LEXI ALLEN Married The Wrong Man Out of Loneliness | How Do You Deal With Loneliness? | EP. 814

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @praizeyah
    @praizeyah 9 месяцев назад +748

    Lexi is NUTS! She's not supposed to be this funny talking about grief!😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tech2impact2wealth
      @tech2impact2wealth 8 месяцев назад +8

      Like for real 😂😂😂😂 JOY RAIDATES OFF OF HER ❤❤❤

    • @giiemm2633
      @giiemm2633 8 месяцев назад

      Im crying tears laughing

    • @EmpressQueenB
      @EmpressQueenB 8 месяцев назад +3

      I had to pause the video because I just can't

    • @EmpressQueenB
      @EmpressQueenB 8 месяцев назад +7

      #MikesPlace

    • @sonyawimpye4464
      @sonyawimpye4464 8 месяцев назад

      HILARIOUS!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Why??!!!!🤣🤣🤣.

  • @sarahjackson1897
    @sarahjackson1897 8 месяцев назад +207

    There is nothing more lonely than being with someone who isn't in love with you. Men and women please let the Lord orchestrate the relationship He has for you when He knows you are ready. ❤ 🙏

  • @marlenmorrow
    @marlenmorrow 9 месяцев назад +504

    She healed. The ungodly spirits were attracted to her brokenness , now she's healed, and they're scared to approach.

    • @marvinandjosh1
      @marvinandjosh1 8 месяцев назад +6

      Exactly. This

    • @melodybenites1861
      @melodybenites1861 8 месяцев назад +9

      THAT’S RIGHT! There are still some broken people out there that are lusting over Lexi’s physical attributes. They are not mentally and spiritually mature. They must have some intellectual depth to manage a good relationship with her.

    • @shannangha3063
      @shannangha3063 8 месяцев назад +1

      You right, when y’all step out it should be together.. she has an amazing voice maybe she could sing the female version of your song.. glad your healed queen and praying a good man finds you

    • @BEAUTIFUL1908
      @BEAUTIFUL1908 8 месяцев назад

      Precisely

    • @terrencesmith6329
      @terrencesmith6329 8 месяцев назад

      This a real one …. Def something to know about life and Love

  • @melbarton2966
    @melbarton2966 8 месяцев назад +325

    I know exactly what she's talking about. I married for the first-time at 52 years old. Divorced 6 months later due to physical & emotional abuse. I didn't even like him... real talk. Loneliness & desperation leads to disaster. 4 years later, I am healed & happy, truly blessed as a single...Serving God.

    • @lynorasholistic-healing8317
      @lynorasholistic-healing8317 8 месяцев назад +4

      I'm glad for you! -- from California ❤

    • @arelbywrites
      @arelbywrites 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for this!❤🙏🏾

    • @mz.keesha577
      @mz.keesha577 8 месяцев назад +7

      @melbarton2966 I get it, I married a friend of 13yrs at 36, experienced abuse physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially…divorced and now in a custody battle but God has healed me and I facilitate classes for women who experienced the same. I pray that someday you’ll tell your story of how you made it through and out…blessing

    • @TFunds24
      @TFunds24 8 месяцев назад

      @@mz.keesha577 🙏🙏

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 7 месяцев назад

      This is ABSOLUTELY TRUTH!

  • @meenameena-dd2zy
    @meenameena-dd2zy 9 месяцев назад +391

    Lexi is literally a one woman party.......She is so entertaining. She is truly God's precious jewel to humanity. May her latter be greater than her former. IJN Amen

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 месяцев назад +9

      A one woman party. Wow. ❤❤❤❤ thank you 🙏🏾

    • @MyVlogTherapy
      @MyVlogTherapy 8 месяцев назад +1

      Haggai 2:9 one of my favorites✨

    • @papaadwoa569
      @papaadwoa569 8 месяцев назад +1

      Truest statement she carried this thing in her own and he cracking up

    • @papaadwoa569
      @papaadwoa569 8 месяцев назад

      @@lexitelevisionlex we love you your longevity speaks for u❤️❤️❤️❤️ I laughed so hard

  • @aprilmurdock36
    @aprilmurdock36 8 месяцев назад +102

    The DMs slowed down bc she's HEALED. The abundance in calls/DMs is the attraction to the brokenness.

  • @georgenep1082
    @georgenep1082 9 месяцев назад +783

    Loneliness allowed me to go back to a person that disrespected me on so many occasions expecting different results.

