That Whole PART!! If we are made from a Man, we are "conditioned" to respond according to that man. I be glad when they get that. When it becomes the norm to ignore me? Im done and I don't repeat. Don is DONE for me..
Right, if you see that in the getting to know phase or dating phase, that's a red flag that he's not a real man. A real man knows he needs to communicate because that's how u moved your lives forward. Drop him like a hot potato. Never chase guys like that. If u love yourself first, u will immediately move on.
@@Onguard8737Men should not mess with women they truly are not interested in or feel the need to make her chase and obsess. That’s not “real”, that’s infantile and not taking a decisive stance. The fact that speaking up is a problem for men is just sad. So, it’s okay to lead women on and then go silent and frosty? No, I don’t think so. It wreaks of insecurity, immaturity, or clinical narcissism. It is wrong to get someone’s feelings involved and then disappear. And it’s not “needy” for a woman to value her time and temporarily be cross with that person. Their loss in the end.
I told my bf his been childish and needs to man up. 😢 because his been ignoring me 😂😂😂 I need help please and now his still not talking to me😢 what should I do??
When a man does that to me, I give him the same energy because I don't have time. He gets CRICKETS from me until he can't take it anymore then he finally man up and communicate. Works EVERY TIME..
Sho do I'm going do that now ,he stop calling n texting for a week so I stop for the next two weeks now he's texting asking can he see me I think I'm over him because it was only bout 6 months we talked his mind was on someone else he said it wasn't but I got 7 brothers I'm not stupid ,I'm almost 50 I can't n will not put up with games
I feel like something everyone forgets to think about or talk about is that ignoring someone never has a good outcome as talking and understanding each other.
If f*ck around and find out was a picture it is me. Go ahead and ignore me. My attention is like a light switch. Flip it on and flip it off when no longer needed. 🤷🏾♀️ I’m in therapy
Now I realize why is he ignoring me the problem is not me and this is not the first time he’s done this to me. I loved him a lot. I cannot stop thinking about him, but now I do because he don’t respect me my time he always tells me he loves me, but I don’t think so so it’s time for me to move on. Thank you Coach.
Mines got upset because he said he loved me and I laughed. Yes I laughed because his actions was not showing love. So when I texted him the next day I realized he was ignoring my texts. I blocked and deleted him. Yes it hurts but I want a real love not someone saying they love me, but showing me different.
I needed this . I've been allowing a man to manipulate me and then just flat out igmore me for months. I've apologized and sent songs ,you name it. He just doesn't like me anymore. 😢😢😢 so I must stop and get my self respect back. His loss
Don't waste your precious TIME figuring out people......MOVE ON. Find others things to do like building a life for yourself and not letting ANYONE STEAL YOUR TIME🙏🏼
@@ShazuSofi-fv4xe Read the book of proverbs. Research personal development, Research growth mindset vs scarcity mindset. Work on yourself, love yourself as you love neighbor. Serve others as you work on yourself. Know your Creator proverbs 3:5-6, proverbs 16:2-3, psalms 146. When we humble ourselves and be obedient to God he will build, restore, create renew, protect, cleanse, ect We must be careful of idolizing a man there's greater things God has called us to do but if we are not ready the only thing the man will be is a stumbling block that will cause us to be stagnanted. Read habakkah 2:2 and learn to walk with God. He is your pathway. His word will direct you when you put it and him first. Our soul is like a computer to program and a magnet whatever we have not given to the Lord to mature or deliver us from it's going to show up or attract the same person/people or in our circumstances. Technically we are being prepared to meet God and this earth is temporary. Value and work on yourself, skills and help those around you or on social media and ask God for discernment so you won't be deceived and as you do that he will attract the people worthy to be with as friends, partner, ect🙏🏼🙏🏼
All of this is so true. I have learned that if a man grew up in a household and he was not able to speak than this is carried from childhood to adulthood. I use to get mad when I ghosted, but I had learned it just wasn’t meant to be. I just moved forward to real men that can speak up. I don’t have time for childish behavior.
A lot of women don't accept rejection well. Men don't want to deal with an out of control person that may end up calling the police on him. Far too many women have used the law to screw up a man's life when he decides he doesn't want them.
@@rm5282 i had a man tell me he hoped i was assaulted because i told him i was not interested. it does go both ways, i think the biggest difference is how law enforcement responds. men are not treated equally: in that, assumptions will be made about men and women can sometimes gain sympathy based on gender.
