Hey Tripp! you teach me so much and i never get the chance to say thanks .. well here i am saying thanks again and Right now im so good with women i know when my relatioships are going apart and everything i know when to break up etc and how i learn or u can say how i understand so much because i watch all your videos.💪👍.
You probably dont care but if you are bored like me during the covid times you can watch pretty much all of the latest movies and series on InstaFlixxer. Been watching with my brother for the last couple of months :)
Vasilije Sepecan I believe so. My social skills are now insane and I seem to be way smarter than what I was three years ago and even smarter than everyone my age. I get along really well with people twice my age as they understand me better than all my friends.
Vasilije Sepecan Great work man I'm sure you will. I think it's a way of teaching yourself or your subconscious how to improve so next time, you can do these things effortlessly. At first it was hard work trying to talk to girls and make new friends but now, I don't even have to try it's a piece of cake and I meet girls and make new friends every weekend I go out. It's like studying yourself and making an effort to improve what needs to be improved
Yeah you need to be yourself but if you have no social skills, it's not because that's who you are. I think anyone can build their social skills and self-evaluation helps you realise what skills need to be improved. When it comes to personality though, we shouldn't change it but improve the way we express our personality. People can't get skills and personality mixed up because they're not the same.
No offence and with my all do respect i think she rejected because your fat and believe it or not 90% of girls and boys mens womens dont like fat peoples but there are still 10% peoples who are not raisct and trust you will find a girl who loved you even if you are fat or short or poor or or or .....sorry for my english
The worst type of rejection is the no answer or silent treatment type. It makes you feel like she doesn't even feel like you're important enough to even know the answer.
When a chick blatantly ignores you... acknowledge that you got ignored and make it a "womp womp" moment If I get rejected by a woman infront of other guys or even other women, bring attention to it yourself and make fun of yourself Nobody can truly make fun of you if you do it yourself first Like "Damn did yall see that girl dub me just now?" 🤣😂🤣
Got rejected by my crush today. I kind of knew already but it's still a bummer though. What sucks is I went right to feeling and thinking it was a waste of time rather than a good experience of meeting someone new and getting to know then. That's the thing I think I need to concentrate on and change first.
Sometimes you can do all the right things and it still won’t work out, it’s not always your fault sometimes they just won’t like you enough from no fault of your own.
As a man you should be strong and handle your business. If a girl rejects you take it in stride, be cool about it as If it doesn even matter. Women find a man who can take a punch, be it physical or verbal much more attractive than one who gets angry and butthurt
@TheDestroyer You're right I act like I don't really care and that it wouldn't affect me that much I joked about or whatever. Now that i'm sitting on it, it hurts.
I got rejected yesterday. She texted me the classic bullshit 'You're a nice guy but....-insert bullshit here-' and I answered 'Don't worry about me honey I do not have low-esteem nor do I need your pity' and today I just went out with some friends and a female friend of mine hugged me and we took a photo and she uploaded it on facebook and tagged me(funny thing is I didnt even asked to do that but it worked greatly for me).So I uploaded the photo also on my profile and the girl that rejected me sent me again 'Really now that's how much you care about me?It took you one day to find another girl and that's it?'. And I answered her 'Sry but you made it pretty clear that you do not like me and do not see me sexually, so I won't bother with you any more and the fact that you got annoyed that I am with another girl means that you are selfish and like people to chase you, but when they move on you get annoyed and blame them.I'm glad you rejected me yesterday because I didn't know that part of you.Bye have a nice day'. Conversation went on and she even tried to flirt me lol and I got to be the one who rejected her in the end.
I got rejected just a few minutes ago and i think i pushed her into rejecting me😂. She was saying I'm confused and lets wait for it to come out naturally and i kept pushing her for an answer...😂 😂 😂 Dayum...
@@alwayssporty8102 Im not sure if Im the right person u want to get an advice from. But know this, if u realize ur worth and the girl doesnt, she is not worth the try. And if u think u are gonna get rejected soon dont have much expectations. Im feeling a lot better and I have moved on. My concept of love/affection/attractiveness has totally changed. But Im rooting for you, you got this
my rules that I always follow: 1- Don't bother speaking to a girl who's not your type (ex: if your a bit of the quiet type,don't bother going for a girl who's super extrovert and always at parties and Vice versa ) 2- Only go for a girl that you believe will accept you, not the girl who you think has 0 chance of accepting you. 3- if you still get rejected then don't really take it personally, it's not your fault maybe she's just not ready for relationships.
Bruh, i just got rejected a couple hours ago and i don't feel shit. I can just ask a different girl to go out with me, don't worry. literally everyone on this planet can or has been rejected. Btw, this was my first time asking a girl so whatever
IMO, rejection ain’t that bad(as long as she’s nice about it). I got Rejected 2hrs ago and it was fine. I told her I really liked her and she just said “Sorry I don’t feel the same way”. Not a terrible experience. Don’t get me wrong it was super disappointing because I REALLY liked this girl, but it is what it is.
Rejection is like a experience. You learn from you're mistakes and then use that later on, on someone you like Use rejection as a method to ask another person out ounce you been rejected for 1st time it won't hurt the 2cd and 3rd. So go out there and just be you.learn to let go of something not meant for you and use that to gain self confidence.
Andromeda Galaxy Nebula Yep it really is though. My rejection actually made me stronger and one of my ex interests tried to come back in my life but I was like nope I’m good and moving forward was the best thing for me
It seems like when it comes to rejection, it hurts the most because we fall in love with the dream of having a relationship with that girl and not the reality that she may not be right for you. Just my thoughts on it I wanted to add
I've been rejected 8 times in my 21 years of living. It does hurt. But honestly, I always keep my head up and try again. Eventually 1 will say yes. But when? That's something I don't know. Maybe I'll keep getting rejected till I'm in my 30s. I've always been told my older friends that it's easier for men to get women once they've reached theirs 30s or 40s. But damn that's such a long wait lol.
