Why Women Don't Support Husbands in Difficult Times.
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most women in the USA live an unrealistic life of fantasy, will men accept their foolish fantasy Feminist lives ?
I can't believe how much I am enjoying your channel. But this is the first video where I feel you've missed the mark. It sounds like your saying guys simply have to accept being cucked.
“Guys, if you lose your job, your woman may not leave you immediately, but believe me, her countdown is on!”
- Chris Rock
That's true
They will break up with you in stages.
Took her 1 month for me.
@@marcusavila2961 Sorry to hear it. She left - you have got the worst part over with. Wish you back on your feet asap.
Usually between 3 to 6 months. Depending on the resources you had when you lost your job.
*"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that they provide something."* -Chris Rock
"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that they provide something." not always true every men love women conditionally, children are loved conditionally, pet are loved conditionally
If that’s true then I don’t ever want a woman. That’s fucked up!
@@mikecollon100my god ( Al Bundy) you just broke me up....miss you so much
Love is by definition unconditional. What you are referring to is called transaction.
As a man I think my mom loves me unconditionally.
"A rich man can change a poor womens life forever but a rich woman won't even look a poor man's way" -21 Savage
I've said that for years.
Not true.. the pool boy gets attention and ex from.her
watch the video of homeless guy who got married educate women. That guy picked up a girl from streets. But he fixed his life later. But you are losers here.....
lol@@dask1516
Fits Oprah and her friend Gayle. Oprah can't even commit in marriage to the man she's been with for decades. She has no kids, no one but herself to take care of and that wealth can support her for 500 years. Yet, she won't risk won't share those $$$, won't risk them.
If she doesn’t stand by you during your lowest point then she doesn’t deserve you at your highest.
If you expect this of women, you're almost certainly going to be disappointed.
Exactly
@@virtual-viking women are disappointing. Water is wet.
Exactly! If she does, it wasn't love.
She'll on balance of probabilities not stand by you. Its in her nature to want to leave, and to act on that want.
My folks have been together for almost 50 years now. About 30 years ago my dad fell at work and broke his back. He was in the hospital for months and when he finally got home he was laid up in bed for a whole year. My mom went and got a full time job to take care of us kids and then some years later ended up with her own business just by doing a good deed for someone. Once dad was back on his feet he started doing the physical work for the new family business. They've been at it ever since, though in recent years they are trying to cut back and make things less stressful.
Call it whatever you like, I think it's a sad state that women aren't like that anymore.
Fairy tale indeed
Marriages of yesteryear were based on mutual love and respect. That's almost gone now. It's like people forgot that not everyone is perfect, and that bad things happen in life.
So many marriages today are based on convenience and money...
Different generation. And sadly, many of us post-boomers grew up thinking things would stay like that. But no fault divorce, alimony, child support and custody rules, easy access to birth control, and of course feminism have all cheapened what marriage means and in many ways ruined women. My first breakup at 22 really sent me reeling, never saw it coming. "You mean women don't love unconditionally?" 🤣
Those days are long gone since womanism infiltrated the west
Wow your mum sounds like an absolute diamond, aint many (if any) women around like that anymore
There are levels my guys. You own a business, you make a lot of money, you treat her to whatever she wants, you just created a level. You lose that business, and fall below that level, she is gonna try and find that level you had her at. With or w/o you its only a matter of time. Spot on Rich
The wife in _Catch Me if You Can_ did the exact same thing. When they had to down-scale during tough times, she jumped ship and ditched her family.
So true. And the courts will make you pay spousal support to that level in case of divorce
@@marketmaker873 THAT is unreal, I seen my dad in handcuffs because of this
@@PhantomFilmAustralia I remember that. Can’t believe its not talked about that much
This is why I take them to McDonalds or burger king. Especially in the beginning when their interest level is at the highest!
Married once. Divorced. No kids. Awarded the large suburban DC house and everything in it at settlement. Sold it during the housing frenzy of 2005, just before the real estate bust. Made a ton of money. Been single for 18 years…. AND LOVING IT!! Mortgage and two sports cars paid off. Zero debt. Life is GREAT as a single man. I’d be nuts to get wrapped up with some babe now. Doing what I want when I want is absolutely PRICELESS.
Yes, get "wrapped up with some babe", she will TAKE IT all away.!
I was married once as well, man that marriage game IS rigged.
Lucky YOU got the house..!
Well Mr. Brock, you sir are living the dream.👍
@@ENIGMAXII2112 Yep. It was a real drag, but I just waited her out. I lived in this nice house and she got an apartment. This went on for 22 MONTHS…. Until she surrendered and awarded me the house.
@@grahambamford9073 A totally true story, Graham. It was a real pain in the ass but totally worth it when she finally surrendered the house to me.
@@billbrock8740
Agh, Mr. Brock, I wish I had your luck.!
She got the house, and me got some Shitty Flat..
Was speaking with a family friend during superbowl weekend. She mentioned her friend was on the verge of leaving her husband. He messed up his back, but finally got instant relief with a procedure the doctor performed (electric implant). This was after over 30 years of marriage. Women will leave you the minute you get injured guys
I have come across two or three comments of men who shared how women they were married to for DECADES left them as soon as they were diagnosed with cancer.
These were in western countries.
@Man from Mogadishu yeah and I know most men stay and pay for it all until their woman dies
@Man from Mogadishu Yet if a man did that it would be all over social media and he'd be the worst man hated all over social media.
It’s like sports, except the women are the team
🦍🤷🏼♂️
“Nice Guys Finish In Divorce Court, Bad Boys Finish On Her Face”
-Rich Cooper 💯💊
In my case I finish by spraying her uvula.
Yep. No point treating women nicely. You will just get screwed in the end.
😆
Sounds more like Terrence popp...
So much truth 😂
She's already made up her mind; she just wants validation for leaving him
And she’ll realize the grass isn’t greener because she’s post wall then want him to take her back lmao
@@brianwaller7383 Bingo!
Naaah, she's having cognitive dissonance between what she thinks a decent human being is supposed to do, and what her feelings as a woman will inevitably compel her to do.
Both you and the OP are right. @@virtual-viking
I moved to Iowa City and started dating the local women. One recent divorcee started coming over and hanging out in bed with me. During our breaks, she would complain about her husband. A couple of months go in, and it turns out that guy has a horrible form of Parkinson's. She tried telling me other excuses for why she left him, but we all know what the reason was. The craziest thing is he just passed away recently. He was a professor at the University, and so he had a massive obituary with tons of people saying what a fantastic guy he was. It just goes to show that you could still have a good job, and your wife will leave you. This guy was in the worst time of his life, and his wife didn't stick around. She's super selfish, and I'm not talking to her anymore.
Damn man that's dark did it takes any toll on you at all?
@@ssjrose3simon I never intended to date her because she's a divorced woman with kids, so I never was personally affected. More so, she's just a great example of women's true nature. I will never believe that a woman I'm with will be 100% faithful to me, which I guess is a good thing in the long run.
@@anava84 yeah I gotcha
Hard to argue with anything mentioned. Although I do have problems believing she does everything around the house.
My best childhood friend lost his business had IRS audit & was trying to restart his life. But his wife divorced him when he was at his lowest. Silly guy comitted suicide. I miss him.
I'm one of the rare men who got total unconditional support from my wife when I lost my business and everything. She gave me full financial, emotional and psychological support during the worst year of my life.
