Next time, when you feel awkward or fear rejection, remember that in the grand scheme of things, none of these interactions matter. Embrace the absurdity and let social anxiety fade away.
I thought the same thing one day and now I never feel scared of anything. People really need to realise that most things you think matter really just don't. So if you embarrass yourself what's the big deal? You're still alive and well so why care so much if you messed up once?
@DirectorDelta damn, you got a point, instead of being yourself you are forcing yourself to be someone you’re not. Basically comparing yourself to the better, more confident version of yourself that doesn’t exist
Some of the things you mention really click with the stuff I have been reading in the e-book called Mastering The First Impression: The Path To Seven Dates A Month. Honestly, I was always struggling on how to be myself and be successful with women, but after applying tips writer mentions in there, people started noticing and respecting me much more, especially women.
Im 18, as you are, and you are very mature for our age, it's really hard finding someone who speaks like you in any kind of age gap, let alone ours, Keep going mate
I'm 18 too and I feel like this guy makes his points really clear and he talks in a really easy going and calm tone and I wish we could have more people our age that are mature like him
I've never able to talk to anyone very well. Thanks for the tips, you advice is great! My most embarrassing conversation start was: "Have you seen any of the one foot crows?"
@@JakPiggott so my crush likes my best friend, I've known him for 9 years, but my crush is really sweet and I like her, also my BFF doesn't like her. So how do I put attention on myself without it making it obvious?
The part about talking for a conversation rather than purely for validation is so powerful. Changing your mindset and shifting your focus in what you do and why really is the key to understanding yourself and building confidence. Much love Jak and to the rest of the community ❤
Yeah it’s a game changer bro, perspective is everything. I learnt that from sport, the more nervous I was the worse I’d play. And when I shifted my perspective from having to play well to just having fun I ended up playing better, crazy
Hi, I’m 15 and I don’t know why I’m watching your videos. I am confortable socially, I have a good self-confidence, a nice lifestyle, no addictions to corn or social media. But there is someting that makes me feel good when I watch them, I don’t know why and how, but something that I like. Anyway, thanks for what you do for all the people who need it !
I consider myself to be a great communicator, so there wasnt any need to watch this video. But your videos are like a bird singing in a storm, making the environment even more beautiful. Thank you so, so much. I always come to your channel when I'm sad, and will continue to do so!!
One thing that i have learned when trying to approach women is that the more you do it the more uncomfortable you get overtime the fear of embarrassment goes away. You never learn if you stay in you’re comfort zone. Much love Jak love the content 👊❤️
@@emma6648a prize? Who said that. And this video is for all genders. Don't act like women don't do this either. One bad apple doesn't ruin the bunch. They didn't objectify women anywhere in their comment. It's sad that your here and commenting these bad takes on this video.
@@emma6648it’s not that there valuing you as a prize we have to practice because of our anxiety and we get nervous too. Think of it like there so special to us that we want to have the best possible conversation with them that we can.
🚨TO ALL GUYS🚨 approach the girl you like, talk to her 9/10 if you like girl and she seems nice she will not be rude to you. Trust me gurks respect it when you come up to them to make the move, we are lften in postitons where we are forced to make the first move bc you lot are too scared. Don’nt be shy! If you like a girl and she seems like anjuce person try strike a conversation with her. Even if we don’t like you back we won’t be rude about it. But be careful because there are some mean girls but if you think you are a good person just go for it!
As a person of the woman population, it would flatter me if some guy came up to me and started talking to me. I have some guy friends but they don't talk to me much. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
The fact that you get on RUclips, spend your time editing, putting work in to it, just to help people out here that needs it without seeking reward is amazing. Thank you bro.
Dude.... your tip at 7:45 or so changed my mind set a lot. I'm hell bent on talking to a girl at my school, but I want to take my time, but my friends act like it's the last time I'll see her for years. I felt this way already, but hearing it come from someone I know I can trust like you definitely confirmed it. Appreciate the content bro, keep it up!
