,☹️
i don't understand why this 1.6 k people dont like this...may be they all are a mother in law....great work.
Credit goes to this man,her husband.
Supeerrrb yrr...just amazing...n seriously exactly this happens afte marriage....i had saw this in my relative families...seriouly society needs yo change this thought that daughter in laws must be treatened as daughters🙂
Beautiful it happened to me when I lived with my in-laws. Everything I did was wrong and called chamaar because I was from different culture a Hindu girl marrying into a Muslim family but my husband was always there for me and eventually my sincerity won their heart and loved by all as my brother-in-law who married his cousin showed her true colors even though she was treated like their own. There were many nights I cried myself to sleep having given tears to my family for bringing shame upon them but my husband’s love helped me through difficult times.We have supported them in every way we can which is highly appreciated now. Sometimes in-laws do not realise what they are doing is wrong until it happen to them
1:14 when he says "Accha kaho", damn such a sweet guy.
Very nice ...How beautiful the second home would be..If understandings are like this in a family🙂🤗
Beautiful beautiful beautiful. See here Mother in law is supportive and she realized what she was doing wrong. Even the daughter in law so calm and wants to keep good relationship. Extraordinary
Never think such a sudden change in any mother in law. It's mutual fighting never stop. It's a natural phenomenon. Don't expect it in real life😁
Ya right
Yes yeah thoe bilkul sahihay
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
false. fights are common but love and affection will be there.
Very nice story ...
Every woman have to change her mind after becoming mother in low
Superb and moral story. Thanks to understanding between husband and mother in law. They didnt argue like " son taken wife side or son taken mom side" . Both have understood at same time.
I also got tears in my eyes in the last
Fntastic Concept....Easha hiii patii chahiyeee life me.....joh samaj sake.....Who ever agree with me plz like & comment.......☺😋😍😘
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Latest For you No u r deffinetly wrong if u have brain na then only u can understand what I actually mean!!!! 😂
Hmm right
Preksha Patil Ji, Yes U R Right
Waha, har fmly agar esa soch rakhe to koi ladki apne apko paraya nahi samjhe. Beautiful msg for every one.
I wish 1 day i would have such a loving and understanding family too😍😍😍may Allah bless us
Mehebuba Arfin (Ameen)😊
S Nice thanx. Same to u😊❤
Yes
Watched it last nite and again this morning. My overall take on this is; it has a good message but it really does not happen in real life mainly because everyone is caught up in doing their things and are madly in some kind of a rat race. From the creative angle; I think it is a well made film with a nice social theme, neat story board, crisp script, the flow is good, well directed, beautifully edited and amazing acting skills. Everyone has acted well especially the daughter in law and the Father in law.
I also felt if the duration had been 20 or 25 minutes it would have still held the interest of the audience. I understand how short films are normally made . With shoe string budgets and severe constraints; it does get a little difficult to think big....My best to the man who not only conceptualized this film but also garnered the support of his friends and colleagues and crafted this neat film which definitely is required in this day and age. So many congratulations to all of you and my best too, to everyone. Looking forward to watching a few more in the coming year before each of you branch out to doing feature films....Cheers to this !!!
Very nice. The son's role is very good n all daughter-in-laws should have this compromiseing nature which is very necessary in the second home. Nice.. Very good work
This happns in real life.... But kuch din bad vapis sab vaisehi behave krte hai.... Complains n all... Ye nahi kiya... Vo nahi kiya.... Gharpe dhayn nahi hai n all
Nice video for all married ppl. Truely it shows how mother in laws ignores their daughters mistakes but calculate and keep in mind even the silly mistakes that her daughter in law has done. Thank god here she has a Great husband who made the mother realise how bad her thinking was but yes all mother in laws will not have the understanding and all husbands will not be same but will daily crib abt their daughter in law or wife to make her life a hell
Her mother inlaw kiss her forehead.
Oh God ! I think I m in some kind of hallucination
My mother in law did too on the birth of my daughter. ☺😊
@@ZAB-10.11 feel so good to hear from you. God bless your child and u
This happens only in dramas or movies
Well said its a big miracle how she kissed her daughter in law I thought she will hold her hairs from the back to pull
@@bhumikakaul3808 😃😃
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ಹೆಣ್ಣು ಸಂಸಾರದ ಕಣ್ಣು
ಮಡದಿ ಸಮಯಾ ಧರಿತ್ರಿ
ಹೆಣ್ಣೊಂದು ಕಲಿತರೆ ಶಾಲೆ ಒಂದು ತೆರೆದಂತೆ......love you all tq
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Kudos to the director for making such a thoughtful and heartwarming movie...ultimately the men of the family need to make the mom understand not to make mountains out of molehills..if men were supporting like this in all families most of these in law issues would not surface!
vryyyg nicee lucky to hv understanding nd careing husband for a women bt its vry vrrrry difficult coz most men r selfish
in ds epi husband cn create a drama aftr listening hs mom words against hs wife bt he didnt
very nice work. but still it happens hardly in real life.
noor sajjad rightly said!
Absolutely right
ppl dont get it when it comes to the difference of daughter n daughter inlaw. this woman understand it amazingly in one sitting.
