15 Things I Wish I Knew in My 20s 🧠
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- What I wish I knew in my 20s-life lessons & advice. Watch if you're feeling lost & need some guidance for your journey. Thanks BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Get 10% off your first month of BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/aileen
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I am 22 and so lost! I can't sit, sleep, eat, drink without thinking what I want to do in my life. Anxious all the time. Weird chest pains, deep breathing the entire day. This video came at a perfect time and it really helped. I feel at ease
(Edit: It's been 3 months now & time really heals everything. I'm not lost anymore. I found a purpose & maybe it's temporary but I'm in a better place now. Let it pass)
Samee I can relate with you
I'm also 22 and i feel you 🥺
Hey , did You just describe Me 🙃
Relatable 😭
I’ve been feeling the same lately
I am 20, and I am happy to know that it is not only me who is scared of future!..and anxious as well.. I am focused on my career but continuously failing, I literally don't have friends to chill out with, neither I go out of my home!..this silence kills me inside.
I hope that you will find good friends to share and spend time with❤
Thanks for being so vulnerable! If you’re interested, my entire YT channel is dedicated to supporting 20-somethings with personal development content to help you learn how to love your life… no matter what kind of ups & downs you might be experiencing. All the best to you!😊
Same situation as mine
Aaaahhh yes
Same here
The pressure of having everything figured out is what stops us from exploring things that we might actually enjoy! I've been in this phase of trying new things without a reason and it's honestly so liberating! :)
As someone who just turned 25 I relate to this video so much. This is the period of time where we are supposed to know what we’re supposed to be doing but I love that you make a point to say it’s okay to be lost or still figuring it out because there is no end destination in life. There is only constant growth 💜
Turning 25 in a few days but I’ve been in a deep hole feeling super lost for months 🥲
why do i see you everywhere omg
25 🙋🏻♀️
Same here
@@giialiinh same I've seen her commenting on Tatiana videos
Man I love that.
"Follow your curiosity vs your passion. "
Your passion is something that you've already been exposed to vs your curiosity being quiter like a baby flame.
Love how you put it! The imagery helps with connecting the dots :)
Thank you Aileen for this advice!
happy it helped! 😍
I’m turning 28 next week and I still have no idea what I’m doing with my life… and that’s ok! If going through my 20s during the pandemic has taught me anything, it’s that curiosity and vision will carry you through. No matter what job/ opportunities I think I lost, there’s always something internally leading you where you need to go.
0:44 1) Nobody knows what they're doing
3:26 2) Take your biggest risks when you're young
4:27 3) Think long term and have a big picture goal
6:33 4) Nobody cares about you as much as you think they do
8:19 5) Recognize and release your need for external validation
9:27 6) Learn to be your authentic self
11:08 7) Follow your curiosity and your fear
13:41 8) Take action
15:16 9) Stop being so hard on yourself
16:45 10) Embrace the struggles
18:05 11) Your purpose reveals itself to you over time
19:28 12) The power of compounding
21:14 13) Learn about money
23:20 14) Don't compare your path to others'
24:13 15) Trust the journey
you're such a big help!!
Lol i wish i learned all this when i was a teenager!!!
Thanks 😘
Thank you❤️
Thank you so much for this video! It was so on point. 🙏🏼
I'm 24 and trying to figure out things happening in my life. Feeling lost and comparing myself with others. But I am trying to manage and love myself. And I know I can be there where I meant to be 😊
Same Here Luv… Trust Me Your Not Alone. 💯
Just a solid "thank you" from the bottom of my heart.
22(almost23), lost the last 2 and a half years due to amental and physical health issue.
People left. My nursing degree isn't what i truly wanted. Part timer worker. Small salary. Heath issue. Stressed and nostalgic. Currently Doing things i love and accepting life's challenges to grow. But i don't know where to start, what's the right path for me.
I thought i wasted my uni years for nothing. And I'm tired of studying more..and i don't even know if it Worths my time to do so...
