how to have more compassion for yourself 💓
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
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Hope you enjoyed this self love girl talk sesh 💓 How can you be more compassionate with yourself?
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0:26 - intro: self compassion
0:52 - keep love as your compass
2:43 - good people can still project negative energy
3:19 - people are mirrors
3:59 - moving forward with love & compassion
5:54 - define: self compassion
7:11 - how to be more compassionate with ourselves
8:23 - my inspiration for this video
11:34 - ex: two diff approaches
14:54 - healing self worth, perfectionism, & "not good enough"
18:50 - staying authentic & true to myself
21:39 - follow your curiosity
22:55 - wrap up: the energy of love
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Megan: ''Hotter''
Hopi: ''Sweeter''
Joonie: ''Cooler''
Yoongi: ''Butter''
Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались.
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter" .
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!💖🖤❤️#今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね！#１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（#笑）#やっぱり人参最高！#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね！ #１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（#笑）#やっぱり人参最高！ #まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #垃圾 今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね！１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（笑）やっぱり人参最高！まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした,. 💖🖤在整個人類歷史上，強者，富人和具有狡猾特質的人捕食部落，氏族，城鎮，城市和鄉村中的弱者，無`'守和貧窮成員。然而，人類的生存意願迫使那sfdsd些被拒絕，被剝奪或摧毀的基本需求的人們找到了一種生活方式，並繼續將其DNA融入不斷發展的人類社會。. 說到食物，不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。相反，他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。他們學會了清潔，切塊，調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類，在食品``
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Would u like to talk abt self love in your youtube channel?
Thanks for sharing this quote it resonates!
I have always been shy .But this year I have successfully turned into a person whom I wanted to be ,not fully but ya have started taking mini steps .I'm grateful for everything I have .Thank u for inspiring us Aileen . It means a lot what u do .Love from INDIA 🇮🇳 NAMASTE
Hi wr are u from India am from Kerala
@@elizabethsebastian6045 yes I'm from Odisha
I'm so proud of you. I know it isn't easy
@@ishikaxglam Thank u 🤍
I'm in the same boat. I believe this year is a year of transformation. I also thank Aileen's videos and i learn so much from her. Good luck on your journey towards what you're trying to achieve! ❤️
Compassion and unconditional love for me is like being a healthy and loving parent to yourself. Being kind and understanding to ourselves and when making mistakes, sitting and making myself understand it is OK to make mistakes. And when I am being lazy for no reason, being a bit more stern, but not abusing myself or being too harsh on myself.
This was helpful, thank you very much
THISSSSS!!!
I have recently established a new definition of unconditional self-love. It means that I love myself for TRYING. Trying to get through tough times, trying to be me every day, trying my best to understand myself. Just trying and making consistent efforts is what matters in the end. 💯
My eyes filled with tears of happiness when I thought that you are making your life valuable by putting out your wonderful thoughts into the world and we are able to heal so much. Lysm Alieen💞 keep up!
*_"Your self worth is determined by YOU. You don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are."_
-Beyonce...
Don't let other people define who you are.*
Having unconditional love means I love myself no matter what. I am confident not only in my strength but also in my weakness because I accept them and know that I would improve them through time. I no longer seek love from others, I have all the love I need for myself from myself. I no longer care about others perceptions of me, I do only things that make me happy.
6:56 Unconditional love for me is to be able to believe in myself and trust in my self soo deeply that even if the entire world is against you, you still have faith. Nd being soo accepting of myself to be able to be my biggest cheerleader to always believe that " I can do it, nd i should keep going ".
It is going to be a lonngg journey to get there. But we can start by practicing to love ourselves. Sometimes you will have times where you blame yourselves, it is Ok, we will get there eventually. We just have to keep going. And to the person reading this - You are Good enough !! Keep going.
Aileen, I love your content and I’m sorry you were attacked in your previous video. It’s sad to see how negative and mean people can be but it’s great how you overcame it. ❤️
Do you think you could possibly create a video on outgrowing relationships while being on your self love journey? Specifically becoming a better, happier individual while the ones you love remain negative and aren’t happy for your growth.