Women sleep around despite being good and that's a fact from the beginning
Their Promiscuous nature will not change until they get to their old age where they are dried up completely
Good for you man
Hope you have your business back
Lucky guy
This is rare but nice to hear. Good for you that you got to experience love.
Bless her soul 🤍
If women don't care about me and won't support me in difficult times then I'll stay single, I won't support them just in good times!
Do exactly that
That's just their nature. It doesn't stop you from enjoying their company and having good times but only give them 3rd class priority.
That's y I just hit it and quit and go back to work.
Right. "For richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health." Those words used to mean something.
Amen
I fiancee had the same thought too when I got laid off. I was new to a union so I got laid off in the winter. Jan-April you collect unemployment. 65% of your wage.
She took this as fired, wrote me a "we should break up" because she had been talking to another guy and thought that situation was better.
I moved out, April she sees my online post 'back to work". She's like...I thought you were fired! I laughed and said it's Union...job for life. Suddenly she's blowing up my phone because buddy ditched her after he fucked her.
She's nasty
Keep her as a side chick
Bravo my bro
Make sure she sees you leveled up on her with someone who looks better,and is younger and more agreeable.
God blessed you!
I saw this happen once. A beauty married this dude who had his own business because she said that was something she valued in a man. Two years pass and the business folds. He gets a job selling used cars. She divorces him soon after and one year to the day the divorce is final, she marries another dude who has his own business. It's the "Circle of Wife".
Just pray they fail and end up on welfare and an alcoholic lol
Or a GOLD DIGGER. Nothing new under the Sun
A lady I know's husband fell ill with cancer and in the process lost his job.
She left him (they have a 2 year old kid together) because "he is a useless husband who cannot supply for his family".
She by the way have a good well paying job.
Things like this make my lose faith in relationships and love.
Too many boosters.
At the end of the day we are just animals sadly. The disney fairytale is exactly that; a fairytale. Doesn't mean you can't get a woman who will love you, you just can't forget it will always be conditional love.
304 trash.
@@marks2506 yeah but guys can love other humans women really aren't capable of that. Very rarely.
That woman is a total scumbag.
When the going gets tough, the women start quitting.
And they start complaining. Constantly.
Men are self made. Few women will help a man succeed in life.
Lol
😂😂
In this case however, when the going got tough... the guy was acting like a little b!tch.
Reading the comments for this video gives Red Pill a bad name.
It's like there's no actual thought process, just mindless trite observations.
In 2014 I went through a tough year. There was none I mean zero support from my wife of then 17 years. We are still married but I don't expect anything from her now in the way of support. She used to ask me why I didn't share anything with her. I told her I just don't see the point.
Women don't care about your problems.
if you know your wife doesn't really love you then it is a sad thing, it just means she is a low value wife really. Better put your assets in a trust so she cant steal them from you when she files for divorce.
Why not leave her? Most women are useless anyway
@@ImYourHuckleberry205 She love him but you dont get the difference between man and woman love.
@@johnzoidberg9764 She doesnt love him, she doesnt know what love is. She "loves" convenience.
@@allenblack3785 definition of love is different for man and woman. Your "true" one is how man sees it and "convenience" is how woman sees it.
This 100% my story.
2021 lost my dad to cancer & a couple months later my sister passed away. I also had some medical issues on top of being depressed from the loss of my family members.
My wife of 17 years went behind my back & cheated on me multiple times.
What blows me away is I was there for her when she needed support but turned the other way when I needed it. Human nature sucks & then it’s like she became my worst enemy over night.
Young guys, I know you want to do the right thing. I know you want kids but the way the system is set up you will be screwed over.
This is what America produces.
Same here. Dumped by one when I got cancer. Dumped by another when I started getting seizures. Cheated on me too Like any of this was my fault. My fantasy now is to get super rich, buff and have a flock of women wanting to jump me...and I turn them all down. I'd get a better high off of that than any sex I could imagine.
@@flechette3782 You have reached enlightenment. I too used to love women dearly. I was married for over 27 years. But I've come to understand them. Your job now is to salvage your self, become single minded and work towards your dreams. Quit being a slave to your own dick. You're a free man, stay that way. Define your goal, draft your plan and fucking stick to it. I know you have challenges, I understand. You are on your own, it may seem unsurmountable, but it isn't. you will come to embrace where you are and what you're new goal is. Go for it.
Don't worry. This system is now rigged to the dysfunctional level. And it is the vital system functions that is directly affected. It's not a question if it fails completely, the question is just when and how.
Stop doing the right thing. Take care of your own situation. Ignore her.
When my business went bankrupt my wife cheated on me constantly and left. She got everything and I was left sleeping on the floor of some dive apartment. For years I just felt I was living in a daze with no end in sight.
Sorry to hear that. I am going through that right now. Business is down, wife kicked me out of house.
Hang in there my man. The storm will pass . Cheers.
@@marketmaker873 kicked you out of the house? Hmm.
We really have to shrink the government so they can't get away with this bs anymore. End the welfare state, it's a system that rewards bad behavior. Why tf should ppl you don't know have to pay for your child or you having a child?
@@marketmaker873 who pays the bills? if it is you then you are a beta male lol
I married at 19 thinking my wife would help turn me into a king. Whoa, was I wrong while i was building my kingdom by getting an Engineering Degree & investing in Real Estate she was stepping out with guys who were already kings.
This. Stay frosty guys.
You gotta turn yourself into a king my guy, a women will never do that for you so don’t rely on them for that. You got what it takes man, wishing you all the best!
I was that guy she left me in prom for a guy with a dad who has a Lamborghini even after spending $90 for a ticket and close to 200 in HS. But who’s laughing now. I can never forget that night wasted my money and looked stupid and alone in crowd of people and my heart was dark when going home since I couldn’t grasp what happened to me
My Father said build your empire first and that can be just paying off a home. If a V wants to be part of your hard work, you make her work hard for you just as you worked hard for what you built. Respond in like manner.
@@clevelandwilliams5922 I thank you and your father dearly. That is the advice right there. You can throw everything thing else away. Those are the exact words I needed to hear.
My business hit hard times from COVID. I told the wife all debt I accrued but didnt mention some of the rescue grants that offset those loses to see if she was a ride or die woman. She wasn't and wanted a divorce pretty bad. Even when she knew I was in a tight position, she wanted to get much more out of divorce. I'm happy the divorce is going through. I can now get a new start.
All the best for your new life.
Marriage is a bad business decision. I hope you're a better businessman now.
Te salvaste de un destino infernal.
You obviously already didn’t trust her. Nuff said.
Nice!! The minute they know things are bad...gone
The irony is that if the guy was hyperdriven, ambitious and making them 7 figures a year she would probably still have an issue that he is emotionally unavailable or always working.
There’s always something wrong in a woman’s brain. Live your life the way you want to.
Absolutely
They must complain about anything
Literally what I heard! I worked my tail to get my masters and then my own contracting business so she could be at home, divorced me and told me I wasn't around, she did everything😢
@@lorenguaylg welcome to the club
Horrendous divorce at 40. Took in a woman who left her husband because he was under achieving at work and not bringing home enough money.
14 years later. F@&£ do i regret that decision.
Never rescue them.
Karmas a bitch
Same. The doctor who should had an affair with found a younger gal to play with and she tried coming back ... After I got my act back together
@@johnsmith-ht3sy - Yeah,learned that the HARD way. Thankfully i got out and vowed NEVER to repeat that mistake EVER again!
