Let Go of the Things that no Longer Serve You

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  • Опубликовано: 20 июл 2017
  • In order to better our life, we need to let go of the things that no longer serve us. When we begin to let go of the things that no longer serve us, it's like metaphorically cleaning house. When we clean house in our life, we start by letting go of people who no longer add to our quality of life. The majority of our relationships shift in nature and aren't the same as they began. We may have a close friend that becomes more of an acquaintance and an acquaintance may turn into a close friend. Another aspect of cleaning house it letting go of our old ways of thinking. Old ways of thinking are usually made up of of thoughts that hold us back, limiting thoughts, limiting language, and our unique negative broken record based on family and pass limiting teachings and learned limitations. When we clean house we take a personal intiative to better our life, to let go of the things that no longer add to our quality of life, and offers us the room to bring in to our life what we need to positively push forward and succeed.
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  • @monicacordelia9545
    @monicacordelia9545 4 года назад +3

    Letting go of toxic people be ur family, friends, jobs & romantic ect... isn’t easy however it’s so worth it! When we clear the toxic field we then have the space to heal within ourselves what had us have toxic relationships in our life. We can then build our own tribe... we are so worthy 🤗

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 3 года назад +2

    I was stuck in hanging on energy instead of letting go energy.
    I finally decided to not over think and just do what needs to be done, no more procrastinating. Nike had a great slogan,
    Just Do It 🎯

  • @evemarie6297
    @evemarie6297 5 лет назад +16

    Hi Ashley,
    I just found you. I love your videos. I feel that you speak in such an empowering and encouraging way. I just want to let you know that finding you has given me hope for my future. Thank you so much!
    Eve

  • @JacK-qn4zh
    @JacK-qn4zh 2 года назад

    I so respect all you say!!! It is giving me a new path to walk but...saying truth to ...and I did tonight...will bring me harm for being honest...That is truth...

  • @ne444104
    @ne444104 4 года назад +2

    TRUTH! THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I DO, IT'S A GREAT REMINDER!

  • @JohnVanMeter58
    @JohnVanMeter58 6 лет назад +12

    When I started to practice Yoga thats what the instructor would always say. let go of things, relationships and thoughts that don't serve us. Good Job Ash.

    • @fredericmoresmau4303
      @fredericmoresmau4303 5 лет назад

      I havnt done Anything bad, and evem less worth alienating me for a decade.... and they knew very well what they were doing.... i was right to leave and go to stefs.... because those guys just wreckred meAlso i am tired of being some clown on floor schiessbudenfigur for practice for others to take advantage of and cant even apply skills i learned.....Just to fullfill theitr wants.... selling me a lie

  • @angelg1963
    @angelg1963 3 года назад +1

    I am having a clear out now, out with the old in with the new - Ashley you are an inspiration to many people, always be your amazing self.

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 3 года назад +1

    We are often our own worst enemy, standing in our own way, holding ourselves back. Raise your standards, have the courage to live your best life ✊💖

  • @QueenCJ
    @QueenCJ 7 лет назад +16

    Thanks Ashley great content.I just recently had to rid my life of a negative Relationship with a friend of about a year.I started to realized that had been afraid to address some major issues with her even though I knew I needed to.It finally got to the place where I had no choice but to face the truth.I do regret oot handling it right in the beginning of the friendship.Lesson learned is to be honest with people at the initial point of the problem and if need be let it go sooner.I see now that our values didn't match and by valuing myself more, I can make better choices for me.

    • @LifecoachAshleyBerges
      @LifecoachAshleyBerges  6 лет назад

      Excellent to hear from you Carline! You speak the truth!

    • @oliviarenae3326
      @oliviarenae3326 4 года назад +1

      I love how you used that experience to level up and take away such a valuable lesson of honesty. It can be hard to lose friends and you are so brave for taking that leap of faith.

  • @E411P82
    @E411P82 Год назад

    I admire your way of explaining a complex things in a lay language. I watch your videos every day and always find it very helpful. Thank you for your wonderful service

  • @vcreativeart16
    @vcreativeart16 5 лет назад +6

    I can't get enough of your video and podcast, so much great tools and advise. I use to be popular and everyone wanted a piece of me then, I help everyone in needs but when things went down for me after suffering alone in misery, being take advantage and sexual harassment , stockers, sociopath playing guilt manipulative games with me while I was down , I was totally being left behind, I had 1 or 2 person that care, and a few old friends talking to me like a failure, without respect for years until I came back and saw clearly that the few people I taught were on my side were in fact the key of my pain and suffering, or the one who only act nice has long has you under them

  • @deerskin4225
    @deerskin4225 4 года назад +1

    Authenticity is empowering. To let go of the fears. Thank you for your voice, your clarity Ashley.

