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7 Things Holding You Back From Success 😭 (these are too common!)

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  • Опубликовано: 8 авг 2024
  • Last week, we talked about the key habits & mindsets you need to be successful. Now, let's address the top things that hold you back from success and living your best life. See below for more resources on overcoming fear, building a positive mindset and finding motivation towards your goals.
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Комментарии • 703

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  Год назад +3

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  • @rudig5698
    @rudig5698 4 года назад +809

    Who else loves Aileens personality and calming presence? 🥺❤️

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol 4 года назад +544

    When you haven't experienced success, it's hard to know what's out there for you. That's why it's super important to reward yourself whenever you reach a milestone!

  • @qtcvvr
    @qtcvvr 4 года назад +677

    my notes:
    1. 0:54 Thinking you can't change- you become what you belive. mindset is powerful-use it!
    2. 2:37 Blaming others, not taking responsibility
    3. 4:14 Fear
    4. 6:02 limiting belifs
    5. 7:54 negative mindset
    6. 9:13 lack of self love & confidence- self hate is *TOXIC!*
    7. 11:23 comparison game

    • @Hope-pb9dx
      @Hope-pb9dx 4 года назад +7

      Thank you⭐️

    • @VerenaSatriani
      @VerenaSatriani 4 года назад +3

      Elena Cenkova We are limitless. Let us grow that successful mindset together♥️

    • @zazacage3106
      @zazacage3106 4 года назад +2

      Thank you i dont have enough time to see the video right know but with your help I can come back later to take my notes

    • @aminathathoof3356
      @aminathathoof3356 4 года назад +1

      Thx ❤️

    • @qtcvvr
      @qtcvvr 4 года назад +3

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  • @cloudyheavens6829
    @cloudyheavens6829 4 года назад +259

    Lavendaire is literally the most inspiring youtuber out there

    • @anamikamaruthara
      @anamikamaruthara 4 года назад +8

      Yes. No argues. Inspiration level infinity 💖💖

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 года назад +23

      i appreciate you guys sm 🥺🥺

    • @cloudyheavens6829
      @cloudyheavens6829 4 года назад +3

      OMG she REPLIED ILYY

    • @cloudyheavens6829
      @cloudyheavens6829 4 года назад +3

      Anamika she inspires me to be the best version of myself

    • @SteAndRach
      @SteAndRach 3 года назад +3

      I agree, she is actually one of the creators who inspired me to start a RUclips channel...and force my boyfriend to do it with me haha 😂 jokes, he wanted to as well but yeah she really is inspiring

  • @F0reverblessed
    @F0reverblessed 4 года назад +232

    Being aware of what holds you back it’s powerful. Awareness is how you can change your life around COMPLETELY. Something I hear often is “that’s just how I am”. You CAN change who you are! Don’t stand in your own way.
    From a self love content creator to another- awesome video Aileen!! 💗

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 года назад +13

      exactly!! hope you're doing well love 😊

    • @07ikkin
      @07ikkin 3 года назад +1

      Yes, I saw another one of her videos and it has me working some things out in a journal. Issues followed by action plans. Don't have to wait until the new year to make changes

    • @F0reverblessed
      @F0reverblessed 3 года назад +1

      Nikki M Absolutely!! 🤗💕

    • @LizBrousseau
      @LizBrousseau 3 года назад +1

      yes beautiful!!!!

    • @F0reverblessed
      @F0reverblessed 3 года назад

      @@LizBrousseau 🤗❤️

  • @raniswaroop7058
    @raniswaroop7058 4 года назад +38

    *Fear is what hold me back* watever i do, however i improve, there is just this little unknown fear of uncertainty! But it also makes me feel soo good after i overcome it.

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 4 года назад +39

    Mindset is so SO important!!! I used to be that person who thought that I couldn't change. My issue is I have a lot of trouble ADAPTING to change. Changes throws me off and I feel frazzled!

  • @Cassiearan
    @Cassiearan 4 года назад +98

    "Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it."
    -- Henry David Thoreau. "Successful people do what unsuccessful people are not willing to do. Don't wish it were easier; wish you were better."
    -- Jim Rohn. Hi guys! Let me just share to you a short story. We own a cookie shop business in our college town. When we first started it, we just graduated college and were living in our car with very little direction, just a huge passion to be successful. I started it out of a local bagel shop in their off hours at night with my boyfriend, Bran. It was a crazy experience but it worked! We became a success! And how we have our first storefront location (a second one currently under construction but launching soon!) We started it to fund a year long backpacking trip around the world and to be successful while living the life of our dreams.