@@heirofdisa true. I was stationed in Okinawa back in 1990. A woman Marine had relations with a guy and afterwards said he did the R word to her. He was lucky at the time that the Marines weren't like most municipal legal systems. He was actually innocent until the investigation was completed. In the end, it turn out the woman lied. Now, imagine that happening in a civilian environment, that guy would lose everything on the front end without the due process taking is course. I know there are plenty of bad men out there and I hope no one is harmed by them. I just want everyone to get a fair shake.
@@rm5282 like both of us have stated, that's something still in progress. i am glad they looked into that case and protected the man, esp in other cultures that kind of accusation can be the difference between life and death.
That's not good. I be glad when men come to the realization that the Women they choose, will respond according to HIS ability to communicate.. When a women switch up? its usually something she's missing from him as well. When we feel pushed away, abandoned and unwanted, we will respond as well and are response is not what he expect, at least for me. Manipulation will get you single fast with me.
He ignores; not because he cannot communicate. We communicated in the beginning about everything. Now he is inattentive and told he has holding a grudge, but refuses to tell me what it is. So no contact for now. I need a break it can be temporary or permanent. I will decide. I am giving myself some space and time.
It is unnecessary for adults to ignore other adults....Adults have conversations, they do not need to ignore because they can fully express themselves respectfully.😊😊
@@shabreidavis7790 it does sound weird I agree. But what I’m understanding is that it’s saying it takes effort/focus to not do something you really want to do.
@@laoisemeehan A man who's really interested in you will make it painfully obvious he is. Happened to me. When the guy is truly interested in me I don't even need him to tell me because it is obvious. When he is not or not that much I question myself. Chances are that if you doubt a man's interest in you he is not really interested. I would have moved on a long time ago or continue to talk to him for the fun of it but date other people.
Nope! Tell me exactly how you feel so we can navigate through things. Holding things inside isn’t going to help anyone. It’s ok to cry or be upset, just not about everything. I don’t even cry or be emotional about everything.
If he ignores me instead of confronting, then he is a coward. He should man up and tell me my mistakes. I am always ready to apologize. No one is perfect, remember that
They know when to communicate, they choose to stay in a low vibrational state & want their target to accept their bs. Nobody has time for games when it comes to love. I’m guilty for playing games myself but it was never for evil intentions, just not ready or not feeling good enough was the reason but as time goes on, I’m healing from what broke me in the first place. If anyone chooses to play games rather than be upfront, LEAVE THEM ALONE ! They’re not ready or just not simply ready to give you a commitment
We have too many suitors to be worried bout 1 fool. I have so many broken 💔 hearted men out there by trying to play these manipulative tactics. A dude gave me silence for 8 days, and he came back, and I was with someone else. LOL 😆 he's sick right now 😂😂😂 Play stupid games ........Win stupid prizes 🤷🏽♀️
Right. It takes two minutes to have five guys in your inbox and I'm not talking the burger joint. These men can be a dime a dozen. Thank you next. You only have to show me once who you are. Next time think of the consequences
@MjtheChicagokid Exactly! Online, these men are animals they stay in our inbox begging to get with us and In the real world as well, its crazy!!!! IDK why dude tried to play games with me , he saw how men use to be drooling over me in front of him one guy offered to give me money to talk to him right in front of him lol 😆 I gave him 3 years to get right then he played for 8 days and I was gone with a fine ass guy lol 😆
God bless you Sir for sharing your truth and keeping it 💯. God's plan and timing. I have walked away. God and Self love. I'm very happy and unbothered. His lost. Moving forward. Thank you Sweet Jesus for covering me with your love and protection over me. 😊❤ Lessons learned. Thank you Coach. I appreciate your message. 😊❤❤❤
That just happened. I said alot cause lm not waiting around. I soooooooagree!! I am better now off for. .that!!!! I want him happy. You are a wizard at your blunt straight no chaser teaching lm loving it!!! Rhonda. Prater . Coach l love your Love &. Relationship sessions!!!! May. Gid bless. Yu.
A little insight. If you push me to the point that I don't care anymore you can be sure that you should move on with your life. All the other stuff like blaming and playing games are gone, I just don't want nothing to do with you anymore. Simple as that
Well, this is the most insightful explanation about why a man is pulling away. Other coaches advise women to just walk away, which would end potential good relationships.
