Losing Me in Marriage Ft. Dr Umar Johnson

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @Cdlboy.214
    @Cdlboy.214 2 месяца назад +963

    We need an Umar & Bryant sit down

    • @blessings28
      @blessings28 2 месяца назад +56

      Now that would be interesting🤔

    • @Cdlboy.214
      @Cdlboy.214 2 месяца назад +11

      @ facts

    • @yangasidziya3245
      @yangasidziya3245 2 месяца назад +7

      Definitely

    • @briarob83
      @briarob83 2 месяца назад +9

      That podcast would be great

    • @83aceventura
      @83aceventura 2 месяца назад +15

      I don’t think Umar want them problems, he’d attempt to talk over her

  • @TheTreemark
    @TheTreemark 2 месяца назад +1077

    I see Dr. Umar, I click 😁

    • @candidlycrystal
      @candidlycrystal 2 месяца назад +24

      Same! Clicked and liked 😆

    • @jbdp7526
      @jbdp7526 2 месяца назад +13

      Me too

    • @czhanell
      @czhanell 2 месяца назад +24

      With no hesitation. Funny with truth and facts mixed with education

    • @therachelexchange
      @therachelexchange 2 месяца назад +5

      Yesss!!

    • @Ggurl707
      @Ggurl707 2 месяца назад +3

      Me too😊

  • @kendawgMCMXCV
    @kendawgMCMXCV 2 месяца назад +453

    Dr. Umar broke Nick down like a math equation

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 Месяц назад +5

      OooooWeeee....he broke it doooowwwn‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @robertdavenport9095
      @robertdavenport9095 Месяц назад +6

      FACTS HE"S A BEAST.

    • @rome2568
      @rome2568 Месяц назад

      @@robertdavenport9095 If by beast you mean a con artist who just talks and does nothing then yes, he is a beast!

    • @robertdavenport9095
      @robertdavenport9095 Месяц назад +3

      @@rome2568 How do you know he does nothing?

    • @rome2568
      @rome2568 Месяц назад

      @ What have you seen him accomplish?

  • @lasgidisultan
    @lasgidisultan 2 месяца назад +525

    Dr Umar fresh from a 1992 Queen Latifah video

  • @tamirajohnellestyle
    @tamirajohnellestyle 2 месяца назад +321

    Marriage and who we have kids with are ultimately the two most important decisions we will ever make. Many people take neither one seriously.

    • @BluEx22329
      @BluEx22329 2 месяца назад

      So why do so many women in our community CHOOSE/AGREE to have raw sx outside of marriage multiple times?

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot 2 месяца назад +3

      No, it's not. There's other important decisions to make because MOST of ya'll don't even make good decisions with who ya'll procreate with

    • @Southforthewinter
      @Southforthewinter 2 месяца назад +5

      It was Gods very first instructions be fruitful and multiply, and that’s why sex is such a power drug over us. Your bloodline is your beginning and your destination. Some ppl are too individualistic to ever care for such a glorious but heavy burden. They’d rather please their own flesh than obey God and honor their lineage. The ultimate expression of self love.

    • @RideorDie1987
      @RideorDie1987 Месяц назад +5

      "be fruitful and multiply" is just a religious excuse to get loose. Plus when did marriage and mating become separate agendas.. 🤔😏

    • @702rainman
      @702rainman Месяц назад +3

      ⁠@@RideorDie1987it’s not a religious excuse to get loose 😂 Especially since it’s in reference to procreation with your spouse .

  • @NomadSupreme911
    @NomadSupreme911 2 месяца назад +536

    Anyone: "What time is it nick?"
    Nick: "Well what I'll say about that is that we're all on a different type of time, and my understanding of how clocks work may not necessarily coincide with the societal norms in regards to how clocks work. Furthermore, Einstein propositioned that time may actually be an illusion created by consciousness to help us interpret the relationship between various events and phenomenon."

  • @BlackNewsMonday
    @BlackNewsMonday 2 месяца назад +182

    Doc just defined the difference between love and care. This is some counseling

  • @janinehopkins2396
    @janinehopkins2396 2 месяца назад +139

    Whew chile Nick rambled on for 6 mins & I have no idea what he was talking about. Much respect to therapists who do this work & the patience required.

    • @PeaceandFlylife
      @PeaceandFlylife 2 месяца назад +3

      Right

    • @Venomous_471
      @Venomous_471 2 месяца назад +1

      This is why I can never completely watch his shows

    • @kokodavirgo
      @kokodavirgo Месяц назад +5

      I thought I was having a stroke.

    • @saetae9208
      @saetae9208 Месяц назад

      What😂😂​@@kokodavirgo

    • @bentonbryant8207
      @bentonbryant8207 Месяц назад +1

      I noticed how Dr. UMAR listened the entire time. A PROFESSIONAL

  • @TheRealPopiSlim
    @TheRealPopiSlim 2 месяца назад +144

    This man is a genius. Sometimes I hate to admit it because of all of the viral moments but he be preaching truth that NOBODY speaks on

    • @rome2568
      @rome2568 Месяц назад +2

      @@TheRealPopiSlim Plenty people talk about the same thing. Tell us what he does himself other than talk please!

