12 Keys to Success: Habits & Lessons From My Journey

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  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024

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  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  10 месяцев назад +2

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  • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
    @idkwhattonamemyself9326 4 года назад +687

    Habits I've started to change :-
    1. workout + stretching
    2. Drink lots of water all day
    3. limiting sugar intake
    4. Trying to love myself
    5. Read books/ gain knowledge

  • @MamaSwole
    @MamaSwole 4 года назад +1005

    Lavendaire is such a queen. She encourages us to love ourselves, take care of ourselves, & be productive while also achieving balance💖

    • @sarrahpakawala901
      @sarrahpakawala901 4 года назад +5

      more like a person who making a living or idk but using oir views to b succsful its my opinion

    • @sarrahpakawala901
      @sarrahpakawala901 4 года назад +2

      but who cares ily aileen😘

    • @sarrahpakawala901
      @sarrahpakawala901 4 года назад +2

      oh nice nice

    • @thesavagegirl2842
      @thesavagegirl2842 4 года назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @CrisOnTheInternet
      @CrisOnTheInternet 4 года назад +8

      @@sarrahpakawala901 and it's fair but the highlight here is that she choose the path of helping people to thrive.

  • @qtcvvr
    @qtcvvr 4 года назад +765

    My notes:
    -Define what success means to you-success is relative.
    -External vs. internal success- it's more important to be internal succsesful, external success is what material you have. You can be internal succesful right now, because it's just a feeling and when you feel it, you will be external succsesful too.
    Habits:
    1. Control your mindset - 4:22
    2. Follow your heart & intuition - 5:32
    3. Belive in yourself. Trust your vision - 6:50
    4. Act despite fear - 8:00
    5. Willing to learn & figure it out - 9:00
    6. Take action - 12:06 - negative feedback is more useful than positive one, because it allows you to know what your mistakes are and take action to avoid them and improve yourself.
    7. Continious learning - 13:16 - read books, articles etc.| When you fail, it means that you've tried. And to fail is ok! It's productive experience.
    8. Behave like a pro - 14:27
    9. Consistency - 15:50 - small steps to your goal. | Showing up everyday is a *choice*
    10. Being commited for the long term - 18:07
    11. Leverage habits - 19:15
    12. Don't go it alone. Connect & work with other people - 20:20

  • @joymae
    @joymae 4 года назад +143

    Drinking water and getting a good night of sleep is so underrated and SO important

  • @archanagavhale7736
    @archanagavhale7736 4 года назад +302

    " Success isn't always about greatness. It's about CONSISTENCY . Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come. "
    - Dwayne Johnson

    • @corrine.talbot8
      @corrine.talbot8 4 года назад +3

      That's why I fell in love with him. His intelligence. His life wisdom. And good looks 😅🤩

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 года назад +14

      This!!

    • @rudig5698
      @rudig5698 4 года назад +2

      Omg You’re so right! Thank you for sharing this! 😍❤️

  • @beeba1717
    @beeba1717 3 года назад +28

    Summary:
    1. Control your mindset🧠.
    2. Follow your heart and intuition❤.
    3. Believe in yourself💫.
    4. Act despite fear😨.
    5. Willing to learn and figure it out😈.
    6. Take action🙋🏻‍♀️💃.
    7. Continues learning📖📚.
    8. Behave like a pro😎.
    9. Consistency😀.
    10. Committed for the long term🤝.
    11. Leverage habbits🌟.
    12. Don't go it alone🙅‍♀️ connect and work with others👭🏻👬.

  • @repanajoyceannc.5097
    @repanajoyceannc.5097 4 года назад +63

    "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." I love that! I'll always remember that.

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol 4 года назад +181

    Success is a state of mind. It depends a lot on the person. For me, success is about pushing yourself and always do more than what you're asked to do!

