This stuff makes me cry so bad. I can't explain this feeling to anybody because it feels like I'm in hell when I do. God forbid I talk about this to any male figure in my life, they'll just try to defend themselves but they won't listen. I'm so proud of being a woman. I love myself. But god does it make me feel horrible when people just don't understand and I feel alone.
absolutely 100% how i feel, i love myself and i’m so proud of who i am but it does not make it any easier to be in a society that is ultimately run by men, be that through literal executive roles or just the way that male behaviour has shaped us as women, making us internally misogynistic etc. super happy that people are actually watching this too haha it was for a school project
@@jose9hinedamn so at last everything is blamed at men I mean I am doing everything in power to be good man in life but still see this much negativity about us that I feel like women just complains and do nothing
@@jose9hineI really get the point of this vedio I truly try to understand women forgive me If I my above comment hurt you in any way but I feel like we both men and women should take initiative and be better . In your vedio i felt like you generalized men because the same generalisation can be done on women too and about the comment in which you said that women have turned misogynist due to men I believe it's wrong I think women don't hold accountable its own gender,all I am trying to say many men in this world are still good men and trying to do better I want to help anyone I can and I want to be great man that others can see as role model for themselves I think you should not generalize us like this
@@jose9hine Yeah like the guy above said maybe you gals would be better if you stopped blaming everything wrong in society on men, think about this "men run society" or "society run by men" or phrases as such is an easy cop out, a scapegoat. Women are just as responsible for such, a lot of the things women care about men actually don't so it's you pressing this kind of stuff on each other. And let me make it clear I'M NOT SAYING THAN MEN ARE NOT TO BLAME, we totally are guilty of a lot of bad stuff, actions and attitudes. But society is dependent on both sexes, pretending that only men make the running decisions in general is idiotic and a way to not have an inward look on women yourselves. Besides the fact it's misogynistic in on itself 😂 like you gals complain about everything depending on men yet you make it be so.
@Valerie-Clarke I'd say... Get out of wherever you are. I grew up in Spain and never felt that way. I grew up in an abusive home and have had other issues, but my sex has never been an obstacle. Go somewhere where such expectations of inferiority don't exist, or learn to not allow them to interfere with your sense of identity.
65 years old woman and I have never felt like I had to fit into some box or present myself some way to make men happy. Honestly, do what you want and who cares what anyone thinks.
Girl you got the right mind set. “Who cares what anyone thinks” learning not to care what anyone thinks and having your own approval of yourself will change you and make you a better version of yourself.🔥🔥🔥
I hate myself as a man, I hate my problems being covered and not having voice. And about your comment, I respect you, I dont care looking good for others neither, I just wanna look good to be treated better, that doesnt mean I do it for anyone, why would I care? Though I wanna be free, but I'm cursed to be heterosexual, for me is a curse in modern day, I hope the madness will end.
They only see my body but they dont want to know anything about me. Im just a commodity like coffee or sugar. And yes men are treated disposable in the line of fire but its 2 sides of the same coin.
You’re value is solely based on what you contribute. If you don’t contribute to the world anything other than your looks, you won’t even seen as anything other than your looks. Maybe when a few women learn to invent new technology or cure a disease or fight in our wars or build or bridges or clean our sewers or lay down our plumbing or build our skyscrapers, MEN DO ALL OF THESE, WOMEN DO NOT.
They don’t know you personally that is why they see you as a commodity. Your body is the first thing people will see. Like I’m short 5’6 their initial impression of me will be based on that there is nothing you can do about it. Also having a desired body is a good thing, it’s better than the alternative.
for a long time it was really hurtful being a woman and having to have periods for men, it was like everything i did was to please men and sometimes it does feel like im vulnerable because im a woman and no matter how hard i work out men will still have an advantage over me. i was scared of men all my life because of how many were in lust for women and how they would treat me as if im an animal or an image for them to look at.. but i feel like men also have similar problems just a little different. there's also a stereotype for them, we are perceived as sex toys but they are also perceived as wallets... so just take this knowledge and apply it to how you treat men as well
We do NOT have periods for men. We have periods for ourselves. To be able to be fertile for ourselves! Men also have hormonal cycles as well! Know your worth! Don’t let womanizers bring you down. ❤
when people talk about civil rights and say “women earned the right to wages” or “asain americans earned the right to freedom” or “african americans earned the right to vote”, I’ll always wonder why it’s earned and never gained. We didn’t “earn” anything. Rights are not “earned”. everyone deserves the same rights. yet we continue to celebrate the people who helped us “earn” our rights when we should just be shaming the people who made is believe we didn’t deserve it in the first place.
We cant even talk about the issues we face because there will always be angry men in the comments. Ive come to realize that deep down inside, men know they are the problem and the root cause of all suffering, they just don't want to admit it, thats why their immediate reaction is to get defensive and say shit like "not all men are like that" "Well women do it to men too" "Well men's lives are harder too" and the list to dismiss and downplay all of the issues women face just go on and on...
Exactly, I 100% agree. It drives me mad that women can’t express their problems without men having to reply by talking about their problems. Because they don’t realize some things just simply aren’t about them and they need to accept the fact that women do have problems. And it sucks because when men talk about their problems women don’t compare their problems to men’s. But men always do it to us. And I don’t understand why they feel like they always have to one up our struggles in some way. 😕
@M30WWWWWWWWWWW because as men, we're taught to take our problems "in stride" and never complain or seek help from others. Men trying to one up everyone elses problems is a stupid way of thinking that has been imprinted into us since we were children. It's kind of a "well I had to suffer too, and since I didn't complain, you have nothing to complain about." Similar to the boomer housing crisis mentality in that way. I'm sorry that you feel like you cannot talk about your problems to men, but take solace in the fact that this issue, whilst caused by men and masculinity, isn't only negatively affecting women. It is affecting everybody.
Good Men are a blessing you should be thankful everyday they exist. Without them you would be in danger and poor every second of your life. You do understand that millions of men fought and gave their lives to protect woman. They fought off wolves,bear,tiger,the cold. We should be very grateful for the opposite sex. Because no one can work together better than men and women
@@SelfSacrificer Common problems women face are; heavy sexualisation at a young age. Often making us vulnerable to predators before we even knew what a predator is and how to handle them. Being often infantilised. Having men you work with or just men around treat you like a helpless child. Mansplaining, yes a real thing, plays into infantilising women showing little respect that women know what they are doing or saying. Treatment from romantic partners, this comes from men who use women for solely sex. Emotionally manipulated a woman to get it. And of course abuse… obviously men experience abuse but, for women it’s not a “if it will happen to me” it’s “when” or “when will it happen again?” Abuse is seen as just a normal part of the female experience. I’m 24 and I can’t tell you how many times a man has abused me. Lastly, as mentioned above in many comments. Women are not allowed to talk about their problems. It often cut down by “not all men” men or “men have that problem too” or just anger and getting called a sexist for being scared of men. Because to us “not all men” line doesn’t mean shit. We have no idea what man is a good man or not. Bad people are good at pretending not to be bad people that’s how they get someone to trust them. That how it works. It’s also very difficult to think positively on a group of people when the vast majority of them that you have been terrible people. From abuse, cheating, disrespect most of the men in my life have been bad people and especially treating women horribly. And I live in one of the safest places in the world. Men will also do anything to make sure the blame is not on them. They blame women for getting abused by men, they blame immigrant men for abusing women because “that how they treat women in their country and they come here and do it to our women.” Despite I’ve never been abused by an immigrant just men from my country. Anything to avoid the thought that there is an issue with how men are treating women, that when it comes to women’s issues 99% of it is caused by men. To be clear, I do not hate men. I hate people who treat people poorly. I know there are good men out there, I’ve met some. I am however fearful of men and cautions about them. As I have no idea who is evil and who is good. Thank you for reading and listening.
You can do whatever the fuck you want and makes you happy. However men will treat you different and tbh it is kind of a childish way of thinking to expect them to adapt to our feelings and emotions.
Girl same im 14 and honestly I just wish I wasn’t born like I didnt ask to be born I didnt ask to be a girl i didn’t ask to be in this world and now im here
there are 2 kinds of men. the one who will do everything for you, the one who views you as form/function. the form function guy will always be transactional. the do everything guy will do everything and never ask for anything in return due to the fear of losing you. it takes time to find the good guy but its worth it.
Funny thing is the do everything guys often get taken advantage of, they then become transactional. The dynamic is always money and sex for men and women respectively. Early marriage with parents in agreement was the way to mitigate potential troubles, however those days are gone. It is what it is nowadays.
Heyo, came here to share my thoughts after seeing some discussions on the comments. I believe both being a woman and a man are really, REALLY hard. First off because being human is hard. Second: Because for some reason being different from each other brings separation in our species. Personally I cannot comprehend how a women could want to not be born a women, I know it hurts, but being a man has such downsides too that I don’t think that is a solution. Personally I believe there’s lack of love and empathy in general, for everyone, from everyone. Also: I’m a trans girl. For me, being born a women is all I ever wanted (even tho it has horrible downsides too). There’s so much positive I see in being a woman, I cannot fathom why someone would despise it so much. What made me not identify as a man were never the struggles. Two completely separate things for me. When I was treated and seen as a man I never wanted to not be a man because it was hard, only because I didn’t identify as such. As for the “hard” part, well I just wished there was more love and comprehension in general.
