You gotta be careful out there tho because when you crave love, there might be a point where you just start taking anything. Mistaking love for something that isn't love. Stay safe y'all, love.
Love and lust are two completely different things one Is natural, genuine and sincere. While the other is fake, manipulative and just bad. Find someone who you feel a real bond with and the feelings are real, not just because of a quick spark that will die out in a month or even less. Real relationships take time and effort not just a quick swipe, this is what’s killing real love in today’s day and age with the internet G**mers p*do’s Ra*ist are everywhere and can get to anyone at anytime, plus the amount of fake stuff online is what’s turning both men and women off of dating entirely find real nice people is hard and nothing about the way society is today is fixing it.
Hits different when you realize you've been single for your whole life, and you've always been surrounded by your friends who all have experienced, maybe not love.. but relationships and you've felt so left out. Really makes you wonder if you are enough, deserving of love...
i’m 20 now and i had a relationship when i was 16-18 where i felt i was in love and since that ive had opportunities but either the girls not fancied me or ive not been too into them, its been nearly 2 years now i been single and honestly im content, i know my worth and im not only going for people out my league but im not gonna settle for someone i think is below me like ive seen some of my friends do and that’s the best way to be. It is hard to find where u rank in the looks pool but personality is big too, i met this girl out my league looks wise but she was petty about things and didn’t have the same interests as me, u need that right balance and u can get with someone out ur league looks wise who u just click with personality wise. My point is essentially don’t settle for someone, maybe do it to get some experience but that’s not necessary cus if u find the one and u never done anything romantically you’ll figure it out and if she can’t help u figure it out she didn’t like u enough anyway
dude i just want to give someone so much physical and emotional love, i just have too much love in my heart and i need to give it to someone but i have so many trust issues
"You are craving deep love, you are craving somebody special right now, and I'm here to tell you that, that is okay." Instant tears, I needed that validation. 🥺
I don’t even want a romantic relationship anymore, I just need someone, anyone, that can just empathize with me and be a friend. My soul is in such unspeakable pain that I don’t even bother asking for help anymore.
@@esmitty9548u know I always thought that way too. Until my first therapy session, my therapist was like have u thought about discussing ur unsureness with friends? It was like an ah ha moment. I was so hell bend on looking things one way I didn't even notice another window. I think part of talking is growth and practicing connection. If we wait and meet the right one without 'practise', we might have lose out on so much to gift to the other person.
@@esmitty9548of cos, that being said, I still think it's still wise to practice discernment. On who to reveal ourselves too,but also being open. Balance I guess.
But how to stop feeling and desiring this? I really cant do any of that becuase all the time i cant help but feel alone, and keep on wanting a relationship for that. Sometimes i even think about my ex all the time@solarcash
I saw this quote to those attaching them selves to toxic people just because they are lonely and it goes “a crumb is seen as a feast to those who are starving”. Be careful who you attach yourself to
Im a 36 year old man. Ive been single for 15 years now. Since my last relationship Ive gone through so much hurt and pain. I worked my ass off to get myself in to a better place but I am so so tired. My soul is tired. I deserve to be able to find the right person even after all Ive been through all of my self destruction and battles. This video got me bawling my eyes out. I hope everyone here finds their right person ❤
What a synchronicity. You said “but I want someone to match my energy” I LITERALLY said the same words to someone just yesterday. Connection on a soul level is everything
“You might feel you don’t deserve them but you do” hits me really hard. I really try to not think that way but when i see a very attractive person i immediately think “they wouldn’t look at me”
Actually I crave a lot of things. I crave love, wish more people understood me, I crave friendship, intimacy, I crave normalcy. Just a lot of things that I haven't been able to receive for quite some time now. I feel so lost in this world. I'm sure some of you might relate but yea.
Yk something I realized pretty recently is that sometimes we’re too focused on ourselves and our own needs to appreciate the world and to find that connection. Focus on other ppl needs and helping them and I bet you’ll find that love u seek. Cuz that love is already within you.
@@MonkeyDBunmieven if you focus on other people's needs it still doesn't mean you get what you want. I use to work as a volunteer in an orphanage, I still came home to an empty house and years later I'm still here with this longing inside me of finding meaning.
Much better to keep company with people seeking healing and community, compassion and growth. Builders. The internet has far too much space for those who divide people by a thousand possible identifiers. That’s their tribe, this is ours.
Crazy timing fr. I’ve been working on myself recently, embracing who i am, following my passion and having positive self talk and love but i still feel like i lack something and it’s really that connection with someone special. I’m just tryna find someone who’s genuine and has the same vibe. Even though i try not to think ab it, it be at the back of my mind. Preciate your words homie
It seems lots of people can agree with me, this man always shows up at the right times. Recently I've been craving someone to share my life with, and this man is able to show I'm not alone. Everyone should have someone to love, like why would we all put on this earth together, but not live it with each other
Ong it sucks when you wake up in the morning and just feel that deep aching in your chest for love. It’s that longing feeling and it’s so hard to describe but it hurts the heart
How could you not feel that you're loved. Nature is nurturing you providing you everything without expectations isn't it that unconditional love you are getting i hope you are awaken to know that real love is not not something like we imagine or perceive. Love is , it's different safe ,nurturing set's you free.❤ @@UrMom-xn1bm
Very cool video A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. My soulmate made the decision to walk away from me, and even though I've done everything in my power to get him back, I can't help but feel disappointed because I can't see my life with anyone else. I want to say that I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I simply can't. I miss him so much and I don't know why I'm saying this here.
