letting go is what makes it stay

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @cecerataza
    @cecerataza 5 месяцев назад +429

    "How can you make any wrong turns on your journey? How can your story be written incorrectly if youre the one writing it?" This really put me at ease because i tend to overthink every decision and try to see the outcome before i even put it into action.

    • @GThaTruth.
      @GThaTruth. 5 месяцев назад +3

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @simoneasquith3806
    @simoneasquith3806 5 месяцев назад +330

    'you're gonna be here regardless. you might as well just be you'
    Y E S .

  • @brodysamson8033
    @brodysamson8033 5 месяцев назад +574

    I just need to be honest you really helped me truly appreciate my life and understand that my purpose in life is to just truly live. I was talking to a girl yesterday about how worthless I was and how I wanted to unalive myself but I then found your videos. You and her helped me get through that time as I now realize that you are truly an amazing person and I also realized that even me, I am an amazing person. It really made me happy for the first time in years and I smiled genuinely for what felt like forever. After watching your videos I talked to her and she helped me laugh genuinely in 6 years. I went to bed last night truly happy and woke up today realizing that I can be a new person and that new person is truly just being myself instead of being someone else for others. So thank you Eyan.

    • @sprd-luv
      @sprd-luv 5 месяцев назад +22

      i hope and pray that ur happiness is perpetual and everlasting. amen

    • @mohamedkamara8225
      @mohamedkamara8225 5 месяцев назад +5

      Glad you got to this point

    • @debunkedlettuce3572
      @debunkedlettuce3572 5 месяцев назад +4

      you got this!! it may get hard but then it’ll get better again you matter and you have the strength to create the good life u deserve, u have the strength clearly because you’re still here 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @profoundpondering8575
      @profoundpondering8575  5 месяцев назад +44

      I’m so glad bro

    • @1D0N.1
      @1D0N.1 5 месяцев назад +1

      !!!!!!!

  • @BillyBologna333
    @BillyBologna333 5 месяцев назад +318

    “In letting go of treating yourself like a project, you allow yourself to develop “. I am 60 years old and … wow… just wow. Thank you for this video young man.

    • @ZumaXaki
      @ZumaXaki 5 месяцев назад +3

      All respect to you as well. The youth need a leader.

  • @yuleydiperezz
    @yuleydiperezz 4 месяца назад +114

    “How can your story be written incorrectly if you’re the one writing it” wowwwwww👏🏽

  • @Lee-xw7gf
    @Lee-xw7gf 4 месяца назад +50

    “You can’t walk the path without taking the steps.” So powerful from the start

  • @ydd_dizzy
    @ydd_dizzy 5 месяцев назад +247

    the way popularity is is idolized in our society messes up our perception of just being human

  • @kyle1732
    @kyle1732 5 месяцев назад +115

    "What am I doing with my life. Open your eyes and see" Bruhh that goes wayy to hard.

  • @cddrive34
    @cddrive34 5 месяцев назад +68

    I noticed since I was young, one of the hardest things for me to accept was goodbyes. This ties into my ability to let go in a bigger sense. I’m slowly getting better but I see this as an area I still struggle. Thanks for the words

    • @rdtfghj1238
      @rdtfghj1238 5 месяцев назад +2

      i have the same issue and i want to stop clinging to whats familiar

    • @cddrive34
      @cddrive34 5 месяцев назад

      @@rdtfghj1238 I feel that, we are creatures of habit so breaking those habits is hard. I’ve found you have to have a good “why” to want to change and better yourself. And also cling to yourself bro, I believe in you and send you my support

  • @morgann17
    @morgann17 5 месяцев назад +62

    Bro, i've let myself go so bad I can't even recognise myself a few months ago. I'm sat here writing a bunch of stuff you said to try and grow me better. You have a gift and I'm so glad you're preaching what you have to say. Seriously, thank you from the bottom of my heart, I will try and grow better and better each day.

    • @dices.
      @dices. 5 месяцев назад +2

      we are here with you

  • @lostconsciousness
    @lostconsciousness 5 месяцев назад +49

    You know man. I cant express how well spoken your words are. They hit like daggers.
    Thanks for helping me realize that nothing worth having is easy. Its made me truly appreciate everything. I will always make mistakes, but dwelling on them only hurts me.

