When he ghosts you and comes back, Do this
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- Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
- When he ghosts you and comes back, Do this || Coach Ken Canion
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Never let a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you. Ghosting is them telling you he doesn’t want you.
The piece of shit has done it all, and you're still dealing with him? Does that mean it's true love, or you've just settled for whatever? SMH
True
Perfect 👏👏👏 never again💪
Thank you for sharing. This popped right in time for me.
The best thing to do is to ignore the ghoster ...these people is just irresponsible, they know what they are doing, if I have to be on a relationship where I have to basically remind the other person of my existence then I rather be by myself
That's it 👍
Absolutely. My friend has been dealing with a guy named Elvis for a long time. I told her to stop responding to him. He doesn't care if she is dead or alive. In and out of her life playing games with her mind is a sign of his mental illness.
They have multiple on rotation
They always come back! And leave again!!! Don't take him back. Neverrrrr
We all err. Your bitter.
A guy ghosted me after 4 mths of talking 3-4 times a day.... he came back out of no where and I played him... after him asking what's been going on in my life I told him I won a huge amount of money in the lottery...🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿 he was sick! It was a lie but I got the last laugh and then abruptly got off the phone with him. I was thinking go ponder on that, JACK
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Savage 😂😂😂😂
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I won't even bother having the conversation, it's rest in peace to a ghost (rip)
The moment he ghosts you, delete his contact information or block him. You will forever forget about him.
No. You don't forget. That's a lie....but all this talking about it is terrible advice, so I agree with blocking. Lol
Yup
@@nayjavuOf course you can, unless you have self esteem issues.
Exactly I did 💪👏
I don't have time for confused people
He did not find what he was.looking for so now he want to come back.
Exactly! And won’t find it here either✌🏼
Don't ever tell a man how you feel cause in the first place he is not a kid. Obviously he doesnt care about your feelings lol
If a Ghoster reaches out, IGNORE PERIOD
My dad always told me leave the dead alone. 👻 be gone. I don’t allow them to come back, I block them.
Exactly! I always use Frankenstein’s monsters “, “Dead Should stay dead!”
This made me laugh out loud so hard 😂😂😂
All these fucking games men play is the perfect recipe to walk away forever!!
Your bitter and you have a pottymouth.
🙆🏾♀🙆🏾♀🙆🏾♀"If you lie to yourself you have no one else to trust" WOW WOW that's bars!!!!
Hard truth
But needed to hear that
That's doing way too much. Why should I even waste my time communicating with someone who ghosted me in the first place? I hate when men waste my time so once I find out that I been ghosted, I always BLOCK AND DELETE the phone number. That way, they can NEVER COME BACK
If that works for u, it makes sense to do
MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY!👏👏👏👏👏
For real!! No time for the confusion.
That crap don’t work they will find a way out of none
@@ronnietoni819 true so keep blocking their ass and give them some CRICKETS
Come on, if someone doesn't want to talk to you no more without an explanation don't allow him or her to just walked back into your life.
I never allow a ‘ghost’ to come back and tell me a 2nd time he doesn’t want me. I believe them the first time. He reached out via text….via WhatsApp, lol. He had been blocked and deleted everywhere else. I left him on ‘read’ and blocked him. No response.
I hope I get a chance and do the same thing
@@Meatball-p2s You will
Love that for you!
Damn. Some people make mistakes 🤷🏻♂️
@OiVinn-eq1ml ...that thought process is exactly why he made this video. Why would a man in relationship fall off the planet, then step back in as though nothing happened. It is not a mistake. He is grown. We tend to accept way more than men will. Value Self.
My ex ghosted me and had the nerve to text me 3 years later and say "Hey, I unblocked all the numbers" and I replied "Oh well block me again" 🙄 Boy boy 🙄
An ex can not ghost you. He is a frigging ex. !!! Ghosting is when you are in the middle of dating!!
@@worldbestalwayshe is an ex now 🤦♀️
@Helen13-pr4ui ok so you were together and he disappeared for 3 years. 😲
@@worldbestalways we were together and he left, blocked, deleted, moved on and when his new relationship did not work out he had the nerve to text me 3 years later casually saying, he unblocked my number and how am I? I told him to block me again. Only a coward acts like him.
@@helz13 yes, of course
I strongly disagree with his advice. Ghosters are not worth the time of day, if he did it once he will do it again. Dont give him any chances to waste your time again. Lock and block immediately after 3 to 7 days of him ghosting you. Never ublock him, never allow him to return, never give him second chances to waste your time again. He will only do it again!!!! Guaranteed!!!!
