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Summary: 1 Live aligned to yourself 2 Have greater self acceptance, love and confidence 3 Prioritise 4 Stop overthinking 5 Know what keeps you motivated 6 Keep exploring, don’t settle
I remember 3 or 4 years ago, I watched your videos for the first time and I thought "I want to be like her, I want to know where to go". Now I am where I wanted to be all along, teaching private lessons, writing a textbook, preparing a video series to teach Japanese to anybody, and I cannot be more happy. I'm so glad I found your channel and I had your advice by my side the whole time I was at uni. I hope your 2019 will be a fantastic year!
I went to your channel and it's in French! I've been waiting to learn French for a long time, I subscribed to your channel because I hope in the near future I'd learn Japanese through French 😀
1 year ago I watched your video that is called ( Ikigai ) from this vedio l figured out my passion in life and my life changed literally , I'm grateful to you so much .
@@lavendaire as you talked about motivation pack i would rather write some cheats of motivational qoutes and fold it and keep it in a jar whenever i might feel very low or need some motivation i would take out one cheat from that jar and read it and this kind of motivtional cheat jars also great for gifting to your loved ones.
Stop overthinking is the one I really need to work on. I worry so far into the future of what *could* be rather than focusing on now and what *is.* I’m the kind of person that likes to plan ahead and know things; I’m not fond of surprises or the unknown, so just leaping in and doing things is sometimes scary, but I know it can be rewarding. Thanks for the tips, Aileen!
Aileen, I want to say this, I started watching your videos since last Feb. I started know about self love through you. Making simple steps with self love like yoga,meditation , reading books and listening to podcast I did overcome my anxiety, depression. And even I came to realize my purpose on this world. My life hereafter will be guided my purpose. I am grateful every moment that God has shown you to me at the right time when I just felt "everything is over, I am done". I never forget you in my life. Thank you girl!!!😍❤
I'm diagnosed with depression because of serious family problems and staying motivated is really hard for me. 2018 was the worst year ever, I felt like I don't deserve to life and because of my lack of confidence in myself, my own body and skills it was really hard for my to change myself. I always wanted to change but I didn't knew how and I couldnt think clearly because my thoughts are a mess. I tried severall crash diets were I didn't ate anything for days until I nearly collapsed because even I'm not fat I thought being underweight would make me happier . I did a lot of workouts for a period of time , there were days when I felt confident but when just a small negative thing happened I already felt uncomfortable and i ate more and my own mind made myself down . Im in highschool and my grades dropped and I just wrote grades like 5 or 6 and in class and when I wanted to learn I couldn't focus so I gave up. I gave up without trying it again. I didn't do any homework or learned. I just layed in the bad all day and did nothing productive. I just watched Yt or I tried to sleep because their wasn't anything I wanted to do that brought joy in my life . My lifestyle was really boring. I lost also the interest to everything that I used to like . I don't realy have friends I can talk with so I felt alone. Also the professional help I got was useless . I wanted to kill myself. I almost was about to cut my vains off and not just for one time. I wanted to change but I didn't knew how until I discovered ur channel one week ago. It was almost 2019 so I looked for motivation videos on Yt. Usually those videos don't help me but your videos inspired me. I started to do a journal and it helped. Right know I know what I want and I know the best way to achieve my dreams. I also kinda changed the way I think. The last two days I was really productive and I felt happy after a long time. Today I felt depressed again but I watched your video right know and I'm inspired again. I'm really grateful for your videos. I want you to know that you can change other people lifes and that you're a big inspiration for me. Without you I may wouldn't be alive anymore. I know that my path to become happy is going to be hard but I will try my best. Also I'm very sorry if made a lot of grammar mistakes because I'm from Germany and I never was very good in englisch grammar etc.
Hello from south Africa 🌍 🇿🇦 you do it I have been there being depressed and emotionally and physically drained in my case no one really noticed my depression my family thought I was just going through one of the *phrases*. Don't give up I suggest the exercise I have learnt from lavendaime.now me and me in 5 years(I used this but I used 2 years instead. This will help u and helped me as well. Something that will also help is a vision board u can add what u want for example fitness,health(mental health and physical health) money, u can also add cutting out toxic people(if u want) I hope u see this have a great day /evening 🌃.
I've felt that way, but I think that only if I would really want to change, I should take action. I won't do it for anybody but myself. I stopped criticizing myself for wrong things or the things I don't have, that most of the time I should more be compassionate especially to myself. I realized that there will be more things to come for us who struggles/struggled. I hope you realize that each one of us just wants to be better and we are all in different phases but we'll get through it. Believe and it will be possible. 💖
Hello I am from Germany too and I just wanted to say you are not alone I felt almost the same and right now I am at the same point as you, where I first after a long time looked forward to living again. So remember du bist nicht alleine💜
Happy 2019 everyone! 😊💕 Aileen was one of the first people to inspire me to start a youtube channel. A year later, I’m making New Years resolutions to keep working hard and hopefully one day become a full time youtuber! Never give up on your dreams! 💪
The most important thing I am taking with me is always that if you want to give (and us women, we love to give), you have to have something to give. So, taking care of my own needs is a priority.
