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1. Be in your Power Softly. 2. Make feel he Can Win with you. I.e. don't ask him things he can't do. Or things he thinks he can't do for you. 3. Prioritize Play Together. 4. Find Reasons to Admire him. Give himthe feeling of: "My Woman Believes in me". 5. Measured Venting. Speak about the bad stuff that's happened in your life, but don't overdo it. Not too much negative energy.
This should have way more views- considering why he's teaching us. Please continue Matt; there's so many people/marriages that can benefit from your experience. Thank you to you and your wife for all that you do. 💖💕🌹
I always appreciate the practicality of advice you give, Mat, thank you. One thing (of many) that my man does is welcome my curiosity. He gives me the freedom to ask questions and doesn't ridicule me when I don't understand something. He loves to teach and explain and is incredibly patient with me. He's such a blessing!
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
The measured venting is key….I was relying on my lover to vent about my divorce and my ex… he ended up saying his mind was blown…he pulled back for a while… thank goodness I figured this out in time to salvage our relationship….
I have tried soft with my husband for years, I'm not a harsh person, and it doesn't matter. He refuses to be told he's done something wrong, and he always explodes and blame it on me.
Came here for the relationship advice but also ended up leaving with great WORK advice after tip #1. 😄 Love it! (And was extremely pertinent today as we had a really rough workday with tension in the team) Thank you Matt for your endless tidbits of great advice.
Hi. I admire you so much and I have learned so much from you. I dated this guy for 4 years and he recently traveled to US. I am loosing him. Can you please do a video about long distance relationship and how to win it? Much love.
@@saeedayawson2586 Hi - I’m in a very similar situation and I actually believe it can work !! In fact I think it’s better than before for us. I disagree with saying “move on- it won’t work “ as the key thing is communication however best works for you both. I’m happy and love my life and just because the man I love is long distance, changes nothing ! Stay happy ..😊
Related to #1 - i had a boss like this who would sit in meetings ringing her hand and fingers through her hair to end with the pounding on the table. I had enough and gave my notice. Best decision I made.
Instead of asking the other person how much they can handle, I would say it is the responsibility of the receiver to create those boundaries and say "this is too much."
The major problem is NO MEN WATCH THESE VIDEOS!!! So why bother paying such close attention to any of this advice when you already do it as a woman, and you're never going to meet men who have worked on themselves and watch videos like this??? It's stupid. BE YOURSELF. If he's a good man he'll be afraid to lose you! Period. It doesn't have to be this hard.
I don’t think it’s about playing games at all - rather trying to learn how to get the best of of each other, ultimately growing or learning to grow a healthy loving relationship…knowledge isn’t game playing !
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It’s great when you give examples of how to say/approach things. You package it so well!
When I listen to you, I absorb softer ways of speaking. Thank you, Mat. It’s making a huge difference in my life.
1. Be in your Power Softly.
2. Make feel he Can Win with you. I.e. don't ask him things he can't do. Or things he thinks he can't do for you.
3. Prioritize Play Together.
4. Find Reasons to Admire him. Give himthe feeling of: "My Woman Believes in me".
5. Measured Venting. Speak about the bad stuff that's happened in your life, but don't overdo it. Not too much negative energy.
What if the women does all of this but the MAN DOES NOT?? Nobody likes to talk about the genders being on THE SAME level.
Tip: if u want to vent journaling is a great way of doing it.
This should have way more views- considering why he's teaching us.
Please continue Matt; there's so many people/marriages that can benefit from your experience.
Thank you to you and your wife for all that you do. 💖💕🌹
I always appreciate the practicality of advice you give, Mat, thank you. One thing (of many) that my man does is welcome my curiosity. He gives me the freedom to ask questions and doesn't ridicule me when I don't understand something. He loves to teach and explain and is incredibly patient with me. He's such a blessing!
My very smart man,...
When I ask him a question, he hears me, he see me, and honestly tries to answers my questions the best way he is able.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
The measured venting is key….I was relying on my lover to vent about my divorce and my ex… he ended up saying his mind was blown…he pulled back for a while… thank goodness I figured this out in time to salvage our relationship….
