ADHD woman here, married to a wonderful autistic man. We’re expecting our first child, a girl, in November. Life is so good. I found someone who loves and understands me, and vice versa.
She is just cute as a button her wee voice is just angelic. Beautiful couple who seem to just balance and help each other through their daily challenges. When they are just sat there laughing together the whole room lit up you can just see the love and respect they have for each other and that is what life is all about. Henry is absolutely amazing, I love his positive outlook on life and just his inner belief in improving and striving to better himself. I truly love this channel. As a father of a young autistic boy it really pleases me to see the respect and interest you show everyone and just the platform you give people with disabilities to tell their story to us which allows us to understand and improve ourselves. Keep it up. Much love from Scotland
"I know I can come home and there's peace, there's joy, there's love." - beautiful words, and I think you've cracked the true essence of life that everyone should strive for. Thank you for sharing, you're both awesome!
Emotional disregulation is a part of ADHD. I have ADHD. What an absolutely lovely couple! They’re like yin and yang; they fit and belong together. I’m so happy they’d found each other! 🎉🎉🎉
Henry, lots of women would be very grateful for such a caring husband, partner or boyfriend as you. You care with everything you have, but also know when to ask for help. That's a real man right there. And as a musician & singer myself, I don't say things like this to just anyone, but you have a real gift with your trumpet. I could listen to you for hours. Tiarra, you're sweet & kind. You appreciate the simple things in life, peace, love, working as a team, etc. Not many people take the time to just notice things like this. But I'm glad you take time to enjoy these things. And I can tell you must be great with kids. Those kids are blessed to have you help them grow & learn. Edit: Tiarra, you're good on the keyboard too. I loved listening to you playing music together. It's good that you enjoy playing music together.
What a great duo! I do see why he asked her if she ever thought she could be autistic too. Autism looks different in women. And autism and ADHD often come together.
Henry and Tiarra make a beautiful couple. They have more love, understanding and know each other better then most couples. They already have what it takes to nurture a relationship figured out and that's half the battle. I wish them all the best, I think they will have a beautiful life together!
Two fantastic people in the prime of life about to embark on a wonderful journey together-I love to see it. I would be remiss not to compliment that stylish hat as well. Thought I was looking at Idris Elba for a second
Whenever you interview autistic people, I get so emotional, because I’m also autistic but I don’t have a diagnosis and I relate to every single thing they say. The meltdowns, the hiding in public, feeling different than anyone else, all of it. And the expressing yourself through music or creatively. It’s hard to be different.
0:20 wow he looked like a jazz cat before the trumpet came out but when he starts blowing on there will never be another you, I had that settled 😂 great style 😊
I am audhd and my partner is autistic, and so are many family members. These two are so relatable, but like they always say, if you've met one neurodivergent person, you've met one neurodivergent person! We all have different needs and accommodations. This is something I wish I understood as a kid. Things could've been a lot easier. I could've given myself so much more grace and patience and the energy spent on working so hard to fit in could've been used to help those around me. I wish them all the best!! Thank you so much for being interviewed and sharing your story with the world!
Henry is so likeable and his fiance is as well. So pleased you have featured them. I have worked with autistic children and those with ADHD. Adored all of them. I see myself on the autistic spectrum, and understand.
Their love and genuine authenticity is so cute and contagious! Also never underestimate how tricky a trumpet is to play well. Absolutely love hearing it played so well, that’s talent! I love that they can share the joy of music together.
Chris, I love that you brought up the idea that sometimes autism in women looks different than in men including women having a diagnosis of ADHD. I don’t know if it would help her to see a doctor and find out if she has high functioning autism or not. I do feel like they are a good Couple and I loved hearing their story. Thank you for sharing.
"I can come home and there is peace and joy and serenity." I can tell you, many of us watching wish we were as lucky as you. Much love to you and your family! ❤
I have Autism and this is very comforting to me, seeing two people that have accepted each other and encouraging one another to be their true transparent selves. Beautiful! Thankyou both for opening up 💛
I mean why wouldn't they? ADHD people are just hyperactive and get distracted easily and autistic people tend to operate on above average intelligence.
