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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024

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  • @khalisa.s7914
    @khalisa.s7914 3 месяца назад +672

    “They’re gonna tell you what reflection of themselves they see in you” ahhh this hit homee

  • @kozyyoz
    @kozyyoz 3 месяца назад +572

    “…don’t suffer twice.” that one got me.

  • @jaidenradford1327
    @jaidenradford1327 3 месяца назад +191

    “we suffer more in imagination than in reality” WOW.

  • @justyceeliassen1980
    @justyceeliassen1980 3 месяца назад +412

    “We suffer more often in imagination then we do in reality” wow your a poet, the way you can say that so elegantly is inspiring

    • @tappoff
      @tappoff 3 месяца назад +54

      he was quoting seneca btw

    • @gabg-d1g
      @gabg-d1g Месяц назад +7

      Its not from him!!

  • @vimtoboifr
    @vimtoboifr 2 месяца назад +153

    " if we can't see the positivity we have to be it " bro spitting

  • @bokbokkobkob
    @bokbokkobkob 3 месяца назад +139

    Thank you, I needed this, today 2 of my friends rejected my invitation to hang out with them. I sat down and reflected on why I feel this extreme sadness and I realize I never felt safe around me, I don’t trust or have any relationship with myself so I often obliged people to fill those voids for me. I want to enjoy my own company and I hope I can.

    • @HoussenLePodcasteur
      @HoussenLePodcasteur Месяц назад +6

      im sure you will, it just takes times, and now that you are conscious of it, it is the start of the journey for you to learn how to love your own presence and globally how to love yourself

  • @r4san335
    @r4san335 22 дня назад +9

    Thank you bro i feel like everyone in my family hates me like i got nobody man im so tired of this shit

  • @dana6498
    @dana6498 3 месяца назад +69

    you are the true definition of thought son

  • @charlescross3592
    @charlescross3592 3 месяца назад +109

    Not gonna lie bro. I live for these videos. Makes me feel so much better that there are other men with this optimism on the journey of self discovery.

  • @Swegsy
    @Swegsy 3 месяца назад +95

    One thing in this world that truly can be manifested is your perception. The more you worry about the negative outcomes of your situation the more frequent they become. Sometimes it truly is best to have the "Fuck it" outlook. Don't be afraid to fuck up and put yourself out there for the growth and experience. People respect you more for it at the end of the day, and I promise you even in failure you will have the satisfaction of knowing you tried. The only regrets I have is never trying, because there could be apart of myself I never found in the thing I was scared to do.

  • @Kimpako21
    @Kimpako21 2 месяца назад +12

    I came here from an instagram post. I've hit rock bottom in my life. My family's going through a lot and although sometimes it's difficult to have the will to live yet I don't really wanna go that way. I'm in my early 20s and too young to give up. I've been living the same life since I was a kid but recently I'm craving change. To live a better life and give a better life to my family. I don't have friends or a partner. Solitude is peaceful but sometimes it turns into loneliness. Even with so much obstacles, I find it beautiful like poetry. I'm craving change and the universe is aligning me with so many helpful resources such as this channel. Thankyou. I'm overwhelmed.

    • @Tutass
      @Tutass 2 месяца назад +2

      Keep going brother❤️

    • @v.xien.
      @v.xien. 15 дней назад +1

      You and I are in the same boat. We got this

  • @arlynnstandaar7528
    @arlynnstandaar7528 2 месяца назад +16

    I honestly believe tht if you have the right intentions, everything will fall into place.

  • @ashley-ti3hi
    @ashley-ti3hi 3 месяца назад +70

    crazy how u always bring me back to myself ur surreal man bless up

  • @willcollins5660
    @willcollins5660 2 месяца назад +14

    3:40 "It is easy being caught up with the nonsense of the world." Powerful words, from a powerful man. Thank you Eyan always.

  • @lexgim
    @lexgim 3 месяца назад +75

    im tired of stuff ending up the same way, I always learn something about it but when am I gonna be finally deserving of what I want

    • @profoundpondering8575
      @profoundpondering8575  3 месяца назад +20

      Forget whether or not you deserve it, do you want it

    • @lexgim
      @lexgim 3 месяца назад

      @@profoundpondering8575 I do

    • @lexgim
      @lexgim 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@profoundpondering8575 I do bro, I know most stuff is out of my control but why's it coming into my life if I can't keep it

    • @lexgim
      @lexgim 3 месяца назад +1

      @@profoundpondering8575 bro I replied yesterday twice wtf, anyways, yes, I do want it really bad.