    • @zazacage3106
      @zazacage3106 4 года назад +1

      Really needed a true story 💖

  • @PrKingEveChannel
    @PrKingEveChannel 4 года назад +31

    Fear is what has been holding me back.

    • @VerenaSatriani
      @VerenaSatriani 4 года назад +1

      King Eve let us be fearless. Keep shining dear ♥️

  • @VerenaSatriani
    @VerenaSatriani 4 года назад +25

    Changing our mindset is challenging sometimes. Especially when the environment around us don't support our best. We need to believe in ourselves first. That way we can stand tall and keep going to grow the mindset of success.

  • @Tina-mi2ud
    @Tina-mi2ud 4 года назад +123

    I hope this helps💕:
    0:26 checklist
    0:56 thinking that you can't change
    2:34 blaming others
    4:12 fear
    6:02 limiting believes
    7:56 negative mindset
    9:09 lack of self love and confidence
    11:22 comparison
    14:29 giveaway
    ❤️love you

  • @alyssaong2265
    @alyssaong2265 4 года назад +7

    I recently started my online business which I really wanted to start way way back but I was so shy and don't have the confidence to do so 🙁 and now that i officially started it, I feel like I've boost confidence and build trust within myself. ❤ Mind over matter ❤

  • @sendinglovez1394
    @sendinglovez1394 4 года назад +53

    "Comparison is the thief of joy"

    • @VerenaSatriani
      @VerenaSatriani 4 года назад +1

      Unkwown Graham totally agree with you. Compare no, because we are all unique☀️♥️🌟

    • @SteAndRach
      @SteAndRach 3 года назад

      yessss, we actually made a spoken word poetry video on our channel about comparison and it's all about that quote!! 🙌 Would love for you to check it out if you have time, it's called "The one habit to stop if you want to be happy (Comparison Spoken Word) 😄

  • @jenvelvet7951
    @jenvelvet7951 3 года назад +3

    I am just 11 and you’ve helped me get better at studies and overall, my family members have complimented and l tell them about you. THANK YOU SO SO MUCH!!🥺✨💝

  • @archanagavhale7736
    @archanagavhale7736 4 года назад +25

    Most people just focus on the things that make them successful, but simply ignore the factors that stop them from being successful.
    Seeking approval, putting myself or others down, self doubt were some of the things that held me back from being successful and now I have overcame them.

    • @LizBrousseau
      @LizBrousseau 3 года назад

      yassssss so happy to hear that!

  • @CynthiaCho
    @CynthiaCho 4 года назад +65

    Who else is obsessed with Aileen’s inspirational content 🤍✨

  • @raniswaroop7058
    @raniswaroop7058 4 года назад +76

    In all these 3 years. I always feel like aileen makes Videos for me bcz it always comes when i need it moreee. I'm 17 now. In 3 yrs she made me have my dream life. Sooo many things have come true . I am recommending her to my friends who r stumbling in this pandamic. And she is just helping everyone. Love you aileen. My first life coach! 💖💖💖U r like a elder sister to me💕💕💕.

    • @Hope-pb9dx
      @Hope-pb9dx 4 года назад +3

      Same for me!!!⭐️

    • @niroblimon3056
      @niroblimon3056 4 года назад +3

      Hi! I am 17, too. I always procrastinate. I.didn't get golden A+ in my SSC exam. Because of my habit. But now I know. I know I can change. I hope you will live your dream life, too.

    • @raniswaroop7058
      @raniswaroop7058 4 года назад +2

      Wat a beautiful, unexpected teen community, so cute. So blessed to be with aileen❤️

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 года назад +13

      aww thank u & love u

    • @angelamckinney5537
      @angelamckinney5537 4 года назад

      #6- I need deliverance !!!

  • @roataniegra9706
    @roataniegra9706 4 года назад +42

    Being able to admit that you're human and some things will hinder you, is powerful. I think a lot of things do begin here--the acknowledgement.
    Heya, fellow early birds

  • @gauravydv5641
    @gauravydv5641 4 года назад +7

    I was really in this situation (Exam fear) .... thanks for helping me......... you are my role model..... need a heart ☺️🤗😇❤️ from India

  • @akshatasharma7249
    @akshatasharma7249 4 года назад +7

    One thing I want to add in the list is Patience 🍃. Today's world is all about Instent Gratification, no one wants to wait or preserve till they achieve their goals, even I feel that sometimes! Idk if you have made a video on this but I would love a one on How to preserve..
    By the way you're looking soo cute!❤ and the video was awesome💌

  • @nophima
    @nophima 4 года назад +7

    I let fear hold me back so much in the past, I'm sick of it. Now I'm doing whatever I want, who cares what others think? I just have to make one person happy - me. Of course, I'm still afraid but I do things despite being afraid. And so far the things I was afraid of never happened, it's just in our minds.

