Women who do this are insecure (which manifests itself as narcissism), so by toying with you, and stringing you along... it gives her a (twisted) sense of empowerment. Women like this are a basket case, and trust me and Tripp... avoid this women as if she had Ebola and CV19!!! She actually did you a favor by rejecting you. Move on to greener pastures, fellas.
James Ha Because those women who do reject those they love are not always “basket cases” or fucked up, and they may have valid reasons for doing so, such as they may be happier being alone and living their own life without them or they may have medical reasons or they recognized that the relationship wasn’t worth keeping in the long-run, etc. Those are all valid reasons for both sexes. If a man I loved didn’t want to commit to me and I genuinely loved them, I would let them go and if we decided to be just friends, that’s okay too. From my experience, at first I reluctantly rejected a man who was loving, faithful, encouraging, etc and whom I mutually felt the same and we both wanted to be together but now being away from him, and having taken off the rose-tinted horny glasses, I realize that the relationship had superificial problems that were not going away, even though we were willing to accept them but I realized I don’t have to follow that toxic superficiality. So I broke up with him and committed to moving on.
I followed this advice after I noticed her losing interest. I went no contact, and now she sent me a text after nearly 3 weeks. It was so hard for me to resist, but I succeeded in not responding to her. I feel so relieved now!
I feel you should at least tell her, your not going to settle for friendship. That is either relationship or nothing. In a way walking away with dignity. Am i wrong?
@@xaviergarces3125 not a t all. A woman has a right to reject and just want a friendship, a man has the right to not want that friendship. If you wanted to be friends with her, you wouldn't have told her you wanted a relationship. Good for you for walking away
Trip, really, thank you for all that you do for us men man. I'm 31 and still learning, bro Thank You and may God continue to bless you and your love one's...Thank You.
Depends. If you are a life’s loser or drug junkie then she probably is right. There are a LOT of weirdos and unfortunately MANY of them are guys. However if you are a normal person then you can apply what you said.
NEVER take friendship from a girl that rejected you. she only wants to keep you around for attention. You don’t give your non sexual attention for free. Cut her off & move onto the next girl, G.
@@user-ub8uc8gq7r that’s right I’m tired of giving girls my attention without anything in return. I rather be doing anything else important than hace my time wasted
Bro she cuddled with me and we made out and shit but still sees me as a friend and now she won't even attempt to have a full conversation with me anymore. She wanted to see me so much and talked to me every day...it happened so quickly but it all ended so fast. I'm so confused right now and I'm scared that I was nothing but a temporary source of attention. She was literally the only person that made me seek a relationship 😞
Short story !! Got rejected when I told her I liked her and still wanted me around. I truly hated the fact that she said maybe in the future which is literally just playing with me tbh then I decide to keep distance and starts to notice this and basically acts like I never told her my feelings towards her and thinks we can still talk as before. Again I needed space but she just kept nagging that it’s all good. Tbh this is toxic fellas because that girl will obviously start seeing other dudes. I missed a crucial sign before I revealed my feelings which was that she said I was her best friend and that she appreciated me for that. If a girl tells you this then you are hardcore in friend zone. Don’t waste your time lads. I also feel like I couldn’t be friends with her because she’s the type of girl that likes to receive compliments and ego boosted. She was clearly still trying to keep me around for that since she knew I liked her and she could literally ignore me if she wanted to and she would think that I would still chase her because in a sense she had the leverage. Find you someone who don’t play games and tell you “maybe in the future”
IF A GIRL REJECTED YOU, DELETE HER FROM YOUR LIFE. NO SUCH THING AS FRIENDS BETWEEN A MALE AND FEMALE. DO NOT ALLOW IT. ONLY GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT. ALSO, TRUST YOUR GUT! IF SHE ACTS INTERESTED THEN SHE IS INTERESTED BUT SHE WANTS ATTENTION ONLY! DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER.
Same story here.. I had this pretty woman who actually had a crush on me ( or what she said).. and the moment I gave her attention, we went out for couple of dates.. that were awesome.. it was frisky and fun.. and clearly romantic.. we made out many times ..we have been doing this for a year… I supported her in every aspect of life.. emotionally and financially. I was always there for her..and gradually what she felt for me started to fade way… she got cold and distant… made up excuses not to meet.. texted every now and then… and when I got distant, she would reconnect again..giving me vibes that she was still interested… but again she got distant and cold. And when I started to ignite feelings again.. she gave me we are only friends shit.. that was confusing as hell… I am sure there were many red flags I ignored because I loved her and cared for her.. she was sure manipulative.. and this was all my fault…I manned up.. and blocked her from all my social media..simply disappeared.. without any warnings.. But unfortunately I am still hurting
My neighbor who I had the hots for years. I actually got the courage to ask her out. She agreed to drinks with me and ended up giving me a fake number. So, I stopped pursuing her. I don't try to talk to her unless she initiates first. Hell, I have even tried finding other women to move on with. I highly doubt she is interested. But keeps trying to start conversations while I'm trying to create distance. I wondered if I should even ask about that fake number shit but I've just figured that it wouldn't matter. It'd be better if she weren't my neighbor.