    • @lexgim
      @lexgim 3 месяца назад +1

      @@profoundpondering8575 I understand your point, stop deleting my comments, damn

  • @jude532
    @jude532 3 месяца назад +41

    Your videos are truly transformative. The consistency never goes unnoticed. Keep going!

  • @user-wc3bi6fc3b
    @user-wc3bi6fc3b 2 месяца назад +11

    i been goin thru a tough time with this girl cus of long distance cus im outts country rn and like u been helping me become a better person i jus dont wanna lose her and i have tried everythin in my power to keep her but if it doesnt work i guess it doesnt work cus i cant change how a person feels

  • @faith.ngobese
    @faith.ngobese 10 дней назад +1

    i cannot fathom how blessed i am to have found this channel

  • @wanston2346
    @wanston2346 2 месяца назад +8

    remember the lesson, forget the teacher. all love man

  • @eeviekola4690
    @eeviekola4690 3 месяца назад +14

    this man’s videos are slowly healing me❤

  • @jayypremium3426
    @jayypremium3426 2 месяца назад +5

    Bro saved my life... thanks man.

  • @Ashcashvlogs
    @Ashcashvlogs 2 месяца назад +9

    ive fallen into a rabbit hole of your videos, but they mean so much to me right now because this is something im struggling so bad with right now, i am craving so badly to just live and just truly free myself but all my surroundings and my mind stops me from that. growing into who i am is hard, i feel so watched and judged before i even do anything, i also feel so lost bc college is supposed to help me create my future yet i feel like it pauses the true me from coming out... ugh its a lot but hearing this makes me feel better and helps me to remember that to live life, you just have to LIVE life, thank you for speaking your mind for all of us who need a voice

    • @v.xien.
      @v.xien. 15 дней назад

      A lot of people feel this way, yet ironically, we are all alone. (Or so we think)

  • @justyceeliassen1980
    @justyceeliassen1980 3 месяца назад +7

    When you talk about denying short term gratification can in itself be gratifying hit. Because I’m dealing w addiction so yes very well said and puts it in a whole new light! Thank you

  • @meloabernathy
    @meloabernathy 17 дней назад

    one thing ive noticed about you man, is that your videos may seem so simple, but they are so effective! you are truly a blessing

  • @PS1KAT
    @PS1KAT 3 месяца назад +10

    "what we put behind us, we carry on our back" woahhhh

  • @tinypear
    @tinypear 3 месяца назад +3

    He’s so powerful with his words, im so happy I have found him

  • @serenalove4480
    @serenalove4480 3 месяца назад +4

    Your videos have helped me through some tough times especially struggling with thinking I’m not where I need to be. This helped a lot thank you so much

  • @kermit637
    @kermit637 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks brother, you’re the only person keeping me sane

  • @user-wf4to7yo6w
    @user-wf4to7yo6w Месяц назад +1

    You don't know, how much this video has change the way i'm thinking. And i'll forever grateful for that.
    Thank you so much

  • @juniorpimentel5752
    @juniorpimentel5752 3 месяца назад +2

    “If we can’t see the positivity we have to be it”. Hits.

  • @silenzio27bruno
    @silenzio27bruno Месяц назад +3

    Your videos were recommended to me for nth time in instagram..
    Idk what it's trying to tell me..
    I was purposefully avoiding this video cuz Ik I will cry and I can't because people are all around me everytime..I'm saving for this later and I think I need to hear this..I'm feeling lonely even with everyone around and no one cares..I don't really know what to do or where to go..thanks for this man..My words might be incoherent rn cuz I can't think straight,u're doing a great job..actually pondering smth valuable

  • @ImaniRodgers-k3m
    @ImaniRodgers-k3m 6 дней назад +1

    I'm 14 ann I been through a lot starting at age 13 and ik you might not read this after seeing that 14 number , but being a young girl seeing a lot, not having any who understands, I learned I might not have anyone but I have myself and thats all that matters, this video caught my eye❤ thank you

  • @diamondpollard3095
    @diamondpollard3095 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for putting yourself out to the world, because the right listeners needs to hear this 📌📌📌

  • @tyoats9029
    @tyoats9029 3 месяца назад +8

    Video comes out right after i meditate perfect timing bruh preciate it

  • @nadiaguled128
    @nadiaguled128 Месяц назад +2

    please continue making videos, I admire your way of thinking.