Thank you. Wishing you the best. 💕
I think it’s beautiful that you’ve approached the backlash from an empathetic viewpoint and that you’ve used it as an opportunity to help others grow. I personally struggle to have patience with people who react harshly, and it’s something I want to work on, so thank you for the example and mindset 🙏
*_If you are reading this, this is your sign. This is your sign that everything is going to be okay. Listen to your heart, follow your intuition. Trust what feels right and what feels wrong. Trust that your angels are watching over you, and that the Universe would never put you through anything you can’t handle. You are here for a reason. You are special. You are loved. Be kind to everyone including yourself. Be the change you want to see in the world! Namaste_* 🙏🏼❤️
My form of being compassionate to myself is understanding that sometimes my mental health issues and my ADHD will win and it is fine that I will need to take days off. I am healing myself and that means opening up some wounds so I can drain out the pus ( toxic beliefs and behaviors) so it can heal properly. Doing my best at the moment day to day is enough.
Loved this video Aileen!
I would love to see a "plan with me for the new year" video from you because 2021 is coming to an end and we all wanted to make 2022 our best year ❤✨
Binging self improvement videos for my self growth journey is the best thing ever! I love your videos so much, Lavendaire! You are a sweet soul
You not only look but also sound like and angel. Is like you are speaking to me. I can cry watching your videos because you remind me that I'm important and valuable and that I am so hard on myself instead of loving myself as I am. thank you for your videos please know they make a difference.
My beautiful Lavendaire, you are so courageous for putting yourself out there and posting that video. I personally enjoyed the video and my partner who is getting me into Crypto approved of your video because he said you explained yourself so well. I agree that I as a woman I have moved away from financial topics but that will be changing. A part of personal empowerment is learning how to become financially free. The world is changing and learning about these resources is the first step. Thank you for always putting out informational and life changing content ♥️
It’s amazing that I just decided the theme of 2022 for me is “self compassion” and here you are with this brave video! I just want to let you know that, Aileen, you are such a role model for speaking up your feelings and your belief in a difficult context. Seeing this video makes me more adamant with my goal of becoming less judgmental and more compassionate to myself. You are truly sending out the positive energy that this world needs more, just like you said!
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i'm so sorry people attacked you and judged you. i personally found that video to just be overall informative and helped me understand more about a topic i didn't know much about, like you're other financial videos. i appreciate your videos sm, thank you for continuing to try and help your viewers with such a positive light, i've learned so much from you and i'm sure i'll continue learning 🤍
Self-compassion for me is that I should accept myself fully, love myself and trust myself.💜
A special tip I got from the video : "Following your curiosity", thanks Aileen. Though I've heard this sentence before in your videos but today it just sparked a light in me. ✨
Love that
Well said! Self awareness is so important. The more we understand ourselves, the more we will understand others. We are in this together & can agree to disagree based on our own personal life experiences. Spread love…not hate or fear! ☁️🤩☁️❤️☁️
In an age of twisted values, people have lost sight of what is true love and kindness. I am glad you were able to get in touch with your inner wisdom and that love that comes within.
Listening to you is complete therapy. You are full of wisdom, love, kindness and so much more!!!! You are my inspiration and I want to be a person like you - kind, humble, honest, gentle, smart, lovable! Sending you so much love.🥰
I've kept watching your videos for many years. I love your attitude, what you tell us in the videos, your vibes, all of the things. I'm one of your big fans. I feel you so much because I'm also a believer and lover not a warier at all. Thank you for sharing your authentic thoughts. Let's make the world better together. I'm looking forward to your next video, too. With love from Japan.
Thank you for this reminder. I'm at the beginning of a new part of my life and it's very stressful, I feel so many fears towards my new job, my new flat. I really don't know what to do, I feel the need to relax. I know I messed up on work but I hope for the best and I should not judge myself so harshly
I have low self esteem so I'm glad you make these selfLove videos
It's so important to be nice to yourself and use love as your compass. So many people don't take that breathe to be present and really SEE themselves and others.