    • @DaphneGsell
      @DaphneGsell 4 года назад +1

      💜 you are the main character in your story & you get to write the story

  • @MamaSwole
    @MamaSwole 4 года назад +2

    Lavendaire looks amazing with any hair color, make up, outfit, just always ❤

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  4 года назад +15

    Indonesian, Portuguese & Spanish subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕

    • @manojenose5544
      @manojenose5544 3 года назад +2

      Thanku soooooo much for making my life much more productive and bright💕💕💕💕💕 ..... ❤️❤️❤️ from India

    • @eduardadossantosviana15
      @eduardadossantosviana15 Год назад

      Obrigada. Amo assistir seus vídeos. Obgd pelas legendas em português💕

  • @RoannaFernandes
    @RoannaFernandes 4 года назад +23

    The biggest thing holding me back from success: “when i forget how far i’ve come.” //// miles to go and all that; at a pace where i’m enjoying the journey and process. it’s taken me good and long to get to this place in my head, and in my life. (grateful, no more regretful.) i feel a softness and sweetness in my heart, in the little steps and tasks. i don’t see success anymore as one big thing or two or three or four big things if that makes sense. my goals are sacred, and i honour them with intention (and action, i forgot to add before hehe). //// i love the question. your exercises are such fun! thank you for your insights and videos, Aileen. i too wish you love and success and sweet things. ♥♥♥♥

    • @abiampon3324
      @abiampon3324 3 года назад

      Woahhh i aim to have this mindset! You seem so intelligent ☺️ the idea of honouring your goals is so powerful xx thank you for writing this, I’ve realised a lot

    • @RoannaFernandes
      @RoannaFernandes 3 года назад

      @@abiampon3324 🌸 🌸 🌸 🌸

    • @RoannaFernandes
      @RoannaFernandes 3 года назад

      @@abiampon3324 Thanks for your encouraging words! It took me a while to get to this space of understanding and things always change anyway so, ah... I wish you love on your journey too. :D

  • @xshikx4097
    @xshikx4097 4 года назад +9

    My biggest belief holding me back is comparison. Most of the times I compare myself with others, but I don't really want to do so maybe it's something involuntarily happening. I do compare myself with my friends and keep thinking of the same. That literally just stress me out and I loss my mind. Even shout loud to everyone surrounds me...

    • @daniellenormand7200
      @daniellenormand7200 3 года назад +1

      this is something ive struggled a lot with as well! when you notice it happening stop yourself say something empowering about the person you were judging & something empowering about yourself & put a smile on your face & thank yourself for breaking the pattern ! i have some videos that you may relate to if youd like to check them out

  • @DaphneGsell
    @DaphneGsell 4 года назад +3

    Honestly, the one holding me back the most is fear. I have a fear of what others will think of my life decisions. But I am slowly breaking out of that fear!

  • @twilight3304
    @twilight3304 4 года назад +18

    ~Note~
    ~ 7 things which hold you back from success~
    1. Thinking that you can't change
    2.Blaming others
    3.FEAR
    4.Limiting your beliefs
    5.Negative mindset
    6.Lack of self love and confidence
    7.comparison game.
    ( A message from me : you CAN do it!

  • @SimplyHappyS2
    @SimplyHappyS2 4 года назад +4

    The word “I can’t “ holds me back from achieving my dream. Thanks Aileen for all your awesome video! 💕

    • @daniellenormand7200
      @daniellenormand7200 3 года назад

      our i am's are powerful you're fearless & courageous all about understanding ourselves & limiting beliefs

  • @j-s6948
    @j-s6948 4 года назад +9

    I seriously Love Aileen She motivated me to become happier, And Be Confident and strong Thank you Aileen!
    No cap

  • @MoonSignInsight
    @MoonSignInsight 4 года назад +2

    The thing I struggle with most is the comparison game, feeling like I should be farther ahead. It's something I'm definitely working on. I'm happy I took this past year to let go of limiting beliefs and I feel like I'm making progress. Thank you so much for sharing!!!

