Are You Moving Too Fast | 4 Tips You Are!

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  • Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
  • Typically a lot of relationships they move really fast! In this video, I give you tips on how to know if you're moving too fast and how to manage this so you both stay in control of the relationship and also make sure you are not chasing something outside of you. Want to know what I mean? Watch the video. :)
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Комментарии • 88

  • @balazskungazda3805
    @balazskungazda3805 5 лет назад +11

    "...but text is not for communicating..." - so true!

  • @midwestlegacy1919
    @midwestlegacy1919 5 лет назад +22

    I can say I’ve completely flipped scripts in how I pursue women in my life now. I nevvverrrr rush, I’m committed to letting things develop naturally now

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  5 лет назад +3

      This is great!

    • @PayHomageJC
      @PayHomageJC 5 лет назад +1

      Absolutely damnit

    • @Danderwhitepaw
      @Danderwhitepaw 3 года назад +1

      @@ApolloniaPonti it's day 2 of our relationship, If I slow down a bit we can stay together? This is my first one with someone

  • @GSLouie
    @GSLouie 5 лет назад +16

    Well it’s confirmed I definitely scared her away 😂

  • @troyharper6967
    @troyharper6967 5 лет назад +7

    Your videos are great no matter the topic it's always great advice you truly know your stuff ms. Apollonia many blessings to you & your family 🌹

  • @markbishop9743
    @markbishop9743 5 лет назад +3

    Sound advise as always. Thank you once again

  • @sundayaito4366
    @sundayaito4366 5 лет назад +1

    Compliments of a wonderful day to you, ms Apollonia. Great video as usual. Thank you. These days my happiest moments are when my device notifies me of a new video upload from you. It's just a darn delight to hear from you. Thanks again.

  • @KAYDENCODM
    @KAYDENCODM 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you Apollonia 🤩
    Thanks for the tips

  • @franciswargirai3593
    @franciswargirai3593 5 лет назад +9

    This is so deep.
    Thank you Apollonia.

  • @ricksp99
    @ricksp99 5 лет назад +5

    There are few things that resonate to me in this video. It's important to learn from our mistakes and not carry them into our next relationship. Thank you very much Apollonia. You are...and will be always loved.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  5 лет назад +1

      Thank you so much, I appreciate your comment!

  • @juniormedina7652
    @juniormedina7652 5 лет назад +5

    It took me two years to say i love you.

  • @floydcornelius961
    @floydcornelius961 3 года назад

    Great 4 tips Apollonia; great video

  • @sksaad9589
    @sksaad9589 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much the last tip was really important advice for me

  • @shadyqaddoura3451
    @shadyqaddoura3451 Год назад

    The best coach ever thank you for this great video! I always learne lot from you ❤

  • @jacary
    @jacary 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you again beautiful more knowledge keep it up 😍😘

  • @Elijah.-_
    @Elijah.-_ 3 года назад

    Yoooooo these are FACTS!

  • @muneebmashhhgaming
    @muneebmashhhgaming 5 лет назад +8

    Me and my ex both faced this. We both said we loved each other within a month. This was when I was 18 and young and stupid 😂

  • @logicalthought4343
    @logicalthought4343 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for your great advice. I appreciate you Apollonia!!!! :)

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  5 лет назад

      Thank you so much I appreciate your comment!

    • @logicalthought4343
      @logicalthought4343 5 лет назад

      Apollonia keep doing what you are doing because you are helping all of us guys!!! And you are very welcome!!! :)

  • @nathanielgray4235
    @nathanielgray4235 5 лет назад +1

    Great tips

  • @slavicgirlagency5290
    @slavicgirlagency5290 3 года назад +1

    It so exciting to get to know a person, just need to understand it is a way, not goal

  • @danielsantana540
    @danielsantana540 5 лет назад +1

    Great. Video once again

  • @bnwo
    @bnwo 5 лет назад +15

    How do you have so much knowledge on this stuff? Honestly, you're a relationship MASTER.

