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Thank you man, that means a lot, honestly. But it's really just common sense, there are a bunch of people my age with wisdom unheard of, but they just aren't on social media ❤
@@JakPiggott You're welcome. Especially on social media, common sense isn't common anymore, so to hear you speak like this, really is a breath of fresh air. And i appreciate that.❤️
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My husband was like you. And he sure did find a girl who shared his values (yes that was me). I thought i'd never find him but I did. And you WILL find that special girl. She's out there 💯
I’ve been on a bunch of dates but I’ve never been in a relationship. I haven’t met a girl who clicks with me but I’m not giving up hope. Besides, I’m still young lol I believe that it’ll happen when the time is right.
You aren't just "an 18 year old kid yappin". You are so much more. You're inspiration for at least a million people by this point, probably more, and have dedicated yourself to help improve other people's lives. We all love you and your content, and we all thank you for being this great person. Every man should aspire to be like you, and every woman should want someone as wholehearted as you. (I would never pass up an autograph from you).
Hey Jak I'm a 28 year old male, never been in a relationship because I have always been shy, introverted, have social anxiety and OCD . I would always worry if I would ever find a nice girl and would panic because others are in relationships and I start to think there might be something wrong with me. As soon as I watched this video, I felt a huge relief, knowing that there are others going through something similar. I just wanted to say you are very inspirational and you're videos are helpful, we need more people like you in the world, you're one of a kind, we all need a good friend like yourself. Greetings from Sydney, Australia. God bless you.
I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too. But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
I dunno how many people here are Christian, but my pastor said this last week "Your first love must always be God. Everyone and everything can leave you, but God never will". If you aren't Christian, replace God with whoever you believe in, or even you. Love yourself first before giving partial control of your love to someone else.
Fr, I go to a Catholic school and they are basically forcing god apon us, they say stuff like “love god over anyone else” and “god is the only one to trust”. Then they wonder why they have a bunch of depressed teenagers that have done this and had nothing happened. Having confidence and self love is an important part of living and should allways be put forward.
Minecraft music is so good for stuff like this. What I have found is it works for is, serious stuff, philosophical talk, science, liminality, time and memories, and definitely more but I haven’t personally found them as videos.
Having low testosterone is something we dont pay much attention to, but it is the reason why our motivation is low and progress is slow, I found great ways to improve my test levels in this book, it helped me out and now im on my journey to become a better man The book that Im talking about is "You are stronger than you think" from Borlest
42 year old truck driver here. Never dated or been married. Still saving myself for someone special. Emotional connection is very important. It's not just about getting a girlfriend. What about her personality? It's better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.
Wow man really at 42? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, barely been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didn't get my first kiss. I had always been shy near girls in person due to lot of bullying in school and only recently I am socializing with girls in my University where I am studying MBA. I am talking with several girls now in my MBA who are all within 21-25 age range but so far our conversations had been short just limited to Hi and How are you. One girl recently in my MBA who is 22 even distanced herself saying she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore after talking with her in person for 10-11 days probably because I got way too attached to her and she got overwhelmed but idk and I was broken and sad for over 2 weeks about it. Currently having the best conversations with another girl in my MBA who is also an introvert like me and 21 or 22 too but she said she doesn't have Instagram so we connected on LinkedIn which feels a bit unusual but our conversations has been more balanced so far and less one sided compared to with some of the other girls. I also said a pickup line recently to another girl (within 21-23 age range) who was my crush in previous semester and the 2nd girl I hugged and she did smile and thanked me but she is super pretty and she definitely doesn't seem to be into me.
Most women have a different mindset. They want stability. Resources, constant entertainment, someone who could do the “dirty” job. Im telling you brothers, its physically and mentally draining
we share the same goals. It’s kinda pulling me down seeing everyone happy in a relationship when I’m not. I’m only 17 but everyone my age has a girlfriend for some reason.
Am 21 years old. So happy to my feed full of peers who haven't just given up. Never dated. Never had a girlfriend. Was often made fun of for it in school. Introverted but can communicate. Meditating on thoughts over a cigar now and again. Reading. Reflecting on thoughts and ideas much similar to the ones many of us are giving eachother on this platform. It's very nice to see. We'll find someone someday. Our cake will be done, in time. Keep on sharing the wisdom bro!
This is exactly what ive been mentally dealing with. It was not that bad at the start, but when it has become monts, it changed me. Everything has been changed, that even my younger self will not be able to recognise me. But it is nice to know at least im not lonely feeling this. Thank you bro❤❤
Its crazy that i was just thinking about it and opened youtube because of it, boom, this video popped out after i refreshed the page....youre an inspiration to me
i’ve been following you for 3 years and i need to thank you for making me feel like i’m not the only one going through this type of stuff. those vids make me feel like im not alone
Dude, a year and a half crush? You deserve a medal for bravery, not rejection! Her loss for sure. Imagine the amazing person out there who gets to date someone who's awesome enough to hold onto a crush that long Pizza and bad rom-coms on you tonight? Let's celebrate your freedom and find someone who deserves your awesomeness!
@GLEEFUS-u5b if you do it, you're not a man, you're a coward. You can't quit life because you're in your dark ages. Take action and do something about it instead of being submissive. There are people that care about you, and more to come. Give it time, and believe the best version of yourself can be, as hard as you can. If needs be, workout, change habits, learn new skills. You can't quit now brother. You still have a long road, filled with purpose
I feel you my friend. The most valueble thing on Earth is when you love somebody, and that person loves you for your PERSONALITY. Not for ass, not for money, not for muscles, not for your fake personality.
Hi. I'm just gonna vent here. Two years ago, due to a school project I had to interact and talk to a new person. I was new to this school. I realized that one of the people came in my bus. I had lots of fun talking with this person. She might be a girl, but was one of the best friends I had. We shared so many common interests like books and Social Science. She was smart, and I was a little less smart. She was soooo fun to hang out with. I, for some reason made a policy that we should not talk outside the bus, as people would think that we were dating. I seriously didn't know she liked me, because I was an innocent little guy. I also made a very bad mistake once. She asked me what would I do if she liked me. I said I'd complain to the teacher. I know that i'm ugly, and I didn't know someone could like me. i think it was my personality. Fast forward one year, and I hadn't made as good as a friend like her. We were at the point that we used to tell our crushes to each other. One random day, almost at the end of the semester, she stopped talking. I tried to ask her why we ain't friends anymore, and what I did wrong in the friendship, so I could improve. I feel it was partially due to me liking someone that she warned me about. Now when we got unfriended, I felt really sad, and for some reason made a decision to not make any more new close friends. Also thanks for ur 1300 dollar video. I will not hang out with those fuck*ng bitches in my class that make my life bad. After some time, I realized from my friends that she liked me again and didn't want to insult herself again. Now I think about it, I kinda liked her too. We always used to joke around that her friend group was fake. It was not actually a joke, but it was true. They used to take advantage of her, and I felt really bad. In my sadness and angriness, I complained to her mom about what things she has done. She used to tell me that i'm her best friend, and I really felt good. No one had called me their best friend in front of me. I feel like our relationship is healing, but it will never be like it was before. One of my good friends from a grade lower is pretty nice. She is also friends with her, and the only times I communicate with her is when he is there too, and that too in sports period. We arent in the same class, and we got shuffled, so people from my class qwnt to her class. She is now spreading fake stuff about me too. I feel really bad. I used to think that I knew alot about her, but im such a jerk. Just because she knows stuff about me doesn't mean i also know alot of stuff about her. Whenever I see her in the corridors, my heart starts pumping blood a little faster, as my brain flashes those two years of amazing friendshipness. 2 days ago, when it was our STEM period, I was on her floor, and she patted my back, and the next day i asked about it, she said she didn't. Is that a sign of something? I try to get the courage to say sorry everyday, but I never do it. I become scared. Please tell me something. Maybe a motivation. Fine. If this comment gets 2 likes, I'll do that, and make another comment describing the inccident.