  • @YaboiTombuto
    @YaboiTombuto 2 месяца назад +2

    I went through some tough things lately, and it was all about the consequences of my own actions, I definitely did some awful things. But a lot of what you said, made sense, and while it wasn't simply affirming my own thoughts, it made me feel understood. So thank you, I appreciated this video ❤

  • @tektite0
    @tektite0 Месяц назад +8

    “some circumstance made us feel bad, and we’re hiding from it, so we cast it off and reject it as a part of us, but in an effort to do so, we’re making apart of us.” goddddd. god. i think ive needed to hear that for a long time. i think there were many things in this video that i’ve needed to hear for a long time. the ability to become your own best friend is so important yet so overlooked, and you put that concept into words that i’ve been unable to find for years. hearing them now has brought me a sense of peace that i can’t quite describe, but i think this is absolutely the beginning of a new mindset for me.
    one quote that’s stuck with me for so long and that you reminded me of is this one from charlotte brontë: “if all the world hated you and believed you wicked, but your own conscience approved of you and absolved you from guilt, you would not be without friends.”
    i’m so grateful to have found this video. i was definitely tearing up by the end. can’t wait to dive into your channel! outdoor videos and podcasts sound amazing! also i WILL be stealing 12:00 this strat 🙏🙏

  • @qamrami
    @qamrami 3 месяца назад +4

    Timing of this is crazy Thank you for this

  • @duashah432
    @duashah432 Месяц назад

    This video changed my perception, I feel as tho I need to rely on someone to get me thru my bad moments. All I need is myself. Appreciate this

  • @markeezyy2069
    @markeezyy2069 24 дня назад

    start of the video is where it hit, "in an effort to improve ourselves to change, we sort of force it. we sort of force ourselves to become these new things when we should allow ourselves." very well stated, and it changes my prespective on how i should think about changing myself in a sense of being better for me, others and my future.

  • @GThaTruth.
    @GThaTruth. 3 месяца назад +3

    ELEVATE!!
    But that would be dope fam, for example going for walks outside and talking. Basically like if we’re there walkin wit ya fam! Keep striving, never give up, God Bless y’all!🙏🏾❤️‍🔥

  • @bashayerexplore
    @bashayerexplore 3 месяца назад +2

    " don't suffer twice " so touching 💗

  • @indiastella661
    @indiastella661 3 месяца назад +3

    Your videos have genuinely changed my life, you have a real gift. Thank you

  • @rumi1970dg
    @rumi1970dg Месяц назад +4

    the title caught my eye and it keeps me going.

  • @cgillett.4603
    @cgillett.4603 2 месяца назад +3

    U helped me remember to be mindful bro. it’s been a minute, I’m grateful

  • @Irawry0u
    @Irawry0u Месяц назад +1

    Can you make a video on learning to love and choose yourself and setting up boundaries?… I’m 26 and realizing I’ve never truly learned how to do any of these…

  • @TJGamingBackup
    @TJGamingBackup Месяц назад +1

    Bro keep up your good work some of us need to hear these things we can’t admit to ourselves💯

  • @Irawry0u
    @Irawry0u Месяц назад +1

    Thank you so much this is truly groundbreaking stuff that I am realizing as well and you articulated it so well

  • @Warmcinnamon
    @Warmcinnamon 3 месяца назад +5

    Your videos open my mind alot and it gets me thinking, I hate how much I space out so when you upload I have the chance to actually think about something important for a change lol, love the vids! ❤

  • @gellertbalanyi1740
    @gellertbalanyi1740 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you , I needed this because my girlfriend broke up with me without a reason 3 days ago, but I’m trying my best to stay positive

  • @ava9570
    @ava9570 3 месяца назад +1

    came at the perfect time, so grateful i came across this to hear you articulate many things i feel but can’t express this well. brings me peace knowing others out here are on a similar path

  • @SamihaKulkarni
    @SamihaKulkarni 3 месяца назад +2

    I agree with the past and future self statement. People address it like you were different back then or you should become different now. But it's like that past person was me whatever it was and if you can be proud of that I feel your future self would be proud of you too..