Henry and Tiarra sure do complement each other! What a great couple. Tiarra's smile and laugh and Henry's trumpet playing just filled me with such joy! And while I don't have autism, I sure can relate to what Henry was saying about being distracted and forgetful. It can be very stressful and upsetting.
I needed to see this today, especially to hear what Henry said at the end. I have ADHD and honestly believe it's dragged me back so much. I'm nowhere near where I want to be in life. I can't help thinking how much better my life would be if I didn't have this condition. Got to remember to stay positive
What a beautiful couple comprised of two interesting individuals who seem genuinely kind and compassionate. How lucky they are to have met one another. One day I hope to be so lucky. As an aside, that trumpet playing hit.
I have been awaken this early Sunday morning to see and hear these two beautiful souls. I am extremely emotional, my tears are flowing uncontrollably. I wish the so called “ normal “ people treat each other with kindness and understanding. May the almighty God continue to bless you sweet people. I wish you were my neighbor. ❤️⭐️ Their music soothed my soul. ⭐️❤️
I'm autistic and adhd and my husband is adhd. We have 6 children 😅 all with adhd and 3 autistic as well. ❤ I love your videos and respect you so much for the awareness you bring!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!! You were born for this! ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
This makes my heart feel so good♥️ They compliment each other and seem to be so good for each other. As happy as they are together is beautiful ‼️ Genuinely complimenting each other with the best words😍
This video deserves way more likes! Both of them have overcome many obstacles, and I was such an encouragement and showing others how to be successful and loving relationships as a Neuro typical couple.
Thank you for doing an interview with an adult who appears who have low support needs with their Autism. This is not recognized enough and the damage it does to autistic people, especially late diagnosed autistic people, when they hear “you’re not autistic, you can talk/make eye contact/have reciprocal conversations/etc” all the time is not talked about. I LOVE that you brought up autism in women to Tiarra too! As a late diagnosed autistic woman with ADHD (diagnosed as a child for the ADHD) I see a lot of similarities in myself and it was interesting/helpful to hear their perspectives. They are such a cute couple, I love them so much!
Right people be saying stuff like that and that's because they aren't educated and aware and accepting but who cares about those people who can't take the time to learn and understand us because we are human just like anybody else and there's nothing wrong with a late diagnosis and there are positive support for people like all of us but please do not ever support autism speaks that's a big no no
I love watching this channel. I love hearing that notification sound whenever a new video comes out every week and I tune in. As much as I love the interviewed kids, I love the adult interview more
Having watched this channel for so many years has taught me that those of us who are labeled "normal" or "functional" actually have a lot to learn from people like these. People who are usually not treated fair by society. We need to stop a little and learn from the way they experience the world. They can appreciate things we take for granted.
This is one of the best one's I've seen in a while, thank you for giving me hope and strength knowing that there is someone out there that will WANT to be this loving and supportive of me in every way. Day in day out, it's never easy, but true & unconditional love conquers ALL.
I absolutely enjoy this video. This couple is in sync with each other and the way they bounce off each other's energy is amazing. The music they played together is soothing.
This describes my parents. I’m 50 and trust me: I had the best parents in the world! Love the “There will never be another you” trumpet intro. I’m the oldest and I have both autism and adhd and my younger sister is neurotypical. I’m also a university trained jazz musician 😎
Imma be so honest with you, the chances of your younger siblings being neurotypical are less than 10 percent, probably just don’t have neurodivergent struggles. I’ve met a few people like this, my friend Ben is just like that. He has adhd , but very light.
Imma be so honest with you, the chances of your younger siblings being neurotypical are less than 10 percent, probably just don’t have neurodivergent struggles. I’ve met a few people like this, my friend Ben is just like that. He has adhd , but very light. As an autistic person myself, that’s just the reality of it all, heritability is over 90 percent
Oh my gosh Henry is BRILLIANT with his trumpet!!! And Tiarra is hilarious but also very well-spoken and TALENTED on the keyboard!!!! What a lovely, friendly, down-to-earth couple!! Congratulations on your engagement and upcoming wedding!!🎉 👏🏽 Wishing you a a very long and happy life together!! May you have everything your hearts desire!😊
Man, he was crushing that trumpet. He sounds amazing.
