Self Love Shifts that Changed My Life 💕
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- Опубликовано: 27 май 2024
- These are the self love habits & mindset shifts that have changed my life in the past few years. With these tips, I hope you can build more self esteem and self confidence. I've invited my friend Jasmine Lipska to share her self love tips in this video as well.
Jasmine's video: How to ACTUALLY Love Yourself | • How To ACTUALLY Love Y...
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Thank you for this uplifting video💖 I'd love to watch a video 3 years after. That is now: how it affected you? Were you able to maintain this state of mind?
“When you start taking care of yourself you start feeling better, you start looking better, and you start to attract better. It starts within you.”🙏🏽
So true!
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I thought that I have enough self love that's why I'm confused as to why things did not turn out well as I expected it to be; as this quote says you start to attract better. Does this mean that my self love is still not enough?
Well said!! 💯
@@bellemartin3105the things about you are saying they are not about self love it's about expectations you keep on yourself and on others ....I suggest you to keep away all your expectations and live with a hope that all the things that you want will turn out the way you want so I hope you get it
Expectations make you feel heavier and miserable 💕
1, Listening to your heart and inner voice
2, Disovering and nurturing gifts and strengths, skills, talents
3, Being gentle with yourself
4, Learning to find self worth within
5, Embracing emotions & allowing yourself to feel
6, Finding gratitude in all situations
"Trade your expectations for appreciation. That makes all the difference."
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“Self love is not selfish; you cannot love another until you know how to love yourself” ❤️ THANK YOU Lavendaire!!!
Ya you r right. These r actually my words in my mind, i was searching for last long time. Thank u for this post....
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I agree!❤️
"Be yourself. An original is so much better than a copy." Sending much love to y'all ❤️ 🙏
Yessss much love
Absolutely I agree 👍
Sending love back to you my friend ♥️
Can someone please suggest me a book on how to know ourselves and love and own ourselves?
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To the person reading this:
You are who you are.
You are a gorgeous and beautiful creation.
You are a masterpiece.
You are who you are.
You are strong and courageous.
You can absolutely do it.
You are powerful.
Remind yourself that you are who you are.
Move forward with your determination, and conviction.
You can absolutely do it.
Have a great day ahead,
Remember you are who you are.
❤️❤️❤️
❤️🤗
@@shana3443 ❤️❤️❤️
Thank uu❤
@@souma3861 You are very welcome. I am happy to be here with you
❤️💗❤️
The person you are going to be with for the rest of your life is YOU. Selflove is everything.❤️
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Amen 🙏💗
Yasss
These last 2 days I've been struggling with overthinking and negative thoughts, I became so hopless.. didn't know what to do with my life or where to go.. I was really lost... no matter how many acheivments I'll have, they don't fulfill me.. my high expectations made me hopless, I felt like no matter what I do, how much I try.. I won't feel fulfilled anyways.. I was just so tired that I didn't want to live any longer... many insecurities.. many fears.. many negative thoughts.. I couldn't take them anymore..
I hated myself, looked down on myself and felt like I'm useless being here in this world...
I've been staying in my room locking the door for 2 days... the only thing I did was crying, sleeping..... idk why it was so hard but I just couldn't control my thoughts anymore, I truly just wanted to die... and till now.. I'm still on my bed lying down here and my door is locked... I just woke up opened youtube and saw this video on the top so I opened and watched till the end...
This video made me remember all those times when I felt worthy, when I felt comfortable being on my own, when I told myself how beautiful I was and how I loved myself....
I can start again..
It's not the end..
I've been watching both of your channels for years and it truly helped me in many ways but I can say this video could stop me from commiting sucide.. reminded me of how to love myself again and keep going...
Thank you
Dear Deya, I'm sorry you feel that way. I beg you to please, take a deep breath, take a shower, go for a walk, call a friend or a family member. Please do look for help. Depression can be very hard to deal with. Don't do it alone, although everything seems so dark and lonely. Please gather your strength and look for help. Much light.
Im struggling with the same thing right now, and i want you that it will be okay. We will get through this together
Deya, God bless you. I am sending the whole of my positive energy you. I hope you're doing well right now. 😍🌼
Omg😭
Fact: u can't breath out of ur nose when ur smiling.