  • @farasyuhada
    @farasyuhada 3 месяца назад +2

    I think we all need a full podcast channel from you! on spotify etc

  • @mukeshbagal742
    @mukeshbagal742 Месяц назад +5

    Mithhu don here

  • @magicalmadness143
    @magicalmadness143 2 месяца назад +1

    If you enjoy your own company you are doing something right, and you’ll attract like minded people!

  • @adamsugarhill
    @adamsugarhill 3 месяца назад +3

    I might be late but you reminded me of a quote I read recently in a French book that goes like this : “Est ce que l’homme parviendra finalement à explorer l’univers entier à l’exception de lui même.” Which translates to “Will man finally manage to explore the entire universe, except for himself?”

    • @Astialo
      @Astialo 2 месяца назад

      What book ?

    • @adamsugarhill
      @adamsugarhill 2 месяца назад

      @@Astialo I believe it was "La Civilisation Ma Mère!..." written by Driss Chraïbi but im not quite sure.

  • @thinkingabmel
    @thinkingabmel 3 месяца назад +2

    i admire your videos so much! i'm very grateful i came across your channel a while back, your videos really change my perspective for the better. i admire your thought process aswell and the fact you aren't scared to admit you've been through things to get to where you are now. i know this channel is going places❤!

  • @P.SDaCharm
    @P.SDaCharm 3 месяца назад +8

    ☁️Remember we are NEVER ALONE❤❤Its All A Mind Thing🤩💸💸🙏God Timing is the right timing for anything so take just N JOY RIDE😘😘

  • @EsdrasDZN
    @EsdrasDZN 5 дней назад +1

    thanks for this, man

  • @justdontknow3402
    @justdontknow3402 3 месяца назад +1

    I broke up with my first love and it’s been a slippery slope but after finding you’re videos I’ve found some peace within the situation

    • @aielianna
      @aielianna 2 месяца назад +1

      I did as well. This is the most painful shit I ever felt and I also really hurt them in the process. It’s gonna be a long hard road but I just have to let things be.

  • @cddrive_3449
    @cddrive_3449 3 месяца назад +1

    This is the lesson life has been teaching me recently

  • @meronch1380
    @meronch1380 Месяц назад

    I'm crying, bro
    your words are so important, thank you for that, thank you

  • @WhoisWavy
    @WhoisWavy 3 месяца назад

    been watching since the earlier days and want to say im so inspired by how much you've grown. You are blessed to have the mind you have, stay thankful for the present moment.

  • @Godsavesspodcast
    @Godsavesspodcast 3 месяца назад +8

    You really don’t know how much I needed this right now

  • @hadronff2848
    @hadronff2848 Месяц назад +4

    Whos are here after nakul dhull story 😂

  • @darnell1990
    @darnell1990 2 месяца назад +1

    Your videos are saving me, you are like an a Eldest brother for me men

  • @VEEx777
    @VEEx777 3 месяца назад +2

    so much you said gave me cold chills , you deserve a upgrade it betta be in 4k Ultra wide surround sound u feel me

  • @lucabrennanhyde
    @lucabrennanhyde 3 месяца назад +2

    this the best one yet bro for me personally. thank you

  • @Bihari_babua_gaming
    @Bihari_babua_gaming Месяц назад +3

    Nakul Dhull fan attendance

  • @Cursumofficial
    @Cursumofficial 3 месяца назад +2

    This guy has literally changed my life

  • @midnight7971
    @midnight7971 Месяц назад

    I just broke up with the best person I've ever had the pleasure of being with, tho there is no animosity admittedly I feel destroyed, I was truly down, and still am and will be for a while, but this, this video helps, I want to become better from this and I have more hope for the future but know that to make that hope a reality I need to deal with the pain of right now, and your words has helped to inspire me to not self destruct

  • @rhsman5863
    @rhsman5863 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing yourself with us. You are an amazing speaker, I will be watching more of your vids❤️

  • @DavidsonHangOfficial
    @DavidsonHangOfficial 3 месяца назад +1

    Pure gold per usual!