    • @iamkingdom4277
      @iamkingdom4277 Месяц назад +1

      Definitely more people talk about it just most people only listen to celebrities and don’t take wisdom where ever it comes. Wisdom comes from error and abundance

  • @BiggWes1911
    @BiggWes1911 2 месяца назад +103

    The more Dr. Umar points and breaks Nick down, the more Nick slumps in his chair. Lol Nick is almost laying on the floor when he was asking “are you emotionally available “. Lol. Hilarious

    • @jessicaball8959
      @jessicaball8959 Месяц назад +4

      @@BiggWes1911 LMAOOOO yoooo I didn't notice that 🤣🤣

    • @BBOUNDCO
      @BBOUNDCO Месяц назад +5

      Best comment… I’m hollering 😂

    • @briarob83
      @briarob83 Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂melting

    • @TheFitTechGuy
      @TheFitTechGuy Месяц назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @spiritualbridger
      @spiritualbridger Месяц назад +2

      And the fact he was already slumped at the beginning 😂😂😂

  • @dreecey88
    @dreecey88 2 месяца назад +286

    Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar need to have a conversation! It would be 🔥

    • @rick3y0
      @rick3y0 2 месяца назад +16

      No umar and Candace Owens would be fire!!!!!

    • @chrissyECee
      @chrissyECee 2 месяца назад +3

      I’m here for it

    • @GeraldCampbell-dt8pd
      @GeraldCampbell-dt8pd 2 месяца назад

      ⁠@@rick3y0Candace Owens is not smart enough to talk with Dr Umar.

    • @Ghanaquankel2776
      @Ghanaquankel2776 2 месяца назад +9

      Dr. Umar and Candace would not be interesting
      They have more in common than most people think.
      Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar would be interesting. ​@@rick3y0

    • @rick3y0
      @rick3y0 2 месяца назад

      @ I beg to differ

  • @zibanegp
    @zibanegp 2 месяца назад +132

    I don’t agree with many of Nick Cannon’s views and values. However, it takes a lot of humility to allow people to speak into your life so openly, and I respect him for that. Additionally, he engages in conversations with his guests rather than talking at them, which is quite rare these days.

    • @jamaicadiaspora6642
      @jamaicadiaspora6642 2 месяца назад +8

      Agreed. I have to respect him for that 👏🏽

    • @87Lohan
      @87Lohan Месяц назад +5

      Agreed I feel he’s trying to heal he’s just a wounded soul.

    • @mannymula1114
      @mannymula1114 14 дней назад

      He wants to heal I think he gonna chill on the sperm rampage 😂

  • @beautifullbrownskin1
    @beautifullbrownskin1 2 месяца назад +154

    Who in the hell wants to raise a child alone. Having children is a big responsibility, and no one wants to raise a child alone. I don't blame Dr. Bryant for not having children as a single woman. Good for her.

    • @LM-he7eb
      @LM-he7eb 2 месяца назад +34

      Riiiight 🤣🤣🤣They want her to be a single mom. So they can shame her😅😅😅

    • @bohobabie5987
      @bohobabie5987 2 месяца назад +16

      @@LM-he7ebthat’s some cold diabolical work and the fact that they don’t realize it craziness

    • @septemberjanuary4636
      @septemberjanuary4636 2 месяца назад +20

      RIght! And he understands why she isn't married but can't understand why she doesn't have kids!!! Kids are bigger commitment! So why is he confused?

    • @KingJames-dv5pj
      @KingJames-dv5pj 2 месяца назад +13

      @@beautifullbrownskin1 crazy. Shows how we've normalized dysfunction

    • @KingJames-dv5pj
      @KingJames-dv5pj 2 месяца назад +18

      @@beautifullbrownskin1 when I was single in my late twenties with no kids I'd meet women and they'd asked me what's wrong because I don't have kids. My rebuttal was what's wrong with you to think it's normal to have kids outside of a family structure. I grew up without a father. I know what it's like to not have the other half of my DNA to speak life and guide me especially being a fatherless male. I had to learn from the streets what a man is and thank God I had a praying mother. That could've went very bad

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 2 месяца назад +139

    Nick sitting posture tells it all 😮

    • @shennillebrown7626
      @shennillebrown7626 2 месяца назад +9

      I thought so too

    • @nicolejames3054
      @nicolejames3054 2 месяца назад +11

      Facts , he know Dr read him like a book! He need it and like it secretly🤷🏾‍♀️he wants healing!

    • @thecrow4597
      @thecrow4597 2 месяца назад +23

      This is how I sat when I was 15 and going through a rough rebellious phase. This dude is like 45.

    • @wendyleequietstorm4671
      @wendyleequietstorm4671 2 месяца назад +11

      Thank you for saying this. No 41 year old should be sitting like this - especially during an interview.

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 2 месяца назад +1

      @ LEAD BY EXAMPLE

  • @lhall2278
    @lhall2278 2 месяца назад +351

    Why does Nick and Cam try hard to sound intellectual when expressing their disconnect with normal functional family structure, while at the same time deflecting from their dysfunctional lifestyles and mental states.

    • @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv
      @ThandiThelmaNjibane-gb1kv 2 месяца назад +45

      Fear, he's doing it unconsciously, he lacks the awareness of the whole, so by laws and principles of the universe he is bound to act in that manner until he is awakened to his full true self and potential of being, until then, this is what you can expect and which is pure and natural in its own way too.