  • @ivandure63
    @ivandure63 4 года назад +11

    the biggest things that are holding me back are my insecurities and my past

  • @gintongaparador999
    @gintongaparador999 3 года назад +2

    Procrastination, anxiety, and emotions.
    I often get so overwhelmed by the amount of stuff I have to face or deal with. I can't help but worry every second about what tomorrow will bring and the possibility of failing. Lack of self esteem, trust, and discipline. I tend to give in to my emotions. When I don't feel good, I won't do anything. Instead of being a mature adult, I hide in my room and cry, and I try to escape from all the things that's bothering me.

    • @SteAndRach
      @SteAndRach 3 года назад

      Hey Rose, just read your comment and I totally relate with feeling overwhelmed about the future and the possibility of failing! One thing that really helped me was reading about Stoic philosophy, it sounds boring but it was actually really helpful and practical to live a more content life! We actually made a video about it on our youtube channel, it's called "5 stoic hacks to reduce stress and be happier", we really hope that it can help you as much as it has helped us 💛

  • @haqiqo
    @haqiqo 4 года назад +4

    That "self limiting belief" and "negative thought" slap me so hard. But, I'm still in ky journey to grow my self love. Yes, it's a baby step, one by one. Thanks for making this video, Aileen ❤️ Love from Indonesia 🇮🇩

  • @athxnamln
    @athxnamln 4 года назад +8

    aileen, let me just say that you look gorgeous withthat hairstyle and red lippy!! beautiful inside and out!!

  • @aditipatil5251
    @aditipatil5251 4 года назад +1

    I think comparison holds me back.I was just gonna quit my workout and not meditate because I was feeling blah. This video was so positive ✨
    Gonna go back and finish my workout and do my thing. I am gonna focus on myself 🧿♥️ THANK YOU SO MUCH!
    Ps. Always am a silent watcher but this video made me wanna comment ;)

  • @estheroliveira1995
    @estheroliveira1995 4 года назад +1

    What holds me back is: i compare myself with others!! I know it's toxic, so i am growing, and i'm more happy than before
    Thaks Aileen!!!!

  • @ReenaSingh03
    @ReenaSingh03 4 года назад +10

    Courage is not absence of fear but triumph over it - Nelson Mandela

  • @__Yankeela
    @__Yankeela 3 года назад +1

    You are just amazing. This video of yours has brought so much of positivity in me today. I was stressed and kind of starting to get fed up with life but after watching this video my mind is totally changed. Thank you for being such a great inspiration. The world needs more people like you. ❤❤

  • @afuantics175
    @afuantics175 4 года назад +4

    This is the wisest thing I’ve seen in a long time. Thanks for helping me start my first day of classes💕

    • @daniellenormand7200
      @daniellenormand7200 3 года назад

      hope youre dominating your classes ! i have some similar videos on my page if youd like to check those out

  • @ayeshanavy8120
    @ayeshanavy8120 4 года назад +1

    The thing which is actually holding me back is self confidence. I just lack confidence in myself. Even when I talk to people I speak very softly that no one could even hear me and they ignores me. They'll just get frustrated at me and then I fell more down, more un confident. Well that's my story. I can say that I'll learn to be confident in myself by watching your channel. Your videos heal my soul.
    Thank you for making such awesome videos.
    Love you Aileen
    💜💜

    • @keithgeronedacuan
      @keithgeronedacuan 4 года назад

      I am the same, like I put myself down and dig myself more into the hole by thinking of what others feel about me. Now what Aileen said of like instead of saying "I can't get up early" Vs I do not prefer waking up early can be a good way for us to say "I prefer to speak softly" can be a great takeaway from the video :)

  • @debanjanabiswas111
    @debanjanabiswas111 4 года назад +3

    What holding me back is fear- fear of judgement and deficiency of self- love. There's so much of self doubt that most of the times I can't reciprocate what I feel and my thoughts.

  • @stellairizarry1652
    @stellairizarry1652 4 года назад

    I would say FEAR (depending the situation of course )is one factor that has hold me back and others for reaching success. Watching your videos for years, had helped to deal with them in a objective manner and without judgment. Facing your fears can lead to awesome results!