I learnt the hard way that saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult when a 12-year relationship ends. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counsellor, and he was able to assist me in getting him back.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked him up online. striking I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
I definitely feel that loneliness, but as much as I hate to admit it… I’m not ready. I still can’t say I love myself. I still can’t say that I can accept that kind of vulnerability that comes with being intimate with another soul.
18. I could never accept that being alone was part of the process, still can't. I feel like no matter how hard i work on myself or how deep i dig into me, nothing changed. Now I just feel lost. What's the point in waiting if you've waited all your life? All I know is I gotta keep going, wherever I'm supposed to. This video hits every note, man. Thank you :]
This is what I’m feeling right now. For a few months I’ve stopped focusing on girls to focus on school and music but since I never been in a relationship, the crave for a perfect girls is hitting me hard again. Thanks for this video
I cried myself to sleep last night wondering where my love is and how I can meet him. I’ve been working on myself for 4 years and I’m terrified that we’ll never meet and I’ll die alone.😭
If you worked on yourself you will find a person worthy of you! And if you do not (and theres no reason) you will have worked so much on yourself that you’ve became enough, you will not need anybody to live a fullfilling life! You can be anything you wanna be, if someones comes to you then thats great ! But if not, no worries theres so much more to life than relationships !
Its normal to feel like that. When your head is in it, it feels pretty dark. But honestly you'll be sweet. Provided you keep working and putting yourself out there the odds are in your favor :)
@@Idontknowwhattodo600 My life is blessed but I still lack a husband. I try not to become hopeless but there are times I truly wonder if anyone will truly love or understand me. Thing is, I’m not a bad person, I have friends, I’m fairly easy to get along with, but love has always been elusive despite my best efforts. Sometimes it stinks being intelligent.
i just crave just someone to care about me. Im 21 and i've never felt so lonely in my life. people who say they my friend never check up on me or call me unless they need somethong from me. I now im not ready for a love one, but it would be nice to just have some to hang around and feel some type of connection...IDK...Just lonely
im 19, male. I’ve been single all my life. I’ve never had any of my firsts. It hurts. Sometimes i can be really confident and think about how much im caring and smart, etc. but other times im not so confident, maybe i think im unattractive, never had a relationship (does that show im not lovable in a romantic way?). That’s just some of my thoughts that i could have. Many times it feels like i might not even find somebody ever.
Nah man that just means you’re a human. It’s normal to not have your confidence 100% at all times. And nah don’t worry 19 is young we got time. No time limit either fr, u find love when u find it.
@@swagmeister5323 The only thing you can do is make yourself into a lovable person. Jordan B Peterson talks about it a lot and his advice has helped me so I suggest y’all to look at his lectures on relationships.
I understand this feeling on a deep level but im fortunate enough to be able to look at the upsides in life in any situation and be grateful. But sometimes you still just know how much you want something and its important to not rush into a relationship before you fully understand them and yourself.
everything is a balance, like the yin and yang ☯️. To attract this person into your life you have to start with yourself and open your heart up for everyone and everything around you
been in isolation for the past 5 years. I’m fighting battles I would never wish upon anyone. I’m starting to see the light shine through after so long of being lost.
I’ve been alone most of my life. Even in relationships, I never felt truly loved by anyone. I felt more like I was there to be used for whatever reasons. Sometimes I feel like I’ll be alone forever. We all want to find someone but don’t settle just to have someone. Being with the wrong person isn’t easy either.
Love comes through acceptance, this person can be the gateway for you to allow love to be present. but as soon as you start to objectify the person & crave to be with them in order to experience love, you become possessive, you cling... this only creates suffering. love is reality. see this...
after a long toxic relationship i finally found my peace. hes so damn caring and understands everything. if u struggle please dont give up there is someone waiting for u.
i feel like the fact that i’m so young and that i’m so mentally matured and no one is on my level. i wanna be able to share the love i have for myself onto others. and sometimes i feel like my standards are too high but at the same time i don’t wanna settle for less than i am worth. but ik they’re coming.
I wake up, feel terrible.. Pain in my heart But the longer the day goes i start feeling better and better. Endless cycle of waking up in a terrible mood but thankfully ending it being absolutely happy about everything in my life. Rollercoaster of emotions every day x)
I use weed to help me cope. I’m also trying to make gratitude and prayer a daily practice. It’s work, but I think it helps. Definitely a roller coaster though. 🫂
my heart hurts so much because i feel like i dont know what love is, ive never been in a relationship and i realy hope i can find the right person because its so hard to be how i am feeling and i hope others can find the right person before they get to the point im at.
@@Emart_43 for example if you have a parent or a specific person that you feel doesn't really love you how you want to be loved then you want to give the love you're craving from them to yourself then you won't need it from them whether they want to give it to you or not
I have been single my entire life. (have had relationships but never someone I called s/o) I am kind of introverted and 10 fold that when it comes to girls. It is something I do not work on often and something I know I need to but I also don’t find a relationship important currently so it is also a reason why I haven’t tried intensely to work on. I digress. This video I thought at first was pointless and clicked on a whim. I almost clicked off. The moment you said “just keep going” I realized the purpose of this video. Thank you for giving me hope. I often forget about about relationships and sometimes think I’ll never find someone. My person. Thank you.