Ye I talked to this girl for a couple months and we would call and stuff and it felt obvious like she liked me, and my friends kept telling me “ye dude she likes you ask her out” and I didn’t even really want a relationship at the time but I still asked her under pressure, and she friendzoned me. For some reason I still haven’t properly gotten over it possibly because I keep telling myself that she still likes me
Hey jak I just wanted to say that your videos and they have helped me feel more comfortable in every way, I've also started my own youtube channel and I'm trying really hard to fulfill my dream of playing professional basketball in either the NBL or NBA jak your a great man the greatest self improvement youtuber I've ever watched keep it up❤
Honestly loved the video. Also a good tip that I have learned is that as a man we should have experience being a friend with a girl before we try to date her. For example I know a guy that was only a friend with one girl and he married her. But that was the worst decision of his life because he only found out after they got married that she was mean and not kind to him. So all men reading this, please try to be a friend with a female. No matter if you have a crush on her or not, just do it so that you can have the experience of a relationship with a girl. My humble advice - Nai
@@NaiFarangit depends, if you're talking about a minor then 2 years is good but if it's someone above the age of consent of your country then there's no limit
I think it really depends first on when you meet them and how old yall are at the time, and second how many years apart you are. My parents are 10 years apart, and that sounds bad but they met at 21 and 31 got married and had kids. My 7th grade teacher was 11 years apart with her husband and 2 teachers at my primary school got married even though they mightve been 12+ years.
as soon as i realised what youre trying to say, my mind immediately clicked. this is probably the best advice ive heard from anyone, and even sounds fucking fun. ty for the idea g
I talked to a girl I liked a few months ago and actually got her number, what’s crazy is the interaction was nothing like what I had imagined in my head and was a lot smoother and faster than my anxiety was telling me it would. She turned out to be lesbian but I’m still glad I took my shot :)
This is really helpful advice. I will be starting school in like 2 months and it will be a completely different school where i can meet all kinds of new people to talk to!
You’re a great person! You weren’t only focusing on helping guys but also girls. That shows a lot of character. Thanks for the inspiration. Sadly I haven’t really liked a girl since I was a kid. Whenever I like a girl I get super competitive so I know I haven’t.
Thank you jak piggott, i have finally made up my confidence to ask a girl out. Today has been the day i have felt love in many years. this all happened yesterday when i was in a cruise ship for the first time in my life, best 2 days i have ever lived since, Thank you.
I genuinely love this guy. He gives advice on how to talk properly, how to live life, etc. Share your wisdom. Don't hold back and keep making the damn vids. ❤❤
you didnt fail.... you won. you were the best in someones eyes. thats a good relationship. you may not be in a love relationship but a relationship that you can trust in with good foundations nonetheless. Happy for you brother.
just don't stop now. dont take a break from "women". go on and go for other girls. Be casual in the art of pulling girls. even if u arent, its just a way to convince urself u can actually do better. And trust me brother u really can
Man. I love how genuine you are. Been hooked on your content since November, when I completed NNN, and actually started to turn my life around. You’ve been there with me. I love you so much for that. Thank you brother
honestly Jak, Ive been watching your videos for the past few weeks and in these past few weeks youve helped me so much in life and its crazy how watching someone online talk about his past and present can change the life of someone else.In the past few days ive been talking to a girl and now im way more comfortable while talking to women because of your videos and she setup a date with me because im the most comfortable guy shes ever talked to.Thank you so much for these videos and ill keep watching these videos❤
This really give a good idea on how conversations go, how to create them, and how they form naturally. I’m an extrovert but I have a guy friend who is sort of an introvert. He can’t really start convos, but every once in a while, I talk to him and say things such as, “ask me something” or “wait, you did _(something part of that he said)_? How’d that go?” (To expand conversation) And I think he’s gaining confidence from starting more and more convos. (Not just with me, but with other people too!) Thank you so much for making these types of videos, Jak!
I'm a 13 yrs girl , been following you since last year & that is the best thing i ever did ! You are really inspiring and the content you make as an influencer , is something i can never find in the internet. I wish everyone to be as mature as you are . Thank for being such a nice , understanding mature person , your impact is appreciated. Keep shining keep teaching ❤
I do love your speech and advice. You are such a cool and down-to-earth dude. I am proud of you and I am grateful for RUclips recommending your channel to me weeks or months ago. Godspeed Jak Piggott.
As a woman I have to thank you immensely, you’re out here giving genuine advice for self-improvement and wellbeing for young men, not the unrealistic and misogynistic nonsense that Tate spews like Venom to vulnerable people, thank you for your kind words
Listened to this video. And now I talk to her with ease. Thank you bro. I am so conversation awkward but now I feel so much better and found something in common with her.