Women who put guys into friendzone are usally very manipulative. She knows you are hurting,but she looks passed that becasue you give her all the attention and care without being any kind of a challenge. Is a summer breeze for her to let some steem off and get back into the action with guys she finds attractive. But,I can't see how those women can have healthy relationships even with the guys they do find attractive. At some point,they probably get manipulative with them also and seek some sort od drama. I've let a woman go twice beacue I realized she was WAY more into me than I was into her. I knew what was best for them,I've let them go instead of keeping them around untill I find somebody I'm actually attracted to.
If the “friends” thing isn’t mutual, and the guy wants her, walk away. I am sure that the friend thing is a selfish thing about the attention. So it’s just another form of friend-zoning. Not good enough!!!
i friendzoned a woman (which i enjoyed) for one and half year cuz her bodytype was not as per my liking.. she got a very handsome boyfriend and now she is friendzoning me... im in love with her
A, guy that I live near... &, I were "I thought" developing a friendship. &, I told him that I'm interested in him &, he gave me an Excuse as to Why he'd rather still be single 2+ years &, counting! For, me 4+ years &, ready to count My Life with The1. Anyways, he's acted as if we can still be Friends or, Like Nothing 💔 Transpired. Sooo... It , Can Go BOTH Ways! My, Advice to Me is to Remain True to Me in Ways That Feed Me❤️
I did go for it and was rejected for a date. She then said she wanted to hang out. I told her I don't want to be friends but she still texts me. Watching this I'm going to ignore her from now on.
You know what i find really annoying? after a girl at my work reject me when i ask her in a date, she is stil acting like she is intrest in me by always making the first move with talking to me. I am like just leave me alone i don,t want to talk to you i don,t want to be friends so look for someone else to talk😡 Can someone relate to my story?
Hi Tripp. Once this crisis has passed, what is a good jumping off point to get going in the dating world? I am over 40 and have never had a girlfriend. I am sure I’ve made every insecure/needy mistake there is, though I do think I am better with that. I also have anxiety about intimacy due to my lack of experience. It’s not that I can’t talk to women, but it never goes beyond casual friendship, and I don’t know how to make the transition to getting someone to see me as boyfriend material, or someone they would want to sleep with. What can I do to rewire my brain and improve my masculine instincts?
I don't think it's you. Most modern women are messed up. They want what they could never get. There really only one reason women go out with guys. Go buy a Porsche and find out. I meet women without money and it's a lot of work. Quite frankly, it ain't worth because you can't keep them anyway. You better get used to losing them because it's all about the bigger, better deal. Then once they have no options they come back, except now you no longer want them. That's life, women come and go.
in my case it turns out she had a guy and then later broke up with him. I had figured there was no point in talking to her after that so i didnt but she would always just stare and have a sad look on her etc. with her i never knew what was going on with the mixed signals
I'm in that situation, or rather was... Anyways, I went out on a date with a girl 6 years younger than me who admitted her crush on me. We probably stayed with each other for 2 weeks total and then she played some 'Religious difference' card to break up. She's in a relationship with a guy who's much taller than me (she was almost my height, by the way). We still texted on IG like normal after the breakup and after she got committed again, but one day, out of nowhere, she said, "I shouldn't have broken up with you. Religion don't matter at all." I said, "Just be loyal to your current partner" and got offline. We haven't texted in a while but exactly today, she sent me a funny meme. I kept it on read, never replied. It kinda falls into this category, so I wanted to know if what I did was right or wrong. Edit - Sorry for the long story. I couldn't make a more summarized version in my head as I typed.
@Aqib Aadeez I know, even before you said so, I felt really bad when she texted me. I absolutely will not get back with her. I have made standards for myself. Edit - Thanks for your response though. I feel kinda light!