bro forget her and move on and focus urself, this situation is damaged and cannot be repaired try to ge another girl or join any other club. never let your self respect down it's the only thing a man upholds
@@chesstutorials64 You seem to be very unsure about this, and I fully understand why. If she really is spreading fake stuff about you while acting nice at the same time. Maybe, if you really like her, you should tell it to her one day. Or if you're still a little uncertain you could also wait some time until it "feels right" If she still acts weird when you tell her, then she likely isn't the one.
I can't really help you with your situation since my social skills are very bad but I really want the best for you man, (i noticed your name) and I want to play a game of chess with you if you would like that,
I don’t know if this helps but like my grandpa said "the good thing about being a loser is you can't get any lower you can only move forward". So f*ck it man, go for what you want, you'll lose a lot but you just gotta succeed once ❤.
There is no such thing as ugly man - lets say you're a 2/10 - you start taking good care of yourself, you're at least 1 4, you get jacked, you're at least a 6, you get some money, you're at least a 7. Don't hold yourself to that identity man
My issue isn’t just that I’m really ugly (3/10 by many), it’s also that I’m always the nice guy so others use me but never look at me as anything more than a resource or a friend at the most.
Thank you for your message Jak. I’m also a young man in his early 20’s who struggles with having the initiative to ask girls out or to start dating. You’re quite relatable and there’s more people like us in this world than most people want to admit. You’re also wiser than most people who are a few years older than you and certainly 18 year olds. You’ll find her one day. She’s out there.
Man as a teen you’re always on this emotional roller coaster and the hardest emotion to get over is love, that craving you get to share a connection with someone. What i have learned or my side of the spectrum its not worth it to stress yourself over these things the right women will come and you will know it. My favorite quote goes like this: “Good things come to the people who wait” Much love 👊❤
This video really spoke to me. Loneliness has been my main negative emotion for literal months. Thanks man, I didn’t know that other people experience this too
Stop giving a fuck and putting women on such a pedestal believe in yourself , they ain’t all that , I can do without sex , you’re not missing out. Most will eventually leave you for another guy anyway..
@@siroliver8367 yeah, as long as you have money. those girls don't look for love. don't be like kind of dude who can't get laid and go to 3rd world country because the women in their country don't like them, it's just makes you huge loser.
Thank you Jak. thanks for making feel like I'm not alone with being a vergin, wanting the perfect girl, being different, being introverted, and trying to be happy and improve myself for that girl. Really needed this.
I'm glad I can finaly relate on someone here on youtube, you seems to think exactly the same way I do... I'm 17 and a massive introvert and I really thank you for this message :) keep going with this amazing content and have a nice day.
Im also an introvert who's 1.80m and training, and gived up on dating, im not bothering anymore honestly because i did it its a good thing now i focused on myself and my hobbies In romania you won't be able to get a gf unless you either do drugs, clubbing and tons of alcohol, smokin' having a fast car... shortly Gold Diggers...
Your a great man. Im 34 , ive always feared something is wrong with me. Cause i cant cut it with females , ive come to realise i dont have anything in common with females and thats scary. That has caused depression and anxiety. Thanks for ur help . Ur a good heart so admirable.
u have the best videos that helped me get through some of the hardest times of my life thank you so much for being such a great guy and i hope you go far in life
bro i needed this video to cheer me up and know im not alone in the situation im in rn thanks for making my day better. i’ve never had a gf before and i’ve only had one failed talking stage which left me depressed and im only a 9th grader. To make things worse im pretty fat and i get bullied every day at school for it which makes me depressed. i’ve been working on myself to make a better version of myself since i’ve started to watch your videos, thanks so much.
The reason why I have not had a date before is because the dating community has become as toxic and petty as the toxic gym culture has now become; probably even more toxic than that of the gym culture. If anything else, I’ve grown up with a lot of bullying, whether it be direct bullying like name calling or covert bullying like ostracism, even been bullied at hang outs with the name calling, I stopped caring to hang out with peers because the toxicity was exasperating. Also, I don’t know how healthy I can make the relationship if I got a relationship, because not only have I been bullied too often but I’ve also been forcefully exposed to my Mom’s venting even when I didn’t want to hear it she made me listen and got upset and angry so often at life and everyone even when she didn’t need to. There was constant arguing with everyone in my family as well. I never had a break. I always played video games to distract my mind from the chaos. With this all being said, I’ve got so much trauma from so much of the chaos due to everything I mentioned above, and now with my Mom having passed away it’s been harder, especially due to my Dad having now dated another woman who was far far worse than my Mom ever was, which other woman whom I hope he never goes back to! Long story short, I have SO MUCH trauma that I can’t even keep conversations upbeat most of the time. Having had too much trauma, my mind now been polluted with the idea that life in general is not happy but is a living hell, which “pollution” I’m trying to fix. The more trauma I go through though, the harder it is for my mind to heal and to feel optimism. It’s made me frustrated and angry. Due to all of this, I’m not sure I can even have a relationship one day. It would cause problems, unless she teaches me how to fix myself or I learn from other sources on how to fix myself. If I don’t fix it, it could destroy everything in the relationship. You’re not in my shoes and won’t be unless you remain a never-kissed virgin even up to 30 years of age. I had to deal with a lot of drama at home, and nonstop bullying at school. I may have survived from suicidal ideation, but my mind is still worn out.
im sorry to hear that brother. Just trust the flow and thr time will come(p.s not all woman are the same so focus on someone who is interested and is essy to open a relationship and on urself). U got this❤
You are 100% Jak. Its not like you are 80% yourself and you need a girl to fill you blah blah blah. You are 100% Jak and you dont need gf to be happy. Gf is a help in life but its just a human
Man I got rejected last Wednesday and yeah it hit me pretty hard. The girl used me and I thought she was a good person. I respect her decision and yeah I'm gonna move on.
You have a great attitude man, not many guys act like you did, many crash tf out. That shows a lot about your character, give yourself some credit if you haven't already ❤
Im not the kind of person who usually comments in videos but I just found your channel and it hits hard. I’ve never had a real life girlfriend, I used to be too shy but with the years I’ve been improving myself but no matter how much I improved I keep feeling not good enough… I feel related with the thing you said about finding the woman of your dreams, a girl who will shares the same values as you. I found her online, we started a long distance relationship and after 9 months she just ghosted. I guess I’ll fill my void doing other things. Thanks for your advices mate
3:16 😂so cute For anyone that needs it, (coz I sure do 😅) *One day you'll find someone that chooses you and continues to choose you everyday, and that's when you'll be thankful everything happened the way it did.*
Incredible video Jak. I really resonate with this video because I am in the EXACT SITUATION AS YOU. We have the same goals when it comes to women. We are very alike with our outlook on people and personalities. I'm an introvert and I am similar age to you.