Words can’t explain how much I enjoy watching your videos. Every video you post I either learn something new, or it’s affirming my current beliefs, it’s really refreshing to watch you. God bless, keep up the great work brother👏👏
as someone who has autism, it was super insightful hearing these simple reminders of ways of socialization conversation, I will make sure to continue to keep learning more from you.
watching these videos made me realize i am an extremely lucky person, i've watched so many of your videos and i could not relate to one thing in them other than the age group it was directed to, however i still feel compelled to watch them, thanks Jak for entertaining me and teaching others
My man really opened my eyes, even though I've been through at least 9 rejections, I never cared for it, and I took that opportunity to become a better me, Jak, you really helped me understand what I've been doing better, thanks
I know that my parents and teachers and adult figures in my life tell me this, but it is much nicer to hear it from you, someone who has (excuse my choice of words if they bring up trauma) been through that experience recently, or is just fresh of coming out of those times, it is much easier to listen to. Thanks bro for the support, it means a lot.
Mainly because my school says I have undiagnosed autism, or I show very prominent autistic signs, I am very socially awkward. I dislike talking to people because it makes me very nervous, so thanks again for helping my self-esteem and confidence.
Hey brother, i've wanted to tell you that a few weeks ago, i was praying to God for fuel to finally get in shape. Im 14 currently, and i recently fell in love with a girl. You'r videos also started showing up, which they never did. You inspired me to finnaly commit to the "grind" and loose my fat, and then tell her once i am fit. Keep making these relationship videos brother, you're changing me.
its the summer and im just browsin, and while I'm supposed to be doing math I just watch this. I usually watch vids at 2x speed bc my attention span is trash(I try to self justify it by saying there's better things to do with my time) but this is the first vid I watched fully 1x speed bc u just got it bro. u actually know wat ur talking about, and you know how to help ppl. keep it up man!
You should do a video on how to talk to girls you like, like in your year at school or something when you talk to everyone but are nervous when it comes to the future and what might happen, but in the end nothing bad will, so how do you get over that and speak???? That's probably the biggest question, 'why'. Btw you're quite inspirational, soo keep it up, you're making peoples days
Bro I needed this, I had to ask a girl to do a job (we're both volunteers at the church and we were short one person and I couldn't do it), purely business, not interested in her at all. I had to take like 2 whole minutes by myself to prepare for ONE SIMPLE QUESTION. I'm not like that with the guys. Women are scary, I dunno how to talk to them unless I know them well
I was a missionary for my church for two years. We would walk up to random people and start conversations with them in any and every situation. One fun thing we would do is play the "bolder game". We had to one-up the other person in how boldly we introduced ourselves and talked with people. It was amazingly effective because it made talking with people a game, refocused your energy away from fears, made your communication clear, and softened the blow of rejection. You could look like a creep if you go 100% on this game with approaching girls, but it could be effective, especially if you are shy and struggle to talk with them.
If we were ever around lots of young people our age, we would often find the cutest girl there, walk up to the and ask, "Have you ever met my friend Elder ________?" It was then fun to watch your friend try and talk with them without blushing or stammering. Or they would pull it on you, and you had to talk with them. 😂 As missionaries, we weren't allowed to flirt, date, or have any non-professional relationship with girls, but it was mind-blowing how many were still interested in us simply because we were bold enough to approach and talk with them. This has been a word salad, but I'm reliving so many good memories writing this!
This video speaks volumes! Was the exact same until I started pushing myself to practice small conversations with people I just so happen to be meet at the shops, waiter at resturant etc. These small conversations are kinda like training wheels since its usually has a topic already, but it helps so much. Great video Jak!
Great video! I’ve been looking for a video like this just to relieve stress and point me in the right direction. Thank you Jak, God be with you brother.
As a girl, I know I'm not generally your target audience for most of the videos you create. However, I find your channel/yourself to be so genuine with your honesty and ability to communicate so respectfully yet directly. Your channel is so informative. Thanks for taking the time to create the content and vibe that you do. 👏
Thank you for this message! Believe it or not I actually tried this on a former crush, but there were other factors as well, and nothing happened. I was young, and had more to learn (I still do and always will, but that's the whole point of life). But, in my personal experience, I think you should not only become a better you, but actually embrace the time when you are alone. Romance shouldn't be the focus in life, it should be a byproduct of the life you are living, and the man you are becoming.💪
Yo this is actually super cool, my girlfriend cheated with me and I confronted her about it and she kept beating around the bush. It really sucked and my friend got broken up with too. I’m looking for someone to fill her place. I appreciate this greatly Jak.
Thank you so much! Your videos make me a better person and make me happier. Ive come such a long way because of these videos! Cant appreciate you enough!
i think this is a really good way to start off, my problen tbh isnt about talking to a girl ive talked to plenty in the past (not as attraction just as normal convos), but my problem is the girls i usually see around me either has this genz/alpha kind of appearance, im not picky when it comes to finding attraction i just need a normal one atleast..