I just got rejected by a girl today- asked her out for a drink and told her I wanted to get to know her. She said she had plans with friends then I asked her if we could reschedule and she said she has a bf...anyways, its always better to know than to spend weeks/ months thinking what if.
Every rejection helps a guy stay fueled and encouraged. Not only in romantic life but in jobs, finance, education, and in business. I get rejected by customers at my job but it helps me to reach out to other customers who will say yes.
I’ve kept count I’ve been rejected 50 times in a row 😁 it really doesn’t matter there are girls out there who won’t reject me maybe I’ll run into them maybe I won’t but I’m loving my life either way I want to see if I can get rejected 50 more times. 😁
the problem is your attitude . Take notes on the interaction and place yourself in the persons shoes and ask yourself why they "rejected" you. Refine your attitude and make shit happen.
You're only "deep in the friendzone" because YOU choose to be. Have some self respect, forget about him and talk to someone else. It's not that complicated.
One thing I try to remind myself of, is that we all are our own worst critics. Something we may think was a complete and total disaster may have just been viewed as a light speed bump to someone else. Don't criticize yourself too harshly. The point is to realize that you're gonna screw up until you learn more and gain more confidence. Shrug it off and keep going. But, if it is a big deal to you, then that will show in your body language, tone of voice, etc. You can watch all the videos you want and learn everything to become a master. Just remember, there's no such thing as perfect. Master chefs, professional athletes, seasoned law enforcement officers...and EVEN master pickup artists...they all screw up from time to time. So, don't ever think that you're gonna skate by with no bumps or bruises. Learning is fun, but it can be difficult, and sometimes painful. No pain, no gain, right? Just remember. This is something you CHOSE to learn about, so that means no one is forcing you to do it. That being said, it is something you WANT to do. When you want to do something, you make the effort to get good at it. That's when the fun really begins.
@@podsmpsg1 It recently happened to me.I did everything.At first it's okay to cry and all.But later you start to get better over time.Take care of yourself!
You know a lot of guys might be thinking: "These free vids that Tripp does are too good to be true." Well I'll tell ya his advice works! I used his advice on conversations and texting with my ex-girlfriend and I kid you not... it worked! Thanks Tripp! :)
Hi, I'm a girl and we know that it hurts and we DO feel bad when we reject a guy (nice girls anyway). You see it doesn't matter weather you are hot or bad or good. Love for me in my opinion is like a spark in your gut. You feel comfortable and feel passion towards a person. The worst thing you could do is "get revenge" or make them regret it. You can't force somebody to "spark" with you. Great video👍
There's that word "spark" aka vibe, aka chemistry all equals attraction.I already knew this but can you admit that if a woman is not instantly attracted to you, it's not even worth it.
sounds wayy too vague tho. Spark? you mean like some sort of attraction? So you just follow that "spark" and go along with the guy? even if he isn't good for you? Your own words are that it doesn't matter if the person is hot or bad or good. Aren't you forgetting possibly the most important part. The ability to think rationally about the "spark" so that you avoid the bad people.
i just got rejected today...we were friends for like 8-12 months and i think i was just waiting too long, i was doing everything right, we really were like 2 the same souls, we had the same hobbys, same "taste" all that... maby she is just not ready for a relationship yet... im also pretty handsome and polite and her best friend even told us that we look cute together so yeah, i'm really confused.. just gonna focus on my carrer and maby someday ill find a girl like her :// peace
I just got rejected by my crush over DMs. I wrote her a huge para over 200 words long and all she said was “I’m sorry but I don’t really want a boyfriend at the moment. Tysm for the para. Sorry 😕.”
At this moment, I have been rejected and she said she sees me as her *favourite friend* It's fucking awkward I loved her and loved her but in the end she fucking broke my heart???
@the guy whit the lyrics bro I swear it's soo annoying, I liked her from my heart only to disappoint me. In fact this is the second time ingot rejected in this year by two different girl's I loved
I was in love with a girl for two years after I left that school. I talked to my friend from thereby and he told me she thought I was a creep. The last two years have been almost ruined.
My crush was giving me clear signals that she likes me so i asked her out and she rejected. I said myself: "ok" i come home and i just see that she blocked me on instagram facebook and broke every contact with me. Did anyone of you guys meet something similiar?
Asked someone out from work over text. She ignored it and told people at work that I asked her. I felt pretty down at the time. Like I wasn’t “worthy”. It’s been a few days now and I’m starting to get through it. But man, that hurt.
The right girl is the one that chooses you and is not tempted by other guys. Also try not to get attached to someone until you're pretty sure they like you back.
Just started having a crush on this girl and I’ve been a wimp for too long, I don’t even care that I got rejected I’m proud of myself for making progress. I’m a better man, I’m dateable, and I now have the balls to ask people out. It’s only an L if you make it one, there’s always a W in there too.
Well being rejected a lot make you question what you've been doing wrong even if you are the best version of you. Become immune of rejection and don't feel anything every time I'm rejected feels like a robot to me.