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614
      @beneiseoleinmheart5614 9 месяцев назад +24

      You are worthy of love. Don't accept less.

    • @wonderwoman122
      @wonderwoman122 9 месяцев назад +4

      Same girl same

    • @brandonplays702
      @brandonplays702 9 месяцев назад +2

      Same

    • @daichelbutler
      @daichelbutler 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same

    • @nathifablanchfield8925
      @nathifablanchfield8925 9 месяцев назад +13

      Same thing happened to me BUT GOD! Turned my mess into a blessing and I’m free from that toxic relationship and bondage. I now pray for his salvation 🙏🏾. Praying you are healed or healing yourself ❤️🙏🏾

  • @adriecol47
    @adriecol47 8 месяцев назад +150

    Loneliness can make you make some really bad decisions. I know as a 48 yr old woman. Sometimes you have to stand in that loneliness and endure.

  • @j.rogers1911
    @j.rogers1911 9 месяцев назад +552

    I want to add light to her experience..If she counts the time they were just friends, God gave her more than 5 years with him. She was his wife for 5 years but she had years and years of friendship with him, which I'm sure added to the devastation. Anndd God likely graced her specifically with the love she had for him to be the one who cared for him in his time of illness.
    Losing a friend is death in itself, so I'm sure it felt like she lost twice. Her memories of him are still so current. She loved him deeply. It's beautiful and sad at the time.

    • @pasquale5485
      @pasquale5485 9 месяцев назад +8

      Aww Love that? So true❤❤❤

    • @tylynn256
      @tylynn256 9 месяцев назад +3

      This is sooooo true.

    • @FarrahParis
      @FarrahParis 8 месяцев назад +3

      YEEEESSSSSSSS!😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @poeticchar9067
      @poeticchar9067 8 месяцев назад +2

      Beautifully stated!❤❤❤

    • @carolynanderson1779
      @carolynanderson1779 8 месяцев назад

      I agree. ❤

  • @gwendolynlewis5655
    @gwendolynlewis5655 8 месяцев назад +148

    Being in relationships with men that I never wanted to be with because of loneliness is definitely a REAL PLACE 💯

  • @recoverrenewrestore1
    @recoverrenewrestore1 9 месяцев назад +313

    “Thick, nasty prayer warrior!!” I am hollering!! Great interview. 💛

    • @visualmovements
      @visualmovements 8 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Msbabe10
      @Msbabe10 8 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @dollyjanvier
      @dollyjanvier 8 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @godivabaker6622
      @godivabaker6622 8 месяцев назад +2

      The funniest part 😂😂😂

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 8 месяцев назад +1

      HI-larious!!!😂😂😂

  • @quichequiche4274
    @quichequiche4274 9 месяцев назад +274

    After my dad ascended. I didn't know I had checked out either. I thought I was handling things well, too. Until I saw a quick glimpse of myself in a mirror in Target. I heard myself thinking, "Ooo, she's tow up. She looks familiar, tho." And then I realized it was me. The cry I cried!

    • @eunicenwanehiudo3866
      @eunicenwanehiudo3866 9 месяцев назад +12

      That must have been a tough time❤. So sorry for your loss❤❤❤

    • @quichequiche4274
      @quichequiche4274 9 месяцев назад +13

      ​@@eunicenwanehiudo3866Thank you!!!!! It was so bad. Thank GOD for deliverance. ❤

    • @mickeyyoung472
      @mickeyyoung472 9 месяцев назад +17

      😢😢sis ,strength is OTW. I know how you were feeling, because I'm still finding my strength after losing my BF(My Daddy,) 12/21/23. Yeah it was a big time shakeup , and denial at its BEST, cuz I'm a Daddy's girl.. I'M Still trying to look past my grief, cuz my Daddy would want me to be GREAT. I love you sis, and I know victory is OTW❤❤

    • @valenciacaroline3068
      @valenciacaroline3068 9 месяцев назад +9

      Going through this. Lost my bestie/father last month. Worst pain I've ever felt and this process sucks. 😪

    • @mickeyyoung472
      @mickeyyoung472 8 месяцев назад +4

      @valenciacaroline3068 sooo sorry 4 ur loss

  • @_cmillie
    @_cmillie 8 месяцев назад +46

    It’s my worst nightmare to find the love of my life and then lose him. My heart goes out to her. ❤️

    • @latashagarvin2158
      @latashagarvin2158 8 месяцев назад +1

      This right here! I've been single for 24 years finally have love been going for 7 months. Had 2 surgeries already and never had one, before. Had a set back , and is currently having surgery now. So it scares me, but trusting God to bring him through it I he'll be ok. I don't want to lose him since it's been too long since having love in my life that I never thought I would have. ❤

  • @wendysarinana
    @wendysarinana 9 месяцев назад +134

    She definitely doesn’t look like what she’s been through! I can’t help but notice that the people who have been through a lot are also the funniest! They turn pain into laughter 😂

    • @hillaryconsultingservices
      @hillaryconsultingservices 8 месяцев назад +1

      I love her humor and personality.