“not everyone going to understand your struggle, but the right person will.” this is an amazing quote, this has taught me to be patient and be at peace with being single
Man, I don't know why, but your tembre of voice has healing crisp. Never stop doing what you love, because it makes others out there feel that love. Peace
I'm isolating right now, I'm in so much pain.. my ex contacted me yesterday out of the blue to deliberately hurt me again.. and I'm just hurting.. I wish I could eventually find someone lovely who isn't gonna hurt me like the last exes.. We do have big hearts, why can't people see that x
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I feel like part of why we get hurt it isn’t a punishment but rather lessons that we have to face in order to work on ourselves and figure out areas in our life that still need improvement. As a person who has a big heart I realize we’ve been pouring it to the wrong people that’s all but trust me the right person will come your way and see how big of a heart you got. Meanwhile pour all that love you got within your own self. Sending you love and light 🙏🏻
This is exactly what’s on my mind!!!!! I notice the pattern of ending up pushing people away, running away from love and self sabotaging. I’ve been extremely cautious on who I allow in my life, I don’t wanna make a mistake again, so this time I’m taking my time. I ghosted everyone for about 8 months now. Being too guarded is kinda tiring! I also want to get my shit together before I go out there. Yes, that insecurity part is holding me back big time. Lately, signs and men are following me hahaha I’ve been in hermit healing mode for a long time and I feel like there are some parts that we can’t heal by ourselves we need people and true connection.
The right people won’t let us push them away. They’ll understand our insecurities and reservations and will assure us that we’re safe with them. I know this because when I meet a man who is vulnerable with me, I’ll be his safe space the same way I’ll want him to be mine. That’s when you know.
This dudes comment sections has way more potential than tinder when it comes to finding love, and I'm not even kidding. (think about it) My dream woman could watch this comment, not realizing we're actually matching. I'm from Europe, but I'm obsessed with America. I always wanted to live there, and I will. Vibing with your US girl, while speaking her language to me is the dream itself.
i get into a relationship n i give them a piece of my heart. I sacrifice so much of my time, effort, n energy for them to make sure they’re happy and i change my ways for myself first and then to their liking to make them feel comfortable. Yet the efforts i make i feel are wasted bc i get treated like trash and just like a dump for that persons trash, although i want them to be able to talk to me i don’t want to be the one that gets the bad attitude and the one that they get annoyed with when all im trying to do is help
i’m commenting this here bc even now if i was to bring this to my partner all they would say is “oh, i didn’t know you felt that way” when i bring it up constantly hoping for a change that THEY said they’d make and im it takes time but when i don’t see an effort to change immediately then it’s like wtf?
I've never been in a relationship before even tho I am only 16, but I do crave going out on dates and just wanting to spread my love with someone who isn't related to me. At the exact same time, tho I feel that I am a little young to be involved in anything serious, but this video opened my eyes. Great video, broski!
Cool video. Unfortunately, my 4 year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me. I still love him so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail. avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
It's difficult to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my 12 year relationship ended. I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.
I’m going through a rough time missing the girl that I thought was the one. Ultimately I know she wasn’t the right person for me, but I still miss her. It’s always worse at night when I get lonely and think of her. I needed this video today bro. Thank you.
I truly am man, ive always noticed why every girl i see even if they say hi to me i get attached to them turns out its cause im craving a deep connection with someone thank you man.
It might happen tomorrow for me I preyed on it an when I get the chance to talk to her i will never leave no matter what i will do anything for this person thank you dawg
“because if love wasn’t important, why did we give love to the world?” is a quote everyone needs to hear. you’re speaking to my soul, i didn’t know so many others feel this way.
I’ve been making music all of the sudden about love and stuff and, it’s crazy because the video, it’s the same way I’m feeling right now, I got standards like everyone in the world, but I want someone genuine.
accepting our human nature is so beautiful - so much integrity here- pure wisdom - glad to be seeing more and more people in alignment and their truth and in their integrity
The gym helps you improve yourself and stopping going to there just for love is not worth it. While I can’t convince you I want to tell you that not thinking about it too much helps even when the feeling of loneliness hits hard.
I am currently in a relationship where I often think about if she’s the right one for me or not. In the beginning of our relationship it felt like she’s the one but as time passed it often feels like I’m not really part of her life. Like she doesn’t really ask how i am or how my day was but at other times she makes me feel like it’s a perfect relationship. She doesn’t like to say „I love you” in general and I’m the only one who gives the other person compliments. It often feels like I need to be less “polite” to her but that’s not the way I want to think…
For years I didn’t care nor even getting bothered about love I recently got back with ex and she was so cold hearted and for the first time I craved that connection she couldn’t or wanted to give me that we recently split she ghosted me like I was nothing and boy has it hurt I feel lost it’s a feeling I’ve never felt before and it’s made me severely depressed to the point of no hope I’m self improving and it’s the only thing keeping me going right now
Haven’t been able to cry for so long. But this video opened my heart and i can finally feel the deep pain within and let it out. Thank you. Blessings 🤍.
Haven't even watched the 1st minute of the video but I can say that the colours and the way you shoot this video is of great quality. It's pleasure to watch such things.
