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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  11 месяцев назад +5

    ✨ Plan your most intentional & successful year with the 2024 Artist of Life Workbook, a powerful guided journal for achieving your dream life → lavendaire.com/workbook

  • @ayushi_507
    @ayushi_507 Год назад +119

    My 38 yo self would love for my 18 yo self to not stress out too much because it's all gonna be fine later. So relax, value all relationships, take it all in and enjoy the process.

  • @shelllombardi9124
    @shelllombardi9124 Год назад +54

    Approximately 12 years ago, I wrote an article about myself 20 years from then. As if I was interviewing my future self. It was a fun thing to do and it seems my life is on track based on that interview. I really like the idea of acting today like your future self. It gives us pause, goals, and gentle reminders of the life we want to lead to propel us forward.

  • @pink9252
    @pink9252 Год назад +8

    Im 18 and I was crying last night because I'm not able too study harder like for eight too ten hours and I was sad about it . Today hearing this video I realize after twenty years my future self will say ' uru clam down you're going too be successful anyway but don't wrecker your health for anything in this world ' and about second thing if I get chance too life again I'll not waste my 18 19 20 because if I do that in future I'll be regretful that in hustling I lost my beautiful teen years . No one gets too live again and that's why we should realize that we shouldn't be too hard on ourself . I'm grateful for this video it taught me a great life lesson ❤ which I was meant too learn ❤

  • @AdaraFukuchi
    @AdaraFukuchi Год назад +13

    Delulu is the solulu ✨

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid Год назад +24

    Stay strong, be positive. We all struggle sometimes.

  • @deena1421
    @deena1421 Год назад +4

    My 43 years old self would love to see me happy, unstressed, studying more and more, not worrying about the future because it’s in god’s hands
    I want to be healthy and shine with joy, Deena you are fine you are okay you are on the right path

  • @minmochi5117
    @minmochi5117 Год назад +41

    This was so much needed at the moment😭🤧

  • @Nourrannn
    @Nourrannn Год назад +8

    (I just turned 23) one thing I learned about myself as I grew older is that you can rest but you shouldn’t settle! You have to always look for whatever is best for you, you can take a break and relax while having too much on your plate because while you’re young you have so much potential. You basically have everything but it’s all a matter of mindset. I learned that yes we get tired and we need to just lie down for a moment but we have so many chances to take and can try and do everything we wish for because when we get older and look back, we will become able to say “I actually did my best to get what I want and tried my best”

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Год назад +1

      wow! your words are truly inspiring ♡

    • @Lifewithnance
      @Lifewithnance 3 месяца назад

      You should be so proud to have that type of mindset. I am 32 and I wish I thought this way then. My biggest advice to you as most people say don’t ever let your fear hold you back. I wish I didn’t. I worried so much about what people say and how they would judge me instead of focusing on my goals.

  • @edeletwin
    @edeletwin Год назад +8

    ..spend half of my time being creative, and the other half outside, meeting and connecting with peoole 💖
    Love that! Sounds so right for you✨🌼🍀

  • @seagurll
    @seagurll Год назад +79

    This came at the *perfect* time, thank you so so much for all you do and the positivity you spread. To anyone scrolling through the comments, it's never too late. While there will be obstacles in certain situations and many of us have deep-rooted or unalterable struggles mentally or physically, I promise you it's still possible for your life to be filled with love, happiness and peace. Take it easy when you need to, believe in yourself first, and never EVER give up. 💞

    • @didiermcginnis
      @didiermcginnis Год назад +2

      Thanks for that

    • @seagurll
      @seagurll Год назад

      You're welcome @@didiermcginnis 🙂💖🥰

    • @jouwliey
      @jouwliey Год назад +1

      Thanks, i feel better

    • @seagurll
      @seagurll Год назад

      @@jouwliey 🫂💖

  • @iridleuv
    @iridleuv Год назад +19

    another vid! i've decided to embrace my soft vibe and increase my gentle presence. you're right! discover your true self and embrace the best side of you. you are loved. to all people who read this, you're amazingggg!

