The Simple Truth on Why Your Needs Are Not Being Met In Your Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
- We (Dustin & Megan) discuss navigating needs in a relationship - friendship, dating, or marriage - is critical! It usually comes down to our unrealistic, unspoken, or unmet expectations. Learning how to not avoid or get angry, but align for a healthy and thriving relationship is the key!
Blessings - Dustin & Megan
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This is our take on needs and expectations. What are your thoughts?
Side Note: This advice is given assuming the relationship isn't one-sided and controlling. Also, these concepts can apply in friendships, dating, or marriage to various degrees.
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I like your videos. It would be awesome to see one on men versus women roles in dating/marriage. God bless!
Thanks for the encouragement!
That is a great idea! We will add that to the list.
At the moment, we’ve been making a video once every 2 weeks because Megan’s pregnant. So, it could be a while before we do it. 😂
@@dustin_and_megan thank you for your kind reply. I’m praying for you both and for your baby.
Once again, excellent subject matter, excellent advice. When said out loud, it seems almost elementary. Yet, it is inarguably rudimentary when two distinct persons, each having distinct individual expectations, are becoming one by effectively communicating their respective expectations, one to the other. Yielding to this simple process insures success in both feeling loved, heard, and known, each meeting the other’s expectations and needs, perfectly. Without clear, verbal communication, one’s sincere attempt to please their mate can miss the target completely by relying on ‘trial and error’ efforts as their method of choice, resulting in the recipient being disappointed, and the ‘giver’ feeling hurt, and unappreciated.
Thanks for the prayers!
Dave, such good thoughts. We always value your input and reflections! Your marriage/life is an amazing testimony!
Nice keep it up!!!!😊😊😊
Thank you!! We appreciate the encouragement so much.
So my guy and I have been dating for several months but friends for over a year. He has never kissed me and I respect that he has boundaries. But, my primary "Love Language" is physical touch. I realize it's not all about me and I do focus on serving him. I'm just not sure how to ask for that since we both have boundaries in our dating relationship.
I applaud you both for having and keeping boundaries. Very honorable, especially in this culture!
What I know about kissing before marriage is that it can really make other boundaries difficult to maintain. But I also understand how loved it can make one feel, especially as a lady. I’d hope that marriage is in sight for you because there’s plenty of time for that in marriage which is wonderful!
You absolutely can initiate a conversation about it, our rule of thumb is to stick with the boundaries of the person with the stricter ones.
My thoughts would be to talk about your love languages together and discuss ways to meet them while respecting the mutual boundaries you set up. This is especially important in marriage because once the honeymoon phase ends, you both will need to be intentional about loving each other well!