    • @sundayaito4366
      @sundayaito4366 5 лет назад +1

      N.W.A. , if you don't mind me saying something here: I would say, ms Apollonia is an all round gifted individual.you could see she is real and nothing pretentious about her attitude. I think she is bigger than the platform she's on right now....I imagine one of the tv networks designing a program similar to what she is doing and have her run the show. I think her personality, beauty, and knowledge will have the ratings sky rocket high...

  • @divinesoul23
    @divinesoul23 5 лет назад +2

    Pagers, ha! That really takes me back. 🤣

  • @danhuskey2496
    @danhuskey2496 5 лет назад +1

    Ha-ha ,my old pagers are in the dresser drawer.Great advice(as usual).Thanks again for all you've done and continue to keep doing.

  • @kiaraarmstrong4607
    @kiaraarmstrong4607 3 года назад +3

    So I never just jump into relationships or too fast moving but holy shit the connection and timing with my new person is immaculate and yes we moved really fast we said I love you after 2 weeks but it feels like we’ve been together forever. soulmate??? EDIT: hahaha SO he left me... he used the “we should see other people” line...he moved and met someone new immediately and blocked me on everything it’s bullshit but whatever just tired of being heartbroken

    • @XTen1000DaysX
      @XTen1000DaysX Год назад

      Wow don't be so easy to get make him.work for it

  • @damekjordan55
    @damekjordan55 4 года назад

    I love this video

  • @haakonnilssen7151
    @haakonnilssen7151 5 лет назад +1

    Is true you absolutely right

  • @joejoe77_gold
    @joejoe77_gold 5 лет назад +1

    BTW Loved your laughter, do this in more videos, Cause it's an accent to your videos!☺

  • @therealvango1290
    @therealvango1290 5 лет назад +2

    Lmao😂 Pagers!😂 I Miss those Days!

  • @luisw3406
    @luisw3406 5 лет назад

    Another great video🌷. All your tips are so true people forget that good relationships take time to grow.

  • @YoungScato
    @YoungScato 5 лет назад +7

    It’s simple...if you have to question if you’re moving too fast fast...you probably are

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  5 лет назад +1

      There is nothing wrong with being patient and getting to know each other.

    • @YoungScato
      @YoungScato 5 лет назад

      Apollonia Ponti exactly take it slow

  • @joemancini2988
    @joemancini2988 5 лет назад +9

    Forty-four years later my wife will say, “I let you move too fast!” To which I can only spread my hands and look on wordlessly...

    • @14kurtismiller
      @14kurtismiller 5 лет назад +1

      She may appreciate you, but wish she moved slower and weighed her options.

    • @tiaunajonline
      @tiaunajonline 8 месяцев назад

      @@14kurtismillerthat’s fucked up.

  • @reesespieces3379
    @reesespieces3379 5 лет назад +1

    This is a great video, I’m curious though, do you get many clients that have a problem with their lady moving “too slow”? For me personally it seems to happen to my ex and to my current girl whom I am dating but not getting to that bf/gf

  • @MarcKlark
    @MarcKlark 5 лет назад

    @ 1:11 to 1:32 coach NAILED it 🥳🤸‍♀️🤸‍♂️🤸‍♂️ again ❤ pratical and hott win win for Me 💞🥳🤸‍♀️

  • @rickyticky3350
    @rickyticky3350 5 лет назад +1

    women always say that to most guys. i got told once. now i understand thank you

  • @masternest
    @masternest 5 лет назад +1

    Your videos always seem to come at the right time for me and always give me the best advice that I need for the moment. You're not stalking me by any chance, are you? Lol XD seriously though, I'm trying to slow myself down to see if this current girl I'm interested in is worthy of me so thank you for reaffirming my thoughts

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  5 лет назад +1

      Hi, you are so welcome! You will know if she is worthy of you. Best of luck.
      Apollonia

  • @matthewserrano4048
    @matthewserrano4048 5 лет назад

    "Awe" one word

  • @matthewserrano4048
    @matthewserrano4048 5 лет назад +1

    I learned this the hard way....