  • @voteyinghao
    @voteyinghao Год назад +2

    One thing that I regret so much right now that I am closer to my adult age, is that I let my fears conquer me, I didn't join that dance club because I thought I was too fat, I didn't fully showed my interest and followed my desire which makes me think right now that it's not that bad. I lately realized If I joined those club I would be more happier and had greater memories.
    I overthink a lot about my grades that made me sick and had the worst mental health. I was thinking a lot about the future that I forgot to enjoy the present moment and I didn't even think that I would be okay in the future. I feel like I wasn't able to enjoy my teenage years.
    I am 16 and I still have those overthinking and fear habits, at this age I am deciding big decisions right now, what college, what course should I choose? I tell you, we cannot determine the future, but we can still choose to enjoy, follow our hearts, and stop overthinking what may happen in the future because no matter where life gets you it will be okay, it will be better, life will give you a good day.
    So right now, with all the experience I had, I am trying my best to be in present moment and do my best. I am trying myself to stop overthinking even though I have a big anxiety if I'm gonna pass my desired CETS school.
    I don't want to waste my teenage years, life has taught me a lot 😢 and 16 & 17 is my time to make this teenage year flourish and happy. That doesn't mean that I can't be happy anymore after 18, but I just know that I already have responsibilities after an adult age but I want to atleast tell my future self that I did my best to give her a great teenage years.

  • @emranao
    @emranao Год назад +4

    i felt so proud when you read that envision. You just described your current-self and you wrote those when u were out of college.
    If i speak for myself, i found some notes on my phone (almost 1 year ago) and they were about what i wanna achive this year and seeing those big things becoming reality makes me so proud of myself.

  • @oamahana
    @oamahana Год назад +59

    🤍ᴛɪᴍᴇʟᴀᴘs :
    ✿︎ 0:40 Future Self Exercise
    ✿︎2:53 Don't be shy, just be bold
    ✿︎5:45 Bridging the Gap ( between your current self & futur self)
    ✿︎ 8:35 Becoming the Identity of the Ideal Future Self ( law of attraction, vizualisation, FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT !! )

  • @xkz92
    @xkz92 Год назад +1

    I like it, sometimes when you struggle taking care of yourself but are somehow still willing to care more for others … well it feels easier to go full delulu and act as a more caring future self that has more compassion about your current issues, has a more detached approach to your problems but is also more willing to do something about it even if you really don’t feel like it.

  • @Rockawaysiren
    @Rockawaysiren Год назад +3

    this 54 year old needs to be a fulfilled 74 year old. It’s not too late. Thank you for this!

  • @honeysugar1
    @honeysugar1 Год назад +1

    This video made me cry because i feel like I've lost my zest in life lately - feeling unmotivated in my late 30s. I've lost most of my friends, doing a lot of things solo now. On one hand appreciating peaceful moments over drama but at the same time feeling lonely.
    I remember my 20s and early 30s being fun and chaotic - even though it was stressful, i had a support network. Now i don't have the bandwidth or energy to be involved in any drama and choosing a slower pace of life but at the same time feel lonely and unmotivated at times.

  • @aliynarouise
    @aliynarouise Год назад +8

    It is so humbling to hear how your intentions came into fruition by simple writing it out and choosing it for yourself. I'm definitely going to journal more and have learned that we do truly have the agency to shape our futures! Thank you for this video ❤

  • @sunnysequoia
    @sunnysequoia Год назад +10

    This video came at the perfect time. I'm in a pretty nebulous place in my life and have a future self I dream of becoming, but I'm struggling with figuring out how to actually manifest it. Hoping to start taking steps to bridge the gap in my life!

  • @jaimiejin7992
    @jaimiejin7992 Год назад +1

    It's amazing that you're who you manifested. It's important to set goals and act as if you're already your future self.

  • @DilCardyn
    @DilCardyn Год назад +1

    Connecting with your future self is like having a conversation with your own wisdom. This video offers great insights and techniques to bridge the gap between who you are today and who you aspire to be in the future. It's a powerful reminder that our actions today shape our tomorrow, and building a strong connection with our future self can be a transformative journey.