This video is very timely for me. Thank you so much for reminding us about compassion. "Come from a place of love with the energy of love." 💖
Really
Ah, im late this time but anyways here's what I think what self love means to me:
For me, loving myself means to find, accept and correct my flaws and drawbacks. Self-love is an unusual journey from perfection to acceptance. Loving oneself doesn't mean to accept the bad things in you but to correct, adopt the qualities that you want in yourself, making you truly gorgeous. Our actions reflect a lot about us. Therefore I strive to be a better human everyday and finding something unique in my deep self. Discovering oneself from inside out is the definition of self compassion for me. For standing out, i need to be me, and not exactly someone i adore.
Your videos always make my day!! ❤
I thought "well that makes sense people mirror each other "as soon as you said "...people are mirrors and it made me smile ✨
also the "everything is okay energy" energy segment was beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing and entering into such a vulnerable space with us.
Completely agree with you Aileen, we can see that in this moment about vaccinations, when the thoughts are yelling even if is for the good reason it comes from a place of fear. That said, you can treat the others with your self-compassion 💞 other-compassion. 🙏🏻
We need more energy like this on the internet. It’s normalized to be aggressive, mean, and being hateful on the Internet but I don’t think it should. I hear many arguments that if people can’t handle hate/mean comments, they shouldn’t be on social media. I disagree, instead of people logging off, people’s attitude towards social media should be changed. It shouldn’t be normalized to bully strangers online because at the end of the day it’s still bullying.
Your words inspired me so much that I nearly cried.💐"Whatever your passion is, keep doing it. Don't waste time chasing after success or comparing yourself to others. Every flower blooms at a different pace. Excel at doing what your passion is and only focus on perfecting it. Eventually people will see what you are great at doing, and if you are truly great, success will come chasing after you."
Suzy Kassem, Rise Up and Salute the Sun: The Writings of Suzy Kassem
Ever so grateful for your words. Hope these lines will show my gratitude towards you.💐
beautifully said! 🤍
I love that in this video you give a wonderful example of what it means to be self-compassionate in walking us through your thought process about that last video. It's funny because in self-compassion I find that it's so much easier for me to not be so emotionally invested in any negative energy aimed at me from the outside; we're all just doing what we think is best, but often we can be so misguided even in doing so. Either way, keep doing what you do- I hope more of us embrace this mindset that you're so beautifully exemplifying!
honestly, I needed to see this... there are so many people in my life that are so MEAN to themselves. One of those people is me... I know it's a constant work in progress but being compassionate to yourself is so important and I'm getting better and I'm trying to mirror that love to people who need it the most.
13:12 I absolutely agree with you. Like yesterday my mom had a massive fight with my dad and they were yelling and cursing at each other in front of my baby sister (she’s only 3 months old). Which was so unhealthy for her. But later I tried to talk to my dad and tried to tell him the same message that mom was trying to give him but the only difference is that I tried it the calm way and wanted to kinda talk through the issues (for 2 hours) and there was no cursing no yelling just a discussion. and I realised that he wasn’t gonna change and it uncovered some of his inner beliefs but I believe that if mom had this conversation instead of me and they were patient and calm enough to understand each other and solve it, it would fix everything. I saw it. But also the main point here is that I saw that if you treat anything with love and calmness and compassion it would eventually bring out the inner problems for us to work with and solve ❤
Hello lovely, I want to come on here to say that every time that I come to your videos, I feel such a sense of peace and calm and I feel like I am centred by just listening to you. Thank you for doing what you do and know that it is always appreciated.