This is something I’m going through now. This guy has had a huge crush on my for months and now I finally excepted my feeling for him. I’ve liked him for 2 months and I showed a little sign I like him and him and his friend laughed. This was last week. This week he didn’t come into the store but walked passed. 2 of his friends came in in the afternoon. As soon as I saw the first one he looked away quickly and was whispering on the phone I had no clue what that was about. The second one came in with a angry kinda look and we locked eyes and that made me laugh and I tried not to and it’s turned into a smile. Then today I saw that same friend who gave me the serious look. He normally comes in to get pastries but this time he didn’t and was texting someone. Then later on I saw the dude I like who likes me, go around the store from the back towards his work place and it made me think what’s that all about. I wasn’t sure if yesterday was a test to see if I was loyal or not before continuing to pursue me or something but I wasn’t checking them out. I look at everyone who comes in the store. And maybe his friend texted him to say oh she’s here don’t walk in front walk around. Like I don’t know if he likes me anymore or not and it’s stressful cuz it takes me a lot of courage to try and talk to someone especially if I like them and today was the day I was going to do that and now look. What do you think?, Please help me 🥺 He used to always be around me and stare like crazy. Now he doesn’t do that as much and I showed him a little that I liked him and that was last week a but now he’s just avoiding coming near the store. Do you think he chose the other girl cuz I’m there was a girl who came in twice just to see who I was and that was it. I think she liked him as well and maybe he decided to choose her. Either way it hearts and I don’t know what to do?
We need our men to grow up. If they're not willing to be coached/molded then there's no need for them to step to us. I really do believe that what we have to choose from concerning most men who fall under this category is only going to get worse. It makes absolutely no sense. It's incredibly aggravating to me as to how vocal that a man can be when he wants something from the woman, but when we want something from him, he's not available.
He says he wants me badly and he has never wanted someone so sincerely. He ignores me so I stop reaching out, he inevitably returns. I ask to spend time with him and he starts ignoring me again... Seriously.. it's too hurtful. Can't do it anymore. I know he's doing it on purpose. Manipulative
4months in trying to understand what went wrong. He just shot down after a little miscommunication. Total silence. He still hasn’t picked up my calls or tex back. When he did he just said I don’t wanna talk. It has nothing to do with u. Guys am I crazy to still want to know … if it’s not abt me then why u can’t even be at least friendly and not just dry silence? Why that attitude towards me.!? Confused. It makes me believe that there is more to that.
Plot twist ignore me on purpose for manipulation, I’ll just move on. Don’t have time for mind games
Yes. Same with the guy I wasted time on.
That Whole PART!! If we are made from a Man, we are "conditioned" to respond according to that man. I be glad when they get that. When it becomes the norm to ignore me? Im done and I don't repeat. Don is DONE for me..
Maybe that’s what he’s manipulating you for lol
They never started because of the man to begin with.
Amen, I think that it's just stupid.
Doesn't matter...says a lot about him...if he can't talk to me about issues like a grown man, he can go!
agreed
Right, if you see that in the getting to know phase or dating phase, that's a red flag that he's not a real man. A real man knows he needs to communicate because that's how u moved your lives forward. Drop him like a hot potato. Never chase guys like that. If u love yourself first, u will immediately move on.
Exactly!
@@darlenebernard4288👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🙏
Yes, DeeDee!
It is a demonstration of childish behavior in all 3 reasons.. Thanks for insight!
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Real men walk away because it's the most powerful explanation
@@Onguard8737❤❤
@@Onguard8737Men should not mess with women they truly are not interested in or feel the need to make her chase and obsess. That’s not “real”, that’s infantile and not taking a decisive stance. The fact that speaking up is a problem for men is just sad. So, it’s okay to lead women on and then go silent and frosty? No, I don’t think so. It wreaks of insecurity, immaturity, or clinical narcissism. It is wrong to get someone’s feelings involved and then disappear. And it’s not “needy” for a woman to value her time and temporarily be cross with that person. Their loss in the end.
I told my bf his been childish and needs to man up. 😢 because his been ignoring me 😂😂😂
I need help please and now his still not talking to me😢 what should I do??
Whoever trying to figure out why men ghost or ignore you in 2024 is mind blowing put yourself first remember the tables always turn
Indeed!
Thank you so much for reminding me of this
Why not just say they moved on with someone else
I'm here as well going through exact situation😂
@@yovonnesmith6567 so they can try and come back when their little thang doesn’t work out 😅 nah boo stay over there 👉
The problem is with that woman. If a man ignores a woman she needs to move on. Too stressful.