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 4 года назад +4

      Thank you btw for this video, it's really motivating

    • @si__chouchou_5444
      @si__chouchou_5444 3 года назад

      So inspiring your comment

  • @romellamendoza4501
    @romellamendoza4501 4 года назад +62

    im 19 and since quarantine, i decided to get aaaall my shts together. I wanted to start right now, be successful in my early 20s, be a boss of my self and Miss Aileen really helped me alot, her vids are so helpful for my mindset, it's therapeutic and soul-fulfulling. Thank you❣️
    also your podcast, it's my lullaby whenever i go to sleep🥺✊🏼

    • @aroojfatima9584
      @aroojfatima9584 3 года назад +1

      Hi!
      I wanted to know how can i get that podcast? I'll appreciate if u help

    • @romellamendoza4501
      @romellamendoza4501 3 года назад

      @@aroojfatima9584 hi! you can listen to it on spotify! here's the link😊open.spotify.com/show/5ODSFAXoVkgJHjxVxU2oAu?si=o03BWy3nQAmfJpIxetgHUA

  • @sieunpark3436
    @sieunpark3436 2 года назад +2

    I am shocked about the process of Personal Growth Challenge. I did not expect a lot of people to quit later on. Keep going on one thing is not easy. The person who has consistency successes!

  • @randomcarrot7970
    @randomcarrot7970 4 года назад +2

    For me, the most relevant points discussed in this video are:
    1.) Giving more importance to internal success rather than external success - I still struggle with it because my goals are often clouded by what I know will impress others. Even sometimes, when I actually make goals for myself and then they impress others, I forget my personal reason why I'm aiming for them. And then I begin to lose consistency. It's like the external validation from others makes me disconnected from my genuine intentions.
    2.) Connecting with other people - I love the quote "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." I also struggle with thinking that I can do it all alone. I forget that things are always easier and more meaningful when they are done with other people, especially with those who will surprisingly get you a lot. It's magic when you meet people lof your tribe. So I should avoid closing my doors to everyone.

  • @gracieller.9472
    @gracieller.9472 4 года назад +11

    i love how gentle this is. i had so much resistance opening this video thinking that it's just another one of those videos that would add to the "shoulds" of life to become successful. i'm glad i watched this

  • @diellalala
    @diellalala 4 года назад +28

    saw the notification on my phone, clicked right away, watched it, loved it, and posted a comment!
    I love you so much Aileen, you’ve helped thousands of people, including me. Sending love from China your way~ 💕

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  4 года назад +21

    Portuguese, Russian, Spanish & Vietnamese subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕

  • @thenerdywalker516
    @thenerdywalker516 4 года назад +10

    Hi Aileen. I just want to say thank you for your videos. As someone who was extremely shy and well nerdy in school, I was bullied often and as a result my self esteem has always been low. I even became a shut in for a few years. I've started to practice self love unconditionally and I've started to feel so much better. It's been an amazing journey though I still have a long way to go. The best thing about yourself is the way you speak in a way that we all can relate to. And I say this, even though I'm not in your target audience (I'm a guy in my early 30s).. Thanks again and continue your good work. You are an inspiration

  • @apoorvasingh4431
    @apoorvasingh4431 4 года назад +25

    "Our success 💫 is determined by what , we do daily. Excellence then is not an act it's a habbit"🛣

  • @rachels.5887
    @rachels.5887 4 года назад +1

    I started my first job at a gas station deli and all last week I would constantly say to myself, "I hate this, the co-workers are rude, the customers are creepy, and it smells so gross here". I need to stop. I am lucky to even have a job during this pandemic. I am bringing in my own income and my mindset is what really will define the job.
    I needed this reminder. Thank you So much!

  • @anapayet9976
    @anapayet9976 4 года назад +20

    Thanks for being so inspiring, this is really good lessons that everyone should hear, let's grow together

  • @Megpezz
    @Megpezz 4 года назад +4

    “you never will be led astray if you follow your inner compass.” yes 💜 thank you Aileen for sharing what you do and helping us connect to the wisdom we carry within. your authenticity and generosity are appreciated so much by myself and many others 💕

  • @nivedshibu1787
    @nivedshibu1787 3 года назад +35

    There are only 4 rules to success
    1)set a goal
    2)never give up
    3)dedication
    4)honesty
    👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @DaphneGsell
    @DaphneGsell 4 года назад +6

    This video was well needed this morning. I’ve been pressured to go into graduate school and I know I’m not ready. Today I will tell my dad that I just cannot do it at the moment.