  • @chris_bean12
    @chris_bean12 Месяц назад +3

    "If you're in your head, how can you be here"? This hit me like a truck, I have a problem with overthinking with my relationship and its been feeling weird after because it still feels like something is wrong. But what you said really opened a whole new perspective for me, I tend to be in my head a lot of the times we call and its been rough these past few weeks. I overthink about her talking to another person behind my back, or falling out of love with me. Her past tends to bug me a little but knowing how to let go is an important thing because it can cause a lot of damage without even knowing. So hearing this really helped on how I am just intoxicating my own mind as myself, but also my love relationship as well, I thank you Profound Pondering.

  • @patricia-kc5kx
    @patricia-kc5kx Месяц назад +5

    "if you're stuck in your head, how can you be here ?" Damn.

  • @xavluc
    @xavluc 5 месяцев назад +9

    "in preparation for the future thought is amazing, but the application of it happens in the present". spitting wisdom right here, thanks bro

  • @Ronaldoisboss
    @Ronaldoisboss 3 месяца назад +11

    I'm in the process of letting go of someone wonderful who had to leave before things got serious because she finally had the courage to face her demons on her own and keep me out of it since she didn't want to hurt me. She realized she couldn't give me her full attention because she would further lose herself. We agreed we can't speak unless she's in a better place. I wish I could send her this video, not to tell her how I feel but because it's wonderful. In the meantime I'm learning to move on. This is my first heartbreak.

  • @gabrield8385
    @gabrield8385 5 месяцев назад +19

    im currently in a very strange transitional phase in life right now, and your videos are the backbone to my growth. as i enter college, i’ve removed all social media and have given myself more time to myself. i internalize your words and it fills the silence. i’ve been looking for new perspectives. thank you for sharing a piece of yourself.

    • @GMG-v9ff
      @GMG-v9ff 5 месяцев назад +1

      I feel you man, I just finished college and am in a very weird transitional faze :/

  • @aimat2715
    @aimat2715 5 месяцев назад +18

    I appreciate these videos so much. And the fewer views these videos get, the less people need these. And I think that's beautiful.

  • @GThaTruth.
    @GThaTruth. 5 месяцев назад +9

    How can you make any wrong turns on your journey? How can your story be written incorrectly? If you’re the one writing it! Sometimes you make mistakes, most of the time you make choices. My guy is special! 🙌🏾

  • @jjturner7463
    @jjturner7463 5 месяцев назад +33

    i'm going through a very rough breakup right now. i recognize my actions that led me to where we are in the relationship, and i've been practicing and working on all the things that i know i need to work on. my biggest problem now is, not knowing if i'll ever get the chance to make things right. to do all this work and become a better man, only to give it a stranger vs the girl who was with me when i was an asshole. she deserves it more than anyone, and i don't know if i'll ever get that chance again. i know i need to make these changes for myself, to be better for myself, and happy with myself. But it's hard to just ignore the possibility of living a life without her. we'd only been together for about 4 years, but it was like 4 years of all day everyday. we built such a strong connection, and she's the only girl i've ever thought about a future with, house, kids names, everything. you really don't understand the value of something until you no longer have it

    • @axel7801
      @axel7801 4 месяца назад +5

      Im sorry youre going through this but I hope youre doing well

    • @Ap9-q5f
      @Ap9-q5f 2 месяца назад

      Im in the exact and spot

    • @prakhya123
      @prakhya123 2 месяца назад +5

      Not to be weird but I hurt him in our relationship. I feel exactly how you feel. Growing and learning, becoming better just to not have a future again with him hurts to even think about. But now, this is my life and I have to deal with it. I have to learn how to live without him. Now he is with someone else, it kills me to think thar he treats her as good as he treated me, I can never get him back again. I will just get better for my future connections with other men. Even though it was just 2 years, I will always cling on to those memories forever.