    • @ForeignFlexTv
      @ForeignFlexTv 2 месяца назад +3

      Perspectives

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant 2 месяца назад +2

      Facts

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh 2 месяца назад +22

      A whole bunch of word salad

    • @quilabill
      @quilabill 2 месяца назад +16

      I’d guess say ego protection- no one likes to be told that their mistakes are rooted in their ideology (that’s where their self worth and esteem live) - he’s like a cracking shell and I’m excited to see how God will bless Cannon - he’s seeking truth he just has to keep humility in mind despite shame

  • @marylee7460
    @marylee7460 2 месяца назад +226

    I do like that Nick is transparent….He likes to seek counsel from the wise, and that makes him wise.

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant 2 месяца назад +38

      He don’t be listening to nothing that they saying . Nick has and never will change, lol

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh 2 месяца назад +27

      That’s the problem u seek counsel and don’t apply it what the hell is the point ?? Ego and views that’s it he knows what he’s doing

    • @beammeupscottyny
      @beammeupscottyny 2 месяца назад +10

      He’s just exploiting dr umar at this point, he doesn’t listen to a THING he says.

    • @adavis3215
      @adavis3215 2 месяца назад

      Umar isn’t a clinical psychologist. He makes up lofty job titles & accomplishments for himself all the time.

    • @getmoneychill6462
      @getmoneychill6462 2 месяца назад +5

      Nicky just be talking & saying the right things so he doesn’t get cancelled

  • @KidGrinch
    @KidGrinch 2 месяца назад +47

    Dr. Omar should really be the one interviewing celebrities etc. it would be amazing!!!

  • @catherinew835
    @catherinew835 2 месяца назад +94

    Mr. Cannon the way you choose to deflect certain points in the conversation when you do not agree with them is fascinating to watch you really listen with the ear more on the defensive side than being open and receptive but good conversation overall

    • @UnLisable
      @UnLisable 2 месяца назад +2

      Heavy On That!!!!!

    • @johnnyweeks3669
      @johnnyweeks3669 2 месяца назад +2

      Deflection at a all time high

  • @J2tha12
    @J2tha12 2 месяца назад +44

    To love the king is not bad, but a king who loves you is better.

  • @genardrapugh8113
    @genardrapugh8113 2 месяца назад +79

    I see quality in what Dr. Umar and Dr. Bryant have theorized. One consistent thing Nick is going to do every-time is deflect and avoid. Hints: Love Languages don’t equate emotional availability. The only thing he admitted was his trauma response being to flee and its evident.

    • @MISSDAJAVU22
      @MISSDAJAVU22 2 месяца назад +3

      Bingo!

    • @sayiddahbey4718
      @sayiddahbey4718 2 месяца назад +1

      I couldn’t agree more 🎯

    • @marydenisesimon7929
      @marydenisesimon7929 2 месяца назад +4

      We must give people time and grace to openly admit and expose themselves on personal and emotional issues as they so choose!!!! I think Nick has and is doing a GREAT JOB sharing and openly talking about his personal life and emotions 🤷🏽‍♀️most could not and WILL NOT open up in private let alone to their own SELFS 🙄 and definitely not on such a public platform 🧐

  • @IAmBrooklynGizMoe
    @IAmBrooklynGizMoe 2 месяца назад +148

    Tyrese need to sit down with dr umar

    • @2007enthusiast
      @2007enthusiast 2 месяца назад +11

      Tyrese seems as though he would do a genuine deep dive in exposure therapy with Dr. Umar as opposed to Nick who deflects and lacks self-awareness

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot 2 месяца назад

      Tyrese needs to sit down with a psychiatrist in a psych ward

    • @westerwester3273
      @westerwester3273 Месяц назад

      Reall

    • @blackroc01
      @blackroc01 Месяц назад +5

      Tyrese would start CRYIN!!

    • @jessyp7939
      @jessyp7939 Месяц назад +2

      Tyrese not ready and I don’t wanna see him cry no mo lol but he def needs to sit down

  • @aleyastorm
    @aleyastorm 2 месяца назад +37

    I enjoyed this conversation.. i hope there is a part 2. Dr Umar held Nick accountable but made the conversation flow smoothly with understanding

  • @KandiClarkHavvard
    @KandiClarkHavvard 2 месяца назад +89

    THIS WAS SUCH A GREAT INTERVIEW!!!!!! I just LOVE BLACK MEN DOING THE WORK WITH RESPECT!!!!!!

    • @dariansanders679
      @dariansanders679 2 месяца назад +2

      And black men love you beautiful

    • @Eziopct
      @Eziopct 2 месяца назад +1

      @@dariansanders679 Indeed we do!

    • @reeree3641
      @reeree3641 2 месяца назад

      It’s a ruse. I do not believe Mr Cannon has any intention of doing anything different than what he continues to do over and over again. However, no judgements. I also believe overall that’s he’s a good dude with the best of intentions that just don’t land according to societal norms.
      Now, kids will be fine. All they really need to survive is food, shelter and physical safety. What may lack with this non traditional familial lifestyle is emotional safety, guaranteeing potentially unhealthy concerns and outcomes for the children.

    • @coreymartin5515
      @coreymartin5515 2 месяца назад

      Big Up!!!

