how to believe in yourself (even if no one else does)
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- Опубликовано: 6 апр 2023
- Let's talk about how to believe in yourself & your vision, even if no one else does. Self belief is having self confidence, self love and knowing your self worth. It's trusting your intuition, because sometimes, only you can see what you see. Don't expect others to understand. Just do it, and show them. Stop doubting yourself and believe in your vision ☀️
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This title hit me hard in the feels because I’m literally sitting here, feeling like a joke and wondering what steps I have to take to surround myself with people who do believe in me. 6/10 self belief; I need to be more patient, make a plan I can stick to and set boundaries on how much I share. Thank you!!
Hi there😊I believe in you and that you'll get through this. There are moments I need to hear this so if it's the same case here you have it ❤
Hi there, what helped me was getting new people around me who were in a new starting chapter. We had our own ideas or focus but helped each other to keep going. I only talk my ideas to a certain amount of people and that is what fuels my believe. I am still not at my full potential but working on it. So you keep going and keep believing in ur vision. U will get there just keep going. ❤
We believe in you 🌸🌸🌸
I believe in you♥️ you are a beautiful soul🦋
Same 😢
You can’t really do anything difficult if you don’t believe in yourself 💯
Yup!!
@laurasouto6256 Yes! Remind yourself that when you put your mind to it you are able to accomplish hard things. You did it with English and can do it with other things. English is a hard language to learn so if you can learn that you can learn anything!
For me when I need.
3:12 “People can’t see what’s in your mind.
Only you can see what’s in your mind and in your heart.”
3:34 “Trust yourself, trust your vision, and truly believe in it in order to give it the energy.”
5:08 “If you feel like your vision is so out there and a lot of people are going to reject it, then just don’t tell them. Keep a boundary that protects you from anything that takes you away from that deep inner knowing.”
6:54 “Get super clear on your vision & idea.”
11:03 “Because only you can see it, you are like the medium to bring that vision to life.”
12:18 “Your dream don’t have to make sense to other people. You don’t even have to share it with other people if you want to keep it to yourself, if you want to protect it for yourself.”
13:14 “Have patience for the journey”
13:56 “Putting all of your energy into it and just do the thing and be patient.”
"People don't see what's in your mind or heart" That's so beautiful... Everybody has talked about self love but no one actually pin pointed this thing... Thanks aileen🧡💚💜
thank you!!
Where I’m at right now is realizing that I kinda believe in myself but when there’s so much negativity I start to doubt my dream. I need to learn or figure out how to have a barrier around me when ppls opinions are just negative.
I feel like why other people opinion matters so much to us is that if no one's watching or appreciating you begin to question what the worth of what you're doing is. I noticed that I'm more dedicated and passionate when someone is watching me on the other hand I feel like a waste of space when I'm doing nothing productive and I'm being watched. Very intriguing
I needed this as I am going to study again, hoping to make my family proud of me. And today is my birthday so this is perfect 🥳🤩
Happy Birthday!🎉❤🎊🎉🎊💕💞💐🎂
Happy birthday 🎉 You can do it!
Happy birthday! Sending tons of positive manifestations your way 🥳✨
Happy Birthday 🎂
happy birthday!!!
Hey Aileen,
I have been following for around 5 years and I have grown so much with you. I never forget to send your videos to the people who struggle with self doubt. If I write an autobiography, you will be there in at least 5 to 10 chapters. I am not at all exaggerating. 💓 I love you so much and I have never missed any of your videos. Whenever I look back, it's amazing. I still have struggles but life is just a bliss now. I am extremely grateful to you. ❤ You really have no idea how much I love you as a person. Thank you so much❤❤❤ If you ever visit India, please let me know. I am dreaming to meet you one day and I am sure I will one day♥️♥️♥️♥️This has been a dream for a long time. Either in India or in US. ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Wow!! So amazing how long we’ve been on this journey together 💗
Indian follower here too! So amazing to attend a lavendaire workshop!
Another indian, following you aileen, you are just amazing
This is something I've been struggling with ever since I started being active in my journey to grow. It was easy to hype myself up when things were going like I wanted but then there are days where I wish someone else saw the effort I was putting in, or the goals I had achieved and was cheering me on. It made me feel lonely and sometimes even question why I was doing it. Thank you for this reminder. I want and am going to be intentional and patient with my self on this journey to become better little by little. This is a message to my future self when she does revisit this video, you are doing your best right now. Even if no one sees it or acknowledges it, even if some days when you feel like nothing is changing and you feel stagnant, know that change takes time and what little you're doing matters. Remember the butterfly effect and how you're always allowed to start from scratch 💕✨
Beginning again! Love that you said that. I’m 52 years and gave a presentation to my community for the first time about my work. I’ve written several books but allowed fear to keep me from moving forward. My heart is now lighting up.