To all the lost souls out there. May we find our way out of the dark.✨🌻🙏
Oh mu gosh are we the same person!!!!?????? Literally SAME. But im 23. I graduate nursing school in December and i hate it. Don’t want to be a nurse anymore. Idk what i want.
@@janeth3187 you're not alone!!Lost AF:/
SAME 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😱😱
When you feell like failing is a taboo 😭😭😥
I'm 22 going to be 23 in a month and same as you I graduated from nursing school 3 months ago. I feel the exact same the way you do. I don't wanna be a nurse but I also don't know what I wanna do apart from that :( atleast I feel better seeing this comment understanding that I'm not the only one. I hope everything works out well for us🌷
Really love the sentence "this is the time you have less to lose" that makes me feel less scared about what I'm gonna do. I quit my job and focus on learning Korean with a hope that I could work as a Korean translator. Maybe I will be happy with my choice, or also will be not, but who knows. Just because I could do as I wish now, I will never regret what I did no matter what happened in the future.
Same here. I just turned 20 and I just lose my job which supports me and my study. That phrase comforts me the most right now. Compared to other people, I don't have much to lose taking risk and taking new paths. ❤️
Hey how's your study going?
How did it go?
Your 20s it’s definitely your PRIME time!! Explore, try new things and rediscover yourself. You don’t have to remain the same. Always, remember that this is YOUR life and it’s all about what you want not what others want or expect of you! 🤍
From a self love content creator to another; great topic Aileen! 💜
sharing with you who wanna take notes💙
1. nobody knows what they are doing
2. take your biggest risks when you are young
3. have a big picture of life
4. nobody cares as much as you think they do
5. recognize and release external validation
6. learn to be your authentic self
7. follow your curiosity and fear
8. take action
9. stop being so hard on yourself
10. embrace the struggles
11. finding your purpose
12. the power of compounding
13. learn about money
14. don't compare your path to others
15. trust your journey
omg thank you!
These advice also applies in my 30's, im 32 and still navigating life like a 20's. I'm being hard on myself and now I release and let go.
I just turned 25 and I’m feeling so lost. So glad I came across your video ❤️
my golden rule is treat yourself just like u treat others, just like you are compassionate, giving, kind and loving to others, do it to urself as well
I'm in my 40s and I relate to this one so much! Life is so much about learning to embrace uncertainties.
I just turned 26, and this is video is so comforting. I already related once you started with tip #1. i was a new grad at the start of the pandemic, and like you, I couldn't be okay without a plan set for every day after four years of studying in college. I was rushing myself to move on to the next "achievement", but the pandemic has taught me to slow down and pace myself. Though I'm still trying to go through this journey, I'm a lot more gentle with myself compared to my early 20's. Thank you for this!
I relate a lot with your comment... I'm turning 25 this year and it feels just like you said !! Thank you for sharing.
Stepping outside of my comfort zone is something I never regret. Needed this 💖
Thank you so much for this video. I am 22, and I'm struggling. I don't know what I want to do with my life. My anxiety is all over the place. Listening to your tips made me feel some peace about myself. ❤💓
Girl I hope you are making a video about navigating your 30s next because I literally feel 29 going on 19 - in the worst way. It's like my early 20s drained all of my youthful vigor and ambition out of me and I've been legit floating in place for the last 3 years, no clue what to do next (the global panini is also a part of that but that's the case for everyone i think). I so admire your channel growth and business you've built for yourself - so I know you've got that good advice lol
Erin, I’m in the same boat as you. Most of my friends are more or less feeling the same. We have to stay positive and manifest our dreams. Stay strong sister - our 30s will be better :)
Same, I feel like I wasted my 20s and now want at least to do better in my 30s, but the world is sooo crazy right now and all my friends are getting children and although I know that is not the path for me, I feel like I'm doing something wrong all the time :/ And the increasing pains makes me anxious of getting old😐
@@heyheyvicky1498 I also feel the same way. Its strange to be in your early 30s and see most of your friends getting married and having children. Thats however not the path for me.
I can relate to this. Left a toxic relationship over a year ago and going on 34. I’m focusing on getting my life together. Lots to catch up on 😌
@@j12barron You got this
I'm 24. As someone who struggles with mental health and feeling lost. Love how u touch upon mental health like depression and social anxiety.