Agree 👏👏👏
I agree - I wish I would respond to a lazy “wyd” text after being ghosted 🙄
I've wasted 15 years with a man that doesn't know his end from his beginning... I don't have time for no more nonsense so keep it moving
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Say " hey sorry I've been too busy to contact you...how are things?" make it like YOU were ghosting him....OR ignore him until he says something significant
Ignoring until he says something significant
This why you never get emotions involved with anyone you start dating. That way you can dismiss them when they keep up this madness
Forget about the ghost they don't need your energy
He ghosted me and I ghosted him...period.
Thank God the guy that ghosted me never came back.
It depends on the situation - if it’s family issues, personal issues, etc. I can work with that. If he’s playing games then I don’t got time for the games. That’s draining! I’m too valuable to be treated like an option platter or on standby. Not feeding into no toxic masculinity nor becoming a victim of mind games just to validate someone’s self esteem. I just block and delete the number.
Even in a real situation you have to communicate something. It’s called respect. There is too much technology that facilitates communication to make ghosting acceptable.
@@nessie1321 You’re right!
If they have family or any issues, it only takes a minute to call or text. Don't wait a week or three to communicate
This is too much effort. These days, if someone ghosts me, I just ignore them when they come back around. They no longer get access to me. I don't need to conversate about my plan and how I feel about your actions. Best thing I've done for my mental health.
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I have really learnt a lot from watching your videos. To be honest when a guy ghosts me I tend not to reply to the come back messages , I cut off the oxygen and ignore all texts msg because I want to believe that he knows what he is doing so why would I give him the chance to waste my time again by talking with him. I was brought up with high standards and its truth, loyalty, consistency with me which is why i don't do second chances. I just subscribed to your channel. Thank you
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Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Guys, make sure she is really worth it.
Juan, as a woman I'm telling you this ignore her for a long time, then when she finally make contact, be very nice to her find out hiw she's doing then abruptly get off the phone, that will leave her wondering..lol
Pray for strength and if she's meant to come back to you trust GOD to work it out for you.
This video was so valuable to all of us. The take away I got was we have to value ourselves and make sure we are healed before we can be in an healthy relationship. 🤩🙏🏽💗💪🏽💯 Thank you
Why should anyone let a ghoster back in their lives? 🤔.
As much I have people who ghost, some people do it due to miscommunication. People handle their problems differently. Yes it’s an passive aggressive. But sometimes it’s a little over analyzed. Ghosting can also be a coping mechanism or reaction to the Other person doing wrong. Like a narcissist or someone who doesn’t value respect.
My POV I think it’s best just best to move on… the behaviour will be repeated and the person shows their incapable of offering a healthy relationship despite whatever you or that person may want.
You were in an actual relationship with a man and he vanished? Mmm sorry, no. You went out three times and he vanished? Eh, so he's telling you you're a reserve, you're not a high priority, he wanted to see what else was available before pursuing you. So ... if you're fine with that, go for it. There isn't much reason to have patience for ghosting, it takes literal seconds to communicate in the digital age. You weren't worth seconds of this person's time? File it for reference and proceed with that awareness; this person has no value to you.
That's a great way of putting it! I wasn't worth the seconds it takes to send a text. Wow! 💡
So damn true 💯
True 👏👏👏
This is class for me. I’m a lover not a fighter but just didn’t know how to really communicate it. 🙏🏾
His is great. A lot of coaches talk about the no contact and men that ghost, but do not say what to do when it happens. Thank you
Why do some play games that we gotta do all this? Smh am exhausted lol. Just easier die alone
Coach ,a guy slowed on communicating with me after he claimed he had to be present for his grandpa being in the hospital . I have him space ,and after a couple weeks no communication .I blocked him because I felt like he was playing with me and using his family emergency etc .as an excuse .Then he reaches out after a few months saying he tried to reach me through Facebook and everything because I blocked him . I threw the whole guy away because I don’t have time for excuses ,lies ,and deceptions .
I finally had the guts to say no to FWB after being ghosted and come back..
Never do FWB. Your more valuable than that mess.
A guy didn't write me any goodnight or goodmorning text after our second date with a kiss, for 2 weeks. He wrote after 2 weeks like everything was normal. And then wrote again after me visualizing and ignoring him. Very satisfying
Omg, I love this coach! Thank you so much for empowering us women the way Jesus intended!
I had this happen to me
The guy even sent pics of girls he claimed to be with after he told me he wasn’t interested in me anymore .
I never responded!!
Why would I ?
Every day he calls & texts me still 😂 I never respond
I don’t block him Becuz I want to make him crazy ignoring him & it’s working .
