Men Go Through THESE 4 Stages Before They'll Commit
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- Men Go Through THESE 4 Stages Before They'll Commit
I’ve got a few years of online dating.. 90 days without sex, go on 10-12 dates, talk get to know each other more deeply. After 3 months have a discussion about how things are going, see if a committed monogamous relationship is what you both would like to try.. then sex. 🌟 This weeds out many many men but the truth is always revealed.. don’t fight it. Let the man go and find a committed match 💛
You described to the t my last relationship stages. I had the courage to step out of it when the performing stage became stagnant. Great guy, badly wounded who was really good at concealing it for over a year. He subtly shifted from “us” team to “me and you” separate teams. Two years after parting ways, and after self development, I get to know the truth about him through his close friends who, ironically, are trying to get us back together.
No thanks! 😊
That example about the disgust response was interesting. I noticed I'm not attracted to men that are easily disgusted
Same, why is that?
@@natatattful I think it tells us something about their masculinity and possibly testosterone. We can trust they would handle the unfavorable things that come about. I also noticed I'm really attracted to men that can hunt, prepare meat, or take care of deceased animals. It's like it shows they have survival instincts and can protect you. If you're easily disgusted then I know it's on me to handle things and that instinctually feels wrong.
Love this! I agree.
Gotcha
I agree. The guy I dated was easily disgusted…something is wrong.😢
So helpful as an older woman to understand the difficulties that men may have evolving a new relationship! Tx!!
I really appreciate that you share your knowledge and wisdom with us!
Love this!
Thanks for the good advice more blessings dear Jonathan 🙏
This is a very good video. I find how you used that model to be very interesting and something as a very good guide.
Very good breakdown of the steps in a great relationship that will last! As always, your advice makes sense and explained so well! Thank you!
Awe... thank you 😊
Excellent Jonathan... so well thought out, organized and put into words. I have the same thoughts as you but have never been able to organize the thinking, steps and be able to communicate this with a man. You have done it for us. What a great video to view with someone and discuss... this can get 2 people on the same page and started for a good relationship together. Thank you for all your hard work and love.❤
Glad it was helpful!
Jonathon, this video is awesome! A definite “share” 💙💙 hugs,
Awe... thank you 😊
Working on both recent and old wounds that both of us actually want to work on (we’re definitely both Growers), and all 4 of these stages in the first 90 days, but navigating having our first / only kid in late 40s / early 50s 😅so, outside tour main demographic norm but not totally uncommon these days. We are having the best emotional and physical connection of our lives but have learned so much from painful past failures. Still, extremely valuable as always - thanks, Jonathon!
Thank you 😊
A brilliant application of the business team building model!
Thanks ☺️
I have your book❤ and let 2 of my clients read it .
The hairdresser in me wants everyone to feel good in and out:)They loved your book as well❤
WOW, thank you 😊
Thank you! Yes it resonated.. ❤
So glad!
Jonathan, Thank you.
Thanks for the follow up.
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You bet
My cousins got married as teens and were married to only each other, their spouses, til they passed away. Married decades with many kids who were good people. They were a team and they did norming well. I miss them a lot. M arr
My country family believed in honesty and directness. I miss healthy communication in society. M arr
Thank--you Jonathon, so informative.! How much is your Self-love book? Connie K.
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Thank yooooou!
You're welcome!
Wow. Great insight!
I never thought about the last stage of a relationship (performing) before and now I realize I have no idea what that looks like for a woman in her early 60's. I need to do some soul searching on that. 😊
Glad it was helpful!
Good morning Mr.handsome Johnathan😊
Awe... thanks ☺️
If only more “people” were interested/ “invested” in putting in the “work” or the “time” to establish a full filing TEAM experience. Effort and Care (both self and for the other person) are a huge requirement with the “right” individual from both parties. It seems more frequently than not, most folks just want to be “lackadaisical” about almost everything in life….especially a “relationship”. They would rather have a “ quickie” with less commitment/responsibilities, because it requires much less effort and participation towards something “Real”. For those of us (myself) who are looking forward to “growing” “establishing” and “reaping” the forever benefits with the correct individual….this video was “PERFECT”!! So thank you kindly Mr. Jonathan ❤❤ 😊
Indeed
Good morning ❤
Good Morning
To perform as a woman is a delicate Art!
Either gender...
Long distance, no way. I won’t even date someone outside my bubble line (25 miles or less!).
Thanks
WOW, thank you 😊
Your "What the Heck is Self-love" is very insightful, but you generated so much more and deeper content by now that would be beneficial for a broader audience. I hope you are working on a new book!
Good idea
Where do the childless never been married people fit in this paradigm?
It's universal
@@user-qi6hq5iq1f Women can become jaded as well.
1. FORMING
2. STORMING
3. NORMING
4. PERFORMING
Exactly!
Will this be live?
Recording
Jonathan would you consider going on the Golden Bachelor. It’s nice to see how mature men handle relationships 😊
As always great advice BIG BIG HUGGS🫂
Thanks so much!
Big hugs Jonathon!
When you ask a man why he wants to be with you they need to give a straight and definate answer. Youre either all in or your out.
Exactly
Can you help figure out if online date is real?
Its not good to be Cheated on 😢
Is that person a victim?
What’s a reasonable amount of time for a man to show he wants to include a woman in his life, like introducing her to friends, family, etc?
Exactly
It doesn't look like he answered your question but I would say within 60 to 90 days, on average.
The 20% users I can live with, but the 60% spenders statistic was really disheartening. I bet there are a lot more than 20% high quality women looking for a grower and builder. So what do we do with this discrepancy? Give up and get a cat? :)
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I recently discovered your work and like it a lot. Thank you.
High-quality people are always drawn to each other...
Most men I encountered online dating were the players/cheaters… most of them were Americans. Don’t know why they love playing mind games. Kind of sad, they have to do it to an honest, serious and good woman like me!😢
What about the men who weren't that way? What happened?
@@JonathonAslayQuestion is, where are they? Maybe just 1 in a million who exist?
7:50 Jonathan begins topic and stops repeating himself with the same things in every video in case you've heard it over and over already.
Noted... and thanks for following 😀
This is a fantastic video. So clear.thk u❤
I think he has OCD or some form of ADD for sure. The yelling is also a bit toxic for my taste. He sounds traumatized.
I had a guy who had spit on the meet.i said later🤢
Spit?
Yep, that’s a deal breaker for me, too. It disgusts me that men spit at all, but if one thinks it’s okay to spit while I’m with him shows he has no manners and lacks consideration for me.