  • @reginebee2054
    @reginebee2054 4 года назад +3

    The major thing that's holding me back is F-E-A-R. I'm aware that this stems back to my childhood because I was raised strictly so there were things that I never got to enjoy as child because of the instilled mindset of "Don't do this because blah blah blah..." and yes it created a self-limiting belief of "playing safe and not taking the risk". I carried this heavily when I was a teenager and looking back at my 12 to 15 year old self, I was such a major nega person. My close friends in high school are the reason why that fear started to dissolve gradually and the moment I felt that I took a risk was to follow my passion in pursuing Interior Design major. Relatives were very quick to judge my decision in my future and criticized me a lot. My journey was very rough (because there were ups and downs) but I managed to get to the finish line. It was so worth the experience~! Now I'm still trying to conquer my fears but I feel much much better than I was 10 years ago.
    Much love and thank you for this video! This made me reflect my struggles and achievements in the past and reminded me never to forget what I've accomplished. mwah~!

  • @DaphneGsell
    @DaphneGsell 4 года назад +3

    You never fail to make me more motivated! I am so grateful to have come across your channel over quarantine!

  • @khadhija7
    @khadhija7 4 года назад +16

    For me its lack of self love and confidence... I have been doing what everyone wants me to do so I feel like if I cant change my mind now and do what I want to do because I don't deserve it and that I'm selfish for putting what I want above what my family wants for me... I don't believe I can truly do what I want to do and I'm not good enough for the success it may bring..

    • @LizBrousseau
      @LizBrousseau 3 года назад

      NO!!! you are so worthy of all the self love and confidence you can totally do what ever you want and what ever feels good to you! Self love is the HIGHESt form of service!!!

  • @quirkducirque
    @quirkducirque 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Aileen! 💕
    Taking ownership over the thoughts and feelings I experience has truly changed my life for the better. Everything starts with a thought and can either become concreted limiting beliefs or empowered beliefs depending on what thought trail we choose to follow. With enough awareness, we can consciously decide which beliefs we want to adopt and release the beliefs that no longer serve us 😊

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  4 года назад +127

    🌼 *Download the checklist on my blog* : lavendaire.com/7-limiting-things
    And don't forget to enter the giveaway! Tag a friend in the comments on the @shoplavendaire IG → instagram.com/shoplavendaire

    • @alyssaong2265
      @alyssaong2265 4 года назад +2

      This got me emotional. I feel like I've been too hard on myself. I've always feel ashamed for the things that I want to do because I am afraid of what others may say. But the truth is, other people also deals with their own problems. I am happy that I am slowly accepting my shortcomings for myself and learning from it. It just feels so nice to really know yourself again and build piece by piece the things that I've lost within myself.

    • @letsbethechange1424
      @letsbethechange1424 4 года назад +1

      You are looking so cute like Princess 😍.

    • @aminathathoof3356
      @aminathathoof3356 4 года назад +2

      Lavendaire is my favourite channel in the world ❤️
      I love you Aileen ❤️❤️
      You're like my sister
      You teach many things and those happens in my life
      Thank you Aileen very much 😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
      ❤️❤️

    • @Klara_is_finding_herself
      @Klara_is_finding_herself 4 года назад

      Thank you for this inspiring video and the checklist 💕

    • @ankitadhruv1787
      @ankitadhruv1787 4 года назад +1

      I have fear to lose people I love. so it is my biggest wekneses and bcz of this all time my heart broken and it hur a lot 😭

  • @Connectingthedots.
    @Connectingthedots. 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for creating this video. It is amazing. I loved how you made each item holding us back have a solution. Mindset is everything.

  • @spikybinonnoda4564
    @spikybinonnoda4564 4 года назад

    I would definitely say comparison and sometimes it not even that I think about it but I get told it. Once someone starts to talk about it, my mind just plays it like a broken record. I love all of your videos because you are so open and honest. You are not afraid to show the world your true colours. ❤️

  • @lyrrmd
    @lyrrmd 4 года назад +10

    almost all of those 7 things you've discussed really hits hard and I'm so so guilty with that. But I think the "negative mindset"was the one that holds me back the most from doing such great things in life, I always look down on myself, I always think that I can't do things so I don't really grow. As a student it was really hard to believe in myself, but I know I can do anything if I just have the courage to do so, I am not privileged as other kids out there, so I was really having a hard time to cope up. How I wish I was rich as other people 😭 Anyways,super thankyouuu for making videos like this, I wish I can thank you in person someday, when I am successful! Loveyouuu

    • @daniellenormand7200
      @daniellenormand7200 3 года назад +2

      how we identify ourselves is so important look for the good things in life count your blessings & truly appreciate who you are as a person ! & know there are always people suffering much worse i know it can feel like the world is out to get us sometimes but life is happening for us not to us!