As a just turned 18 year old, I really hope you never stop making content. You are a motivational and inspirational person with so many valuable lessons to give. Thank you for all you content 👌❤️
Hey jack, ive been watching your vids for a while. (2 per day), and all i have to say is thank you, you really have helped me get better in life and live a life i wanted, this video really helped me because im only 13, but theres this girl that just drags my attention, just because how nice and caring she is. This video helped because it helped me communitcate with her better and now we are currently dating, so thank you and keep up the good work, ill see ya in the next one bro.
My friend once went up to a girl and forced a conversation, she replied twice and walked away. I really did feel bad for him, but like you said, you need human connection, not just validation
being cringe on purpose is actually so fun. me and my friends will scream in the hallways and laugh really loud and ppl give us weird looks, but its actually really fun.
I Am alright at talking with woman bring up funny things you’ve done, challenge them, and make a inside joke it builds so much confidence and character
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Next time, when you feel awkward or fear rejection, remember that in the grand scheme of things, none of these interactions matter. Embrace the absurdity and let social anxiety fade away.
100%, should have mentioned this in the video to be honest, we’re all gonna be dead one day so who really cares 😂
I thought the same thing one day and now I never feel scared of anything. People really need to realise that most things you think matter really just don't. So if you embarrass yourself what's the big deal? You're still alive and well so why care so much if you messed up once?
Idky but this seems easier said than done (no offense) but when you try it out irl it's just that most people still hesitate.......
I actually commented NGAFAD on one of your videos before, this stands for „Nobody gives a fuck all die.” Try it, good shit.
I mean, we'll die and be in heaven together one day, so yeah, I'm gonna be a little worried, because in the grand scheme of things, God's in control
Getting used to failure and being rejected is the gateway to fearlessness and therefore winning
100% bro, it’s the same in life as well, not just with dating 👊
@@JakPiggott yeah I meant that in every aspect of life 😁
It's not that I'm afraid of rejection, it's that I dont want to want them and yet I still do 😭
@@SebbyDoesStuff same
@@JakPiggottHow can I tell her that I like her? That’s just the one part that I’m so stuck on
This dude is probably the realest person you’ll ever see online lol. Everyone is fake as hell online
@DirectorDelta damn, you got a point, instead of being yourself you are forcing yourself to be someone you’re not. Basically comparing yourself to the better, more confident version of yourself that doesn’t exist
for real. and in sucks.
because almost nobody likes their real self its kinda sad
True
So real
Thanks Jak,I was able to talk to my crush and ask her out.She said yes!
W man! Good luck with her!
W's lmao
W bruh
Yes sir, this man. This man is the chosen one.
W mans
Some of the things you mention really click with the stuff I have been reading in the e-book called Mastering The First Impression: The Path To Seven Dates A Month. Honestly, I was always struggling on how to be myself and be successful with women, but after applying tips writer mentions in there, people started noticing and respecting me much more, especially women.
Every single time this guy uploads a new video, my heart feels so warm.
❤❤facts he is a life saver
🤝❤️
Im 18, as you are, and you are very mature for our age, it's really hard finding someone who speaks like you in any kind of age gap, let alone ours,
Keep going mate
Damn I’m 19, hes more mature than me
Thank you my brother, words like this mean for to me than you think 🤞❤️
@@JakPiggott 🫶
I'm 18 too and I feel like this guy makes his points really clear and he talks in a really easy going and calm tone and I wish we could have more people our age that are mature like him
18 year old community💪🏼💪🏼
I've never able to talk to anyone very well. Thanks for the tips, you advice is great! My most embarrassing conversation start was: "Have you seen any of the one foot crows?"
Whats even a one foot crow
@@Sonicwavejumpscaresa crow with one foot
We are interested tell us about one foot crows.
Yes.
@@elizadion4410agreed
0:15 Jak tryna date the local neighborhood cats be like:
Haha yessir you know me 👊
HOW DARE YOU DATE CATS?!?!?!?!?@@JakPiggott
Without me?😏🤙
@@BlaxkEdits damn he left both of us
huhhh??
@@JakPiggott so my crush likes my best friend, I've known him for 9 years, but my crush is really sweet and I like her, also my BFF doesn't like her. So how do I put attention on myself without it making it obvious?
This had surprisingly interesting timing for me
So damn real
Same dude
Why?
Same
I've prayed to not be as awkward in conversations recently
The part about talking for a conversation rather than purely for validation is so powerful. Changing your mindset and shifting your focus in what you do and why really is the key to understanding yourself and building confidence.