I feel you bro, i am also a massive introvert and want to fill some kind of void within myself. Have been looking for a girlfriend for some time but, i came nowhere near attracting a girl. Now i’ve accepted it and focusing on myself. I idolize you my man, keep up the good work.
honestly, you would be an amazing friend to have and talk to about more sensitive things. being honest is so much better than trying to hide your feelings to not get called weak or other things just for sharing some things. wish there would be more like you in the world.
@Jak Piggot please don't rush. If you rush the process, if you force it, you will be unsatisfied due to lust. Remember, lust is not love, and love is not lust.
Dear brother, what's your definition of happiness? There's the ephemeral/temporal and not real happiness, and the real one that's constant. If you are moved by lust, you will not be happy, but if you are moved by real love you will be satisfied. Here's the definition of real love by the bible: 1 Corinthians 13 1 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Advice for not falling into lust (By Jesus) Matthew 5:28 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
@@gaitanexpress3971 my definition of happy? I just want to have a good life like my schoolmates who have girlfriends and are in relationships rather than sitting alone by myself treated like a stranger on campus. All of this loneliness is just stupid, dull, revolting. And I want out.
@@cedy413 Dear brother, 80% of nowadays relationships are just lust. You will be unsatisfied if you are in a lustful relationship. God has you in an isolation season because he's preparing you for a true love story. Thank God for that. because you are special, you are different from others.
It'll all work out brother, and I want you to trust that, use this a fuel to become the man she regrets leaving, that's all you can do now, success and happiness are the best revenge ❤
Dang man. I didn't even know how much I needed this video. As someone who is only I few months younger than you I find myself is the same place quite often
Hey bro, thanks for this video, my life is going REALLY bad and sometimes i find myself without hope to keep moving because nothing works for me, i keep trying to improve myself but somehow i always keep coming back to zero, and not having a girlfriend and just a few friends makes this feel even harder, i am introvert and sometimes very shy, my family doesn't like my personality and all of this mess up my head, this video brought me hope again because i feel that in the future if i keep trying, things will get better, thank you, love from Brazil dude 🇧🇷🙏
I’m glad this video was valuable for you my man, stay patient and just get 1% better everyday, learn from every single failure and your success will be inevitable 👊❤️
Man, I feel you 100%. It really sounds like you just described my life. Just keep going… that’s my best advice. I’ve realized that no matter how crappy today is, tomorrow will still come. Might as well keep pushing…
I can relate to this. I'm 23 and haven’t been in a relationship. I've always wanted to be with the girl of my dreams. I guess I'm not that happy with my life, but I'm happy that I graduated college and was able to make money working. What makes me feel better the most is listening to my favorite music.
You just earned yourself a subscriber brother............. I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship before although I've had feeling of loneliness in my life dark stormy days but I've come to the reality that no one is coming to save my ass.....i am my own hero and once i get to the top women will become an added bonus🎉🎉
I’m 25 now and it feels like im getting to a point where it’s getting too late. Its so hard to find someone man, and all the good women are taken. If in the 1/10,000 chance I find someone, there’s another rare chance she’ll even like me back at all
Not going to live long. Maybe next life will be a bit easy on me. Struggling from diseases since childhood, had a major accident. I am tired, love is not for me, wishing good luck to all the bros. signing out
I'd never think that the person i would relate to the most is an Australian RUclipsr. But it just shows you how universal & normal these experiences are. Keep up the good work Jak!
This hit hard. I've never had anyone who has accepted me, friends or girlfriend. Simply I am the outcast at school and anywhere else. My "friends" always mock me at school. You may think "Then get new friends" Huh.. Imagine how hard that would be when NO ONE accepts you. I am to the point where I am in depression due to having basically no true friends, no hope for anything. Im simply seen as a nerd, because since I have barely any friends, I spend more time focusing on grades, currently Valedictorian. Me, at age 16, am so ready to have someone. I am extremely introverted, I have ADHD and likely ASD (Show multiple signs of it but parents are unsupportive of a assessment). All of these make it really difficult to even be somewhat normal, not even knowing what normal is anymore. But I really hope I do meet that one girl one day. I look forward to it..
You’re still so young brother, don’t put so much pressure on yourself. You will learn and develop as quick as the rest of us as long as you wake up every single day and just get 1% better than you were yesterday. Be yourself, respect everybody, I am an outcast at school as well, and there is nothing wrong with that. Let your friends mock you, just use that as fuel towards your ambition. All these other guys will peak in high school, you’ll peak in life ❤️
Though your videos are mainly targeted to a male audience, as a girl entering year ten, I find your content immensely valuable. You inspire me to work harder on improving myself physically and spiritually, and to higher my standards to find a partner in the future who values my beliefs and opinions
Thank you for posting this. I agree that people seem to veer away from an honest “Sometimes being single is rough, because loneliness isn’t fun.” It’s been difficult being a romantic who’s never been liked back “in that way.” But a few things that have helped me through my 37 years: - I can’t be a healthy partner of whomever if I’m dead before we meet; I MUST prioritize my mental health. - I can’t have a healthy relationship with a partner if I’m expecting them to “complete me”/“fix me”/whatever. I HAVE TO prioritize my mental health!!! - There are ways that people hurt that I know I can’t fix/solve/etc. I can be there for them, but there are some things I as a finite being cannot do. What kind of asshole would I be if I had expectations for someone to do for me what I can’t do for someone else? I have to remember that if I find someone, some of the ways I can respect them is to honor their limits and do what I can so we can learn about each other. (Our needs, wants, how to best support each other, etc.) - My dad loved my mom (RIP) very much, but he saw SOOO many unhealthy relationships throughout his life. When I expressed feeling pessimistic and lonely, he’d always remind me “The only thing worse than being single and lonely is being married and lonely.”
I feel so lonely sometimes and wish I could branch out and get friends or a boyfriend, but I always feel like there’s a barrier between me and others, and I go back to being recluse. You really inspired me to just look within, and try to surround myself with people who share my values. Thank you!
I've been attached to a girl since 2022 who I've never talked with and doesn't like me either it was just a huge ass crush. I tried many things to make her like me but nothing worked out. We doesn't share many interests and I knew this would never workout but I've been thinking about her and wasted 2 years of my life. U Jak helped me go through this phase. Thanks u so much Jak( sorry for bad English and I yapped a lot😅)
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I didn't realise my literal life therapist was an 18 year old by the way.
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True man.
So true.