After 4 years He started being narcissistic & saying cruel
Trying to compare me to other woman & Becuz I didn’t let it bother me
When it first started with this crap I told him I know my worth
👋🏽 God Bless you
BLOCKED !!!!!!
never let someone burn you twice !
Respect yourself you are worth it !! ♥️
😂😂😂😂..when a guy ghost you and you let him back maybe you are looking for closure which is a bad idea..very bad
My guy ghosted me for 3 days. Before this incident he told me constantly how much he loved me. When he contacted me again after ignoring me, I ignored his calls. At 3 in the morning I sent him a message telling him his inability to be consistent did not measure up to my standards. I blocked him and never looked back.
3 days is not a huge deal.
Good for you. It takes strength to say this is unacceptable behaviour. Know your worth 💯
Honestly, 3 days is nothing. Maybe he was sick. I would have had a conversation about it. These days alot of people are under spiritual attack. Anxiety & depression has skyrocketed. Again, I'd have talked it thru & not just BLOCKED him. That's infantile.
Your confusing standards with pride. Your going to have a hard time ever marrying. You need Christ in your life to show you the way.
You seem immature so it's probably fir the best..
A wise person once said’ When someone ghost you, respect the dead and move in !
I was ghosted by someone who had been a close platonic friend years ago and we had just gotten back in touch around 4 months ago. We talked for a couple months daily. He was calling and texting consistently and even flirting and said he was interested in me romantically years ago but never said so. We live now about 100 miles from each other so we hadn't seen each other yet, just talking. Well, out of the blue he just disappeared. He sent me a text about 2 months later (a week ago) giving me some excuse and proceeded to write how it was because of something I said that upset him. 🙄 (which only added insult to injury by making it my fault). Regardless, I text him back two words: "Got it." --- thats it. No emotion, no debate, but I wanted to show I did read his message and I was trying to show indifference, really. Now I realize my two word text could be taken two ways - either that I was angry, or just matter of fact and unbothered, so he can just sit and wonder for a while! This was all recently and I just sent that "Got it" text a few days ago, so we'll see. I haven't heard back yet - and maybe I never will but I'll be fine either way. Videos with advice like this keep me strong and remind me I have value and no matter what I might have said to upset him, if he truly valued me he would've addressed it with me immediately - NOT ghosted me for two months! No way is that respectful. Further, I didn't even know or remember saying what he said that upset him so if he thought he was teaching me a lesson by ghosting me, it was a waste of time - I had zero clue why he was doing it! 😂 Just strange behavior all around.
“Got it” was too long. “K” is what you send. 😂
That’s why I don’t save anyone’s number easier to detach my ghosted texted hi yesterday no response never getting one
Needed to hear this message.
I had a passionate relationship with no stability. Led to 💔 Thank you ❤️
Know how you felt🤗, had same 'situationship' and still healing after 11 months
@andziagreen4922
It's been 2 yrs, I'm still healing.
Keep focused ❤️🙏🏼
Men have no passionate relationships with no stabiity. He was just fucking , you were feeling this not him
Very recent heartbreak for me
No offense, but this topic needs to be discussed by a female expert. I agree with a lot of his other videos, but this one is expecting women to do too much for a man who was blatantly disrespectful
Exactly- it’s assuming a woman should invest and give emotional labor to a person who is comfortable ghosting you and sending a “wyd” text after three weeks of ignoring you. Like no
Thank you for the messages in this video. These messages actually helps and you teach us how we can improve our emotional maturity. Unlike some other coaches who just give toxic and unrealistic advice
I'm not doing all this baby it bye block and delete
That was dynomite!!! Always a masterpiece !!! Always walkin down my street. May. God.. continually bless and keep you too.. and your beautiful wife. Rhonda Prater . Merced. Ca.
COACH!! Those 2 questions to ask them is great advice. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
The random girl @2:41 blowing drying her hair i thought the video switched off or had a glitch or something 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It only silent works for the ghoster
Just ignore him
I don't like when men ghost around
Sha the steps you bring is amazing 💖 but him coming back after ghosting you around is because he haven't got what he wants
Mine is just ignore them and move on
Thank you 💖
He’ll be calling or texting but he won’t get a response from me
Unsure in my case who ghosted who.. I stopped reaching out 1st.. so I guess that makes me the ghoster?? 😂
No you aren't
I had someone else the whole time anyway. 😩😂🤷🏾♀️
😂😂😂😂😂 TRUE
This response made me howl with laughter.
The 2nd question 😢 yea I’m keep moving
Great advice and love how you got to the point fast and succinctly
Thats funny.. this shi is happening to me as we speak... Still no acknowledgement at all about how this hurt me do badly.