Much love Jak and to the rest of the community ❤
Yeah it’s a game changer bro, perspective is everything. I learnt that from sport, the more nervous I was the worse I’d play. And when I shifted my perspective from having to play well to just having fun I ended up playing better, crazy
@@JakPiggott That's pretty awesome, I'm so happy for you 😊
This guy really changed my life I wouldn’t be here without you I would have no girlfriend no job or more thank you I hope you have a amazing day
Don’t give me to much credit man, give yourself the most, you’re the reason you are where you are ❤️
Hi, I’m 15 and I don’t know why I’m watching your videos. I am confortable socially, I have a good self-confidence, a nice lifestyle, no addictions to corn or social media. But there is someting that makes me feel good when I watch them, I don’t know why and how, but something that I like. Anyway, thanks for what you do for all the people who need it !
I consider myself to be a great communicator, so there wasnt any need to watch this video. But your videos are like a bird singing in a storm, making the environment even more beautiful. Thank you so, so much. I always come to your channel when I'm sad, and will continue to do so!!
Agreed😊
One thing that i have learned when trying to approach women is that the more you do it the more uncomfortable you get overtime the fear of embarrassment goes away. You never learn if you stay in you’re comfort zone.
Much love Jak love the content 👊❤️
I find it pretty sad that men have to practice talking to women, like we’re some prize, instead of just another human being
@@emma6648a prize? Who said that. And this video is for all genders. Don't act like women don't do this either. One bad apple doesn't ruin the bunch. They didn't objectify women anywhere in their comment. It's sad that your here and commenting these bad takes on this video.
100% brother 🙌❤️
@@emma6648it’s not that there valuing you as a prize we have to practice because of our anxiety and we get nervous too. Think of it like there so special to us that we want to have the best possible conversation with them that we can.
🚨TO ALL GUYS🚨 approach the girl you like, talk to her 9/10 if you like girl and she seems nice she will not be rude to you. Trust me gurks respect it when you come up to them to make the move, we are lften in postitons where we are forced to make the first move bc you lot are too scared. Don’nt be shy! If you like a girl and she seems like anjuce person try strike a conversation with her. Even if we don’t like you back we won’t be rude about it. But be careful because there are some mean girls but if you think you are a good person just go for it!
had a stroke reading this
As a person of the woman population, it would flatter me if some guy came up to me and started talking to me. I have some guy friends but they don't talk to me much. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@Its_honeythedragonI am to scared to talk to the girl I like she is gorgeous
You're one of the most inspirational people I know. Please continue doing this.
I will brother, thank you for your support 🤞❤️
The fact that you get on RUclips, spend your time editing, putting work in to it, just to help people out here that needs it without seeking reward is amazing. Thank you bro.
Dude.... your tip at 7:45 or so changed my mind set a lot. I'm hell bent on talking to a girl at my school, but I want to take my time, but my friends act like it's the last time I'll see her for years. I felt this way already, but hearing it come from someone I know I can trust like you definitely confirmed it. Appreciate the content bro, keep it up!
Ye I talked to this girl for a couple months and we would call and stuff and it felt obvious like she liked me, and my friends kept telling me “ye dude she likes you ask her out” and I didn’t even really want a relationship at the time but I still asked her under pressure, and she friendzoned me. For some reason I still haven’t properly gotten over it possibly because I keep telling myself that she still likes me
Hey jak I just wanted to say that your videos and they have helped me feel more comfortable in every way, I've also started my own youtube channel and I'm trying really hard to fulfill my dream of playing professional basketball in either the NBL or NBA jak your a great man the greatest self improvement youtuber I've ever watched keep it up❤
Honestly loved the video. Also a good tip that I have learned is that as a man we should have experience being a friend with a girl before we try to date her. For example I know a guy that was only a friend with one girl and he married her. But that was the worst decision of his life because he only found out after they got married that she was mean and not kind to him. So all men reading this, please try to be a friend with a female. No matter if you have a crush on her or not, just do it so that you can have the experience of a relationship with a girl.
My humble advice - Nai
also pretty random question for anyone here...what age gap would you say is to big to date a girl?
W advice
@@NaiFarangit depends, if you're talking about a minor then 2 years is good but if it's someone above the age of consent of your country then there's no limit
@@Idkots Okay, thanks 😁
I think it really depends first on when you meet them and how old yall are at the time, and second how many years apart you are. My parents are 10 years apart, and that sounds bad but they met at 21 and 31 got married and had kids. My 7th grade teacher was 11 years apart with her husband and 2 teachers at my primary school got married even though they mightve been 12+ years.
I’ll do 1 chin up every like I get and I’ll record it
3 chin ups, go!