What you talk about on #4 reminds me of a message I just heard of from TD Jakes regarding going forth even if you're scared. Like Moses, grabbing the snake so you can get your staff. And to not believe negativity but reinforce positivity to yourself. Your video is just confirmation. I thank God for you!
This is the first thing i heard in the morning and trust me this is what i needed. Thank you so much....its as if universe actually knows what i need and when and then sent the message through you....! now i know 2019 is my year..!!
Needed this this morning ❤️✨My intention this year is to rebuild my good habits I had last year (devotional/ journaling, weekly/ monthly planning, daily & nightly skincare), and build new ones that I’ve been procrastinating on (photography, RUclips, education in general) 🎉🎊✨
The problem with trying to live my BEST life is that it’s been a quick road to burnout. Especially when I’m dealing with mental health issues, pushing myself can be a very bad thing. But on the other hand taking risks has led me to some amazing experiences. I guess there is balance in everything.
We need more people like you in our youth, This generation of Teenagers (including me) need to watch your videos that can guide us instead of other influencers (no hate but some influencers can really mess up ⬆ the way we think we do things).
I’m having such a hard time finding a perfect planner with all my needs met. And I sent it to the universe and after sometime I found you through MichelleB. This tells me that the same can happen with everything else I desire and also that I can get my hands on a perfect planner for me❤️I’m so happy. Thank you for existing 💕
Connecting is the four step method (Connect, Listen, Trust, Act) that teaches you how to disengage your mind to access the intuitive part of you, called your Self. In the practice of Connecting, you learn how to connect to the Self. You eliminate the feelings and emotions that come from the mind and keep you from having the results for the life you want
I have so much love for this video. I love that you specifically mention listing motivation triggers. Even though I'm so motivated to change and grow at the start of a new year, there is always going to be a "slow period" or slump. There are so many people that just tell us how to get started, but I love and appreciate that you touch on the subject of HOW to get back into the groove too. Thank you! I'm making my motivation list in my 2019 Artist of Life workbook now!
I loooove the way you articulate yourself! Your voice is so gentle and soft yet it can command the attention of a goldfish lol aka me :'D. Happy 2019 Aileen! Thank you for the great vid!
You are on my motivational playlist. I recently dropped out of Law school because I felt pretty miserable. I'd been there for 7 months and I remember that ever since week one I knew deep down that wasn't my place but I held on,because I felt pressured by my family's expectations. After some soul searching I realised that I wante to pursue art and watching your video helps me stay motivated because everyone in my familiy is kinda freaked out and saying I'm wasting my potential.
Last night, I was again downgrading myself for not being able to meet certain expectations. It's like I have really lost passion on things which I used to love and now I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know if it's a matter of I WON'T do it or I CAN'T do it anymore. And this morning when I saw your video, it made me realize that the pain I had the last 2 years could be just a part of my becoming this year or even the years to come! Taking risks I am afraid but it is indeed true that through the difficult road, one would definitely grow😊😊😊
I didn't want to include intentions for 2019 in the Instagram comments, but I tagged 2 friends and I'll leave my intentions here-- my major goals for this year overall are to become more disciplined, spend my time more wisely, and take better care of myself, physically and mentally. 2018 was a pretty bad year for me as far as personal growth and development, it really feels like I hit rock bottom, so the way I see it there's nowhere to go from here but up, so we better get to it!
I'm building momentum with baby steps and keeping in mind it's not a matter of all or nothing, I'll do my best to keep consistency but, one day at the time, working in one of each of my goals and learning how to plan and prioritize.
Once i have stopped being ambitious bcoz of failures, disappointment...i have been watching your old videos daily for past few weeks...u r such s positive vibe and inspiration...I have made up myself to take risks, live my own lyf, planning my days accordingly...Tq so much for such positivity Love from India
I feel like for a more insecure, introverted or shy individual it's always the hardest thing to get started or to share something with other people as opposed when you're used to it while also being authentically you. On the other hand I think it gets better in time if you can be patient with yourself and the process you're in. It's good to dream big but it can also be daunting at times so we can take smaller steps and be proud of those accomplishments too which is something I had to learn since I used to rush something or jump too soon into something else, kind of all over the place but then also having perfectionist tendencies so yeah, it's not always so much about being successful but about what you can do and the amazing things you can bring to the world and it will always give you something so then the creative energy is flowing in a balanced way. ♥
I truly agree with the enemy within and living for yourself, its a mix of self love yet awareness of the enemy within. I cannot wait for your videos this year and the whole journey, much Love Aileen
I am so glad you are talking about self love, it is such a huge and important part to talk about. This year I have two guided words - Growth and Believe. They stand for self love, believing in myself and growing as a person.