    • @Ap9-q5f
      @Ap9-q5f 2 месяца назад

      @@prakhya123 did he move on quick

    • @prakhya123
      @prakhya123 2 месяца назад

      @@Ap9-q5f he actually had been talking to another girl (whom I know of) for months but still giving me attention......When I had the guts to actually, you know, confess my feelings, he switched lol. He ghosted me and went towards her all because she texted him more than me ( I was busy with my studies, I have trouble managing my connections along with studies). Its okay though, I am not the type of girl he wanted, things would have ended at some point, it is better that they did ( in Feb).It was never meant to be tbh.

  • @HomechillGaming
    @HomechillGaming 4 месяца назад +14

    I’m gonna start my day with one of your videos. I feel like it will give a lense to view the day with and ponder on. Respect brother keep making these

    • @zackgreth7838
      @zackgreth7838 4 месяца назад

      🙌🏽same here brother

    • @coreydrayton1842
      @coreydrayton1842 25 дней назад

      same plan to watch at least one a day and take notes, this man’s genius

  • @FelDivan
    @FelDivan 5 месяцев назад +96

    “A lot of our life is in reference” hard

    • @redblazer29
      @redblazer29 Месяц назад

      meaning? we look at others and see how they're living and try to emulate that?

  • @biancagonz-o
    @biancagonz-o 5 месяцев назад +6

    you came to me at such a right time. i get too caught up in questioning myself and scarcely let myself and my mind be, just think things and experience this universe without judgement. thank you

  • @baddestliyah
    @baddestliyah 5 месяцев назад +71

    this man is wise AND fine

  • @connor-td3jj
    @connor-td3jj 5 месяцев назад +6

    "You cant walk the path without taking the steps". I dont know why but this one really hit me and i would like to just say thank you for making this content as its helped me develop the way i think and look at life. Once again thank you.

  • @finesseb305
    @finesseb305 5 месяцев назад +9

    really going through some shit these last few months. the past year has definitely been the worst of my life it’s crazy how fast stuff can go down. i feel very lost idk man. these videos be hitting hard thanks for your wisdom my guy.

  • @Mzbal998
    @Mzbal998 Месяц назад +1

    I am a person in recovery and your videos help me a bunch. I am working a 12 step program and focusing 100% on making my life the life I always wanted to live. I really needed to hear this message today. I am a few days over 2 months clean and sober and hearing your messages brings me back to where I need to be mentally. Thank you

  • @HannahGladney
    @HannahGladney 4 месяца назад +5

    “you don’t have to try to act like yourself, just be you.”

  • @MEISURHUSBAND
    @MEISURHUSBAND 5 месяцев назад +4

    This is the first video I've seen from you and my perspective on life has completely changed. Thank you for that.

  • @destinysaye5217
    @destinysaye5217 Месяц назад +4

    “It’s easy to get lost in the detail of consciousness.” wow

  • @daricruz235
    @daricruz235 4 месяца назад +2

    your videos truly do ground me & it's just so refreshing.

  • @Titohan
    @Titohan 4 месяца назад +5

    "sometimes you make mistakes, most times you just make choices"

  • @gloriouslyaesthetic
    @gloriouslyaesthetic 5 месяцев назад +7

    I truly appreciate your videos, my brothe. Truly, thank you for shining the light. 🙏

  • @Aman-lt3pf
    @Aman-lt3pf 5 месяцев назад +2

    I’m just 20 but going through a lot i had plans for my life since i was 15 been a road downhill for a year now almost lost everything i had or valued the people the financials and everything I’m learning the art of letting go your videos act like my dad who use to talk to me about life but he’s not with me anymore, i’m so glad you’re here for these videos bro

  • @ranpo9339
    @ranpo9339 4 месяца назад +2

    changing or not comes only after acceptance is so true

  • @j.k.warren3757
    @j.k.warren3757 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You’ve guided me immensely throughout the year in approaching adversity and being present. You’re making an incredible impact on myself and others.