  • @ckorpah4163
    @ckorpah4163 2 месяца назад +37

    Dr. Umar was on point with his diagnosis

    • @elaine21bok
      @elaine21bok 2 месяца назад +2

      He sure was in my non professional opinion 😊

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom 2 месяца назад +1

      Especially with his diagnosis of Dr bryant.

  • @godivabaker6622
    @godivabaker6622 2 месяца назад +34

    One thing about Nick Cannon is as much as he tries to not prove that he is corny, it makes him look even cornier. He comes off as a pseudo intellectual by using word salad, over explaining and bringing up books to provide he’s well read. it doesn’t take all of that to answer a question. I’m happy Dr. Umar pressed him on some of these questions, even though he deflected so many times.

    • @tracywilliams7293
      @tracywilliams7293 2 месяца назад +5

      Damn You took the words right out of my head... He's such a word salad expert And deflector, I always thought he tries too hard to seem so intellectual, But it's just a bunch of mumbo jumbo... I get a headache listening to him... Could you just imagine trying to have a conversation With this guy.. He truly is an unapologetic proud narcissist🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @empress6868
    @empress6868 2 месяца назад +83

    Dr. Umar’s face at the 12:57 min mark tells me he know this ninja dancin around the topic😂😂😂

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh 2 месяца назад +4

      😂😂😂

    • @RawDogTV
      @RawDogTV 2 месяца назад +7

      Facts

    • @robbin1619
      @robbin1619 2 месяца назад

      🤔😂🤣

    • @davinbrown24
      @davinbrown24 Месяц назад

      Hilarious 😂😂😂

    • @davinbrown24
      @davinbrown24 Месяц назад

      Nick talked for 7 minutes trying to intellectually say “aye fam I ain’t low functioning” 😂😂😂

  • @prhphone3259
    @prhphone3259 2 месяца назад +105

    Two quick points: 1. Nick, you can’t be emotionally available to so many women at the same time. It’s just not possible. 2. If you don’t want marriage, that’s absolutely fine. Just stop bringing children into these situations. It’s the broken homes that are the problem in which the children will have to bear the brunt of the negative consequences of your actions.

    • @LazarusRising
      @LazarusRising 2 месяца назад +2

      Both points aren’t very sound opinions lol

    • @kharijohnson1716
      @kharijohnson1716 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@LazarusRisingin ur opinion lol

    • @tjinks7530
      @tjinks7530 2 месяца назад

      Wait what

    • @BoujeeBlackipina
      @BoujeeBlackipina 2 месяца назад

      ​@@tjinks7530Stop creating broken homes. Simple

    • @3fitspiritmindbody812
      @3fitspiritmindbody812 2 месяца назад +3

      The same as we are emotionally available for multiple family members and friends, Nick can be to his constituents.

  • @kala9907
    @kala9907 2 месяца назад +51

    Just like Actors on Actors interviews, we need therapists on therapists interviews. Dr. Bryant and Dr. Umar.

  • @IntuitiveReadingByPriscilla
    @IntuitiveReadingByPriscilla 2 месяца назад +25

    BRILLIANT CONVERSATION WE NEED THESE TYPES OF REAL CONVERSATIONS IN OUR COMMUNITY….

  • @marleenjones1877
    @marleenjones1877 2 месяца назад +25

    Look, I said this before.... I give Nick my 10000 % respect for this platform... For being allowed to b the teachable moment for humanity... To sit in front of the world to do this type of truth telling is not for PUNKS!!! It takes courage on a level few of us dare to explore within ourselves....(POWERFUL).. Much respect for Dr. Umar also. I loved this episode.... ❤

    • @partyppl7904
      @partyppl7904 2 месяца назад +1

      But Nick continues to operate dysfunctionally

    • @marleenjones1877
      @marleenjones1877 2 месяца назад +6

      The work is a process, not a magic pill. I give him credit for even allowing his " dysfunction." As you say it, to be put on display so the professional can show you the process of what it looks like to go in & do the deep dive to help u discover why you move the way u do.. That is what I find so powerful because not everyone has the courage to do the work even in private yet alone publicly...If nothing else, it might inspire someone to do their own work.. And it's OK not to be OK.

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot 2 месяца назад

      Girl, get off your knees😂 nick isn't learning a damn thing

  • @patreeves4015
    @patreeves4015 2 месяца назад +30

    And the answer is? YES!!!!! Nick we already know Precious and been knew.

  • @managertfw2623
    @managertfw2623 2 месяца назад +60

    Nick please let your guest talk more please.

    • @tysmith9255
      @tysmith9255 2 месяца назад +2

      Agreed Jesus get on with her questioning.

    • @tysmith9255
      @tysmith9255 2 месяца назад +2

      The questioning

    • @2007enthusiast
      @2007enthusiast 2 месяца назад +3

      He is so irritating with too much verbosity out here sounding like TI

    • @sedi2066
      @sedi2066 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@2007enthusiast😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @vick_e_secrets
    @vick_e_secrets 2 месяца назад +14

    Doc…..been rockin' with you since 2014. These type of conversations are much needed.

    • @juliap5457
      @juliap5457 16 дней назад

      2010 for me. He’s a international treasure 🥹

  • @chynahudson2286
    @chynahudson2286 Месяц назад +2

    Most of Dr. Umar’s interviews makes me reflect on my own life and past experiences. I love hearing him speak.