Faaaacts
JUST BECAUSE WE AMAZING BROWN INDIANS 🇳🇪 ❤️ a SME- SMELL LIKE FRESH SWEATY ARMPITS MIXED WITH MOLDY NAAN AND ROTTEN CURRY FILLED WITH SHAVED CAVITIES AND FLUFFY DANDRUFF DOESNT MEAN WERE UNEDUCATED 😒😒😒❤️❤
Haha didn't know my words were therapeutic but I guess that's good I guess 🤞❤
I have to tell you, as a 24-year-old man, you're the wisest 18-year-old I've ever seen. Keep doing what you're doing.
Thank you man, that means a lot, honestly. But it's really just common sense, there are a bunch of people my age with wisdom unheard of, but they just aren't on social media ❤
@@JakPiggott You're welcome. Especially on social media, common sense isn't common anymore, so to hear you speak like this, really is a breath of fresh air. And i appreciate that.❤️
same 24 years old never had a girlfreind. I miss the Pre OF days when neat girls existed
@@jonathanwilliams365 Very true
24 year old boy you mean
It feels nice to know other people are experiencing things like me
JUST BECAUSE WE AMAZING BROWN INDIANS 🇳🇪 ❤️ a SME- SMELL LIKE FRESH SWEATY ARMPITS MIXED WITH MOLDY NAAN AND ROTTEN CURRY FILLED WITH SHAVED CAVITIES AND FLUFFY DANDRUFF DOESNT MEAN WERE UNEDUCATED 😒😒😒❤️❤
yeah, this guy is a serious lifesaver
@@Qoothywhat the fuck
You are never alone brother
@@JakPiggott thank you bro
Bro if this guy doesn’t have a gf we are cooked 💀
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I look better than him and im a 30 year old virgin (if you dont count the hundreds of escorts i've paid for lol).
Your cooked
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"They're probably my age, maybe a little older or maybe even younger. Because you don't really know nowadays"
Why is this so true 🤣🤣
Even is she , has a hole or pole u never know until u found out (it's a joke)
If I set my age to 18 on a dating app, I mostly get underage girls. If I set my age to 19, I get milfs...
JUST BECAUSE WE AMAZING BROWN INDIANS 🇳🇪 ❤️ a SME- SMELL LIKE FRESH SWEATY ARMPITS MIXED WITH MOLDY NAAN AND ROTTEN CURRY FILLED WITH SHAVED CAVITIES AND FLUFFY DANDRUFF DOESNT MEAN WERE UNEDUCATED 😒😒😒❤️❤
You don't bro 😭
Bro what?
My husband was like you. And he sure did find a girl who shared his values (yes that was me). I thought i'd never find him but I did.
And you WILL find that special girl. She's out there 💯
That's amazing to hear, thank you 🙏
@@JakPiggott Thank you man, keep doing what you’re doing👍🏾
Bro won THE jackpot
I’ve been on a bunch of dates but I’ve never been in a relationship. I haven’t met a girl who clicks with me but I’m not giving up hope. Besides, I’m still young lol I believe that it’ll happen when the time is right.
And my parents keep telling me I'm setting my standards too high
i stopped visiting my therapist and started watching bros videos
(edit: u guys its a joke i never had a therapist in the first place)
Based
Real
Are you sure that was the right move? Mental illness is incredibly damaging.
You still better seek professional support if you feel the struggle is overwhelming
@@iwawlvoyvoda5384 you're right, but if it works for him, let him do it
You aren't just "an 18 year old kid yappin". You are so much more. You're inspiration for at least a million people by this point, probably more, and have dedicated yourself to help improve other people's lives. We all love you and your content, and we all thank you for being this great person. Every man should aspire to be like you, and every woman should want someone as wholehearted as you. (I would never pass up an autograph from you).
Thank you my friend, honestly, this made my day 🤞❤️
The fact that I had this exact conversation with myself yesterday is both a little funny and encouraging.
That was me last night, too
@@Hyper_leopard same with me, I am 18 as well lol
😂😂
I have that exact conversation almost every single day 🤣😂😆😅😁😄😃😀🙂😐😕🙁😥😓😞
Hey Jak
I'm a 28 year old male, never been in a relationship because I have always been shy, introverted, have social anxiety and OCD . I would always worry if I would ever find a nice girl and would panic because others are in relationships and I start to think there might be something wrong with me. As soon as I watched this video, I felt a huge relief, knowing that there are others going through something similar.
I just wanted to say you are very inspirational and you're videos are helpful, we need more people like you in the world, you're one of a kind, we all need a good friend like yourself.
Greetings from Sydney, Australia.
God bless you.
Hey I'm 28 and everything you just told me feels like my own story.
@@Cylinderstruck Hey it's ok hang in there, I know it's sometimes heartbreaking, but stay strong :)
I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal and never had a girlfriend and only been on 1 first date many months ago at the age of 22 and then a month later hanged out with my female friend, hugged only 2 girls in person and still never had my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and in my University too had crush on this girl for 7 months who is also 23 now but 5 months ago got crush on another prettier girl(sadly she wasn't into me either but she was the 2nd girl I hugged in person) in the same University so my previous crush stopped talking to me and I miss her. I had a summer break from University for 3 months and today finally new semester started for us and I literally initiated conversation with 3 girls in my University who are MBA students too and within 21-23 age range and I had a long enough conversation with one of them who too was comfortable enough to talk to me but idk about my chances as I look like a nerd in my glasses and she is really pretty too.
But it was a big change and improvement for me as I had always been shy near girls and in my high school days I completely avoided talking with girls as I was bullied a lot in school and continued being shy further too in my undergrad and even in my MBA too few months ago, I was still shy to initiate conversation with girls and even though I could talk with my crushes, there was still some nervousness here and there but today I went out of my comfort zone and talked with not 1 not 2 but 3 girls. Thats only because I initiated conversation with 3 expat women in my city Bangalore and they were white Caucasian women (yes foreigners do come to Bangalore as expats as its one of the major metropolitan city of India and popular for its IT(tech). First one was a French woman with whom I talked near my University almost 5 months ago who was within 22-26 age range and the next was a German woman 2 months ago and then yesterday again I saw another white blonde lady who looked to be within 26-30 age range and probably from Germany or maybe some Scandinavian country too and I waved my hand at her as she was walking and smiled at her saying her Hi and she too waved her hand back at me with a bit of a smile but couldn't have a conversation as the cab that I booked had arrived but would love to meet her again. So yeah I am happy that finally I can talk with women now whether Indian or foreigner but sadly it took me 23 years to get rid of my shyness.
Here i thought I was only 18 yo who doesn't have a girl friend
@@manosijroy8282 iam also like you bro, do you think most indian guys are like us? And it's kinda normal here?
Simply focus on yourself first
true
That's it brother 🤞
FUCK WOMAN THIS IS A LONG LIFE BATTLE WITH OURSELVES
That's what I do. Women don't care so men shouldn't care too. As simple. 😂
Immediately reminded me of the NEFFEX- FOYF (focus on yourself first)
I dunno how many people here are Christian, but my pastor said this last week "Your first love must always be God. Everyone and everything can leave you, but God never will". If you aren't Christian, replace God with whoever you believe in, or even you. Love yourself first before giving partial control of your love to someone else.
That is so true god bless you brother!!
