Mastering Love and Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 26 июл 2016
  • Who doesn’t want to have more constructive conversations in their close relationships? In this video, Fr. Mike Schmitz explains how achieving this may be simpler than you think. So many times, we just don’t give the people we love the attention they deserve. Fr. Mike shows us how to fix that and master our love relationships.
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  • @27sports90
    @27sports90 4 года назад +314

    Am not catholic, am non-denominational. But I really like this Catholic girl, so I started watching father mike, and I really enjoy watching him..

    • @mikethearchangel11
      @mikethearchangel11 2 года назад +19

      that’s great, hope you continue to no matter how the relationship is going

    • @DarkAngel-cj6sx
      @DarkAngel-cj6sx 2 года назад +2

      😆 that is exactly how dr Pitre Brant and his wife started

    • @number1fan262
      @number1fan262 2 года назад +8

      I so wish that the guy I recently dated had had your wonderful attitude!
      How is it going in your connection with her? Have you started talking at least?

    • @froy_boyproductions8488
      @froy_boyproductions8488 Год назад

      Welcome 😊

    • @Dre-ip8np
      @Dre-ip8np 10 месяцев назад +1

      Lol same...

  • @jennifersambrosia
    @jennifersambrosia 6 лет назад +173

    It sounds like this 7 minutes of wisdom could prevent many from having to endure years of expensive and tedious counseling.

  • @yakelinrodriguez6117
    @yakelinrodriguez6117 4 года назад +69

    I would love to go to confession with Fr. Mike, he always has very wise words.

  • @suzettefox7808
    @suzettefox7808 8 лет назад +152

    Be kind and polite...great words to live by

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 года назад

      Suzette fox,you are absolutely gorgeous 💓❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you

    • @cjm537
      @cjm537 3 года назад +2

      @@oscarwilliamson1264 As a Catholic mom, I strongly suggest you pray for healthy relationships with real people in your life rather than people online, especially based on their picture. Praying God blesses you with genuine & loving relationships 🙏✝️

  • @TheCharlesagain
    @TheCharlesagain 8 лет назад +180

    You're a great priest, Fr Mike!

  • @isaiahpalmer2529
    @isaiahpalmer2529 5 лет назад +21

    “God’s calling me to just do the humble thing” PRAISE THE LIVING LAMB OF GOD

  • @adelinejacob7848
    @adelinejacob7848 3 года назад +31

    You know father.. When I am completely drained emotionally, your messages come as power back up, boosting me with more confidence and hope. Wondering at the mercy of our Lord... how he uses you as an instrument in my life. Thank you God.. and you too Father.

  • @TrevorOkonuk
    @TrevorOkonuk 8 лет назад +191

    0:43 "He's a...I don't know...some kind of doctor." Haha. Love these videos though!

    • @ajnasu5099
      @ajnasu5099 6 лет назад

      I can across your video on adult magic tactic - there plenty more a useful videos there that should help you

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      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 4 года назад

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    • @jamesfuller8342
      @jamesfuller8342 4 года назад +1

      Trevor Okonuk FUNNY you annoying troll

    • @carolzappa1804
      @carolzappa1804 18 дней назад

      I know😂right?
      Haha, he's so cute...down to earth wise, I mean...well...oh shoot.

  • @Seraphicmode
    @Seraphicmode 7 лет назад +63

    Short answer: Just be kind to one another. As our lord and savior Jesus Christ says, "Love one another as I have loved you."
    Thank you Father Mike! I really needed this literally yesterday and for the future. I'm currently in my first relationship after so long and I'm having trouble because I have never had this before, but I ha prayed to God to give me an answer and boom this video! :D I also checked out "Shifting into a New Relationship."

  • @nuriacb7880
    @nuriacb7880 6 лет назад +34

    I just realise that this is what I am doing with my children, and I feel very sad. They come from school and I am cooking or doing something, I say "um, um", I am pretending I am listening but I am not. I know now that I was hurting them :(

    • @rhiannoncollins3042
      @rhiannoncollins3042 3 года назад +1

      Me too. I think it’s an easy trap for moms to fall into since we don’t often get to focus on one thing.

  • @alisonperez3353
    @alisonperez3353 6 лет назад +29

    I actually love you! You make the biggest situations so straight forward and simple. Stumbled across you page by mistake. Best mistake I’ve ever made! God bless you padre! 😂

  • @s.a.joignant8848
    @s.a.joignant8848 8 лет назад +43

    Everytime a new video pops up I'm so excited! Love you Fr Mike!!