  • @Rixkythedon
    @Rixkythedon 4 месяца назад +1

    you open my eyes to the world and the parts of myself I don’t normally acknowledge with each video 🙏🏻

  • @nathalyaoliveira8896
    @nathalyaoliveira8896 2 месяца назад

    I’m dealing with the loss of people I’ve loved dearly and moments of life I truly cherished. It’s been depressing and there are days I just don’t feel anything. But your videos are one of the things that are helping me get through that. Thank you very much.

  • @metulip6003
    @metulip6003 5 месяцев назад +2

    Man your videos make me feel something. Thank you for doing what you do🙏🏽

  • @ToastedToast198
    @ToastedToast198 5 месяцев назад +1

    I like to watch these videos simply to listen to your perspective on day to day emotional navigation. It’s like building upon what should be known as common thought and I really appreciate that. I work in the healthcare field and I hear so often of people referencing good days, wishing for better days, but it’s so important to just let go. Let go of the feelings of the past and the feelings of what we assume the future will be like. It helps me keep a positive attitude for my patients and helps me grounded to better help them and keep my spirits up when times get tough. Everyday is a day to realize I am life and I am the driving factor to my environment. Really appreciate your ability to explain and expand on your thoughts and perspectives on life and such, thank for another great video!

  • @mtonic3352
    @mtonic3352 5 месяцев назад +1

    You have helped me with the big changes in my life right now between silence and chaos you’re like a friend I can sit and nod my head to.

  • @fatihcollak7751
    @fatihcollak7751 5 месяцев назад +13

    I was just going to sleep ,i was really tired of to be honest everything and now i feel actually in peace. Tomorrow is a big day and of course a new day LETSSS GOOO THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING

  • @KaneHankins00
    @KaneHankins00 5 месяцев назад +73

    My mindset after watching this=📈📈

  • @madeaqueen2251
    @madeaqueen2251 4 месяца назад +1

    Bar for bar!!! I can’t wait to get home to listen to this again, and really let it marinate… I appreciate the new found perspective you’ve shared ! Thank you! ❤

  • @BZaragoza04
    @BZaragoza04 5 месяцев назад +12

    Yoooo the timing of this video is crazy! I was watching your video about the law of detachment earlier. Your content is great bro I appreciate what you’ve put out, it’s helped a lot

  • @evelynbaek4774
    @evelynbaek4774 4 месяца назад

    The depth of your thoughts really makes me feel less isolated in this world. Your videos are so profound and authentic. More of what this world needs.

  • @Jakehab01928
    @Jakehab01928 5 месяцев назад +6

    This advice is very great thank you man! First time watching.

  • @leball
    @leball 4 месяца назад +2

    i’m currently going through one of the most confusing and puzzling times in my life, i’m going to the navy and won’t see the girl i’ve been seeing for a few months until december, i’ve been so confused but you’re videos are really helping. thank you

  • @kgsdesign
    @kgsdesign 5 месяцев назад +1

    your voice is so calm and really helps these messages download 🙏

  • @carmiebbt
    @carmiebbt 5 месяцев назад

    you are so eloquent, and comforting. i've been going through some things and i have been trying to figure out how to let go of my current situation as it has my heart aching, thank you for the compassion and perspective you provide in this!

  • @linamorelia4715
    @linamorelia4715 5 месяцев назад +2

    thank you sm you're healing something in me i didn't know was broken

    • @Caramelinfused
      @Caramelinfused 4 месяца назад

      Me too he’s just so insightful

  • @Jo-jackson
    @Jo-jackson 5 месяцев назад +1

    I wish this guy one days shares his diet. Whatever he drink and eat is 🔥. Great job and thanks and PLEASE KEEP GOING!! 😀

  • @avant-garde8602
    @avant-garde8602 5 месяцев назад +3

    Hey I was having an emotional breakdown earlier and this video helped me calm down. Thanks :) Lost sight of what truly matters for a moment there.

  • @JohnSmith-g1v
    @JohnSmith-g1v 4 месяца назад +2

    Your videos have really helped me bro, I have been in a bad spot recently and watching your videos have really helped me start to get through it. Keep uploading these man it always makes my day when I watch one of your vids.

  • @DaveSuchilt
    @DaveSuchilt 4 месяца назад +1

    This guy read the power of now i see it in the bac., Lots of wisdom can be taken from that book.