@@Resiksim of course my dude! I’m hoping to get some more first thou
as soon as i realised what youre trying to say, my mind immediately clicked. this is probably the best advice ive heard from anyone, and even sounds fucking fun. ty for the idea g
Hey Jak, I wanted to say thanks for all your content has done for me. I wish I could give you a hug out of pure love and respect for it.
I talked to a girl I liked a few months ago and actually got her number, what’s crazy is the interaction was nothing like what I had imagined in my head and was a lot smoother and faster than my anxiety was telling me it would. She turned out to be lesbian but I’m still glad I took my shot :)
Dang, nice! Even if it didn't turn out exactly as you thought out it still gives so much confidence for you in the future
Lol have you heard of Pink Triangle by Weezer
wait how did that exact thing also happen to me
W rizz
Nice brother ❤ even though it didn’t work out you should be proud that you put yourself out there and learned something about yourself and your values
Love you Jak
Same goes brother 🤞❤️
@@JakPiggott Thanks brother
This is really helpful advice. I will be starting school in like 2 months and it will be a completely different school where i can meet all kinds of new people to talk to!
You’re a great person! You weren’t only focusing on helping guys but also girls. That shows a lot of character. Thanks for the inspiration. Sadly I haven’t really liked a girl since I was a kid. Whenever I like a girl I get super competitive so I know I haven’t.
Thank you jak piggott, i have finally made up my confidence to ask a girl out. Today has been the day i have felt love in many years. this all happened yesterday when i was in a cruise ship for the first time in my life, best 2 days i have ever lived since, Thank you.
Bro I swear this man be coming in clutch every single time. Thanks for taking your time for us man. Thanks for all the help fam
How does this guy just know each of our problems man
I genuinely love this guy. He gives advice on how to talk properly, how to live life, etc. Share your wisdom. Don't hold back and keep making the damn vids. ❤❤
She said no and always thought of me as a best friend
@@itspegasus8785 I took no offense but how is it funny?
you didnt fail.... you won.
you were the best in someones eyes. thats a good relationship.
you may not be in a love relationship but a relationship that you can trust in with good foundations nonetheless.
Happy for you brother.
@@GalArcT1c thanks
Bro you did it and will only get stronger 💪🏻
just don't stop now. dont take a break from "women". go on and go for other girls. Be casual in the art of pulling girls. even if u arent, its just a way to convince urself u can actually do better. And trust me brother u really can
I’m trying to ask out someone right now, so this works for confidence boost! Thank you!! 🙏
Man. I love how genuine you are. Been hooked on your content since November, when I completed NNN, and actually started to turn my life around. You’ve been there with me. I love you so much for that. Thank you brother
I honestly wait for this guy to post .
Its one of the highlights of my week or whenever you post
honestly Jak, Ive been watching your videos for the past few weeks and in these past few weeks youve helped me so much in life and its crazy how watching someone online talk about his past and present can change the life of someone else.In the past few days ive been talking to a girl and now im way more comfortable while talking to women because of your videos and she setup a date with me because im the most comfortable guy shes ever talked to.Thank you so much for these videos and ill keep watching these videos❤
I'm glad that girl likes you the way you are, you are that one standing out in a good way, good luck bro :)
This really give a good idea on how conversations go, how to create them, and how they form naturally. I’m an extrovert but I have a guy friend who is sort of an introvert. He can’t really start convos, but every once in a while, I talk to him and say things such as, “ask me something” or “wait, you did _(something part of that he said)_? How’d that go?” (To expand conversation) And I think he’s gaining confidence from starting more and more convos. (Not just with me, but with other people too!) Thank you so much for making these types of videos, Jak!
Thank you so much Jak! Favorite youtuber
Thank you my man ❤️❤️
I'm a 13 yrs girl , been following you since last year & that is the best thing i ever did ! You are really inspiring and the content you make as an influencer , is something i can never find in the internet. I wish everyone to be as mature as you are . Thank for being such a nice , understanding mature person , your impact is appreciated. Keep shining keep teaching ❤
I do love your speech and advice. You are such a cool and down-to-earth dude. I am proud of you and I am grateful for RUclips recommending your channel to me weeks or months ago. Godspeed Jak Piggott.
I'm amazed with this raw info I've only been hearing garbage from content creators.Thank You Jak for being REAL 😁
As a woman I have to thank you immensely, you’re out here giving genuine advice for self-improvement and wellbeing for young men, not the unrealistic and misogynistic nonsense that Tate spews like Venom to vulnerable people, thank you for your kind words
wtf does tate even do any more lol
suffer 🫢 @@ninjak_jeamm
I love when you talk about social skills please make more videos about it
Lezzzz go jak I’ve been needing this I am preparing to talk to my crush when I see her in like a week or 2 at camp wish me luck
Good luck
Godspeed bro
good luck bro!