  • @RoycesRant
    @RoycesRant 2 месяца назад +47

    Nick Cannon don’t want to be healed or anything. I’d rather him just keep it all the way 100 about how he wants to live his lifestyle.

    • @johnnyweeks3669
      @johnnyweeks3669 2 месяца назад +4

      BINGO

    • @Teyfxn
      @Teyfxn Месяц назад

      He has, people just wont let him live. They want so badly for him to have a problem when he doesnt seem to have issues with his circumstances.

  • @nicolejames3054
    @nicolejames3054 2 месяца назад +18

    Doc cooked like it was Thanksgiving!🎯🎯💯

  • @josedelva9494
    @josedelva9494 2 месяца назад +10

    Quality time will never be enough, because you have too many people who needs it. You don’t have enough for yourself, let alone the families that you created

  • @dontefromtheroc
    @dontefromtheroc 2 месяца назад +22

    That boy nick just be rambling

    • @thecrow4597
      @thecrow4597 2 месяца назад +1

      That’s what happens when your entire career and life is constant lying

  • @Legacy_by_Quintaria
    @Legacy_by_Quintaria 2 месяца назад +11

    I loved this episode and I love these two together!! Can't wait for part 2.

  • @OhhYouu..MICHELLE
    @OhhYouu..MICHELLE 2 месяца назад +9

    I love when you two fellowship! Nick I sense your progress! Keep healing!🌹

  • @czhanell
    @czhanell 2 месяца назад +46

    Even the therapist need therapy. You hit it Dr Umar. Much to assess and think about from this episode. We need more healthy conversations like this

    • @kluv5052
      @kluv5052 2 месяца назад +3

      Made me think of the Tyler Perry movie "Why did I get married too" where dude is getting a divorce from Janet Jackson (a famous marriage counselor) and he tells his friends the worse thing about being married to a therapist, is they think they know everything.

    • @kluv5052
      @kluv5052 2 месяца назад

      ruclips.net/video/X2Nf7Ec81Z0/видео.htmlsi=qkDkOPXo-zQZBARs

    • @speaktruthpeace1612
      @speaktruthpeace1612 2 месяца назад

      Yes indeed

  • @viv5709
    @viv5709 2 месяца назад +69

    This man is still in love with Mariah 🥹

    • @shawnbailey2300
      @shawnbailey2300 2 месяца назад +17

      I don’t think he’s in love with Mariah, he’s in love with what Mariah represents their celebrity commonalities.

    • @CatEyeGem
      @CatEyeGem 2 месяца назад +6

      @@shawnbailey2300A Bit of both

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh 2 месяца назад +7

      And she doesn't want anything to do with him..

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh 2 месяца назад +8

      ​@@shawnbailey2300Mariah said she doesn't believe he ever got to know or love her as a person because he couldn't get past her name.

    • @RemeePooh
      @RemeePooh 2 месяца назад

      ​@@CatEyeGemnope. Even Mariah didn't believe he ever truly loved her beyond her name.

  • @Tone410
    @Tone410 2 месяца назад +8

    The word salad on the emotional availability question was funny 😂

  • @Southern_Bombshell
    @Southern_Bombshell 7 дней назад

    No one can make me hate Nick; his transparency and hunger for healing is truly astounding ❤

  • @trainwithme7152
    @trainwithme7152 2 месяца назад +29

    Cam newton and nick be tossing words around to aound smart.

    • @jojo5286
      @jojo5286 Месяц назад +3

      It’s unbelievable how he talks for 4 minutes and then says it’s leading up to a question 😂😂 just say the question! Pleaseeee

  • @troyjohnson7656
    @troyjohnson7656 2 месяца назад +7

    An Umar and Bryant interview or podcast would be magical !

  • @grayspace5638
    @grayspace5638 2 месяца назад +3

    This was actually very good. One thing I’ll say is that regardless of how people feel about Dr. Umar, he commands a certain level of respect (sexually from other men) that really creates space for thoughtful and impactful dialogue. I appreciated that the most here!

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 2 месяца назад +8

    Great talk Nick! Thanks for being vulnerable I know it’s not easy!

  • @Channel_Quame
    @Channel_Quame 2 месяца назад +8

    This was good. Lol more of this. Dr Umar and Nick need a series lol.

  • @labs2454
    @labs2454 2 месяца назад +11

    Posture speaks volumes about character..

  • @donnascott1654
    @donnascott1654 2 месяца назад +23

    Yes, Nick 😅. It’s a big fat yes.

  • @Prospek23
    @Prospek23 2 месяца назад +7

    One major issue is that we have is two Doctors with no marriage experience who both don't self identify as christians, talking about faith based marriages. I'm not even going delve into their credentials because the PHD's I know of would rather play in traffic than to kill their ability to practice by talking to celebrities so openly on social media platforms.

  • @di5stargeneral
    @di5stargeneral 2 месяца назад +82

    GET TO THE POINT NICK…. You be talking long to ask the question..jeeze…weaving

    • @qindatrap8098
      @qindatrap8098 2 месяца назад +5

      Facts

    • @managertfw2623
      @managertfw2623 2 месяца назад +7

      Yes he never let his guest speak 🗣️

    • @RoycesRant
      @RoycesRant 2 месяца назад +3

      This show is for him and not his guest, lol

    • @johnnyweeks3669
      @johnnyweeks3669 2 месяца назад +1

      Bobbing and weaving 😂😂

  • @everystrandisnumbered5162
    @everystrandisnumbered5162 2 месяца назад +2

    I Love Me Some Dr.Umar!!! Respectful, Honorable Black Man!! King!! Nick, We Love You To! I Pray You Continue To Grow, Heal, And Learn! King!!!