Being so young yet wise well beyond your age is truly incredible! You are a fantastic influencer and I do appreciate your videos. You are so helpful. You put things into perspective. And like I said before, I just love you. Thanks for inspiring me. ❤
In my life the most influential moments have been either highly positive or highly negative. I think it is in a way nonsensical to aim for a ”more positive” world, because everything is a balancing act. The world would literally fall apart if there was no balance of these polarizing energies; atoms have protons and electrons that are equally important. Some really negative and painful experiences have actually made me wiser and brought me closer to myself in a way that no positive experience could have. On the other hand some positive experiences have affected me in a way no negative experience could have. They’re not comparable, they have a different tone of influence. It seems to me that as a society we are so afraid of conflict, disappointments, anger, sorrow, aggression etc that we have evolved to rather avoid them, when in fact the avoidance is the real issue. It stems from fear. And it takes up a lot of courage to face that fear, now that’s love. Those negative feelings are a natural occurance, hence why we constantly see them around us or feel them ourselves. I don’t think it was ever about making the world a more positive place, but rather how to accept that it will, by laws of nature, never be that, and that is still very much ok, and we can thrive. We can grow resilient, and still have a lot of love around us. It’s a crazy magnificent place and that’s cool.
I always feel like I can never understand the mirror think, because i am my worst critic, to a point that I have anxiety & depression but I would never have the same negative energy towards someone else. I feel like I have enough negativity on myself that I literally have none left for other people. I always wish I have the same love I have for other people, for myself. Still learning x
I used to be my biggest critic and while that can help you strive to be better it can also harm you mentally. Love your transparency and vulnerability in this video 💜 and on a lighter note your puppy is ADORABLE 🥰
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THREE IN ONE
L...❤❤❤...
RUclips: THIS IS FINE.
THREE IN ONE
SOMEONE: SAYS ''HECK''.
RUclips: BE GONE
Life's story is a short journey so have fun before sleeping forever
#Чо #эт #делает #на #2 #месте #в #тренде
#однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
Megan: ''Hotter''
Hopi: ''Sweeter''
Joonie: ''Cooler''
Yoongi: ''Butter''
Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались.
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter" .
ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね！１万人を超える人が見ていたもんね（笑）やっぱり人参最高！まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした！今後は気を付けないとね. .
!💖🖤❤️#今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね！#１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（#笑）#やっぱり人参最高！#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね！ #１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（#笑）#やっぱり人参最高！ #まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした #垃圾 今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね！１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（笑）やっぱり人参最高！まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした,. 💖🖤在整個人類歷史上，強者，富人和具有狡猾特質的人捕食部落，氏族，城鎮，城市和鄉村中的弱者，無`'守和貧窮成員。然而，人類的生存意願迫使那sfdsd些被拒絕，被剝奪或摧毀的基本需求的人們找到了一種生活方式，並繼續將其DNA融入不斷發展的人類社會。. 說到食物，不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。相反，他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。他們學會了清潔，切塊，調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類，在食品``
Extraordinary person reading this, you are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life! You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness and gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever! Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly ✨❤️ - Nat
*"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you have power over instead of craving control over what you don't." - Steve Maraboli*
Hello ,I see you every channel ,I watch it .gorgeous coincidences😌😂.
Would u like to talk abt selflove on your channel?
The vibration of compassion and LOVE are one and the same. Compassion towards self and others is the ultimate expression of love. Ask: What would love do? What would love say? How would love act? Compassion is also the antidote to judgment. Mother Theresa said "If you judge people, you have no time to love them." Likewise, if you judge yourself you don't have time to practice love towards yourself. Accepting and loving ourselves is the beginning of learning to accept and love others. One cannot happen without the other. Thank you for a beautiful reminder!
Aileen's voice is rly comforting
Sending u too much love Aileen 💓💓💓..... Focusing on positivity is what's needed in these times... Love n light ✨✨
This is one thing I’ve been working on. I write in my books about women being stronger and loving themselves, but don’t always direct that towards myself. 💕
No way. You did a GREAT job for someone with your knowledge! Keep those financial videos coming girl. For more in depth videos people can search other's channels. We're here for you!!!! ♀️♥️👸
I love your personality. I love your vibe and energy. I love your mindset and how you deal with unpleasant situations. Thank you for being such an inspiration!! ❤❤❤
Thank you Aileen .I have been watching your channel for 3 years and I changed a lot.I gradually think ,speak and act things with more love like you do.
Yaay.. Love these advices.