Amen 🙏🏾
Give 'em the same energy they give you. I'll enjoy the peace 😂
😂
When a man does that to me, I give him the same energy because I don't have time. He gets CRICKETS from me until he can't take it anymore then he finally man up and communicate. Works EVERY TIME..
Sho do I'm going do that now ,he stop calling n texting for a week so I stop for the next two weeks now he's texting asking can he see me I think I'm over him because it was only bout 6 months we talked his mind was on someone else he said it wasn't but I got 7 brothers I'm not stupid ,I'm almost 50 I can't n will not put up with games
@@ermalovette2075 EXACTLY! Time is short!
As a response back, absolutely. Not doing it in the first place and communicating, ideal.
Well as a man its a win win. Women do it too..its life
That’s why you’re still single right. Works every time lmao
I feel like something everyone forgets to think about or talk about is that ignoring someone never has a good outcome as talking and understanding each other.
I agree but the coach is right. Some ppl rather run than communicate.
Ignore a woman she moves on
Thou shouldn’t harm the devil too badly coach
Its still ok to move on.
He is teaching her to move on
Exactly 💯
Mote like teaching him that he's better off without you
All three is emotionally immature behavior
I refuse to put up with avoidant immature behaviors.
“And you’re free to move about the cabin!”✌🏼
😂
Lol! 😂
And hes going to lose a good woman for all 3 reasons
Exactly!
Exactly 💯
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Yup
Facts cause I'm tied of the back and forth
Theyre trying to hold onto control when they ignore you...just save yourself the health/ mental issues now and drop him like a hot potato 🤷🏽.
If he continues to do these 3 things, he'll probably continue to have failed relationships .
Great points. For the most part emotionally immaturity, & lack of emotional intelligence.
Here's an outcome.....I move on and find someone he's not into playing games. 🙂
Facts 😊
Manipulation That Why He Is Silent
If f*ck around and find out was a picture it is me. Go ahead and ignore me. My attention is like a light switch. Flip it on and flip it off when no longer needed. 🤷🏾♀️ I’m in therapy
HE'S IGNORANT IF HE IGNORES ME INSTEAD OF TALKING TO ME AND YES YOUR EXPLANATION IS ABSOLUTELY CORRECT
Now I realize why is he ignoring me the problem is not me and this is not the first time he’s done this to me. I loved him a lot. I cannot stop thinking about him, but now I do because he don’t respect me my time he always tells me he loves me, but I don’t think so so it’s time for me to move on. Thank you Coach.
Mines got upset because he said he loved me and I laughed. Yes I laughed because his actions was not showing love. So when I texted him the next day I realized he was ignoring my texts. I blocked and deleted him. Yes it hurts but I want a real love not someone saying they love me, but showing me different.
🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃 he's immature
@kimberlymay9497 I Happy for you; you did the right thing, saying I love you. Words are free. Action speaks louder than words.
Godly men with good character don’t do any of these mind games these worldly men you speak of do
A Godly man talked to me the first week and ignored the next and that's why I landed up here
Amen
@@poojasoneja7011then he truly wasn’t GODly
He’s still a man. He can very well do the same thing.
@@poojasoneja7011what showed you he was godly
Thinking like that almost got me crazy. They'll usually ignore you when they are busy cheating! So don't worry ladies!
True❤..
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He's a coward.
Dont confuse ignorance with quietness.
@@omphilemathole4450 its ignorance...emotional ignorance.
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No we can get in trouble. Meanwhile females are not held accountable
Yep he is trying to stay in control it's best to stay silent
A ll he's doing is giving me a way out. I don't need the stress
I needed this . I've been allowing a man to manipulate me and then just flat out igmore me for months. I've apologized and sent songs ,you name it. He just doesn't like me anymore. 😢😢😢 so I must stop and get my self respect back. His loss
Withhold your affection and attention and watch me move on. Boom. 😊
It’s because he or she wants to ignore you.
They either running game, or not interested in you.