  • @NickMintz
    @NickMintz 2 месяца назад +95

    We need an Umar and Candace Owens sit down

    • @LadyK007
      @LadyK007 2 месяца назад +10

      Yes!!!!!

    • @SergMilli
      @SergMilli 2 месяца назад +5

      Oh man yes!

    • @Ade683
      @Ade683 2 месяца назад +5

      Yesterday!!

    • @clife737
      @clife737 2 месяца назад +6

      They will get in a fist fight lol

    • @adavis3215
      @adavis3215 2 месяца назад

      Candace isn’t a demure Umar bootlicker. The minute she contest him or points out faults in his logic he’ll come unglued.

  • @bloomMajor
    @bloomMajor 2 месяца назад +6

    Man Nick, you the truth for this podcast.

  • @beehive2066
    @beehive2066 2 месяца назад +13

    I can watch these all day. So informative

  • @SoulDisposition
    @SoulDisposition Месяц назад +1

    This counseling session was real. I’m glad this channel was suggested. Subscribed This is me in counseling, I start explaining deflecting and over talking knowing full well the therapist is reading my soul! lol!

  • @blessings28
    @blessings28 2 месяца назад +5

    This was really good. I enjoyed the reflective conversation and vulnerability shown.

  • @Magnificent-qr4rn
    @Magnificent-qr4rn Месяц назад +1

    Umar is a real Dr. Of mental health... He just explained very elegantly 70 to 80% of women in America on how they think and view relationship and how Nick chooses women....and that's Factual 💯

  • @joshuapatterson7183
    @joshuapatterson7183 2 месяца назад +28

    The fact that people are still talking about Dr. Cheyenne Bryant's interview just goes to show she struck a nerve somewhere amongst the male masses. Brothers, will we humble ourselves and conduct honest reflection inspired by her feedback, or will we blindly assault her character and that of women in general? Not challenging y'all to agree with her, just challenging you to think.

    • @shantalbarbot5801
      @shantalbarbot5801 2 месяца назад +2

      Love this respectful response ❤️💯

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom 2 месяца назад

      Shes a bussdown.

    • @shanellejimenez6051
      @shanellejimenez6051 2 месяца назад +3

      I think because our culture is not fully ready to have these conversations they take it more as an attack, vs looking to help us as a culture.

    • @blissdad13
      @blissdad13 2 месяца назад

      shes A CON ARTIST A LIAR AND A FRAUD.. we have no issue going to a legitimate doctor.. she is not that...

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm Definitely looking forward to the next session with him.
    But I respect Nick for knowing and understanding these stuff, and not getting married Just To Get Married.

  • @teneshablackmon
    @teneshablackmon 2 месяца назад +8

    So good to see in real time. Thanks for being open fellows.

  • @optimisticstance9206
    @optimisticstance9206 2 месяца назад +3

    I felt these questions in my soul!!!! When you have the education (more degrees that a thermometer 🙋🏽‍♀️) AND you a todo the inner work…. You’re a walking talking magical elixir!!! IYKYK! 😮‍💨❤️
    Well done sir!!!! 👏🏽

  • @changetocome100
    @changetocome100 2 месяца назад +15

    Dr Umar needs to put himself in the same category he is putting Nick and Cam in.

    • @_kaeyos
      @_kaeyos 2 месяца назад +1

      Hmmmmm this is a great observation that I thought as well

    • @ilikepickles9568
      @ilikepickles9568 Месяц назад +1

      Absolutely, spot on!!!!

  • @P_Family24
    @P_Family24 2 месяца назад +8

    I 💜 the love these 2 brothers have for each other! Dr. Umar never miss! (I Love him) I can’t wait for our sit down. I know it will be in the near future. We appreciate your vulnerability brother Nick!

  • @jacquelinewilliams2349
    @jacquelinewilliams2349 2 месяца назад +14

    Difference between Dr. Umar and Nick is the community mindset.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 2 месяца назад +2

      The biggest difference is one is an unemployed grifter and the other actually has a career.

  • @nikkilove6128
    @nikkilove6128 2 месяца назад +3

    Mmm that point on love and care not being the same by Dr Umar is so on point💯💯💯

  • @Insanely__Gorgeous
    @Insanely__Gorgeous 2 месяца назад +11

    Dr.Umar is absolutely brilliant and I am truly a huge supporter of him, HOWEVER, with the level of intellect once someone shares their spiritual belief as a tenured psychologist you can NO longer take an approach that is not catered to the belief system. You cause confusion in diagnosing or in the healing process because it doesn’t match your own beliefs. You can not tell a Christian man that he is a serial monogamous and slight insult that because your belief is polygamy. But in reality he desires monogamy but acting in polygamy out of insecurity.
    Really good this episode

    • @tshepangharrison2021
      @tshepangharrison2021 2 месяца назад +1

      Good observation, you 100% correct

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 2 месяца назад

      You are
      ABSOLUTELY DELUSIONAL

  • @cochrancochran66
    @cochrancochran66 2 месяца назад +1

    PTSD… yes a lot of people experience this… I have a greater respect for Nick… his transparency. Can’t wait for part 2!

