She Wants a High Value Man, But HATES Being Accountable - Can You Ever Please a Woman?
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No man says: I'm going to the USA, Canada, or the UK to find a good wife. They say: I'm going to Latin America, Asia or Eastern Europe to find a good wife.
To make an attempt.
Nows day that modern women culture is almost everywhere but less than US, Canada and Europe.
Sorry, social media has ruined them too. I’ve been to all of those countries. They’re even worse in some ways.
I’ve done it all and now I will see a prostitute who is high end and clean once in awhile. Gets me by. But I went from being in debt with a GF to having dozens of cars and properties staying single for the last decade❤
Latinamerica and a good wife? Looks like you never visited LATAM, LATAM and eastern countries are more and less the same, low quality people is everywhere in each gender.
I'm going to Colombia.
It is unbelievable how skillful they are in blaming someone else and/or explaining away their bad decisions and poor behaviors. Never able to take accountability and responsibility. Never.
Feminism has taught them from their teens.
Skills they have developed over a lifetime of avoiding accountability
Generations of research, development, and field testing passed down from parent to offspring. The male side has been basically dismantled through the single mother pandemic leaving an imbalance.
When we speak these boundaries, they tend to call us toxic
To all Witches, masculine men with backbone are indeed Toxic to them.
She can yield no power if you are in the room. Her only chance left is to seduce you.
If you get called toxic or insecure for it, that tells you all you need to know. There is definetly going on with her and needs the guidance and your wisdom for it. With time, she doesn't understand and continues "messing up", she's done. You have every right to leave that situation. It's on your grounds or nothing.
At least the toxic females will call themselves out by doing so.😅
They call us controlling and abusive.
No. A marriage is when you compromise. Not your way or the highway that’s a dictatorship
Accountability= Kryptonite to women
teheheheheh
Ooooh my now ex wife of 17 years squirmed, squealed and wailed when being held accountable! 😂
I had to visit a female friend in hospital the other day, she nearly died but it looks like she will pull through......the doctors were amazed they'd never seen a woman survive taking accountability before
@@AncientYouth64 LOL 😂
Children avoid adult accountability. Make of this what you will.
Kevin Samuels said it too...
attracting, getting and keeping a high value man is a full time, stressful job... Has lots of benefits but its still work.
A high-value man is emotionally mature, he communicates honestly and openly with you and expects the same from you. He does not lie, cheat, or betray you. There is no space for ghosting or mixed signals, he is consistent and reliable. He tells you what he wants and needs and respects what you want and need.
Define "high value man".
If a woman only wants a man because of what he has, is HE high value or what he has?
Plenty of women have married richen and killed them to inherit their wealth.
I don't know much but I can tell, men who are successful in relationships are the ones who know how to play the game.
I bet a lot of the women looking for a HVM think it’s going to fix their low self esteem. Somehow they will absorb the efforts of his work and feel whole. You can’t fix what’s broken on the inside until you address it. Parasiting off a guy is a temporary emotional fix for lazy women
I doubt they think a HVM will make them whole.
They just want the financial benefit of having one, so they don't have to work and take it easy
You can never please a woman, so don’t and stop trying!
fact is most are not to be taken seriously
Even average men should demand accountability. Don’t tolerate anything less men.
Exactly, why label man's values with materialism. If you're healthy, no big diseases, working and trying to fix life. Basically struggling men also have value till they are trying in life. This elite class people shouldn't label society.
I concur. You teach people how to treat you. Put another way, we get what we tolerate. I have been with the same woman for decades. I am willing to forgive mistakes, and the OCCASIONAL bad day. But I have no patience left for disrespect.
Accountability is like explaining a color red to a blind from birth person to them.
It is not a lack of understanding. It is that they feel it is of no use to them. That changes the instant they actually want an man and realize homie don't play that.
This is the mistake I did. Just jumping to the relationship because I wanted her to be mine,, but I didn't consider to call out first her guy friends, attitude towards thing, goals, etc... As a person, I needed to set those boundaries and I didn't. I know I'm not that high value (I just go to gym) but there's still a standard you know? My guy, you are my saviour.
You learned. That is a W
@@ludakris6688 ok bro, my dude, my man
@@ludakris6688 I'm not changing my entire vocabulary and personality to please anyone. Saying "thanks" is too bland for me and I rather be this way than be what you call high value. Tried playing the nonchalant and it's just not me.
@@ludakris6688 You say there's a problem over my generation over my choice of vocabulary? You don't know me at all. And yeah this generation sucks, so many things wrong🤣 Its not the best or any reason good but that's just an odd thing to say over that.
@@ludakris6688 There's a reason we are both in this page, we are both connected in some way at least. We know what's happening...