Don't waste your precious TIME figuring out people......MOVE ON. Find others things to do like building a life for yourself and not letting ANYONE STEAL YOUR TIME🙏🏼
And then how can we get the right partner if we avoid every person
@@ShazuSofi-fv4xe Read the book of proverbs. Research personal development, Research growth mindset vs scarcity mindset. Work on yourself, love yourself as you love neighbor. Serve others as you work on yourself. Know your Creator proverbs 3:5-6, proverbs 16:2-3, psalms 146. When we humble ourselves and be obedient to God he will build, restore, create renew, protect, cleanse, ect We must be careful of idolizing a man there's greater things God has called us to do but if we are not ready the only thing the man will be is a stumbling block that will cause us to be stagnanted. Read habakkah 2:2 and learn to walk with God. He is your pathway. His word will direct you when you put it and him first. Our soul is like a computer to program and a magnet whatever we have not given to the Lord to mature or deliver us from it's going to show up or attract the same person/people or in our circumstances. Technically we are being prepared to meet God and this earth is temporary. Value and work on yourself, skills and help those around you or on social media and ask God for discernment so you won't be deceived and as you do that he will attract the people worthy to be with as friends, partner, ect🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@marjn1030 ok thnx for writing so much for humanity so sweet of you
@@marjn1030 ❤
Or steal your joy!
All of this is so true. I have learned that if a man grew up in a household and he was not able to speak than this is carried from childhood to adulthood. I use to get mad when I ghosted, but I had learned it just wasn’t meant to be. I just moved forward to real men that can speak up. I don’t have time for childish behavior.
Well if he wants to move on with something else or someone else then how come he can't step up and say so
A lot of women don't accept rejection well. Men don't want to deal with an out of control person that may end up calling the police on him. Far too many women have used the law to screw up a man's life when he decides he doesn't want them.
@@rm5282 i had a man tell me he hoped i was assaulted because i told him i was not interested. it does go both ways, i think the biggest difference is how law enforcement responds. men are not treated equally: in that, assumptions will be made about men and women can sometimes gain sympathy based on gender.
@@heirofdisa true. I was stationed in Okinawa back in 1990. A woman Marine had relations with a guy and afterwards said he did the R word to her. He was lucky at the time that the Marines weren't like most municipal legal systems. He was actually innocent until the investigation was completed. In the end, it turn out the woman lied. Now, imagine that happening in a civilian environment, that guy would lose everything on the front end without the due process taking is course.
I know there are plenty of bad men out there and I hope no one is harmed by them. I just want everyone to get a fair shake.
@@rm5282 like both of us have stated, that's something still in progress. i am glad they looked into that case and protected the man, esp in other cultures that kind of accusation can be the difference between life and death.
You mean a person you can control.
Funny thing men say those say things to women
Who express their feelings..... Sometimes they go silent because they can't play you
You already been played
Give him that same energy exit quietly and expeditiously
He doesn't know how to tell you he is married 😮
Wow! This could be so true!😮
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Match energy….always!
That's not good. I be glad when men come to the realization that the Women they choose, will respond according to HIS ability to communicate.. When a women switch up? its usually something she's missing from him as well. When we feel pushed away, abandoned and unwanted, we will respond as well and are response is not what he expect, at least for me. Manipulation will get you single fast with me.
EXACTLY
Amen 🙏🏾
He ignores; not because he cannot communicate. We communicated in the beginning about everything. Now he is inattentive and told he has holding a grudge, but refuses to tell me what it is. So no contact for now. I need a break it can be temporary or permanent. I will decide. I am giving myself some space and time.
It is unnecessary for adults to ignore other adults....Adults have conversations, they do not need to ignore because they can fully express themselves respectfully.😊😊
Ha! Jokes on him, I'm an Aquarius, detaching is our jam! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂🎉 YUP
Not sure if it's our super power or toxic trait!! Or both🤣
Everything the couch said in this vedio describes an aquarius
Yes! Aquarian here.👍
@@najacummings4626Yup!!!.... ghost them mutherf$%#ers!!
This is why I don’t date.. you’re darned if you do and darned if you don’t 😢… I’m just tired of it all
Remember, the one who demonstratively ignores you, is the one who pays the most attention to you!
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So hes ignoring via behavior but mentally kinda obsessed
@@daisyflower8362How does that make sense??... I'm confused?? 🤷♀️
How??.... please explain?? 🤔
@@shabreidavis7790 it does sound weird I agree. But what I’m understanding is that it’s saying it takes effort/focus to not do something you really want to do.
Dating has become unnecessarily complicated. I
Just can't be bothered
Aka
Doesn't want You.
He doesn't want uou anymore
What if he says he wants you badly, ignores for a day or two and then comes back and ignores again? I guess I'm just validation for him?