  • @MindfulMulling
    @MindfulMulling 4 месяца назад +3

    One of your best videos.

  • @joywilliams2821
    @joywilliams2821 4 месяца назад

    literally bringing this knowledge to my counseling internship this coming fall semester!! ..ur words hold a heavy impact truly 🙏🏾

  • @Strixs
    @Strixs 5 месяцев назад +4

    at my lowest again. it was spontaneous too, i have no idea why it came back. i keep telling myself its a temporary feeling, but its so hard to accept. im not able to let go of these feelings no matter how hard i try, i just have to wait until my brain's ready again to start trying. no realizations are helping now, it's a sort of brain chemistry that won't let me be.
    last week was very good too, i was on the up. now, it feels like im back to square one.

  • @shirleympati
    @shirleympati Месяц назад

    "Watch life happen than look for life." 💯 There's too many many beautiful quotes in this video. #CarpeDiem

  • @alexiscrocker885
    @alexiscrocker885 5 месяцев назад +1

    I held on to every word you said, you are beautiful and thank you for this video

  • @seiskitty
    @seiskitty 5 месяцев назад

    its hard to break out of the mindset of living in reference especially when it’s been painful experiences. Ive been on a self growth journey and it’s hard to navigate on my own. I lose sight of the journey a lot but your videos help me snap out of it and start switching to a more present perspective while keeping in mind the past but not living in it. ❤

  • @ceciliaswendso
    @ceciliaswendso 5 месяцев назад

    Man did I need to click on this one today!! You always speak volumes. ❤

  • @Uhhh22
    @Uhhh22 5 месяцев назад +11

    “Not necessarily acknowledging it as a negative thing but as a thumbthing…a thumbthing.” Hahaha so cute

  • @oliviavalenzuela7857
    @oliviavalenzuela7857 5 месяцев назад

    I found a video of yours on TikTok and I resonated with it so much. I looked up your RUclips channel and was blown away at how you're able to delitcaltley articulate exactly how I feel. I appreciate your videos so much. 💕

  • @gaffgaff6885
    @gaffgaff6885 5 месяцев назад +2

    You helped me out man i wish just the best for you

  • @jebsenaddun7356
    @jebsenaddun7356 5 месяцев назад +3

    being able to let go, is holding yourself together

  • @skyler9295
    @skyler9295 5 месяцев назад

    you been my apart of my guidance when i most need it. most people don’t think like we.

    • @skyler9295
      @skyler9295 5 месяцев назад

      you mentioned trying to grasp control over our thoughts but i wanna add. “by trying to hold control over everything you now have control over nothing. but once you learn to let go you’ll find the light at the end of the tunnel. hold on for me”

    • @skyler9295
      @skyler9295 5 месяцев назад

      appreciate you a lot man 🙌

    • @skyler9295
      @skyler9295 5 месяцев назад

      when you brought up, allow things to be unknown is something i just had a realization about last night. i was thinking about my life and the choices i’ve made to be where i’m at now because i’d always love to aspire better for myself and i’ve always known somewhat without knowing i know it. but i got stuck in wanting to know more and more and more. then got tangled in the cobwebs lol. there’s always gonna be information you missed or never even come across that maybe you will 20 years from now. everything you say is beautiful and purely coming from the heart.

  • @victoriaortiz3394
    @victoriaortiz3394 5 месяцев назад

    “ you can’t walk the path without taking any steps “ ‼️

  • @bossanovalvr
    @bossanovalvr 5 месяцев назад +2

    you keep me grounded with theses videos; thank you

  • @jaydencameron5538
    @jaydencameron5538 27 дней назад +1

    I could listen to you for hours

  • @jeffreyjamessb
    @jeffreyjamessb Месяц назад

    thanks man i feel so much better in my head.

  • @bellad777
    @bellad777 4 месяца назад

    You’re helping me through some confusing times thank you

  • @artbyreedie
    @artbyreedie 2 месяца назад +1

    one of the hardest things to master is to learn that you cannot control everything, you cannot control people.