  • @emilyd.6371
    @emilyd.6371 5 лет назад +9

    I saw someone suggested a video about "healing relationships". I second that suggestion!

  • @michaelomega5783
    @michaelomega5783 7 лет назад +16

    YOU ARE AWESOME FATHER

  • @TMan29
    @TMan29 Год назад

    Thank you for this, was struggling with a question but it cleared ❤️

  • @garyzimmerman7889
    @garyzimmerman7889 3 года назад

    Fantastic. Thank you for this. Sharing with my children and their spouses.

  • @kesliegonzalez5816
    @kesliegonzalez5816 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Fr. Mike!

  • @grasyaaa__
    @grasyaaa__ 4 года назад +2

    I just discovered this channel and I can't stop watching all the videos. 😍

  • @nelavc21
    @nelavc21 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Father Mike! This helps me a lot.

  • @illynkimura1015
    @illynkimura1015 5 лет назад +1

    this is amazing thank you Father Mike .

  • @Commonchaffinch2
    @Commonchaffinch2 7 лет назад +4

    THANKYOU Fr Mike

  • @le5314
    @le5314 3 года назад +2

    Thank you, that is the best advice!
    Kindness is so underrated these days!

  • @andreajeffcoat5954
    @andreajeffcoat5954 6 лет назад

    Thank you father Mike. Thank you.

  • @puzz88
    @puzz88 6 лет назад +3

    this is wildly good advice and so gracefully delivered. thanks Fr!

  • @jenniroman9574
    @jenniroman9574 3 года назад +1

    You are amazing fr mike! Thank you so much!

  • @xavierferguson9607
    @xavierferguson9607 3 года назад

    WOW! This is truly genius. Thanks, Fr. Mike!

  • @lrishDave
    @lrishDave 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much Fr. Mike. I love you like a brother.

  • @bluejay4620
    @bluejay4620 7 лет назад

    Father Mike, you are so inspiring. I thank God you get to minister through these videos. :)

  • @jonitagonsalves9177
    @jonitagonsalves9177 3 года назад

    This was an eye opener.Thank u Fr.Mike

  • @LeoMarkP
    @LeoMarkP 6 лет назад +1

    Wow that was powerful! Love the "Eye ball time" that'll make one's spouse bloom!

  • @colint7399
    @colint7399 2 года назад +2

    I can’t thank you enough for this video. I finally prayed for help and came across this & it was as if it was made specifically for me. I was always thinking of being heroic & passive constructive & not understanding how she could not trust me as I had would never do anything to break our trust, yet the way this is explained shows it exactly how I’m sure how she has been trying to tell me. Much Love & Thanks 🙏❤️💯

  • @nicoolioo
    @nicoolioo 5 лет назад

    really needed to hear this today. thanks fr mike!!

  • @veronicag4593
    @veronicag4593 4 года назад +6

    I need to do this with my friends more, it’s hard for me to focus on my friends when they’re talking sometimes because I get easily distracted. But I didn’t realize how harmful this was. I want to be better at connecting with them.

  • @njnj8759
    @njnj8759 7 лет назад +1

    Just be kind... So simple I love it God bless you all!!!

  • @noreenmika7783
    @noreenmika7783 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you father mike!!

  • @yoli5779
    @yoli5779 6 лет назад +2

    THANK YOU Father Mike. Be kind to one another and communicate! ❤️

  • @josieguillen8318
    @josieguillen8318 5 лет назад

    Thank you Fathet Mike. Your videos are edicational and inspiring..They are good food for my soul.

  • @jody6464
    @jody6464 2 года назад +1

    I love happening upon these videos. I've been spending what is probably way too much time on RUclips lately, and it can really leave you in despair to see what's going on in the world. I am always uplifted after listening to Father Mike. Thank you for helping me.

  • @lolitarazo
    @lolitarazo 5 лет назад +3

    Flowers in colours from my heart. I pray for you Fr Mike. God bless you!

  • @veronicacampbell183
    @veronicacampbell183 5 лет назад

    Thank you father ❤️ God bless you 🙏

  • @SevenDeMagnus
    @SevenDeMagnus 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Fr.
    God bless, Proverbs 31

  • @thecatholicmass
    @thecatholicmass 8 лет назад +10

    i learned something today! thanks padre..

  • @jhedgje7905
    @jhedgje7905 5 лет назад +1

    LOVE YOU FATHER!!! 😍😍😊 keep up the great work! God bless you!!!