Also: Why point fingers when it doesn’t fix anything? “Oh it’s this, oh it’s that”. Just Shut Up. Stop pointing, starting comprehending and giving passion. At the end of the day we are indeed animals who seek attention and personal gain, so yeah we all do take advantages of our gender sometimes (both men and women), which is normal. Should we blame ourselves tho? Should we blame each other? Or should we try to fix the problem?
As a man, I've known from a young age that people in general don't give a shit about me unless I can do something useful for them. I am expected to act a certain way and look a certain way. I'm supposed to talk a certain way and like certain things. I must put myself in danger to protect the fairer sex, who in modern times, would only resent any sacrifice I make. God forbid I bring it up to Anyone, man or women. I'm just told to man up push through it, and make myself useful or get out. As a man, I know that I am disposable. It takes many women to continue the species, but only a few men. If there is war, I can be drafted and forced into the military to go hurt people that politicians say I should. Like every man in this country, I had to sign up for selective service at 18 years old or face prison. Most women that I've met only see me as wallet or atm. Life sucks for everyone for different reasons. "Everyone is entitled to their own sorrow, for the heart has no metric or form of measure. And all of it.... irreplaceable." --Monty Oum.
I don’t think that saying that women have struggles is negating the struggles that men have, as they are just as serious. A large problem with the gender war is that when one group complains the other says ‘well what about MY issues!?’ instead of listening to each other and trying to actually fix things.
Thanks for speaking truth. With neo-feminist all the attention is focused on women cry babies. Men's struggles are almost totally ignored. But we should cry because women always like to be on the victim side, when we're actually on a soft-matriarchy society.
This sucks. Im a man, i face my fair share of issues, but this is just nuts. Both men and women face issues that the lther will never have to face. Not once have i thought that women view me as a sex object. But the gender war is getting out of control. Everyone is against each other, when we should be uniting to fight the system instead.
finally someone said it! I hate how the discourse always swings one way or another, like "oh women have it hard? Well we go to war" BOTH IS AWFUL. Both sides deserve to be heard out and understood. We all deserve to be treated as people, women are objectified and men are taught to be emotionless and it's such bs
They're quite happy to be viewed as "sex objects" when they open an OnlyFans or get their hypergamia triggered by a man who has more wage than they have though. They're rather hypocrite.
Tbh i just want everyone to be ok in the end, whatever gender you are. I never understood why it’s always been such a big deal on “who” or “what” you should be based on how you were born, but that could just be because I’ve never been much of a femme woman
Try being an attractive and/ or financially secure man. The bar is lower for men to view women as an object but, women do the same thing to men, my brother. I am patronized, touched, groped, minimized, bullied, demanded, lied to, graped and otherwise abused by women for the crime of my genetics , outward personality and finances. I'm not even that rich or handsome imo, but this treatment from women informs me that I must be desirable and, it is a horror.
>View me as sex object because you're not, the same way they're not. Women always say men objectify them but if they lost ALL attention from men, they would be fine with ANY "objectification" in the world. They "objectify" themselves. It's just victim mentality. Who even came up with this bs? No man goes like "oh hell yeah, that's a nice body, let me just objectify it for second", it doesn't make sense because a body means nothing without the person behind it. If any of this BS was true, then 99% of men would've only copulated with corpses or dolls because why would you even care if it's alive? It's an object anyway?
Life is hard for men and women, but we are in it together, people need to stop competing with the other sex. You need to identify the pain points in your life and address them. No matter how hard it is in the moment it can always get better if you dedicate time to dealing with the problems in your life one at a time. Yes, sometimes you have to adhere to societal standards if you want to be liked- that is an unfortunate reality everyone faces regardless of sex. The best you can do is have your own standards and try your best to adhere to the standards of the people you want to coexist with.
This feels dismissive Edit: I’m saying this feels dismissive because this video is about women’s problems and you’re just making it about everyone else. Yes, everyone has problems but we’re talking about women..
I dont intend to be dismissive, kind of the oppsite tbh, I'm drawing attention to the fact the vast majority of people struggle with the expectations and reality of our circumstances regardless of sex. There are societal expectations on women and there are societal expectations on men. Let's not be dismissive about either or we will end up with a society full of bitter feminists and incels.
Im a boy, but I really don't understand anything at all. There are women out there showing themselves as objects and sometimes they make money out of it (Onlyfans and etc.) and there's also men who keeps feeding it because when a man see something particular on a woman our thinking capabilities just shut off and sometimes forgets their moral compass, the only thing a man really escape this is through Christianity or which any ideals a man clings on that has morality. "The man must overcome the women and the women must overcome the snake". As a man my suffering is loneliness and Purposelessness. As a man I really wish to learn more about the other side, feel free to criticize me.
@@NoobSaibotTheWraithits what culture is feeding them since they were young. We need a society that value families and long term bonds and not "if you dont hookup with the maximum amount of women then your a loser". Hookup culture is what caused this imo
@@maygodguideustohaven idk man, in my country we don't have a hookup culture and its a family culture here, ad women here again are treated as a 1.mother or 2.a who9e (a woman who chooses carrier, a woman who has relationships or doesn't get married, a woman who cant or doesnt want to have kids) its not the culture, its the men.
@@rottenkittenparvo well I didn't deny that there is alot of men who don't appreciate women as people. But I did say that man aren't a monolith and there is plenty of men who do appreciate women. And it's quite easy to distinct them. Do they like the women without the sex aspect ?
@@maygodguideustohaven i think they dont even know that women are simple humans like them, they treat women as breeding stock or as an incubator, like muslims do
@Libillymika thanks, it was so they dont think there is a privilege, there is not a most privileged or a most suffering gender, just humans, some have it worse, some have it better, lets not take genders to politics
@Libillymika I just meant to explain why we arent bad or privileged for being men, we are just humans with souls, dreams, feelings and family, its not about a gender fight, its about some humans suffer and some dont, and hope you, as a human, can fix your problems.
I love being a woman, feminine energy is about peace, freedom, harmony and love if women lacks of feminine energy they will end up like this lady she needs a self discovery phase and heal, is not how about you dress or how ladylike you need to be according to SOCIETY wear pink, sit like this talk this way like she said no thats not the way of having feminine energy is about being free, women are wild and free we need to detach to society and live our lives why you think theres the song "girls just want to have fun" because women always want to experience freedom and happiness, peace and such, decenter society, decenter what others thinks about you do not act like a man just to receive respect or be accepted in society do not attract male energy in your life when you are a man it will hurt you and it is a lonely road i was masculine before and it damaged me so much it was a sad energy to attract and i was lonely and violent. Meditate go on hikes be in nature, do the hobbies that you love be free, hang out with female friends, if you can help it be in a only women enviroment work(im a massage therapist working in a woman gym so that helped) this is what being a woman is, its not wearing pink or being a tradwife, cook, clean or be submissive is about being free and harmonious.
this is exactly the mentality that will survive and should be taught to our daughters, it's absurd how much this group from my/our generation tries to put us against each other as enemies
I agree with the freedom to choose. I also think being submissive to your husband is a choice, and it can work, feel fair, and be a wonderful experience, so long as he loves you (according to 1 Corinthians 4-8 in the bible, as far as I know) and provides. The only difference is, unlike 100 years ago, there's no *need* to take this choice nowadays.
whyd you click on this video..youre literally going to be recomended more lol. just click the three dots and then 'not interested' or 'dont recommend this channel'
A lot of humans, women and men, fight with the dynamics of an unhealthy mix of social media, beauty standards and sexual selection. Maybe you can accept that burden, that these feelings are true and be gentle and there for you(rself) really give yourself time, be slow and cultivate a love for yourself which then you can also treat others with
the amount of angry men in the comments r insane, ofc its always when women talk abt their problems, if this was a video abt a man, you woudlnt see a single shit
It's the other way around, women get to talk non-stop about their problems, and we have to listen 100 percent of the time. You all can act insecure as fuck but can still get laid. But if a man even shows the slightest hint of weakness its over for him. And your dumb indirect TESTS you all dish out at us all the time to see if we can pass or fail "your fucking test." Most ditch the nice guys and go out with assholes, so when I hear they have been cheated on or beat, I just laugh, could have chosen me. I am a nice guy, but not a pushover, being polite to people was how I was raised. But I am not weak there is a difference between being nice and weak, and most people don't understand that. I I have my own opinions, don't need a woman, a girlfriend would be nice a great addition to my life purpose, but yeah not a necessity. I don't know where I am going with this, I'll shut up.
