"I often open up my intentions within a week, giving in my 1/5 th objective part of life. and after that, I step back to create a sense of absence. I need to find the trigger point, that moment when she subtly signals, in different ways, 'You’re not my type,' or tries to hijack my feelings. This is my temple. Then, I disappear with my head held high, moving on, focused on my own life-creating a glitch in her matrix, keeping the mystery alive with a touch of upper-toned resilience and silence. Holding back is the hardest part, but accepting that she’s not the 'important one' allows me to move forward, knowing I'm not done seeking new adventures-with or without her love." By all means she must have something to ofter for a long time ( trust, loyalty, love and confidence ) going for the short run is not worth my time and attention. If she not is offering the same standards, i am offline. Mind games
3:17 - It is true to a certain extent not to keep on texting a lady especially this shows the guy desperately asking for her attention when the lady did not reply, and will irritate her. Reason being you might not the only ‘guy’ texting her. But however, do you really think by not texting her, not reacting to her silence, disappear for a while, will let her think of you, miss you, think she’s will be losing you, make her question what’s going on in your life that you’re not giving her the attention she’s expecting? Don’t forget, even when you don’t text her or react to her silence, disappeared for a while, her daily life and every hours are filled up with texts from her suitors, which make may her forget about you, especially your competitors are much stronger than you. Make her earn your attention - really? Showing that your attention is something she has to work for - do you really think she’s going to do it? Yes, she will going to do it when she has feeling for you. When she don’t, she can easily forget you and move on. 9:06 - Stop chasing her and let her chase you? Remember who is attract who in the beginning. To let her chase you, it means you must have done something that great during the courtship period that makes her want you and when you fall back, she will perhaps chase you. But if you have did nothing great while your competitors did something great for her, do you think she will chase you? 11:24 - Focus on yourself and let her see you move on? - That’s only when you are not able to attract her at the moment and then to start building up your finances, your career, your self-confidence. But while you are away for the time being, will she stay and wait for you, or her suitors will suddenly disappeared, or she won’t sway away but your competitors or even new competitors?
@@es0tericq i agree with you I guess what you are trying to say is if she loves you, everything would fall through its place but if not, she won't be thinking of you no matter what but when you stop caring about her at least you still have your dignity.
@@mzm9541 I have been following this "Stoic" videos for a while and followed what it says. But then it didn't end up what I want to achieve. So that's why this video isn't everything. Yes, if she has feelings for you after how you may "touched" her, then taking step back may allow her to chase you. But if all the things you done for her and she does not reciprocate, then listening to this video is bullshit. What we need to learn is, we can like a girl, but we can also anytime take back our control, without her controlling our emotion when we see or hear she's out with another guy or your competitors. It is alright to like someone, but don't let her take the control of your feelings. Be the one control of your own feelings
Thank you again for this awesome video❤️ I need an advice plz She did not respond my messages since 3 days ago, i stopped texting her but if she responded, should i disappear for a few days and reply to her?
Mate, I'm no expert here, but 3 days without saying nothing, is not a really good sign. Protect your heart first, bro. Work from that, always. If she says anything, you can respond back. Just don't do it right after her text. Wait a few good hours or even save it for the next day, in case she text you at night. Don't wait the same 3 days to respond her back. That is showing that you are counting the time to the second. Keep your text nice and short. Don't ask, complain about her silence. If she mention the subject, act like you didn't even notice that. You already move on. Good luck, soldier
@andrepereira744 i really apperciate you took your time and guide me and what you say does make sense to me... you are right, the point is i act normal without letting her know i was even thinking about her but i think she is gently not interested in me and i'm not a backup plan so i'm gonna move on from her
@@es0tericq Sure bro i'll see I had 2 weeks experience with another girl before too... it is disgusting they treat good guys that way because all i was doing with her was being nice but with these gold videos i found out i was wrong about everything
I've now disappeared forever hope i never hear from her ever again I'll find a lady far better than her in due course! A lady who's actions will align with her word's/text's!!! no looking back lad's 🍻
"I often open up my intentions within a week, giving in my 1/5 th objective part of life.
and after that, I step back to create a sense of absence.