  • @emmadyer-woolaston9310
    @emmadyer-woolaston9310 3 года назад +3

    Father Mike :
    I have wander full an ideas.
    I will playing this VIDEO over, over, over and over UNTIL my husband realize he needs to be more kind of.

  • @TheChio116
    @TheChio116 7 лет назад +1

    It's awesome news!! Thank You! Father!!

  • @kessaann7782
    @kessaann7782 2 года назад +1

    This is a great video. Thank you.

  • @karenaamundson8577
    @karenaamundson8577 5 лет назад +6

    You are a master so blessed by your messages.. inspired by the holy spirit!

  • @michaelhudecek2778
    @michaelhudecek2778 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Father Mike! This was wonderful information!! Michael Hudecek from New York

  • @larrygann5053
    @larrygann5053 3 года назад

    That is absolutely amazing. I've been with my wife for over 30 years we always try to make that time

  • @docterblack
    @docterblack 6 лет назад

    Thank you for this video, the information was really helpful!

  • @MartRam16
    @MartRam16 6 лет назад +1

    Love this ❤️ Exactly true!

  • @aiban505
    @aiban505 4 года назад

    Thkq Fr. Mike m from India love to see ur channel

  • @evelynsalinas8477
    @evelynsalinas8477 4 года назад

    Absolutely agree. I deal with many people from different walks of life. However, I use a sweet & concern tone of voice and I can get more cooperation from them!

  • @VictoriosoAlejandrino
    @VictoriosoAlejandrino Год назад

    Thank you Father Mike

  • @JohnAlbertRigali
    @JohnAlbertRigali 5 лет назад +9

    Having been an "constructive active" kind of guy for much of my adult life, I've seen reciprocation decline over the years, especially from a certain handful of persons. It has "taken the wind out of my sails", but I'm struggling to maintain a minimal level of "constructive active" because it goes to fulfillment of Christ's command to love each other as He loved us.

  • @John83118
    @John83118 3 месяца назад

    I can't get enough of this. I recently enjoyed a similar book, and I couldn't get enough of it. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

  • @lydiaannmartinez451
    @lydiaannmartinez451 3 года назад +1

    Always stay humble and kind 🙌🏽😊💕

  • @aenigmatica8
    @aenigmatica8 6 лет назад +3

    Simple and fascinating.

  • @AlbertDominic
    @AlbertDominic 6 лет назад

    That was awesome Father. loved it.

  • @prettyridah5427
    @prettyridah5427 6 лет назад +2

    I'm Christian not Catholic but I'm learning more about god watching your videos. Thank you father Mike x

  • @michellemigone7739
    @michellemigone7739 8 лет назад +5

    You have such an incredible understanding of the human person. #wisdom

  • @margaritacampuzano7526
    @margaritacampuzano7526 8 лет назад

    Thank you for this video!! It was so helpful and now I know what to look out for!:)

  • @smlipari
    @smlipari 6 лет назад +2

    Fr Mike you are the best of! THANK YOU! Caring ... kindness go together like a hand in glove! Take TIME to care! ... MASTER!

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 года назад

      Sandra Lipari,you are so beautiful and so cute 💓❤🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you

  • @mong7858
    @mong7858 Год назад

    Great teaching, thank you 🙏🏻

  • @maricelamaldonado1288
    @maricelamaldonado1288 7 лет назад +5

    exactly what i needed to hear right now...kinda crazy

  • @xennelul
    @xennelul 8 лет назад +4

    We participated in Engaged Encounter, it seemed to me most couples have no clue how to communicate, so thanks for your message!

  • @jessiska2468
    @jessiska2468 6 лет назад

    This is beautiful video father Mike

  • @MsCorina222
    @MsCorina222 5 лет назад +1

    Love and BLESSINGS

  • @babyjesuslovesme1219
    @babyjesuslovesme1219 4 года назад

    Awesome research . God bless

  • @luisanaacevedo2003
    @luisanaacevedo2003 2 года назад

    I needed this thank you 🙏

  • @michaeldelossantos8560
    @michaeldelossantos8560 7 лет назад +27

    Father mike, will you do a video on the importance of saints and martyrs ....many thanks , Michael de Los Santos

  • @pilarsamala3499
    @pilarsamala3499 7 лет назад

    Love it!makes life easy...

  • @greyzone1974
    @greyzone1974 4 года назад

    Hi Father Mike, the way you approach love is amazing.. I heard your talk previously about how all types of love belong to the church.. not accepted but belong.. it's not them but us...I really got a better idea in how to approach the topic without being condemning. thank you.