Thank you! 🧡
I am 24 and I have been so hard on myself for not finding my passion in life, and constantly looking for ways just to end up being even more stressed. Thank you for making me realize how we suppose to follow our curiosity instead of directly jump into finding our "passion", you present it in the clearest and most beautiful way it can be. Love your beautiful soul ❤️
I'm 25 and having trouble letting go of my stable life to follow the "things that light me up" since it calls for me leaving my hometown and living in the city. I know it'll be best for me but I'm afraid to leave my family and that I won't make enough money to survive on my own. However, if I don't take the risk now I'll just sit here in regret and never know if its where I'm meant to go.. Another advice you gave was "No one cares as much as you think" I compromise a lot for others so this really was something I needed to hear.
Thank you Aileen so much for making these vids, they really are like therapy and help so much when I'm feeling lost or stressed💗
the “people don’t care about you as much as you think you do” is such an important, peaceful lesson to learn.
i recently had a really bad injury and got stitches on my face and broke my nose. my best friend kept telling me she really wanted to see me but every time we made plans she said something came up. at first i was so angry with her, i mean i’m injured and if she was in this situation, i would’ve seen her ASAP.
however, i quickly realized she does have her own life. she has her own issues and situations and honestly unless i was on my deathbed, i don’t think my injuries crossed her mind after a day or two. now while i was mad, i think realizing and accepting i can’t force someone to care about me the way i want them too is more freeing. i don’t hate her. if i did have hugh expectations of her i would’ve hated her for not seeing me
🙀💦 I don't know you, but I sincerely hope you recover really soon! I don't know your friend either, but it could be that she's shocked and isn't confident she could act the right way to comfort or help you... Afraid of saying the wrong thing, acting the wrong way...? Whatever is going through her mind, you're totally right that each person has his/her things to deal with. You're smart for even attempting to detach a little.. Idk how I would've responded 😿 (I did have someone text and call me after I just came out of the hospital from an emergency surgery.. But the person was complaining it was his birthday and that I hadn't celebrated it.. Uh, good for him he was going about his normal life 😹)
@@edele24ballet thank you, love! honestly both my close friends aren't the best with comfort haha so i try not to hold it against them! and thank you i really appreciate your sentiment :(( its been hard but i always try to give people the benefit of the doubt and not assume anything because honestly ive been on the opposite of the same situation - it can be hard to see people even if you really want to.
and omg i cant believe your situation!! are you still friends with that person?
@@gurleen7041 Giving people the benefit of doubt is a wonderful practice! When my dad's sister was hospitalized for a serious brain condition, most of the family didn't show up at the hospital, so his sister's daughter was hurt, thinking they didn't care.. (Her mother was in a coma..) Actually, most of the family were too devastated that they couldn't show up.. They must've felt so powerless.. My emergency surgery was 20 years ago 🐾💝 I felt right then and there we couldn't possibly stay friends 😹 Now I do think he really trusted me in a special way, relied on me, but just wasn't mature enough to be considerate of my health.. In his mind he wasn't trying to be cruel, but simply thought I should always be taking care of him.. Yeah, I feel he saw me as a superwoman! Though I was a regular human, weak and in pain 😿 Thank you for asking 💕
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2) Describing how curiosity is this small flame and like bread crumbs was eye opening to me. Another piece of advice that resonated with me was following your fears because you're afraid of something because you care about it a lot. I've been putting off making a decision to attend graduate school because I'm afraid of this next step, but I didn't realize it was because I cared about it that the fear of messing up has been holding me back.
Thank you so much for this video! I'm glad I found it, and I really really needed to hear this today.