I’m doing worships for the first time. New dreams are being becoming real for me. Thank you for sharing! Right on time😊
Never give up
I have more confidence right after listening. I’m definitely going to stop giving everyone my energy
I'm a dude and I found this channel by accident one day looking for an anxiety relief. I love your channel and listen to it everyday and got one of your videos and go back to often. Your videos are calming asf I'm going to start checking out your meditation and getting unstuck videos😂Im glad you pushed through the beginning even when no one was watching😊💜
You know what's amazing about your vlogs, aside from your helpful inputs, your voice is soothing that it makes it even better
I have become obsessed with your channel over the last couple of weeks ❤️❤️❤️ I'm already seeing massive changes in my life because of your advice ✨
Before even watching the full video, I know it is full of positivity and motivation. Love all your videos ❤
I see so much of myself through you in this message. even though you're talking from experience, I truly feel like I understand this mindset. I really appreciate these beautiful reminders & congrats on 2 mil! that's insane!! great vid & so spot on! xx
It's incredible how whenever I got some problems, difficulties and questions in my life I found the solution or ways to approach this phase in my life from your videos!
Thank you Lavendair 💜
This is exactly what I needed to hear this morning😂 I've been down and out, and this is a great reminder that things will be ok and just keep trying
Oh my God! This video dropped just right on time. The most important test of my academic life is just 1 month away and I am very nervous as it's very difficult to crack this exam... I so very much needed this! Thank you so much Aileen💗💗
SAME
It’s interesting and sad at the same time when I read how many people were in this state that you described at the same time in the comments here
Good luck 🎉
Same
Congrats on 2million. I've been watching this channel for a long time. Love the content.
you are such a beautiful soul! i literally typed "how to believe in yourself" on YT and your video was uploaded hours ago, what a great timing! i appreciate all your words, they resonated with me so well, it seems quite hard for me to believe in myself at this moment, but i just have to trust myself and have patience with me. thanks for your wisdom
I've been thinking a lot when it comes to my choices and now seeing this video is a good slap for me to realize that my vision should be important and to really show up no matter what❤
All of your videos make me calm and change my perspectives on other things! I hope you can do a video for people who struggle to cut ties with their toxic friends.💗
Hi Aileen, just want to let you know...everytime i need a self booster in any area of my life, i just go through your videos and picked one that suits on what i need to hear. I am so grateful of you!
Elsie here..sending love all the way from Dubai
I am a TEN in my self belief and you don’t know how much you made for me and for my journey in the last three years! Forever grateful Aileen💙
I'm really happy to be a follower here because ever since I joined, aileen I don't know how but you seem to post the exact video I may need like this one on believing myself, building my dreams! I feel that even through you universe is connecting to me and it makes me so happy, your words are so simple and understanding I feel I can achieve the entire world! Thank you so much aileen for your support 🥺💜
I honestly never thought about not telling anyone about my dreams or what I’m working on. I always thought I needed a second opinion or approval from someone but I’m just realizing I’m too sensitive with that, I just need to do it. I also need to work on patience.
Congrats on 2M subs 🎉 love your videos so much, I am so grateful for your guidance in me being a better me in ever aspect of life and I hope you get everything you want in life because you deserve it! ❤
First and foremost I want to Congratulate you 🎉 on your 2 Million Subscribers, which I was part of, as I recently joined.
Currently going through a difficult time in my opinion and knew I had to clear all the noise surrounding my head very fast, as panic, anxiety, depression was and still is taking over my life. I then searched on RUclips for guided meditation and found you Aileen/Lavendaire 🌸🌞🌌✨
And ever since, I've meditated everyday. Thank you for your words of wisdom, inspiration and trust in the world 🌎 to see what you see. 💞
That’s so interesting that 9 years after starting your channel you feel called to reflect more on how you started, and you are now feeling the seeds of new vision- 9 being the number of endings and beginnings :)
Thank you for this video. It can be so challenging to believe in myself or to even just get clear on what I really want to do. But these tools feel helpful 🙏🏼
Your message guided me to a place of serenity and mindfulness. I appreciate the positive energy you share. 🌻🌠
You are truly helping me! Thank you so much for continuing this channel. I recently found you and I’m so grateful.