Very true:(
noor sajjad true, it doesn't happen, the husbands and mother in laws have to make it happen
This story made me cry. I really want this type of hubby in my life. beti chahe apne ghar par ho ya apne sasural me hoti to beti hna. apne sasural me bs nand ki kami ko pura krti h beti bn kr. Beti chahe khi bhi rhe karge dono parivao ka naam rosn. Jai beti power 😘😎🤚i salute those girls who made their parents feels proud of them 😎.
Lucky if a gal have such a supportive hus,,, great vdo.. Continue the same 💟
It's just forced me to say "AWESOME".
Wonderful,bohat hi jaberdust,vakaie maja aa gaya,thanks to all
Why not BOTH FAMILIES MOVE TOGETHER in a SINGLE HOME...why girls only has to move to groom's home...in ancient times MALE DOMINATED over female... it's the time to FIGHT FOR EQUALITY GIRLSSSS💪
Mahi forAchange right
Mahi forAchange mein Na apna ghar chor ka kabi be nhi jau ge pkka soch liya ha mein Na agar ladki ghar chor ka Jaa sakti ha Toh ladka be chor sakta ha 😊😂
Hahaha don't fight for equality and come down to our standards. Girls are one step ahead of men.... Always
@@mohammedraseef7442 It is not about equality, which is very broad term. men will always have more oportunities cause thay are physically stronger. What do you mean "step ahead"? Girls have it difficult, and men do not face periobs, pregnancies, they are less likely to be raped. So if men can't care for needs and feelings of wife and find compromise between his parents and wife, he should not marry at all, not to spoil woman's life.
@@bogdananedavnya2528 and yes men must understand the feelings and emotions of women (mother and wife)
Mother-in-law is also very understanding towards this with her son....wrna to joru ka gulam keh k chup krwa deti
PRIYANKA THAPAR so true
Very true- she didn't cling to her ego.
PRIYANKA THAPAR true...
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Seriously!! U r absolutely right...
I think this video should watch every indian family because every daughter in low is a daughter ☺️☺️☺️☺️
This happens only in movies not in real life..... 😕
True
true that!
Very true
Noo... its happens in real life too
So that's called short film🙃..... Reality is truely opposite of it
Such a wonderful husband....#respect
Nice plot !!!! It turned good coz husband stood up for his wife !!!! Many support their mom and believe in her blindly without seeing the other side of the story
I love the father in law. His personality is exactly like my dad’s.
wow what a husband...m literally crying while watching the film.....i know i may nt be that luckybwife.....bt i hope....kash meri life v asi ho...with a understanding husband
I cried too 😓
wish all husbndz r sweet like him
Even I cried😢
akanksha raj its so emotional....
reshmi m ypp....i wish d same
Her husband is really a hero. All credit goes to such an understanding husband and a cool fil.
This is what exactly happened with me nowdays . # newly Weds crisis 😒
2:28 vaha sabko khush rakhna.... Ye bhi bol diya hota ki khush rehna
I'm just 16 to mother in law ke baare me to comment nai kr skti.... But daughters ko daughter in law banana pata nai kyu mom's ka mission ban jaata h.... Betiya dono gharo me Betiya rha skti h... Beti or bahu ki jroort hi kyu h
Too good movie👌👌very good performance by husband.... 👍
I suppose every daughter in should get treated and loved like that 🤗
My mother-in-law is very sweet and understanding I never feel that I M in my inlaws home. Love U MAA 😘😘
May this is the story of each nd every home in this generation...but we hope that may every home have a family just like this, which accept their mistakes and rectify the same as soon...😊😊
Meri mother in law hoti to aur bhadak jaati k biwi ki side le rha h aur ghr me toofan aa jata aur phir wo apni betiyon ko phone kr k bulati aur panchayati shuru ho jaati ghr me
You should always take a stand for yourselves .
😁😁😁😁
Same thing used to happen with me
Same situation... Kiran... Meri to saas bhi nhi h nand hi kafi h
Mere ithar bhi khuch asise hi halat hai
mostly in todays lifestyle most of the people kisi k yha shadi krne se phle hi sbse first question yhi krte hain ki khana bnana aata h kya ladki ko qkii sasural wale bhuke marrhe hote hain itne saalo ..
Commenting for the first time for a short film...The exact portrayal of things happening in every household... little issues get piled up and never are they solved in most cases and it's not very frequent to find a warm relationship with the in laws....Added to it, such understanding partners are also not very frequent....a bitter truth...😶
It barely happens in real life. Although daughter in law is of their daughter's age, she is treated like someone who should know everything beforehand. Otherwise petty flaws and issues are pointed out. Her intentions are always doubted. A lot of dutifulness is expected from a new member which is unrealistic. This very irrational behavior of the in laws is creating degradation of families. But they don't realize it and aren't ready to change. There is no problem with son sleeping till 9 but daughter in law has to wake up early..else she gets criticized...No aporeciation..no consideration...is not even allowed to fall sick..else faces hostility for not being able to do household work. Mother in law is not to be blamed here. Patriarchy is the culprit. We all are victims of patriarchy.