I do, because we men also suffer, but in our case we dont have voice, you women do, but not always, and I know whats the feeling of shaming yourself, its sad, I know the pain of not being heard and not being accepted
I'm an anti-feminist, (not anti-women) because I hate the toxics and that we men have a lot of problems, wich are covered. Please dont shame yourself for being a woman as I shame myself for being a man, it is stressing and dark... I can still remember those times when I could be happy and not being prejudged for my gender... 😢
Icl never experienced this as a fully covered muslim woman in london. Security from a young age, although I know uts a reality for many women and its sad, but on my side I rarely ever experience this. If a man wants access to me you best believe he's in for a long journey lol
For lonley women, have you tried asking out a man? Guys like it when you make the first move and are upfront and dont go after soneone who would obviously break your heart. Ive seen women go for the absolute worst guys and are somehow surpised when they cheat.
Men do that a lot too, because apparently mentally stable women are boring somehow. The same is true for friendships. The scope of the issue is crazy. I wish everybody started taking therapy a bit more seriously. On the other hand you really don't want to date someone who's attracted to unhealthy individuals.
this literally is not what the video is about. it's women being sick and tired of being treated and viewed as an object of sex. are you 13 years old? lmfao
this isn't what this video is about. we aren't talking about being lonely. we're talking about how exhausting it is to be viewed purely as an object of sex. educate yourself little boy
@@vlst8715Therapy isn't taken seriously especially by men because it's incredibly sexist. Multiple medical authorities admit this, it is a very big issue. Women feel better after talking their feelings out* and letting someone know. Men feel better after coming up with a solution to the problem and attempting to fix it** *generally **generally again. The reason why we dont go for mentally stable women is because we can't find any. Most women i interact with are not, because they are the ones who put themselves out there (i dont pursue them romantically). The ones that i have pursued romantically have either been too shy/nervous, or didn't know what they wanted and just wasted weeks of my life. Where are good women found? And can they stop hiding themselves away?
please learn to love yourself and enjoy life. Women are not as pitiful as you're making them out to be, many have done fantastic things and will continue to do so.
So but let's not mix up all centuries here and appreciate that the world has changed a lot. We can be grateful that women have fought for human/women rights in the past and that this world has changed _vastly_ for women compared to 200 years ago. And, not all, but a lot of men _also_ want human rights, become better men and to live in a society that allows for happiness for everyone.
It's true that a lot of importance is placed on a woman's looks. This is a reality of life. Women have physical expectations of men too. Men go through things women will never fully understand and that's because men don't cry about it. Some men do cry about things but we tend to liken them to women. Anyway, a woman can tell a man 'to be a man' but a man nowadays cannot tell a woman 'to be a lady'. So let's except the world is a cold place regardless of what gender u are.
Your feelings are perfectly valid and understandable. As a man - yeah sometimes I do think of a woman in very selfish sexual ways, however most of that is simply biology, when you're horny that's how you feel sometimes. But yeah - your feelings are more than valid and reasonable.
@@yuluvii attribution errors on both sides here, but you are definitely more in the right here. This guy saying "as a man" implies his feeling are universal for men (they are definitely not) and overall makes his statement of sympathy feel backhanded.
Its weird watching this as a closeted trans woman. Its like dying of thirst and listening to someone else drown. I stole that line from Team 4 Star. I have no shame.
No one said they didn't? Ask yourself why you immediately get defensive instead of being empathetic. No one said men don't have their struggles. Both men and women alike have been affected by society's expectations.
@@BasuraVidza lot of men dont have empathy. And i'm saying this as a man. The best other men i've met are ones with ADHD and autism. Might be slightly biased as I have ADHD myself, but yeah.
@@socire72 that's interesting, I've never considered that before. You might be right about that. Perhaps autism gives men the insight/empathy to understand women's struggles more than other men do. Although, I'm a man who doesn't have autism or ADHD, but I still feel empathy for women. But maybe that's because I'm gay... Gay men tend to have empathy towards women as well, I suppose.
Yknow, the same societal structures that harm women are the ones harming men, making them lonely and depressed and touch deprived and suicidal. Maybe if we worked together, men and women could be happier; everyone could benefit
@@Valdileiiyour monster is hiding under the bed. Don't disturb him, for he can get quite feisty. When it's dark, don't go to the bathroom. Please, wait until the sun is out. The monster is allergic to light. That's what happens when you use "your" instead of "you're"!
Not your fault bro. Just treat women like the people they deserve to be treated as, stick up for your loved ones, and do your thing. Just do your best to be a good person in the world, and maybe others might follow suit.
Even men have to fix in a box and they get compared and get viewed as mere wallets. Hats off to both genders then, why not human empowerment? Why are we so woman centric?
Thank you, I'm in depression cause of the "non existing" men issues, I hate being a man, its Just unfair to not have a voice wile they tell you to open and not issolate, like how?! How if they are fighting against men having a voice to be helped to fix their issues?!
Ага, так классно парнем быть, радуюсь не могу на радоваться, парень должен то сё пятое десятое... работаешь ходишь в зал 3 раза в неделю, нормально выглядишь рост 176 см, читаешь книги, не дурак вроде- никому не нужен, у каждой всратки есть парень и куча была и столько же в очереди и в личке. Да, быть девочкой "ад" открываешь тендер а там 20 матчей за сегодня, другое дело у парней... стал токсиком из за всей этой ситуации злым оздобленным и душным, всё обесценивающим😢
Unpopular opinion: This is true for every section, not just women. It's not even the other sections that oppress women, or any other section. People make victims of their mirror, in the same plight, for no gain. Society, amirite...
@@jaydajohn5041everyone's situation is different, overall I am glad I'm a man and not a woman but I think I'd rather be a woman instead of a very ugly man for example. In other countries being a woman is almost always worse but here in the West women are doing much better than men in many ways.
Bruh we literally go through the same shit, in some situations worse, the loneliness epidemic is more harsh on men for example. I wouldn't feel so lucky
women out here saying they have it hard hahah, the fact she can cry on camera is a privilige alone lol, OMG its so hard being a woman Men die everyday to ensure im safe and that society functions!!! be more grateful
You know men made up their own standards right? The reason u have too be all Manly and never cry is beacuse of the fact that men in the past and present have decided thats how its supposed too be, men die everyday??? Yeah do you die everyday? No, you have probably never went to war before and going to war should’nt be a flex either. Yes death is a sad thing and its messed up. But still dont make eveyrthing about men, we Women want to express ourselves withouth little boys on the internet telling us that they have it worse
@Libillymika no, dont take it that way, we "boys telling you they have it worse" dont have voice, we are not something you should be fearing or anything, we just also want to be helped in our problems, I just wanna explain how we are not bad or privileged for being men, there are women and men suffering, I'm not gonna get into detail of who suffers more because some people cant accept it, but we should view it as humans having issues wich need to be fixed, not men oppresing women
But isn’t that the same with boys? Each gender has social expectations that is judged by the opposing gender like with boys we must open doors for women or if we don have big muscles we’re weak
@@yuluvii Be honest, please. In 99% of the speeches about "women are eternal victims" it's implying that men have it very easy compared to the poor eternal victims living in a daily hell that women are described as.
We are inherently social beings. It is genuinely impossible for our social surroundings to not affect us in at least some way! Besides, it’s not just social, but economic and physical. Someone thinking less of you can do more than just hurt your feelings… What if an employer thinks less of you? What if you are forever behind people at your similar skill level because people dismiss you, because people don’t see women in those jobs often so they don’t consider it a possibility? What if they take advantage of you? What if you genuinely are not safe in your environment because of your gender? All of this may sound ‘woke,’ but it’s the reality of all women. There are fundamental differences in how you are required to live between men and women that are very difficult to understand unless you’ve seen both sides. I encourage you to ask a woman in your life about the steps they’ve had to take to stay safe. It’s never as simple as just “be happy with what you have” because that doesn’t benefit anybody but those who hold the power already. Things shouldn’t be like this.
@@socire72 Dude, what? I’m sorry that that’s been your experience. Finding some female friends, whether it’s in school, in online games, through a hobby group, etc. might be good for you. I promise you not all women in life leave. Some women in my life are the most kind, loyal, self-sacrificing people I’ve ever known. It might be good to associate with some.
@@purrspctiv I think what he is saying is that women like the one who made the video would be more happy if they were grateful for what they do have, and stopped being so self-absorbed that they don't notice the opposite sex also has their own unique problems that are not easier to deal with. I get being angry or sad at times for the cards you were dealt with in regards to your gender, but the anger should disappear quickly once you realize your problems are not uniquely bad. That is what 'having perspective' means. Here is a life hack: when you think things are bad, always ask yourself "compared to what?". And remember that the grass always looks greener on the other side.
It’s not about rights. It’s about the general view of the world. A good chunk of said world doesn’t even view women as human beings worth the same as men, which is extremely depressing. Think of all the poor little girls out there, growing up thinking they’re inferior, having big dreams and ideas yet thinking nobody will listen to them as much as if they were a man. It’s really tragic. If you think this is just about legal rights, it’s not. Besides that, in MANY countries, women don’t even have the same legal rights as men, anyway.