Congratulations on the 2M subscribers! Thank you for being a part of my life
thank you for the openness, where you came from, all that helped you, great what you´ve discovered, thanks for the ideas😍
thank you Aileen for sharing this. I feel like I am in the beginning now. I believe in my visions because I've been thinking about this for almost a year. This is the right time to start but sometimes I hesitate to begin. This video makes me truly believe in my visions that no one sees. I am going to do this.
Thank YOu! This is what I really need. Loving your channel
Thank you so much! I really needed this❣️💖💕
Love you so much. I've felt positive whenever I watch your videos
Hope it's not too late to discover your channel because I am going through a dark period for almost a year. Your content is so inspiring and it is exactly what I need now. Hope that I can come out from the dark as soon as possible. Really exhausted mentally. Thank you for your kind and warm content✨🩵
Needed to see this video today! I'm at a 8 in my self-belief journey and what I believe will get my to a 9 is letting go of the fear of judgement and failure.
Wowwwww, I love so much this one "Our time will come" be patience + perseverance 🧡🧡
Thank you Aileen. I feel supported. Practical video as usual.
thank you for your kind sharing and reminders!
Thank you so much for this video, Lavendaire. You helped me so much. I feel like I was at 5 in believing myself but right after watching this video, I'm at 10! What I'm going to do is just to continue doing my dream, trust the process and be patient with my own timeline. Keep inspiring people, Lavendaire. We appreciate you!❤️
I definitely needed this video right now, thank you so much!
I am currently working on getting my Associates Degree in Science and I plan on going to Medical School to get my MD for Neurobiology. I have been told by so many people, friends, family, even my therapist, that "oh, you probably shouldn't do that you're gonna be so burnt out.." or "are you sure you want to pay for that much school?" So, I have told those people many times that I don't care, it's my dream to help people in this world, so that's what I am going to do.
Girl you are such a therapy !!
thank you for this. this is what I needed, I feel so alone most of the time. makes it harder to prove yourself to others or reach your dreams w mental issues in the way..
Needed this inspiration thank you Aileen 😊
Definitely needed this one today. I’m graduating in less than a month, and the job search is slow with success. I really appreciate the reminder that I’ve got this, and that something great will happen 💗
oh my God im in the same situation right know and I really needed that comment, thanks
Thank you for sharing your story! I started following you during the pandemic and you’ve helped me sm on my healing journey. ❤
I found this video at the perfect time. 💓 thank you for this girl
I listen to your affirmation videos LOVE them.
This year I got into meditation and self growth and your videos are being a big part of it, so thank you.💞
Thank you lavendaire!
Thank you so much! This is perfect timing for this vid ❤!! I needed this
Just want to let you know that I love your videos and they helped me a lot :)
Thank you so much for making this video. ❤
Loved this Aileen! I agree... you have to really believe in yourself and your mission because no one is going to hold your hand along the way telling you how great you are doing. People only notice you once you have made it usually, by then the support isn't so needed ironically. Keep up the great vids!
so true!
I needed to hear this. I quit my 9 to 5 job today. I am being lead to do my soul purpose, and I want to learn more from your channel. I am grateful for your videos. I found your channel today, and subscribed. I am starting my own channel soon. I am very inspired, and excited to do so.
I’m so glad you followed your intuition ❤your channel has helped me so much especially during my awakening thank you 🙏 keep going
Thank you so much, i cant express how much i appreciate these videos and the work you do!
Ive been very back and forth in finding confidence in my vision. And i was so sure about it until i started sharing some of it to my closest friend and bf. I hit an all time low and my breaking point. Your videos have helped me ground myself again and find the will to start again.
I plan to create a new work schedule to help me get back in track, not be behind in life, and envision more details in my plans. Also adding lots of affirmations, which is something new to me but has been helping tremendously!
lots of love (from a struggling recent undergrad lost with life)
Very inspiring! And I absolutely love your makeup today! You look gorgeous!
Thankyou for your videos. You're so inspiring and I'm so grateful to have found your channel. Sending you so much love and light 😊🙌❤️
i'm really so love your energy much. Thanks for making this video. hope watching see your next step in your channel
I really believe God speaks through you, every time I listen to your videos I am listening to something I believe I’m meant to hear and always coincides with what I’m going through
I keep sending your videos to my friends if someone in trouble , you really changed my life when i was living in stressful life , thank you very much.