  • @simplicitbliss8190
    @simplicitbliss8190 4 года назад +2

    I love the part about the internal and external success. Doesn't matter how much you have, you have to feel successful and be proud of your achievements or progress. Progress counts too!

  • @ankitasardar5900
    @ankitasardar5900 4 года назад +10

    I'm reading Atomic Habits currently. It's been great so far. I have been thinking about habits, success and lifestyle for a few days and you made this video. It gave me a lot of clarity. So thank you and always love you❣

  • @iffrarazaq1978
    @iffrarazaq1978 4 года назад +18

    "internal success" love that concept

  • @learnwithme2330
    @learnwithme2330 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for being a teacher in my life . When ever I feel like I hate myself your videos inspire and motivate me to start loving myself again .... Thanks

  • @SaransEnglish
    @SaransEnglish 4 года назад

    I am tired of praising and thanking you. So I am sending my love through green hearts(My fav)
    💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @MoonSignInsight
    @MoonSignInsight 4 года назад +13

    These are so true! I've struggled at the beginning of my businesses and career because I thought I had to do it alone as well, but connecting with others has really helped me. I love having a community to support. I love that quote so much! Thank you for sharing this

  • @ShrutiSingh-ky2id
    @ShrutiSingh-ky2id 2 года назад +3

    0:38 I really liked it - " There is a difference between knowing the lesson vs living the lesson. " Great quote Aileen :)

  • @her6330
    @her6330 4 года назад +10

    Hey Aileen ♡
    You're one of my favorite youtubers and you've helped me get my life together but recently I've found something called "the new age " movement which includes astrology, law of attraction, tarot cards, meditation, yoga, and things like that and Ive kinda gained and learned about these things from you but I've found that they might be bad and... demonic I don't completly understand why. Since you're so cool and smart, do you mind making a video of your opinion on it? Or at least look into it yourself so you truly know.
    Ilysm and I love your videos 💕

  • @diegobitsdev
    @diegobitsdev 3 года назад

    This is the best RUclips channel I've ever seen. Congratulations! You seriously have all my respect.

  • @probablyahuman3488
    @probablyahuman3488 4 года назад +39

    Thank you for posting this! Currently getting out of a slump, and this really helps! :D

  • @cookiedoowie4498
    @cookiedoowie4498 4 года назад +7

    Omggg I was just rewatching your 23 Habits of Successful People earlier and then you uploaded this. I feel extra motivated now 🥺🥰

  • @NikkiBVlogs
    @NikkiBVlogs 4 года назад

    Your voice is really soothing =) Playing this video while working

  • @mina9201
    @mina9201 4 года назад

    I have lavendaire in my life for 4 or 5 years..and everytime i feel tired u r here for me and everyone else to get to our goals...u helped me do everything i wanted...luv u so much❤️

  • @nandu4690
    @nandu4690 2 года назад

    I just love listening to you while cleaning my room

  • @khadhija7
    @khadhija7 4 года назад +2

    With that last habit, I have people I can connect with to help me but I'm so scared to include them in my projects because I'm scared they'll judge me or think that my projects aren't good.. I guess I'm just scared of criticism or that what I'm doing is worthless in the end... I feel like I need to work on my self confidence so that I can include others... thanks Aileen for this video 🤗🤗

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  4 года назад

      That’s understandable. Try to take that risk in a smaller way if you can - some you trust and aren’t too scared of their judgment. I also have lots of videos on self worth & confidence so you can search my playlists for that!