    • @tonyaharris6593
      @tonyaharris6593 8 месяцев назад

      God does that. It's a beautiful feeling

    • @queenriri9393
      @queenriri9393 7 месяцев назад +2

      She's 56 and looks 15 years younger than that. She's beautiful.

  • @brianabeck3023
    @brianabeck3023 8 месяцев назад +27

    Lexi please turn this into a stage play??? I see folks laughing crying and HEALING!! COME ON SIS!! ❤

    • @latoryastringer6508
      @latoryastringer6508 7 месяцев назад +3

      This👏 the👏 One👏 Sis...👏
      An entire Word...........

  • @Deeamos
    @Deeamos 9 месяцев назад +260

    “Come out the grave.” My God. That gave me chills. Thank you, Lord for your true servants you’ve given the ability to speak to your people.

    • @ninastar5285
      @ninastar5285 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yes... that word hit the core. God is good

  • @phatgrl903ify
    @phatgrl903ify 5 месяцев назад +12

    I've recently lost my husband to cancer, and this really hit home...I'm going thru this right now, LORD give me strength.

  • @Chattingwithsam
    @Chattingwithsam 9 месяцев назад +123

    I spent my 50th birthday in Montego Bay last year and I loved it! And I did it by myself!

    • @zindukakids
      @zindukakids 8 месяцев назад +3

      That's nice to hear you encourage me in my 30 thirtees right now I'll also visit a beach ....in December here in Kenya

    • @lytonyarice1556
      @lytonyarice1556 7 месяцев назад +2

      I just came back from Montego Bay for the 1st time at 53 yo and it was awesome!!!! I ziplined for the first time I horse back road for the first time I had a massage on the beach at sunrise 🤗 I hope U had an amazing time as well 💛 good for U life is short let’s get to living intentionally 💛

  • @stephaniemelendez5733
    @stephaniemelendez5733 8 месяцев назад +31

    She's a whole trip. I love it

  • @saashaj7649
    @saashaj7649 9 месяцев назад +127

    "He said some stuff and cussed and left... in a truck that I bought."
    The scream I screampt! 😂😂😂
    I just love her!

    • @MsBeeBee1031
      @MsBeeBee1031 8 месяцев назад +3

      I am in TEARS do you hear me?!!?

    • @EmpressQueenB
      @EmpressQueenB 8 месяцев назад +1

      Hahhahhahahahhahahahaha

    • @Amodernelder
      @Amodernelder 8 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂

  • @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic
    @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic 8 месяцев назад +176

    Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.

    • @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic
      @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic 8 месяцев назад +7

      I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?

    • @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic
      @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic 8 месяцев назад +5

      Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.

    • @tonyasims3150
      @tonyasims3150 8 месяцев назад +3

    • @aweforu
      @aweforu 8 месяцев назад +2

      🙏

    • @shervettalyle511
      @shervettalyle511 8 месяцев назад +3

      God Bless You and I’m sorry for your pain

  • @SharNNews
    @SharNNews 9 месяцев назад +187

    He should interview reesa tesa. Prime example of what loneliness and desperation can do.

    • @thea7418
      @thea7418 8 месяцев назад +4

      Who is that?

    • @TM-se5jf
      @TM-se5jf 8 месяцев назад +21

      We know herstory already 😂

    • @gmyers8577
      @gmyers8577 8 месяцев назад

      Yesss!!!!

    • @nie_theduchesq
      @nie_theduchesq 8 месяцев назад +4

      I would LOVE to see that! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @broco6608
      @broco6608 8 месяцев назад +10

      I hope he doesn't. The Reesa Tesa YT videos are enough.

  • @soothingmotivations
    @soothingmotivations 8 месяцев назад +19

    Lexi is the best friend in my head that I didn't know I needed. Great conversation among believers!

  • @RoyalMasterpiece
    @RoyalMasterpiece 9 месяцев назад +128

    When you are lonely and broken, you will settle for not God’s best. Heal yourself with God. Speaking from experience.