Shit I was an alpha today. Went inside her class in front of everybody. Asked her out for valentine day. She said no. I said it’s cool. Walked away confidently
I just can’t get over this girl like I had the biggest crush on her for over a year and every day when I got home and tried to get the courage to ask her out and one day after a year after practicing so much on how to ask her and well I asked her. And I said it in a kinda “cute” way no gay shit but I thought I was good and so did my friends and she just said. No sorry I’m not looking for a boyfriend atm and I just played it off as it’s fine but then 4 days later my best friend of 4 years asked her out and she said yes I just don’t understand it’s always the big tough sporty athletic guys and the ones who are just so fake and it’s just a lie and they block out everyone else from getting a chance and no I’m not fat I’m not rude I’m not disgusting and I don’t think I’m to ugly but just last night and In 3 months it’s gonna be a year since I asked her out I had a dream about me and her together and I don’t know why like I haven’t thought about her in ages and it just came into my head and all the things we would of done together like just F!CKING HELL!!!! ALL THE SHIT I MISSED OUT ON. Dont worry about me not that you will you probably think I’m some ugly dude behind a screen just venting about a girl and sh!t just F!CK THIS BULL SH!T
When I was a kid lots of stupid girls just salty always saying “ALEXA HAS A BOYFRIEND HAHAHA* like bruh you just saying random stuff and you doesn’t know,what wrong with your freaking mind?
I'm a lesbian. I told my crush that I've been having a crush on her since day 1. But she rejected me and said she's not interested in me.....didn't know it feels that bad
I got played it was baby love while I was helping her then all of a sudden she doesn't want a relationship with me. My interaction with women the worst luck in the universe I'm socially awkward
Silly video from someone who doesn't really think things through, people get rejected due to their ethnicity. So there is nothing you can do about that.
Heres what you do, rub one out have a beer and enjoy the rest of your day. So she dosent like you get over it, play some sports and play your heart out develop yourself and heres the thing, if you act as yourself all day every day you will without a doubt find someone who loves you for who you are. In school i gave too many fucks about what people thought, in life i dont and you wont belive how many girls find that attractive. key word "girls" the wemen are a hard find. Anyway if your too young to drink then go hang out with your buds and find things you love.
What I don't like about this video is that it's suggesting that you may have done something "wrong" for the reason why you get rejected. And if you "did everything right" it was meant to be and the chick wasn't the right girl. That's total BS. The honest truth is that the woman isn't attracted to the guy. You can say " bla bla bla bla bla bla bla" and if the girl is INTO YOU, you will most likely get her number, sex, etc... Women are just as visual as guys PLUS 1. The PLUS 1 is status, personality, etc... That's what unattractive men have to improve on and head their hats on to get women. But now with ONLINE/DATING APPS, women don't have to hide the fact they are visual creatures like men. I once lived with a roommate that said she SWIPED YES on the guy ONLY because he LOOKED like her ex boyfriend. Now they've been dating for years. If you get rejected, it's strictly physical. These girls get hit on all the time. Same lines, same, conversation. It only changes after 3rd dates.
Sometimes there is nothing you can do better , I went on a date with this girl she was just a very different person to me , we got on well , but our personalities were very different. We both found each other attractive, got on well. But we just dint vibe , she was very loud and I’m more normal /quieter Sometimes you can’t do anything better But sometimes you can What ever you do! Don’t change your self for someone!
I saved a girl for being nearly hit by a cab on freshers week, walked her back to her dorm making sure she be ok since she was a state. As I was about to leave she asks me to take her for dinner. Took her for dinner spent 80 pounds, never said thank you and was just...she didn't talk much...We made out in the end and following week blows me off not even wanting to be friends...Found out shortly after she was now dating a 17 year old dweeby British boy and she's 19 over a built 23 year old Borneo Islander.... Baring in mind it was British ( women in that country defy the social order ) I don't know how to react lol...im split between how backwards that is / What the fuck is wrong with you...Weirdest rejection...
Just got the exact same thing happen to me. Hurts like a motherfucker and i don't know how i'm gonna get over this. But i know time will do its work, like it always does.
a girl rejected me, I still love her , & after rejecting I talked like stupid & Reminded her that I still love her , like saying my feelings on you are high , & again asked sorry , , ..... & talking about love ,,,, sometimes she ignores me now ,,, My mind is fucked up always thinking about & she too knows that .... , SHOULD I STOP SPEAKING WITH HER ?????
Vinaykumar p ..it's hard but yes ..u should show your higher value..believe me I went through this stuff ..if u still speaking to her u have low value...and end will be very bad... diverted it to your self improvement
for me its always fuck up in text. I have blown it with at least 15 hot girls with weak text game. I was master back in day with phone talk and a girl almost NVR got away but these young women nowadays only text. And I suck at it. I'm getting better but still blowing it.
Hello guys :D so as a girl, I really have no clue why I'm here tbh lol. And Ima be honest. Look. Any guy, that has the courage to maybe ask me for icecream, I would say yes. Honestly. For me, personally, it's the hair and personality that gets me. And here are some tips from an ACTUAL girl. 1. If I say no, I'm sorry it means no. I'd say the worst thing to do then is go on about how much I mean to someone. For instance, this boy I only liked as a friend asked me out, I said I'm sorry but I wasn't interested and please understand. He then started going on about how I was his "dream" woman and I was a sweet little "angel" and that creeped me tf out and if guessing you know I don't talk to him anymore. 2. Look guys. I'm sorry. But. Find someone to ask out (if you've known them) if your pretty for sure they like you back, for me, I was look at people in the eye when I like them I've noticed. 3. Being awkward is my job. Please don't be awkward. An awkward + awkward doesn't equal unawkward it means for me to get tf out of there. 4. Dress nice, well cleaned, hair nice, don't be trashy. 5. That's it. I guess :p
You know what I directly said to this girl that I liked her, she said that I'm a great person and so on, but no she doesn't like me the way I do so everything you said it's useless, just delete your comment. Sincerely, A guy from a web page.
Hey Tripp! you teach me so much and i never get the chance to say thanks .. well here i am saying thanks again and Right now im so good with women i know when my relatioships are going apart and everything i know when to break up etc and how i learn or u can say how i understand so much because i watch all your videos.💪👍.