You can tell straight up she's troubles.
Good! No sympathy for these modern women at all!
Was it the uptalking histrionics, the thousand-rooster stare or the road-worn face?
She'll work off her baby-rabies with some dusky immigrant.
I don't know who edits these videos and does the gif inserts but there's a great sense of humor at work there.
On top of that, she clearly has hit the wall.
She is scary.
Your last line hit hard after 14 years of marriage.
I will never be with a woman that is doing those things in the first place. Why would you waste the energy when you can find a woman already in line with what you want?
Desperation, simping, etc.
Simple. Because coming across women of quality is not so easy. Better still to stay on your grind, and they will find you (and many low quality women as well).
They want to have their cake & eat it too. Eventually almost all of them find out (usually when they hit the wall) that dog doesn't hunt.
High Value Man should ask: Where is the most favorable divorce courts..
A 'wise' high-value man never, ever gets married, he only lives together with the vvoman in a place that does not have commonlaw-marriage laws. If he's a high value man and he gets married then he's an idiot that will soon lose a large chunk of his net worth.
This is not high value men. This is a man who knows he got to set boundaries. You don't need to be a millionaire or anything to know this basic rule.
Women complain no matter what
"I m sorry. I was wrong, and you were right. From now on I'm going to listen to you intently because i reapect you as my man."
Words that have never passed a woman's lips since the beginning of time.
Women who get with the high value man who suddenly can't adjust to what were basic and unquestioned norms for thousands of years are no different from a feral dog that's run wild and can no longer be domesticated.
This should be in the Bible
When I stepped off the plane in Manila, I became a high value man living on my social security check.
Why is she looking for a HVM?
She is inherently a robber. This is why she has many men on speed-dial.
She uses his value to rule over him thru a Wife Cosplay.....until her claws dig deep into him.
Then she strikes...
Whoa Bro! You are absolute zero cold truth dropping!!!
Well said, couldn't be more clear. Love the 911 Turbo S!
Accountability??? no no no my girl has none
Thanks again Rich for helping us to make ourselves happy and better for the excellent knowledge that you shared.
Why any so-called high-value man would bother putting in this kind of effort to have a woman in his life is beyond me.
its because he was raised by a narcissistic mother and is still trying to "fix" his mother thru the girls hes dating
Very much on point.
Good stuff Rich
Good talk Rick..Basically guys, Live your life Levelled Up, hold your Frame, when it comes to women..sometimes the juice just isin't worth the squeeze..peace brothers
Well said Rich. This is a lot of EIC videos condensed into one.
sup bro, it's been a while since i last binge watched your stuff, it's good to catch up with you again. i've learned how to take my own stand, but it's still good to see how you negotiate what you want so articulately. i would of botched the negotiation if i were in that kind of situation.
I listened to your book through Speechify, it was good. I will have to return to it for more thorough detail and certain aspects. Thank you for writing it.
You sir are one of the valuable channels on RUclips nowadays
Well, you do not have to be rich in order to expect your woman to respect you.
I have to repeat myself in order for women to get it so what you say is totally true. When they try to fix themselves to your standards it’s only temporary to trap you. Always believe a woman who they are before you have to set boundaries. If they mostly meet your standards before the boundaries are set that’s who they really are and will and can handle your boundaries.
all women slag off their ex boyfriends and blame them for the break up
A man needs a woman like a fish needs a bicycle
A woman starts World War 3 - “It’s your fault because you work away and don’t give me enough attention!”
Piece of advice. Rather than set rules where she has to CHANGE, just don't date a woman who USED TO go on girls weekends or HAS guy-friends. We all know what goes on there. You want a girl who openly condemns women going wild, and hasn't engaged in that.
You'll find them if you look in the right places.
Also you have to get good at saying "NO".
Hi Richard where can I purchase the full version of Alan Roger Curries full video material? Thanks!
She either is accountable from the start to what you deem acceptable, or she isn’t. Hissy-fits only happen when she wasn’t willing to be that level of accountable from the get-go, or when she doesn’t truly view you as a high value man.
I think it should also be said that the definition of high value man varies from woman to woman. Rich covers the basics, but there are also many other forms of perceiving high value apart from money/influence etc.
If they give you shit about going away their girlfriends and try to give you an ultimatum, tell her to go ahead. Just know this: the door is unlocked on your way out, but it will be locked when you come back. Don't ever tolerate that shit.
I was with a woman for 2 half years.
She just recently broke it off coz she wanted to have a home together in the future and wanted me to visit more.
I hate long distance driving so always refused as I knew I couldn't keep it up.
She lives 2 hours away and has a daughter.
She would come down cook clean She was great.