The right person gonna change everything, you're right, had my best memories of my life with my first love, travelling together, going ice skating, visiting museums, long night talks, playing around, going to the beach together, that's what living life to me, kissing her tears, kissing her forehead, it was pure.
You popped up on my feed and i was thinking to myself why wont anyone love me i am 19 and never had a girlfriend and that shi hurts ngl but this video gave me hope
it feels so comforting to know that someone else is going through all the things im going through, the feelings you described, the experiences, it’s amazing. i’ve never seen someone this in touch with their soul as i am and idk it fills me with joy.
“Not everyone going to understand your struggle. But the right person will” that hit hard. Thank you bro
1 Corinthians 13 8
I will continue to choose to believe in love and that there is someone out there that will love and accept me for me and all of me ❤️
ive been waiting and at times trying to find that person for about 8 years now... i dont think its meant for me tbh
no such thing as the right person that an illusion there never has been and never will be a love of my life
That makes me more clingy lol
You gotta be careful out there tho because when you crave love, there might be a point where you just start taking anything. Mistaking love for something that isn't love. Stay safe y'all, love.
Happened to me way too much
Did the mistake twice never repeating
Love and lust are two completely different things one Is natural, genuine and sincere. While the other is fake, manipulative and just bad. Find someone who you feel a real bond with and the feelings are real, not just because of a quick spark that will die out in a month or even less. Real relationships take time and effort not just a quick swipe, this is what’s killing real love in today’s day and age with the internet G**mers p*do’s Ra*ist are everywhere and can get to anyone at anytime, plus the amount of fake stuff online is what’s turning both men and women off of dating entirely find real nice people is hard and nothing about the way society is today is fixing it.
Yup
Yep, I’ve fallen for fake love before 😔
i think craving love is human nature.
100% its like being thirsty or hungry I see it like that now :)
If it's love you're craving you need to give it to yourself
We look for love instead of being love. Gotta love yourself first and everything will come to way
@@Namunyaa nah, stop parotting this new age bullshit
@@TheAleksandrosthis not new age bruh, that concept been out
Loving someone who doesn't see you the same is the hardest thing to deal with ever
Amen
But it's dealable with. Find faith in Jesus and deny lies of the world with His truth and you'll manage, take care
Feel this shit so fking hard
it truthfully is
Wishing everyone who reads this, a soul connection ❤
I wish the same and more to you too :)
yeah man, but it's hard sometime
o mesmo pra ti :)
same to you ❤
🙏🏿🙏🏿
Hits different when you realize you've been single for your whole life, and you've always been surrounded by your friends who all have experienced, maybe not love.. but relationships and you've felt so left out. Really makes you wonder if you are enough, deserving of love...
💯💯💯💯
Real
@@THAToneMFemir Although a person shouldn't think he's not deserving of love
Real
i’m 20 now and i had a relationship when i was 16-18 where i felt i was in love and since that ive had opportunities but either the girls not fancied me or ive not been too into them, its been nearly 2 years now i been single and honestly im content, i know my worth and im not only going for people out my league but im not gonna settle for someone i think is below me like ive seen some of my friends do and that’s the best way to be. It is hard to find where u rank in the looks pool but personality is big too, i met this girl out my league looks wise but she was petty about things and didn’t have the same interests as me, u need that right balance and u can get with someone out ur league looks wise who u just click with personality wise. My point is essentially don’t settle for someone, maybe do it to get some experience but that’s not necessary cus if u find the one and u never done anything romantically you’ll figure it out and if she can’t help u figure it out she didn’t like u enough anyway
May real authentic love come our way ❤
Yes ❤️ Believe
ámen
amen
Amen
Asé
dude i just want to give someone so much physical and emotional love, i just have too much love in my heart and i need to give it to someone but i have so many trust issues
How do you overcome the trust issue
@@yohannestesfaye2797let yourself be open to hurt, the right people wont hurt you
When you meet the right person, this trust issues disappear, trust brother
You look like a wonderful soul and upfront about it. Do you live in the US I might have a friend for you.
@@yohannestesfaye2797trust issues are only felt with the wrong people unless you have something actually wrong with you but you probably don’t
"If love wasn't important, why do we give love to the world?"
Affirmative.
its not important to everyone the word means noting to me
@@opticalman6417 By all means. How are you faring?
@@opticalman6417not even a little for the unfortunate? or a kind word for those who feel down?
To the person i might marry one day, thank you for being in my life. Your love is a blessing
I can't wait to meet her!
I just want someone to talk to. Someone to care about.
Someone to care about me.
Someone to hug.
I feel you😢
Amen
Just wanna be loved and appreciated
real asf
im so lonely bro
"You are craving deep love, you are craving somebody special right now, and I'm here to tell you that, that is okay." Instant tears, I needed that validation. 🥺
I don’t even want a romantic relationship anymore, I just need someone, anyone, that can just empathize with me and be a friend. My soul is in such unspeakable pain that I don’t even bother asking for help anymore.
❤love u
If you ever need a friend I am happy to be a friend to you :)
@@TheSkyLi I appreciate you and your words. I just need to take time to figure myself out before I can open up to someone.