@@laoisemeehan A man who's really interested in you will make it painfully obvious he is. Happened to me. When the guy is truly interested in me I don't even need him to tell me because it is obvious. When he is not or not that much I question myself. Chances are that if you doubt a man's interest in you he is not really interested. I would have moved on a long time ago or continue to talk to him for the fun of it but date other people.
Na, because I saw how he had no problem communicating with others!
This is a lame excuse to have a “pass” for b.s!
Men are not good at communicating because their brains are different from women's brains.
He’s 100% on what he saying it also make you a tough guy if you share your feelings for real something will hit u he want you to get back up
Mind games are exhausting. If they don't man up and communicate properly to you. It's time to let them go!
Nope! Tell me exactly how you feel so we can navigate through things. Holding things inside isn’t going to help anyone. It’s ok to cry or be upset, just not about everything. I don’t even cry or be emotional about everything.
Was with a manipulator, didn't see it coming that he had someone else. Ty ❤️
He’s insecure & trying to play victim
It’s manipulation
You’re both adults if he can’t talk it out …. Then walk away !!
Depression is the biggest reason
Tell me more please! As in his depression makes him shut down??
If he ignores me instead of confronting, then he is a coward. He should man up and tell me my mistakes. I am always ready to apologize. No one is perfect, remember that
I agree with one and three, I partially agree with two. Some guys try to manipulate women but mostly he is more than likely tire of her antics.
They know when to communicate, they choose to stay in a low vibrational state & want their target to accept their bs. Nobody has time for games when it comes to love. I’m guilty for playing games myself but it was never for evil intentions, just not ready or not feeling good enough was the reason but as time goes on, I’m healing from what broke me in the first place. If anyone chooses to play games rather than be upfront, LEAVE THEM ALONE ! They’re not ready or just not simply ready to give you a commitment
We have too many suitors to be worried bout 1 fool. I have so many broken 💔 hearted men out there by trying to play these manipulative tactics. A dude gave me silence for 8 days, and he came back, and I was with someone else. LOL 😆 he's sick right now 😂😂😂
Play stupid games ........Win stupid prizes 🤷🏽♀️
Right. It takes two minutes to have five guys in your inbox and I'm not talking the burger joint. These men can be a dime a dozen. Thank you next. You only have to show me once who you are. Next time think of the consequences
@MjtheChicagokid Exactly! Online, these men are animals they stay in our inbox begging to get with us and In the real world as well, its crazy!!!! IDK why dude tried to play games with me , he saw how men use to be drooling over me in front of him one guy offered to give me money to talk to him right in front of him lol 😆 I gave him 3 years to get right then he played for 8 days and I was gone with a fine ass guy lol 😆
He wont admit he is a liar all u can do is ignore him
Thanks Coach. You alway keep it 💯. That's why I Love You. Communication is key. Man or boy Bye. It's easier to walk . 😊❤
Always
Well he lost out, 5yrs was as long as I could take it
Think about it, you wasted 5 years and you still think he cares🤦🏽♂️…
@@Resarchaic honestly, hard pill but you’re so right and I swallowed it when I walked away, I was already done proving my worth.
@@dona_graceyou had not heard from him in 5 years?
I think I’ve totally blown it with the love of my life he doesn’t even talk or look at me that way anymore
Only a real man will tell her the truth
Hallelujah 🙌 glory be to God always
This was truly a message I needed! Thanks for sharing
You are so welcome
Sometimes people can ruin their own dating experience and it shuts everything down and people don't realize what they did or said, but it happens
God bless you Sir for sharing your truth and keeping it 💯. God's plan and timing. I have walked away. God and Self love. I'm very happy and unbothered. His lost. Moving forward. Thank you Sweet Jesus for covering me with your love and protection over me. 😊❤ Lessons learned. Thank you Coach. I appreciate your message. 😊❤❤❤
He could be a NARCISSIST nothing you did.🤷🏽♂️🤔😔
All he had to do is say that!! So childish Smh
Men generally are too complicated to waste too much time n energy... headache .
I really want to be love and be loved back I pray God give me the right man
It depends. My boyfriend Freddie always has time for me and I am willing to listen to him because he deserves everything from me
That just happened. I said alot cause lm not waiting around. I soooooooagree!! I am better now off for. .that!!!! I want him happy. You are a wizard at your blunt straight no chaser teaching lm loving it!!! Rhonda. Prater . Coach l love your Love &. Relationship sessions!!!! May. Gid bless. Yu.