As much as I don't support lazy men, most women don't appreciate the sacrifice of men. 😢😢
"Women aren't king makers" - Hence why the majority of single moms' sons end up in jail for one reason or another. My mother taught me F/K all about life, and what's even worse, she kept me away from my uncles.
Girlfriends and wives will keep you away from your good male friends.
@@JT-cl9np TF does that even mean?
Uncles have helped West Virginia to received the reputation for interbreeding. So your (TF) The Fuc🌭 is right on da 😻+🍑
Damn true. My aunts are doing this right now.
Single mothers raised nothing but weak emotional men you know the why Don't women like me I'm nice guy I respect women why don't they like me boo hoo and criminal with ironically do very well with women
Absolutely right ❗️I’ve supported my wife through her ups and downs including cancer treatments and losing her job but when I needed help she left me. I really believe this is how women truly are only want help from men but won’t return the help when you need them
Hey man this really highlights the imbalance of what a woman "as a general rule" has to offer a man. You have her back, but she is AWOL when you put any reliance upon her. Equality is a Scam perpetrated by Church, Society, and most likely your own family over the years. I know I've gone without sleep, poured my money into her needs, and yet when the shoe was on the other foot the concept of marriage was old fashioned and the woman abandoned all responsibility. So what is the Solution? Westernized aka Anti-God Anti-Family women are not worth wifing up. Never tie the knot with a woman who expects you to be there no matter what, yet they in return abandon you in your time of need.
I'm really sorry to hear this... Glad to see that you got yourself out of there and got to live to tell the tale...
I am so sorry.
@Nana Kwame I want to believe it's not a trait of women and yet it's lack of character
Happened to me. I supported. When it came to my turn... crickets... and left. Shocking!
I guess I'm lucky. My present wife got with me years ago and stayed with me when my life was in shambles. I was an unemployed drug addict, and she was clean. She's a beautiful girl, who makes good money, and has an awesome, tight extended family. She got me off my ass. I've since got clean from drugs, have a great job, work full time, great pay, on top of side work. We go on lavish vacations, have a 3500 square ft. home, new trucks in the driveway, etc. She stuck it out with me the whole time, while I was going through my bullshit, and I don't know why. I don't know what the hell she saw in me, but I'm glad she did and believed in me.
You are extremely lucky my friend
Out of curiosity, do you look like Brad Pitt?
@@SpiritusMundi4EVER I got "Leonardo Dicaprio" alot when I was younger. Lol
Very lucky guy.
Thar's awesome
Great video! Guys, I have seen this hundreds of times in my divorce practice. If you lose your job and do not very quickly land another job of equal or greater pay and prestige, the contempt and disrespect toward you will start. I have seen cases where successful guy marries a demanding woman. She quits her job. She gets extremely overweight. He loses his job (often through no fault of his own), she makes his life unbearable.
If she works and makes more money than you, expect ongoing disrespect and constant pressure to make more money. It never ends well. Focus on being the very best version of yourself. Stay safe. Stay single. Do the things that bring you joy.
What I've found is that most women will ask "how was work" not because they genuinely want to know, but because they're using it as a barometer to check how stable you are-- both emotionally and financially (spoiler: they expect you to be solid in both areas).
Yes. Yes. Yes.
Thereby the reluctant default to a mumbled "okay", so that if I've had an extremely stressful day it's easier to hide. Living a lie to survive so that this person that I must still love can operate in her deluded reality that she got her fantasy man.
Exactly...
Never asked my husband that, ever. If there was something he wanted to tell me, he would, otherwise he was quite capable of taking care of business. I was his wife, not his partner. Now I am his widow. You should not allow women to treat you like a child: "how was school today"...
@@clevercloggs7029 Yeah, but that's the exception to the rule. If more women took their role as a wife as seriously as you did, we wouldn't be commenting on a channel like this because there would be a demand.
@@AmbuBadger Good point. Gentlemen, we're out here working and living decent lives. You will not find us on dating apps (we don't need them), in bars or 'clubs'. We are pursuing our hobbies, our favorite sports, maybe taking a course in something like calligraphy or art. We are not promiscuous because we aren't desperate. Widowed young with a young child, now in her mid-twenties I can assure you that we know 'of' the type of woman Cooper talks about, but have no association. Yes, we are here and enjoy talking and meeting good men...my daughter would hate me for saying that, but it's true.
I had a career setback at one point. The day I got notice of it I was devastated. Years of work down the drain. I was obviously depressed when I got the news and wanted to talk to my wife about it. But a couple of hours later, a female friend of my wife arrived at our door with even more distressing news - her (the friend's) sister had died in a car accident out in California. OK, that's a lot worse. So I put my shit aside, didn't mention it, and sat her friend down to figure out what happened. She was very distressed, seemed inconsolable, so I invited her to stay with us for a few days. For much of the next week, I took care of her, spent endless hours with her daily, talking about her sister, asking her to share stories. She seemed to cheer up slowly.
I found it very strange that my wife basically ignored her throughout. While I sat with her friend all day, consoling her, the wife ignored her and just went about her daily routines.
After staying with us for a few days, the friend left. I finally decided to broach my own career problems with my wife. She was very brusque, and didn't want to talk about it, as it had nothing to do with her and she was busy. I felt a bit upset at her reaction, and in an egotistical moment, I brought up my own recent example - "Hey, it's about turns. Your friend has nothing to do with me, but she was in distress, so I put my shit aside and sat down with her through it. People need people."
She then revealed it to me: it was all a lie. It was all faked. There was no car accident, the friend didn't even have a sister! It turns out that on the moment I got my bad news, my wife secretly called her friend to come over so she wouldn't have to listen to me moan. The friend invented the whole cockamamie "death of sister" story to keep me distracted.
I was stunned.
Wow. I’m speechless. 😵💫😵💫😵
@@zuhairrezathat’s some sick shit
Whaaaat???! Seriously?? I'm dumbfounded and I'm not even you, bro. Hope you're doing better now. That is just callous and wicked. Unbelievable
Lmfaoooo
Please tell me you dumped her sorry ass.
My father was military commander. In the war, he was injured and lost his eyesight. That was 30 years ago. My mother was totally supportive from the 1st day. She fought for us all. The first battles were for him to survive as he had several injuries, he spent some 3 months in hospitals. We were living in a country under sanctions, electricity rationing, food rationing, inflation, bureaucracy.. she went through it all. I do not ever remember that she complained about something being too hard for her. After the war my father established his new career in public sector, with her support and ours as well. He reached pensionable age 2 years ago but still he wakes up early every day and goes to work, he does not want to retire. My mother every day prepares meals for him, takes care about his clothes, she even colors his hair not to look completely grayish. He is recognized and valued member in the community, he even received a decoration from the president for his work. He had cardio events in recent years, needed medical support and operations, she also fought for all of that. When we were kids, my father had to go to military exercises, sometimes it took 2 months of absence. My mother never complained. I never deduced that my father was bad father because he had to go. When I leave my house over weekend to help my sister, my wife is bitching me in the front of the children and plays a great victim. I work from home and she puts on me labels of bad father which does not spend time with the kids. If I want to go to gym or run in the forest, I have to sneak out from the house to avoid arguments. Most of my friends have some issues with their wives. I am aware that most of the women around here are like the one from this video, but from my 1st hand experience I know that the other world is possible. The life and rules change across generations, our social rule or contract is different than the one our parents had.