I need to find the trigger point, that moment when she subtly signals, in different ways, 'You’re not my type,' or tries to hijack my feelings.
This is my temple.
Then, I disappear with my head held high, moving on, focused on my own life-creating a glitch in her matrix, keeping the mystery alive with a touch of upper-toned resilience and silence.
Holding back is the hardest part, but accepting that she’s not the 'important one' allows me to move forward, knowing I'm not done seeking new adventures-with or without her love."
By all means she must have something to ofter for a long time ( trust, loyalty, love and confidence ) going for the short run is not worth my time and attention.
If she not is offering the same standards, i am offline.
Mind games
Whatever you mention in videos absolutely right ..we need to follow this..
The medicine of a woman is 2 bring another woman.
Bro what you just said is so awesome your words are golden.
3:17 - It is true to a certain extent not to keep on texting a lady especially this shows the guy desperately asking for her attention when the lady did not reply, and will irritate her. Reason being you might not the only ‘guy’ texting her.
But however, do you really think by not texting her, not reacting to her silence, disappear for a while, will let her think of you, miss you, think she’s will be losing you, make her question what’s going on in your life that you’re not giving her the attention she’s expecting?
Don’t forget, even when you don’t text her or react to her silence, disappeared for a while, her daily life and every hours are filled up with texts from her suitors, which make may her forget about you, especially your competitors are much stronger than you.
Make her earn your attention - really? Showing that your attention is something she has to work for - do you really think she’s going to do it? Yes, she will going to do it when she has feeling for you. When she don’t, she can easily forget you and move on.
9:06 - Stop chasing her and let her chase you? Remember who is attract who in the beginning. To let her chase you, it means you must have done something that great during the courtship period that makes her want you and when you fall back, she will perhaps chase you. But if you have did nothing great while your competitors did something great for her, do you think she will chase you?
11:24 - Focus on yourself and let her see you move on? - That’s only when you are not able to attract her at the moment and then to start building up your finances, your career, your self-confidence. But while you are away for the time being, will she stay and wait for you, or her suitors will suddenly disappeared, or she won’t sway away but your competitors or even new competitors?
@@es0tericq i agree with you
I guess what you are trying to say is if she loves you, everything would fall through its place but if not, she won't be thinking of you no matter what but when you stop caring about her at least you still have your dignity.
@@mzm9541 I have been following this "Stoic" videos for a while and followed what it says. But then it didn't end up what I want to achieve. So that's why this video isn't everything. Yes, if she has feelings for you after how you may "touched" her, then taking step back may allow her to chase you. But if all the things you done for her and she does not reciprocate, then listening to this video is bullshit.
What we need to learn is, we can like a girl, but we can also anytime take back our control, without her controlling our emotion when we see or hear she's out with another guy or your competitors. It is alright to like someone, but don't let her take the control of your feelings. Be the one control of your own feelings
Thank you again for this awesome video❤️
I need an advice plz
She did not respond my messages since 3 days ago, i stopped texting her but if she responded, should i disappear for a few days and reply to her?
Mate, I'm no expert here, but 3 days without saying nothing, is not a really good sign.
Protect your heart first, bro. Work from that, always.
If she says anything, you can respond back. Just don't do it right after her text. Wait a few good hours or even save it for the next day, in case she text you at night. Don't wait the same 3 days to respond her back. That is showing that you are counting the time to the second.
Keep your text nice and short. Don't ask, complain about her silence. If she mention the subject, act like you didn't even notice that. You already move on.
Good luck, soldier
@andrepereira744 i really apperciate you took your time and guide me and what you say does make sense to me... you are right, the point is i act normal without letting her know i was even thinking about her but i think she is gently not interested in me and i'm not a backup plan so i'm gonna move on from her
What is 3 days compared to my almost one month? See what I posted about what I agree and disagree with this video above
@@es0tericq Sure bro i'll see
I had 2 weeks experience with another girl before too... it is disgusting they treat good guys that way because all i was doing with her was being nice but with these gold videos i found out i was wrong about everything
@@mzm9541 This video is not totally "gold" as from what I replied above
I've now disappeared forever hope i never hear from her ever again I'll find a lady far better than her in due course! A lady who's actions will align with her word's/text's!!! no looking back lad's 🍻