  • @itsshayene
    @itsshayene Год назад +4

    I just decided to go back to therapy so that I can work towards becoming my best self and I was going to find RUclips vids on it and your video popped up on my home page! Amazing! Thank you love!

  • @NancyRuthMusic
    @NancyRuthMusic Год назад +4

    You're so good at what you do, Aileen! Congrats on living your vision and inspiring others.

  • @Dara-Favour
    @Dara-Favour Год назад +2

    Girl, you're a Godsent, cause I literally journaled today asking my heavenly Father, how can I become the person I want to be, and here i am ❤😅

  • @mellooobruhhh9281
    @mellooobruhhh9281 Год назад +5

    You, your channel and your voice are my comfort zone. Your videos are so inspiring and make me feel clam in my tiring days. I have started listening to your positive affirmations every morning right I after I wake up since the beginning of this year and it makes days and my life a lot better so far this year :) Thank you so much Aileen 💘

  • @ishi6291
    @ishi6291 Год назад +3

    How does your videos always connect with what I'm trying to do aileen?? You're so magical ilysm🥺❤️✨

  • @BrittReneesWayTiktoks
    @BrittReneesWayTiktoks 9 месяцев назад

    My 31 year old self would be happy, living in the house of my dreams. Working as a life coach, influencing millions. Loving my family, and living with intention 💜

  • @kionaholmes6808
    @kionaholmes6808 Год назад +1

    This came right on time for me, I'am 26 years old right now and as I get older, I would like to start approaching my life more calmly everyday as much as possible because what I need to do is let things be so that when it comes my way I will understand completely why it make sense for my future. as for my present life at the moment, I'd love to see everything flourish for me as it comes together.

  • @ssimplybeautiful
    @ssimplybeautiful Год назад +2

    Amazing video. Beautiful. Calming. Connecting with yourself is really magical and it holds all the real magic and will do wonders. It's starting of selflove and changes lower vibes into higher vibes. ❤

  • @candelavin
    @candelavin Год назад +2

    You are such an inspiration and a positive force, thank you for showing us what is possible ❤

  • @ThuTa-jr3tm
    @ThuTa-jr3tm Год назад

    Thanks millions for this video and you are the only you tuber who gives me so much motivation and knowledge about life!!!!❤

  • @dotpenji
    @dotpenji Год назад +6

    I have to say, your video on connecting with our future selves is truly insightful and inspiring. Could you share a personal success story related to your "current me vs. future me" exercise?

    • @abigailcayetano487
      @abigailcayetano487 Год назад

      Connecting with our future selves is such a powerful concept. It's a reminder that the choices we make today can shape who we become tomorrow. Thanks to this video for sharing this exercise for personal growth and development!

    • @CyrineTuazon
      @CyrineTuazon Год назад

      I'm loving this video! Connecting with our future selves is amazing. It reminds us of our goals and motivates us.

    • @melaniecerez8938
      @melaniecerez8938 Год назад

      This was such a great watch. Keep up the amazing work!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Год назад +3

      Watch my video sharing the 10 years of my current me vs future me exercises ☺️ I share the journey

    • @JeromeC-wp2vr
      @JeromeC-wp2vr Год назад

      @@lavendaire That sounds fascinating! I'd love to watch your video and see the progress you've made over the years. It's always inspiring to see how people work towards their future selves and achieve personal growth.

  • @queenofpents3442
    @queenofpents3442 Год назад +2

    Just when I was thinking about getting back into scripting this video drops! Love the synchronization and thanks for the confirmation! I make vision boards every year and its wild when I see what has actually manifested! That was pretty amazing to hear how your goals came to fruition ☺

  • @erickalinares908
    @erickalinares908 Год назад +1

    I've followed you for a few year and your videos have changed my life✨💖 thanks

  • @meghandley7020
    @meghandley7020 Год назад

    There is something really magical and positive about your energy you make me want to appreciate life more and do things for myself

  • @taynaragodoy9053
    @taynaragodoy9053 Год назад

    Omg, I've just met u today! What a beautiful soul u are! I'm loving your content, so inspiring. Thank u so much for sharing your healing journey. 💗

  • @DestiyawarniDestiyawarni
    @DestiyawarniDestiyawarni Месяц назад

    Watching your videos make me feel relax and peace..