You probably dont care but if you are bored like me during the covid times you can watch pretty much all of the latest movies and series on InstaFlixxer. Been watching with my brother for the last couple of months :)
@Lane Zaiden definitely, have been watching on instaflixxer for since november myself =)
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Before I go to sleep at night, I like to analyze my whole day and all the interactions to figure out how to improve myself the next day
Me too, does it work for you?
Vasilije Sepecan I believe so. My social skills are now insane and I seem to be way smarter than what I was three years ago and even smarter than everyone my age. I get along really well with people twice my age as they understand me better than all my friends.
Awesome man, I'm long way from that but I'm better than before that's for sure
Vasilije Sepecan Great work man I'm sure you will. I think it's a way of teaching yourself or your subconscious how to improve so next time, you can do these things effortlessly. At first it was hard work trying to talk to girls and make new friends but now, I don't even have to try it's a piece of cake and I meet girls and make new friends every weekend I go out. It's like studying yourself and making an effort to improve what needs to be improved
Yeah you need to be yourself but if you have no social skills, it's not because that's who you are. I think anyone can build their social skills and self-evaluation helps you realise what skills need to be improved. When it comes to personality though, we shouldn't change it but improve the way we express our personality. People can't get skills and personality mixed up because they're not the same.
I got rejected by my dream girl today😭😭
kevin cleary i got rejected by my crush i feel your pain
kevin cleary same
Me three
I got u fam
No offence and with my all do respect i think she rejected because your fat and believe it or not 90% of girls and boys mens womens dont like fat peoples but there are still 10% peoples who are not raisct and trust you will find a girl who loved you even if you are fat or short or poor or or or .....sorry for my english
The worst type of rejection is the no answer or silent treatment type. It makes you feel like she doesn't even feel like you're important enough to even know the answer.
She rejected me for my cousin who is ace 😂😂😂😂😂
Same she said she's too busy to talk three times and i couldn't even confess
When a chick blatantly ignores you... acknowledge that you got ignored and make it a "womp womp" moment
If I get rejected by a woman infront of other guys or even other women, bring attention to it yourself and make fun of yourself
Nobody can truly make fun of you if you do it yourself first
Like "Damn did yall see that girl dub me just now?" 🤣😂🤣
My co worker rejected me but here's what's funny when she sees a car and a fit me ... Well it will be my turn to reject ...
Trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 😢😢😢😢
It's hard to find the right girl these days
Kymani Wilson I found the right one, and got rejected ;-;
i Wravewrath
Am sorry
It really is the struggle is real
44u same it Hurts
janne mahonen yes it's scarring and what's even worse they choose these bad guys over guys who would do right by them
I dont know about you guys but every rejection I get makes me stronger lol
Daniyar Jumanazar I feel more confident, now it's like whatever you're the one missing out
Each rejection is one step closer to jumping out off a window
You reach a point where you like aight cool
Unlimited power
That's sad
Got rejected by my crush today. I kind of knew already but it's still a bummer though. What sucks is I went right to feeling and thinking it was a waste of time rather than a good experience of meeting someone new and getting to know then. That's the thing I think I need to concentrate on and change first.
Matthew Stratton I have the same thing happen to me today, sucks right, just gotta move on and think about what you did wrong and right
Got rejected too,man I am almost giving up of girls...
Rodrigo Silva Dantas woman are feminists in America
Nicholas Isenhour what do you mean??
Rodrigo Silva Dantas like all they want is money and bad boys and boys that can fight
Sometimes you can do all the right things and it still won’t work out, it’s not always your fault sometimes they just won’t like you enough from no fault of your own.
Atheus98 true
Atheus98 for me it means you are not a catch
Lol. If a girl doesn’t like you, it just means there’s no physical chemistry between the two of you.
When a girl "reject" me, i think "What's wrong eith her?".
Hahhaha nice
Bidinho Casfin me too like I’m sexy asf
I am the opposite, I just got rejected like half an hour ago. It sucks. I don't deserve to have her. I am not good enough.
@@justinbud8912 Shut up and become a better version of urself
@@justinbud8912 dude seriously be a fuckboy and take revenge
i got rejected today....
Rip
can i get an F for a fallen soldier
Cliche F
Same told her i like her she said ah dude srry but i like a other boy and that other boy is my best friend really fucked up
F for this brave man, me too brotha
We build up the courage to tell them how we feel and when we get rejected it affects us emotionally in a different way
As a man you should be strong and handle your business. If a girl rejects you take it in stride, be cool about it as If it doesn even matter. Women find a man who can take a punch, be it physical or verbal much more attractive than one who gets angry and butthurt
Girls like nerds that take shit bro
@TheDestroyer You're right I act like I don't really care and that it wouldn't affect me that much I joked about or whatever. Now that i'm sitting on it, it hurts.
You'll have the last laugh when she's 35.
Sounds like a double standard
DreamBeatsBakery I’m so sick of this “real men don’t show emotion” bullshit
I got rejected today but I'm already moving on👌🏽
King Gaming Amazing
Same but I still think about how i messed up
Joe lol Minecraft’s about to be awkward when I play with her
JustinBeBustin Great move keep it up
Same
She rejected me, raised my status, now she wants me back..
Ian M that’s the most fucked up shit I’ve ever heard
-Lvcid - so what
-Lvcid - wanting him only because he raised his status is also fucked up
I hope thos happens to me!!!
@@llondino u become the problem.Not resolving it
I get rejected constantly and still do and I'm 37. Never been on a date so I lost faith in humanity.
Keep trying...while you're still breathing....