U actually can just made u try it so u would smile.😊
@Liz La Rue thx everybody needs a smile on their face 😊
@Liz La Rue
Oh! Are you ok? Don't worry everything will be fine.☺️💜
@Liz La Rue
Oh! I don't know what you saw , but believe me you can get out of that trauma dear. Just be strong and take care of yourself.(✿^‿^)
AWW THANK YOU
I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. Do you know something about marijuana? What to do? Can you help me?
Self love kweeeeen ❤️❤️❤️
Queen
@@salikook1393 shut up
@@salikook1393 I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. Do you know something about marijuana? What to do? Can you help me?
Pedro cardozo whattttt💀
@@h4z3l_nut you understood. Can you help me?
Something massive that helped me shifted my mindset is to stop comparing myself to others! Reiterating to myself that its my life, so its my timing and my journey, helped so much to love my experiences and journey.
Amazing!! 👏🏻👏🏻
What a great insight!
Yes!! Amen to that 🙌🙌🙌💕
@@TrinityGrowthRUclips That reallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllly good
If you live your life trying to please other people, you end up living THEIR life instead of your own and it's exhausting
Yes I agree
Yess! And im guilty on doing tht
@@ameliabalfour3127 Same here
I struggle with listening to my inner voice and gut. I have only recently learned to go with my gut and trust myself. I literally have been living life on autopilot, listening to what my parents, peers, and adults tell me but I have realized i have to make my own decisions. This is super hard since my entire life, I literally never made a decision on my own so it's hard to trust myself. However, I'm really hopeful to finally get to a point where I can listen to my gut.
One thing I do is to write down everything I desire, everything I prefer from a car to a job. It helps me hone who I am, what I want out of life, etc. So when my mom or someone else says something that doesn’t match up with that, I just chuckle to myself. And I’m not a teenager. I’m old.
@@ravenel2 Oooo yes, I have been journaling more and doing more self reflection to figure out what exactly I want. This has been super helpful!!!
“The princess of self-love” now that’s an epic title!!
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Love you Aileen! You are amazing and truly Queen of glow ups 🥰 love all these tips you shared, it’s going to be so valuable for all of us! ❤️
The collab I didn't know I needed in my life 😍😍😍💖💖✨✨ love you both!
Hi Jasmine! I m following your videos for two years. I want to say I m grateful to you.
you both are my inspiration ilsm!
@@itsfaithtime ppppp
Recently very depressed and stressed with all career choices and social anxiety is eating me out. And seeing this when i need the most is just...
Thank you so much
you got this one step at a time
Me right now. I hope things got better for you love.
I am going through this right now and I’m 39. I wish I made this shift before but was in survival mode that entire time. For anyone else reading this that can relate, it’s never too late!
Creating boundaries,respecting myself and love is my key
Amen sistah ☀️
Self love makes me feel guilty i feel I am being selfish and that thought ruins my happiness
I’m going through a break up, i keep begging a guy to stay at me even he told me he doesn’t want me anymore. I figured out what i need is self love, so I woulndt look for the love to another person anymore. Thank you for this!
Hi Nichole. Thank you for sharing and for your openness. I have two videos on my YT channel called, “How to love yourself (when you don’t know how)” and “Can’t let go of the past?” I hope they might be helpful for you.☺️
Sending so much love to anyone watching this and struggling with self-love. It’s a long journey full of lots of moments of growth ❤️ you are doing amazing!
❤
🙏🙏💖 thank you! You are so sweet :)
love this
Confidence, which boils down to self esteem is built on self trust. Trusting yourself and listening to your inner voice is key!
We all deserve the same love we, willingly, give others! ❤️
From a self love content creator to another- great video Aileen! 💕
Yes!! Self love is such an inner battle 💖🙏 it takes continual practice to love and trust and value ourselves ✨
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Whatever you pause on is something you need to hear right now ruclips.net/video/nxt3KaqFvGg/видео.html ❤❤❤
A lesson I learned is that you have to put yourself first, because how are you going serve / love on somebody else if you yourself are in a dark place. If you are happy and healthy, you will be a better person for everybody else. You can't give what you don't have. ❤️😊
Love yourself so much that it overflows and touches all other aspects of your life.