Good luck
Same bro but not at camp at school for me
Jack every time i watch one of your videos they inspire me to be a better person, thanks bro
Listened to this video. And now I talk to her with ease. Thank you bro. I am so conversation awkward but now I feel so much better and found something in common with her.
Ive watched a few of your videos and these have helped me become an actually decent communicator. Thanks you legend.
i love this guy so much bro hes actually so real.
Words can’t explain how much I enjoy watching your videos. Every video you post I either learn something new, or it’s affirming my current beliefs, it’s really refreshing to watch you. God bless, keep up the great work brother👏👏
Thank you for being so awesome and, I've been watching your videos for a few weeks now I think and you've really turned my life around. Thank you😊
as someone who has autism, it was super insightful hearing these simple reminders of ways of socialization conversation, I will make sure to continue to keep learning more from you.
watching these videos made me realize i am an extremely lucky person, i've watched so many of your videos and i could not relate to one thing in them other than the age group it was directed to, however i still feel compelled to watch them, thanks Jak for entertaining me and teaching others
"the deeper you go, the better" -Jack Piggot, 2024
Bruh
It makes sense i guess
My man really opened my eyes, even though I've been through at least 9 rejections, I never cared for it, and I took that opportunity to become a better me, Jak, you really helped me understand what I've been doing better, thanks
This channel is just too good. I literally bought all the books he said that was good
I know that my parents and teachers and adult figures in my life tell me this, but it is much nicer to hear it from you, someone who has (excuse my choice of words if they bring up trauma) been through that experience recently, or is just fresh of coming out of those times, it is much easier to listen to. Thanks bro for the support, it means a lot.
Mainly because my school says I have undiagnosed autism, or I show very prominent autistic signs, I am very socially awkward. I dislike talking to people because it makes me very nervous, so thanks again for helping my self-esteem and confidence.
These videos showed up at the perfect time. All of the things ive learned are really helpful. Nobody else can give this good of information.
Hey brother, i've wanted to tell you that a few weeks ago, i was praying to God for fuel to finally get in shape. Im 14 currently, and i recently fell in love with a girl. You'r videos also started showing up, which they never did. You inspired me to finnaly commit to the "grind" and loose my fat, and then tell her once i am fit. Keep making these relationship videos brother, you're changing me.
Good Luck :)
You do more for humanity than anyone on Earth. Thank you.
Love the red flannel therapist Jack
Haha I ain’t no therapist but thanks bro ❤️❤️
I don't think therapist help but you do!@@JakPiggott
its the summer and im just browsin, and while I'm supposed to be doing math I just watch this.
I usually watch vids at 2x speed bc my attention span is trash(I try to self justify it by saying there's better things to do with my time) but this is the first vid I watched fully 1x speed bc u just got it bro. u actually know wat ur talking about, and you know how to help ppl. keep it up man!
i love your content, never lose faith in yourself brother
You should do a video on how to talk to girls you like, like in your year at school or something when you talk to everyone but are nervous when it comes to the future and what might happen, but in the end nothing bad will, so how do you get over that and speak???? That's probably the biggest question, 'why'.
Btw you're quite inspirational, soo keep it up, you're making peoples days
Bro I needed this, I had to ask a girl to do a job (we're both volunteers at the church and we were short one person and I couldn't do it), purely business, not interested in her at all. I had to take like 2 whole minutes by myself to prepare for ONE SIMPLE QUESTION. I'm not like that with the guys. Women are scary, I dunno how to talk to them unless I know them well
Thanks for all the videos ive watched from you
Nah thank YOU for the support ❤️
I was a missionary for my church for two years. We would walk up to random people and start conversations with them in any and every situation. One fun thing we would do is play the "bolder game". We had to one-up the other person in how boldly we introduced ourselves and talked with people. It was amazingly effective because it made talking with people a game, refocused your energy away from fears, made your communication clear, and softened the blow of rejection. You could look like a creep if you go 100% on this game with approaching girls, but it could be effective, especially if you are shy and struggle to talk with them.
If we were ever around lots of young people our age, we would often find the cutest girl there, walk up to the and ask, "Have you ever met my friend Elder ________?" It was then fun to watch your friend try and talk with them without blushing or stammering. Or they would pull it on you, and you had to talk with them. 😂 As missionaries, we weren't allowed to flirt, date, or have any non-professional relationship with girls, but it was mind-blowing how many were still interested in us simply because we were bold enough to approach and talk with them.