  • @darrelllasane5593
    @darrelllasane5593 Год назад

    That journal entry is super inspiring. I love that

  • @dr.benjaminhardy
    @dr.benjaminhardy Год назад

    Thank you so much for reading and sharing about the book! Truly love that it resonated with you. Amazing video.

  • @KarenJamesdance
    @KarenJamesdance 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so very much for everything! I want you to know that each day when I do my meditation, your presence in my life via the giided meditations and videos are among the things that I'm grateful for!
    I send you love as part of the meditation. I hope that it reaches and helps you.
    Wishing you a wonderful, blessed day, peace, happiness on your journey and in all that you do.
    Lots of love!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  5 месяцев назад

      sending love & light 🩷 thank you so much for listening love

    • @KarenJamesdance
      @KarenJamesdance 4 месяца назад

      You're very welcome. Thank you once again for your wonderful work.
      Wishing you a joyous day filled with light, happiness, and love.

  • @Mar-ME-s3h
    @Mar-ME-s3h Год назад +1

    Insightful, inspiring, practical, and compassionate advice. You’re beautiful inside & out 🌞🦋

  • @emilychingy
    @emilychingy Год назад +1

    Omg! I'm so excited to feel the Artist of Life Workbook 2024 in my hands 🎉🎉🎉

  • @livewithmattie
    @livewithmattie Год назад

    I absolutely love you hair! You killed this style and it’s so young and bright. This was such a beautiful video

  • @HayMarOo-i3y
    @HayMarOo-i3y 7 месяцев назад

    Your bows are beautiful. Thanks for this valuable context.

  • @NehaSharma-se8vr
    @NehaSharma-se8vr Год назад +2

    I really needed this today so thank you so much Aileen your content has helped me in so many powerful ways.❤

  • @IamLightHeavy
    @IamLightHeavy Год назад +1

    This video really helped! 😢 if I could live my life a second time, I wouldn't change a thing.

  • @weirdo2260
    @weirdo2260 Год назад

    As for me, i am a student and all i think about is studying. How am i going to get grades, how am going to live in the future if i don't have grades. Comparison is a huge problem i keep comparing myself. Due to stress amd anxiety i don't have good health. My hair keeps falling like water. I don't fear bad grades i fear the process i fear the regret but i just can't work for it. I'm always to anxious and scared but i just don't wanna study. I want to learn a skill i wanna know what i really like. I don't wanna work hard but Im also anxious. I keep degrading myself. If i were 20 years in the now I'd tell myself to enjoy to the fullest, don't care about grades just enjoy life. I am so young for what i go through I'd tell myself to just not care to just be carefree.
    Honestly when you're carefree you can be good at anything. I hope i can learn that rn.

  • @LuckyMeCandy
    @LuckyMeCandy Год назад

    So excited for the newest Artist of Life Workbook. It is my favorite journal to use every year.

  • @Cat-purr08_
    @Cat-purr08_ Год назад

    This video is a perfect timing
    I love the possiblity that's going to change my life ahead

  • @anni1113
    @anni1113 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for making such a thoughtful video! This was soo inspirational!

  • @whitneylaurenjones
    @whitneylaurenjones Год назад

    I need this video so much today, I adore your channel. You are so incredible 🫶🏻

  • @yasminmoghani
    @yasminmoghani Год назад +2

    I would be grateful for what I had accomplished so far 🎉🎉❤❤

  • @maria_cosmas
    @maria_cosmas Год назад

    Congrats on living your vision, you’re so inspiring 💕

  • @shanikpakeer
    @shanikpakeer Год назад

    Love the idea of visiting the now as my future self

  • @berracelik6431
    @berracelik6431 Год назад

    Lavendaire, I have been following you with great interest since I discovered you and have watched almost all of your videos. I'm watching your new videos late because there are no Turkish subtitles. I hope Turkish subtitles will come soon, I can't wait to watch it. I love you Lavendaire, I wish you continued success 🤍🤍

  • @carlar1820
    @carlar1820 Год назад

    This is a hard one. I need more time to process but right off the top of my head I would tell myself stick to the decisions you have made do not be afraid to move on and try something different and new it will pay off in the near future.