I’ve never felt more personally spoken to through a video IN MY LIFE until now. You made me feel worthy and excited for the new year, thank you so much for this video Aileen 🙏🙌💗
When I was watching this I was breaking down . Watching it again because self love is important. I shud really learn to love myself which is the most difficult task when ur going through a breakup, but I can do it, I will love myself , won't give up
Entering now on Instagram! Excited. My intention for the year is to publish my fantasy book in the winter. I’ve hired a writing coach to help me stay accountable and get my work ready for publication
I did follow your store 🌸,I'm gonna get better at dancing cause I feel inspired when I see others mastering it, moreover it makes me feel free and UNSTOPPABLE and unstoppable is my word for this year 🍃
Lavendaire beautiful and key reminders to return to the road of self love and self confidence, relinquishing our old patters that stem from raw rooted ancient beliefs and self judgement. I love your channel and light. On my own channel, I dedicate my 2 decades of living through loss and communicating with our beloveds in spirit who want us to life vibrationally happy and healthy today and have messages for us to transform illness and conditions holding us back!! I am subscribed, blessings and love xx
Happy New Year's🎊 I just want ti say thank you for being you because i truly look up to you to motivate me and you inspire me to be my better self. Your aura of positiveness, vibrant energy, love and passion to grow does impact many others to find their inner peace💜 Wishing everyone happy and loving vibes~💞
I've found your channel last summer with your Dream Life Series, and I'm addicted since then. :) I've taken a risky path last summer, left my day job, put a big X on my career to follow my heart and start a game development studio. Starting a business for the first time is tough, but I love what I'm doing and this is why I truly believe I will succeed, it is just a matter of time. Sometimes I feel down because of all the uncertainty related to my project, and things take much longer than I've thought, but then I discover one of your motivational videos and it helps me to get back on track. Sometimes I just need to hear that everything's gonna be alright. :) God bless you Aileen for what you're doing.
many people ( youtubers ) will say to do yoga , do cycling , get clear skin and habits for living your best life . I like how this video is good for everyone and all the tips are universal . sorry for my bad english
I cut my hair on December 27 and know I regret it so bad.I miss my old hair so much and I just wanna cry and hope it will grow fast.I know that the body image is not as important as the soul, but it is very hard for me to understand it.I am also making my FIRST vision board and lemme tell you, I am hella excited.I am putting long hair images,glossier and vs perfumes,Bella Hadid's body and some cute clothes...also a passport and some beautiful views from LA and a festival that's gonna be in my country...last but not least, I want Shawn Mendes concert tickets.I hope everybody gets their dreams reality this year ❤
I'm going to make a "Start Creating" video because in one of your older videos you talked about how being done is better than being perfect and I've been living with that phrase these past couple of months and it completely changed by life.
Maybe all dreams cannot be achieved or maybe all dreams are not the right/best ones. I think it is right to both care for ourselves and others. Thanks for the good video.
My intention is to be highly optimistic this year so watching your videos from last year made me create my theme..So this year my Theme is " Optimism & Magic". I have already started to have positive thoughts and to reject the negative thoughts very strongly. I am into rewinding myself back to zero when having a negative word come out of my mouth. So looking up for your videos. Love all of it. You kinda have some power in you cause you steal my attention so much and lighten up my heart.
I am serious. I have not even completed watching the whole video and I felt like thanking you so much for making me feel like I am amazing, for building my trust on to my intuition. For just putting so much of positive energy in me that yes I can achieve my goals and that my goals are not just dreams. They are my life and I am happy living in them and achieving them. Thank you thank you so much. Lots of love💞
I've already started to change! I got a new job, because I love to teach and learn and feel burn out from working with children. Have been meal planning and prepping better, and working out. I feel so much better from there. Hearing my body when it says I want to move. Trying lots of new things and while it's not the best, it's the best I can do and learning from there. No one will judge me more then I do, so I am working though it. Thank you for the videos! They are awesome and helpful, they remind me to take care of myself.
Please how to overcome fear? I want to change really badly, but this year I'll have to do really important decisions and I am incredibly scared. You cant even imagine
thank you SO much, lavendaire! this year a new chapter in my life will begin as i am finishing school and will be moving out of home into a larger city in summer in order to pursue my dreams. it's extremely terrifying to me because it's a step that is far outside of my comfort zone. thanks to your video i manage to see it more for everything i could gain than i could lose now. thankyouthankythankyou!!!♡♡♡
Happy new Year to you!!!! 🎉🎉🎉💞💞💞 you are right!!! We have to prioritize ourselves, not thinking about how other people say, not being influenced by their negative opinions about us ...That's what I'm working for long time!!!!😉😉😉❤
Girl your videos are very lit and I can’t wait to finish editing this new job I manifested on my vision board and it’s only the first week of 2019 so I hope whoever else reads this too I wanna support everyone’s journey 🤗
Happy New Year to you, Aileen! Journaling is really what I want to exercise in my affiliate marketing business for this year 2019, so I can record my daily events; writes down great ideas whenever it gets into my mind and takes note things for the success of my business.