This has been a word salad, but I'm reliving so many good memories writing this!
This video speaks volumes! Was the exact same until I started pushing myself to practice small conversations with people I just so happen to be meet at the shops, waiter at resturant etc. These small conversations are kinda like training wheels since its usually has a topic already, but it helps so much. Great video Jak!
Great video! I’ve been looking for a video like this just to relieve stress and point me in the right direction. Thank you Jak, God be with you brother.
Great video brother. I love the quality of your videos and the background music makes it so cinimatic 🔥👊
Thank you Curtis, means more than you think bro ❤️
Damn man, RUclips algorithms never been so perfect. Thanks for your content, keep going)!
Thank you for inspiring me to start building a better me.
this guy needs more subs and he is a real one thanks for the advice!
As a girl, I know I'm not generally your target audience for most of the videos you create.
However, I find your channel/yourself to be so genuine with your honesty and ability to communicate so respectfully yet directly.
Your channel is so informative. Thanks for taking the time to create the content and vibe that you do. 👏
Thank you for this message! Believe it or not I actually tried this on a former crush, but there were other factors as well, and nothing happened. I was young, and had more to learn (I still do and always will, but that's the whole point of life). But, in my personal experience, I think you should not only become a better you, but actually embrace the time when you are alone. Romance shouldn't be the focus in life, it should be a byproduct of the life you are living, and the man you are becoming.💪
nice vid jak, almost at a million subs?! thats crazyy
dawg your snaps are so crisp at 5:01
Yo this is actually super cool, my girlfriend cheated with me and I confronted her about it and she kept beating around the bush. It really sucked and my friend got broken up with too. I’m looking for someone to fill her place. I appreciate this greatly Jak.
Every time I see a new Jak Piggot video in my recommended it's the highlight of my day. Keep up the amazing videos man.
Your majestic jack!
Haha getting there bro ❤️
This is the only no bullshit self improvement channel imo.
This man is saving this generation 🎉🎉🎉
JAK PLEASE RECORD YOURSELF COLD APPROACHING WOMEN AND PUT THAT CLIP HERE
I will bro, I’ll make a whole video on it soon, just wait ❤️
🤝🤝🤝@@JakPiggott
@@JakPiggott Man, you're awesome
Thank you so much! Your videos make me a better person and make me happier. Ive come such a long way because of these videos! Cant appreciate you enough!
8:56 its that hard like forsing yourself to do one more pull up when you already did your limit
i think this is a really good way to start off, my problen tbh isnt about talking to a girl ive talked to plenty in the past (not as attraction just as normal convos), but my problem is the girls i usually see around me either has this genz/alpha kind of appearance, im not picky when it comes to finding attraction i just need a normal one atleast..
As a just turned 18 year old, I really hope you never stop making content. You are a motivational and inspirational person with so many valuable lessons to give. Thank you for all you content 👌❤️
Hey bro this is literally the perfect video for the situation im in rn. All the best jak! Keep it up
Bro this is crazy good advice. Thank you so much.
Hey jack, ive been watching your vids for a while. (2 per day), and all i have to say is thank you, you really have helped me get better in life and live a life i wanted, this video really helped me because im only 13, but theres this girl that just drags my attention, just because how nice and caring she is. This video helped because it helped me communitcate with her better and now we are currently dating, so thank you and keep up the good work, ill see ya in the next one bro.
My friend once went up to a girl and forced a conversation, she replied twice and walked away. I really did feel bad for him, but like you said, you need human connection, not just validation
Hey Jak! I loved listening to this. Have you ever thought about doing a podcast? I think it'd be quite a cool thing, imo.
being cringe on purpose is actually so fun. me and my friends will scream in the hallways and laugh really loud and ppl give us weird looks, but its actually really fun.
Especially when you have the confidence to do so 🥰
@@JakPiggott Fr
tried it at a theme park with my friends felt great but lost my voice
Not even joking, this guy has helped me through everything and is one of the best RUclipsrs. Props to you man ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
I Am alright at talking with woman bring up funny things you’ve done, challenge them, and make a inside joke it builds so much confidence and character
Hope y'all havin a great day🌟 and if not tomorrow will be better ❤❤
You are a treasure for our generation 😢❤
thank you for this, your words just give inspiration and a different kind of spark. ill be sure to use this.
I watch your video but half of them but now i have to watch all your videos to the end thank for this help you help me mentally alot
Haven't watched the video yet, but damn your glowing up mate