Aileen always make me feel confident about myself. I got to know who I am in this year by your kind words. Even I'm not fluent in English, your every word went deeper in my heart. Actually, Aileen was a English teacher to me. That's not a joke. Thank you so much for the inspiration!❤️🥰
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𝕤𝕖𝕟𝕤𝕚𝕥𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕟𝕥 💜
THREE IN ONE
L...❤❤❤...
RUclips: THIS IS FINE.
THREE IN ONE
SOMEONE: SAYS ''HECK''.
RUclips: BE GONE
Life's story is a short journey so have fun before sleeping forever
#Чо #эт #делает #на #2 #месте #в #тренде
#однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
Megan: ''Hotter''
Hopi: ''Sweeter''
Joonie: ''Cooler''
Yoongi: ''Butter''
Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались.
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter" .
ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね！１万人を超える人が見ていたもんね（笑）やっぱり人参最高！まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした！今後は気を付けないとね. .
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Thank you Aileen for being so authentic and not letting negative comments get in the way of that!!! Your self confidence is so inspiring! ❤️💯
“You Can Heal Your Life “ by Louse Hay helped me in the self love and acceptance Journey! She also recommended changing the words ‘but’ to ‘and’ and ‘should ‘ to ‘could ‘ as well as so many positive affirmations! Thanks you for continuing and confirming my journey into self love and acceptance! Namaste
Hey Lavendaire! Love your video. My takeaways is you mentioned the words “unconditional” and “compassion”. I grew up in a “conditional” environment where if there was criteria that you didn’t satisfy that you weren’t good enough. I am starting on my personal development journey to love and accept myself and be more aware. I know I made tons of mistakes, but I know that’s ok. Its a fresh start with God, cause I know He loves and values me and it starts there. I’ll be vulnerable as I am a male writing this. I’ll be viewing your videos more often moving forward. 😊😇🙏
Thank you Lavendaire!
No matter what those neg ppl say Abt you, true ppl know how much true you are. You r best girl`, you helped ppl in ways more than yourself knew just keep being yourself ❤️ we love you
I love that this was your response to the backlash, Aileen!👏🏼
I was excited to learn about crypto as it's something I've been looking into recently, so it came as a shock to me to see all of those comments.
I'm so glad you didn't let it get to you and please keep posting things that you are passionate about, I for one love to see it! You are very inspiring!! ✨💘💞✨💓
It's interesting because I've always not just thought of love as a way to have compassion, but hope as well! I find that when you combine the two, you realize that hope is not just something that comes from the outside world, but also comes from the inner world. I believe you can have hope and love for yourself and others, and that's what makes compassion so powerful :)
Thank you for your vulnerability, you bring light to this world
This is something I've struggled with periodically... thank you ♡__♡ the puppy is so fuzzy & lovable. I find that animals bring out *compassion*
I am going to watch your NFT and Crypto video, not to see and understand the comments but because I don’t know anything about NFT or Crypto. I was actually excited to hear you made a video like that. Girl, the light you shine for those looking for guidance and an introduction to certain subjects will always outweigh those haters. Please don’t stop what you’re doing. Although you may not be giving what is expected, you give what is needed for many others such as myself. I appreciate your thoughtfulness always.
Thank you Aileen for bringing this topic up. This video just comes at the right time for me. I am the person who is immersed in negative thoughts and beliefs. And I projected to people around me just like you said. I feel sad about what I did. It hurts people. Thanks for this video I know the reason why I did it. It's because of fear, exhausting feelings, criticism, judging in my mind. You are like a flashlight to me. I know where I am now and I want to be/have/do more positive. Thank you again. I really appreciate that I met this clip.
Always so much wisdom. I’m so happy to know you❤️ Thank you for being the light.
You always bring me new perspectives to see things. ‘act from love’
Thanks ❤️
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, I know life is hard. It’s hard living, filled with the struggles and challenges. The constant pressure to overcome and become. However, you can overcome and make it better, all the seeds and keys of greatness are within you. Get up and press on. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
I have been watching your videos from last year and I've learned a lot of things from that.
Thank You so much ! for Your love about the people and your thought are really helping to daily life.