Your fan from morocco ❤
You such an inspiration Aileen, thanks for this boost of self confidence video, have a great day
I’m so grateful for finding your channel. We are lightworkers so we are different from others 😇
Thank you always Aileen 🤍🫶🏻💫
I was one of those who watched your videos of 2014 , i was addicted to you ❤ it was the first time i have internet and personal phone hhhhh your voice made me sooooo calme and each time i saw your videos i felt so happy 😂 you are amazing from 2014 till now. i love you ( sorry for the language i'm doing my best 😅)
Thank you! So true. You are very inspirational! Love your motivation and authenticity! 💜
Omgg,i love hearing your voice so much,ur accent is so amazing 😍
This was so so so good! Thanks for creating ❤❤❤
Oh it's my first time to see u and I really do love.. I enjoyed listening to u.. so many thanks 😊
Wow! Found myself tearing up during this💗I’m going to get really clear on what my vision is!
So nice post ! Thanks for sharing this .
The title really got into me since I don’t believe that much into myself, but now I’m new to your channel and I realize it’s inspiring. What you explain of visualizing yourself it’s kind of difficult to me but thanks to you I’ll try it out. Thanks :)
Thank you. You are inspiring millions of people around the world Lavendaire; you are truly amazing. Lots of love and best wishes. 💖💖💖
thank you! i truly appreciate your words💜
Congrats on reaching 2 Million Subscribers 👏
i like that you said if you have a positive vision but people cant understand it you stay awway from them some people just cant unserstand and we should focus on ourselves and understand that we cant control everything i hope youre wella and happy
Thank you, Aileen, great words of wisdom and just at the right time. You are definitely inspiring all of us and giving us great tips how to achieve our goals -the one about being precise about the numbers relating to your goals (then focusing on them and being patient ) is great advice, I am going to do that. Thanks, Keep up the good work 🙏
Thank you so much i really need this
thank you so much for this video, I needed it ❤ you do a great job, a very important one. Thank you for being there and helping. Take care! ❤
Love your videos and the knowledge you provide ❤❤
This video just came in a right time, it’s been 3 weeks since I just landed on a new job which position i’ve been striving for and I can feel how difficult the daily tasks of the job itself until it got me questioning myself like “am i able to do this? why did they choose to recruit me?” I started to losing my confidence in my skills. As always, thank you so much for your encouraging messages through this video, i do believe that good things take time and i should be more patient with the progress that i have to go through in order to become better each day.
Great content ❤ I needed this today.
i needed this, thank you and ilysm
Thank you so much for this video!!! 🥰 I lost my hope for the future because of some difficulties of the life. After watching this video, I realised that everything will be great if I believe in myself.
Im greatful i found you ❤ love you lavendair thanks for existing
Wow... i needed this video more than you know. I recently founded a workplace wellbeing startup and i am working with a small team. I've been feeling incredibly unseen by my team and that was really hurtful. This video was the empowerment that I needed. You made me realise that it's normal for other people to not understand the vision you have channeled through until they see it in physical forms. thank you!! and congratulations on 2mil!!
thanks for your support 💖
Hey Aileen! This is by far my favorite video in your channel! It comes at the perfect time. I'm a high school senior who's starting out in posting youtube videos (only abt 200 subs) and lately I find myself contemplating whether I should post a video coz I'm scared that my family and friends would think that I'm bragging. Thank you for the boost of confidence and reminder that I should know my worth!
Thank you so much..much needed video
I really love the amount of energy that i always get after watching your video 🤍 i love you
Thankyou for this video ❤
Thank you for posting this ❤
Thank you for this video 🫶🏾
Hi thank you so much for this wonderful video, I am a fan of your channel. It helps a lot to my inner self understand things more.
You've always been so helpful! ❤
This is so inspirational! Thank you 🎉
Your voice is so soft. I’ll comeback with successful result after publishing my book and running my own business
Thank you for sharing this message. I am starting a new journey with my employment in home health care. I have been in this field before but this time it’s going to be different. Clear focus. I have confidence level 8 - 9. I have the resources to refresh me. My inner being says “You Got This”, my Heart says “You will make a difference “. I have saved this video and will replay it as I have with one of your affirmations video.❤
Thank you Aileen 💝