    • @lyrrmd
      @lyrrmd 3 года назад

      @@daniellenormand7200 it's been 6 months already and thankyouuu for these reply appreciate it a pot

  • @ritika6600
    @ritika6600 4 года назад +4

    People like you are real influencers and whom we should follow and support. You are such an inspiration to everyone of us. Love you.😘🥰😍😇

    • @daniellenormand7200
      @daniellenormand7200 3 года назад

      true love & positive energy we all need more love in our lives

  • @Nina21_
    @Nina21_ 3 года назад

    Fear is what's holding me back the most..fear of judgement , of failure, of not being good enough..i struggle with other points you talked about too, so i'm gonna try and work on them & hopefully i'll make a progress with time ! this was so inspiring and motivating thank you Aileen ❤

  • @AditiMehre
    @AditiMehre 4 года назад

    I know all the information...but i don't watch your video for info ...but literally for positive vibes and refreshing vibes.i love the way you shoot your videos.

  • @madisondennis678
    @madisondennis678 4 года назад

    I never used to click on her videos but now I probably should more often. She points out some things about the mindset is really where its at. I've been seeing the downside to alot of things recently and being aware of it and wanting to do something about it is hopefully going to perpetuate positive mental results. Always a pleasure to learn something new.

  • @InPursuitOfCuriosity
    @InPursuitOfCuriosity 4 года назад

    It's great to see these kinds of videos where the content creator encourages others to better themselves and improve their circumstances. It also helps even further when the content creator is clear, calm and captivating. Keep up the good things that you do!

  • @cebj7121
    @cebj7121 4 года назад

    Until very recently, I didn't believe I was worthy of even the laws of healing. Videos like yours have helped me. I am eternally grateful to you and the others who showed me differently. Many blessings to you!

  • @nazsobhani5149
    @nazsobhani5149 3 года назад +1

    The Comparison Game.
    I love when you talked about the quote that says: make sure you're better than who you were yesterday. I never thought about it the way you addressed it. I usually thought that I should make exactly the day I'm in better than the day before. I also have this quote: Let each morn be better than its eve and each morrow richer than its yesterday. But, now I'm thinking that the morn, eve, day, and yesterday could mean a season in life and a larger view of it. Thank you for sharing such amazing content! :)

  • @tringaemini6625
    @tringaemini6625 4 года назад +4

    You are so inspiring Aileen and to se where you arrived it is truly deserved with hardwork,love you forever ❤️

  • @myeon8401
    @myeon8401 4 года назад

    Thank you for this! It feels good to be reminded of these things from time to time. Hope you are doing well, love! stay safe and healthy!

  • @rosegoldmermaid
    @rosegoldmermaid 4 года назад +1

    I love your take on privilege! It's important but we don't have to be bound to it forever! We create the life we want by using what we have.

  • @vickyg2130
    @vickyg2130 3 года назад

    I love all of your videos!! All of them are so inspirational! The one thing that's always holding back on me in life is fear, a fear for failure.

  • @hannahcorbett4993
    @hannahcorbett4993 3 года назад

    YOU ARE AN AMAZING SOUL, I just checked out your resources. you are sooo pure and beautiful I almost cry

  • @lauraoshea1701
    @lauraoshea1701 4 года назад +1

    I loved what you said about the "day-to-day" comparison, your view is very realistic and motivating at the same time! Keep spreading the good vibes ✨🌟

  • @giorgiavetrugno7481
    @giorgiavetrugno7481 3 года назад

    This video is my life saver.
    I do all these things and i'm trying to be better and love myself, and im going to watch this video as much possible i can so i can fix the quotes in my mind.
    Thank you Lavandaire for all the things u do, i love so much your channel and what you do. Thank You♡

  • @yantxgsstory
    @yantxgsstory 4 года назад +1

    She has learnt so much in her life, I'm so touched that she's sharing her experiences and learnt lessons with us TT

  • @Bhawna_Kalra
    @Bhawna_Kalra 4 года назад

    Your only limit is your mind!
    Grateful for the timing and grateful for having found this channel. Thank you Aileen ❤️

  • @rachana2136
    @rachana2136 4 года назад +1

    The one thing that keeps holding me from success is FEAR. And the irony to this is it takes me so long to admit it. Coming across your videos and podcasts have been helping me to feel a great amount of positive energy. Will be looking forward to more videos and new resources from you.