  • @yessicajani643
    @yessicajani643 4 года назад +4

    Why are you so inspiring??
    Loads of love to the lavendaire family 🤗🤗🤗

  • @pallavic9903
    @pallavic9903 4 года назад +3

    Love from India😍😘

  • @F0reverblessed
    @F0reverblessed 4 года назад +18

    Yes, yes, yes!!! The definition of success can be different for each person! A willingness to grow is a having a growth mindset. 🙇‍♀️
    From a self love content creator to another- great video Aileen. So informative!! 💗

  • @yashwiniraghavaendhra858
    @yashwiniraghavaendhra858 4 года назад

    She is such an amazing person..... ive never thought anything about what she talking about success. She is a true inspiration

  • @congratz9396
    @congratz9396 3 года назад

    You are my one and only personal coach!
    I actually listen to you.

  • @shreyaarora7941
    @shreyaarora7941 Год назад

    Habits i have started:-
    1.drinking more water
    2. Reading
    3. exercising.
    4. Journal.
    5. Postive self talk
    6. good eating habits.
    7. Singing (i love singing)
    Being 15yrs old teenager makes me feel proud of myself to build good habits 😴✌️

  • @sharonneontshelo7518
    @sharonneontshelo7518 4 года назад +8

    I'm early toda!, thank you Aileen. This is so timely for me thank you.🙌

  • @abhisiktapal2145
    @abhisiktapal2145 4 года назад +2

    Found your channel a few days ago, subscribed right after watching the first video. You've changed my life in such a wonderful way. You emit vibes that are soooo positive that I feel wonderful right away. Thank you so much

  • @aping_cyc
    @aping_cyc 3 года назад

    My gratitude today is to find out such a GREAT youtube channel!! Thank you for sharing all of these things! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vuan3434
    @vuan3434 2 года назад

    "Showing up everyday is a choice." Thank you for so much helpful messages!!

  • @lynnicecarter1210
    @lynnicecarter1210 3 года назад +1

    U definitely gave me a lot to think of. U also gave me confidence in myself. Thank you

  • @nainanijo56
    @nainanijo56 4 года назад

    YOur voice is so soothing to listen and things you talk about are very inspirational and helps me. think positively.

  • @iffrarazaq1978
    @iffrarazaq1978 4 года назад +9

    perfect timing

  • @lumusjessica
    @lumusjessica 4 года назад

    A voice is a voice. Soft.

  • @shiningstar-pn1ot
    @shiningstar-pn1ot 4 года назад +1

    It's so special for us to have a mentor and guider like you.....😀❤

  • @adamchan1930
    @adamchan1930 3 года назад

    You are the youtuber that I can trust and and take most of the advice from you.

  • @queensmith2096
    @queensmith2096 4 года назад +1

    Your are my inspiration and my motivation Aileen. I love watching you for a long time. I used to and I will listen and watch all your videos and podcasts. Love from my deep ❤️. May u have a good future and god bless you Aileen.

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  Год назад +8

    Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶

  • @dreamlikediana
    @dreamlikediana 4 года назад +1

    I definitely want to note that connecting with others is really vital. Getting through college, getting a specific position or career, or whatever is next in your life it really is important to stay connected. When I went back to school after originally dropping out for 5 years, I literally thought I was going to go to school and go home and do homework. And that's it. Yeah I didn't get very far with that mindset. I needed connections put myself out there to get to know my teachers, the staff, etc. And through that I was able to stay on top of sh*t and get through without many problems. Even now, I'm still connected to my old bosses, my old teachers, I'm applying to grad school and honestly if they didn't write me such amazing recommendation letters I probably wouldnt feel so certain. It probably wouldn't have looked well. But I helped them out they helped me out. I stay connected. I went through a bad year where sh*t hit the fan, my dad got hit by a car, etc I disappeared from everyone. But I came back I apologized I explained and they understood.