  • @newworldorder8002
    @newworldorder8002 6 лет назад +19

    Cleaning house is a lifetime mission. Or we stagnate at our peril. I have spent too much time stagnating with limiting beliefs.

  • @analauracorreia9188
    @analauracorreia9188 3 года назад +1

    💭 Letting go of people/ old ways of thinking / bad habits
    💭Embracing yourself daily (take care of yourself in EVERY ways possible, be patient too)

  • @heatherwhittaker6169
    @heatherwhittaker6169 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you so much Ashley , your videos are so helpful to me...

  • @y_p7
    @y_p7 4 года назад +1

    Indeed the worthiest advice a RUclips video can give you. I’ve Been binge watching your videos for 2 days and learnt a lot of things

  • @monimendoza5583
    @monimendoza5583 4 года назад +1

    You are awesome I think the same when it comes to growing and the quality of life is all in the self love and making choices that contribute to the person we grown to be

  • @morojj6395
    @morojj6395 3 года назад

    Thank you for such insightful video

  • @mariamkinen8036
    @mariamkinen8036 3 года назад

    My language is me. Never to let go.

  • @oliviarenae3326
    @oliviarenae3326 4 года назад +1

    I so appreciate this video! Filled with such amazing information. I love how you touched on the internal aspect (bad habits, negative thoughts) and the external aspect (relationships,environment). It really is a combination of both that can hold us back from being our highest selves. Whether these feelings or behaviors are ours or are being reflected to us through the people around us and situatios we find ourselves in, its all divine and meant to make us who we truly are. This is a hug theme in my life right now, allowing what no longer holds resonance to be released and trusting the universe will show loving support as I ascend old versions of myelf. Subscibed as soon as the video ended, look forward to watching and learning more. Namaste!

  • @dangfutalan
    @dangfutalan 3 года назад

    I love your wisdom!

  • @iamatenamorelli
    @iamatenamorelli 5 лет назад +2

    Love the content Ashely !!

  • @mathiasrushin27
    @mathiasrushin27 3 года назад

    Amazing. This helped me soo so so much thank you

  • @alisonsanter8074
    @alisonsanter8074 Год назад

    Excellant xx

  • @adhdself-love
    @adhdself-love 14 дней назад

    It's definitely not easy.

  • @Bigbrokevo
    @Bigbrokevo 6 месяцев назад +2

    🤯🤯🤯

  • @tempesnyder6243
    @tempesnyder6243 3 года назад

    Also, although, when you decide that maybe it is time to let somebody go, you need to ask yourself if the problem behavior that you observed is a regular for them, or not at all. You need to forgive them for making a mistake once in a while. Instead of leave them the second they make their first mistake.

  • @leebarnhart831
    @leebarnhart831 3 года назад +2

    Yea but whenever I told a wife to hit the road she got half the house I was cleaning.

  • @studiosingyourstyle
    @studiosingyourstyle 5 лет назад +1

    aMaZe....🌈☀️👌🏻😇

  • @annharrison3905
    @annharrison3905 3 года назад

    I have a friend, (well, used to) who I have been friendly with for about 20 yrs until recently. . Now she tells me she has no time to see me,, yet I have bumped into her when she has been with other friends whom she HAS found time to be with. I have just been put on a list of all the "friends" she just HAS to phone, to prove to everyone that she is likeable. I am debating whether to end our relationship, as we used to be so close. Her younger sister was married to my ex-husbands younger brother, so she was like a sister-in-law until her sister was killed in a car accident. Do you think I should let this friendship go, has it outlived it's usefulness?

    • @starsstripes2393
      @starsstripes2393 3 года назад +1

      I was in a similar situation 4 years ago,I think the fact that you are asking the question,says it all,because you've answered it already! Move on...I did.

  • @w0bblyd0inkb0ink
    @w0bblyd0inkb0ink 5 лет назад +2

    6:50 CD is also old school now ;), but I get the idea.

  • @markomarkovic8390
    @markomarkovic8390 4 года назад +1

    What about wasted time? You try and try and time flies...you get old and die...life is full of terrible choices...

    • @monimendoza5583
      @monimendoza5583 4 года назад +2

      I have to disagree
      Life is what you make it, you have the power to choose what it will be then you get to enjoy life the way you choose

  • @bartakin
    @bartakin 4 года назад +2

    Clowns need to go...