  • @scpp127
    @scpp127 5 месяцев назад

    choices, not mistakes!!! i love that

  • @ilysunnie
    @ilysunnie 5 месяцев назад +5

    thank you for existing. ❤

  • @barbaradominguez777
    @barbaradominguez777 5 месяцев назад

    “period!”😂 new consciousness unlocked 💯

  • @Caramelinfused
    @Caramelinfused 4 месяца назад

    If it’s not in your hand it shouldn’t be in your mind don’t control outcomes let life be ❤
    I’m really learning here thank you 🙏

  • @Dumpyyling
    @Dumpyyling 4 месяца назад

    fully described how I feel about being present in the moment

  • @burnett.kaylaa
    @burnett.kaylaa 2 месяца назад

    needed to hear this. thank you

  • @alayna.mcknight
    @alayna.mcknight 5 месяцев назад +4

    thank you. you’re saving lives.

  • @LYJmusic
    @LYJmusic 5 месяцев назад +1

    Needed to hear this. Thanks 🎉

  • @aguywholikestodraw
    @aguywholikestodraw 5 месяцев назад +2

    i love your vids so much bro thank you

  • @OuuulalaRiRi
    @OuuulalaRiRi 5 месяцев назад +1

    Every single day I have to watch your uploads it’s amazing what you’re doing I’m proud of you ❤

  • @Zuhaileysinthelife
    @Zuhaileysinthelife 5 месяцев назад

    Your words speak, your words help me be my highest self , you made me realize you do everything for yourself. You change my perspective on the world. crazy what words can do. And crazier how i can make an action, to change.

  • @isouille
    @isouille 4 месяца назад +8

    Lil Nas X shared this video on his instagram story 🎉

  • @simonsjoholm96
    @simonsjoholm96 5 месяцев назад

    Really needed to hear this at this time. Thank you

  • @a1y444
    @a1y444 4 месяца назад +1

    I am about to be a senior in literally a week
    I feel my goals in life don’t connect with my friends goals and I have such a vast feeling of leaving them and being on my own and not gaf
    I don’t know what’s stopping me I know they don’t really care the way that I care I wanna learn how to be ok with being alone with myself, give myself that comfort that I get from people

  • @angelofautumn
    @angelofautumn 4 месяца назад

    def needed to hear this, thank u so much

  • @patricia-kc5kx
    @patricia-kc5kx Месяц назад +1

    bro is spitting BARSSSSS

  • @FelipeLawall3710
    @FelipeLawall3710 4 месяца назад

    Needed this video l, really appreciate you man

  • @EliAnderson-n1v
    @EliAnderson-n1v 5 месяцев назад +1

    Channel just continues to grow. I hope you achieve all you deserve

  • @kermit637
    @kermit637 4 месяца назад

    These help so much I keep watching

  • @KaileeKinsey
    @KaileeKinsey 5 месяцев назад +1

    you deserve the world 🙏🙏

  • @cosmic7ny
    @cosmic7ny 5 месяцев назад

    most gratitude to you eyan 💞!!your videos truly do help.

  • @trulylexa
    @trulylexa 3 месяца назад

    I love watching you , you be talking real spill and your handsome 🥹

  • @sprd-luv
    @sprd-luv 5 месяцев назад +2

    god bless u brotha

  • @willdixon7951
    @willdixon7951 5 месяцев назад

    Yo bro I’ve been with your channel for a bit now and you are killing it. Where did you learn the skill to talk so freely and educated? I feel that I read a lot which helps but you seem to spit non stop bars so effortlessly and it’s so profound (no pun intended)

  • @danielastark76
    @danielastark76 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you i needed to hear that right now!
    This made my Day:)

  • @abrahunkmaslow
    @abrahunkmaslow 5 месяцев назад +1

    thank u 🦋

  • @miguelcarlon5025
    @miguelcarlon5025 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks brother this what I needed to hear today!

  • @hyd119
    @hyd119 5 месяцев назад +5

    I like your channel and your introspection. I see that MF DOOM album behind you. I want to be your friend simply because of that. I miss MF a lot.
    "Ever since the womb til i’m back where my brother went, that’s what my tomb’ll say"