Look for the bag 💰
If it’s like that then there’s something that you have to fix inside of you
Gym.
😂😂
I got rejected yesterday. She texted me the classic bullshit 'You're a nice guy but....-insert bullshit here-' and I answered 'Don't worry about me honey I do not have low-esteem nor do I need your pity' and today I just went out with some friends and a female friend of mine hugged me and we took a photo and she uploaded it on facebook and tagged me(funny thing is I didnt even asked to do that but it worked greatly for me).So I uploaded the photo also on my profile and the girl that rejected me sent me again 'Really now that's how much you care about me?It took you one day to find another girl and that's it?'. And I answered her 'Sry but you made it pretty clear that you do not like me and do not see me sexually, so I won't bother with you any more and the fact that you got annoyed that I am with another girl means that you are selfish and like people to chase you, but when they move on you get annoyed and blame them.I'm glad you rejected me yesterday because I didn't know that part of you.Bye have a nice day'. Conversation went on and she even tried to flirt me lol and I got to be the one who rejected her in the end.
Thanks for sharing your situation. I know this will help alot of guys out there!
Alphaness
You’re a savage💯
You're story shows how pathetic you are.
@ how so?
I just got rejected, it really sucks :P
TheLastNation ik me to :(
well i got rejected 2 weeks ago but at least we are friend now and ik a thing that she already love somebody else and that's my best friend ;((((
Same
Yes believe me she is using u..stop to this shit and get out of friend zone
TheLastNation same but the boy secretly has a relationship with my bff and i tought we shares everything
rejection has taught me that u wasn't born to be liked by many ppl and should love yourself despite of the odds
I got rejected just a few minutes ago and i think i pushed her into rejecting me😂. She was saying I'm confused and lets wait for it to come out naturally and i kept pushing her for an answer...😂 😂 😂 Dayum...
Same hear bro🤣🤣🤣
I was badly rejected over another guy. It is so painful. I can't get through it. It pains so much in my heart. Never felt like this in my entire life
Quit being a pussy.
Find someone else.
@@mrsticky005 wow I really cant believe I searched this 2 fucking years back. I have moved on so ahead in my life. To think how cringe I was , damn.
@@manomithran3058 how are u doing now how does it feel because i feel like im going to get rejected soon.
@@alwayssporty8102 Im not sure if Im the right person u want to get an advice from. But know this, if u realize ur worth and the girl doesnt, she is not worth the try. And if u think u are gonna get rejected soon dont have much expectations. Im feeling a lot better and I have moved on. My concept of love/affection/attractiveness has totally changed. But Im rooting for you, you got this
@@manomithran3058 what does that mean i told i like her in text and she says she wants to meet me?? is there any chance??
Never put all your eggs in one basket (Unless you're committed, of course).
Yep I had to learn that. It makes things more simple that way instead of just focusing on just one
my rules that I always follow:
1- Don't bother speaking to a girl who's not your type
(ex: if your a bit of the quiet type,don't bother going for a girl who's super extrovert and always at parties and Vice versa )
2- Only go for a girl that you believe will accept you, not the girl who you think has 0 chance of accepting you.
3- if you still get rejected then don't really take it personally, it's not your fault maybe she's just not ready for relationships.
Harouto Kayabaliano good advice
smart guy 2k19 i got rejected today and ur coment is 100% what happened to me
number 2 is partly true imo
No. 1 is so true I am very quiet type and she so extroverted and rejected me because of that
I disagree. You should hit on all women that you find attractive.
She’s not the right on 4 u if she rejects, god is finding perfect one
Bruh, i just got rejected a couple hours ago and i don't feel shit. I can just ask a different girl to go out with me, don't worry. literally everyone on this planet can or has been rejected. Btw, this was my first time asking a girl so whatever
same xd
did you find a new one xD ?
@@Shiraz_Mazhar yuh👍
I’m really glad I saw this comment
IMO, rejection ain’t that bad(as long as she’s nice about it). I got Rejected 2hrs ago and it was fine. I told her I really liked her and she just said “Sorry I don’t feel the same way”. Not a terrible experience. Don’t get me wrong it was super disappointing because I REALLY liked this girl, but it is what it is.
Rejection is like a experience. You learn from you're mistakes and then use that later on, on someone you like
Use rejection as a method to ask another person out ounce you been rejected for 1st time it won't hurt the 2cd and 3rd. So go out there and just be you.learn to let go of something not meant for you and use that to gain self confidence.
Soccer 4Life agree and I love soccer 2😂 I’m from fab you from psg?
Its because of your looks nothing else If she dosent she as handsome then you simply wont have a chance
If your not hot too her. Then thats it
Rejection is an experience
Andromeda Galaxy Nebula Yep it really is though. My rejection actually made me stronger and one of my ex interests tried to come back in my life but I was like nope I’m good and moving forward was the best thing for me
I don't want to "get more girls" I want to get one girl
have any of you ever been in a position where you get rejected so many times so when u get rejected u only feel numb?
Yes going through it rn lol 😅
It seems like when it comes to rejection, it hurts the most because we fall in love with the dream of having a relationship with that girl and not the reality that she may not be right for you. Just my thoughts on it I wanted to add
She told me "I suck at texting" and ignored me 😢
I got rejected too but boi, sucks to be you T_T
Dammmmmm🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣she killed you alive
Give my boy some space guys! 🤣🤣🤣. Btw even I got rejected she literally texted me BRO such a polite way to reject 🤣🤣
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@@adiltube9355 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I've been rejected 8 times in my 21 years of living. It does hurt. But honestly, I always keep my head up and try again. Eventually 1 will say yes. But when? That's something I don't know. Maybe I'll keep getting rejected till I'm in my 30s. I've always been told my older friends that it's easier for men to get women once they've reached theirs 30s or 40s. But damn that's such a long wait lol.