You are absolutely right. I have been using positive energy to approach a negative person. And he has become a lot more positive than before. Like a mirror.
I used to stress out with his negativity, but things have gotten a lot better and easier now.
I am your people. I love when you only share what you believed in. Thank you so much for the reminder to love myself ❤❤
Learning to show MYSELF Love and Compassion. Also learning to let go of the evil and bad and letting the good and Love in. I am WORTHY AND LOVABLE. ❤ ❤ ❤ Ty for a Lovely video. I did watch the whole video. ❤
Your videos have been so in tune with the messages I need to hear lately. Thanks so much for sharing 💕💕
Aww you are so strong :) Aileen - i do love your videos so much, tbh i didn't see the whole situation on ur prev video because as soon as i saw it on my sub feed i didnt click onto it, its just not what i am into but i love your other content and you so much that i am always going to support you. I would rather skip something that just does not interest me or go with my vibes than to comment negative energy. I am sorry you have had this energy towards you but your compassion is so inspiring and u do have a loving Community. Keep being your authentic self :) xx
You're an amazing personality, you just lift ma day up , so beautiful. The positive energy you spread is infinite. Whenever I feel low I come to your videos and it just makes me feel good and more confident. Lots of love.❤️
Girl, you are so strong no matter what life throws at you, you are literally my role model. This video has changed my life, thank you for everything, love you!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Aileen I really needed this 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ use love as your compass
I have watched Aileen for years, and I can genuinely say that seeing her grow from sweet and gentle, to this woman who will politely tell you to check yourself on camera is EVERYTHANG!! She just Michell Obama'd her haters and I am HERE FOR IT!! Love ya girl!
😂 ty for making me smile today!
You are so beautiful angel ❤ Youre light irritated, this people's demons. That's it.
"If everything around seems dark, look again, you may be the light."
Rumi
I am so proud of you, sister.❤🎉
I have definitely acted upon my negative energy in the past and I have to check in with myself very very often to stop it. I am constantly making myself super anxious and friends have told me that I have an anxious energy. I'm definitely working on it now!!!
Simply, unconditional love does not judge whether somebody is doing good
This video helped me so so much it also motivate me to work on myslef✨️🎀
Thank you so much for all the things you are doing🫶🏻🫶🏻 Love you💕✨️🫶🏻
This month is a year since I discovered your youtube channel. I was in a dark place very uncertain,filled with fear , doubt , and saddness but because of your videos and the workbook i was able to gain more self awareness and peace. Its OKAY TO RELAX and not know what will happen to take it one day at a time. Most importantly loving me and all of me. I see the positive change in myself and I LOVE IT!! THANK YOU SO MUCH
So happy for you!! 👏🏻💓💓
Your channel is so warm, cozy, peaceful and full of love 💕💕💕
Aileen! I love your videos, you taught me self-love and creating my dream life. I appreciate all of these so so much! I trust you, and I love how you face judges and chaos. Your video is like a conversation with you. I enjoy every time learning from you and communicating with you. You are the best Aileen forever!
Awww Lavendaire, I mostly watch your videos. You’re such a strong person!!! You’re always so helpful and inspirational in my life :) I’m also into crypto and when I watched your video about it, it made feel happy, secure and hopeful because more and more people are getting into the new technology and system!!! I also have unique thoughts and interest from the norm too that sometimes made me doubt of my decisions and I find comfort when my psychologist said that, “Just because you’re different, doesn’t mean you’re wrong.” I hope this also helps you too. 💕
Nice video! I think there’s a misconception that self compassion is “pity” and “selfish”. Self compassion is something that we all need. I still practice it and try to use a kind tone.
Don't be scared to make content about the things you like, this is your channel. It sucks that people judged you, but that's on them, not your business. Thanks for all the great content x
Aileen thank you for your compassion for yourself firstly. It’s great how far you’ve come in developing your inner wisdom so no one can crush your inner world 🤍
Aileen, thank you so much for making this video! I too have always had a huge passion for astrology and love to talk about it, but I always feared that others will view me differently, and I didn't want to expend my energy talking to others who view astrology in a negative light. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with that video! This has definitely pushed me to live more authentically in sharing my passion with others.