  • @naamakolin486
    @naamakolin486 4 года назад

    The thing that holds me back from success the most is limiting beliefs (thinking that I can't, that it's not for me,etc.) I am working towards overcoming it by journaling, meditating and repeating positive affirmations. Your videos bring clarity and wisdom to my life!

  • @chelinebarut8615
    @chelinebarut8615 4 года назад +1

    Lack of self love & self confidence. I love you! You inspires and motivates me so much. I really love everything about you. 💗

  • @teejee2158
    @teejee2158 4 года назад

    I've been preparing a small business for one week now and was actually watching inspirational videos when the notification popped up. Aileen has my back for sure.

  • @yuktidave3270
    @yuktidave3270 4 года назад +10

    Hey Aileen, you r a daily motivation for me
    Thanks for transforming me to a better person.❤️❤️❤️

  • @vijaypatil8702
    @vijaypatil8702 4 года назад +4

    You're looking so beautiful in this outfit😍😍😍! So, a few days back I actually did dream life series and the fear setting exercise and I actually came with a lot of ways to overcome my fears. Now, after one month of doing that exercise I have made a lot more progress in creating my dream life✨. And I'm making small progress each day to achieve my big goals💖. A big thanks to you to share this with us☺ .Love you as always😘😘! .

  • @introvertedduck5769
    @introvertedduck5769 4 года назад +8

    LOVE YOUR VEDIOS SO MUCH . THEY ARE SO MOTIVATING AND HELPFUL

  • @vyphan8911
    @vyphan8911 4 года назад +1

    Dear Aileen, I truly love your wise words and personality, and your content and resources helped me a lot in the past to grow. At some point, I believed that you can change yourself and live your dream life. But now, after so many things have happened in my life just in the past few months, I figured that there are certain things that you can’t change. I was really obsessed with the thought of a happy dream life but in reality sadness and anxiety are a part of me. So currently, I’m trying to introduce more acceptance into my life, instead of trying to force myself to change. It normal and necessary to be not okay sometimes :) I feel like that pressure of trying to be okay and happy all the time really broke me at some point. Change is great, growth is great, but an unbalanced mindset really misled me.
    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @pamelamaxted5496
    @pamelamaxted5496 4 года назад

    Gosh I think fear of the unknown is a big one for me and also comparing myself to others. Thanks for this content Aileen - super helpful.

  • @MrSpy-bq9up
    @MrSpy-bq9up 4 года назад +7

    This video helped me a lot I didn't know what I was gonna do with my life

  • @meisoonchong5447
    @meisoonchong5447 3 года назад

    Love this video! Thank you, Aileen for reminding us that we all can succeed if we want to and take actions to achieve our dreams. The thing that holds me back the most is my negative mindset. I've enrolled in your online course and really want to work on my mindset and limiting beliefs.

  • @angelagrimes8237
    @angelagrimes8237 3 года назад

    Once again, you bring clarity to what one might hope would be simple and clear after 64 years on my journey. Fear of the lack of certainty is a huge factor that is 'coloring' my perspective, as it is for many in the US. All the linear trajectories of what we expected have now been trashed and we are left without supposed tried and true directions on how to engage in the world we live in. That said, I always have hope that at some point I will get back into my journey the way I want and be successful. Your vlog has really, once again, given me a refreshing way to look at the processes I am trying to manage in order to take my journey where I want it to go. Thank you. Your 'food for thought' is so helpful.

  • @TheCosmicBaddie
    @TheCosmicBaddie 4 года назад

    Yes! I completely agree limiting beliefs can hold you back SO much. It is crucial to work through them :)

  • @offgridhomesteadingmcgarve1494
    @offgridhomesteadingmcgarve1494 3 года назад

    We are shaping our lifes each and every day. Be your best each day. Love your content.❤️

  • @dinarbaiterekova3069
    @dinarbaiterekova3069 4 года назад +1

    Thank u so much, I’m working on self love and self confidence. Love all your videos

  • @PurpleFlower22
    @PurpleFlower22 4 года назад

    Thank you Aileen! You never cease to motivate me and give me a great perspective on life. Any person is lucky to have you in their life ❣️

  • @akmon.z
    @akmon.z 4 года назад

    I get relieved by knowing that we are not always better than yesterday actually i knew that but wasn't accepting this fact that the process of self improvement is not always linear ... it is ok to not be better than yesterday..if we look at the wider picture like then we will know that we are better than last year if not that..then we know we are better than from what we were in last five years... Thankyou @Lavendaire for letting us know this 🥰