@@esmitty9548u know I always thought that way too. Until my first therapy session, my therapist was like have u thought about discussing ur unsureness with friends? It was like an ah ha moment. I was so hell bend on looking things one way I didn't even notice another window. I think part of talking is growth and practicing connection. If we wait and meet the right one without 'practise', we might have lose out on so much to gift to the other person.
@@esmitty9548of cos, that being said, I still think it's still wise to practice discernment. On who to reveal ourselves too,but also being open. Balance I guess.
Don’t love when your alone, love when your ready
how do you know when you’re ready
@@Ic3doutbatyyou’re ready when you’re fully focused on yourself and you’re fulfilled
@@Ic3doutbaty It's a leap of faith man, you'll just know.
But how to stop feeling and desiring this? I really cant do any of that becuase all the time i cant help but feel alone, and keep on wanting a relationship for that. Sometimes i even think about my ex all the time@solarcash
I swear everytime i see his vids on my fy, it's like a sign. please keep going my bro.
for real, this man is using some magic
The timing is awesomely scary
@@jatuliabuteojatuThats so true 😂
bro facts
I swear the timing is immaculate
I just wanna someone to hug, to cuddle, to talk to, and to hold hands.
🥲❤️
I want to share my self love with someone else so badly
So so so true
same here
🙏🙏
yes
"Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come."
I saw this quote to those attaching them selves to toxic people just because they are lonely and it goes “a crumb is seen as a feast to those who are starving”. Be careful who you attach yourself to
Amen
I was literally thinking about love and losing hope at work today..I have a fear that I will be alone forever..thank you for this video
You jus gotta keep loving yourself and u will attract the same as he said. Be the love instead of looking for it
same
@@Namunyaatruth
I think the same thoughts often
Integrate that thought you have, accept that thought and watch it dwindle away, it will no longer be a fear❤
Im a 36 year old man. Ive been single for 15 years now. Since my last relationship Ive gone through so much hurt and pain. I worked my ass off to get myself in to a better place but I am so so tired. My soul is tired. I deserve to be able to find the right person even after all Ive been through all of my self destruction and battles. This video got me bawling my eyes out. I hope everyone here finds their right person ❤
Hoping for the best for you ❤ @Talev777
I hope you find the right person❤️ dont loose hope my brother better times will come🙌
Can we be friends.
sending luck your way man, i really believe we can get the love we deserve
I feel like this a sign for everyone who got this on their home page
It’s great to see a black man covering these topics man❤️❤️
The universe will put you with your person at the right time
knowing this is so comforting
@@arya-hn5uufor surr
@@arya-hn5uuI agree
Hmmmmmmmmm.
Well that's bullshit but it's possible
What a synchronicity. You said “but I want someone to match my energy” I LITERALLY said the same words to someone just yesterday. Connection on a soul level is everything
“You might feel you don’t deserve them but you do” hits me really hard. I really try to not think that way but when i see a very attractive person i immediately think “they wouldn’t look at me”
Forreal
I have so much love to give, and I just want to share it with the right person. No games, no lies, no bs just love.
Actually I crave a lot of things. I crave love, wish more people understood me, I crave friendship, intimacy, I crave normalcy. Just a lot of things that I haven't been able to receive for quite some time now. I feel so lost in this world. I'm sure some of you might relate but yea.
Yk something I realized pretty recently is that sometimes we’re too focused on ourselves and our own needs to appreciate the world and to find that connection. Focus on other ppl needs and helping them and I bet you’ll find that love u seek. Cuz that love is already within you.
Yes, I feel seen, I’m feeling less alone this evening
@@MonkeyDBunmieven if you focus on other people's needs it still doesn't mean you get what you want. I use to work as a volunteer in an orphanage, I still came home to an empty house and years later I'm still here with this longing inside me of finding meaning.
i feel you man
try leting all that shit go it only causes suffering
"for my fellow girls out there if hes being aggressive 24/7 - leave. for my fellow bros if the girl is being selfish - leave" wow the difference.
I love that it’s both men and women in this comment section. Seeing that we’re all trying to heal gives me so much hope. ❤
The person we’re looking for might even be under this comment section.
@@Ruby_Enchantsthat's a beautiful way to think about it!
Much better to keep company with people seeking healing and community, compassion and growth. Builders. The internet has far too much space for those who divide people by a thousand possible identifiers. That’s their tribe, this is ours.
Yes bro
😊💖
This dude put so much raw emotion into his words, yet he kept a straight face to show us that it does get better.
Crazy timing fr. I’ve been working on myself recently, embracing who i am, following my passion and having positive self talk and love but i still feel like i lack something and it’s really that connection with someone special. I’m just tryna find someone who’s genuine and has the same vibe. Even though i try not to think ab it, it be at the back of my mind. Preciate your words homie
You are the love that you are looking for
Ong I just want to meet that person on the same wavelength and has that vibe im looking for if that makes sense. But it’s rare and hard to find
I feel you. I hope we have our own world.❤❤
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I feel you.. same here..
It seems lots of people can agree with me, this man always shows up at the right times. Recently I've been craving someone to share my life with, and this man is able to show I'm not alone. Everyone should have someone to love, like why would we all put on this earth together, but not live it with each other
I NEVER met ANYONE who understood my HEART PAIN.