Such wise words my Dear! My intention is to have as much Peace and Love as I possibly can this year!! After more drama and heartache then I thought could be possible ended 2018, I want this New Year to be For Me for once!! Time to find that spark I had so long ago. I've followed your new shop of course! May you have the best year yet!! Xoxo Hugs from Napa, Ca.
It was a blessing in disguise to discover you on my recommended videos on youtube. Since last year of October, I've learned a lot of things especially about myself. There had been a lot of realizations and reflections, all thanks to you. Currently, I'm on to starting this new year with love; for myself, my passion, and the world. Your advices will always have a special place on my journey. Hopefully in a span of 3-5 years, I'll be the person whom I kept on dreaming of ever year. 💜 Thank you for your tips, Aileen! I hope you're also doing amazing!
these are great tips. i'm planning to move to another country this year after graduating college (probably taiwan or south korea). there's a lot of things that make me hesitant (family, money, language barrier, etc) but in my heart i know it's what i want to do to expand my worldview and improve my language proficiency (i already speak conversational mandarin and very basic korean). your tips are something i really needed to hear, in general and for this adventure i'm taking this year! thank you for being genuine and thoughtful as always.
You're my source of motivation !!💛🌄.... every time I feel down and sad, I play one of your vedios then booom !!! I'm back again 😊😊 thank you for being an amazing person 🌼🌻
Aloha!!! I decided to push myself to start my RUclips channel to encourage others and inspire them to be their personal best. Thank you for being a special part of my decision to go for it. Work in progress. Keep going no matter what. God blessed us with abilities, dreams, and we have to take action.
You’re so amazing, though you’re so young you’re mind is so knowledgeable and wise... great advice 👍 I look up to you everyday,, I watch your videos every time they upload. Thanks to you my business is growing. 😇
I love you‘re videos! I am still learning to be more productive,to love myself like i am and retch my goals,you’re videos inspire me!!!(JBTW you’re voice really calms me down)❤️
You are an inspiration for me . Thank you for your advices and for your work to help people make the ir Dreams come true ! I wish you have a wonderfull 2019 . Love , from Argentina .
Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶
Summary:
1 Live aligned to yourself
2 Have greater self acceptance, love and confidence
3 Prioritise
4 Stop overthinking
5 Know what keeps you motivated
6 Keep exploring, don’t settle
marshm3llow that’s right !
Thanks for the cliff notes! 💜 love watching and seeing in written form
I remember 3 or 4 years ago, I watched your videos for the first time and I thought "I want to be like her, I want to know where to go". Now I am where I wanted to be all along, teaching private lessons, writing a textbook, preparing a video series to teach Japanese to anybody, and I cannot be more happy. I'm so glad I found your channel and I had your advice by my side the whole time I was at uni. I hope your 2019 will be a fantastic year!
I went to your channel and it's in French! I've been waiting to learn French for a long time, I subscribed to your channel because I hope in the near future I'd learn Japanese through French 😀
1 year ago I watched your video that is called ( Ikigai ) from this vedio l figured out my passion in life and my life changed literally , I'm grateful to you so much .
so amazing, congrats my dear!
Thats so awesome that you met your goal! congrats! xx
Thats amazing!! Great job! 💕
The biggest take away for me was "stop overthinking and just do it". This year I want to take risks and be fearless 🌻
:) glad you liked that one! it's the year to be bold
Life is what happens when you are too busy making plans :)
Yes I love that!
Yes. That goes for me too.
And how did That go?😇
Here’s to living our best life in 2019! 🎉🙌🏼
yess love!
yeahh ! 💪🏼🍾💕✨
Naturally Brittany yesssssss💕💕💕💕
@@lavendaire as you talked about motivation pack i would rather write some cheats of motivational qoutes and fold it and keep it in a jar whenever i might feel very low or need some motivation i would take out one cheat from that jar and read it and this kind of motivtional cheat jars also great for gifting to your loved ones.
Igbo, so I can communicate with my grandma
Can not wait to conquer 2019 with self-love, self-growth, and self-forgiveness.
yas girl
Stop overthinking is the one I really need to work on. I worry so far into the future of what *could* be rather than focusing on now and what *is.* I’m the kind of person that likes to plan ahead and know things; I’m not fond of surprises or the unknown, so just leaping in and doing things is sometimes scary, but I know it can be rewarding. Thanks for the tips, Aileen!
Literally editing a “ How to be more productive in 2019” and I’m watching Lavendaire! Just the reboot I needed ❤️❤️❤️❤️
^_^ love this time of refresh!
Tell me about it I’m about to upload a video of the new job I manifested
Fabiola Suárez totally agree!!