  • @nikkisandoval2952
    @nikkisandoval2952 4 года назад

    you asked a question about what is holding me back, and I have to say negative mindset and lack of self love and confidence, and I am my own worst enemy. I have tried to figure why I am harder on myself than anyone else, and I still have not come up with a solution, however I am going to work on the 7 things that you talked about, and I think with a little work I will not be my own worse enemy. and Thank you, your video offered a lot of insight to me, but to be honest, I already knew all of that, you just reconfirmed it, and it was almost as if you were talking about me to me. Thank you

  • @lavenderdiaries6962
    @lavenderdiaries6962 4 года назад +2

    I love this " I have power over myself and my life" as my affirmation

  • @studybuddy626
    @studybuddy626 4 года назад +1

    You always have been sending so much of positive aura across the world through your videos... Moreover you really are helping us to transform our lives in something so meaningful.... And in addition I must say you are looking so beautiful and that hair band is looking so cute on you💗✨

  • @mikablairewitch5045
    @mikablairewitch5045 4 года назад

    I had a depression & anxiety for the past 2 years and now i am more happy positive cheerful person than i am when am not in my right mind..i learn from your video A LOT actually so it really helping me be a kind grateful person..i learn that to love yourself accept for everything happen to me for the past 2 years ago first and i will be able to love someone else to be kind be more positive also more productive..i used to be a 'lazy girl' but now i just want to keep movin' my body so i have chores to keep up with..before i used to compare myself to everyone that seem more high standard then me & i used to think i can't do this& that but now i feel more MORE positive and just want to be productive than i am 2 years ago 😊 SO THANK U SO MUCH for your inspiring video lavendaire💜🌻love u sm❤

  • @han-dum5209
    @han-dum5209 4 года назад +1

    I always save your videos. I watch them again and again depending on what I’m feeling that day. Your videos became my reminders so that I could get back on track. ❤️

    • @daniellenormand7200
      @daniellenormand7200 3 года назад

      you got this daily work on self development all adds up! if youd like to check my page out hopefully it can inspire you as well if youd like

  • @blaze4882
    @blaze4882 4 года назад

    I thinks its only been a month since I subscribed into your channel and I eventually found myself immersed in your videos. Well clearly, the biggest things that's holding me down is my mindset, I don't know one second i'll be optimistic and then I will oppose myself, apart from that I also have health problems that is why I can't do the activities I needed to do for myself, or I don't know if its just me not prioritizing myself and choose to prioritize the needs of my family over the things I needed to do such as my studies since I'm in college and my "plan" of opening a small business.
    anyway, i love how your videos make me realize some things. Thank you!

  • @LifeEllen
    @LifeEllen 4 года назад

    Your video came out at the perfect time for me. Thank you so much for making me realize that I'm holding myself back 🌸

  • @Minaaamii
    @Minaaamii 4 года назад +1

    I’ve recently been trying to tell myself to be my own best friend because at the end of the day, the one person who is absolutely guaranteed to be in your life is yourself. If any of my friends talk about themselves the negative way I view myself, I’d be heartbroken and refute that! So I wanna be able to do that for myself as well.

  • @skyringale6790
    @skyringale6790 4 года назад

    Super grateful for all your help on Dream Life and success Aileen💓

  • @studyglance8053
    @studyglance8053 4 года назад +1

    It's like autumn I always fall for you!

  • @aririi5997
    @aririi5997 4 года назад

    Gosh... I felt so overwhelmed lately. Thanks for your positive impact you create through your videos! Taking notes❤️✨❤️

  • @absloutelyRasha
    @absloutelyRasha 4 года назад +2

    Beautiful outfit and look! Thanks for the advise ! I started long time ago learning from tips like that then I expanded to actual meditation practice and mindfulness that changed my life ❤️❤️🌙

  • @JO-fh4ul
    @JO-fh4ul 3 года назад

    This video was extremely motivating! I want to personally thank you for your entire channel; your words are life changing. I notice that you poor your heart into this channel and I haven't been able to find any RUclips that speaks this positive to their channel; thank you so so so much!

  • @GlaizaJournals
    @GlaizaJournals 4 года назад

    I love how you explained why “Make sure you were better today than yesterday.” is not really a good quote. Only now I realized it. ❤️

  • @raniswaroop7058
    @raniswaroop7058 4 года назад +6

    Thank you soo much for all the strength you have given me. Aileen! ❤️

  • @joymae
    @joymae 4 года назад +1

    I love having this checklist thanks so much Lavendaire!