  • @kwilliams3866
    @kwilliams3866 7 месяцев назад +13

    Anyone else watched this and said they seem like they'd be a match as a couple 🫣

    • @gabriellefarley496
      @gabriellefarley496 5 месяцев назад +4

      I did. Lol I was looking for this comment 😂

  • @Callmeharlowe
    @Callmeharlowe 9 месяцев назад +170

    I’ve been following Lexi for a decade and remember her posting videos of herself on the beach when she broke her engagement! I remember when she started her weight loss journey! I can’t believe she’s in her 50s looking amazing and STILL killing it! Hearing her story never gets old! I love her transparency and sense of humor 😂😂

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 месяцев назад +11

      Wow. Thank you so much. ❤

    • @Nhamp-ig7qj
      @Nhamp-ig7qj 9 месяцев назад +4

      @@lexitelevisionwe love you Lexi your the realest in Gospel.

    • @MsBeeBee1031
      @MsBeeBee1031 8 месяцев назад +3

      I'm sitting here shook like.... 'She Fifty SIX". She motivated me to get serious bout my health I know that! LOL

    • @PrettyGirlDtheNP
      @PrettyGirlDtheNP 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yesss, I remember this too! Bawdyyy

    • @KamikazeSP06
      @KamikazeSP06 8 месяцев назад

      Absolutely amazing.

  • @Ladyofvirtue247
    @Ladyofvirtue247 8 месяцев назад +13

    Baaaaaabbbbay! She ain't lying...who wants a "Light Skinned Hug???" 😂😂😂😂 I felt that!

  • @saashaj7649
    @saashaj7649 9 месяцев назад +53

    "Everybody love her but you."
    Preach, Lexi!!!

  • @coneydownst
    @coneydownst 8 месяцев назад +5

    This was the BEST hour 1/2 I’ve spent alone on a weekday in a long time. It was entertaining, inspirational, encouraging and on point!!! Thank you both!!

  • @ellechance2344
    @ellechance2344 9 месяцев назад +137

    WOOOO DOGGY!!! Abba AINT playin wit me!!! Just this morning I wept acknowledging my sadness and loneliness to Him. He then graciously revealed that it was a cover for the grain of unbelief that kept sprouting in my heart. BUT GOD!!! I confessed! LORD, I believe. HELP MY UNBELIEF!

  • @azpersonal
    @azpersonal 8 месяцев назад +21

    When she spoke about loneliness. I experienced that and the mistakes I made became the biggest regret of my life. Even though I am married to an amazing guy, I still cry sometimes when I think of the people I allowed into my life in the past because I was lonely and angry at God

  • @kitadenise2800
    @kitadenise2800 9 месяцев назад +151

    “Loneliness can show up in ALL forms”, 🤯listennnn! I’m just sitting here thinking over life and my lonely periods!

  • @mariadonald9762
    @mariadonald9762 6 месяцев назад +12

    I don't usually be out here commenting on YT but LEXI IS SOOOO HILARIOUS 😂😂😂 I'm hollering and disturbing the quiet of my office 😂😂 10000/10 interview!

  • @CassandraChaPaul
    @CassandraChaPaul 8 месяцев назад +131

    We exist! Nasty,Thick, Prophetic Prayer Warriors! Married 28yrs! 🙌🏾

  • @ms.j.2961
    @ms.j.2961 8 месяцев назад +26

    We are going to need a Part 2 interview with Lexi. Plus, we need to see who she vetted as a potential Future Wifey for you. 🙂

  • @sheswhoiam
    @sheswhoiam 8 месяцев назад +58

    Ms. Lexi, that self-forgiveness part is real. I'm still having those moments where I tell myself "it wasn't your fault, you did the best with the information you had"

    • @nickylnr
      @nickylnr 8 месяцев назад +2

      It's so hard..sometimes I be so mad at myself 😢

    • @sheswhoiam
      @sheswhoiam 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@nickylnr especially when you recall the length of time you gave to the relationship.

    • @nickylnr
      @nickylnr 8 месяцев назад

      @@sheswhoiam yes...and I totally understand what she means when she said you entire a relationship when you were not yourself because that is exactly what happened to me

  • @katherinekamaria
    @katherinekamaria 8 месяцев назад +16

    I am not a widow, but when she said the Prophet said she laid down in the grave with her husband when he died--I just burst into tears. ❤️‍🩹

  • @lognemot1377
    @lognemot1377 8 месяцев назад +6

    I love Lexi's transparency and candor.