@@TrippAdvice Like I posted, whether my decision to leave her on read was a good decision or not. And just like in the previous comment, I don't think I'll be able to have genuine feelings for her again. So I might even go on to block her altogether! I feel sad when I see her chat thread on Instagram. At this point, it might be wasted advice even if you suggest that I should text her, but I just want to know if my decision to ignore her is right or wrong.
this girl i am interested in, we had sex once along time ago. she told me she put me in the friend zone. she never told me the reason why. we haven't talked in years. she wants to firlt with me. she said she cares about me as a friend and loves me as a friend. she hardly talks to me or texts me once a month, sometimes twice. she acts like not a friend toward me. then she said she doesn't want to be rude. shen doesn't talk to me much. cause it alot and she been busy alot. i told her how i felt and this whole time i haven't tried to be a friend or anything like that to her.
Exactly. When you get this kind of treatment from a chick, it means you are firmly in her friend zone. She knows that you like her but to her, you are pretty much like a brother. She does this to get your free attention and validation. You are an ego boost, a back-up plan when nothing else better is around.
I was in this situation for about 2 months... She kept stringing me along, while telling me she likes me, and evading any advances I make... Good news. I cut her off today.
@Kal Judah yo! She kept hitting me up after a few months and trying to come back into my life, at first I gave her a chance and had a few conversations just to hear her out. But her agenda was thesame so I distanced myself again... She been trying to get my attention ever since but I'm done with her fam. I don't even feel the slightest need to re-connect anymore.
This isn't something I came up with on my own. But, it is something I've used when a woman is starting to steer a relationship towards the friendship cliff. The quickest way to get someone's attention is by removing yours. If she's becoming a friend and you want more, then move on to someone who wants what you want. In my experience she'll either be happy you found someone or she'll make a move
happy to say i just let this one girl go 2 months ago.. we were talking and she rejected me saying she is working on herself and doesnt want anything. long story short we kept hanging out my stupid ass thinking she will one day fall for me like the movies lol. anyway we stopped talking for like 2 months then she hits me up and we started to chat again. come to find out she met and starting seeing some other guy who broke her heart again lol...funny coz she had just told me she not looking for anything.. happy to say as soon as i found out i had to red pill myself and i told her to stop contacting me
Thanks for this. It happened years ago but I still find myself thinking about it and questioning if it was the right thing to cut off all contact. I made the right decision.
Today after being in the friend zone for 1.5years. I took the decision to move on. I said I totally stopped making a fool of myself. It took me very long to realize but you don't need to worry anymore. I am letting you go for your desired person. Wish you best of luck. She replied ok Okk. Enough manipulation enough emotional turmoils. Why again n again asking me to be her friend after rejected me very hard.
Same here! I'm a 30s single guy and I don't have a woman being just my friend in my vocabulary, I'm already trying to figure out if I want her as my girlfriend then one day wife! I don't need anymore time wasted, had enough of that in my 20s! The friendzone can get stuffed!
She Pursued me ... took her on a date she expressed how no one was ever made her nervous that im so sexy kissing hugging i visit her at work kissing hugging told me so much to talk about getting to know each other flirty dirty talk then pulled back ...... i did the same for a day didnt say good night then she texted a bit more i visited her yesterday kissed hugged grabbed she said text me i didn't i want to hang out more. Not another man because she posted a gift i gave her ..... never experienced this. Said shes so drawn to me. Stands me up when she says shes coming by says shes tired or oh tomorrow . Weird
I actually disagree with all the recommendations to cut her off. Just out her in your friend zone and build a big group of friends, throw parties, go on trips , and someday, after she sees you date other girls, then she might come around
Dear Tripp, thanks for the lessons man..... I feel that you made this video for me.... You've shown me the path and a perfect plan to set up... Thank you so much man. Love U
I was rejected by a girl, who attends the same dance school. I see her at least once a week on a dance party in the school. She didn't say she wants to be friends, but it is what she meant with her rejection. I don't want to be in her friendzone, but I want that both of us feel themselves comfortable. I don't know what to do. Ignoring her is stupid. Dancing with her means be friend-zoned. I don't attend parties anymore, but I don't want to do it for ever.
There are some women, usually still school or college age, that are very much in the belief that she can be "friends" with guys who she knows like her as more than a friend, because in her mind, she was "clear" with you that she was not interested that way and if you keep trying to hang with her, that is cool with her because she was "clear" and that is kind of "your" problem. After age 25 or so women kind of learn not to do this as it does not work and the guy gets frustrated and causes drama for her because you like her and trying to be buddies with a guy who is interested in her does not work. After 25 if they still do this, they are lonely or asexual but want the companionship without sex, but will kind of hint at it to keep you hooked as a companion. She wants someone to text, call and be in her life so she can go out and have fun and do vacations, etc.., but does not want the sexual part. This happens because they do not like sex but their GF's and even family members her own age are all getting married so she has no one to go out with and she knows that she kind of needs to hint at sex to get a guy to basically waste his time with her. It sucks but it is true.
your logic is way too black and white IMO. IDK where did you get that 25 age but whatever, I know many cases which are totally different from what you described. Not all guys search for sex, some prefer true friends, not fwb.