I just got rejected by a girl today- asked her out for a drink and told her I wanted to get to know her. She said she had plans with friends then I asked her if we could reschedule and she said she has a bf...anyways, its always better to know than to spend weeks/ months thinking what if.
Every rejection helps a guy stay fueled and encouraged. Not only in romantic life but in jobs, finance, education, and in business.
I get rejected by customers at my job but it helps me to reach out to other customers who will say yes.
Yes this pours into everything. Can you imagine my own blood cousin ask me out and was mad that I was grossed out
No it’s demoralising.
Where’s that bottle of 12yr malt
I’ve kept count I’ve been rejected 50 times in a row 😁 it really doesn’t matter there are girls out there who won’t reject me maybe I’ll run into them maybe I won’t but I’m loving my life either way I want to see if I can get rejected 50 more times. 😁
Maybe the way you do it is wrong. For example if you don't introduce yourself .. people will reject you male or female
I keep getting rejected while my friends are hooking up with girls or have gfs after awhile it just takes a toll on you :/
How's it going
Hey bro any improvements? It would cool to see a comeback story. Maybe tips too?
facts espically when yo friends be pullin da chicks you be into like what da fucc bruhh
I already know when the girl I like won't like me back so I don't even try.
Wrong mindset mate
Cooler Man same bro 😂
Cooler Man Same I'm tired of having my time wasted on basic bitches that aren't even worth my time :/
Cooler Man same thing for me only for the opposite gender...At my school guys choose looks over books.... That's just how France is I guess
Stupid mindset
I have been rejected so often that I decided best to avoid every one this way I won't get hurt any more.
Go get rejected 5 times and you will learn that you are invincible.
the problem is your attitude . Take notes on the interaction and place yourself in the persons shoes and ask yourself why they "rejected" you. Refine your attitude and make shit happen.
MrMuffinhead22 should I talk to her , & say once again ...
Bernie Smatavicius hmm
StratMatt777 bruh ur comment is the best i will do this shit often so ill be invincible forever
I’m depressed
why did that make me laugh
@@yungberserker damn that's evil bro
Putin you should be the way things are going right now
Got rejected😞
Same
Same soilder I ain’t shit
This happens so much. Rejection to a period of happiness then, catch feelings for another girl and then the cycle repeats, but I always rise again.
Got rejected by the Beatiful girl of my dreams 😞💔
I just got rejected a few minutes ago. She said she was married, so I didn’t even get to speak more than a sentence lol
Same except she said I have a boyfriend
she told me she was getting married
Thats great now you dont have to waste your time on her. You can move on right away
Oof
If she was married and she was trying to become your girlfriend, you don't want her
To be honest with God, i"m handsome, bt i always gets rejected😢😢😢..I"m hating my life now
What I do is start running like a mad man saying, "I'm not crazy".
We were literally flirting, and he said it was a “flirting game.” Guys I’m deep in the friendzone.
You're only "deep in the friendzone" because YOU choose to be.
Have some self respect, forget about him and talk to someone else.
It's not that complicated.
It is hard ive gotten rejected 9 times
Dont wrry bro keep trying
Ive been rejected 3 times and it hurts like hell. I dont even know how you cope with it tbh.
I have been regected 10 times
One thing I try to remind myself of, is that we all are our own worst critics. Something we may think was a complete and total disaster may have just been viewed as a light speed bump to someone else. Don't criticize yourself too harshly. The point is to realize that you're gonna screw up until you learn more and gain more confidence. Shrug it off and keep going.
But, if it is a big deal to you, then that will show in your body language, tone of voice, etc.
You can watch all the videos you want and learn everything to become a master. Just remember, there's no such thing as perfect. Master chefs, professional athletes, seasoned law enforcement officers...and EVEN master pickup artists...they all screw up from time to time. So, don't ever think that you're gonna skate by with no bumps or bruises.
Learning is fun, but it can be difficult, and sometimes painful.
No pain, no gain, right?
Just remember. This is something you CHOSE to learn about, so that means no one is forcing you to do it. That being said, it is something you WANT to do. When you want to do something, you make the effort to get good at it. That's when the fun really begins.
is it normal to cry when you crush doesn't reciprocate?
Yes is normal bro
I havent cried but i think about him all the time and he probably doesnt care that i exist so it sucks
Yes!!!
Jason Martinez thanks.
@@podsmpsg1 It recently happened to me.I did everything.At first it's okay to cry and all.But later you start to get better over time.Take care of yourself!
i got rejected as well yesterday
I just got rejected, but after watching this video and analysing everything it wasnt my fault in the end
I listen to depressing music after I get rejected then cry myself to sleep. Anybody else?
You know a lot of guys might be thinking: "These free vids that Tripp does are too good to be true." Well I'll tell ya his advice works! I used his advice on conversations and texting with my ex-girlfriend and I kid you not... it worked! Thanks Tripp! :)
I know it is childish but , I blocked her it will hurt me if I didn't
Hi,
I'm a girl and we know that it hurts and we DO feel bad when we reject a guy (nice girls anyway). You see it doesn't matter weather you are hot or bad or good. Love for me in my opinion is like a spark in your gut. You feel comfortable and feel passion towards a person. The worst thing you could do is "get revenge" or make them regret it. You can't force somebody to "spark" with you. Great video👍
Love is a chemical reaction in your body.
There's that word "spark" aka vibe, aka chemistry all equals attraction.I already knew this but can you admit that if a woman is not instantly attracted to you, it's not even worth it.
sounds wayy too vague tho. Spark? you mean like some sort of attraction? So you just follow that "spark" and go along with the guy? even if he isn't good for you? Your own words are that it doesn't matter if the person is hot or bad or good. Aren't you forgetting possibly the most important part. The ability to think rationally about the "spark" so that you avoid the bad people.