  • @Justin-jn2ip
    @Justin-jn2ip 3 месяца назад +2

    These videos have saved me ❤

  • @seaweedclutz
    @seaweedclutz 3 месяца назад

    i’m so aware of all these things… i just can’t mentally get myself to make a change, it’s so depressing. the self pity, i can see a bigger picture im just a cry baby lol ):

  • @g5elin9
    @g5elin9 2 месяца назад +1

    this resonates so deeply

  • @zacsnyder3185
    @zacsnyder3185 3 месяца назад +3

    life messing with me right now, and trying to be better and change is hard

  • @R7rnbl
    @R7rnbl 3 месяца назад +1

    Big things ahead for this man
    "We suffer more in our imagination than in real life" Don't suffer twice

  • @anamelissa111
    @anamelissa111 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you

  • @FrostGemMonster54
    @FrostGemMonster54 3 месяца назад +1

    Yesterday yesterday or the other day yesterday? New upgrades are exciting. This background is definitely nice. Anyplace where it still feels like we're having a chat is also fine. The atmosphere is normally cozy. On another note, I've literally been struggling with this. I've been talking about how I don't know how to allow myself to just be. For some reason, I can't just be. Watched the video and imma be honest, I still don't know how.

    • @FrostGemMonster54
      @FrostGemMonster54 3 месяца назад

      After reflection and meditation, this video hitting hard today. Literally every part of it.

    • @profoundpondering8575
      @profoundpondering8575  3 месяца назад +1

      It’s not a thought it’s an action, look don’t analyze

  • @benregis6904
    @benregis6904 3 месяца назад +7

    Ay this mf be spittin

  • @juliaa.a00
    @juliaa.a00 3 месяца назад +1

    i am so thankful for this channel, thank you thank you thank you ❤️

  • @lucabrennanhyde
    @lucabrennanhyde 3 месяца назад +1

    genuinely bro please never stop making these.

  • @jumanagafar5258
    @jumanagafar5258 2 месяца назад +2

    I really needed this video 💖

  • @polaka311
    @polaka311 Месяц назад

    i lost myself a long time ago (not sure if i ever had it) and i don't want it back, i just want it to end. i hope my loved ones don't see this. stay swell

    • @v.xien.
      @v.xien. 15 дней назад

      Wanna talk?

  • @InTheKnowwithCass
    @InTheKnowwithCass 3 месяца назад

    I like this background. Sometimes outdoor videos are hard to hear if the wind is blowing. But the weather is warming up so I say hey, give it a try.

  • @bolabanks
    @bolabanks 3 месяца назад +4

    Effortless living! 👌

  • @user-oi6vt2yx4p
    @user-oi6vt2yx4p Месяц назад

    God bless your heart and soul that’s mean alot🤍

  • @frixsilva1121
    @frixsilva1121 5 дней назад +1

    Hold up, his writing is this fire?

  • @arpysz6899
    @arpysz6899 3 месяца назад +1

    Great video.thanks for the knowledge update

  • @AsiaCollins-kg1ej
    @AsiaCollins-kg1ej 3 месяца назад +2

    outdoor videos would definitely be a good vibe!!

  • @onlymix8013
    @onlymix8013 2 месяца назад +1

    God bless you.

  • @doubleg12k
    @doubleg12k 2 месяца назад

    yk sometimes pretty girls tell me they are insecure about them selfs it made me realize everyone is the same

  • @guitar_queer
    @guitar_queer 2 месяца назад +1

    I really needed this, thank you

  • @lyricsbymitski2045
    @lyricsbymitski2045 2 месяца назад +2

    so glad i found you

  • @MrRobeasca
    @MrRobeasca 3 месяца назад

    this was great man thank you. You expressed yourself well

  • @chiragbakshi2765
    @chiragbakshi2765 Месяц назад +5

    After Nakul Dhull story…

  • @clementinagranato3226
    @clementinagranato3226 Месяц назад

    “We suffer more in immagination than in reality”

  • @dhruvsaroha9044
    @dhruvsaroha9044 Месяц назад +3

    Nakul dhulll

  • @darnell1990
    @darnell1990 2 месяца назад +1

    It's so Deep this videos, we touch the final