Fr, I go to a Catholic school and they are basically forcing god apon us, they say stuff like “love god over anyone else” and “god is the only one to trust”. Then they wonder why they have a bunch of depressed teenagers that have done this and had nothing happened. Having confidence and self love is an important part of living and should allways be put forward.
@@Tvxgo-3642 That's the point why you will never get my friend
That's true but God gave Adam Eve because he saw Adam was lonely
Loving God also means loving others@@Tvxgo-3642
The Minecraft soundtrack 💀, thanks dude
It is the one
yeah it gets into your deep soul
Had to change it up a lil bit 👊
Naw bro the Minecraft soundtrack is Goated af
Minecraft music is so good for stuff like this. What I have found is it works for is, serious stuff, philosophical talk, science, liminality, time and memories, and definitely more but I haven’t personally found them as videos.
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as a massive introvert myself, your videos are too relatable
I don’t really consider myself introvert but yet, I’m also relating so hard.
Nothing wrong with that 👊❤
@@horus6915same brah
sailing the same ship here 😌
Same.
42 year old truck driver here. Never dated or been married. Still saving myself for someone special. Emotional connection is very important. It's not just about getting a girlfriend. What about her personality? It's better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.
>42 year old
>Still saving myself for someone special
Bro you're dying alone admit it at this point
@@wolx3226dying alone is not fine when u donr have money. If he has money then i dont think it matters much
@@wolx3226 yeah, the guy with an anime girl pfp is talking down to others like he's surrounded by 🐈
Damn 42 and no one? You can forget a family if you wait longer.
Wow man really at 42? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, barely been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didn't get my first kiss. I had always been shy near girls in person due to lot of bullying in school and only recently I am socializing with girls in my University where I am studying MBA. I am talking with several girls now in my MBA who are all within 21-25 age range but so far our conversations had been short just limited to Hi and How are you. One girl recently in my MBA who is 22 even distanced herself saying she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore after talking with her in person for 10-11 days probably because I got way too attached to her and she got overwhelmed but idk and I was broken and sad for over 2 weeks about it.
Currently having the best conversations with another girl in my MBA who is also an introvert like me and 21 or 22 too but she said she doesn't have Instagram so we connected on LinkedIn which feels a bit unusual but our conversations has been more balanced so far and less one sided compared to with some of the other girls. I also said a pickup line recently to another girl (within 21-23 age range) who was my crush in previous semester and the 2nd girl I hugged and she did smile and thanked me but she is super pretty and she definitely doesn't seem to be into me.
Damn brother absolute truth. No one talks about it. I just want one girl for the whole life. I dont need nothing else in life.
Yeah me to
That's it man, same here ❤
That’s it man, you’ve explained it exactly :[
Most women have a different mindset. They want stability. Resources, constant entertainment, someone who could do the “dirty” job. Im telling you brothers, its physically and mentally draining
we share the same goals. It’s kinda pulling me down seeing everyone happy in a relationship when I’m not. I’m only 17 but everyone my age has a girlfriend for some reason.
Am 21 years old. So happy to my feed full of peers who haven't just given up.
Never dated. Never had a girlfriend. Was often made fun of for it in school. Introverted but can communicate. Meditating on thoughts over a cigar now and again. Reading. Reflecting on thoughts and ideas much similar to the ones many of us are giving eachother on this platform. It's very nice to see. We'll find someone someday. Our cake will be done, in time.
Keep on sharing the wisdom bro!
Holy fuck mate, me too, except the cigar part, for me, it's a cup of tea(or just a glass of cold water).
Damnn truu bro😊
No, Jak. It's not just you. I've been feeling this same thing as well. Thank you for putting this out there.
Gotchu man ❤
Same bro :/
As David Goggins once said "Every day I walk this earth and I see average all over the f***in place."
Yeah man, all we can do is focus on ourselves and hope our results speak for themselves and inspire others in the process ❤
Stay hard!
Well David is an idiot, because most people are well below "average"
You are younger than me bro but you are wiser. I follow you.
No such thing as wiser man, we all go through our own experiences and gain wisdom through that ❤
This is exactly what ive been mentally dealing with. It was not that bad at the start, but when it has become monts, it changed me. Everything has been changed, that even my younger self will not be able to recognise me. But it is nice to know at least im not lonely feeling this. Thank you bro❤❤
You aren't the only one man, never believe that you are ❤
your video’s genuinely make me feel less alone, and that’s a hard thing to find these days.
i applaud you
Much love man, you're never alone ❤
Its crazy that i was just thinking about it and opened youtube because of it, boom, this video popped out after i refreshed the page....youre an inspiration to me
Aye lets go bro, the universe works in wonderful ways 👊
i’ve been following you for 3 years and i need to thank you for making me feel like i’m not the only one going through this type of stuff. those vids make me feel like im not alone
You're a legend bro, thank you for your continuous support, I'm glad to hear you're doing better ❤
I had crush on one girl for over 1.5 year and when I finally told her what i felt about her she rejected me.
How did you know when was the right time to tell her
@@francescoalvarenga3986 It wasn't.
That's normal lol happens to me
Dude, a year and a half crush? You deserve a medal for bravery, not rejection! Her loss for sure. Imagine the amazing person out there who gets to date someone who's awesome enough to hold onto a crush that long Pizza and bad rom-coms on you tonight? Let's celebrate your freedom and find someone who deserves your awesomeness!
@@pankichal I have a crush on someone for around 9 months and she's popular and I am not and I am short
Just focus on yourself, build, decorate your garden, become the person you really wanna be, build social skills, and the one of your dreams will come
It’s super hard to believe ngl
@@horus6915 only if you don't believe in yourself
That's what it takes man, just three months of locking in can change everything
Nah im done wirh life. Im shooting myself before i turn 20 if im still single.
@GLEEFUS-u5b if you do it, you're not a man, you're a coward. You can't quit life because you're in your dark ages. Take action and do something about it instead of being submissive. There are people that care about you, and more to come. Give it time, and believe the best version of yourself can be, as hard as you can. If needs be, workout, change habits, learn new skills. You can't quit now brother. You still have a long road, filled with purpose
that cake analogy genuinely made me rethink everything
thank you so much dude
Gotchu brother ❤
Honestly your videos have changed my life and set me on a better path. Thank you so much for your advice.
Much love man, keep doing you ❤
I feel you my friend. The most valueble thing on Earth is when you love somebody, and that person loves you for your PERSONALITY. Not for ass, not for money, not for muscles, not for your fake personality.
Hi. I'm just gonna vent here.
Two years ago, due to a school project I had to interact and talk to a new person. I was new to this school. I realized that one of the people came in my bus. I had lots of fun talking with this person. She might be a girl, but was one of the best friends I had. We shared so many common interests like books and Social Science.
She was smart, and I was a little less smart. She was soooo fun to hang out with. I, for some reason made a policy that we should not talk outside the bus, as people would think that we were dating. I seriously didn't know she liked me, because I was an innocent little guy. I also made a very bad mistake once. She asked me what would I do if she liked me. I said I'd complain to the teacher. I know that i'm ugly, and I didn't know someone could like me. i think it was my personality.