This is a different story this dude in the story is a loser lost me in the sits in the house and does nothing
Did she have other options? Or was she stuck, and he was still the best option. Or was it culture of not leaving her husband in those days. Or was she just a really nice person.
Older generations of women were financially dependant on their husbands and so put up with bad behaviour because their survival depended upon it.
Modern women are not financially dependent on men anymore and hence their true nature comes out in full force.
That is the only reason older generations of women were more subservient and supportive of their husbands. Because their own survival depended upon it. Go back in time and give those women the same opportunities modern women have, and you'd see the same shit play out then.
As men, we now have to accept that this is the true nature of women being unveiled and the whole till death do us part, unconditional love and support is just societal bullshit.
Make your own money, make your own way, be very careful who you wife up, even if she appears to be a good woman, never trust her 100% and always have a contingency plan in case things go south. Maintain seperate finances and never let her know the true extent of your wealth. Never let her catch on that you may be in any trouble of any kind, and never expect any form of support from her. Use her for sex and as a trophy wife, always maintain your frame and always be just out of reach of her emotionally. Do not fall in love, or even if you do, do not show it to any extreme degree where she feels she has you reeled in. Always dangle the proverbial carrot on the stick just close enough to make her think she might get it, but never close enough that she can get it.
All this might sound very cold and cruel but this is exactly what a man needs to do in today's world in order to protect himself and keep his woman in control.
Women need to feel a level of safety but also need to feel a level of insecurity to continue to be attracted to their guy.
The fairytale Disney shit is just that. A fairytale, and if you believe in it as a man, you deserve all the shit that your woman will eventually shovel at you.
I fell for all this bullshit, and I suffered miserably for it. Luckily I'm young enough that I never got married and I can still turn the tide in my life and I'm doing just that. But the emotional rollercoaster that I was put through by a girl I loved with all my heart, just to see her run away when I needed her the most was exactly the kick in the ass and wakeup call I needed to understand the true reality of human nature.
She had her job. It wasn't uncommon to see wives leaving their husbands and children after husbands were injured in the war (100.000 people died and who knows how many were left injured). One positive factor was that the father was strong, not depressed, he never complained etc.
@@bojman so basically, a decent woman will probably stay with an injured husband if he maintains the potential of a comeback and doesn't start whining and moping around. Fair I guess.
"I want to go out with my friends a *few times a weeK* ".That right there. Nobody in a marriage has time to go out with friends *several times a week* and still have time for a relationship.
LOL good point. When she meets her poisonous friends it's only a matter of time until they poison each other.
After reading "Unplugged Alpha" 2 times, I closed my mind and open my eyes to observe the reality. Its sad to see even though marriage is a bond where husband and wife are suppose to do problem solving throughout their life time, most of the women don't care about men's struggle and they don't even have necessary skill of problem solving. These women then get divorced and go out in the society and not only distroyes their own life but completely demolish other women life as well. One unhappy women can utterly destroy the whole society. Its sad but I just surrender to the reality to protect my mental and physical health.
better open your mind sometime later man.
I think that's why society, and specifically women, have and always will deride promiscuous women. It can cause too many problems for other women.
Women look to their man to be leaders and solve problems. It's never been a shared thing
Does rich have an audio book
Then they go out and marry the government in the hope it will take care of them. Single women have horrible political beliefs.
My contract of employment for the British government got cut, along with 10000 others, 2 weeks later she left me! I have been single the past 12 years and I'm keeping it that way; me and my 3 motorcycles are very happy together 👍
As so you should. Bravo on you!
@@georgeelder8415 thanks, I may add a 4th if I can find the space 😂
Doesn't sound like you lost much if she did that. Not yours, just your turn. Modern women are a complete waste of F ing time anyway. NOT WORTH THE EFFORT!
@@PH-ih1pn agreed! My focus is on building my own, modest, wealth and protecting it for the future generation, as they are both men.
@Michael McLarney Wise choice brother! I'm doing the same now but got badly burned in divorce with kids. Wasting ANY resources on a woman is slavery plantation and very very risky in 2023. Getting married or cohab is complete insanity for most men!
My X wife had over 30 damn jobs in our 12 years of marriage and I took it and didn’t cheat and listened to all her work related problems and why each job sucked, I lost my best friend at 39 he died of a sudden heart attack, and I went through a year of depression he was also the drummer in my band, I soon found out she was cheating with her boss at work and I filed for divorce, this is so damn true what Rich is saying, women don’t care about your struggles in reality it sickens them , but yes you as a man have to listen over and over about her problems and her x friend Sheila at work, it just the way it is gentlemen
Thank the heavens you ditched the b*tch!
Better to be single, and just work part time, relax. My wife was same her, my business went down, and I got stuck due to covid. I had given everything to her and the kids, and she cooked up a fake DV charge, divorced me, and took the kids. You wouldn’t believe what they said in court, the feminist judge, without even knowing me. Made out, I hadn’t interest in my son, while I spent the last year and half during covid taking my son to the mountains, hunting, beaches, everyday to school, while his mom worked. 1 year suspended sentence, which I probably messed already not doing the community service, kicked out of Europe, because a violent felon on paper. Alimony and child support, 800 Euro a month, and I don’t even work. Plus restraining order, no visitation, no communication to my child.
I just walked away, and I’m spending my nights play on my computer in my tiny little apartment, near the beach. Started to feel happy again. Like been a kid. I’m never going to put myself through this again -
Marriage isn't worth it nor the problems with having kids that come along just not worthy you don't know how that kid will turn out to be on top of that everything can change and you as a man get nothing to doby the court the kids are hers not yours friend of mine was raised by single mom who used to call unknown males every weeked had him traumatized once when we went to drink and we took alot of drinks he started saying how having a mother of that sort destroyed him he is drug addict on top of that alcoholic but works amd doesn't bother with anything else just enjoying his early 30
How are you doing now ? Too late for me unfortunately
"I have a stressful job and don't have time to come home, clean, cook, and be supportive all the time. I want to relax a little bit."
So you're having the traditional man's experience in marriage and not liking it. Got it. Enjoy the equality.
Nailed it! 😂
It's not the traditional man's experience unless you think traditional men are cooking and cleaning at home. And if a male breadwinner had to go home after a hard day and also clean up his house and be supportive, he'd leave too. Nobody keeps deadbeats around for long, not just women. This is why Rich's narrative falls apart.
@@tgm2474 That's what I'm saying -- a traditional man doesn't want to provide by working years of his life away just to have to come home and do chores in his off time forfeiting any time to destress and relax. Nobody wants a deadbeat but that's exactly what women want to be.
Just look at how many women who are surveyed say they want the man to provide with _his_ income for bills, groceries, vacations, etc while she keeps her own income to herself. The problem the woman in this video is having is a prime example of why men see so many women today to be of little to no value beyond access to their holes and yet women still don't get it, or more likely, get it but just don't care.
They're deadbeats with a meat wallet, but if ever the tables are turned, they're immediately upset.
@@magigooter2096 I guess we run in different circles then. I have never, ever met a woman who wanted to be a deadbeat. Maybe you should seek a better class of human to hang with.