  • @Alicia-sb6pu
    @Alicia-sb6pu 6 лет назад

    This is completely true everyone!!!

  • @seanschult2595
    @seanschult2595 6 лет назад +2

    Father Mike, just wanted you to know how true speaking you are about your true soul mates. It's sad to think some can get lost searching, when Jesus is right there for us everyday. Love you father and continue to preach and speak the Good News.

  • @MEXTguide_yoyo
    @MEXTguide_yoyo 4 года назад

    This is gold.

  • @rafaelmatias6356
    @rafaelmatias6356 6 лет назад +3

    I think it is the third time I watch this video, an I think i am not stopping soon

  • @abylynne
    @abylynne 7 лет назад +18

    I love your videos.They help me reflect on my life and my choices. Thank you.

  • @annmarievalenti9264
    @annmarievalenti9264 2 года назад

    Wonderful talk

  • @junekhonglam1220
    @junekhonglam1220 6 лет назад

    Thanks doctor priest great video

  • @deanrowell1591
    @deanrowell1591 3 года назад +1

    Awesome! Thank you very much!

  • @rosemariepetersen4467
    @rosemariepetersen4467 2 года назад +1

    That was quite helpful.

  • @robertd9743
    @robertd9743 4 года назад

    Father Mike, I sure wish you were my confessor! The holy spirit is with you! God bless you!

  • @sunkissgirl818
    @sunkissgirl818 7 лет назад +12

    thank you for this I needed this , my bf is really kind to me but I need to learn to be kind to him as well , is something I'm fighting everyday, Godbless

  • @neysadsouza6966
    @neysadsouza6966 3 года назад

    Very good news! Valuable explanation!

  • @Love-Chronicles
    @Love-Chronicles 6 месяцев назад

    Good solid stories and advices.

  • @vnt4ims
    @vnt4ims 6 лет назад

    Thank u Father...

  • @sarakeith5480
    @sarakeith5480 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you!!!!

  • @aprilmindin7753
    @aprilmindin7753 6 лет назад

    Thank you! ☺

  • @luciadeloach9932
    @luciadeloach9932 8 лет назад +1

    Great video, so helpful in today's world :)

  • @tessyijeuru6364
    @tessyijeuru6364 4 года назад +1

    Wow..I enjoyed it

  • @GF-zh7sv
    @GF-zh7sv 2 года назад +2

    this is so true and i'm guilty of this kind of behaviour. I really should have taken those 15 minutes when my ex would visit to show them that they are important and a priority. Sometimes my work mindset is just too strong to do what is the obviously right thing and stop for a bit and show the person I care enough to put the work down

  • @paulastorm2750
    @paulastorm2750 2 года назад

    This was very good

  • @danielwidyanto5142
    @danielwidyanto5142 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Fr Mike. I'm one of those passive destructive guy, and our counselor was saying the same thing as yours, be courious about each other and be kind to each other. My problem is that I don't have any idea how to do that. My family of origin is just practically ignored each other, so I found it very difficult to be courious about my wife's day during dinner.

    • @elizabethstephens8801
      @elizabethstephens8801 2 года назад

      Practice makes perfect! It's really hard though and it hurts sometimes, but the best advice I can give you is to sacrifice for the other person. Just in little things. Maybe your wife needs help with the dishes and you do them for her. Just little things that require self-sacrifice! I hope this helps!

  • @OneRandomCommunity
    @OneRandomCommunity 8 лет назад +44

    Doesn't St. Therese's "Little Way" resonate with this video? 🌷

    • @annamwes
      @annamwes 5 лет назад +1

      Spot on! I had the same thought listening to the video :)

  • @rafaeljonathanmonterrosoca8400
    @rafaeljonathanmonterrosoca8400 5 лет назад

    Gracias por los buenos consejos :)

  • @juanolvera5471
    @juanolvera5471 6 лет назад +1

    Inspirational

  • @yourpersonaladvice7395
    @yourpersonaladvice7395 3 года назад

    I guess we should spread more channels like this, instead of letting several distracting videos overwhelm our daily lives, thanks

  • @sondre9056
    @sondre9056 3 года назад

    I love the Church, which Christ established. Its such a great gift, multi dimensional! Thank you!
    And thats allso a thanks to you pater :-)
    Peace!

  • @charityf888
    @charityf888 3 года назад +1

    There is some good books like love and respect, the five love languages, the love dare. The movie called fireproof is a good movie too.