  • @ronquinton7470
    @ronquinton7470 5 лет назад +1

    What if, I've known someone for a very long time, many years, almost 15 years, and she starts coming on to me all of a sudden? Truth is, Ive moved in with her after about two months of dating. Within the first two weeks I set some boundaries with her, so far, we've been getting along extremely well, we communicate OPENLY and honestly. We both talked about moving too fast and agreed that we were moving too fast, but neither of us wanted to stop seeing each other. Now, people think we are married because of the way we interact. Its all about being respectful and responsible.

  • @chuongnda06
    @chuongnda06 5 лет назад

    The last tip is critical guys ha ha

  • @project0077
    @project0077 5 лет назад

    Pager? Omg! I never would've guessed😂

  • @Danderwhitepaw
    @Danderwhitepaw 3 года назад

    I have moved too fast after day 1, we are together obviously I just don't wanna mess it up.

  • @kostadrandakis5891
    @kostadrandakis5891 3 года назад +1

    Known her for 8 years, we became a couple after a month and a half. Then a month later I let her know I loved her, only because she hinted me towards the subject.....😓

  • @ismailelmassaoudi4317
    @ismailelmassaoudi4317 3 года назад

    I think i'm getting it now texting is not for communicating and now that i think about it when i text my friends it's not for communicating but setting plans or laugh about something for a while like memes so in terms of dating i should also apply it to that time apart from each other wlll create the attraction and the desire but not time with each other every single day if it's urgent I can call yeah thanks I think I get it now

  • @metalliac8937
    @metalliac8937 Год назад

    I hope no one I know finds this comment. Right now I’m on track to get into my first relationship but I feel like it could go wrong since I asked her to be my gf a bit too early. She was my date to a homecoming dance and I was pressured into asking by some of my friends. After I told her she said that she would have an answer after her birthday, which is in about 1 1/2 months. Ik that we both like each other and I just hope I didn’t mess up. From now on I’m gonna take things at my own pace and not be pressured again. This is my life, not theirs.

  • @chevrolet355
    @chevrolet355 2 года назад

    I messed up with a girl and she said i was moving too fast. She said we should stay friends. I tried kissing her as I was about to leave her house. We slept together that night but didn't do anything sexual. When I was kissing her goodbye she stepped back and I was like okay. I thought it was wierd because she was sending me pictures and all kinds of stuff yet I was the one moving too fast. Is there a way to win her back or is she a loss?

  • @Juli-n-David
    @Juli-n-David 4 года назад

    So more then 30 days is considerable?

  • @bonkahermitakaintjudge9228
    @bonkahermitakaintjudge9228 5 лет назад +2

    With all due respect it seems as though relationship coaches seem to be all over the place with their messages even to the point where they seem to be contradicting themselves the next day. Furthermore in their attempt to simplify issues they are actually complicating the heck out of things to the point where individuals no longer feel confident to trust their own intuition for what it takes to engage in forming a relationship with a significant other of either gender. I do understand that it is very difficult to communicate to such large audiences however it is important to be sure that you are not trying to fix a “ Working model. “ I am sure that you would not wish to mislead people who may have been drawn to your comments simply out of interest sake. Having listened to many of your videos I must say that you do have important information to put out there and thank you for your efforts. Please accept this as an attempt to offer “Constructive feedback.” Thanks again

    • @sundayaito4366
      @sundayaito4366 5 лет назад

      Bonka Hermit aka INTJudge , I am a die hard fan of the beautiful ms Apollonia. So I have to say this about your comment: if you are being honest about what I think you are trying to say, there is nothing contradictory, or confusing about what ms Apollonia has, or have ever said. You yourself confirmed this at the end of your comment which begs the question why, it was even necessary for you to bring up cases of other coaches...here is what you need to know about ms Appolonia: she is a cut above the rest in that she takes on an issue by cutting to the chase and delving straight to the crux of the matter by offering sound solutions and advise, that both speaks, and is acceptable to the rational mind....most will agree with me that ms Appolonia is the best relationship coach on the internet...I urge you to stick by her videos long enough to see these facts for yourself. Just enjoy her videos, man...