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I release my sadness by watching sad movies and cry a lot. It makes me feel better when I wake up ❤
Ahh sammee 💖🙏 allowing ourselves to feel our feelings is all part of loving and respecting ourselves!
Sameee.. Can you recommend some movies
"To fall in love with yourself is the first key to happiness"-Robert Morley. Thank you Lavendaire I haven't felt the best this past week but your videos always spark motivation. 💕
beautiful quote! all about going within & understanding yourself
Oh my gosh, Jasmine's *voice is just so [self] LOVING; it's like a jasmine flower. It's so sweet. I'm so following her :)*
she is so sweet so much value in the video
@@daniellenormand7200 are you subscribed to her? :-)
" Being gentle with myself "
❤❤❤Thank you lavendaire 😇
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I really want to listen to my heart and go where it wants me to go but there are people in my life who control it, make me question it which ultimately makes me afraid of what if I’d fail at it and at last those people would criticise me or give unnecessary taunts for following my heart which would otherwise break me as a person too.
One mindset that has really helped me in my self love journey is to remember that self love is an every growing journey and not something to "complete" or "perfect"! 💖🙏✨
its all in the daily work
@@daniellenormand7200 100%!
I'm 24 and you are so right! I only started listening to my own inner voice and stopped letting society, family and other people dictate my life. It's tough because there will be a lot of criticisms. I'm only trying to understand who I am, what my gifts are and my quirks that I love about me. It's time ,I guess ,to start focusing on myself and reach for my dreams! I might lose a lot of people along the way but that's what it takes for self growth, healing and choosing your own path.
the quotes "change your expectations to appreciation" and "What I see in others, I also see my self" are my favourite takes in the video!
Thank you! I wish I had you as my older sister, life would've been much better.
Hi there. Thank you so much for sharing about your individual journey! I have a new YT channel with mindset coaching content for 20-somethings who want to learn how to LOVE THEIR LIVES no matter when kind of challenges they might be experiencing. I hope it might be helpful for you!
Your advices are so difficult to do with depression... looking in is already painful, but seeing nothing, , even if people say it's not true, it seems so hard to practice self love. I hope everyone with and without depression will find their path in life. Accepting who we are with our sickness is a challenge that really seem impossible to do.
Thank you for this . Love you !
you're glowing aileen 💖 ily!!
Badly needed!!!🥺❤️ thank you
Lovedddd this! Thank you for these self love tips! ❤
Sharing our stories and impacting one person is enough to make a change! love this, keep it up!!
Loved it, thanks. 💕
Currently I'm coming out of denial that my relationship is indeed toxic. I love this man so much but i have lost myself and am desperate to get back to the woman I was. I need this, because I have just felt so hard on myself. Thank you, beautiful Aileen ❤
really am thankful for this video 💖 you are loved!
your sweet words never fails to warming my heart, thanks aileen💕
The act being grateful to our body parts is really amazing..
i agree so easy to forget to thank our bodies for the hard work they do each day
Your videos always put me in such a great mood for the day
Wow . Thanks for these tips Aileen
Emotional trauma can win over you...ONLY IF YOU LET IT! The heart is where your truest and eternal self resides. It is the absolute and complete foundation of your core being. Let it guide you. The heart has always been beside you. 🙏🏽🌿💚❤️
you always come with videos I need the most! thanks for that, I love you so much💛🧡
Thank you so much 🥺💕 Your videos have truly helped me so much. You are amazing!
She is so beautiful, inside and out!
as are you ;)
Absolutely self love is the key!
Aileen giving us back-to-back quality content ❤ these videos are awesome year end gifts to us 🌟
Thankyou for the supercool tips ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love all of your gentle, inspiring videos especially those topics about self-love 🌸✨❤️
I need this. Thank you so much, Aileen.🙏✨💗
Always helpful insights. I can relate so much. Thank you for shining your light 💖
its inspires me so much to see you being so full of love, thank you!
This is so relaxing!!!
I love your videos!!
thank you so much for this video!