You’re the first person to acknowledge this pain. You’re the first person who described it to a T 🤩
Ong it sucks when you wake up in the morning and just feel that deep aching in your chest for love. It’s that longing feeling and it’s so hard to describe but it hurts the heart
@@UrMom-xn1bmreal
How could you not feel that you're loved. Nature is nurturing you providing you everything without expectations isn't it that unconditional love you are getting i hope you are awaken to know that real love is not not something like we imagine or perceive. Love is , it's different safe ,nurturing set's you free.❤ @@UrMom-xn1bm
@@UrMom-xn1bmyou described it
Very cool video A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. My soulmate made the decision to walk away from me, and even though I've done everything in my power to get him back, I can't help but feel disappointed because I can't see my life with anyone else. I want to say that I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I simply can't. I miss him so much and I don't know why I'm saying this here.
I learnt the hard way that saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult when a 12-year relationship ends. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counsellor, and he was able to assist me in getting him back.
Interesting-sounding! How can I most efficiently get in contact with a spiritual counsellor that you recommended?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked him up online. striking I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
this guys energy is magical
I definitely feel that loneliness, but as much as I hate to admit it… I’m not ready. I still can’t say I love myself. I still can’t say that I can accept that kind of vulnerability that comes with being intimate with another soul.
its ok to take time for your self
fr bro
Homeboy just made me burst into happy tears
Frfr
18. I could never accept that being alone was part of the process, still can't. I feel like no matter how hard i work on myself or how deep i dig into me, nothing changed. Now I just feel lost. What's the point in waiting if you've waited all your life? All I know is I gotta keep going, wherever I'm supposed to.
This video hits every note, man. Thank you :]
“you crave deep love and thats okay” you’re so articulate with your words and this really hit home. we will figure this out. love to everyone
This is what I’m feeling right now. For a few months I’ve stopped focusing on girls to focus on school and music but since I never been in a relationship, the crave for a perfect girls is hitting me hard again. Thanks for this video
I cried myself to sleep last night wondering where my love is and how I can meet him. I’ve been working on myself for 4 years and I’m terrified that we’ll never meet and I’ll die alone.😭
If you worked on yourself you will find a person worthy of you!
And if you do not (and theres no reason) you will have worked so much on yourself that you’ve became enough, you will not need anybody to live a fullfilling life! You can be anything you wanna be, if someones comes to you then thats great ! But if not, no worries theres so much more to life than relationships !
Real
Its normal to feel like that. When your head is in it, it feels pretty dark. But honestly you'll be sweet. Provided you keep working and putting yourself out there the odds are in your favor :)
I hope you’re okay❤️
@@Idontknowwhattodo600 My life is blessed but I still lack a husband. I try not to become hopeless but there are times I truly wonder if anyone will truly love or understand me. Thing is, I’m not a bad person, I have friends, I’m fairly easy to get along with, but love has always been elusive despite my best efforts. Sometimes it stinks being intelligent.
i just crave just someone to care about me. Im 21 and i've never felt so lonely in my life. people who say they my friend never check up on me or call me unless they need somethong from me. I now im not ready for a love one, but it would be nice to just have some to hang around and feel some type of connection...IDK...Just lonely
I'm 21 as well, and I feel you. 😢 It's like nobody cares...
_may peace and prosperity be upon you all watching this_
I have been single for all my life
Felt that
to share happiness together, share smiles and laughter, to feel like a little kid with them and parent each other when needed. real
I was really worried you were gonna shit on my dream because that's what everyone else has done. Thank you so much for validating it
im 19, male. I’ve been single all my life. I’ve never had any of my firsts. It hurts. Sometimes i can be really confident and think about how much im caring and smart, etc. but other times im not so confident, maybe i think im unattractive, never had a relationship (does that show im not lovable in a romantic way?). That’s just some of my thoughts that i could have. Many times it feels like i might not even find somebody ever.
Nah man that just means you’re a human. It’s normal to not have your confidence 100% at all times. And nah don’t worry 19 is young we got time. No time limit either fr, u find love when u find it.
You’re actually very lucky, I wish it was still like that for me, embrace it
@@solarcash wdym you wish it was like that for you? you would prefer not having a lot of relationships?
I hope this lands for somebody but just remember; what is meant for you will never pass you up.
i’m just constantly wondering why everyone seems to be finding love, but never me. thank you for this
Same here
Same
Same bro same 😢
@@swagmeister5323 The only thing you can do is make yourself into a lovable person. Jordan B Peterson talks about it a lot and his advice has helped me so I suggest y’all to look at his lectures on relationships.
I understand this feeling on a deep level but im fortunate enough to be able to look at the upsides in life in any situation and be grateful. But sometimes you still just know how much you want something and its important to not rush into a relationship before you fully understand them and yourself.
everything is a balance, like the yin and yang ☯️. To attract this person into your life you have to start with yourself and open your heart up for everyone and everything around you
yes's truly thank you!!
Thanks!
been in isolation for the past 5 years. I’m fighting battles I would never wish upon anyone. I’m starting to see the light shine through after so long of being lost.
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I'm proud of you. I hope you're proud of yourself too. I wish you the best ❤
I wish you the best brother❤
I’ve been alone most of my life. Even in relationships, I never felt truly loved by anyone. I felt more like I was there to be used for whatever reasons. Sometimes I feel like I’ll be alone forever. We all want to find someone but don’t settle just to have someone. Being with the wrong person isn’t easy either.