  • @roataniegra9706
    @roataniegra9706 4 года назад +13

    I'm early again, I think I'm sticking to my current routine now cause I always sit down on my desk at this hour and her video is up :3

    • @RAOSAHABMANISH
      @RAOSAHABMANISH 4 года назад

      Please friends visiting my RUclips channel

  • @saimoshreemaji9876
    @saimoshreemaji9876 4 года назад +6

    You channel helped my to change my life ❤️❤️ thank you soo sooo much 😭❤️❤️

  • @teddyw8457
    @teddyw8457 2 года назад

    Thank you for enlightening me and my daughter. I am grateful for your sharing. ❤️

  • @vinumi3772
    @vinumi3772 4 года назад +1

    Hi Lavendaire!You've helped me change for better alot.If not for you,I would've never been able to organise and plan my life.Thank you so much....
    Love from Sri Lanka❤

  • @goldendreamrose5993
    @goldendreamrose5993 4 года назад

    You know you are just "AWESOME"

  • @merchellealegado5045
    @merchellealegado5045 Год назад

    I appreciate your videos so much. It always gives me motivation and when I’m studying. I went through nursing school watching your videos and now I am done. Thanks for creating this meaningful content. Please continue to inspire more people ❤

  • @Michelle-xz1eq
    @Michelle-xz1eq 3 года назад

    It is the first time I'm watching you video and I'm so happy I found your channel!!! I ADORE YOU. Keep going!!! 💗

  • @viyonyvonne
    @viyonyvonne 4 года назад

    sometimes i push myself too much .. after watch this, maybe i might to have a change step by step.. thanks to you

  • @annageorge1723
    @annageorge1723 4 года назад

    You are one of the channels that I always come back to. Always learn something new or just refresh and get motivated to do what I already know. You're such a delightful gem! Thank you!

  • @DeaMathew
    @DeaMathew 4 года назад

    Take action... act despite fear...Thanks for uploading this amazing video........Action cures fear, inaction creates terror. .......

  • @MarinaElektra
    @MarinaElektra 3 года назад

    One of the best and practical video EVER. Thank you for sharing ❤❤

  • @06_jasleenkaur43
    @06_jasleenkaur43 4 года назад +2

    Lavandaire is the best person, always inspiring and motivating🤗😇

  • @bellagabriel3096
    @bellagabriel3096 2 года назад

    In all the videos I watch and hear. Your videos is the only one who make sense🤧✌ Thank you for this.

  • @hennamaria4537
    @hennamaria4537 4 года назад +1

    I liked the 'consious stearing' part...it is a new mindset towards negative feedback...keep going Lavendaire....ur sound is calming nd inspiring

  • @aida087
    @aida087 4 года назад

    Aileen I was guided in recently finding your channel so thank you SO much for this video and everything you said is SO true!! You are such a wise young woman!! I'm 57 years old and I'm just realizing what I need to be doing with my life but I'm a firm believer in that *it's never too late to achieve your dreams!!* I recently got into Meditation to stop the noise of the world, and to help me figure out myself and my LIFE!! Looking forward to watching more of your videos and yes, I'm a lifelong Learner always welcoming new things and ideas, LIFE is an everlasting lesson!!💖🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼

  •  2 года назад +1

    I learn alot of things from this video, thanks.

  • @antoniarashida
    @antoniarashida 3 года назад

    You are worthy of great success & your wildest dreams ❤️

  • @nayah3191
    @nayah3191 3 года назад

    A woman with wisdom 💕 been learning a lot and love to watch your videos. 🤗🙏

  • @camillapalermo4642
    @camillapalermo4642 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much 💋😘 your videos are the best 🤞❤️ love from Italy ♥️🇮🇹

  • @myanhoang8181
    @myanhoang8181 3 года назад

    thank you. Wish you have a nice day!

  • @imanesemlali4668
    @imanesemlali4668 3 года назад

    Lavendaire i have been listen to you for a long time, you are inspirer , you share à positive energy, you are à dynamic girl and each time i listen to you ,you give me news thoughts , THANK YOU 🧡🧡🧡

  • @kozo4326
    @kozo4326 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for this. I want to start a RUclips channel but I keep putting it off because I’m afraid to start. Really glad you spoke about taking action.❤️❤️

  • @jasonlee6071
    @jasonlee6071 4 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for this video! Your channel is so encouraging and helpful! I've _known_ that success is relative, but the way you explained it helped me to truly _understand_ that success is relative, so thank you!