@@tgm2474 I don't hang with them, but they're not hard to find.
leykis used to talk about when his girlfriends/wives would move into his house, that they would then mysteriously, and without warning, "lose" their jobs.
Yup. I remember this, it s no chitter!
@@georgeelder8415
that's why he said you should never live with a woman. If she lives by herself then she has to live within her means. If you live together, then she thinks she has the right to have whatever standard of living that you provide to her.
Yes. That's very true! He also spoke about having a woman living in your home as dangerous. In Canada, and in some locales in the US, living together can be a cause for litigation in favor of the woman... As men, we can't be too careful... Best of luck gents, it's a jungle out there...
Women don’t care about your struggles, they hangout at the finish line and pick the winners! Coach Rich
What's new ?
Come back with your shield - or on it" (Plutarch, Mor.241) was supposed to be the parting cry of mothers to their sons. Mothers whose sons died in battle openly rejoiced, mothers whose sons survived hung their heads in shame.
Women wait at the finish line to see if you return with your shield. You bet ,This is where I find myself.
The urge for a woman to want a successful man, is the same urge as a man wanting an attractive woman.
So would a man leave a woman if she got fat? For me, it depends.
No it isn’t. The overwhelming majority of men are not obsessed with female beauty. This is a documented fact. Men may be attracted to beauty but, they are not obsessed by it and they instinctively know it’s fleeting. There is a reason the centerfold changes every 30 days.
@@jerradwilson if your girl gets fat and you tell her to lost some weight and if she refuses to do so you're 100% in the right to leave if you wanted a fat girl you would've have gotten a fat girl but According to society you're an asshole and you should love her no matter what but it perfectly OK for her to leave you when you're at your lowest tho😂
I think your so right on with how women are. My ex started the same shit with me. Going out with her friends and spending stupid money on trinkets clothes watches purses instead of working on our own marriage so I dumped her after 21 year’s marriage. But she still thinks I’m going to be there for her even though we don’t live or see each other. She still calls me telling me her problems and dates she’s been but it doesn’t getting me mad or jealous I’m over her and when I finalize our divorce I’ll be free . Freedom freedom 😊
Tell her "Listen Becky, I'm not interested in your crap" and hang up on her. Don't give her your attention. Keep it professionl until the divorce is over, then ghost her completely.
@@kirahund6711 yes ghosting her good analogy. That’s my intention thanks 😊
_'Right on'_ means 'politically correct' where I live.
Did you mean that?
Why are you even taking her calls or even wasting your time listening? You still don't get it.
@@kk_kk714 it’s all in the calculation and timing.😙
My ex-girlfriend once had 8 jobs in one year. No way would she have stayed if I had 8 jobs in one year.
During the 2008 recession, I saw many great guys lose their businesses or their income tanked hard suddenly. This caused many foreclosures. The number of people I saw get divorced was staggering. Those beautiful blonde ladies with 2-3 kids and happily married were out the door as soon as things started to dry up. I divorced as well and I was doing well financially.
I think we have to look at it like leasing a car. It’s never truly yours, it’s just what you’re driving right now. Hell, even older ladies are leaving their husbands these days.
They'll leave HIM, but not his MONEY.
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I work with several men who like to tell me what great marriages they have.
I tell them if you get sick ,injured or unemployed today, within 6 months they they'll be singing a different tune.
Dude, within 6 DAYS.
I have to say I’m actually impressed she’s trying to understand why she doesn’t want to be supportive. The fact she’s curious about her own behavior is honestly respectable af
Rare sight in any person
I agree. It’s good she’s self aware and not being ignorant. Regardless, the guy should stop whining and find some work. He can still look for something he does like but a job should be secured first
It's only because she feels guilty, sooner or later she will divorce rape him if he was dumb and did not put his assets in a trust where she can't steal them.
Yeah seems more she’s just trying to understand her own selfish emotions rather than trying to actually support her husband. You can word her questions as, “Why am I not being an accountable wife and not holding up the end of the vows I took?” The fact she “needs” to go out to get drinks or “hangout” with her friends should tell you all you need to know.
I guess it nice for a woman to realize her nature I guess 🤷
Well his first mistake was pushing his emotions on his wife. He needs some friends(men) to blow off steam with.
Then what are wives for?
@@MB-xe8bb Exactly. Women these days are non-supportive, you cant marry one who has any feminist ideas.
women do not want to be women these days. good luck finding a decent one, they are almost non-existant.
Richard spitting facts.
It yet another reason why to NOT get married or live with a woman.
Its pointless to have to support someone who wouldn't EVER support you in ANY way when you need it.
If I could go back in time, I would never live with a woman. I would date and have a lot of fun until they gave me that ultimatum, at which point I would just end it and start over with someone new.
Have been married, no intention of doing it again.
However, if you think that the example in this vid is a reason to not get married, well maybe... for women.
I remembered some of the girls in my school that liked football. They used to support whichever football club was top of the league and they constantly changed who they supported so this is normal behaviour for females.
lmao that's so funny
Reminds me of a scene in the 1980's version of "A Christmas Carol" which I watched over the holiday. Scrooge is shown a woman under a bridge with her husband and children. He laments his inability to find work, yet she declares she will stick by him. I laughed at that scene. She would be gone as soon as the eviction notice showed up.
That was a portrayal of life in the old days. Back in the 1800's divorce was frowned upon. The scene was realistic for the time period portrayed. Of course, things are different now. I think feminism killed marriage.
We were taught growing up by movies /TV etc that women are caring nurturing creatures that could do no wrong, then you go out into the real world and marry one only to get destroyed in divorce court
I’ve found out that men are the true Romantics and women are pretty much materialistic.
Women watch these romance movies and shows to use that against men. And they watch a lot while we watch none... so the advantage they have is massive
Loving relationship = He loves me, I love what he provides me. No woman wants to be the provider, and the main cause of divorce is because men lose their job or earn less than their wives.
It's just narcissism. Lack of ability to empathize, etc. Heads she wins, tails you lose.
No matter how adonis, alpha protector, wealthy and a gentleman you are a woman will have complications and issues about you and make you feel like its your fault.
All women will shit test. No matter how good your frame is. Just never give in
Never give in, never admit, never be a gentleman. Be an as hole and she will chase you.
I had some insane amount of trauma I had to deal with. My partner at the time was a therapist and was use to dealing with peoples traumas and support them through it. However she couldn’t do the same for me and almost left me when things were the worst. It was my rep pill awakening that women like to feel secure and safe and don’t give a flying F about you outside of a need you provide.
Being vulnerable with one will dry her up instantly.
First mistake dating a therapist you had no energy for you after her job
Insane amounts of Trauma? sounds like you needed an actual therapist yourself before entering into a relationship. Work on yourself so you can enter into a relationship whole and mentally healthy.
@@keisha625 I was IN RELATIONSHIP with her when it happened. A therapist would not have been able to help me. I needed someone else.
I got through it.
@@victorvelo they all are
Luckily my wife of 30 years supported the family as have I. While I was unemployed for 16 months, she was amazing working hard. Marriage is also a safeguard for the family where 2 people support each other, it should never be a one way streak.
This is why it's better to be independent and financially successful before getting married. That way you won't ever have to ask for your spouse's support on anything.