I hope you can upload more videos daily. A very timely, motivating. Thank your for reaching out to people in ur own creative way. From Philippines..
Thank you aileen for this beautiful video, this is everything that I was meant to hear today, I really appreciate people like you in this world trying to keep us aware and reminded on staying true to our authentic paths and selves and encouraging us to always give love towards one another no matter the different things we all may believe from one another. Bless your soul, and have a great and wonderful day💝
You are like an angel
I just want to tell you lavendaire you have the most beautiful calming lovely voice it makes me excited to meditate & honestly you were born to do this! ♥️♥️♥️ Much love
Love and peace, no matter what comes at you come back with love😚
Now I'm scared to comment, because I don't want to be called out as a hater 😂But just because people don't agree with you doesn't mean that there's something wrong with their energy. I disagree with you about bitcoin from economical and investment point of view. I think people were aggressive because there's more to this story and it frustrates them that people don't talk about it enough. I think people didn't comment because they wanted to take you down (if they wanted to take you down, you'd get hate on every video), but because they were very passionate about the topic - although it's true that nowadays people are so quick to cancel you for any small thing you do which I think is very toxic. However, I believe the comments are a good feedback for you to look into the other aspects of crypto that people wish were more talked about. There's a higher risk in being wrong about crypto than astrology.
I came back to this comment section to see if someone was going to say anything about it (I'm not a native English speaker and I couldn't explain it well like you did). I agree with you! There's graciousness in admitting you were wrong and accepting that people's comments don't come "from a place of anger or hatred" (or something along these lines), but they are just explaining you things you might have missed. I noticed this about Aileen and others many times... sometimes they get so caught up in their "posive vibes only" mentality that they just refuse normal human interaction were you say something and someone else adds notions you weren't aware of to the conversation. They are "never wrong". Too bad the title was misleading, otherwise I would have not wasted time watching this video... I'll stay subscribed for her other content.
I mentioned how there were a range of energies in the comments, some were constructive & brought up good points, others were attacking from a very angry & judgmental perspective (calling me names, etc), hence this topic!
we love our authentic Aileen. from your podcast you talked with quite a lot of techy people, so you talking about crypto isn't a surprise. I love your astrology video and year cycles video too. I feel like you are my sister giving me all this wisdom and knowledge. And I'm SO grateful that the knowledge is on different topics, cause I respect you and I want to soak up all this info you downloaded on life. thank you for being real girlfriend
I just had a tough day but after watching your video it's just a good positive energy . Thank you so much
Unconditional love for me means to accept and love yourself with all ur flaws💕
It's really true and thanks, for make this content 🤗 make me feel more calm about those things people say about you are there mirror not yours.
Hugs from Dominican ❤️🇩🇴
Everyone on the internet will argue, there's always one person that's pure hate on their argument. It's normal, and it's good to understand that they are mirroring. It took me awhile to get used to it but now I'm all good with people arguing. I just read it as their side (even when they're pretty much just insulting me). I've managed to actually talk to a few which later apologised because they were having a bad day and just raged on me. Which is okay and fine.
My eyes filled by tears during watch your video🥺 I love your thoughts about ‘you’ll find your people’
Thats so relate to me, thankyou so much❤️ lysm❤️
I really appreciate your video. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on communication and challenging us to strive towards being mindful on our communication skills with each other. You are good enough. Keep Going and Just be you . Thank you again. Namaste
thank you!!
So from my point of view, I’ve noticed if a person believes their safety is being threaten they tend to have their sense of justice hyper focused to protect whatever it is. Like for example, I didn’t watch your cryto video because I am not financially safe and all things money is triggering. My first thought was honestly; “how privileged is it to have money to throw around. There are so many people just like me who can’t even afford the basics.” It’s that hyper sense of justice that tends to make things feel so unfair and it’s like we’ve convinced ourselves that if we act this way we’ll somehow make things better . Nothing against you or your investments.