@@Drewisback993No, I totally agree with you! Life has its own challenges for everyone. I think we should be able to talk about the unique issues to genders without making it a misery contest, honestly. I think it’s just silly how some dudes (like this one) see a woman talking about some of the struggles she faces and go “nuh uh” just to be contrarian. It totally misses the point.
this is wrong on every level. if every man you know is objectifying you, you're looking at the wrong men. and if you think for a second men dont get objectified by women too, you're ignorant. neither gender is better than the other, none of us have it harder or easier. we have the same struggles but in different forms. this is a terrible message to spread
Who muders whom? Who rapes whom? Who is harassing whom? Who is sexualizing and molesting is children? Who is taking away whose rights? Who is keeping whom away from education? And so on and so on. Do women do this things to men? No. Of course men have problem - but none of them are caused by women. Mostly all problems women have are caused by men. Don't even try to argue that.
Is the west the entire world though? No, it’s not. It’s a small part of the United States that has been popularized by media. If you need to see proof so bad that women are being treated unfairly go to Afghanistan or a third world country where women can’t go outside without a man, are being denied basic medical treatment, and aren’t allowed to get an education whatsoever. You men and your fragile egos, gosh
if people dont like you probably you are the problem and men who only view someone as a sextoy are assholes just because one views you as one it doesnt speak for all of them also you have same chances and men have problems too so you dont actually know i you want to have mens or womans probems, in the end i just wanna say that you have control over your own decisions and you can just change things instead of crying and pointing at things you cant control people would also pretty much respect you if you could explain with what problems you worked your way up so it aint even that bad and if you still be crying now guess what womp womp
women did it for themselves. The beauty expectation is so high yet we still wear makeup and use filters to raise it, you can't tell me these are all not from women's own faults
Because that's what society wants. You expect all women to cease looking desirable? I don't wear makeup but I understand those who do. I feel ugly all the time, I would love to feel pretty for once.
Yeah, like becoming a man would fix the problem. If only all women who disagreed with being a barbie doll would just live their lives claiming to be a man, then there would be no more sexism! BECAUSE THERE WOULD BE NO WOMEN
I'm a tomboy/neutrois, do you really think that me screwing up my body with a bunch of cosmetic surgeries & hormones would make men respect me more? You disgust me
Yeah, she should definitely do a gender transition, even if she doesn't feel to be a man. She could understand many things about men's struggles and end up realizing that being a woman isn't this bad after all (even though it obviously has down sides!). Less suicide rates, higher life expectancy, doing the romantic/sexual selection, receiving more care, being very less considered a threat etc.
ok based on the fact that u addressed me as foid and u think a woman's whole lifestyles consists of being put up on a pedestal and being the centre of attention u've definitely never been in the same room as a woman so u have no right to invalidate someone's feelings
@@shrinasen8723 Right? Would he say “I bet this man is unfulfilled because he’s not married and doesn’t have children?” Probably not. And he couldn’t justify saying it about a woman if he’s got that double standard going.
@@HJ-oo8ph No, I would also say that about a man who pursues his base desires and doesn't appear to care about creating a family like people should do. Why must you assume I carry a double standard?
@@charlescastle4533Because most people who talk about “women need to have children to be happy” do NOT apply the same thing to men. It usually all boils to the view of “men are smart and make society advance, meanwhile girls should just be babymakers” when people talk about it.
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"Being born a woman is my awful tragedy" Sylvia Plath
Keep coping!
@@jtl-en4yxhow do you cope? going on channels you don’t agree with just to leave hate comments? thats much more pathetic
@@jtl-en4yx you are a man right ?
@@jtl-en4yx you are a man right ?
@@jtl-en4yx you're a man right ?
This stuff makes me cry so bad. I can't explain this feeling to anybody because it feels like I'm in hell when I do. God forbid I talk about this to any male figure in my life, they'll just try to defend themselves but they won't listen. I'm so proud of being a woman. I love myself. But god does it make me feel horrible when people just don't understand and I feel alone.
absolutely 100% how i feel, i love myself and i’m so proud of who i am but it does not make it any easier to be in a society that is ultimately run by men, be that through literal executive roles or just the way that male behaviour has shaped us as women, making us internally misogynistic etc. super happy that people are actually watching this too haha it was for a school project
@@jose9hinedamn so at last everything is blamed at men I mean I am doing everything in power to be good man in life but still see this much negativity about us that I feel like women just complains and do nothing
@@jose9hineI really get the point of this vedio I truly try to understand women forgive me If I my above comment hurt you in any way but I feel like we both men and women should take initiative and be better .
In your vedio i felt like you generalized men because the same generalisation can be done on women too and about the comment in which you said that women have turned misogynist due to men I believe it's wrong I think women don't hold accountable its own gender,all I am trying to say many men in this world are still good men and trying to do better I want to help anyone I can and I want to be great man that others can see as role model for themselves I think you should not generalize us like this
@@arjun_aashusooooo you dislike being generalized based on your sex?
Um Welcome to what women feel my friend -
Maybe just listen. 🤷♀️
@@jose9hine Yeah like the guy above said maybe you gals would be better if you stopped blaming everything wrong in society on men, think about this "men run society" or "society run by men" or phrases as such is an easy cop out, a scapegoat. Women are just as responsible for such, a lot of the things women care about men actually don't so it's you pressing this kind of stuff on each other.
And let me make it clear I'M NOT SAYING THAN MEN ARE NOT TO BLAME, we totally are guilty of a lot of bad stuff, actions and attitudes. But society is dependent on both sexes, pretending that only men make the running decisions in general is idiotic and a way to not have an inward look on women yourselves. Besides the fact it's misogynistic in on itself 😂 like you gals complain about everything depending on men yet you make it be so.
i don’t feel safe going outside… evry 5 secs i gotta make sure no one is following me.
I wish u stay safe and sound the world is surely a fucked up place and I understand ur concern as a woman pls keep urself safe ❤
brittany broski getting real is awesom. i love her.
Except for the blaccent she used to do and doesn't feel bad about. Not very awesome.
Im fkin hate myself as a woman. Less productive, moody, weak, and moreover
If shapeshifting existed you can be anything you want
Good.
I'm a woman and I'm none of those things. Pull yourself together and stop blaming your sex for your own choices.
@Valerie-Clarke I'd say... Get out of wherever you are. I grew up in Spain and never felt that way. I grew up in an abusive home and have had other issues, but my sex has never been an obstacle. Go somewhere where such expectations of inferiority don't exist, or learn to not allow them to interfere with your sense of identity.
Don't hate yourself, it will pass. Try to relax, meditate and eat right. Take care of your health. 😊
65 years old woman and I have never felt like I had to fit into some box or present myself some way to make men happy. Honestly, do what you want and who cares what anyone thinks.
Girl you got the right mind set. “Who cares what anyone thinks” learning not to care what anyone thinks and having your own approval of yourself will change you and make you a better version of yourself.🔥🔥🔥
try this in a developing country, Eastern Europe or under the Tal1ban, and you'll be off for g00d
@@sasaetheatre yeah but who cares
I hate myself as a man, I hate my problems being covered and not having voice. And about your comment, I respect you, I dont care looking good for others neither, I just wanna look good to be treated better, that doesnt mean I do it for anyone, why would I care? Though I wanna be free, but I'm cursed to be heterosexual, for me is a curse in modern day, I hope the madness will end.
They only see my body but they dont want to know anything about me. Im just a commodity like coffee or sugar. And yes men are treated disposable in the line of fire but its 2 sides of the same coin.
Well same as me women see my body only how I look they don't care about my personality
You’re value is solely based on what you contribute. If you don’t contribute to the world anything other than your looks, you won’t even seen as anything other than your looks. Maybe when a few women learn to invent new technology or cure a disease or fight in our wars or build or bridges or clean our sewers or lay down our plumbing or build our skyscrapers, MEN DO ALL OF THESE, WOMEN DO NOT.
They don’t know you personally that is why they see you as a commodity. Your body is the first thing people will see. Like I’m short 5’6 their initial impression of me will be based on that there is nothing you can do about it. Also having a desired body is a good thing, it’s better than the alternative.
@@crustykeycap5670 as 5.6 I can understand your pain
empathy is extremely hard when you don't actually know most people you meet.
for a long time it was really hurtful being a woman and having to have periods for men, it was like everything i did was to please men and sometimes it does feel like im vulnerable because im a woman and no matter how hard i work out men will still have an advantage over me. i was scared of men all my life because of how many were in lust for women and how they would treat me as if im an animal or an image for them to look at.. but i feel like men also have similar problems just a little different. there's also a stereotype for them, we are perceived as sex toys but they are also perceived as wallets... so just take this knowledge and apply it to how you treat men as well
u have periods for men?
@@macpclinux1 be serious now bruh
We do NOT have periods for men. We have periods for ourselves. To be able to be fertile for ourselves! Men also have hormonal cycles as well! Know your worth! Don’t let womanizers bring you down. ❤
@@JuniperGal-ek2pu You have periods because it is a biological mandate. What do you mean by be fertile for ourselves?