@@krystalmonét it might be. Hopefully things work out for you
Love comes through acceptance, this person can be the gateway for you to allow love to be present. but as soon as you start to objectify the person & crave to be with them in order to experience love, you become possessive, you cling... this only creates suffering. love is reality. see this...
after a long toxic relationship i finally found my peace. hes so damn caring and understands everything. if u struggle please dont give up there is someone waiting for u.
i feel like the fact that i’m so young and that i’m so mentally matured and no one is on my level. i wanna be able to share the love i have for myself onto others. and sometimes i feel like my standards are too high but at the same time i don’t wanna settle for less than i am worth. but ik they’re coming.
It’s crazy how I’m finding so many likeminded people in this comment section. If only I could meet y’all in real life also😢
@@Ruby_Enchants nah fr bruh. we will rock it fr.
I relate so much
@@Ruby_Enchantsreallll
I'm watching this while fighting for my life on the toilet, thanks for the support
same here brother, ate some stuff I cant translate in English but damn, my stomach is on fire
I wake up, feel terrible.. Pain in my heart
But the longer the day goes i start feeling better and better. Endless cycle of waking up in a terrible mood but thankfully ending it being absolutely happy about everything in my life. Rollercoaster of emotions every day x)
I can really relate to this and i still struggle to find out why i always wake up with so many negative feelings
Me too, everyday
Its called anxiety ))): I hope we all can heal our unconscious minds
I use weed to help me cope. I’m also trying to make gratitude and prayer a daily practice. It’s work, but I think it helps. Definitely a roller coaster though. 🫂
my heart hurts so much because i feel like i dont know what love is, ive never been in a relationship and i realy hope i can find the right person because its so hard to be how i am feeling and i hope others can find the right person before they get to the point im at.
If its love youre craving you must give it to yourself first. Cant expect others to make you feel love that you already have within you
you dont have to prove yourself imo. you just gotta be brave enough to face yourself. being properly alone for a while can help you with that.
But how
@@Emart_43 for example if you have a parent or a specific person that you feel doesn't really love you how you want to be loved then you want to give the love you're craving from them to yourself then you won't need it from them whether they want to give it to you or not
How on earth do you do that ? Fr ?
I have been single my entire life. (have had relationships but never someone I called s/o) I am kind of introverted and 10 fold that when it comes to girls. It is something I do not work on often and something I know I need to but I also don’t find a relationship important currently so it is also a reason why I haven’t tried intensely to work on. I digress. This video I thought at first was pointless and clicked on a whim. I almost clicked off. The moment you said “just keep going” I realized the purpose of this video. Thank you for giving me hope. I often forget about about relationships and sometimes think I’ll never find someone. My person.
Thank you.
All luck and love to you brother, love exists and I know you’ll be able to experience it. ❤
"Takes us through these seasons where we have to be by ourselves."
“not everyone going to understand your struggle, but the right person will.” this is an amazing quote, this has taught me to be patient and be at peace with being single
Man, I don't know why, but your tembre of voice has healing crisp. Never stop doing what you love, because it makes others out there feel that love. Peace
I'm isolating right now, I'm in so much pain.. my ex contacted me yesterday out of the blue to deliberately hurt me again.. and I'm just hurting.. I wish I could eventually find someone lovely who isn't gonna hurt me like the last exes..
We do have big hearts, why can't people see that x
Sending you big hugs 🫂🤗
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I feel like part of why we get hurt it isn’t a punishment but rather lessons that we have to face in order to work on ourselves and figure out areas in our life that still need improvement. As a person who has a big heart I realize we’ve been pouring it to the wrong people that’s all but trust me the right person will come your way and see how big of a heart you got. Meanwhile pour all that love you got within your own self. Sending you love and light 🙏🏻
Block her bro, don’t let her get to you if she’s maliciously trying to hurt you. Block her number
Sorry about your Ex, I hope you find someone better. You know you can do better. Just went through a break up and abortion… stay strong everyone ❤🙏🏽
@@sonum1059 aww bless you !! So sorry to hear that aswell 😞 I hope your going to be okay! Such a hard thing to deal with 💕 healing hugs
thank you man, i just lost the only person who cares about me, my dad, and i think i need someone, but the main person i need is myself
This is exactly what’s on my mind!!!!! I notice the pattern of ending up pushing people away, running away from love and self sabotaging.
I’ve been extremely cautious on who I allow in my life, I don’t wanna make a mistake again, so this time I’m taking my time. I ghosted everyone for about 8 months now. Being too guarded is kinda tiring! I also want to get my shit together before I go out there. Yes, that insecurity part is holding me back big time.
Lately, signs and men are following me hahaha I’ve been in hermit healing mode for a long time and I feel like there are some parts that we can’t heal by ourselves we need people and true connection.
The right people won’t let us push them away. They’ll understand our insecurities and reservations and will assure us that we’re safe with them. I know this because when I meet a man who is vulnerable with me, I’ll be his safe space the same way I’ll want him to be mine. That’s when you know.