I was video calling once or twice per day after 4 months being together.
She broke it off by saying I love you so much but I'm tired about the driving and want more.
I just couldn't see a future with her living together giving up my flat as I enjoy my alone time.
She was pulling away at the end coz I didn't want it to progress.
I'm not sure if it was the video calls that did it as we both loved seeing eachother and it lasted 2 years.
Great girl just heartbroken that she demanded more after she stated in the beginning she enjoyed the drive and the cooking.
I just enjoyed going abroad making memories together and having space away from eachother.
Feel so lost now.
I have made the same experience. But we lived only 1h from each other. She wanted a future with us together but to be honest, deep in my heart I'm a loner and I didn't wanted to give up my space, liberty, apartment.
We loved each other so much but we separated.
I needed some month but finally it was the right decision. Go on with your life buddy ✌🏻
I kind of disagree. As a guy that doesn’t have a lot of dating options, I still won’t put up with shit. I told a church girl playing mind games to kick rocks. This hurt but it had to be done. I just ghosted a chick who tried to play mind games. I’m at the age where I’m content on being alone. I’ll dismiss you at even the slightest hints of impropriety
Finally some word of reason
🎵 All I want to do in the middle of the evening is hold you tight, Rosanna, Rosanna. I never thought that a girl like you could every care for me 🎵 -Toto
Love classic rock and oldies. But man, oh man. The lyrics really were fallacy based. Fairytale.
Women aren’t sugar and spice.
Date respectable high quality women if you want those who will be holding themselves accountable.
There's no high quality women. Its a myth. If we're able to dig down past, every girl is same.
Been single and doing the dating thing for 4 years after a 17 year marriage. Have had women that I could tell were really into me end things suddenly for no apparent reason. Recognise now that at least a couple of them were selecting themselves out because they knew they couldn’t live up to the basic accountability standards I would expect of them. Or because they knew I’d get bored with them after a few months (one actually said this). At the time I tried to reassure her (what else could one do) but looking back I can see she was probably right. I think some women are big fish in small ponds and are not aware that the top of one social ladder is the bottom of the next one….until they find themselves it and panic. Blow to the ego i think.
Correct
When getting to know a girl, if she is the type of girl who has done the all girls vacations in Vegas or Cancun or keeps tons of men "friends" then this is probably not the type of girl you really want to get involved with as she already has proclivities for the type of behaviour that means if she wants to be involved with you she will have to give something she likes doing and to "control herself" and that will likely take more control than she has and it will lead to grief.
Rich with a white board explaining how to be accountable ....😂😂😂😂😂
She wants the status, the privileges, and the bragging rights to her BFFs 😅.
But won't put skin in the game let alone accountability
The word “accountability” cannot be translated into Womanese. Sorry.
going thru a break up and I am a little upset, but I do consider myself high value and I have high standards, I don't have many cars or millions of dollars, but I know skilled trades and im also an architect.. i generate good money, I also have properties here and in Mexico that are worth a lot, so if a woman disrespects me, she will get a taste of her own medicine...
Funny, met a younger girl last night at a party-she's 25, moderately attractive. She's a perpetual student, currently in law school because her grandma wanted her to but doesn't want to practice, nannies for money right now. She kept going on about how she just wants to find a rich husband, assumedly to pay off any student debt as well. Of course he can't be too old, never mind most wealthy men are older. It was painful to listen to her talk-nothing of interest there. I feel for these younger guys now and glad I had my fun-I'm 46 now and it was easier back then, no dating apps, ettc.
It always brings to mind a line from the first Alien movie from Ash when it comes to young dudes trying to date. "I can't lie to you about your chances...but you have my sympathies".
Most of their rich men are fantasies who don't exist. Even Trump imported his from Czechoslovakia. Say 'Hi' Ivanka & Melania!
They want to have their cake and eat it too!
The problem with setting boundaries is that many women will comply, but their hearts aren't in it.
Their old habits are still there, and will resurface long term. The 'you teach people how to treat you' advice is overly simplistic.
A man backs out of a parking spot and strikes another parked car. He says, "Oh! Great! Look what I've done!"
A woman backs out of a parking spot and strikes another parked car. She says, "Look what that idiot did to my car! Why did they park there!"
💯💯💯 well said. High value men have different standards. Raise your standards men.
I am far from being a HVM, but i would rather be single & celibate than lower my standards and compromise my self respect for the typical modern womban. Drizzle Drizzle
The beauty of being high value is he never has to choose. If he has the balls to select a woman in the West, he gets to set the terms and if she doesn’t like it, she can go find another man.
true
I want your success. I want your money. I want your opportunities. I want your social circle. But I want my guy friends, my bestie exes, my girls' trips, my girls' nights out, etc., etc. You can't make this shit up. They're entitled children.