Sad and unfortunate too
FACTS COACH!!❤
A little insight. If you push me to the point that I don't care anymore you can be sure that you should move on with your life. All the other stuff like blaming and playing games are gone, I just don't want nothing to do with you anymore. Simple as that
Well, this is the most insightful explanation about why a man is pulling away. Other coaches advise women to just walk away, which would end potential good relationships.
Yeah, he did I blocked and deleted him on the spot 😂😂😂
Oh Wow...Interesting.....however...effective communication is very important to me but.thanks for sharing Coach!
Thank you.Absolutely true.
You are so welcome
This is something I’m going through now. This guy has had a huge crush on my for months and now I finally excepted my feeling for him. I’ve liked him for 2 months and I showed a little sign I like him and him and his friend laughed. This was last week. This week he didn’t come into the store but walked passed. 2 of his friends came in in the afternoon. As soon as I saw the first one he looked away quickly and was whispering on the phone I had no clue what that was about. The second one came in with a angry kinda look and we locked eyes and that made me laugh and I tried not to and it’s turned into a smile. Then today I saw that same friend who gave me the serious look. He normally comes in to get pastries but this time he didn’t and was texting someone. Then later on I saw the dude I like who likes me, go around the store from the back towards his work place and it made me think what’s that all about. I wasn’t sure if yesterday was a test to see if I was loyal or not before continuing to pursue me or something but I wasn’t checking them out. I look at everyone who comes in the store. And maybe his friend texted him to say oh she’s here don’t walk in front walk around. Like I don’t know if he likes me anymore or not and it’s stressful cuz it takes me a lot of courage to try and talk to someone especially if I like them and today was the day I was going to do that and now look. What do you think?, Please help me 🥺
He used to always be around me and stare like crazy. Now he doesn’t do that as much and I showed him a little that I liked him and that was last week a but now he’s just avoiding coming near the store. Do you think he chose the other girl cuz I’m there was a girl who came in twice just to see who I was and that was it. I think she liked him as well and maybe he decided to choose her. Either way it hearts and I don’t know what to do?
Communication is key however I'm a big fan of returning the same energies I get too🤞
Thank you for the clarification.
I can respect number one. That itself is a learning lesson. However the two and three….reasons are for mental manipulation and lack of maturity.
Such good input thank you.
You're so welcome!
We need our men to grow up. If they're not willing to be coached/molded then there's no need for them to step to us. I really do believe that what we have to choose from concerning most men who fall under this category is only going to get worse. It makes absolutely no sense. It's incredibly aggravating to me as to how vocal that a man can be when he wants something from the woman, but when we want something from him, he's not available.
Everything she said!❤❤❤❤❤
Facts everything you said is Truth. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🤴🏿
Leave him alone,have respect and dont bother the dead 😐
Come on coach!!! You’re preparing me for it all!!! ☮️✨🌸
It’s the same for women goes both ways it’s people
Thanks for the info
If you dont appreciate the attention then u lose it, simple.
Oh! That's Why He Does That....🤔🙄
Because I don't care 🤔👍🏾💯🤣🤣🤣
Do what works for you
That is some great three-point sir I like it keep doing more videos like this about a man does I love it 💘🙏😻💘🙏🙏🙏🙏
Nr.4 or he‘s just stressed out in life,especially work….thats my experience.When he‘s not able to adult
I’m just staying single.
He says he wants me badly and he has never wanted someone so sincerely. He ignores me so I stop reaching out, he inevitably returns. I ask to spend time with him and he starts ignoring me again... Seriously.. it's too hurtful. Can't do it anymore. I know he's doing it on purpose. Manipulative
4months in trying to understand what went wrong. He just shot down after a little miscommunication. Total silence. He still hasn’t picked up my calls or tex back. When he did he just said I don’t wanna talk. It has nothing to do with u. Guys am I crazy to still want to know … if it’s not abt me then why u can’t even be at least friendly and not just dry silence? Why that attitude towards me.!? Confused. It makes me believe that there is more to that.
Lol i tell them its projecting their own insecurities and perceptions then i dont come back
Spot on
Oh please somtimes the dog is shameful he can't even look u in the face so he stay silent
Exactly 💯
Real
Concise and profound✨️
What if it’s nothing you’ve said or done?