You are going to have ups and downs in a marriage no matter what. Put her in a position early on where she has to support you and test her loyalty. She fails being loyal then it has nothing to do with how much money you have. Create a test, and put her to the test. Do You really wanna tie all your wealth to a woman who will definitely leave you in your time of need? Nope, she has to earn that spot by being willing to support you through the good times and the bad. Otherwise it's a house of cards that can drop on the whim of the slightest interference.
50% wrong. Dont get married. Making really good money puts you in the driving seat and in control because now multiple women want you (leverage), why would you settle for one legal wife? Getting married means half is hers and she will take it whenever she likes. she can cheat, get fat, do nothing in the house, refuse u sex, party all night with friends, quit her job, spend your money and refuse to give you kids and if u dare to complain she can leave and still take half(zero leverage)! Did you struggle to finance your business goals, struggle to win customers, struggle to grow the business, learn how to be more effective and profitable just to lose half in a divorce? Be independent and financially successful and lay dow the law with the WOMEN you deal with. If they dont like it they can leave and watch you with 5 other women. And heres the secret, women actually EXPECT successful men to have multiple women but will try to see if they can trick/manipulate/bamboozle you into giving her wifey status. that is the ultimate ego boost or validation she can get because it is a transfer of power and wealth from you to her.
Never say never.
@@Hiflyg123 we all already know that women are not reliable. There is no need to test. Plus as a real man you shouldn't need support from anybody anyways. You should be independent and self reliant married or not.
Disagree. Never lead with your wallet in a relationship. The more she pays, be it financially, energy, attention or her time, the more loyal she would become. When she has nothing you need, first of all you won’t be attracted to her, second, when she’s attracted to you she’s going after your wallet and your house.
Wedding vows don’t mean sh*t. Keep in mind her potential to leave you when you’re at your lowest. No marriages, no commitment, line up her replacement guaranteed there’s your replacement in her social media DMs
I have seen this play out with my own eyes.
"To have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death. This is my solemn vow." This is a vow made to and before God; it is Holy. How does a woman stand before God at judgment and give the excuse, "I wasn't happy, he lost his job, he got really sick, he didn't make enough money, I thought I could do better on the greener side of the fence."
And men leave women when they feel like they made it. That's why I won't build any man. I need you to have a vision. I'm a help mate not a builder…
It’s true, it happened to me.
@@ThatSherylLafranceIt happens to men at a far greater rate.
They want empathy, they are not empathetic.
I am a mid 30 guy and got a bad allergy induced IBS and spine issues (discs and scoliosis). It got worse somewhere in 2019 and from time to time, my stomach makes me unable to function normally outside my house. 1.5 years ago I lost job after 2 years working there. I get that job after being laid off from previous job after 3 months. I lost my previous job because of my condition. Man... My wife gave me no support. Only a silent days, silent months and constant fights. Now when i finally work for a 9 months straight I have a worse days with my stomach from a couple of weeks and my wife started to be a cold person almost daily. I am a mess.
Hey try intermittent fasting and keto diet. Please go read the respective subreddit pages. Ask your questions there. It will definitely solve your health issues.
There are some reasons to live with a woman. Friendship and support are generally not among them.
If you date down, which I've done before, they will support you and be your friend. When she knows you are the absolute best she can possibly do in her life, she will support you to keep you propped up.
@@brent4073 From my own experience I can tell you that most women are good friends only with other women. They listen to each other, they are supportive and loyal. Perhaps that would also be the case in a woman with a man friendship, which is a very rare situation. However, in a love relation real friendship and support don't work from the woman's perspective, because she wants her life partner to always be in control. If you are in need of support, then you, as her partner, are no longer in control and that means game over for your relationship, the reason being that she loses respect for you.
@@brent4073 Western women are so bad, I’m looking to go full retard. That way I know she’ll appreciate me.😂
@@brent4073 As a man, you almost have to date down
Ain't that the truth. In case anyone is wondering what those reasons are:
1. Hole #1
2. Hole #2
3. Hole #3
There's a very small percentage of women, maybe 5%, whose list will be longer than that.
this helped me alot. I was a carpenter and had many layoffs and every time it was a nightmare how I was treated. day one of layoff and it was always the same.
that's fucked up, that's a hard physical job. my dad was a roofer and my mom would never say shit about his time off in the winter....she got a job too, to fill the gap
@@DC_PRL
your dad married a good woman.
Same happened to me I lost my job because of a vaccine mandate right in the middle of the pandemic, instead of sitting around crying like the dude in the video I started delivering food on my bicycle. Busting my ass biking 50 miles a day. Still came home to a rich dude in my bed with my wife petting my dog
😂😂😂😂😂
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Exactly. Be the king, be irreplaceable, always strive for improvement, never show weakness.
Women like things comfortable and consistently increasing. If a man hits tough times and they need to scale their lifestyle back, she feels she's being deprived of what she deserves and will find it elsewhere if she can no longer have it at home.
It's far easier for a woman to go from a cottage to a castle than from a castle to a cottage.
Men, on the other hand would live in a fridge box if they didn't have to impress or keep a woman.
Don’t do it for women. Do it for yourself.
I like money, I like to be rich. I go out there to make money. I like beautiful homes. I buy a condo with good view and a bunch of fancy furniture and electronics. I like cars, I buy a premium car. That’s … that’s it.
Just bought a Tag Heuer formula 1.. (from tag direct buyer beware!) and about 1000$ in colognes.. Got sued frivolously for 11 out of 22 years now I’m having a blast.. Do it for yourself = 1000%
@Richard Boran Just $1000 ??? That's light weight my man.
A few Bond 9s and you're at $1000 alone !!
dude, are you ragging on my fridgebox ?
Helpmeet vs nonhelpmeet....if you still have necessities and she acts funny/leaves, that man choose a nonhelpmeet
I’ve noticed this with platonic female friends as well. They never appeared to be around when things were rocky but always reappeared once things were resolved.
I have since discarded these types of people from my life. Men and women.
A quick tip, if you want to avoid these people. Act humble and don’t show off your successes. There’s a reason you have less friends when you’re not flexing.
There are more fake people than there are real who will appreciate you regardless.
I like that tip
Boy do I have a story to share with you fellow men.
First off, my kid's mom and I had my kid when I was 17 and she was 16. About 5-6 months in to the pregnancy, she went ghost for no reason. I had went over to her mom's apartment(she still lived with her mom since she was 16) 10 times and she was there, but acted like she wasn't. Months go by, I end up finding her at her school. My kid was 11 months old about to turn 1 years old. Her and I get back together. It only lasted for 4 months because she was trying to take my kid away again. This happened on October 2014. On November I get a knock at the door, my brother answered and said it's the police they are looking for me. I go outside and the sheriff is reading the restraining order papers my kid's mom filed against me. As he sees me step out the house, he started laughing because what he had read and seeing me it didn't add up. On the restraining order, my kid's mom and her mom had wrote that I was abusive, physically and verbally. ALL LIES. When the court date came, my kid's mom and her mom were trying to play the victim card so hard that the Judge stopped them and asked, "where's the proof?" They stayed quiet and then her mom chimed in and said, "well he was verbally abusive to my daugh-" the Judge interrupted again and asked the same question, "where's the proof of the abuse?" They didn't know what to say. The Judge looked my way and then their way, chuckled at them and started telling my kid's mom and her mom you can't be telling lies about someone that he/she didn't do. The Judge dismissed her case and before hitting the gable, he asked, "is there anything else?" I IMMEDIATELY raised my hand told the Judge that I have a joint custody case. I gave the case number to his assistant. She found it.