All of you deserves to get played and cheated on
i just got rejected today...we were friends for like 8-12 months and i think i was just waiting too long, i was doing everything right, we really were like 2 the same souls, we had the same hobbys, same "taste" all that... maby she is just not ready for a relationship yet... im also pretty handsome and polite and her best friend even told us that we look cute together so yeah, i'm really confused.. just gonna focus on my carrer and maby someday ill find a girl like her :// peace
I got rejected by my best friend when I asked her out to day and I cried all day I couldn’t even do my work
she was never your friend
I think is better be gay
Robert Cruz It is not a choice :)
+Mihajlo Bisenic its better be asexual
Sybrakos1 what is asexual?
Robert Cruz 😂😂😂
+Cool Chicka you dont want to fuck anyone
I just got rejected by my crush over DMs. I wrote her a huge para over 200 words long and all she said was
“I’m sorry but I don’t really want a boyfriend at the moment. Tysm for the para. Sorry 😕.”
Is it bad asking out the girl more than 1 time?
Who knows she's into girls
Face to face man.
Dude the exact same thing happened to me pretty much word for word.
My first time getting rejected was yesterday 🙂💔 she showed me that she like me so much....but apparently 🤗💁🏻♂️💔
Same
The same thing just happened to me, I don’t know what else I’m suppose to do.
Feeling rejected is a weird energy... there have to be a strategy in order to gain confidence and recover comfort again..also to add value..
At this moment, I have been rejected and she said she sees me as her *favourite friend*
It's fucking awkward
I loved her and loved her but in the end she fucking broke my heart???
@the guy whit the lyrics bro I swear it's soo annoying, I liked her from my heart only to disappoint me.
In fact this is the second time ingot rejected in this year by two different girl's I loved
I was in love with a girl for two years after I left that school. I talked to my friend from thereby and he told me she thought I was a creep. The last two years have been almost ruined.
I don't even bother asking them out anymore, I'm not gonna let them make a fool out of me like that. It's not worth it, I'll stay single
Rejection may be a good thing.
My crush was giving me clear signals that she likes me so i asked her out and she rejected. I said myself: "ok" i come home and i just see that she blocked me on instagram facebook and broke every contact with me. Did anyone of you guys meet something similiar?
2 months ago i searched how to attract your crush
Now I'm watching this...
same here
same here
Asked someone out from work over text. She ignored it and told people at work that I asked her. I felt pretty down at the time. Like I wasn’t “worthy”. It’s been a few days now and I’m starting to get through it. But man, that hurt.
The right girl is the one that chooses you and is not tempted by other guys. Also try not to get attached to someone until you're pretty sure they like you back.
Just started having a crush on this girl and I’ve been a wimp for too long, I don’t even care that I got rejected I’m proud of myself for making progress. I’m a better man, I’m dateable, and I now have the balls to ask people out. It’s only an L if you make it one, there’s always a W in there too.
Well being rejected a lot make you question what you've been doing wrong even if you are the best version of you. Become immune of rejection and don't feel anything every time I'm rejected feels like a robot to me.
Shit I was an alpha today. Went inside her class in front of everybody. Asked her out for valentine day. She said no. I said it’s cool. Walked away confidently
You asked her in front of other people? You got stones, dude! Did doing this give you more confidence for the next time?
I just can’t get over this girl like I had the biggest crush on her for over a year and every day when I got home and tried to get the courage to ask her out and one day after a year after practicing so much on how to ask her and well I asked her. And I said it in a kinda “cute” way no gay shit but I thought I was good and so did my friends and she just said. No sorry I’m not looking for a boyfriend atm and I just played it off as it’s fine but then 4 days later my best friend of 4 years asked her out and she said yes I just don’t understand it’s always the big tough sporty athletic guys and the ones who are just so fake and it’s just a lie and they block out everyone else from getting a chance and no I’m not fat I’m not rude I’m not disgusting and I don’t think I’m to ugly but just last night and In 3 months it’s gonna be a year since I asked her out I had a dream about me and her together and I don’t know why like I haven’t thought about her in ages and it just came into my head and all the things we would of done together like just F!CKING HELL!!!! ALL THE SHIT I MISSED OUT ON. Dont worry about me not that you will you probably think I’m some ugly dude behind a screen just venting about a girl and sh!t just F!CK THIS BULL SH!T
I git rejected by my crush :////////
My crush rejected me yesterday...and i stumbled upon this
When I was a kid lots of stupid girls just salty always saying “ALEXA HAS A BOYFRIEND HAHAHA* like bruh you just saying random stuff and you doesn’t know,what wrong with your freaking mind?
I still love her i can't think abt anyone else
That hairline tho.😂
In all seriousness great advice.👍
I'm a lesbian. I told my crush that I've been having a crush on her since day 1. But she rejected me and said she's not interested in me.....didn't know it feels that bad
When look at human relationships through genetics, biology, psychology and evolution, it makes sense.
I got played it was baby love while I was helping her then all of a sudden she doesn't want a relationship with me. My interaction with women the worst luck in the universe I'm socially awkward
negetivity can make you stronger....got rejected?just join illumunati,hail anti christ,rule the world🤘👁🔺️👌
Silly video from someone who doesn't really think things through, people get rejected due to their ethnicity.
So there is nothing you can do about that.
What if i am just ugly?
Who am I. If you are ugly it's usually just hair you need to fix
Go do something about it then
Who am I not an excuse dude, go work on your personality... Usually works
Work on yourself. Be the best and strongest version of yourself.