Fast forward one year, and I hadn't made as good as a friend like her. We were at the point that we used to tell our crushes to each other. One random day, almost at the end of the semester, she stopped talking. I tried to ask her why we ain't friends anymore, and what I did wrong in the friendship, so I could improve. I feel it was partially due to me liking someone that she warned me about. Now when we got unfriended, I felt really sad, and for some reason made a decision to not make any more new close friends. Also thanks for ur 1300 dollar video. I will not hang out with those fuck*ng bitches in my class that make my life bad.
After some time, I realized from my friends that she liked me again and didn't want to insult herself again. Now I think about it, I kinda liked her too. We always used to joke around that her friend group was fake. It was not actually a joke, but it was true. They used to take advantage of her, and I felt really bad. In my sadness and angriness, I complained to her mom about what things she has done.
She used to tell me that i'm her best friend, and I really felt good. No one had called me their best friend in front of me. I feel like our relationship is healing, but it will never be like it was before.
One of my good friends from a grade lower is pretty nice. She is also friends with her, and the only times I communicate with her is when he is there too, and that too in sports period. We arent in the same class, and we got shuffled, so people from my class qwnt to her class. She is now spreading fake stuff about me too. I feel really bad.
I used to think that I knew alot about her, but im such a jerk. Just because she knows stuff about me doesn't mean i also know alot of stuff about her. Whenever I see her in the corridors, my heart starts pumping blood a little faster, as my brain flashes those two years of amazing friendshipness.
2 days ago, when it was our STEM period, I was on her floor, and she patted my back, and the next day i asked about it, she said she didn't. Is that a sign of something? I try to get the courage to say sorry everyday, but I never do it. I become scared. Please tell me something. Maybe a motivation. Fine. If this comment gets 2 likes, I'll do that, and make another comment describing the inccident.
bro forget her and move on and focus urself, this situation is damaged and cannot be repaired try to ge another girl or join any other club.
never let your self respect down it's the only thing a man upholds
@@chesstutorials64 You seem to be very unsure about this, and I fully understand why. If she really is spreading fake stuff about you while acting nice at the same time. Maybe, if you really like her, you should tell it to her one day. Or if you're still a little uncertain you could also wait some time until it "feels right" If she still acts weird when you tell her, then she likely isn't the one.
@@weatherx25 good take
I can't really help you with your situation since my social skills are very bad but I really want the best for you man, (i noticed your name) and I want to play a game of chess with you if you would like that,
Easy, just ask. If she deflects or says some other shit it's your answer right there to move on
I just gave up and stopped trying or thinking about it. No use beating yourself up over something that's out of reach anyway.
I don’t know if this helps but like my grandpa said "the good thing about being a loser is you can't get any lower you can only move forward". So f*ck it man, go for what you want, you'll lose a lot but you just gotta succeed once ❤.
@@galvinfalconThanks for calling me a loser, I really appreciate that
Also, realistically, I'm not losing out on much
@@assetto1360 sorry, I shouldn't have 😔
@@assetto1360 that's because you are a loser
I’m too ugly for a relationship. Bro is living life on easy mode
There is no such thing as ugly man - lets say you're a 2/10 - you start taking good care of yourself, you're at least 1 4, you get jacked, you're at least a 6, you get some money, you're at least a 7. Don't hold yourself to that identity man
jak ive been addicted to corn for a while now and i stopped for like 2 weeks and started again and i need help so can u help?@@JakPiggott
Quitters are the people that never accomplish anything. Don’t be that guy man. I believe in you
My issue isn’t just that I’m really ugly (3/10 by many), it’s also that I’m always the nice guy so others use me but never look at me as anything more than a resource or a friend at the most.
@@VSGCjaye same here I’m an easy 4/10 despite working out
He’s our older brother. Good advice, Jackie. Good advice.
Never had someone call me that but thank you man 😂
Dont worry bro. Just keep doing what your doing. We know your on the right path ❤
That's it bro, much love ❤
this is one of the last good youtubers he inspires people and interacts with his fans keep going man you are amazing
Much love brother, there's plenty of good guys out there, it's just hard to tell on social media...
Bro, your thoughts are like me. Love you from Iran
It is interesting seeing people like you
peace and humanity
Ive been struggling with this concept for a bit recently. Thanks for making this video Jak!
No worries ❤
Thank you for your message Jak. I’m also a young man in his early 20’s who struggles with having the initiative to ask girls out or to start dating. You’re quite relatable and there’s more people like us in this world than most people want to admit. You’re also wiser than most people who are a few years older than you and certainly 18 year olds. You’ll find her one day. She’s out there.
Man as a teen you’re always on this emotional roller coaster and the hardest emotion to get over is love, that craving you get to share a connection with someone. What i have learned or my side of the spectrum its not worth it to stress yourself over these things the right women will come and you will know it. My favorite quote goes like this: “Good things come to the people who wait”
Much love 👊❤
That's true best outcomes come from patience.
Facts man, it's a normal, regular human emotion, and we must accept that ❤
I like this comment, it gives hope and I'm 32 not even a teen, thank you so much
never seen somebody explain cake in such a therapeutic way. amazing video bro
Haha much love man ❤
Ngl, it really hit me when I watched this because I can completely relate and understand where you coming from . Trust me your not alone
This video really spoke to me. Loneliness has been my main negative emotion for literal months. Thanks man, I didn’t know that other people experience this too
You're never alone brother, glad this video brought some light ❤
That cake analogy was realy good, props to coming up with that and explaining it so well!
Haha thank you I just thought of it on the spot 😂
I'm 27, never talked or touched by a woman, never got a hug. I've lost all hopes and now I moved on and I've accepted the fact that I'll die alone
Visit during 5 days in the philipines, you will thank me later.
@@michalthekind thank you for being so uplifting
Stop giving a fuck and putting women on such a pedestal believe in yourself , they ain’t all that , I can do without sex , you’re not missing out. Most will eventually leave you for another guy anyway..
@@siroliver8367 yeah, as long as you have money. those girls don't look for love. don't be like kind of dude who can't get laid and go to 3rd world country because the women in their country don't like them, it's just makes you huge loser.
@@siroliver8367But they're not good to form a family with
Thank you Jak. thanks for making feel like I'm not alone with being a vergin, wanting the perfect girl, being different, being introverted, and trying to be happy and improve myself for that girl. Really needed this.
As long as you wake up each morning, do what's right, and let the results speak for themselves there is no reason everything won't work out ❤
That's a lovely video.
Self construction is the foundation, and right now a relationship has a high possibility of hindering that. thanks Jak
100% bro, much love ❤
I’m 22 and I watch and I’m inspired by this young man’s content. Keep it up bro we will all make it
You are not just an 18 year old yapping, bro. You are the big brother everyone needs and thats a fact
this guy is here when i need him the most
I'm glad I can finaly relate on someone here on youtube, you seems to think exactly the same way I do... I'm 17 and a massive introvert and I really thank you for this message :) keep going with this amazing content and have a nice day.
You're never alone ❤
Same here man I'm 17 & This is exactly how I feel
Never in my life would I believe someone younger than me gives better advice than any adult I've seen on the internet.
Thank you bro, but there is no such thing as the "best advice" it all depends on your situation and experiences 👊
@JakPiggott keep it up man, I pray for your success.