@@jtl-en4yx the purpose of periods is for your body to prepare yourself for pregnancy. So yes, fertility.
when people talk about civil rights and say “women earned the right to wages” or “asain americans earned the right to freedom” or “african americans earned the right to vote”, I’ll always wonder why it’s earned and never gained. We didn’t “earn” anything. Rights are not “earned”. everyone deserves the same rights. yet we continue to celebrate the people who helped us “earn” our rights when we should just be shaming the people who made is believe we didn’t deserve it in the first place.
Why would someone have the right to have rights?
@@bartstemerdink2907 rights are a right because it’s just…right.
watch george carlin. he explains we have no rights but priveledges. a really good video is made about it by after school on youtube.
Where do rights originate from
@@JuniperGal-ek2puthat's circular reasoning
I just want to go out
Why not?
We cant even talk about the issues we face because there will always be angry men in the comments.
Ive come to realize that deep down inside, men know they are the problem and the root cause of all suffering, they just don't want to admit it, thats why their immediate reaction is to get defensive and say shit like "not all men are like that"
"Well women do it to men too"
"Well men's lives are harder too" and the list to dismiss and downplay all of the issues women face just go on and on...
Exactly, I 100% agree. It drives me mad that women can’t express their problems without men having to reply by talking about their problems. Because they don’t realize some things just simply aren’t about them and they need to accept the fact that women do have problems. And it sucks because when men talk about their problems women don’t compare their problems to men’s. But men always do it to us. And I don’t understand why they feel like they always have to one up our struggles in some way. 😕
@M30WWWWWWWWWWW because as men, we're taught to take our problems "in stride" and never complain or seek help from others. Men trying to one up everyone elses problems is a stupid way of thinking that has been imprinted into us since we were children. It's kind of a "well I had to suffer too, and since I didn't complain, you have nothing to complain about." Similar to the boomer housing crisis mentality in that way.
I'm sorry that you feel like you cannot talk about your problems to men, but take solace in the fact that this issue, whilst caused by men and masculinity, isn't only negatively affecting women. It is affecting everybody.
Can I ask what are the problems? Im willing to learn.
Good Men are a blessing you should be thankful everyday they exist. Without them you would be in danger and poor every second of your life. You do understand that millions of men fought and gave their lives to protect woman. They fought off wolves,bear,tiger,the cold. We should be very grateful for the opposite sex. Because no one can work together better than men and women
@@SelfSacrificer
Common problems women face are; heavy sexualisation at a young age. Often making us vulnerable to predators before we even knew what a predator is and how to handle them.
Being often infantilised. Having men you work with or just men around treat you like a helpless child.
Mansplaining, yes a real thing, plays into infantilising women showing little respect that women know what they are doing or saying.
Treatment from romantic partners, this comes from men who use women for solely sex. Emotionally manipulated a woman to get it. And of course abuse… obviously men experience abuse but, for women it’s not a “if it will happen to me” it’s “when” or “when will it happen again?” Abuse is seen as just a normal part of the female experience.
I’m 24 and I can’t tell you how many times a man has abused me.
Lastly, as mentioned above in many comments. Women are not allowed to talk about their problems. It often cut down by “not all men” men or “men have that problem too” or just anger and getting called a sexist for being scared of men.
Because to us “not all men” line doesn’t mean shit. We have no idea what man is a good man or not. Bad people are good at pretending not to be bad people that’s how they get someone to trust them. That how it works.
It’s also very difficult to think positively on a group of people when the vast majority of them that you have been terrible people. From abuse, cheating, disrespect most of the men in my life have been bad people and especially treating women horribly. And I live in one of the safest places in the world.
Men will also do anything to make sure the blame is not on them. They blame women for getting abused by men, they blame immigrant men for abusing women because “that how they treat women in their country and they come here and do it to our women.” Despite I’ve never been abused by an immigrant just men from my country.
Anything to avoid the thought that there is an issue with how men are treating women, that when it comes to women’s issues 99% of it is caused by men.
To be clear, I do not hate men. I hate people who treat people poorly. I know there are good men out there, I’ve met some. I am however fearful of men and cautions about them. As I have no idea who is evil and who is good.
Thank you for reading and listening.
men making it about themself, dismissing women's problems and proving our point once again in these comments.
right. women can’t have anything
Real😢
I'm a man and l appreciate women and understand their struggles.
Always
can you tell me what are the problems of a woman? Im willing to learn.
as a 14 yr old girl. this makes me realise that being a girl doesnt get any better overtime!
You can do whatever the fuck you want and makes you happy. However men will treat you different and tbh it is kind of a childish way of thinking to expect them to adapt to our feelings and emotions.
@@EgertBola all i can do is dream then ig??
Girl same im 14 and honestly I just wish I wasn’t born like I didnt ask to be born I didnt ask to be a girl i didn’t ask to be in this world and now im here
I'm also 14 yo, I've hated being a girl since I was 4
@@idkk542 you can still do whatever you want, but if you are born in a misogynistic state... Then Idk
‼️YOU DON’T NEED APPROVAL FROM OTHER PEOPLE TO BE ACCEPTED FOR WHO YOU ARE.‼️
So true, but it’s so hard to put that in practice ;(
@@santos-pink-867 if anyone says anything about you then literally ignore them and know youre doing better and not doing what they’re doing
there are 2 kinds of men. the one who will do everything for you, the one who views you as form/function. the form function guy will always be transactional. the do everything guy will do everything and never ask for anything in return due to the fear of losing you. it takes time to find the good guy but its worth it.
Men ain't slaves for ya
Funny thing is the do everything guys often get taken advantage of, they then become transactional.
The dynamic is always money and sex for men and women respectively.
Early marriage with parents in agreement was the way to mitigate potential troubles, however those days are gone. It is what it is nowadays.
@@FightingIsLife not if his first girl is also a good one and if he is mature enough to notice if she is good
Heyo, came here to share my thoughts after seeing some discussions on the comments. I believe both being a woman and a man are really, REALLY hard. First off because being human is hard. Second: Because for some reason being different from each other brings separation in our species. Personally I cannot comprehend how a women could want to not be born a women, I know it hurts, but being a man has such downsides too that I don’t think that is a solution. Personally I believe there’s lack of love and empathy in general, for everyone, from everyone. Also: I’m a trans girl. For me, being born a women is all I ever wanted (even tho it has horrible downsides too). There’s so much positive I see in being a woman, I cannot fathom why someone would despise it so much. What made me not identify as a man were never the struggles. Two completely separate things for me. When I was treated and seen as a man I never wanted to not be a man because it was hard, only because I didn’t identify as such. As for the “hard” part, well I just wished there was more love and comprehension in general.
Also: Why point fingers when it doesn’t fix anything? “Oh it’s this, oh it’s that”. Just Shut Up. Stop pointing, starting comprehending and giving passion. At the end of the day we are indeed animals who seek attention and personal gain, so yeah we all do take advantages of our gender sometimes (both men and women), which is normal. Should we blame ourselves tho? Should we blame each other? Or should we try to fix the problem?
mfs be DESPERATE to include men in their narrarative somehow
Bruh as a man, I'm sorry you women feel that way. Good thing it got recommended to me. Feel better insha'Allah 👊
💗💗👊 stay strong man, appreciate it
@charlottteeee Yeah u stay strong as well
As a man, I've known from a young age that people in general don't give a shit about me unless I can do something useful for them. I am expected to act a certain way and look a certain way. I'm supposed to talk a certain way and like certain things. I must put myself in danger to protect the fairer sex, who in modern times, would only resent any sacrifice I make. God forbid I bring it up to Anyone, man or women. I'm just told to man up push through it, and make myself useful or get out. As a man, I know that I am disposable. It takes many women to continue the species, but only a few men. If there is war, I can be drafted and forced into the military to go hurt people that politicians say I should. Like every man in this country, I had to sign up for selective service at 18 years old or face prison. Most women that I've met only see me as wallet or atm. Life sucks for everyone for different reasons.
"Everyone is entitled to their own sorrow, for the heart has no metric or form of measure. And all of it.... irreplaceable."
--Monty Oum.
It’s alright bro, we got this, keep your head up🪖
I don’t think that saying that women have struggles is negating the struggles that men have, as they are just as serious. A large problem with the gender war is that when one group complains the other says ‘well what about MY issues!?’ instead of listening to each other and trying to actually fix things.
have you personally went to war? no then hush.
@@rottenkittenparvo Actually yes. Served in Afghanistan.
Thanks for speaking truth. With neo-feminist all the attention is focused on women cry babies. Men's struggles are almost totally ignored. But we should cry because women always like to be on the victim side, when we're actually on a soft-matriarchy society.