You're one of my "motivation triggers" 💛
Aileen, I want to say this, I started watching your videos since last Feb. I started know about self love through you. Making simple steps with self love like yoga,meditation , reading books and listening to podcast I did overcome my anxiety, depression. And even I came to realize my purpose on this world. My life hereafter will be guided my purpose. I am grateful every moment that God has shown you to me at the right time when I just felt "everything is over, I am done". I never forget you in my life. Thank you girl!!!😍❤
Such a sweet comment. I can relate as well! 💕
@@jannanikrishnan Love and light to you❤✨
i'm so happy for you!! thank you for sharing your story
@@lavendaire ❤✨
Shree Jeni I should be more like you
I'm diagnosed with depression because of serious family problems and staying motivated is really hard for me. 2018 was the worst year ever, I felt like I don't deserve to life and because of my lack of confidence in myself, my own body and skills it was really hard for my to change myself. I always wanted to change but I didn't knew how and I couldnt think clearly because my thoughts are a mess. I tried severall crash diets were I didn't ate anything for days until I nearly collapsed because even I'm not fat I thought being underweight would make me happier . I did a lot of workouts for a period of time , there were days when I felt confident but when just a small negative thing happened I already felt uncomfortable and i ate more and my own mind made myself down . Im in highschool and my grades dropped and I just wrote grades like 5 or 6 and in class and when I wanted to learn I couldn't focus so I gave up. I gave up without trying it again. I didn't do any homework or learned. I just layed in the bad all day and did nothing productive. I just watched Yt or I tried to sleep because their wasn't anything I wanted to do that brought joy in my life . My lifestyle was really boring. I lost also the interest to everything that I used to like . I don't realy have friends I can talk with so I felt alone. Also the professional help I got was useless . I wanted to kill myself. I almost was about to cut my vains off and not just for one time. I wanted to change but I didn't knew how until I discovered ur channel one week ago. It was almost 2019 so I looked for motivation videos on Yt. Usually those videos don't help me but your videos inspired me. I started to do a journal and it helped. Right know I know what I want and I know the best way to achieve my dreams. I also kinda changed the way I think. The last two days I was really productive and I felt happy after a long time. Today I felt depressed again but I watched your video right know and I'm inspired again. I'm really grateful for your videos. I want you to know that you can change other people lifes and that you're a big inspiration for me. Without you I may wouldn't be alive anymore. I know that my path to become happy is going to be hard but I will try my best. Also I'm very sorry if made a lot of grammar mistakes because I'm from Germany and I never was very good in englisch grammar etc.
Du schaffst das ❤️
Hello from south Africa 🌍 🇿🇦 you do it I have been there being depressed and emotionally and physically drained in my case no one really noticed my depression my family thought I was just going through one of the *phrases*. Don't give up I suggest the exercise I have learnt from lavendaime.now me and me in 5 years(I used this but I used 2 years instead. This will help u and helped me as well. Something that will also help is a vision board u can add what u want for example fitness,health(mental health and physical health) money, u can also add cutting out toxic people(if u want) I hope u see this have a great day /evening 🌃.
I've felt that way, but I think that only if I would really want to change, I should take action. I won't do it for anybody but myself. I stopped criticizing myself for wrong things or the things I don't have, that most of the time I should more be compassionate especially to myself. I realized that there will be more things to come for us who struggles/struggled. I hope you realize that each one of us just wants to be better and we are all in different phases but we'll get through it. Believe and it will be possible. 💖
So stark bist du. Du bist nicht alleine. ❤️
Hello I am from Germany too and I just wanted to say you are not alone I felt almost the same and right now I am at the same point as you, where I first after a long time looked forward to living again.
So remember du bist nicht alleine💜
Happy 2019 everyone! 😊💕 Aileen was one of the first people to inspire me to start a youtube channel. A year later, I’m making New Years resolutions to keep working hard and hopefully one day become a full time youtuber! Never give up on your dreams! 💪
All the best 👍🙂
happy new year!!! Keep going!!
I feel ya!
Christina Marie she’s one of my biggest role models!💕💕
Same!!! But for sone reasons I stopped filming videos but Aileen inspied me to do it again so I wanna work hard and make a great content in 2019 💛💛💛
The most important thing I am taking with me is always that if you want to give (and us women, we love to give), you have to have something to give. So, taking care of my own needs is a priority.
very very true
What you talk about on #4 reminds me of a message I just heard of from TD Jakes regarding going forth even if you're scared. Like Moses, grabbing the snake so you can get your staff. And to not believe negativity but reinforce positivity to yourself. Your video is just confirmation. I thank God for you!
My intention this year is to not be afraid/avoid steps that will help me reach my goals.💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
One of the best ways to live 2019 to its fullest potential is to get away from stressors and do things that make you feel satisfied.
are you the justin y of motivation videos?
watching this 5 days before 2020, and inspires myself to rock next year ♥️
Happy New Year lady! Great advice. 💜
Happy new year dear!! ❤️❤️
Wow, my two favorite youtubers know each other! ♡♡
Happy new year everyone! Is anyone learning a foreign language this year? (Just curious 😁)
Me lol, I'm taking up Korean😂
Dutch and Chinese 🤞
French
Studious Anjy You guys are all awesome.
Japanese! :)
This is the first thing i heard in the morning and trust me this is what i needed. Thank you so much....its as if universe actually knows what i need and when and then sent the message through you....! now i know 2019 is my year..!!
ADORE the idea of a motivation starter pack.