  • @muskan_choudhary1717
    @muskan_choudhary1717 Год назад

    Very useful video. I must say this, that you r very pretty soul. I feel so light and calm while seeing your youtube video. I 'll definitely gonna apply these methods. Now my trust become more strong after listening about your journalling story now and then. It's gives me a hope. Thank you so much 💜✨😊🥺

  • @ravaiiiii
    @ravaiiiii Год назад +1

    Omg I loved this exercise, thank you so much for everything! 💕

  • @nurqaisara977
    @nurqaisara977 Год назад

    I love you 🥺♥️. Thank you for reminding me again to this method 😭

  • @chaymabenhamed1776
    @chaymabenhamed1776 Год назад

    Thank you for this video. This future me concept is really helpful❤. I am so so sooooo grateful to find your channel.

  • @etheraldee111
    @etheraldee111 Год назад

    I love this, I would just do it and be myself more and not be afraid of what others think. This video really changed my perspective, thanks so much!!

  • @jessierae8079
    @jessierae8079 Год назад

    Thank you for all the videos you made. I always feel better after watching your videos.

  • @maryamsaadibrahim2497
    @maryamsaadibrahim2497 Год назад +1

    Always awesome. Thanks for this .sending love from Iraq🇮🇶

  • @Tlapakids5
    @Tlapakids5 10 месяцев назад

    What a fantastic exercise! Thank you! 💕

  • @Daveeff
    @Daveeff 2 месяца назад

    Im like sooo negative rn and I hv been for like the past few months. But i just want to becm this person i hv always dreamt of. I feel like i can only becm her if i pass this exam ive taken once but had yo take again. I feel like a hugeee failure. To a point that ai just h8 living everyday. And i know im hurting ppl around me by taking that tension out on them. I really wanna change. I fear future like really. Also to mention that i got friends with the same mindset. End of rant. I will try my best to change. I love u for always being here when i need a change. Ur energy is truely influencing

  • @RS-yq1ty
    @RS-yq1ty Год назад

    Thank you for this content. ❤u hv really helped me become happier better calmer. I love u. Do what u do❤

  • @KadekSriKapunyaWati_1075
    @KadekSriKapunyaWati_1075 Год назад

    this channel always be my favorite!

  • @MaryJoy0414
    @MaryJoy0414 Год назад

    very inspiring to someone who is in their early 20's like me. ☺️

  • @rosegoldmermaid
    @rosegoldmermaid Год назад

    Thanks Aileen! I love your calming videos. I get more inspiration to chase the life I want for myself. Which is.. definitely being aligned with my purpose and not working in marketing as I do now. It drains my life Energy I feel...
    It's also why I decided to start recording for youtube again. As it feels way more purposeful for me. Thank you for inspiring words

  • @richgirlera
    @richgirlera Год назад +1

    Thank you is not enough!❤

  • @Greatfulforlife_VaikunthVaasi
    @Greatfulforlife_VaikunthVaasi Год назад +2

    Thank you so much❤❤❤❤

  • @MorsiBolm-zu8lr
    @MorsiBolm-zu8lr Год назад +2

    Thank you very much 💐💞

  • @mathithom1453
    @mathithom1453 11 месяцев назад

    Omg I love her voice

  • @HeatherMascara
    @HeatherMascara Год назад

    ✨ Your hairstyle is so cute! ☺️

  • @trishitamisra3572
    @trishitamisra3572 Год назад

    You are right person on the right time . Love you 💕

  • @ohwell03
    @ohwell03 Год назад

    Looks amazing, would love one!! I currently use a gua sha but I have been looking at something contains EMS frequencies! 😍