Be funny
Heres what you do, rub one out have a beer and enjoy the rest of your day. So she dosent like you get over it, play some sports and play your heart out develop yourself and heres the thing, if you act as yourself all day every day you will without a doubt find someone who loves you for who you are. In school i gave too many fucks about what people thought, in life i dont and you wont belive how many girls find that attractive. key word "girls" the wemen are a hard find. Anyway if your too young to drink then go hang out with your buds and find things you love.
I get rejected every month by different women. It sucks dude. Makes me depressed af.
I GOT REJECTED TODAY AND FELL BAD FOR YOU MAN
Marcus Benavidez I’m sorry brother. It does suck. Hope you have better luck soon.
I get rejected every day lol rookie numbers
Anyone here because she/he said that "I dont have time"?
Honestly i dont really care but whatever.
I am going to purpose a girl and i don't know what will happen but iam definitely sure that see will reject me 😐
So, what happened? Did she reject?
What I don't like about this video is that it's suggesting that you may have done something "wrong" for the reason why you get rejected. And if you "did everything right" it was meant to be and the chick wasn't the right girl. That's total BS. The honest truth is that the woman isn't attracted to the guy. You can say " bla bla bla bla bla bla bla" and if the girl is INTO YOU, you will most likely get her number, sex, etc... Women are just as visual as guys PLUS 1. The PLUS 1 is status, personality, etc... That's what unattractive men have to improve on and head their hats on to get women. But now with ONLINE/DATING APPS, women don't have to hide the fact they are visual creatures like men. I once lived with a roommate that said she SWIPED YES on the guy ONLY because he LOOKED like her ex boyfriend. Now they've been dating for years. If you get rejected, it's strictly physical. These girls get hit on all the time. Same lines, same, conversation. It only changes after 3rd dates.
Im 15 I asked out a girl yesterday she said no, and I'm dying inside
at least u tried right
Revenge, I got it, and I feel great. Do your self a favor, don't be the bigger man. Get just as mean as she does. You won't regret it.
Sometimes there is nothing you can do better , I went on a date with this girl she was just a very different person to me , we got on well , but our personalities were very different. We both found each other attractive, got on well.
But we just dint vibe , she was very loud and I’m more normal /quieter
Sometimes you can’t do anything better
But sometimes you can
What ever you do! Don’t change your self for someone!
Rejections forced me to stay to myself I got tired of it it forced me to hate my physical appearance . But I do have a 2004 Zo6 Corvette Blue
Fuck yes drive that shit every day
I saved a girl for being nearly hit by a cab on freshers week, walked her back to her dorm making sure she be ok since she was a state. As I was about to leave she asks me to take her for dinner. Took her for dinner spent 80 pounds, never said thank you and was just...she didn't talk much...We made out in the end and following week blows me off not even wanting to be friends...Found out shortly after she was now dating a 17 year old dweeby British boy and she's 19 over a built 23 year old Borneo Islander.... Baring in mind it was British ( women in that country defy the social order ) I don't know how to react lol...im split between how backwards that is / What the fuck is wrong with you...Weirdest rejection...
I got rejected by a girl who had a crush on me. what the heck?
I found the girl of my dreams but... She friendzoned me and doesn't see me in that sort of way n Im not her type
Just got the exact same thing happen to me. Hurts like a motherfucker and i don't know how i'm gonna get over this. But i know time will do its work, like it always does.
Wasn't the right girl okay after 1000 times how many girls then
Why do tears roll down my cheek whenever I think about it
a girl rejected me, I still love her , & after rejecting I talked like stupid
& Reminded her that I still love her , like saying my feelings on you are high , & again asked sorry , , .....
& talking about love ,,,, sometimes she ignores me now ,,, My mind is fucked up always thinking about & she too knows that .... ,
SHOULD I STOP SPEAKING WITH HER ?????
Vinaykumar p ..it's hard but yes ..u should show your higher value..believe me I went through this stuff ..if u still speaking to her u have low value...and end will be very bad... diverted it to your self improvement
for me its always fuck up in text. I have blown it with at least 15 hot girls with weak text game. I was master back in day with phone talk and a girl almost NVR got away but these young women nowadays only text. And I suck at it. I'm getting better but still blowing it.
No help sorry bro but this Duddnt make feel any better
Hello guys :D so as a girl, I really have no clue why I'm here tbh lol. And Ima be honest. Look. Any guy, that has the courage to maybe ask me for icecream, I would say yes. Honestly. For me, personally, it's the hair and personality that gets me. And here are some tips from an ACTUAL girl.
1. If I say no, I'm sorry it means no. I'd say the worst thing to do then is go on about how much I mean to someone. For instance, this boy I only liked as a friend asked me out, I said I'm sorry but I wasn't interested and please understand. He then started going on about how I was his "dream" woman and I was a sweet little "angel" and that creeped me tf out and if guessing you know I don't talk to him anymore.
2. Look guys. I'm sorry. But. Find someone to ask out (if you've known them) if your pretty for sure they like you back, for me, I was look at people in the eye when I like them I've noticed.
3. Being awkward is my job. Please don't be awkward. An awkward + awkward doesn't equal unawkward it means for me to get tf out of there.
4. Dress nice, well cleaned, hair nice, don't be trashy.
5. That's it. I guess :p
LPSPURPZ thanks
You know what I directly said to this girl that I liked her, she said that I'm a great person and so on, but no she doesn't like me the way I do so everything you said it's useless, just delete your comment.
Sincerely, A guy from a web page.
What about Hispanic woman and gold diggers
Girls don't really mean what they want
women I get.. I only want the one I loved but beep rejected she wanted only a friend T_T