I adore that the RUclipsrs I follow, follow each other 😉
💖Aw, thanks for following, Cris. LOVE Aileen's channel. Have been subscribed for years. 🙂
Who else is gonna make 2019 their year?🥂
Btw I also make videos💛
me
Me.
I’m a video maker too!😂💛
Definetly me!!
Making this year awesome!
Needed this this morning ❤️✨My intention this year is to rebuild my good habits I had last year (devotional/ journaling, weekly/ monthly planning, daily & nightly skincare), and build new ones that I’ve been procrastinating on (photography, RUclips, education in general) 🎉🎊✨
wishing you the best year 🎊✨
The problem with trying to live my BEST life is that it’s been a quick road to burnout. Especially when I’m dealing with mental health issues, pushing myself can be a very bad thing.
But on the other hand taking risks has led me to some amazing experiences. I guess there is balance in everything.
We need more people like you in our youth, This generation of Teenagers (including me) need to watch your videos that can guide us instead of other influencers (no hate but some influencers can really mess up ⬆ the way we think we do things).
almeera haniff exactly ! dont pay attention to them. keep growing and learning. you are amazing and im proud of you beautiful stranger 💗💛👍🌞🌝
@@EleniWiebeMentalWellness thank you I hope u reach your goals too ♥
I’m having such a hard time finding a perfect planner with all my needs met. And I sent it to the universe and after sometime I found you through MichelleB. This tells me that the same can happen with everything else I desire and also that I can get my hands on a perfect planner for me❤️I’m so happy. Thank you for existing 💕
Connecting is the four step method (Connect, Listen, Trust, Act) that teaches you how to
disengage your mind to access the intuitive part of you, called your Self. In
the practice of Connecting, you learn how to connect to the Self. You eliminate
the feelings and emotions that come from the mind and keep you from having the
results for the life you want
I have so much love for this video. I love that you specifically mention listing motivation triggers. Even though I'm so motivated to change and grow at the start of a new year, there is always going to be a "slow period" or slump. There are so many people that just tell us how to get started, but I love and appreciate that you touch on the subject of HOW to get back into the groove too. Thank you! I'm making my motivation list in my 2019 Artist of Life workbook now!
Yes it’s an important part most people don’t realize!
I loooove the way you articulate yourself! Your voice is so gentle and soft yet it can command the attention of a goldfish lol aka me :'D. Happy 2019 Aileen! Thank you for the great vid!
Aw thanks lol. Happy new year!!
You are on my motivational playlist. I recently dropped out of Law school because I felt pretty miserable. I'd been there for 7 months and I remember that ever since week one I knew deep down that wasn't my place but I held on,because I felt pressured by my family's expectations. After some soul searching I realised that I wante to pursue art and watching your video helps me stay motivated because everyone in my familiy is kinda freaked out and saying I'm wasting my potential.
Last night, I was again downgrading myself for not being able to meet certain expectations. It's like I have really lost passion on things which I used to love and now I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know if it's a matter of I WON'T do it or I CAN'T do it anymore. And this morning when I saw your video, it made me realize that the pain I had the last 2 years could be just a part of my becoming this year or even the years to come! Taking risks I am afraid but it is indeed true that through the difficult road, one would definitely grow😊😊😊
I didn't want to include intentions for 2019 in the Instagram comments, but I tagged 2 friends and I'll leave my intentions here-- my major goals for this year overall are to become more disciplined, spend my time more wisely, and take better care of myself, physically and mentally. 2018 was a pretty bad year for me as far as personal growth and development, it really feels like I hit rock bottom, so the way I see it there's nowhere to go from here but up, so we better get to it!
I'm building momentum with baby steps and keeping in mind it's not a matter of all or nothing, I'll do my best to keep consistency but, one day at the time, working in one of each of my goals and learning how to plan and prioritize.
Once i have stopped being ambitious bcoz of failures, disappointment...i have been watching your old videos daily for past few weeks...u r such s positive vibe and inspiration...I have made up myself to take risks, live my own lyf, planning my days accordingly...Tq so much for such positivity
Love from India
I feel like for a more insecure, introverted or shy individual it's always the hardest thing to get started or to share something with other people as opposed when you're used to it while also being authentically you. On the other hand I think it gets better in time if you can be patient with yourself and the process you're in. It's good to dream big but it can also be daunting at times so we can take smaller steps and be proud of those accomplishments too which is something I had to learn since I used to rush something or jump too soon into something else, kind of all over the place but then also having perfectionist tendencies so yeah, it's not always so much about being successful but about what you can do and the amazing things you can bring to the world and it will always give you something so then the creative energy is flowing in a balanced way. ♥
My best motivation trigger is to watch a Lavendaire video or listen to The Lavendaire Lifestyle!!!
Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!
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I truly agree with the enemy within and living for yourself, its a mix of self love yet awareness of the enemy within. I cannot wait for your videos this year and the whole journey, much Love Aileen
I am so glad you are talking about self love, it is such a huge and important part to talk about. This year I have two guided words - Growth and Believe. They stand for self love, believing in myself and growing as a person.
beautiful
honestly her videos are the relaxing things i need after a long day
What you said in the end is NOT super cheesy. Nothing but the truth and so motivating!