There will never be another you (chet baker)
Absolutely! He speaks more fluently through music! I can relate!
He’s very musical!
Yeah it’s pretty awesome! I’m also autistic and I play trombone and I really enjoy it.
@@We-all-watched-the-video chet baker has a famous version of the song, but he didn't write it
Autistic/ADHD couples are so common it's become a stereotype. I'm the autistic one, and I play trombone. My husband has ADHD. You guys rock ❤
Same here, just both playing Djembe drums together.
It happens only to others, I never have been in a relationship with a woman.
Like peanutbutter and jelly ❤🎉
@@MzRavenLong exactly!
Same here, im a musician/coder and my boyfriend's an artist
They seem to balance each other out, and they make beautiful music together. Nice positive couple
Could not agree more, and also; so wholesome to see
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ADHD woman here, married to a wonderful autistic man. We’re expecting our first child, a girl, in November. Life is so good. I found someone who loves and understands me, and vice versa.
Congratulations 🎉
@@octaviasworld3414 Thank you so much! ❤️
Congratulations to you and your family 🩷
@@andEYEooop Thank you! We’re very excited for the arrival of our little one. ☺️
thats so beautiful and amazing congratulations on the baby, Im due in November also 💓💓💓💓
I hope this doesnt sound weird but tiarra’s voice and personality is so cute 🥺🥺🥺🥺🩷🩷🩷🩷🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
She's adorable. They both are. So happy they found each other.
Thank you! I get that all the time. lol❤
Tiarra could be doing voice over work! Cartoons, movie characters! Voice is beautiful!
@@tiarrasmusic omg ur so welcome!!!!!!!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
She’s like a fairy that you find in the garden.
oof he plays that trumpet beautifully. keep playing man! also his fiancé is so sweet.
she's no slouch on the keys, either. I wish that bit had gone on for longer
There will never be another you (chet baker)
I went to HS with Henry, and just celebrated our 20 year reunion. I'm glad he has found a life partner.
Im glad he found his partner too
I wanna see them interviewed again in 40 years 😍 they’re such a lovely pair
"I'm authentic, I can't be anybody else but me." LOVED this, really needed to hear this, thank you so much! ❤
She is just cute as a button her wee voice is just angelic. Beautiful couple who seem to just balance and help each other through their daily challenges. When they are just sat there laughing together the whole room lit up you can just see the love and respect they have for each other and that is what life is all about. Henry is absolutely amazing, I love his positive outlook on life and just his inner belief in improving and striving to better himself.
I truly love this channel. As a father of a young autistic boy it really pleases me to see the respect and interest you show everyone and just the platform you give people with disabilities to tell their story to us which allows us to understand and improve ourselves. Keep it up. Much love from Scotland
@@ThePict I think Chris is gifted. I think the way he interviews people is really special.
Well put 😊
this is thee most amazing channel on RUclips!! it brings me soo much joy to see some of these beautiful couples that have found each other ❤️❤️
Definitely!!❤️😇
she’s is cute
"I know I can come home and there's peace, there's joy, there's love." - beautiful words, and I think you've cracked the true essence of life that everyone should strive for. Thank you for sharing, you're both awesome!
That’s dope that these two found each other.
Such an adorable couple. Articulate, charming, sweet, talented.
They're definitely a soul connection God Bless them.💜
"When you come home there's peace." That's priceless. Their love is so beautiful!!
Emotional disregulation is a part of ADHD. I have ADHD. What an absolutely lovely couple! They’re like yin and yang; they fit and belong together. I’m so happy they’d found each other! 🎉🎉🎉
Between her adorable voice and his soulful trumpet playing, my ears are in heaven, and I wish this beautiful couple nothing but the best in life!