  • @EMMA1673
    @EMMA1673 9 месяцев назад +67

    Lost it when she said “first ladyyyyyyy” 😂😂😂😂

    • @MamaJ-og2ui
      @MamaJ-og2ui 8 месяцев назад +2

      And the camera stayed on him. I needed to see her say it!!! LOL

  • @sincereone2388
    @sincereone2388 8 месяцев назад +7

    I went to Dunamis with her. Lexi has always been Lexi! Love her realness! ❤

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 8 месяцев назад +24

    🗣Mike's Place
    🗣Thick like cold grits
    🗣Don't hug me tender!!!
    The word though: Come out the Grave

  • @JuanettaSWhite
    @JuanettaSWhite 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love Lexi’s authenticity. As a widowed person, so much of what she shared resonated with my experiences, especially very early in my grief. Thank you for giving a voice to the young & widowed community. This blessed me & made me LOL!❤

  • @monicasoyombo3360
    @monicasoyombo3360 8 месяцев назад +41

    “The hug need to make sense!” I’m with you sis!💪🏾🤣🤣

  • @tonyaw8345
    @tonyaw8345 8 месяцев назад +2

    Oh my goodness! I laughed and cried through this. One of the best, most thought provoking, transparent interviews I've seen in a long time. Lexi, thank you for this!

  • @prospering100
    @prospering100 8 месяцев назад +53

    I laughed and cried all same time, but before he stopped the camera, I paused the program to get out the grave, lost a daughter and husband.

  • @MissShay-2024
    @MissShay-2024 8 месяцев назад +11

    Now I’m not trying to hook Laterras up but him and Lex would be AMAZING together. I love their chemistry. I hope they make a love connection!

  • @therichauntie
    @therichauntie 9 месяцев назад +76

    Loneliness will have you in places and spaces that you definitely wouldn't normally be in.

  • @brendakagendo589
    @brendakagendo589 6 месяцев назад +2

    She has the ability to make someone laugh through the pain😂 I appreciate her

  • @gck_replayzz1029
    @gck_replayzz1029 9 месяцев назад +56

    I had climbed into the grave when my ex-husband / kids dad passed in 2021. I understand exactly what she is talking about the grief! It is truly a dark place! But God!

  • @mzsuzdle
    @mzsuzdle 8 месяцев назад +5

    It doesn't get rid of itself. You gotta kick it out. WORD RIGHT THERE

  • @ladiesofiron
    @ladiesofiron 9 месяцев назад +59

    I found Lexi in March of 2016 on RUclips, I watched episode after episode after episode nothing but LAUGHTER and healing❤ my children and I just happened to be watching the episode “The things black people say at funerals” we were laughing hysterically!!! IRONICALLY as we were laughing, my 1st husband of 30 years, the father of ALL 7 of my children was falling to his death in the same hour. The Lexi Show was the show that I didn’t KNOW we needed in that season. My LORD. I’m Loving this 💜💜💜

  • @teaonasmalls9379
    @teaonasmalls9379 8 месяцев назад +2

    So true! I picked a person who wore a mask and revealed themselves years later due to loneliness. God brought restoration ❤

  • @melanie_carmella
    @melanie_carmella 9 месяцев назад +72

    I'd rather be alone than married and miserable.

    • @prosperpetuity7987
      @prosperpetuity7987 8 месяцев назад +3

      💯💯💯 sho you’re right!!

    • @katyarnold-ji8sv
      @katyarnold-ji8sv 8 месяцев назад +2

      @melanie_carmella Amen!!!! Amen!!! 100% agree with your comment.

    • @my_set_apart_life
      @my_set_apart_life 7 месяцев назад +4

      It’s infinitely better than being miserably married. Trust me!

  • @KiimKash
    @KiimKash 8 месяцев назад +6

    This was such a great sit-down!

  • @Gauchogirl1
    @Gauchogirl1 9 месяцев назад +44

    I just want to touch and agree with Lexi. Mind of Christ, body of Meg Thee Stallion 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @jenniferjackson4980
    @jenniferjackson4980 8 месяцев назад +5

    Wow. I lost my baby girl, son, mother, grandmother all gone. I have layers of pain. My son was 24, and it has been 3 years now from fentanyl poisoning. Total devastation, and my husband has been using every thing we ever been through to create more drama between us. I see I am in the grave. I am in therapy, on meds., but I'm not sure how much good it is doing me. This is eye opening, the devil is definitely busy. He is seeking to devour our families.