7) Follow your curiosity and fear
This tip hit me. As Aileen said, I don't have a burning passion. My fear is the criticism from others. That's why I have difficulty expressing myself and my opinions. And I'm feeling lost in my 24, not knowing where to go the path ahead. This video really helps me a lot. Thank you so much, Aileen. I love you.
wishing you all the best 😊
I am also in my path on dealing with criticism from others. it hard to stay positive when people gives me an opinion. hopes i could get this through very soon
I‘m incredibly grateful that I have access to all this wisdom and advice on your channel.. I‘m at the beginning at my 20s and your videos always ease my fear of the future. Thank you so much for your content and keep on healing this world
Im 21, 3rd year college taking up medical technology. I failed 1 prerequisite subject now i have to reenroll it and wait for 1 year before my internship🥺😔. I feel drained and tired I'm loosing interest with my chosen course. At the same time I'll disappoint my parents who's expecting me to finish my course on time😔And I don't know what to do anymore. But thank you for giving me some hope to remain strong and for reminding me that it is ok not to know all of the answers, its ok to fail. And that i just have to believe in myself than seek external validation💜
Im 19 in a week. I also have an emotional burnout and your video is giving me a support and hope. I got motivation and strength to start doibg smth. Also i wanna go to course in january and so i have doubts, but after your video I firgured out that I really Wanna go
Thank you ❤️
Thank you for putting out this video!! I definitely needed it as I have been struggling with figuring out who I am and my purpose in life. I have been needing guidance and my family is not very good about conversation!!
I really appreciate this, as a person in my early 20's I felt so seen. The advice that really spoke to me was the advice of understanding that this time in my life is (more or less) SUPPOSED to be rigorous and challenging (in that it's normal to have to struggle to "find myself" and my purpose)
Great video as always. I love point 7, that you corrected as your fear and curiosity. They will lead you to your passion and purpose
I just turned 21 and I feel so bad, it feels like time flew and I jumped from 18 to 21 ( probably because of the pandemic and quarentine) and it's making my anxiety worse. This video came on the perfect time
I’m also 21 and feel the exact same way. Ur not alone and i hope it all gets better for you soon 💕
@@nalayuta2291 thank you so much! ❤️ I hope it will get better for you too! We're not alone 🤍
Loo
You have a SOOTHING VOICE. I was able to follow attentively everything you said and your words are definitely advice I need to hear as a 21 year old, outta college. Sending you a virtual hug ... thank you for sharing this. By the way I absolutely love your haircut - it suits you well.
this is actually so comforting. i could listen to your words all day, really really thank u for this! im just glad it came up in my recos ❤️
I don't why but I always feel better and have a sense of relief whenever I watch your videos. Specifically, this video helps me realize more new things in life. I'm going through a little stress and pressure, but when I get your support, I feel like I don't need to be hard on myself and need time to know who I am and my own value. I really appreciate it
thank you💖 this is what i need now, and you help me a lot. I'm going 20 this year and need this kind of Adultng tips and i hope you upload more.🥰
I am 22 and turning 23 in May and all of this resonated a lot with me. A lot of these tips are things I already have in my subconscious and conscious but even then it can be hard for me to stick to them. I’m taking this as my sign to be consistent in applying them and watch my life change for the better. I’ve been going through the worst depression of my life since the beginning of last year and I just know my life isn’t how I want it to be. Sometimes I feel super helpless but I have moments where either my guides or higher self comes through and it’s like girl you got so much potential just tap into it, you got it. It’s wild because just yesterday I was reflecting on my life and putting out into the Universe what I want and talking to my guides, asking them to guide me, and then this is the first video I see this morning Thank you for this advice! You are a light and I know I’m not the only one who needed this and appreciates you and your content ✨🤍🌱
Take care. 🖤
Thank you! I’m 23 and I feel so bad, I feel lost and sometimes like I’m a loser. But this video change my perspective of life and take me to stay calm too.
Thank you, I really needed to hear this! Have a wonderful day!☺️🌺
My favourite one is follow your fear. It is not easy to go out of your comfort zone, emotionally, mentally and in every other way. But this is where we grow the most. Overall, learnt so much here - even though I am also in my 30ties now! Thank you for this video!
Thank you so much for sharing this..as a mother of a young 21 year old daughter..sometimes hearing it from someone else is refreshing! ❣️✨
Loving your videos. I'm nearly 29 and going through a bit if a questioning phase at the moment with my life, career and relationship and your videos are super helpful and detailed. Thank you for your Notion planner as well. Keep up the positive vibes!