I am autistic and this is too cute. Great couple
Henry, lots of women would be very grateful for such a caring husband, partner or boyfriend as you. You care with everything you have, but also know when to ask for help. That's a real man right there. And as a musician & singer myself, I don't say things like this to just anyone, but you have a real gift with your trumpet. I could listen to you for hours.
Tiarra, you're sweet & kind. You appreciate the simple things in life, peace, love, working as a team, etc. Not many people take the time to just notice things like this. But I'm glad you take time to enjoy these things. And I can tell you must be great with kids. Those kids are blessed to have you help them grow & learn.
Edit: Tiarra, you're good on the keyboard too. I loved listening to you playing music together. It's good that you enjoy playing music together.
Well written...perfectly expressed! ❤🥹
@@shellyjoe Thank you for your kind words.
Thanks for that lovely compliment
What a great duo!
I do see why he asked her if she ever thought she could be autistic too. Autism looks different in women. And autism and ADHD often come together.
She is 100% also on the spectrum
Yes, I agree.
@@TheKatarinaGiselleespecially with the hand flapping during an anxious moment
It's great to see true love.
TRUTH!!!!
Amazing couple. As a mom of an autistic young man this gives me hope. That trumpet, wow!
“You owe you” made me tear up. it can be so hard to even care about yourself some days. Absolutely needed to hear that.
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Henry and Tiarra make a beautiful couple. They have more love, understanding and know each other better then most couples. They already have what it takes to nurture a relationship figured out and that's half the battle. I wish them all the best, I think they will have a beautiful life together!
her voice is the absolute sweetest
Two fantastic people in the prime of life about to embark on a wonderful journey together-I love to see it. I would be remiss not to compliment that stylish hat as well. Thought I was looking at Idris Elba for a second
I'm autistic and my husband is ADD, so it's really cool to see a similar relationship to ours! Thanks Chris, Henry and Tiarra!
Whenever you interview autistic people, I get so emotional, because I’m also autistic but I don’t have a diagnosis and I relate to every single thing they say. The meltdowns, the hiding in public, feeling different than anyone else, all of it. And the expressing yourself through music or creatively. It’s hard to be different.
Oh my god yes same here I know I am autistic and I haven't had a diagnosed either but I know I feel differently from anyone else as well
This is ridiculous
Wow ppl are claiming this without diagnosis is insanity
Same.
@@z.bankroll8799Claim something about yourself and see how you feel when somebody calls you insane. Grow up!
I'm so glad these two found each other & wish them all the best. They're such a sweet couple. So wholesome.
0:20 wow he looked like a jazz cat before the trumpet came out but when he starts blowing on there will never be another you, I had that settled 😂 great style 😊
I am audhd and my partner is autistic, and so are many family members. These two are so relatable, but like they always say, if you've met one neurodivergent person, you've met one neurodivergent person! We all have different needs and accommodations. This is something I wish I understood as a kid. Things could've been a lot easier. I could've given myself so much more grace and patience and the energy spent on working so hard to fit in could've been used to help those around me. I wish them all the best!! Thank you so much for being interviewed and sharing your story with the world!
He Said: "You Owe You" That was Deep 😢❤❤
That was just so encouraging to me ❤
Very intelligent adults with disabilities!!!Amazing!!!
Henry is so likeable and his fiance is as well. So pleased you have featured them. I have worked with autistic children and those with ADHD. Adored all of them. I see myself on the autistic spectrum, and understand.
They’re love is so pure ❤ you can see it! This world needs love like that ❤️🥺
I have ADHD and anxiety too and I love this!!! They’re so cute🫶🏻
Never heard "you owe you" Love It!
These two vibe so well together. I love the way they laugh!
They are SO cute I can’t stand it! I pray nothing but the best for both of them. ❤️❤️
Their love and genuine authenticity is so cute and contagious!
Also never underestimate how tricky a trumpet is to play well. Absolutely love hearing it played so well, that’s talent! I love that they can share the joy of music together.
What a sweet, intelligent, and inspirational couple. More power to you both.