  • @verovargova
    @verovargova 11 месяцев назад

    Ah Aileen, (i hope i wrote your name correct🤭)
    I am listening your videos already maybe 6 years. Its unbelievable how my life changed during this time but yeah, what i wanted to say is, that you are such a lovely and cute person 😊 and you are doing a great job! I am grateful for you❤️. I wish you a lot of power and i am sending love. Thank you 🤗

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  11 месяцев назад

      aw you're the sweetest! thank you so much love 💜

  • @Syedakhizra1998
    @Syedakhizra1998 Год назад +2

    Finally my wait is over🎉❤

  • @Squigsnwiggs
    @Squigsnwiggs Год назад

    The concepts you are speaking about in this video bring to mind Nietzsche's thought about the "Eternal Recurrence of the Same". The practical application of this thought is that one must affirm their life with no regrets. That means affirming the whole thing--including the suffering, pain, mistakes, etc.--and not just affirming the enjoyable moments. It is important to note that affirming is NOT the same as seeing the 'silver lining' of bad situations. Instead, it is an act of reinterpretation and perspective-taking that allows you to look back and transfigure your life into something you can affirm. This act of self-transfiguration is not self-delusion/manipulation, it is a reinterpretation of your life as orchestrated by yourself. By doing this kind of affirmation, one can live facing forward, and continue to affirm every action and decision.

    • @Squigsnwiggs
      @Squigsnwiggs Год назад

      This is my simplified version of his particular thought. I also condensed the thought so that the comment wasn't too long. But if you have read this comment and find yourself wanting to know more, I suggest reading Nietzsche himself. I can give my own reading recommendations if desired.

  • @rupabehera2008
    @rupabehera2008 Год назад +1

    I think i got what i needed 🎉

  • @krystiolsen7420
    @krystiolsen7420 Год назад

    Love this too, can you keep doing your fav excerpts of the book? I’m a mum of 2 under 4, this is rly helpful! Tysm! 🙌🏽💓💫🦋

  • @PujaJoshi-wl2hi
    @PujaJoshi-wl2hi Год назад

    Thank u 🙏 as always u r amazing love from India ❤

  • @imwortyoflove369
    @imwortyoflove369 Год назад

    Your hairstyle is SO CUTE. 🎀❤️✨

  • @afreenali7013
    @afreenali7013 Год назад

    Thank you for such amazing videos! ❤

  • @ayeshajinadari8010
    @ayeshajinadari8010 Год назад +1

    Thank you ❤ love from Srilanka ..❤❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @prerza
    @prerza Год назад

    loved this, needed this,

  • @isisatu
    @isisatu Год назад

    love this so much

  • @Babita0425
    @Babita0425 Год назад

    It's really helpful ❤ Thank you 😊

  • @loristrandlund3940
    @loristrandlund3940 Год назад

    Love this and shared with my daughters. Have you heard of "Rich Pictures" another great self discovery tool. Can't wait to order your journal!

  • @Jolinelinn
    @Jolinelinn Год назад

    your thumbnails are so beautiful

  • @シャナ-p9x
    @シャナ-p9x Год назад

    If i got to live my life a second time... i would try to feel the happiness in the little things in life, so that eventually i would really feel happy deep inside and i could make people around me happy too.

  • @Ave77788
    @Ave77788 Год назад

    Queen of wands energy lol same here, this is what I aspire to be! Thank you for sharing! Super helpful

  • @Lylie77
    @Lylie77 Год назад

    Always excited for new videos ❤

  • @melisabahar1850
    @melisabahar1850 Год назад

    Obsessed with this video ❤️✨

  • @milliondolargirl
    @milliondolargirl Год назад +1

    Your videos have helped me so much, Lavendaire.

  • @urfavengdz_
    @urfavengdz_ Год назад

    I love this girl

  • @10969funny
    @10969funny Год назад

    I want to travel around the world, visiting beautiful country and cities. no worries, just a peaceful mind :)

  • @zero81888
    @zero81888 Год назад

    as others have said... great timing :)

  • @mandvi24
    @mandvi24 Год назад

    Hey love, please make the workbook available internationally. I would love to get one for myself.