Aileen! I adore all your videos but dang, this one is your best yet!!! The advice is so solid
Currently watching this as im about to turn 25 in June, this video was very helful and relatable as I feel so lost right now and in a huge rut, Ive been taking alot of breaks and just trying to evaluate my life and explore more interests since I don't know what I actually like.
This video came at a perfect time, I’ve been feeling lost and trying to get out because I felt like I always had direction prior to this. It’s so hard and I hate how some days I didn’t accomplish anything. However, I’ve been watching your videos and I write down what I do daily and plan my days. It helps me feel better and slowly gain my confidence back. Thank you so much for being inspiring :)
Your videos make me cry. It's like a warm hug.Thank you Aileen for this video!
I thought I was already having a really hard time when I was still a student but looking back, I feel like life was so much easier back then. Like what you said, the path was clear when I was a student. I had clear goals - to get into my dream university, to graduate and to pass the board exam. However, now that I've achieved these goals, I feel lost. I feel like I've chosen the wrong career but I don't know what's the right one if this isn't it. I've been thinking about the things I love, things I'm good at, things that I can be paid for and things the world need but I still don't have the answer. I don't know what I really want to do in life and it's so frustrating. I was so focused on reaching my goals back then that I lost myself. I was so busy studying so I didn't have time for the hobbies that I used to enjoy and now I feel like I totally lost my interest in them. Nothing makes me feel excited anymore. :(
All the tips were so good. I love how you explain every obvious point so beautifully ❤️
I love how she included her feelings and being honesty open about the mental breakdowns we go through
Thanks Aileen for such a useful and supportive video. That's exactly what most of us need to hear🌿
Please. This video came in impeccable timing. Everything you said from start to finish... everything resonated so well with me. I needed this. Thank you so much for sharing all this. Sometimes we already know all this advice but to hear you break it down and talk to us like a friend... it was a beautiful reminder xx
Well it is so relatable ..It's so stressful trying to cope with expectations of people around u and expectations u need from yourself when you already lost and just want things to get clear ..alot of overthinking, anxiety overwhelming and no body can understand this .. big thanks for sharing this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I think it’s so sweet of her to share all of her lessons with us and I’m actually feeling so much better and positive after watching this Thank you so much!!❤️
1, Follow my fear and my curiosity . That is right, we are young, many of us have no children yet, we are kinda care free and don't have much too lose. 2, Nobody thinks of me more than some seconds before they get back with their own thoughts and self concern. It is SO TRUE . We are just humans, we selfishly🤣 have so many thoughts of our own look, purposes,.. that need to be figured out, how could we think about other people ( although of course we love our families, friends and care of them). 3, Let go perfectionism because I am the best with my own flow. I was crazy about perfectionism and it did hurt so much my mental health, caused me more unnecessary tasks to do . The point was I could NOT see it was a problem in order to give up on it, as a terribly harmful habit. My confession is I am NOT that fast learning, not that smart. But I see beauties in things and understand stuffs, so I don't need to be straight A of everything. 4, I don't need to stick with an exact image of a successful me in a specific career from present to the rest of my life😨. Because NOW that heavily stressful thought (which's supposed to make me feel safe, oriented and ordered) drives me crazily miserable 🤣 ( My real example is I force myself to become a leader of some huge and professional NGO 😵💫 to "really" create influences and change people in a macro way 😂). Instead of that, I can do things I enjoy ( Now I start volunteering to help children in small provinces near my area with learning English. It truly makes me feel happy and lights up my heart)☺ .