This sucks. Im a man, i face my fair share of issues, but this is just nuts. Both men and women face issues that the lther will never have to face. Not once have i thought that women view me as a sex object. But the gender war is getting out of control. Everyone is against each other, when we should be uniting to fight the system instead.
finally someone said it! I hate how the discourse always swings one way or another, like "oh women have it hard? Well we go to war" BOTH IS AWFUL. Both sides deserve to be heard out and understood. We all deserve to be treated as people, women are objectified and men are taught to be emotionless and it's such bs
They're quite happy to be viewed as "sex objects" when they open an OnlyFans or get their hypergamia triggered by a man who has more wage than they have though. They're rather hypocrite.
Tbh i just want everyone to be ok in the end, whatever gender you are. I never understood why it’s always been such a big deal on “who” or “what” you should be based on how you were born, but that could just be because I’ve never been much of a femme woman
Try being an attractive and/ or financially secure man. The bar is lower for men to view women as an object but, women do the same thing to men, my brother. I am patronized, touched, groped, minimized, bullied, demanded, lied to, graped and otherwise abused by women for the crime of my genetics , outward personality and finances. I'm not even that rich or handsome imo, but this treatment from women informs me that I must be desirable and, it is a horror.
>View me as sex object
because you're not, the same way they're not. Women always say men objectify them but if they lost ALL attention from men, they would be fine with ANY "objectification" in the world. They "objectify" themselves. It's just victim mentality. Who even came up with this bs? No man goes like "oh hell yeah, that's a nice body, let me just objectify it for second", it doesn't make sense because a body means nothing without the person behind it. If any of this BS was true, then 99% of men would've only copulated with corpses or dolls because why would you even care if it's alive? It's an object anyway?
I'm sorry u guys have to go thru this
@@jtl-en4yx I'm really sorry to hear that
Thank you... I hope you get a great day..! ^_^💖
No need to hate ur self based on ur gander
yes uncle.. i agree
@@Ocidad good boy
Yeah, leave the geese out of this
I hate myself just because i do
@@Happyradio1234 What will you get by hating yourself. Ever thought abt it ?
can you link the video of that lady talking
It’s Britany bro ski
Brittany broski❤
Brittany Broski on the Broski Report
Life is hard for men and women, but we are in it together, people need to stop competing with the other sex. You need to identify the pain points in your life and address them. No matter how hard it is in the moment it can always get better if you dedicate time to dealing with the problems in your life one at a time. Yes, sometimes you have to adhere to societal standards if you want to be liked- that is an unfortunate reality everyone faces regardless of sex. The best you can do is have your own standards and try your best to adhere to the standards of the people you want to coexist with.
This feels dismissive
Edit: I’m saying this feels dismissive because this video is about women’s problems and you’re just making it about everyone else. Yes, everyone has problems but we’re talking about women..
I dont intend to be dismissive, kind of the oppsite tbh, I'm drawing attention to the fact the vast majority of people struggle with the expectations and reality of our circumstances regardless of sex. There are societal expectations on women and there are societal expectations on men. Let's not be dismissive about either or we will end up with a society full of bitter feminists and incels.
@@The-Real-Jack real feminism isn't misandry lol, don't lump them in w incels
@@MPREGCOOKING I didn't say it was. But modern feminists are about as attractive to men as incels are to women.
@@MPREGCOOKING Except it totally is.
Im a boy, but I really don't understand anything at all. There are women out there showing themselves as objects and sometimes they make money out of it (Onlyfans and etc.) and there's also men who keeps feeding it because when a man see something particular on a woman our thinking capabilities just shut off and sometimes forgets their moral compass, the only thing a man really escape this is through Christianity or which any ideals a man clings on that has morality. "The man must overcome the women and the women must overcome the snake". As a man my suffering is loneliness and Purposelessness. As a man I really wish to learn more about the other side, feel free to criticize me.
not every woman does that. have you even heard of the stories about men doing terrible things to girls who don’t even show themselves?
You can do anything you want, I'll still only see you as Hydrogen Oxygen Carbon Nitrogen Calcium Phosphorus...
the comments are so funny...men will see a video about women and still find a way to make it about them lol
As a man i can proudly say that i and people i know really appreciate the presence of women. And there is much more then just their look.
Exactly. It upsets me that men out there will cause women to feel this way about themselves. No actually it breaks me that there are men like this.
@@NoobSaibotTheWraithits what culture is feeding them since they were young. We need a society that value families and long term bonds and not "if you dont hookup with the maximum amount of women then your a loser". Hookup culture is what caused this imo
@@maygodguideustohaven idk man, in my country we don't have a hookup culture and its a family culture here, ad women here again are treated as a 1.mother or 2.a who9e (a woman who chooses carrier, a woman who has relationships or doesn't get married, a woman who cant or doesnt want to have kids) its not the culture, its the men.
@@rottenkittenparvo well I didn't deny that there is alot of men who don't appreciate women as people. But I did say that man aren't a monolith and there is plenty of men who do appreciate women. And it's quite easy to distinct them. Do they like the women without the sex aspect ?
@@maygodguideustohaven i think they dont even know that women are simple humans like them, they treat women as breeding stock or as an incubator, like muslims do
Its not for the faint of heart for sure!!!
I hate myself as a man, I hate my problems being covered and not having voice.
I'm so sorry man :(
I honestly have no idea what to do or how to feel in this world either. . .
Well this is a video about womens feelings. Congrats, you somehow made it about urself.
@Libillymika thanks, it was so they dont think there is a privilege, there is not a most privileged or a most suffering gender, just humans, some have it worse, some have it better, lets not take genders to politics
@Libillymika I just meant to explain why we arent bad or privileged for being men, we are just humans with souls, dreams, feelings and family, its not about a gender fight, its about some humans suffer and some dont, and hope you, as a human, can fix your problems.
@@Reksimy but i think that personally you should’nt talk about your problems as a man on a video that is clearly talking about womens problems?
I love being a woman, feminine energy is about peace, freedom, harmony and love if women lacks of feminine energy they will end up like this lady she needs a self discovery phase and heal, is not how about you dress or how ladylike you need to be according to SOCIETY wear pink, sit like this talk this way like she said no thats not the way of having feminine energy is about being free, women are wild and free we need to detach to society and live our lives why you think theres the song "girls just want to have fun" because women always want to experience freedom and happiness, peace and such, decenter society, decenter what others thinks about you do not act like a man just to receive respect or be accepted in society do not attract male energy in your life when you are a man it will hurt you and it is a lonely road i was masculine before and it damaged me so much it was a sad energy to attract and i was lonely and violent.
Meditate go on hikes be in nature, do the hobbies that you love be free, hang out with female friends, if you can help it be in a only women enviroment work(im a massage therapist working in a woman gym so that helped) this is what being a woman is, its not wearing pink or being a tradwife, cook, clean or be submissive is about being free and harmonious.
this is exactly the mentality that will survive and should be taught to our daughters, it's absurd how much this group from my/our generation tries to put us against each other as enemies
I agree with the freedom to choose. I also think being submissive to your husband is a choice, and it can work, feel fair, and be a wonderful experience, so long as he loves you (according to 1 Corinthians 4-8 in the bible, as far as I know) and provides. The only difference is, unlike 100 years ago, there's no *need* to take this choice nowadays.
Nonsense
Being violent isnt masculine
What a nonsense. Being a woman means being weak! In order to protect myself I need to be masculine. You live in a fantasy land.
As a straight white man, I am so confused with the algorithm today.
I agree
they're weeding out straight men who respond to test their ai against those comments and better autoremove our side of the narrative
Me too
whyd you click on this video..youre literally going to be recomended more lol. just click the three dots and then 'not interested' or 'dont recommend this channel'
A lot of humans, women and men, fight with the dynamics
of an unhealthy mix of social media, beauty standards and sexual selection.
Maybe you can accept that burden, that these feelings are true
and be gentle and there for you(rself)
really give yourself time, be slow
and cultivate a love for yourself
which then you can also
treat others with
the amount of angry men in the comments r insane, ofc its always when women talk abt their problems, if this was a video abt a man, you woudlnt see a single shit
Fr
Men are tried of having finger pointed at them, because of things they can not control.
@Jessica-Abby I have had to listen to wo men talk over me my entire life, I am no longer interested
@Jessica-Abby yes
It's the other way around, women get to talk non-stop about their problems, and we have to listen 100 percent of the time. You all can act insecure as fuck but can still get laid. But if a man even shows the slightest hint of weakness its over for him. And your dumb indirect TESTS you all dish out at us all the time to see if we can pass or fail "your fucking test." Most ditch the nice guys and go out with assholes, so when I hear they have been cheated on or beat, I just laugh, could have chosen me. I am a nice guy, but not a pushover, being polite to people was how I was raised. But I am not weak there is a difference between being nice and weak, and most people don't understand that. I I have my own opinions, don't need a woman, a girlfriend would be nice a great addition to my life purpose, but yeah not a necessity. I don't know where I am going with this, I'll shut up.
let's keep fighting, sisters! we are free, we just have to find the strenght to believe it
Oh men are free too, and more and more of us are setting ourselves free from women!