Chris, I love that you brought up the idea that sometimes autism in women looks different than in men including women having a diagnosis of ADHD. I don’t know if it would help her to see a doctor and find out if she has high functioning autism or not. I do feel like they are a good Couple and I loved hearing their story. Thank you for sharing.
Some studies suggest that most autistic women also have ADHD.
"I can come home and there is peace and joy and serenity." I can tell you, many of us watching wish we were as lucky as you. Much love to you and your family! ❤
I have Autism and this is very comforting to me, seeing two people that have accepted each other and encouraging one another to be their true transparent selves. Beautiful! Thankyou both for opening up 💛
my relationship is the same dynamic! i’m autistic and my boyfriend has adhd, and he plays the trumpet!!! the world is so wonderful.
They speak with more sense than a lot of so called "normal" people. FR...FR
I mean why wouldn't they? ADHD people are just hyperactive and get distracted easily and autistic people tend to operate on above average intelligence.
@@citrusbutter7718adhd is more than just hyperactive and distracted lmao
@@shortcake772explain
I loved the interview but when thry started playing together it was simply amazing! Beautiful people that found each other!
Hearing them play was such a blessing! They are so perfect for each other; it's adorable to see 🥰
They are gorgeous together!! I feel the genuine love through the screen..
What a happy couple. These are two genuine people. So happy they found each other. 💖
I adored this interview! They are gems.
Henry and Tiarra sure do complement each other! What a great couple. Tiarra's smile and laugh and Henry's trumpet playing just filled me with such joy! And while I don't have autism, I sure can relate to what Henry was saying about being distracted and forgetful. It can be very stressful and upsetting.
In public with battery drain … great question.
Beautiful couple. Thanks, made my day watching this.
I needed to see this today, especially to hear what Henry said at the end. I have ADHD and honestly believe it's dragged me back so much. I'm nowhere near where I want to be in life. I can't help thinking how much better my life would be if I didn't have this condition. Got to remember to stay positive
We are in this together, but we will get there!
I am crying happy tears right now!!!
What a beautiful couple comprised of two interesting individuals who seem genuinely kind and compassionate. How lucky they are to have met one another. One day I hope to be so lucky. As an aside, that trumpet playing hit.
I have been awaken this early Sunday morning to see and hear these two beautiful souls. I am extremely emotional, my tears are flowing uncontrollably.
I wish the so called “ normal “ people treat each other with kindness and understanding. May the almighty God continue to bless you sweet people. I wish you were my neighbor. ❤️⭐️
Their music soothed my soul. ⭐️❤️
Love how healthy their relationship seems! Hard for any couple to achieve this level of support and acceptance!
I'm autistic and adhd and my husband is adhd. We have 6 children 😅 all with adhd and 3 autistic as well. ❤
I love your videos and respect you so much for the awareness you bring!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!! You were born for this! ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
Oh my, 6 children is very difficult to raise them by yourself for sure! Lol blessings to you and your family, Ma'am! ❤
This is so sweet, and there is so much beauty in their relationship. I hope they continue to be each others strength with many years together.
This makes my heart feel so good♥️ They compliment each other and seem to be so good for each other. As happy as they are together is beautiful ‼️ Genuinely complimenting each other with the best words😍
This video deserves way more likes! Both of them have overcome many obstacles, and I was such an encouragement and showing others how to be successful and loving relationships as a Neuro typical couple.
These two are adorable and I wish them nothing but happiness.
Love this interview. What a beautiful relationship these two have. Thank you❤️🙏
Thank you for doing an interview with an adult who appears who have low support needs with their Autism. This is not recognized enough and the damage it does to autistic people, especially late diagnosed autistic people, when they hear “you’re not autistic, you can talk/make eye contact/have reciprocal conversations/etc” all the time is not talked about. I LOVE that you brought up autism in women to Tiarra too! As a late diagnosed autistic woman with ADHD (diagnosed as a child for the ADHD) I see a lot of similarities in myself and it was interesting/helpful to hear their perspectives. They are such a cute couple, I love them so much!