5, I hated money and the way money worked. It was a boring field that I was extremely fed up at university. But now I change. It turns out I like working professionally in taxes and accounting. There are so many things I can related to your content . I think it's one of your best videos. Thank you so so so much for sharing these thinking and advices.
thanks a lot. your words are really inspiring. i'm 20 now and feeling kinda lost in life. your advice really encouraged me to take steps forward the life i want to live
Follow your curiosity is such an amazing piece of advice, thank you so much for this video
Thank you so much, Aileen! I love all of your advices. Continue to inspire others. We need someone like you especially nowadays.🌸
Me as a Ukrainian watching this video become excited for life again after 24th February. Looking forward to end of war to continue living my existing life
So guys living in a peaceful country just know that no matter what you are going through you are so blessed 😇. Sending you all love 💕
Sending you so much love 💕
Thank you for this video, Eileen - your advice is always so helpful to hear, and really makes this journey of life less daunting to navigate 💗
about to graduate in less than a month and had been stuck in a never ending cycle of emotional burdens; dilemma, stress, pressure, decisional crisis, etc. I really needed this video, it helped me know that I'm not the only one feeling lost and anxious like I am now and that these are all part of the process if I wanna get where I want to. Thank you so much Lavendaire, I love your personality, your way of thinking and most importantly, your energy.
Very relevant video at the right time,
Thanks for the valuable insights
😊❤
I nearly cried. I turned 21. It's early my 20s but it hit hard to me. I'm trying to find myself because nothing feels like me anymore. And your video came when I needed it! Thank you love! Your words was amazing and I need to head them! Thank you again and love you so much 💜
I love coming to your channel when i feel down for no special reason. Just seeing and hearing your calm positive energy really aligns well with my own energy and where I want to be. I don’t know if you ever worry about repetitive content, but you don’t need to because that’s the content I’m here for. I’ll always be excited to see any of your old videos re-filmed into updated versions ¨̮ sending love from south korea ❤️❤️
Bless your heart ♥️ this has been so eye opening and I feel like such a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Thank you for this video.
Thank you Aileen! This video came out at the right time. I’m actually taking baby steps and this video is definitely gonna keep me going. I’m finding it difficult to accept certain things in my life and I really don’t feel enough of myself now. Thanks a lot! And answer to your question is - If I stop caring about what other people think, I would feel more contented with my life✨ and I would start taking risks to learn new things🌟🌹
I adored your tip on following your curiosity! There are so many things I am curious about trying but never do because I always fall back on what is safe… so in 2022 I want to be more curious!
Love that goal!
I love your advice follow your curiosity and your fear, I feel that connects to the bit you said about delving into yourself NOW so you can feel peace sooner. I would love to full heartedly do so and i appreciate your advice.
Hi Lavendaire, very helpful and good video! Thank you so much for your time, energy and effort you put into this video!
i really love your videos and find them so helpful and inspiring
Thank you ❤️. It was much needed for now. I'm 22 going through so many changes in life , having Doubts and transformation and everything. Finding myself clueless. But this video helpful for understanding better. ❤️
Same here❤️
I'm 26 and going through that phase right now. I actually saw my therapist yesterday and we talked about the fact that it's ok to not know what to do in life or to not know what I truly like or makes me happy. Few months ago I was so scared of being lost in my life and for the first time yesterday I enjoyed it! I felt kinda free and happy to be able to discover myself more and just to enjoy life as it is. I've been so hard on myself these past few years and I put too much pressure on myself I had to stop working few months ago to take a break and to rest a little. It has been hard but I'm actually starting to understand (finally) that it's ok to be lost and it's ok to make mistakes.
Thank you for your video! I felt less alone for a moment ❤
Literally agree with everything you said! Thanks for making a video so hopefully others really listen and try to apply this advice to their life to fully enjoy their time on earth✨❤️
I always compare myself to others even though they're older or younger than me. I always remind myself stop comparing myself to others but I couldn't.But now I've decided to only focus on myself. Anyway thanks for your motivations and kind words. I really appreciate it❤️.
To stop being so hard on myself, i am still dealing with this, thank you for sharing dear
It's nice to know there are people like you in the world. I appreciate your wisdom and the time you take to make these videos
I’m 21 next month and I couldn’t be grateful enough to be your subscriber since years ago and learn so much from you, especially with this kind of video that is much needed for me. Thanks Aileen xoxo
hey i hope you’re doing great 😊
Thank you so much Aileen for this video! I think I need to watch this video everyday to remind myself to be grateful and not so hard on myself
Thank you so much for this. Beautiful and life changing 😭❤️💕 God bless!!