All we do is try and try but they'll never see the pain we have
I do, because we men also suffer, but in our case we dont have voice, you women do, but not always, and I know whats the feeling of shaming yourself, its sad, I know the pain of not being heard and not being accepted
Stay strong 😢
Brutal. I try to emphasize but its hard.
I bet they said some interesting stuff but the music hid everything they said. I guess that’s what CC is for.
I feel this in my soul
I knew this at a very young age
I'm an anti-feminist, (not anti-women) because I hate the toxics and that we men have a lot of problems, wich are covered. Please dont shame yourself for being a woman as I shame myself for being a man, it is stressing and dark... I can still remember those times when I could be happy and not being prejudged for my gender... 😢
Please, dont blame it on yourself, women are essential
This was in my suggestions after checking my period tracker 😑
Icl never experienced this as a fully covered muslim woman in london. Security from a young age, although I know uts a reality for many women and its sad, but on my side I rarely ever experience this. If a man wants access to me you best believe he's in for a long journey lol
Why be a stinky muslim?
For lonley women, have you tried asking out a man? Guys like it when you make the first move and are upfront and dont go after soneone who would obviously break your heart. Ive seen women go for the absolute worst guys and are somehow surpised when they cheat.
Men do that a lot too, because apparently mentally stable women are boring somehow. The same is true for friendships. The scope of the issue is crazy. I wish everybody started taking therapy a bit more seriously.
On the other hand you really don't want to date someone who's attracted to unhealthy individuals.
this literally is not what the video is about. it's women being sick and tired of being treated and viewed as an object of sex. are you 13 years old? lmfao
this isn't what this video is about. we aren't talking about being lonely. we're talking about how exhausting it is to be viewed purely as an object of sex. educate yourself little boy
What does this have to do with anything???
@@vlst8715Therapy isn't taken seriously especially by men because it's incredibly sexist. Multiple medical authorities admit this, it is a very big issue. Women feel better after talking their feelings out* and letting someone know. Men feel better after coming up with a solution to the problem and attempting to fix it**
*generally
**generally again.
The reason why we dont go for mentally stable women is because we can't find any. Most women i interact with are not, because they are the ones who put themselves out there (i dont pursue them romantically).
The ones that i have pursued romantically have either been too shy/nervous, or didn't know what they wanted and just wasted weeks of my life.
Where are good women found? And can they stop hiding themselves away?
please learn to love yourself and enjoy life. Women are not as pitiful as you're making them out to be, many have done fantastic things and will continue to do so.
So but let's not mix up all centuries here and appreciate that the world has changed a lot.
We can be grateful that women have fought for human/women rights in the past
and that this world has changed _vastly_ for women compared to 200 years ago.
And, not all, but a lot of men _also_ want human rights, become better men
and to live in a society that allows for happiness for everyone.
It's true that a lot of importance is placed on a woman's looks. This is a reality of life. Women have physical expectations of men too. Men go through things women will never fully understand and that's because men don't cry about it. Some men do cry about things but we tend to liken them to women.
Anyway, a woman can tell a man 'to be a man' but a man nowadays cannot tell a woman 'to be a lady'. So let's except the world is a cold place regardless of what gender u are.
Yeah I'm a man in depression for that, is it a privilege? I heard it
i wanted fortnite videos
OnlyFans is a conscious choice
No one said it wasn’t?
she's living proof that's not true... lol
man I love Brittany
Your feelings are perfectly valid and understandable. As a man - yeah sometimes I do think of a woman in very selfish sexual ways, however most of that is simply biology, when you're horny that's how you feel sometimes. But yeah - your feelings are more than valid and reasonable.
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Women get horny too and that doesn’t mean they don’t see men as human
wtf. no decent person has viewed anyone in that way.
@@yuluvii Exactly!
@@yuluvii attribution errors on both sides here, but you are definitely more in the right here. This guy saying "as a man" implies his feeling are universal for men (they are definitely not) and overall makes his statement of sympathy feel backhanded.
Its weird watching this as a closeted trans woman. Its like dying of thirst and listening to someone else drown. I stole that line from Team 4 Star. I have no shame.
@Imcomingforthatboooty I haven't started HRT yet. So should I just continue to be miserable for the rest of my life?
Right cause men don’t have to follow expectations from society at all either
No one said they didn't? Ask yourself why you immediately get defensive instead of being empathetic. No one said men don't have their struggles. Both men and women alike have been affected by society's expectations.
@ReigenPrim
What she says in this video is false. Girls are not anymore special.
@@BasuraVidza lot of men dont have empathy. And i'm saying this as a man. The best other men i've met are ones with ADHD and autism. Might be slightly biased as I have ADHD myself, but yeah.
@@socire72 that's interesting, I've never considered that before. You might be right about that. Perhaps autism gives men the insight/empathy to understand women's struggles more than other men do. Although, I'm a man who doesn't have autism or ADHD, but I still feel empathy for women. But maybe that's because I'm gay... Gay men tend to have empathy towards women as well, I suppose.
Yknow, the same societal structures that harm women are the ones harming men, making them lonely and depressed and touch deprived and suicidal. Maybe if we worked together, men and women could be happier; everyone could benefit
This is the literally me sigma shit lone wolf but for women
fyp
first
Whos the woman talking?
i feel for women really hate that you have to have periods i love mitski and lana del rey and tsylor swift (im 6ft 3)
I'm sorry
Also I'm a man
Your monster 😭
@@Valdileiiyour monster is hiding under the bed. Don't disturb him, for he can get quite feisty. When it's dark, don't go to the bathroom. Please, wait until the sun is out. The monster is allergic to light.
That's what happens when you use "your" instead of "you're"!
Not your fault bro. Just treat women like the people they deserve to be treated as, stick up for your loved ones, and do your thing. Just do your best to be a good person in the world, and maybe others might follow suit.
@@Valdileii lmaoo I just meant for context I guess
@HJ-oo8ph naw I just meant my condolences, not that kind of sorry but you're right. I do try every day to be a good ally
*I hate
Word
lol too much of nonsense current generation of girls are into. For me and my dad, women are amazing and very vital.
yup
Perpetual victimhood is such brain rot
Not really nowadays it seems like every single guy in a comment section hates women
Are you a Girl
no one wants you on t-his e@rth
Even men have to fix in a box and they get compared and get viewed as mere wallets. Hats off to both genders then, why not human empowerment? Why are we so woman centric?
@averybadcaseoffacialobesityfacepalm? he's talking straight fact!
Thank you, I'm in depression cause of the "non existing" men issues, I hate being a man, its Just unfair to not have a voice wile they tell you to open and not issolate, like how?! How if they are fighting against men having a voice to be helped to fix their issues?!
Ага, так классно парнем быть, радуюсь не могу на радоваться, парень должен то сё пятое десятое... работаешь ходишь в зал 3 раза в неделю, нормально выглядишь рост 176 см, читаешь книги, не дурак вроде- никому не нужен, у каждой всратки есть парень и куча была и столько же в очереди и в личке. Да, быть девочкой "ад" открываешь тендер а там 20 матчей за сегодня, другое дело у парней... стал токсиком из за всей этой ситуации злым оздобленным и душным, всё обесценивающим😢
I'm a man in depression
I'm a man in depression
@@SelfSacrificer Happy New Year
Unpopular opinion: This is true for every section, not just women. It's not even the other sections that oppress women, or any other section. People make victims of their mirror, in the same plight, for no gain. Society, amirite...
bro i thought we solved this problem a long time ago
men have it harder ngl
lucky fella
I love when dudes acknowledge and appreciate it instead of being like “men have it harder though”
@@jaydajohn5041everyone's situation is different, overall I am glad I'm a man and not a woman but I think I'd rather be a woman instead of a very ugly man for example. In other countries being a woman is almost always worse but here in the West women are doing much better than men in many ways.
@@jaydajohn5041But it's much more difficult lol
Bruh we literally go through the same shit, in some situations worse, the loneliness epidemic is more harsh on men for example. I wouldn't feel so lucky
i am so glad ,i was born a man
I am too, but I wish I was tall and masculine!
@@jtl-en4yxoh ur short makes sense why ur so bitter
What are u doing here then ? This video is about women
fr and guys just think oh irs so easy being a woman u get whatever u want so easily whenever ! 🙄😒
Well all you have to do is make false accusations about men to step over them!
women out here saying they have it hard hahah, the fact she can cry on camera is a privilige alone lol, OMG its so hard being a woman Men die everyday to ensure im safe and that society functions!!! be more grateful
Women die everyday from childbirth to ensure that you have a chance to live at all. You be more grateful
You know men made up their own standards right? The reason u have too be all Manly and never cry is beacuse of the fact that men in the past and present have decided thats how its supposed too be, men die everyday??? Yeah do you die everyday? No, you have probably never went to war before and going to war should’nt be a flex either. Yes death is a sad thing and its messed up. But still dont make eveyrthing about men, we Women want to express ourselves withouth little boys on the internet telling us that they have it worse
@Libillymika no, dont take it that way, we "boys telling you they have it worse" dont have voice, we are not something you should be fearing or anything, we just also want to be helped in our problems, I just wanna explain how we are not bad or privileged for being men, there are women and men suffering, I'm not gonna get into detail of who suffers more because some people cant accept it, but we should view it as humans having issues wich need to be fixed, not men oppresing women
Easy mode
😂
But isn’t that the same with boys? Each gender has social expectations that is judged by the opposing gender like with boys we must open doors for women or if we don have big muscles we’re weak
Tell me when this video stated men have no social expectations, or aren’t judged.