This dudes comment sections has way more potential than tinder when it comes to finding love, and I'm not even kidding. (think about it) My dream woman could watch this comment, not realizing we're actually matching. I'm from Europe, but I'm obsessed with America. I always wanted to live there, and I will. Vibing with your US girl, while speaking her language to me is the dream itself.
what part of Europe?
i get into a relationship n i give them a piece of my heart. I sacrifice so much of my time, effort, n energy for them to make sure they’re happy and i change my ways for myself first and then to their liking to make them feel comfortable. Yet the efforts i make i feel are wasted bc i get treated like trash and just like a dump for that persons trash, although i want them to be able to talk to me i don’t want to be the one that gets the bad attitude and the one that they get annoyed with when all im trying to do is help
i’m commenting this here bc even now if i was to bring this to my partner all they would say is “oh, i didn’t know you felt that way” when i bring it up constantly hoping for a change that THEY said they’d make and im it takes time but when i don’t see an effort to change immediately then it’s like wtf?
I've never been in a relationship before even tho I am only 16, but I do crave going out on dates and just wanting to spread my love with someone who isn't related to me. At the exact same time, tho I feel that I am a little young to be involved in anything serious, but this video opened my eyes. Great video, broski!
Cool video. Unfortunately, my 4 year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me. I still love him so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail. avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
It's difficult to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my 12 year relationship ended. I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is fatherabulu , and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wtf
I’m going through a rough time missing the girl that I thought was the one. Ultimately I know she wasn’t the right person for me, but I still miss her. It’s always worse at night when I get lonely and think of her. I needed this video today bro. Thank you.
Same brother 🫂🫂
@@Nglyouaintshit Hang in there! We’ll get through it 👊🏻💚
2:57 this feeling is so amazing
I do this too! Oh my gosh. My self isolation feels permanent. Insomnia is outta control. I will pray for ya!
I needed to hear this this. After losing my wife two years ago, I find myself constantly craving love.
08:05 "if love wasn't important, why do we give love to the world?" 💞
I truly am man, ive always noticed why every girl i see even if they say hi to me i get attached to them turns out its cause im craving a deep connection with someone thank you man.
It might happen tomorrow for me I preyed on it an when I get the chance to talk to her i will never leave no matter what i will do anything for this person thank you dawg
It happened bro
“because if love wasn’t important, why did we give love to the world?” is a quote everyone needs to hear. you’re speaking to my soul, i didn’t know so many others feel this way.
This was posted on my birthday omg. Praying for authentic, soul filling love to come for all of you. We all deserve it. ❤
feel u bro
I’ve been making music all of the sudden about love and stuff and, it’s crazy because the video, it’s the same way I’m feeling right now, I got standards like everyone in the world, but I want someone genuine.
Hey im here with u. I don’t feel love at all and neither know what love is. Ill try sharing music with planet instead, sharing the feelings.
Any 21 years old here whose beginning to lose hope in love and everything but stumbled upon this video somehow?
yeah but im 20
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accepting our human nature is so beautiful - so much integrity here- pure wisdom - glad to be seeing more and more people in alignment and their truth and in their integrity
The gym doesn't work anymore, I just want someone who will hug me and be there in my life to tell me they love me
The gym helps you improve yourself and stopping going to there just for love is not worth it. While I can’t convince you I want to tell you that not thinking about it too much helps even when the feeling of loneliness hits hard.
I pray everyone finds a soul for them that innerstand as them
I am currently in a relationship where I often think about if she’s the right one for me or not. In the beginning of our relationship it felt like she’s the one but as time passed it often feels like I’m not really part of her life. Like she doesn’t really ask how i am or how my day was but at other times she makes me feel like it’s a perfect relationship. She doesn’t like to say „I love you” in general and I’m the only one who gives the other person compliments. It often feels like I need to be less “polite” to her but that’s not the way I want to think…
I asked a girl for her number last Tuesday, and she said no. I really thought that she would give me it. Ty for this
Being an atheist, I do not believe that I am divinely protected. Despite that, this video was truly inspirational.
For years I didn’t care nor even getting bothered about love I recently got back with ex and she was so cold hearted and for the first time I craved that connection she couldn’t or wanted to give me that we recently split she ghosted me like I was nothing and boy has it hurt I feel lost it’s a feeling I’ve never felt before and it’s made me severely depressed to the point of no hope I’m self improving and it’s the only thing keeping me going right now
Its tough. I had that deep love once. Lost it sadly. Definitely leaves a void. Hopefully ill have better days ahead
Haven’t been able to cry for so long. But this video opened my heart and i can finally feel the deep pain within and let it out. Thank you. Blessings 🤍.
Haven't even watched the 1st minute of the video but I can say that the colours and the way you shoot this video is of great quality. It's pleasure to watch such things.
The right person gonna change everything, you're right, had my best memories of my life with my first love, travelling together, going ice skating, visiting museums, long night talks, playing around, going to the beach together, that's what living life to me, kissing her tears, kissing her forehead, it was pure.
Just made me feel better. I will edit this comment the day i find love.
I hope the best for you my dude
You popped up on my feed and i was thinking to myself why wont anyone love me i am 19 and never had a girlfriend and that shi hurts ngl but this video gave me hope
Thank you. I watch this kind of videos on youtube just to feel that someone is talking to me in a deep level.
I've been feeling insecure about craving love recently, thank you for making this video
it feels so comforting to know that someone else is going through all the things im going through, the feelings you described, the experiences, it’s amazing. i’ve never seen someone this in touch with their soul as i am and idk it fills me with joy.
Love comes when you least expect it