I love the way you deliver different approaches and perspectives eases the tension thankyou mat ❤️❤️❤️❤️😊
He is consistent and loving..caring..protecting 😊🥰
I have tried soft with my husband for years, I'm not a harsh person, and it doesn't matter. He refuses to be told he's done something wrong, and he always explodes and blame it on me.
Impactful! These points emphasize the balance between being authentic and nurturing a healthy dynamic. Especially love #4!!
Learning my love languages with inspired effort for me rather than understanding relationship obligations.
Came here for the relationship advice but also ended up leaving with great WORK advice after tip #1. 😄 Love it! (And was extremely pertinent today as we had a really rough workday with tension in the team) Thank you Matt for your endless tidbits of great advice.
I always watching your Vlog Mat..more power to your channel...
Always there,loving,kind,thoughtful,protective,etc.
awesome 👍 your videos are fab! thank you thank you thank you 🙏
Kindness always wins!❤
Brilliant advice
Walk with me matt.. every step of the way ... walk me through every conversation txt & incident coz I can't with people anymore ....
Thank you for sharing ❤
this format really suits me
Hi. I admire you so much and I have learned so much from you.
I dated this guy for 4 years and he recently traveled to US. I am loosing him. Can you please do a video about long distance relationship and how to win it?
Much love.
Never works. Move on.
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@@saeedayawson2586 Hi - I’m in a very similar situation and I actually believe it can work !! In fact I think it’s better than before for us. I disagree with saying “move on- it won’t work “ as the key thing is communication however best works for you both. I’m happy and love my life and just because the man I love is long distance, changes nothing ! Stay happy ..😊
I’ve tried being every which way and tried being myself as well and was never good enough no matter what.
Try not being a witch
Related to #1 - i had a boss like this who would sit in meetings ringing her hand and fingers through her hair to end with the pounding on the table. I had enough and gave my notice. Best decision I made.
Very helpful 😊
Mat I have really enjoyed listening to You! Thank you! I'm going to try some of these suggestions 😁
Great advice as always ! Look forward to Saturday mornings and you!
Yes,you are great!
awesome video
you got a new sub!
Matt has a cold 😅 you're a good guy, Matt, cheers!
I learn so much. From the bottom of my heart. Thank you❤
I really need this experience, I pray God gives me that person.
Winning for him is making you happy
I should put this tekst somewhere where i see it every day
Instead of asking the other person how much they can handle, I would say it is the responsibility of the receiver to create those boundaries and say "this is too much."
Exactly, it’s up to the receiver to set their own boundaries and communicate when something feels too much.
best!!!
I love yo mat but I don’t have a partner ❤️👍🏻😊
hi
i can't believe no one on youtube is talking about magnetic aura from Talesio
What if he already broke up with me
A week ago
I listen this now
He wants to see me next week to bring me my stuff en collect his
When you exchange stuff, be content/happy and a little short on time.
What about relationship advice for MEN.
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if you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio ❤️
F*** feminism.
I love this!!!! 😂❤😂❤
He hunts way to much 😢
So many do...he could be in a bar...or elsewhere. I know!!!
How do you know that he is hunting animals?
The major problem is NO MEN WATCH THESE VIDEOS!!! So why bother paying such close attention to any of this advice when you already do it as a woman, and you're never going to meet men who have worked on themselves and watch videos like this??? It's stupid. BE YOURSELF. If he's a good man he'll be afraid to lose you! Period. It doesn't have to be this hard.
Think i'll stay single.... need 3 degrees in how to have all relationships and people will still have to walk on egg shells with people. M arr
Why? Just stop dating. People give up too easily. It’s not a romance story
Manipulative?
This sounds like emotional manipulation.
Its called wisdom
Oh the games women want to play to keep her mans lol !!!! Sad
I don’t think it’s about playing games at all - rather trying to learn how to get the best of of each other, ultimately growing or learning to grow a healthy loving relationship…knowledge isn’t game playing !