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..." well he will be talking to Chaspa and Co, then they'll understand each other. I'm out don't have time for mind games"
Baby you keep it 110 and I love it!!!! #ATL
I believe this technique is effective
Great coaching! Makes perfect sense!
Wow thats very true and its powerful.Thats really true its powerful.
I told my bonus niece.. why chase guy who consistently inconsistent
If you don’t want me the first time around they won’t be a second time around 💯
I been ghosted for the last week !! Its the cowards way out as far as I am concerned !! I have deleted and blocked his number !! His rejection was my protection !!
I'm not a hardbody. It's easy for me to block and delete most guys. I do not care about them..but there's one. It's really hard to leave him alone.
I love the part when you said its gotta be your decision, not your friends or family.
Seeing you for the first time and just subscribe now. Thanks
I'm going through alot of shit right now guess he has someone else
Sooooo does this work if he ghosted out of nowhere for no reason and blocked your phone number and all social media? Again, no reason! Cause my heart can’t take him coming back🥺
Am definitely following this
You are wise💕😂
This one been chasing me off and on since 2019’and I still don't want him because he turned me off by stop doing things for me. I was with him for years and I tried to give him a chance but hell naw because he still the same and I'm not attractive to him no more🙌🏽
I’m glad I found your site. ❤ I’m with a man that’s been doing this for a year. But I still love him
Why do we need to talk to people who rejected us? They left for a reason.
Who knows what.
I want to have a healthy emotional environment where my friends, family and loved ones dont disappear.
It's really that simple.
Wow you are so logical this applies for everyone who has been ghosted and for all generations pure logical THANK YOU
New subs here... loved this
Thanks for subbing!
I did everything he said in this video it worked!!! Follow Coach.
Thank you ! You are amazing !
Thank you too!
I love your advise, I should have listened to your advise earlier
I've been ghosted recently, last week actually, the problem is I will hv to meet him again in the next few months because of work, and this work oblige me to fullfil things that he requested in term of that work, professionally, it drives me crazy 🤣🤣
Someone, coach, give me wayout of this madness that I've been feel this recent weeks
Im reading the comments and I must admit when I was younger. I wouldn't tolerate such behaviors. Now as I got older would love to say wiser. I dealt with a ghoster, I didn't have the knowledge of those questions back then but I never loss my value. I decided to take him back and as coach stated made sure i kept my standards and exercised a little more patience. Can i say one of my better decisions now communication as grown, actions are met and I am reaping a good man and relationship. One of my decisions to try again. I knew he had a good heart and sometimes men are just young and immature nothing else.
To each its own. Pray on all decisions as I do. 🙏🏾
I was ghosted after an 8 year on and off relationship, I think he's still stunned that I never took him back 😂😂😂😂😂
I am still laughing 😅😅😅😅
#Narcissist 😂😂😂
absolute accuracy 100 level.this worked for me .
He is blocked for good I dumped him not interested in loosers 😮 I already did answer I want to be by myself..❤❤❤❤
good tips, thank you
Glad it was helpful!
Exactly coach I was like 😳 wtf
This just happened with my ex, so I thought we were trying to rekindle after 7 years part. (He approach me) we last text on New Year’s Day & he sent me a video saying new years prayer & telling me he loves me. We talked the next day but then after texting back & forth he ghosted me & w/ no reply & a week later he hit me with a text saying.. Hello. I hit him with the haha & he came back saying. I’m sorry, and I definitely miss you, but I understand. I never replied… because I feel his silence said it all…
What a Great advice! Thank you coach Ken Canion! I’m gonna apply tonight!
Best of luck!
I need to hear This 👀👀👀
Amen to this. Good Stuff.
That's exactlt what I do, I don't ask him anything I don't show him any emotion 😅😅😂😂 ima do it in person I have to use this technique watching from South Africa
So accurate and very true talk 💯💯🙏🙏
Thanks so much for your advice 🙏 😊
You are so welcome!
Leave these clown 🤡 alone that Ghost you because when he left me and tried to come back I'm done not playing games 💯
Good advice! ❤️
You have great advice. Thanks 😊🙏
This is a no no for me if you ghost me I will move on have no time to waste with grown men playing silly games. I will not overlook and excuse redflags. I believe in doing to others as I would like them to do unto me. No thanks in my heart I will be matching the energy and my attitude will be well I am getting along very well without you and heck time made me stronger you no longer on my mind. When a ghost comes back he will come back to a woman who is so gone and moved on.
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I’m not giving him that much time