6:30 min mark.....yes. I've made the mistake of reasoning and explaining to partners until I was exhausted and explained it repeatedly. It just never works. Rich is totally right - draw your line in the sand, state your case and then step back. If the woman leaves or crosses the line, so be it. Move on.
I'm not going to put up with BS.
Women always looking for the easy way. There's no such, it's called being an adult... Every choice has a downside
What's the best way for a man that will never be a HVM to conduct himself?
With the engine turned off the audio will be way better...
Image and Lifestyle u know........
Do as Asian men do: live in E/SE Asia, take a main wife for children, then as many mistresses (for fun) as they can afford. Women's shelf-life is far too short to invest long term.
1:50. Keeping male friends around hit home, less risk the better. I love girls with no guy friends, hard to find, but u knw what? It’ll be worth it in the long run. If the girl I date has male friends or keeping them around. Ur inviting trouble for the unforeseen future.
Russia used to have traditional family values but its quickly catching US. And that considering that number of women is significantly higher than men, russian women overall are beautiful and caring etc. The main problem is social media stereotypes, and because of that crazy high requirements to men. They think that they deserve is 6' ft, athletic, charismatic, caring, supporting, listening, no baggage, generous, financially well off man, with own house etc. etc. man, and somehow woman deserves all that just being an average woman. And age discrimination for women is kind of brutal in Russia, after 32-35 its pretty tough for women to find anyone for long-term relationship
I like these car video
Good question, can a woman have guys friends that are your friends too? Like, your friends being introduced to her and become friends especially if we are all engaged? Thanks!
I think some people might say it differently but I think most would say: No way in hell.
If a woman really loves you and wants you, she should really not need any other man's attention. Period.
And don't think that just because you know the other guy, you are safe. Even though he might not betray you, the mere fact that she has eyes for another dude, should tell you all you need to know.
I mean don't get me wrong. Its normal that all of you get along and like each other în your group but solo time, chatting on apps or any of the sort should have no place between men and women who are in a relationship with someone else
Half of America believes that the S&P 500 value is down for the year. This is possible because that half of America has no pressing need to be accountable to reality.
This problem is not confined to just women. Focus on bettering yourself, only let people who hold themselves accountable to themselves in your life, and you’ll keep the wrong women out as well as the wrong men. Let people who live in self-delusion have their own problems.
HVM: Supply vs. demand. If demand exceeds supply, the supplier will get capricious.
Accountability: You hold women accountable by your reactive actions. Talk leads to nothing.
Some women are big fish in small ponds and are not aware that the top of one social ladder is the bottom of the next one….until they are exposed to it. It’s like yeah, you’re not in the minor leagues anymore darls, the rules are different. Some will step up, most won’t.
The woman in the video isn't complaining. She's making other women aware that high value men require women to up their game. That's all. Watch the whole video.
Kinda makes me glad I'm not a high-value man LOL
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Can't have your cake and eat it too.
She’s saying high value men aren’t loving? My husband is very loving and treats me wonderful. She’s with the wrong high value man.
High value men marry high value women.
Basically the entirety of Kevin Samuels’ show.
Bud, use LUTEINE 20 Mg a day. Should help your eyesight.
62, still no glasses. Cheers
Man here but i must say it: That makes life happy and interesting , Women , there is and will be enough space for everyone. otherwise people would be like robots.
Personal opinion- if you are a man or a woman who does not want to be held accountable, do it honestly & stay single. Have friends & have dates, but belong to no one.
YUP
A “ high value man ALWAYS comes with TONS OF BAGAGE “ ….ITS A NO . 🤷🏻♀️😁
I can answer the question the title poses without watching the video - no
I don't think Rich ever talks about the real problem even if we do the work and get to the high-value man status the women nowadays at that level aren't even worth getting they're more promiscuous they're more argumentative they're just not worth it anymore I just don't see the point to do the work anymore other than do it for yourself because the women that you get even at that level are just not worth it
She needs to see more "value" in a man, than merely SMV. There's a world of intrinsic value beneath the iceberg tip of "perceived value". Perception is limited, knowing from discovery is limitless. Her only "hard-wiring short-sightedness", if she doesn't go digging deeper, is ""her attraction purely to the extrinsic qualities"". If she can't/won't go digging, it won't last, and will be solely based on fantasy, not reality - hence split.
I think most women want a man that is at a slightly higher level than themselves. To them that is a HVM and they will try to make him happy up to the point that they aren’t that slightly higher level. Then they monkey branch to the nett man she sees as a HVM
Is this why they settle dowh with beta men and end up being the leader?
😂