My goal this year was to have discipline and be productive lol what a coincidence. Perfect video for the new year!
I’ve never felt more personally spoken to through a video IN MY LIFE until now. You made me feel worthy and excited for the new year, thank you so much for this video Aileen 🙏🙌💗
When I was watching this I was breaking down . Watching it again because self love is important. I shud really learn to love myself which is the most difficult task when ur going through a breakup, but I can do it, I will love myself , won't give up
you are beautiful and you got this
yes you can 💕
@@HerCreativeLight thank u 😃
@@lavendaire 💪🥰
Entering now on Instagram! Excited. My intention for the year is to publish my fantasy book in the winter. I’ve hired a writing coach to help me stay accountable and get my work ready for publication
All the best
yayy
I did follow your store 🌸,I'm gonna get better at dancing cause I feel inspired when I see others mastering it, moreover it makes me feel free and UNSTOPPABLE and unstoppable is my word for this year 🍃
soo beautiful
Ur videos motivates me...love the way u exaplain...i jst love ur content...😚😚😚
People can be discouraging sometimes.... But listening to you fills me with hope and motivation... Love you ❤️
Lavendaire beautiful and key reminders to return to the road of self love and self confidence, relinquishing our old patters that stem from raw rooted ancient beliefs and self judgement. I love your channel and light. On my own channel, I dedicate my 2 decades of living through loss and communicating with our beloveds in spirit who want us to life vibrationally happy and healthy today and have messages for us to transform illness and conditions holding us back!! I am subscribed, blessings and love xx
Happy New Year's🎊 I just want ti say thank you for being you because i truly look up to you to motivate me and you inspire me to be my better self. Your aura of positiveness, vibrant energy, love and passion to grow does impact many others to find their inner peace💜 Wishing everyone happy and loving vibes~💞
Yes that's how it done the best I'm all myself
I've found your channel last summer with your Dream Life Series, and I'm addicted since then. :)
I've taken a risky path last summer, left my day job, put a big X on my career to follow my heart and start a game development studio. Starting a business for the first time is tough, but I love what I'm doing and this is why I truly believe I will succeed, it is just a matter of time. Sometimes I feel down because of all the uncertainty related to my project, and things take much longer than I've thought, but then I discover one of your motivational videos and it helps me to get back on track. Sometimes I just need to hear that everything's gonna be alright. :)
God bless you Aileen for what you're doing.
Still watching this today!!!! 💐💫🌈☀️❤️
"Self love is your greatest weapon." 🔥🔥🔥 Love this. 😍
many people ( youtubers ) will say to do yoga , do cycling , get clear skin and habits for living your best life . I like how this video is good for everyone and all the tips are universal . sorry for my bad english
love this video. Thank you for sharing!! :)
I cut my hair on December 27 and know I regret it so bad.I miss my old hair so much and I just wanna cry and hope it will grow fast.I know that the body image is not as important as the soul, but it is very hard for me to understand it.I am also making my FIRST vision board and lemme tell you, I am hella excited.I am putting long hair images,glossier and vs perfumes,Bella Hadid's body and some cute clothes...also a passport and some beautiful views from LA and a festival that's gonna be in my country...last but not least, I want Shawn Mendes concert tickets.I hope everybody gets their dreams reality this year ❤
This was so motivating! I feel like 2019 is gonna be my year.
I'm going to make a "Start Creating" video because in one of your older videos you talked about how being done is better than being perfect and I've been living with that phrase these past couple of months and it completely changed by life.
Maybe all dreams cannot be achieved or maybe all dreams are not the right/best ones. I think it is right to both care for ourselves and others. Thanks for the good video.
My intention is to be highly optimistic this year so watching your videos from last year made me create my theme..So this year my Theme is " Optimism & Magic". I have already started to have positive thoughts and to reject the negative thoughts very strongly. I am into rewinding myself back to zero when having a negative word come out of my mouth. So looking up for your videos. Love all of it. You kinda have some power in you cause you steal my attention so much and lighten up my heart.
I am serious. I have not even completed watching the whole video and I felt like thanking you so much for making me feel like I am amazing, for building my trust on to my intuition. For just putting so much of positive energy in me that yes I can achieve my goals and that my goals are not just dreams. They are my life and I am happy living in them and achieving them. Thank you thank you so much. Lots of love💞
YOU ARE AMAZING
my motivation trigger is watching your videos. ✨☁️💜☁️💜☁️✨
Your hair colour really suits you.
And of course,your are a woman of substance.
Thank you Aileen!!!
I've already started to change! I got a new job, because I love to teach and learn and feel burn out from working with children.
Have been meal planning and prepping better, and working out. I feel so much better from there.
Hearing my body when it says I want to move.
Trying lots of new things and while it's not the best, it's the best I can do and learning from there. No one will judge me more then I do, so I am working though it. Thank you for the videos! They are awesome and helpful, they remind me to take care of myself.