  • @JonathanJonesSpeaks
    @JonathanJonesSpeaks 2 месяца назад +86

    Dr. Umar for president 2024‼️‼️

    • @whyworkwhenicanrap6830
      @whyworkwhenicanrap6830 2 месяца назад +5

      They would never allow it but I would love it

    • @SnowmanSess-ds9zx
      @SnowmanSess-ds9zx 2 месяца назад +4

      Not gonna happen ever... America would turn into Wakanda if he's ever made the president 😂

    • @AkiraYuki5150
      @AkiraYuki5150 2 месяца назад +5

      Too many scams in his ledger for him to last more than 2 mins in politics.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 2 месяца назад

      You belong in a padded room and a straight jacket.

    • @partyppl7904
      @partyppl7904 2 месяца назад +2

      I'm for black empowerment, growth and progress specifically in leadership, but not Umar for president

  • @roditzme3013
    @roditzme3013 2 месяца назад

    Dr Umar did a great job in bringing truth to the surface. This is good for men to see.

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 2 месяца назад +12

    Honestly, Nick Cannon was just offended and did not want to hear it from a Black woman. Dr. Umar is not in disagreement with what Dr. Bryant said! Nick just has a problem with being held accountable by a woman which is why is relationships don’t work out. He literally just described what Dr. Bryant said! Notice how Nick isn’t being disrespectful cutting him off and actually open to listening?

    • @Dr.Beetlejuice110
      @Dr.Beetlejuice110 2 месяца назад

      Could it be though that it's the first time he saw a doctor and that's what they said and then got a second opinion and realized that it must be true? Does it really have to do with a woman or just that he disagreed with a medical diagnosis and got a second opinion and it was the same and it was time to accept it. Also, Dr. Umar also diagnosed Dr. Bryant as well and affirmed what they were saying about her too. Where's the agreement from Dr. Bryant there?

    • @adelestears8298
      @adelestears8298 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Dr.Beetlejuice110What, the first time????😂 Nick has said many times over the years that he's been in therapy. He has had many doctors. Not only is he in therapy by himself, but many of his baby mamas have said they've been to therapy with him 😂😂😂😂 can you believe that. Nick just want to hear himself talk but doesn't want to apply what he's learned and yes he felt some type of way that he black woman doctor held him accountable.

  • @deangeloparker2974
    @deangeloparker2974 2 месяца назад +1

    Dr. Umar X on the set . Much blessings brother for u and urs . Same to Sir Canon. Glad these conversations can be listened to.

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 2 месяца назад +17

    Nick cannon just can’t admit he’s emotionally unavailable. Sending flowers and stuff is not romance or being a hopeless romantic. It’s all superficial. He likes the love bombing and chasing but not the actual reciprocity of emotional vulnerability. He keeps trying to intellectualize the question. Answer the question!

  • @sanikiemaake2128
    @sanikiemaake2128 Месяц назад +1

    Respect for Nick

  • @thecrow4597
    @thecrow4597 2 месяца назад +3

    Self sacrifice is a necessary component of Love. Nick is promoting a false love. A self love

  • @DrMargaretSatyaRose
    @DrMargaretSatyaRose 2 месяца назад +1

    This was amazing! Love you both. Well done Dr. Umar

  • @GoldnSt8_Grizzly
    @GoldnSt8_Grizzly 2 месяца назад +5

    Nick was fighting for his life in there 😂 31:21

  • @the_nightingale1111
    @the_nightingale1111 2 месяца назад +5

    🎯 That discernment hits different.

  • @kellylewis1841
    @kellylewis1841 2 месяца назад +20

    So Nick wants to be told how great he is & to be physically touched. That’s today’s Man.

  • @Lord_Tien
    @Lord_Tien 2 месяца назад +3

    Brilliant! 😂🔥Dr Umar need his own show

  • @partyppl7904
    @partyppl7904 2 месяца назад +11

    For Umar to draw his own conclusions with no facts on why Dr. Bryant didn't follow through on her engagements is WILD. AND so because she's beautiful at 41 something wrong with her because she don't have kids? Perhaps she didn't allow herself to get impregnated without being married.

    • @KatsukoNikki27
      @KatsukoNikki27 2 месяца назад +4

      Exactly! Dr. Umar lost me on that part 😒. Dr. Bryant being 41 beautiful and not out here being irresponsible by having a gang of children automatically makes her the Damn PRIZE to me! She definitely makes smart decisions! Dr. Umar is wild for his comments on her smh

    • @shanellejimenez6051
      @shanellejimenez6051 2 месяца назад +2

      I agree! I don't think he listened to her whole interview with Cam b/c the way he described what she was saying...she did not say that at all. In other words he is saying it's a problem that she did not settle and and he considers it running and wanting to control a situation or a younger man.

  • @theronjackson7526
    @theronjackson7526 2 месяца назад +4

    best one of nick and doc this one was perfect. we love you and appreciate you. thank you

  • @Seegoatlove
    @Seegoatlove Месяц назад

    I love we as black people having these open and honest convos without getting mad. Dr umar is the best person for this convo. Nick, I feel my ways about you , but I’m happy you’re trying to learn and unlearn certain behaviors. Good luck to you on this journey

  • @christlivsinme
    @christlivsinme 2 месяца назад +4

    Nick i pray that you get emotional healing . You can't give what you dont have.