    • @tbozt7544
      @tbozt7544 6 месяцев назад +3

      May God bless you and continue to keep you

    • @Mzhs_One
      @Mzhs_One 2 месяца назад

      💐💚

  • @user-Mimi333
    @user-Mimi333 9 месяцев назад +83

    😂😂😂😂😂 I LOVE LEXI!! She is The best. She Tells it like it is and is a master storyteller. She’s hilarious and brilliant. Her story is heartbreaking but her growth and healing is so inspiring. ❤🙏🏽

  • @chavala3140
    @chavala3140 8 месяцев назад +7

    Letteras you have THE Best guests. I have enjoyed all of them. You never disappoint. Thank you for what you bring to this world❤

  • @ms.prissyp4332
    @ms.prissyp4332 9 месяцев назад +40

    I didn’t know Lexi before this podcast… But Wow! I love this woman energy 😂 personality, sense of humor❤

  • @PrettyandBlessed888
    @PrettyandBlessed888 5 месяцев назад +4

    I needed this today! Loneliness allowed me to accept bad behaviors and still chase them because it felt “good” at the time. I just love her! She’s so relatable. Lexi is so funny it’s crazy 😂😂😂 I laughed this entire interview

  • @aramintatruth1795
    @aramintatruth1795 9 месяцев назад +64

    Her entire explanation about why she decided to date her ex husband - was his “best friend” but got jealous when he was about to get serious about another woman - is the reason I don’t date men with so called best friends who are women.

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 месяцев назад +12

      Nope. Don’t be afraid of that. We had a different story boo. Totally different

    • @norawilburne6188
      @norawilburne6188 8 месяцев назад +3

      But from her story, he was already on love with her. He probably went through the same mental gymnastics weighing whether it was worth risking the friendship. My daddy taught you should marry your friend. Too often relationship don't start that way.
      So I hear what you're saying.

    • @aramintatruth1795
      @aramintatruth1795 8 месяцев назад +13

      My point is that a heterosexual man and woman who spend a significant time together bonding and experiencing each other will eventually develop romantic feelings for each other. They called each other friend but were falling in love. Hence the reason she interrupted his relationship with the other woman. I avoid these messy situations by not dating men with female best friends.

    • @evagoss855
      @evagoss855 8 месяцев назад +2

      I thought I was the only one that felt that. I actually was in the same situation. But I end up ending a 20 something friendship to allow him to luv correctly because I knew we lived each other on another level.

    • @tru_kru_bahbee24
      @tru_kru_bahbee24 7 месяцев назад

      Exactly. No close opposite gender friends period.

  • @kayla3807
    @kayla3807 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love her the rawness and honesty. I think a lot of people view Christian women as boring. Lexi personality reminds me of myself. A thick, funny praying warrior. Truly entertaining as well as speaking on healing.

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 9 месяцев назад +105

    I am SO GLAD KevOnStage 🎬 introduced me to the AMAZINGNESS of Lexi Allen!!!
    I'm sure she's gonna have me laughing and crying and she's gon' sprinkle gems 💎 throughout the interview! 😁👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @AllThingsLoud_
      @AllThingsLoud_ 9 месяцев назад +5

      lol passion you on every channel I’m on

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 9 месяцев назад

      @@AllThingsLoud_ - Let's start a Club for people with EXCEPTIONAL TASTE in RUclips content! 😌😏😄😁

    • @KamikazeSP06
      @KamikazeSP06 8 месяцев назад +1

      🙌🏽🔥🙌🏽🔥🙌🏽🔥🎬🎬🎬 hey sis

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@AllThingsLoud_ - You have GREAT TASTE in content! 😌😏😄😆
      I hope you're doing well

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@KamikazeSP06 Hey bro! 🙌🏾🔥🎬🙌🏾🔥🎬

  • @SkyChante
    @SkyChante 7 месяцев назад +4

    HER ENERGY IS EVERYTHING🦋

  • @JesusisEnough37
    @JesusisEnough37 8 месяцев назад +14

    This is was me. This is confirmation. Im free. I really climb out the grave. I literally felt that crossover last week. I woke up. Thank you, Jesus. ❤

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 6 месяцев назад +3

    Lexi is hilarious 😂 hearing her talk about her late husband is so beautiful! I wish her the best 🫶🏾

  • @tjack552
    @tjack552 9 месяцев назад +37

    Care Take!!! Wow, this explains a lot for me at 38. I lost my dad at 12 and I had to help my mom be his caretaker while he was dying of cancer. It make sense now why I am attracted to those individuals that need care, but it is not reciprocated.