I start living for myself last year! I feel so much better about it!!!!!!
Please how to overcome fear? I want to change really badly, but this year I'll have to do really important decisions and I am incredibly scared. You cant even imagine
"Live for yourself and not for others!" - Ditto! I've struggled with this and I want to make it happen this year.
thank you SO much, lavendaire!
this year a new chapter in my life will begin as i am finishing school and will be moving out of home into a larger city in summer in order to pursue my dreams. it's extremely terrifying to me because it's a step that is far outside of my comfort zone.
thanks to your video i manage to see it more for everything i could gain than i could lose now.
thankyouthankythankyou!!!♡♡♡
"The best time to start is now."
thank you so much.
I note down this Video to motivate me during the year. The point about not to let them hurt you is exactly what I needed.
Happy new Year to you!!!! 🎉🎉🎉💞💞💞 you are right!!! We have to prioritize ourselves, not thinking about how other people say, not being influenced by their negative opinions about us ...That's what I'm working for long time!!!!😉😉😉❤
Girl your videos are very lit and I can’t wait to finish editing this new job I manifested on my vision board and it’s only the first week of 2019 so I hope whoever else reads this too I wanna support everyone’s journey 🤗
The world is a better place because you're a part of it. Thank you for always sharing such great inspiration and good vibes
My intentions for 2019! Be authentic. Don’t let others opinions impact my life. Be my own truth. #lavendaire
I feel like you’re helping me to go through my life I do have a dream you are too good to be true I feel like I know who you are you are just like me
Happy New Year to you, Aileen! Journaling is really what I want to exercise in my affiliate marketing business for this year 2019, so I can record my daily events; writes down great ideas whenever it gets into my mind and takes note things for the success of my business.
One of my motivation triggers is to watch your videos Aileen 😊
Its 2022 here.still i watch your videos❤ better late than never 💫
Such wise words my Dear! My intention is to have as much Peace and Love as I possibly can this year!! After more drama and heartache then I thought could be possible ended 2018, I want this New Year to be For Me for once!! Time to find that spark I had so long ago. I've followed your new shop of course! May you have the best year yet!! Xoxo Hugs from Napa, Ca.
It was a blessing in disguise to discover you on my recommended videos on youtube. Since last year of October, I've learned a lot of things especially about myself. There had been a lot of realizations and reflections, all thanks to you. Currently, I'm on to starting this new year with love; for myself, my passion, and the world. Your advices will always have a special place on my journey. Hopefully in a span of 3-5 years, I'll be the person whom I kept on dreaming of ever year. 💜 Thank you for your tips, Aileen! I hope you're also doing amazing!
these are great tips. i'm planning to move to another country this year after graduating college (probably taiwan or south korea). there's a lot of things that make me hesitant (family, money, language barrier, etc) but in my heart i know it's what i want to do to expand my worldview and improve my language proficiency (i already speak conversational mandarin and very basic korean). your tips are something i really needed to hear, in general and for this adventure i'm taking this year! thank you for being genuine and thoughtful as always.
you bring calmness to me in a different way. thanks for this!
Happy new year Aileen! Your videos are getting better and better! Love the colors and your b-roll.
You're my source of motivation !!💛🌄.... every time I feel down and sad, I play one of your vedios then booom !!! I'm back again 😊😊 thank you for being an amazing person 🌼🌻
The best time to start is now! 🙌🏻
You are my motivational trigger whenever im down I watch a bunch of your videos and it does the job for me 😁
Aloha!!! I decided to push myself to start my RUclips channel to encourage others and inspire them to be their personal best. Thank you for being a special part of my decision to go for it. Work in progress. Keep going no matter what. God blessed us with abilities, dreams, and we have to take action.
You’re so amazing, though you’re so young you’re mind is so knowledgeable and wise... great advice 👍 I look up to you everyday,, I watch your videos every time they upload. Thanks to you my business is growing. 😇
timeless video on how to live you best life! With intuition and gratitude =)
Love listening to you. It has a calming affect. Your wonderful
listening to you really makes me happy. Your advice are very practical!
Honestly, you videos are my motivation triggers, they're so helpful, thank you so much, really :) Have the best year! :)
I'm not sure where I wanna go yet but ik I want to go somewhere and keep improving
My motivation trigger is from you! Everytime i watch your video, it boost my productive mood :) thank youu
Hi Eileen, I would love it if you could do a video on how to plan for a podcast interview. Your notes on your other video /plan looked really helpful.
you are such an inspiration , got that new year new beginning spirit right in ... thanks Aileen lots of love
I love you‘re videos! I am still learning to be more productive,to love myself like i am and retch my goals,you’re videos inspire me!!!(JBTW you’re voice really calms me down)❤️
You are an inspiration for me . Thank you for your advices and for your work to help people make the ir Dreams come true ! I wish you have a wonderfull 2019 . Love , from Argentina .
This video was suggested to me at the right time in my life. Thankyou for this useful information ☺️🙏🏽
Overthinking, yessss, so true.