@@yuluvii it never did I’m just saying that’s the reality. No gender is superior.
@@Leodale0410
Again, no one is saying this?
It’s just stupid to bring up something irrelevant then, but I expect that from you lot.
@@yuluvii Be honest, please. In 99% of the speeches about "women are eternal victims" it's implying that men have it very easy compared to the poor eternal victims living in a daily hell that women are described as.
but boys literally dont open dors for women any more lol
And then they call trans people weird-
Damn, what bullshit
Lol
The audio on this was terrible.
I wish i was born as a girl 😭😭😭
Real it feels like a curse being a boy
@the_gooddrawer_5717 your Curse is really good
@the_gooddrawer_5717explain why
Womp womp womp
Sthu, immature a$$ clown 🤡
learn gratitude , stop listening to others and you'll be fine .
We are inherently social beings. It is genuinely impossible for our social surroundings to not affect us in at least some way!
Besides, it’s not just social, but economic and physical. Someone thinking less of you can do more than just hurt your feelings…
What if an employer thinks less of you? What if you are forever behind people at your similar skill level because people dismiss you, because people don’t see women in those jobs often so they don’t consider it a possibility? What if they take advantage of you? What if you genuinely are not safe in your environment because of your gender?
All of this may sound ‘woke,’ but it’s the reality of all women. There are fundamental differences in how you are required to live between men and women that are very difficult to understand unless you’ve seen both sides. I encourage you to ask a woman in your life about the steps they’ve had to take to stay safe.
It’s never as simple as just “be happy with what you have” because that doesn’t benefit anybody but those who hold the power already. Things shouldn’t be like this.
That's not how things work. We are human, not robots. We are allowed to express our thoughts on our collective experience.
@@purrspctivAsk a woman? Who? They all leave anyway.
@@socire72
Dude, what? I’m sorry that that’s been your experience. Finding some female friends, whether it’s in school, in online games, through a hobby group, etc. might be good for you. I promise you not all women in life leave. Some women in my life are the most kind, loyal, self-sacrificing people I’ve ever known. It might be good to associate with some.
@@purrspctiv I think what he is saying is that women like the one who made the video would be more happy if they were grateful for what they do have, and stopped being so self-absorbed that they don't notice the opposite sex also has their own unique problems that are not easier to deal with. I get being angry or sad at times for the cards you were dealt with in regards to your gender, but the anger should disappear quickly once you realize your problems are not uniquely bad. That is what 'having perspective' means. Here is a life hack: when you think things are bad, always ask yourself "compared to what?". And remember that the grass always looks greener on the other side.
what rights dont you have that men have
It’s not about rights. It’s about the general view of the world. A good chunk of said world doesn’t even view women as human beings worth the same as men, which is extremely depressing. Think of all the poor little girls out there, growing up thinking they’re inferior, having big dreams and ideas yet thinking nobody will listen to them as much as if they were a man. It’s really tragic. If you think this is just about legal rights, it’s not. Besides that, in MANY countries, women don’t even have the same legal rights as men, anyway.
Reproduction
Basic bodily autonomy.
@@HJ-oo8ph Men and women face problems but their different. Just accept life is hard for everyone.
@@Drewisback993No, I totally agree with you! Life has its own challenges for everyone. I think we should be able to talk about the unique issues to genders without making it a misery contest, honestly. I think it’s just silly how some dudes (like this one) see a woman talking about some of the struggles she faces and go “nuh uh” just to be contrarian. It totally misses the point.
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this is wrong on every level. if every man you know is objectifying you, you're looking at the wrong men. and if you think for a second men dont get objectified by women too, you're ignorant. neither gender is better than the other, none of us have it harder or easier. we have the same struggles but in different forms. this is a terrible message to spread
Women have it so much better than men, in the west, don't even try to argue that
Who muders whom? Who rapes whom? Who is harassing whom? Who is sexualizing and molesting is children? Who is taking away whose rights? Who is keeping whom away from education? And so on and so on. Do women do this things to men? No. Of course men have problem - but none of them are caused by women. Mostly all problems women have are caused by men. Don't even try to argue that.
Is the west the entire world though? No, it’s not. It’s a small part of the United States that has been popularized by media. If you need to see proof so bad that women are being treated unfairly go to Afghanistan or a third world country where women can’t go outside without a man, are being denied basic medical treatment, and aren’t allowed to get an education whatsoever. You men and your fragile egos, gosh
not everything is about the west
@@mcrmakesmedance This video is.
You'll learn to love yourself when you stop making men your priority
This is true for men as well!
I agree!
welp good thing you can have surgery for that now :)
you can never truly change your sex though
Lmao sounds alot better than being a male tbh..
Can you explain why?
99% of r@p3s are committed by men btw and only 9% are *towards* men
Wow women are finally catching on to doomer edits like 2 years later lmao
Bruh XD
Lmao
if people dont like you probably you are the problem and men who only view someone as a sextoy are assholes just because one views you as one it doesnt speak for all of them also you have same chances and men have problems too so you dont actually know i you want to have mens or womans probems, in the end i just wanna say that you have control over your own decisions and you can just change things instead of crying and pointing at things you cant control people would also pretty much respect you if you could explain with what problems you worked your way up so it aint even that bad
and if you still be crying now guess what womp womp
Skill issue
women did it for themselves. The beauty expectation is so high yet we still wear makeup and use filters to raise it, you can't tell me these are all not from women's own faults
If women set the beauty standards for ourselves we’d all be lesbians 🤦♀️
Lol. Let me guess: In your world it's also women's own fault that men harass, rape and murder women. God... men. ☕
Because that's what society wants. You expect all women to cease looking desirable? I don't wear makeup but I understand those who do. I feel ugly all the time, I would love to feel pretty for once.
Transition.
Yeah, like becoming a man would fix the problem. If only all women who disagreed with being a barbie doll would just live their lives claiming to be a man, then there would be no more sexism!
BECAUSE THERE WOULD BE NO WOMEN
I'm a tomboy/neutrois, do you really think that me screwing up my body with a bunch of cosmetic surgeries & hormones would make men respect me more?
You disgust me
Yeah, she should definitely do a gender transition, even if she doesn't feel to be a man. She could understand many things about men's struggles and end up realizing that being a woman isn't this bad after all (even though it obviously has down sides!). Less suicide rates, higher life expectancy, doing the romantic/sexual selection, receiving more care, being very less considered a threat etc.
@@Ricardo__MilosWomen try to commit suicide more but more men succeed because they use more lethal methods. Look it up.
Yeaaah sure hating recieving lot of attention and a "omg girl you're so cute"
What r u talking about
@@shrinasen8723foid can't even read lmfao what
ok based on the fact that u addressed me as foid and u think a woman's whole lifestyles consists of being put up on a pedestal and being the centre of attention u've definitely never been in the same room as a woman so u have no right to invalidate someone's feelings
@@shrinasen8723aww you're crying while reading what i say?
What is bro yapping about 💀
Bet this woman isn't married and doesn't have children, yet she wonders why she isn't fulfilled.
Bro WHAT are you yapping about
bruh pls u don't even know her age besides marriage and reproduction isn't everything tf? 💀
@@shrinasen8723
Right? Would he say “I bet this man is unfulfilled because he’s not married and doesn’t have children?” Probably not. And he couldn’t justify saying it about a woman if he’s got that double standard going.
@@HJ-oo8ph No, I would also say that about a man who pursues his base desires and doesn't appear to care about creating a family like people should do. Why must you assume I carry a double standard?
@@charlescastle4533Because most people who talk about “women need to have children to be happy” do NOT apply the same thing to men. It usually all boils to the view of “men are smart and make society advance, meanwhile girls should just be babymakers” when people talk about it.
Well ... ya it sucks to be an inferior being
Why would you see yourself as an inferior being, no one here is perfect and you should be grateful instead of complaining like that.
I am not a woman @@Chilldudenocap 🤣
I am a superior being
@@GHOST2PAL It doesnt matter if your a man or woman, as I said no one is superior/perfect.
@@GHOST2PALbro I’m a man and wtf are you yapping 😂😂😂
@@Blood_cake_ Ya, because men are stronger
bro this is stupid just dont be sad
bro why do you have asthma just breath..
skill issue lmao get better
npc ass comment lmfao
womp womp
Cry about it
npc ass comment lmfao
"women have a very little idea of how much men hate them" Germaine Greer
Are you gay? Men/boys like you make me think a lot of you are just gay.
You should keep that plastic bag on your head permanently
@@HoneyDollface lol