Thank you Lavendaire.Thank you Jasmine.
I love your channel, just became a subscriber and cannot emphasize enough how much I needed these tips! You are wonderful!
Such important reminders 🤍
This video is very informing! Love it!
Another inspirational video thanks for sharing!!!
Thank you for keeping others' mind and heart glow.
Lately my two fav creators, Aileen and Jasmine are collaborating so often on both RUclips and Podcasts! Love it so much 😍 Thank you
you literally saved me, thank you, ily💕🥰
You are my new favorite RUclipsr, these are all REAL ways to get to self love and I’m so thankful!!!!!! Especially the idea feelings fluctuate, we are not our feelings (: thank u!
I’ve legit learnt more in these 14 mins than I maybe have all year about self love. Thank you!!! 💫
Thank you so much for this. I've watched some of your videos and I will watch all of them.
Thank you for this video. It voices all of my struggles and how I can change for the better 💕
Thank you I find this video so helpful 💗
My two favourite RUclipsrs collabing! A dream come true. You guys will never know the immense impact that you have on people's lives ;when you grow, we grow and I am so so very thankful for the work that you do💕💕
Thank you for sharing this!❤️
U have always been a light in my life and made me realise that I am a light too! Hearty thanks Lavi!❤️
this video feels like a virtual hug
Her voice is so calming
Thank you for being transparent and sharing these tips with us all. #self #love #shift 🌸🙏
Your channel has taught me actual reasons to love myself 😘❤️
Love you Aileen💜❤️
Aileen you are amazing ❤️ thank you for showing us how you grew, so that we can grow ourselves
I’ve been battling with low self esteem for so long. I would seek external validation, and it would feel amazing when I received it, but then i would eventually relapse and forget how it felt. I’ve been watching your videos and I’ve learned so much about myself. I need to trust my inner voice🤞🏼 Thank you for the video! ❤️
This hit me right in the heart!!💗💗💗💗
Hi lavainder, thank you for spreading positivity. I really loves all your videos.
More power to you! ❤
Love the Aileen/Jasmine collaboration !! You're both such an inspiration ! Thank you for sharing your self love shifts :)
Everything from this video speaks to my soul
Jasmine & Lavendaire collaboration is the most beautiful thing in the world ❤️❤️❤️ I love both of them 🥰 also, I really appreciate and cherish a more frequent and regular upload from Aileen~ thank you
Your videos help me so much. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. I appreciate you so much. 💓
I'm so glad I finally found this channel. Thank you so much, you've been helping me a lot with your videos.
I love your tone of voice. It makes me feel calm ^^
Omg, I watch all your videos but this one spoke to me like no other. Thank you so much for saying what seems so obvious but we seem blind until someone shows us ❤️
I so feel you at this point in my life. Thank you. Thank you
Yess!! Love both you and jasmine 🙏💕💕✨
Gratitude has completely changed my life! 🥰 "Tell myself, I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU"!! ✨
I can't stop watching videos like this, they never get boring
Absolutely can relate to all of these shifts! Self love is definitely not selfish! Spot on girl! You cannot pour from an empty cup to help others if you have not poured into yourself! 🙌🏻💞
Your videos have such a calming effect which is what most of us need right now..😌😌❤❤
Love u Aileen!!...
Wow! What a gem!! Going to put it into practice. Great self love actions. Excited to find myself and be more loving to myself. I’m ready to rid myself of the need to get approval from others and think of me. So grateful I found your channel. 🥰🥰
The sweetest and genuine smiles exudes when one eventually accepted the worth within him/herself. That smile radiated brightly, Kween!
sending you and whoever reads this lots of love today! 💕
" Trade your expectations for appreciation " yes!!❤❤
When I watch your video I always feel good because your topic is very helpful, Thank you Aline😍
I honestly love your videos so much! Can you make self love, self esteem, confidence etc affirmations series to meditate to? 🥺💕
You are honestly so motivating and inspiring ❤️
Aileen you're someone who has introduced me to this world of self love and self care. I have so much to thank you for .stumbling upon your channel and podcast was a blessing in disguise ❤
love you ××
YOU’RE BLOOMING 🥰🥰