    • @zindukakids
      @zindukakids 8 месяцев назад

      Sending flowers 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🌹💐💐 kindly take heart I also lost my dad at a tender age but I'm standing strong in the grace of God with my beautiful daughter here ....always rejoice in the Lord

  • @almathomas8325
    @almathomas8325 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thankful that pastor pulled her aside and prayed for her.

  • @topekiagarnett2810
    @topekiagarnett2810 9 месяцев назад +67

    Lexi is hilarious! I was walking around Marshall’s crying laughing and didn’t care who saw me. 😂😂🤣🤣 Great episode! This one I’ll be watching again and again.

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @ninacarson1368
      @ninacarson1368 8 месяцев назад +1

      I am at work cracking up she preaching.

    • @TaheerahTaylor
      @TaheerahTaylor 8 месяцев назад

      She is Crazyyyyy😂😂😂😂😂Slight cardiac arrest. She’s realistic…. the Lord made her just the way her crazy self is, Love it!!!!

  • @ledonnathompson-cheek9540
    @ledonnathompson-cheek9540 11 дней назад

    Lexi is a REAL CHIC! I love people who keep it REAL and 💯? Period 😊

  • @StephDGlenn
    @StephDGlenn 9 месяцев назад +40

    This is the first time I ever wanted to have a session go on for 3 hours. This spoke to my very cells, forget my heart and soul, this is just what I needed for my life!

  • @cassandrasavage2975
    @cassandrasavage2975 8 месяцев назад +4

    That is actually a Hallmark movie. The woman didn't get married and went to the resort by herself. Congratulations on your healing Lexi.

  • @ClassicTater
    @ClassicTater 9 месяцев назад +52

    It's weird that you two were describing each other. I enjoyed this episode.

    • @nickylnr
      @nickylnr 8 месяцев назад +2

      Ha...I was saying the same thing ..like wait what if they date

    • @sescia
      @sescia 8 месяцев назад +3

      So I wasn’t the only one thinking this!

    • @jesusisable7052
      @jesusisable7052 8 месяцев назад +5

      🎉agreed but I think she is too much for him and her past is too much for him

    • @carnishaemanuel1538
      @carnishaemanuel1538 8 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly, I'm like yall stop playing and go on a date :)

    • @shaylakelly3888
      @shaylakelly3888 8 месяцев назад +1

      Literally 😂😂

  • @keribarnett5784
    @keribarnett5784 9 месяцев назад +48

    "Unspeakable things." 😂😂😂😂 "First Lady!!!" 😂😂😂

  • @djuanmansfield
    @djuanmansfield 7 месяцев назад +3

    The way I was LAAAUUGGHIINN out loud the last 30 minutes of the show is unbelievable. Toooo kicks! This is my soul sister!!! I can't explain it, but we definitely go together (no Diddy) hahaha. Amazing Episode.

  • @cshell75
    @cshell75 9 месяцев назад +132

    Laterras, can we start doing these as premiere’s so the LIT fam can chat while watching?

  • @tinasmith7238
    @tinasmith7238 8 месяцев назад +2

    I knew Lexi first husband very well, we grew up living across the street from him and his parent The Rev and Mrs Diane Allen. When he was in the hospital during his last days and she is right now one could see him. We sat and talked to his parents and brother and we understand very well. He definitely was a wonderful guy.❤ R.I.P Michael Allen.

  • @Dr.saharaOmar
    @Dr.saharaOmar 9 месяцев назад +32

    I hope we continue to recognize as a culture the power of mental health! Proud of her!!!

  • @bellazarry123
    @bellazarry123 2 месяца назад +1

    Wait! I literally felt the anointing of the Holy Spirit! I began speaking in tongues…🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @siadams9241
    @siadams9241 9 месяцев назад +59

    All women listen up especially when a love one or anyone in your life transitions beware of wolves praying your vulnerability the Lord showed me that and till this day I am forever grateful to him for keeping me from falling 💕

  • @theresakern1687
    @theresakern1687 8 месяцев назад +2

    Loved every moment. And from one widow of 18 years to another...i feel/felt everything she spoke. God speed, sis

  • @HelloJoyRenee
    @HelloJoyRenee 9 месяцев назад +40

    Lexiiiiiii, ma’am don’t ever change. I can’t stop laughing 😂❤😂

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 месяцев назад +6

      I couldn’t change if I tried ❤

    • @Kayla-qs8rh
      @Kayla-qs8rh 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@lexitelevisionyou are so beautiful inside and out. May God send you the love of your life in Jesus Name

  • @lakeshapenland2288
    @lakeshapenland2288 8 месяцев назад +2

    I can not believe I am just finding this podcast. Wow! Each episode I have watched has been amazing and inspiring. So much truth! So much realness! So much transparency and vulnerability! I absolutely love it here!