Then the Judge granted me joint custody of my kid, but only could see my kid on Saturdays from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.. The look on my kid's mom's face and her mom's face was -->😤😠😡.
That following Saturday she was supposed to take my kid to my place, but she didn't. About a week goes by then I receive a letter from the Department of Child Support. Not surprised. I go to the Department of Child Support and show them that my kid's mom is playing games because on the restraining order that she filed, she also wrote, and I quote, "I don't want ANY financial support from my kid's dad at all." The lady at the department of child support understood and went to the back office to talk with a lawyer to see what she can say to me. 5 mins later she comes back and said that I don't need to pay her anything because I wasn't working(I was working, but I wasn't going to let them know. I was using a different name as well.) So I ended up doing something petty in return. I had filed for swab testing to see if I am the father of my kid(I already knew I was, I just wanted to be petty asf.) Test come back saying I am the father, not surprised.
She then asked me why I wanted a swab test to see if I was the father, but I wasn't giving her the response or the reaction she wanted out of me, so she called me "immature". I just laughed it off because I know I'm not. I can tell she just said that because she was butt hurt.
2015 I filed for more days to see my kid and have my kid sleep over. Of course she had a problem, but couldn't do anything about it. She tried, but I was 10 steps ahead of her. A different judge granted me more days and my kid was able to sleep over at my place.
In 2016 she ends up hooking up with a guy that looks EXACTLY like my brother and has the SAME name as my brother. That right there confirmed to me she would have cheated on me with my own brother and I laughed it off in front of her. Her reaction -->😡😤.
In 2017 she ended up having a kid by my brother's twin(since her man looks EXACTLY like my brother). Fast forward to last year, 2022, they're having problems because my brother's twin started accusing her of cheating on him. I don't know if that's true or not, but I won't be surprised if it was. Anyways, during the time her and my brother's twin are having this problems, she's trying to flirt with me to see if the old flame can be rekindled. I COMPLETELY ignore it and don't give her what she wants. I keep my focus on my kid and on my other priorities.
She thinks she can keep me at arms reach in case things don't work out with my brother's twin. Boy oh boy, she's a disloyal unstable creature.
There would be less than 1% of guys who are going to get violent with cops when they serve a restraining order, so theyre going to be laughing a hell of a lot.
Thanks for the story. I read it fully.
You deserve your win brother. I hope your living well.
My aunt and uncle were married for over 50 years. She nursed him until he died when he went senile. They don’t make women like that anymore.
That's beautiful man..love that very rare indeed in today's time
Nope.
Basically all prosxtitute worldview
"women don't care about men's struggles they hang out at the finish line and they pick the winners"
And the winners get used up ran through psleeve lmao
RUclips has subtitles, you're out of a job
@@Bloodcurling no way... Realy? Embittered.
How is this belief help you with having a good relationship?
Yes, some women are like that. And some men are like that too.
You dont want that kind of women.
If you think that ALL women are like that, you will inevatably be unhappy. Because you'll attract that kind of women. Your belief system is the one that dominates your life.
I used to believe that all men are pigs. Because my childhood was like that. My grandpa sexually abused me, my father was disrespectful to my mother and very weak man. Guess what kind of men I attracted?
Abusing, disrespectful and weak.
And I thought that ALL men are like that.
Well I was so wrong.
Then I had to do a lot of personal work to erase that belief and today I believe that men are wonderful beings. Kind, strong, respectful, etc. I dont hate men anymore and I dont blame them for everything that is wrong in my Life.
I have a husband that is great and we are happy together.
So be careful what this red pill content is trying to make you believe. Women are bad, they only love money, they are not as inteligent as men are, etc.
The more you believe that, the less chance is that you'll get a good, suportive, clever, respectful woman.
@@Socutensi congratulations. But we are in a modern time. And there's so little women worth it. And those who worth are allready taken.
For anything in a relationship you need resources, money.
If the man does not has that, he will be rejected.
Or would you be happy with your husband if he is poor? If he lose he's job?
Guys who don't work get no respect. Was working with a new, young co-worker who told me her boyfriend lost his job and doesn't want to find a new one. That piece of information was all I needed to know she was going to monkey branch and now she's on my rotation
No, you're on HER rotation. 🤣
@@esteban1487 Touche ;)
Be careful. Losers like that are often unstable. Hoes are not worth getting shot over.
Why should the man get any respect if he's a bum? Men don't have respect for bum women either. Man up or stay single.
@@MilanElan Nah, men have to make themselves, women just have to exist. It isn't equal.
Saw an old friend at a high school reunion about 10 years ago. He had had a stroke and his wife dumped him instantly.
Her marriage vows should have read, "for better or gone."
I sprained my wrist last week at work, mentioned it to one of my girlfriends, she doesn't even bother to ask, how did it happen, does it hurt bad?, sorry to hear that, hope you make a quick recovery...etc etc.. no words of comfort...nuthin except...ohh ya...then proceeds to go on and on about herself, suffice to say, won't be bothering with her anymore, my other gf, was the complete opposite, showed some empathy, made all kinds of suggestions and recommendations for a quicker recovery, which is how it should be, careful who you choose fellas, not all are warmblooded
Even your own mom does not care about your struggles...maybe to a certain point and/or extent a mother may.
No they don't
This is my first winter alone after my divorce. Was really depressed and called my mom the other day saying I dont want to live in Wisconsin anymore because of the winters, she told me to just take the antidepressants again. So ya, even your own mom will not really care about your struggles.
My mother couldn't give a shit about my struggles. Doesn't even pretend. To be honest it doesn't bother me.
@@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels the more you surrender to the existence of female nature the more stronger you are as a man and less likely to let any woman hurt you
Step mother's care even less
She lost her job, went through school and I supported her. The moment she made just as much or slightly more than me...she was gone.
Agree with Rich’s analysis. I have a solid job in government and three masters’ degrees. I would never go out with a professional woman. No way. I only go out with women who do not have a degree and have an average job. Keep it simple.
She wants you to be the rock. She wants to be supported - financially, emotionally, etc. She doesn’t want to provide support. She might do it in a pinch, but like at your job you better not have two bad quarters in a row.
Steam is usually 6’2” and very muscular 😂
Steam: is that Chad's new nickname?
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Well, what can you say. The dude is not far from being single and the wife she's clearly looking for a way out. Once women start asking for advice and thinking about this and that, it's game over. Dude better see what other options he's got and let this women go.
Bro makes it make sense. I’m 24, own my own house, have my own business, and I’m about to expand big time. I did about 130k last year, and will probably do well over 220k this year. I’m 6’1, good looking, hit the gym 3-4 times a week, and have a very stable life. My girlfriend of 4 years left me because I didn’t focus on her enough. Guilty. I took it on the chin and moved on. No one is going to distract me from my purpose, and sure as shit not gonna make me feel bad for waking up every day and doing what I have to do. Hell, I figure by the time I’m 26, I’m really going to be set, and will have more time to think about relationships and a family. But the last thing I’m gonna do at that point is get back with someone who didn’t have any foresight and couldnt weather the storm for a few more years. Worst of all, her dumb-as-a-sack-of-bricks best friend is the one who put her up to it, and even went as far as convincing her that I was talking to other women, when I spent every second of my off time with her. She’s going to face a hard reality pretty soon when she realizes what she left. I’m gonna have more time on my hands and more money in my pocket🤷♂️
She'll figure out she screwed up at some point and reach out. Wish her well and don't go back.