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom 2 месяца назад

      Hes just fine. This is content. Thisbis for yall. Not for him

  • @katrinatennant7520
    @katrinatennant7520 Месяц назад +1

    All that I can say after watching this is, THANK YOU DR. BRYANT!! 34:00 shows EXACTLY what she was pointing out. He is so fixated on the terms “High/low value; High/low functioning”, yet explained scenarios in his life where he fits the description PERFECTLY. Smh

  • @pan-africanisms
    @pan-africanisms 2 месяца назад +36

    Thanks For All The Love and Support Brothers and Sistas. Peace and Pan-Africanism

    • @J2tha12
      @J2tha12 2 месяца назад +2

      The laborer is always in the sun; the landowner is always in the shade.

    • @Katile-n9b
      @Katile-n9b 2 месяца назад

      I wish he would have asked why dr Umar isn’t married and had two beautiful children outside the construct of marriage? He asked but didn’t let the dr answer.

    • @Jophlo78
      @Jophlo78 2 месяца назад

      Peace,
      Scams,
      Trash
      &
      Division.
      ~Ifakewnday

  • @jayjordan833
    @jayjordan833 29 дней назад

    Dr Umar did good holding Nick Accountable

  • @cjsoywaxcandles
    @cjsoywaxcandles 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank You Dr Umar…. We all have known this and known this for many in the community… The craving of the ex and careless afterwards… Can’t wait to hear the next!

  • @kingtynes1133
    @kingtynes1133 Месяц назад

    I love these type of conversations. Black men we have to work on ourselves first!

  • @BlackDiasporaFamily
    @BlackDiasporaFamily 2 месяца назад +5

    This was a much needed video for the black communitah! Well done counseling session Dr Umar and brotha Nick. 👍🏾👏🏾

  • @shawneelawrence4229
    @shawneelawrence4229 2 месяца назад +1

    Definitely loved this interview!!Nick thank you for being vulnerable ❤❤❤

  • @krestal0
    @krestal0 2 месяца назад +16

    There are tons of benefits of marriage, especially for men. To have a life partner is priceless. To have a home in your parnter. To have someone to grow with. To have someone who knows you inside and out and the exploration that goes into your person can be exciting. Not having the time, energy and money to put into one person is a crazy thing to say because your partner enhances you. When you have kids you invest your time, energy and money into them. SO having tons of kids with different women drains you of that. A partner should enhance you instead of draining you.
    A lot of yall need to just say yall dont like/respect women enough to be with them. Its intellectually dishonest and irresponsible to recycle these speaking points that dont make sense

  • @aprilshowers3331
    @aprilshowers3331 Месяц назад

    Dr. Umar is so talented and so valuable for our community

  • @jesschas5003
    @jesschas5003 2 месяца назад +7

    I need next episode, QUICK LIKE. 😂

  • @TherealMotopsycho
    @TherealMotopsycho 2 месяца назад

    Bring the next episode I'm not full yet I'm still eating. Nick appreciate you for being open to having your stuff out here like this. Your self reflection is allowing me personal growth.
    Thanks brothers ✊🏾

  • @lounisepierre2080
    @lounisepierre2080 2 месяца назад +9

    His point is that because he has money he doesn’t need emotions

  • @InuqiSevonne
    @InuqiSevonne Месяц назад +1

    Dr. Umar backed him in a corner, i love it! i hope hes able to come with his heart and be honest that he may still want his wife back but realizes that it will never happen because of the traumatic wall she and him put up to protect themselves. in a perfect world i can see them getting back together under a new light and it would be a celebration.

  • @Missbreeadams
    @Missbreeadams 2 месяца назад +16

    18:27 I’m not a therapist and I peeped that about Dr. Bryant in the Cam interview. She has rejection and abandonment issues. When she had a good man she self sabotaged to prevent abandonment.

    • @Mynameshelenbtw
      @Mynameshelenbtw 2 месяца назад +4

      You dont know if those men were good. They were attracted to her, who knows? The narrative that they were good and involves with her is you guessing. They may also have their own issues preventing them from being so.

    • @BoujeeBlackipina
      @BoujeeBlackipina 2 месяца назад

      you sound like a fool and you should be ashamed of yourself for agreeing with what he said about that lady. He's basically bashing her for not being a baby momma

    • @Far7rom
      @Far7rom 2 месяца назад +1

      She has a whole bunch of issues.

    • @Missbreeadams
      @Missbreeadams 2 месяца назад

      @@Mynameshelenbtw She said in an interview they were good. She even said she told one how to handle her when she would go off the rails.

    • @shanellejimenez6051
      @shanellejimenez6051 2 месяца назад +1

      I don't understand how you all hold on to that part, but ignore what else she said. She said she was low functioning at that time. She was in her 20's. She is in her 40's now. NOW she is self aware and she isn't going to settle just to have a "title". We can't just pick statements she made and not hear the descriptive story of what she said. The thing is most people may only listen to 1 or 2 interviews from her, however if you listen to her she states the exact same thing...People just look to pick at what she says b/c they feel attacked or can't handle what she says.