I am literally in tears rn...it feels like your big sister is guiding you...i just turned 20 and yeah i was lost, your videos helps me a lot....thank you sm Lavi
Now at the tail end of my twenties (turning 29 next month) I resonate a lot with this video. Being gentle with yourself, following your curiosity, steering with the flow, leaning into your intuition etc. It's important to recognize that we all have different starting points in life (i.e. structure vs. agency) and we're all on different timelines. Videos on hyperproductivity compound my anxiety and existing feelings of worthlessness. I really appreciated this video. Thank you
hope you are convinced with what you said- we're all on diff timelines! then any video on hyperprod or worthlessness question shouldn't be a concern- isn't it?
and to add to ur comment- at times results are dislocated in times and not exactly the same we wished/worked for- still appreciable/ not worthless- and what is so important about hyperprod that is even equal our worth ? we need to know urself/ get our priorities right & clear ! i think so.. all the best..
I’m going into highschool so I’m far away from my twenties but I will be taking these things into consideration, thank you lavendaire. (also I love ur meditations)
Thank you so much for this amazing video. Listening to you makes me feel better about myself and it's gives me a lot of good energy
I love the tips you gave on not Caring so much about what others are thinking. I realized getting major anxiety from wondering what my parent or dad would think about me doing this or that. come to find out none of that stuff even really mattered once I started reflecting that he doesn't care as much as iv'e been thinking. its definitely still a progress but im moving forward.
This was so needed right now, thank you so much for this amazing video! I’m 21 and am currently at a crossroads - heavily been thinking about changing careers but there’s so many factors to think about. The advice that most resonated with me is take the biggest risks when I’m young, I know I have a good support system behind me so we’ll see what the future holds for me 😌🤞🏼
Good luck!
Relate! 21 here, too. Gooo sis 💞
really enjoyed this video,it feels like having a big sister that i never had !
Thank you so much for sharing these advices...I am in my 20s and I was somehow not feeling clear. But this is really helpful 😌
I am 21 and struggling. I felt lost. Thank you so much for the video. I felt like the advice came straight from my big sister. It really helped me a lot to calm myself down. Thanks again!!
I’m 14 at the time of writing this, and being 20 seems so far yet so near at the same time. This video is really interesting and I would probably keep all your advice in mind for when I finally turn 20 in a few years!! 💓🥺
All I'm saying is that I've seen people change their lives completely at 50 years old and are now the happiest , healthiest and wealthiest they ever been . And that's highly admirable. We're just getting to know ourselves in our 20s. And we'll never figure out everything nomatter how old we get.
This video is amazing and relatable.💕
Sending you love and positive energy to everyone 💕💕💕
Thank you for this video!! I just turned 20, and I'm going into my 3rd year of college; and making these more significant decisions and taking steps towards them has been very daunting and overwhelming at times. But realistically, no decision I make has to be permanent! I should try things and make changes as I learn. Life is about gaining experience and continually learning and growing!
Your videos ALWAYS resonate with me thank you so much for your content!
U re amazing we love you and u re such a inspiration for me
sis, after watching a lot of your videos I realized how precious you are, your videos gave me motivation and your voice healed me and I just want you to know that you mean a lot to me
Really needed to hear this rn... Thank you!❤️
I recently stumbled upon your channel, and immediately I was a fan. Time to listen to your podcast! Such a soothing and reassuring voice. Like a hug for my ears ❤
This video was so useful omg. I stopped the video everytime you said something that made me reflect about myself and journal about it and this made me realize a lot of things. Thank you so much❤️
wow that’s a great exercise!
I really needed this video, I am an aspiring multi hyphenate Actress and I'm feel lost and hopeless on how to get to where I'm going🦋💎🔥Thank you ❤️
Love this! Currently 23😊 planning to solo trip before the end of this year.This was both eye opening and reassuring THANK YOU!! ❤
thank you so much for your wonderful advice, wish you all the best in life, you said the right thing " we are not alone"