It always the jealous single friend that convince them to leave you so they can live out some sex in the city fantasy but it never pans out for them😂
just learn from the lesson. Getting well-off early is dangerous since it can get you sapped by some succubus and ruined later on. Women can really change shape to be whatever you like. Don't be tricked by the "perfect girl" and don't "follow your heart". Ask her what she values most and if it's anything other than "family and keeping the people i love close" or something along those lines, then you're stepping into a conditional relationship for sure. Make sure you know what the conditions are exactly and test them out before you find out 15 years later. Loyalty is rare among men and extremely rare among women.
To sum it up, women care about one thing: themselves. Truth.
Narcissists.
Me too.
Psychos
Exactly. Ok the US, they do not even care about their children usually.
This is so true. Women can be cruel. I gave up work, I earned £20k more than her, to look after our baby as too young for nursery so she could go back to her job that wasn't necessary as had a year of maternity leave. Fatal mistake. Fatal. The King is dead. Long live the woman.
Big mistake
similar to me. My wife lost respect when I couldn't hold down a job and stayed home to with my daughter. The divorce followed after about 7 years - wouldn't change that time with my daughter though.
@@garethwilliams4467 Terrible shame. Sorry to hear that. Yes, that time together is worth the pain. 👍
Rich is right. I hope he sees this comment because I had something happened that confirmed everything Rich says. I was seeing this woman that would call me to vent all the time and no matter what I was doing she needed someone to talk to and complain about her life and job. One day I was having a rough day at work and I had an anxiety attack. I broke down to her and was upset and her words were "what am I supposed to do with this information?" She got mad at me and said I was complaining and she felt unwanted and didn't like the tension so she left. What happened to me had nothing to do with her but I expected her to care about me having a rough time and she didn't. That's when I knew "Women don't care about our struggles". Rich is 1000% right and he knows his shit. - Nate
No empathy nor compassion
Just dark triad psychos
As the saying goes: A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything; a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing.
There ARE exceptions, it doesn't mean things will be great, but there are some good women with traditional values that will stick with you thru a lot of shit... That being said, there's not much of a chance that you actually have one lol
And then the movie ended… 🤣😂
Went to party come to find out something became a medical issue for myself. I had to leave. She made the choice to stay behind. This confused all of our friends.
I'm not surprised. You set up the relationship in which YOU provide, time, energy, love, blah blah blah. It has to be set up from the beginning. I usually set it up so SHE does more, from the get go. I don't want to sound shady so I'll stop there but it is either her or me, that's what I learned. There is no 50/50, that's a feminist fallacy.
@@neoreign your opinion is much appreciated thanks for the input
Now you know what and who she is...
@@georgeelder8415 damn straight. It's moments like that, that makes you that much more focused on your oun goals.
partying > you. kick her to the curb...or better yet, use her up then kick her to the curb.
I've had two girlfriends: when the first one was about to leave me she searched for excuses and went straight out with another guy (while she was still seeing me!). When that happened she was always agressive and looking down on me on each and every thing I did: she said "the other dude is more generous than you", "he has it bigger", blah blah. When the second girlfriend left me she said "I want someone more confident", "I don't like that you talk too much" and right after going to gender feminism subsidized courses she would simply vanish, tell me I had no empathy for her and that I didn't empathize with the situation of women: I was also super supportive of her but, still, she created in her own mind an alternate unrealistic reality: another example of women's solipsism. Oh the classic one: "I want to be alone" but she went on to get to know several dudes that, according to her, they thought equally as I did.
The world is about to go into a severe financial recession, just like 2008 all over again. The divorce rates will skyrocket over the next few years, due to the financial stress. The women will complain the man is not earning enough or trying hard enough, and start to look elsewhere. If you're married, be cautious.
but at least they'll be plenty of street walkers soon after. all these females that act the part, that will be the only role they can get.
Good advice.
The lawyurs are salivating
Women are fucking savages damn. Men have to be on their game. It's just crazy to me. 🤦🏾
Yep. Women are the pragmatic sex and men are expected to provide income and romance. Work too much and she's not getting enough romance. Work too little and she's not getting enough income. It's a balancing act on a razor's edge. If the balance is maintained there's still no guarantee that it will work.
When women become the bread winner or make more money, they lose respect for the husband. Once that happens, she's done with him. Furthermore, when women want to go out with their girlfriends who are either single or divorced, it's a huge sign that they are on the prowl for other men.
Doesn’t matter if the friends are divorced and single, even married do the same.
To be fair, he should do the house work if she is working long hours and he is not working any hours.
Being too negative will cause a husband or wife to not care to comfort them. It drags you down at some point and the person you are supporting needs to help pull their own weight emotionally.
Yes, she's tired too, so there are limits to her endurance.
Exactly. Sharing emotions is one thing, but nobody of either gender likes a Negative Nancy.
In 2008 went through the same thing lost my job, and she started looking for a better option
So accurate.
I am a black man from Canada.
Due to financial problems, my marriage turned sexless in the last year. I decided to get a second wife according to my custom.
My wife found this out, called the cops and I was arrested violently in my own home : handcuffs and everything, my face was on the floor, I was scared so I resisted what I judged was an unfair arrest.
They took my fingerprints and I have a restraining order.
They are asking me to take a peace bond in court to drop the charges.
Anyway, guys be careful. The cops don't care about men at all. You are a criminal until proven innocent.
Lol! You have financial problems and doubled down with another wife. Priority’s are off, no matter your culture, you should be focusing on your net worth and grind. You’re going to be miserable until you do. No matter how many wives you collect. 🤣
@@esteban1487 yes very common in West Africa where I am from. It is a traditional Muslim thing. The second marriage is not registered with the government.
@@onebridge7231 Being married and not getting laid is intolerable to me. And we have children together so I did not want to divorce her.
@@esteban1487 And the charge was not bigamy but domestic violence.
@Market Maker Yes unfortunately your "custom" doesn't supercede law so if being married to two women is illegal in Canada (as it is in the USA), you're out of luck. BTW, being married to ONE woman is difficult enough, but TWO? Just punch yourself in the face everyday instead. Same effect. 🤣
So nailed it!! I've seen this up close often enough... Yes, men and women are so different, and it's ridiculous to say otherwise.
Because they don't know what loyalty is about.
this video made me think about the famous quote: "behind a great man there is always a great woman".
I totaly believed it, but probably because back then, when women had traditional roles, this quote made somehow sense.
Nowadays I realize that Rich's point of view is more accurate! Thanks!!!
If your girls idea of blowing off some steam is going to a club, she’s not blowing off some steam, she’s blowing some guy named Steve
I love learning new words from Rich.
Two of my best friends are married, one is an ATM to his wife supports her financially in everything and does not seem happy. My other buddy has strong presence bedroom and was in the brink of financial disaster, lost his job a year ago and had bad luck with upward mobility. I helped my second buddy get back in the workforce in a promising role and he revealed to me that his wife was getting frustrated with the financial stress and afraid she might leave him, I have a feeling I might have saved his marriage, had he not figured out his finances.
She is shopping for Chad at the club, the husband has overstayed his welcome... But! I want to hear his side before I pass judgement.
When Poverty comes in at the Door, Love flies out at the Window... (German proverb)