  • @jemaykeziah
    @jemaykeziah 2 года назад

    Thanks for this! Especially the one with the feedback 😊 Conscious steering ...

  • @toetovocaloid
    @toetovocaloid 4 года назад

    Good advice I've learned lately: Play the game, but don't take it too seriously.
    Sometimes we forget in our daily hustles that life is short, and that life actually is hard. But we don't have to complicate life even further, we just have to do our best each day and trust that our work will get us somewhere 🌻
    Lovely video again Aileen 💖

  • @blossombreeze6734
    @blossombreeze6734 4 года назад +49

    I rlly want to be successful so I don’t waste my life!

  • @linhnguyen4615
    @linhnguyen4615 2 года назад

    From Vietnam with love 🍀🍀. I'm a big fan of you. After many time listening your voice through podcast, I fall in love with your wonderful voice. If IELTS examiners ask me to describe my favorite famous person, I will definitely talk about you. 🌻🌻

  • @caterinsierra1583
    @caterinsierra1583 3 года назад

    I started to watch this videos today and I really enjoy your content for learn English, It makes me feel excited to learn English

  • @cokiechanpinca
    @cokiechanpinca 4 года назад

    Omgggg i love your hair Aileen🥺 you look really beautiful❤️ I admire you. So empowering!

  • @shivangipanicker6063
    @shivangipanicker6063 4 года назад +2

    You are amazing aileen you always helps us to improve our journey of life , glad I'm part of your community. 😇🥰

  • @leesora6362
    @leesora6362 3 года назад

    a person taught me that happiness is the key to success.

  • @Acrylara
    @Acrylara 3 года назад

    When she mentioned atomic habits I was like "I called it!"
    Heard everyone talk about it for forever and I finally bought it two days ago. Can't wait til it arrives!

  • @duetchu1416
    @duetchu1416 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for spreading the inspiration!! ❤️ You're full of wisdom, beauty and calmness as always. So thankful that I found you

  • @aishichatt
    @aishichatt 4 года назад

    You are such a beauty in heart and soul. Thank you for always inspiring us. Sending you lots of love and positive vibes 💛

  • @swissmissgeneva
    @swissmissgeneva 4 года назад +1

    I'm just so proud of you. Keep making a difference !

  • @annabera7244
    @annabera7244 4 года назад +1

    When I started watching your video , I just realized that I got the best RUclipsr for motivation
    Thank you ❤

  • @samanthahoang6772
    @samanthahoang6772 4 года назад

    I cannot thank you enough Aileen 😭 I did the dream life series and I have to say my mind and my heart have opened up so much. I realize everyone has a different version of success, and it's definitely possible to achieve it if I work consistently. Some days are hard when the negative feelings get to you... but we're all still growing and accomplishing things every day!

  • @asifahsohail7988
    @asifahsohail7988 Год назад

    My inner compass directed me to this channel and I agree we should believe in it ❤

  • @ShrutiSingh-ky2id
    @ShrutiSingh-ky2id 2 года назад +1

    I really like when she says " okay "

  • @sharonqueensabbath3656
    @sharonqueensabbath3656 3 года назад

    All the way from South Africa,You inspire me so much🇿🇦 I love you ....Keep up the good work🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @reddypoguraju3265
    @reddypoguraju3265 4 года назад +2

    So, iam a 9th grade school student and I am trying to be successful at my school🥰🥰🥰Thankyou Aileen for your guidance 💜💜💜😀😀😀

  • @theemillymaloa1133
    @theemillymaloa1133 3 года назад

    I thank God I came across this channel.

  • @lyrrmd
    @lyrrmd 4 года назад

    we all need lavendaire in our lives

  • @daisychains8304
    @daisychains8304 3 года назад

    I’ve been watching your videos for two hours now. I’ve gotten so much done thank you!