Im also an introvert who's 1.80m and training, and gived up on dating, im not bothering anymore honestly because i did it its a good thing now i focused on myself and my hobbies
In romania you won't be able to get a gf unless you either do drugs, clubbing and tons of alcohol, smokin' having a fast car... shortly Gold Diggers...
Bro I read the title and it is exactly what I’m thinking. You are amazing man
Your a great man.
Im 34 , ive always feared something is wrong with me. Cause i cant cut it with females , ive come to realise i dont have anything in common with females and thats scary. That has caused depression and anxiety.
Thanks for ur help .
Ur a good heart so admirable.
u have the best videos that helped me get through some of the hardest times of my life thank you so much for being such a great guy and i hope you go far in life
bro i needed this video to cheer me up and know im not alone in the situation im in rn thanks for making my day better. i’ve never had a gf before and i’ve only had one failed talking stage which left me depressed and im only a 9th grader. To make things worse im pretty fat and i get bullied every day at school for it which makes me depressed. i’ve been working on myself to make a better version of myself since i’ve started to watch your videos, thanks so much.
The reason why I have not had a date before is because the dating community has become as toxic and petty as the toxic gym culture has now become; probably even more toxic than that of the gym culture. If anything else, I’ve grown up with a lot of bullying, whether it be direct bullying like name calling or covert bullying like ostracism, even been bullied at hang outs with the name calling, I stopped caring to hang out with peers because the toxicity was exasperating. Also, I don’t know how healthy I can make the relationship if I got a relationship, because not only have I been bullied too often but I’ve also been forcefully exposed to my Mom’s venting even when I didn’t want to hear it she made me listen and got upset and angry so often at life and everyone even when she didn’t need to. There was constant arguing with everyone in my family as well. I never had a break. I always played video games to distract my mind from the chaos.
With this all being said, I’ve got so much trauma from so much of the chaos due to everything I mentioned above, and now with my Mom having passed away it’s been harder, especially due to my Dad having now dated another woman who was far far worse than my Mom ever was, which other woman whom I hope he never goes back to!
Long story short, I have SO MUCH trauma that I can’t even keep conversations upbeat most of the time. Having had too much trauma, my mind now been polluted with the idea that life in general is not happy but is a living hell, which “pollution” I’m trying to fix. The more trauma I go through though, the harder it is for my mind to heal and to feel optimism. It’s made me frustrated and angry. Due to all of this, I’m not sure I can even have a relationship one day. It would cause problems, unless she teaches me how to fix myself or I learn from other sources on how to fix myself. If I don’t fix it, it could destroy everything in the relationship.
You’re not in my shoes and won’t be unless you remain a never-kissed virgin even up to 30 years of age. I had to deal with a lot of drama at home, and nonstop bullying at school. I may have survived from suicidal ideation, but my mind is still worn out.
im sorry to hear that brother. Just trust the flow and thr time will come(p.s not all woman are the same so focus on someone who is interested and is essy to open a relationship and on urself). U got this❤
No one Is gonna fix u , u have fix urself first
Awesome video man, much appreciated
Much love Tristan ❤️
You are 100% Jak. Its not like you are 80% yourself and you need a girl to fill you blah blah blah. You are 100% Jak and you dont need gf to be happy. Gf is a help in life but its just a human
That's it bro 👊
Man I got rejected last Wednesday and yeah it hit me pretty hard. The girl used me and I thought she was a good person. I respect her decision and yeah I'm gonna move on.
You have a great attitude man, not many guys act like you did, many crash tf out. That shows a lot about your character, give yourself some credit if you haven't already ❤
Read about redpill
Don’t worry, bro we got you, you got us, we will walk with you on this journey. Everything will be fine :)
We all got each other brother 🤞
:) Btw I’m surprised that you had the time to reply to so many comments. Idk if you read this, but have a great day!! 👊👊
@@iliyangeorgiev9552 I thought so, even his writings differ from each other according to the context of the comments being discussed.
@@Digmapratama fr, he’s awesome :)
Im not the kind of person who usually comments in videos but I just found your channel and it hits hard. I’ve never had a real life girlfriend, I used to be too shy but with the years I’ve been improving myself but no matter how much I improved I keep feeling not good enough… I feel related with the thing you said about finding the woman of your dreams, a girl who will shares the same values as you. I found her online, we started a long distance relationship and after 9 months she just ghosted. I guess I’ll fill my void doing other things.
Thanks for your advices mate
Thanks Jak you're our older brother
Gotchu my man ❤
to day i discovered a hidden gem in the youtube , keep going bro
3:16 😂so cute
For anyone that needs it, (coz I sure do 😅)
*One day you'll find someone that chooses you and continues to choose you everyday, and that's when you'll be thankful everything happened the way it did.*
Haha yeah I think I was 9 or 10 in that picture 😂
100%, choose someone who chooses you 💯
Some people are just rude man. Don't let them stop you jak your helping a lot of people🎉
U can't fill a void remember thats why its called The VOID
Facts bro
Bro these videos are actually so helpful for me
Ive watched you for a long time, but damn this is the best music ive ever heard in a very long time
Haha I had to change it up a lil bit, still minecraft music though 😂
Incredible video Jak.
I really resonate with this video because I am in the EXACT SITUATION AS YOU. We have the same goals when it comes to women. We are very alike with our outlook on people and personalities. I'm an introvert and I am similar age to you.
I feel you bro, i am also a massive introvert and want to fill some kind of void within myself. Have been looking for a girlfriend for some time but, i came nowhere near attracting a girl. Now i’ve accepted it and focusing on myself. I idolize you my man, keep up the good work.
Keep your head up brother and stay patient ❤️
Only God Jesus can fill that void bc he put it in every human so we would search Him🙏🏼✝️
Ai girlfriends and maybe escorts. Dont feel bad man
I feel the same way bud. I probably never will but I hope you will! Great videos guy.
This came at the right time
🤝❤
honestly, you would be an amazing friend to have and talk to about more sensitive things. being honest is so much better than trying to hide your feelings to not get called weak or other things just for sharing some things. wish there would be more like you in the world.
There's a lot of people like us out in the world, most of them just aren't on social media and don't live in the countries we do 😂
@Jak Piggot please don't rush. If you rush the process, if you force it, you will be unsatisfied due to lust. Remember, lust is not love, and love is not lust.
100% man, I needed this reminder to be honest ❤
But if that’s the case, why are other people our age dating and being happy? I just want to be happy, guys like us ALL want to be happy
Dear brother, what's your definition of happiness? There's the ephemeral/temporal and not real happiness, and the real one that's constant. If you are moved by lust, you will not be happy, but if you are moved by real love you will be satisfied. Here's the definition of real love by the bible: 1 Corinthians 13 1
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
Advice for not falling into lust (By Jesus)
Matthew 5:28
28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
@@gaitanexpress3971 my definition of happy? I just want to have a good life like my schoolmates who have girlfriends and are in relationships rather than sitting alone by myself treated like a stranger on campus. All of this loneliness is just stupid, dull, revolting. And I want out.