  • @tooldforplumbing4233
    @tooldforplumbing4233 5 лет назад

    I have only one thing to say. If you value the man and his heart. For what you see in him and what he has allowed himself to express. Considering... Don't let him pull himself away. Because he does know his own Worth. Remember. Just as person. Not everyone is capable of being a open book. Even if they are. There may be the fine print at the moment. That has to be meet and considered. Then decided

  • @ABCantonese
    @ABCantonese 5 лет назад

    That last point.... How do you deal with sex in the modern day where people are out and about looking for sex and sex first, even if they are looking for a relationship?

  • @thephotographicauditor6715
    @thephotographicauditor6715 5 лет назад +1

    Definition of a friend of mine to a "T".

  • @dannywholuv
    @dannywholuv 2 года назад

    I had a sexual encounter on the 3rd date. And our dates were only days apart. Then she became distant. Now I got the "I'm not ready" speech.

  • @johnroberts10
    @johnroberts10 5 лет назад +1

    I had a crush on this girl, but... never told her that I loved her because... No. 1) I was scared to death that she would reject me. No. 2) I thought she was married or had a boyfriend at the time. So, I waited, waited, and waited, until one day, she was gone! And... nowhere to be found, either! Now, I'm left with a broken heart, etc. I guess my question is... did I do the right thing, Apollonia? If not, what should I have done, differently, so this sort of thing doesn't happen to me again?

    • @14kurtismiller
      @14kurtismiller 5 лет назад +1

      She may be DEA agent.

    • @johnroberts10
      @johnroberts10 5 лет назад

      Or, she could of been working for the FBI or CIA. Doubt it, but... you never know, these days!! Do you? Anyway, I think she left because... No. 1) She didn't want to jeopardize her marriage No. 2) She's already has a boyfriend No 3) She didn't like her job/career, so she decided to go back to school or get a NEW job!

    • @PayHomageJC
      @PayHomageJC 5 лет назад

      Can’t wait my g - go for it

  • @mustaphadoaa1024
    @mustaphadoaa1024 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Apollonia. You have to take your time and have a plan.
    By the way, do you like snakes 🙏👦 Apollonia?
    That outfit reminds me of the cobra. You look always young and youthful even without makeup. I see you beautiful so don't concentrate too much on your age issue. I say this and I don't care about anyone else. Allah bless you Apollonia 👍

  • @tshidisotc1820
    @tshidisotc1820 5 лет назад

    U know I love ur videos but the sex part is kinda confusing cos if u wanna take ur time these women end up saying u are gay or call u stupid

  • @alexforce9
    @alexforce9 3 года назад +2

    Agree with everything exept sex. If you are a guy and dont try to have sex with the woman - she will think that you are weak and scared to go for what you want. Then she will push you away ( I only see you as a friend, Im not ready for a relationship bla bla bla) and you will feel punished for being the good guy who actualy wanted to know her. Also - women tend to overthink. So if you dont have sex with her in the highest point of her innitial attraction towards you - she will start second guessing your "relationship". And then some other guy appear, someone who is not trying to make something real with her so he just goes for it and gets her. We all have stories about some woman who had very high intrest in the begging but something was in the way of the intimacy - maybe distance, maybe bad planing or work or just life. And after some weeks go by she kinda just fade away and you stand there feeling like an idiot.

  • @owethuchibi974
    @owethuchibi974 2 года назад

    Okay then when is the right time to have sex after meeting someone & y'all both discover a mutual feeling regarding each other ?

  • @joejoe77_gold
    @joejoe77_gold 5 лет назад +5

    Do you have a sister,Cause I realize I came along one promise too late, for you!😉☺

    • @sundayaito4366
      @sundayaito4366 5 лет назад

      JJG Golden, sorry dude... we all got to just drool over ms Appolonia and nothing more, lol....

  • @Tilnaor
    @Tilnaor 5 лет назад +1

    Why the hell I wanted to watch this? I haven't get a girl in my life for years...

  • @sclabignate2298
    @sclabignate2298 4 года назад

    Lol pagers