Right people be saying stuff like that and that's because they aren't educated and aware and accepting but who cares about those people who can't take the time to learn and understand us because we are human just like anybody else and there's nothing wrong with a late diagnosis and there are positive support for people like all of us but please do not ever support autism speaks that's a big no no
This is serious, wholesome couple goals, right here! This pair of people compliment each other so beautifully.
This is such an adorable couple. They're so sweet and perfect for each other.
What a lovely couple, who have such a good understanding of each other.
Two of the most inspiring people!
They’re such a sweet couple ❤️
Amazing couple addressing their issues together. No doubt, a very inspiring couple.
Oceans of Love to Tiarra and Henry! you two are an adorable and inspiring couple.
That sweet girl is just adorable.❤❤
Tiarra and Henry, ❤ may happiness surround you sweet beings
I really needed to hear this today. I’ve been feeling really down in the dumps , thank you. ❤
I love watching this channel. I love hearing that notification sound whenever a new video comes out every week and I tune in.
As much as I love the interviewed kids, I love the adult interview more
i love when they spoke of needing alone time and recharging their personal batteries analogy!! they are just beautiful ❤
Unconditional love is a beautiful blessing. I love your videos.
Having watched this channel for so many years has taught me that those of us who are labeled "normal" or "functional" actually have a lot to learn from people like these. People who are usually not treated fair by society. We need to stop a little and learn from the way they experience the world. They can appreciate things we take for granted.
The part about needing to recharge your internal battery, wow did I feel that
This is one of the best one's I've seen in a while, thank you for giving me hope and strength knowing that there is someone out there that will WANT to be this loving and supportive of me in every way. Day in day out, it's never easy, but true & unconditional love conquers ALL.
Yall look so happy and good together!!! And cousin you are glowing!!!!
HEY COUSIN❤
His tone is incredible❤
such a beautiful couple. and they are so lucky to have each other. I needed those positive words at the end.
His answer in the question about love like a natural thing or something you gotta work was really well thought out! Amazing people ☺
You are a lovely, lovely couple! Congratulations on your engagement!
This is such a precious couple! When you find your person it is such a beautiful thing. ❤
I absolutely enjoy this video. This couple is in sync with each other and the way they bounce off each other's energy is amazing. The music they played together is soothing.
When they played A Ribbon In The Sky I cried!!!!! So beautiful 💕💕💕
You two are AMAZING! I'm grinning ear to ear. You two are both so sweet, encouraging, and talented! Thank you for sharing your story!😊
I love that you both respect one another and also support each other. This by far is my favorite interview that I have watched.
This describes my parents. I’m 50 and trust me: I had the best parents in the world!
Love the “There will never be another you” trumpet intro.
I’m the oldest and I have both autism and adhd and my younger sister is neurotypical. I’m also a university trained jazz musician 😎
Imma be so honest with you, the chances of your younger siblings being neurotypical are less than 10 percent, probably just don’t have neurodivergent struggles. I’ve met a few people like this, my friend Ben is just like that. He has adhd , but very light.
Imma be so honest with you, the chances of your younger siblings being neurotypical are less than 10 percent, probably just don’t have neurodivergent struggles. I’ve met a few people like this, my friend Ben is just like that. He has adhd , but very light. As an autistic person myself, that’s just the reality of it all, heritability is over 90 percent
Oh my gosh Henry is BRILLIANT with his trumpet!!! And Tiarra is hilarious but also very well-spoken and TALENTED on the keyboard!!!! What a lovely, friendly, down-to-earth couple!! Congratulations on your engagement and upcoming wedding!!🎉 👏🏽 Wishing you a a very long and happy life together!! May you have everything your hearts desire!😊
What an amazing couple. Love their laughter and acceptance of each other. Awesome trumpet playing!
What a soulful trumpet player. Beautiful
I love how she is patient and doesn't rush to speak for him. 💕💕
These two seem comforting to be around
What an awesome, positive couple. They’ve got each other’s backs and do the work to keep the relationship strong and be each-other’s safe space. ❤
they are so in sync with eachother, it's so beautiful! i want this type of relationship so bad!
Wonderful to see a couple challenging each other to overcome their handicaps through love.