@@cedy413 Dear brother, 80% of nowadays relationships are just lust. You will be unsatisfied if you are in a lustful relationship. God has you in an isolation season because he's preparing you for a true love story. Thank God for that. because you are special, you are different from others.
just had a breakup gents🙏🏽
ran straight to Jak and i am feeling so much better
It'll all work out brother, and I want you to trust that, use this a fuel to become the man she regrets leaving, that's all you can do now, success and happiness are the best revenge ❤
@@JakPiggottI just want to say I agree you couldn’t be more right love the content dude 😊❤
I'm glad you're so transparent bc no one else seems to mention this. good to know i'm not the only one
Loves your videos bud, keep moving, a million is coming
Will do man, trust the process 🤝❤
Dang man. I didn't even know how much I needed this video. As someone who is only I few months younger than you I find myself is the same place quite often
Hey bro, thanks for this video, my life is going REALLY bad and sometimes i find myself without hope to keep moving because nothing works for me, i keep trying to improve myself but somehow i always keep coming back to zero, and not having a girlfriend and just a few friends makes this feel even harder, i am introvert and sometimes very shy, my family doesn't like my personality and all of this mess up my head, this video brought me hope again because i feel that in the future if i keep trying, things will get better, thank you, love from Brazil dude 🇧🇷🙏
I’m glad this video was valuable for you my man, stay patient and just get 1% better everyday, learn from every single failure and your success will be inevitable 👊❤️
Man, I feel you 100%. It really sounds like you just described my life. Just keep going… that’s my best advice. I’ve realized that no matter how crappy today is, tomorrow will still come. Might as well keep pushing…
@@VSGCjaye thanks bro, sometimes i think i'm going through the worst time of my life, hope life gets better one day... I'm trying my best everyday
My most favourite RUclipsr
Keep it up brother, your content is always amazing
I can relate to this. I'm 23 and haven’t been in a relationship. I've always wanted to be with the girl of my dreams. I guess I'm not that happy with my life, but I'm happy that I graduated college and was able to make money working. What makes me feel better the most is listening to my favorite music.
You just earned yourself a subscriber brother............. I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship before although I've had feeling of loneliness in my life dark stormy days but I've come to the reality that no one is coming to save my ass.....i am my own hero and once i get to the top women will become an added bonus🎉🎉
I’m 25 now and it feels like im getting to a point where it’s getting too late. Its so hard to find someone man, and all the good women are taken. If in the 1/10,000 chance I find someone, there’s another rare chance she’ll even like me back at all
I am 28 and feel it's too late. I hope we can find happiness eventually
@@Matty12333I’m a 31 year old virgin who lives with his parents. We are ultra fucked.
I like how the things he talks about, are things he's actually gone through, keep spreading the word man ❤❤
Not going to live long. Maybe next life will be a bit easy on me. Struggling from diseases since childhood, had a major accident. I am tired, love is not for me, wishing good luck to all the bros. signing out
See you in the afterlife, brotha. At least you won't be the only one hoping to get reincarnated alone
Damn. Im never gonna complain again.
Me alos😢
I'd never think that the person i would relate to the most is an Australian RUclipsr. But it just shows you how universal & normal these experiences are. Keep up the good work Jak!
This hit hard. I've never had anyone who has accepted me, friends or girlfriend. Simply I am the outcast at school and anywhere else. My "friends" always mock me at school. You may think "Then get new friends" Huh.. Imagine how hard that would be when NO ONE accepts you. I am to the point where I am in depression due to having basically no true friends, no hope for anything. Im simply seen as a nerd, because since I have barely any friends, I spend more time focusing on grades, currently Valedictorian. Me, at age 16, am so ready to have someone. I am extremely introverted, I have ADHD and likely ASD (Show multiple signs of it but parents are unsupportive of a assessment). All of these make it really difficult to even be somewhat normal, not even knowing what normal is anymore. But I really hope I do meet that one girl one day. I look forward to it..
You’re still so young brother, don’t put so much pressure on yourself. You will learn and develop as quick as the rest of us as long as you wake up every single day and just get 1% better than you were yesterday. Be yourself, respect everybody, I am an outcast at school as well, and there is nothing wrong with that. Let your friends mock you, just use that as fuel towards your ambition.
All these other guys will peak in high school, you’ll peak in life ❤️
@@JakPiggott One question. How do you always find the positive in everything..? I need to learn how to do that
3 years younger but except ADHD and stuff. Man why is this so relatable
I followed your advice and succeeded. This man is my daily motivation.
Though your videos are mainly targeted to a male audience, as a girl entering year ten, I find your content immensely valuable. You inspire me to work harder on improving myself physically and spiritually, and to higher my standards to find a partner in the future who values my beliefs and opinions
This is amazing to hear, thank you for your words 🙏
Thank you for posting this. I agree that people seem to veer away from an honest “Sometimes being single is rough, because loneliness isn’t fun.”
It’s been difficult being a romantic who’s never been liked back “in that way.” But a few things that have helped me through my 37 years:
- I can’t be a healthy partner of whomever if I’m dead before we meet; I MUST prioritize my mental health.
- I can’t have a healthy relationship with a partner if I’m expecting them to “complete me”/“fix me”/whatever. I HAVE TO prioritize my mental health!!!
- There are ways that people hurt that I know I can’t fix/solve/etc. I can be there for them, but there are some things I as a finite being cannot do. What kind of asshole would I be if I had expectations for someone to do for me what I can’t do for someone else? I have to remember that if I find someone, some of the ways I can respect them is to honor their limits and do what I can so we can learn about each other. (Our needs, wants, how to best support each other, etc.)
- My dad loved my mom (RIP) very much, but he saw SOOO many unhealthy relationships throughout his life. When I expressed feeling pessimistic and lonely, he’d always remind me “The only thing worse than being single and lonely is being married and lonely.”
37 and you never found someone?? Oh my god, I cant live that long like this
King.
Freaking king.
Thanks man.
This is what I do instead of therapy
Haha thanks my man, much love ❤
@@JakPiggott 🫡❤️
I feel so lonely sometimes and wish I could branch out and get friends or a boyfriend, but I always feel like there’s a barrier between me and others, and I go back to being recluse. You really inspired me to just look within, and try to surround myself with people who share my values. Thank you!
🤧🤧That is tooo much of nostalgia bro that backgrounf Minecraft music.🥰
Haha I had to use it 😂
this dude singlehandedly keeps all of my aspirations as a human being alive
Thnx God I found this channel ! Man your videos are helping me too much ❤❤
Means the word hearing this bro ❤️
Bro just said out loud what every single man thinks ! Thanks bro!! Take care of yourself, you will find a woman that loves you for what you are!
I've been attached to a girl since 2022 who I've never talked with and doesn't like me either it was just a huge ass crush. I tried many things to make her like me but nothing worked out. We doesn't share many interests and I knew this would never workout but I've been thinking about her and wasted 2 years of my life. U Jak helped me go through this phase. Thanks u so much Jak( sorry for bad English and I yapped a lot😅)
Bro u can find your soulmate just in 2 hour , like if she share values like u or not otherwise it's not gonna end well
@@U_never_know_who_iam... Nice pfp