  • @ThePrayerAdvocate
    @ThePrayerAdvocate 9 месяцев назад +20

    This is my ALL TIME FAVORITE out of ALL of the shows. I luv me some Lexi. Her personality is in a lane all by herself. She keeps it REAL but you can tell she has a personal relationship with God. Her truth she shared brought tears to my eyes. I laughed out Loud throughout the entire show. She spoke what other Christians think. Thank you Lexi!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 месяцев назад +3

      Wow. Thanks so much it means so much to me ❤

  • @uniqua71
    @uniqua71 6 месяцев назад +2

    After 24 years of marriage and ministry I loss my beloved husband who I married as a virgin. Left with three kids transitioning to adulthood and middle school 😢He died of cancer after 8 years. My world 🌎 changed totally widowhood no ministry then a medical crisis then loss job. Now loneliness has to be constantly slain. I did things been places I NEVER been too…every But God❤ thank you for the show.

  • @shareenladd1048
    @shareenladd1048 9 месяцев назад +22

    In my Maverick City voice:
    Get up, Get up, Get up
    Get up out of that grave 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️

  • @rosemaryfuankeh5328
    @rosemaryfuankeh5328 Месяц назад

    This woman is a whole vibe: full of life and truth.
    You touched some strong points on finding companionship, balancing Spirituality and physical needs (smeared by puré romance). You are real Big Sista and you threw our "homie" Mr. WHITFIELD off .... I bet we have enjoyed this episode as much as He has.
    Love always from Cameroon ❤

  • @andreablassingame5415
    @andreablassingame5415 9 месяцев назад +36

    Lexi!!!!! I'm crying!!!! "Mike's Place " though... chill!! lmbo

  • @melissa3407
    @melissa3407 8 месяцев назад +4

    She is speaking facts! She is hilarious with truth. Totally enjoyed this.

  • @Reelsnshortscomp
    @Reelsnshortscomp 9 месяцев назад +16

    Loved this episode. I identified with a few things. The main one is the fact that I'm a widow too. I was beat down but month after my husband died I started therapy and grief support. I always say that if a widow/er wilds out after losing their spouse give grace because all you want is for the pain to go away.

  • @lisascott1038
    @lisascott1038 8 месяцев назад +3

    This woman is so genuine and funny!!! I love it!!!

  • @shellytravels
    @shellytravels 9 месяцев назад +19

    Wow! I’ve never heard Lexi’s testimony in depth. What a mighty God we serve!

  • @AmberHoopengarner
    @AmberHoopengarner 8 месяцев назад

    I so appreciated her realness and rawness, I have been separated almost 2yrs and the loneliness I felt was the worst I've ever felt it..I thank God he truly never left me.. and my counselor and therapist have been so instrumental in processing the grief the right way

  • @keishaheslop1536
    @keishaheslop1536 9 месяцев назад +22

    Unspeakable things!! I crack up laughing at him, laughing at all his guests when they hit that funny bone!! Hysterical.

  • @smileyperlishia
    @smileyperlishia 5 месяцев назад +1

    Lexi need to hold a conference!!!I felt every word she said!! She ain’t lying!!

  • @brandonlovessports1866
    @brandonlovessports1866 9 месяцев назад +17

    I know a married couple that happened to. The ex’s mother died and she went to “comfort” him and wound up back with him and left her husband. Lexi was 💯 FACTUAL on keeping boundaries

    • @dkgnew
      @dkgnew 9 месяцев назад

      That’s deep!! 👀 and…I DO understand, almost happened to me!!!!!!

  • @claire6ify
    @claire6ify 8 месяцев назад +3

    So much anointing on this podcast! Nothing else has spoken so deeply to me like this in over a year!

  • @paulinendirangu6174
    @paulinendirangu6174 8 месяцев назад +12

    She is a real talker. That's why they don't call her directly.... I love 😂❤❤😅😅

  • @sabrinaajacksontodd1703
    @sabrinaajacksontodd1703 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Lexi for your transparency about loneliness and grief. I am a widow of 13 months and this has helped me.

  • @sherrigibson6766
    @sherrigibson6766 9 месяцев назад +23

    "Mike's Place" 😂😂😂😂