Bro you literally just descriped a 2 and a half month phase I had with this girl. That is exactly what she was doing, in person she would not respond to my advances, but then send sexy snapchats my way. She would want to hang out all the time, making her more available than even I was. We were planning a twi day vacation together, she flaked last minute which caused me to tell her how I feel and leave the situation for good. I felt like she was stringing me along this whole time, never intending on giving me anything. I know this girl from my hometown, she moved away from there into the big city where I live to start a new life basically. I have been here for a few years so I could show her a good time and entertain her and make her laugh. So obviously she likes me but wasn‘t planning on anything sexual, everytime she pulled some move she kept pulling me in with flirty texts or snapchats to keep me interested. Funny enough she is almost 29 and her sister is already married with kids, while she doesn‘t seem to have three friends in this big city. Kind of a sad situation, but basically exactly what you described
One of the most annoying things they'll do is when I stop showing attention and try to communicate with another woman. They'll do things like hang out on my arm and get in the way of me meeting someone else.
The thing for me is this; She rejected me, but afterwards started giving me weird looks, I also still do the same to her. I feel like she’s only looking at me because she feels like I’m still into her and she’s just worried in some way about it. But for some reason I can’t stop telling myself that she is interested in me. I feel like an idiot whenever I realize myself midway through these thoughts and am trying to move on. Whatever happens, I could use some prayers.
What if it's the other way round? She never rejected me but never acted interested neither. We went on a few dates, made out, and everything was fine but I never felt that she was interested in me at all and everything that happened was because I made it happen, not because she had any intentions of it happening.
I had a call who called me several times over a 4 year period during my high school/ college years, and everytime I asked her out she'd say she had a boyfriend but she wanted to be friends. I'd stop calling or responding to her, and then after a long time she'd come out of the woodwork again and she'd call me.
How long should you wait till you get physical I tried it on first and second dates and she said I'm too fast and we just met after I tried to go for kiss or even hold hands
Superman bro. she'll tell you yall moving too fast. she'll tell me we're not moving fast enough, man let her go, on to the next one, Trip being nice to you, Trip knows dam well a woman that really likes you will give it up the 1st or 2nd date with you.
This is not someone can considering it "Tripp said that" ,ok that it is. Any situation is different and any guy is different.There are a lot of factors that playing role in "relation" man to women. Move on it's bad advice Tripp to give to someone who starts now learn the basics.Move on is when you know that this girl is uninterested in you in 100%.If you move on from that girl and she is interested in you then maybe you can't get back. It's not good to move on when you just say I will move on from my "feeling" cause Tripp said that so it is that,no,you must try learn about what she feels and then you can move on. Otherwise,you will regret it that you move on. It's signs -it's not 100% that those things apply to you guys.
At that point, she sees you as a friend, and you are in the friend-zone. If you were me, I would completely “no-contact” this girl and pretend she didn’t exist. Another thing you could do is after not speaking to her for a while, you could try sparking sexual attraction in her, but honestly that’s the best that can happen.
What to do with our female friends? Get rid of them? I have many attractive female friends, but I find it very difficult to be around them. The sexual desire is so strong. Yet, I don't want to give up on them, they are good friends.
I know it's hard dude. But you need to see the bigger picture. If they don't like you, move on. It's really painful to know that you are not loved, SO YOU HAVE TO LET IT GO. The more time you spend with these women the more heartbroken you will feel. Trust me, I know..
Same here, I had this one girl... man she looked okay. but the body of a goddess, had a phat azz too, but anyways. We were close, met her whole family. even her bf that I knew she really didnt like, so I thought, I'll be her friend until they break up and shit, well long story short. I told her how I felt, she didn't fell the same, after 5 years of being best friends, now we don't talk at all, it hurts losing her, but but but, I rather it hurt than to suffer seeing her with men and not me, especially when you know you'll treat her way better, they not your true friends bro, you're dead to then when they find a man they really really like..
Men and women are fundamentally different in that regard like it or not. A man will always see a close friend that he's comfortable with as a romantic interest, any other answer is a lie. They might not act on those feelings because maybe they're already in a relationship or they know they will be rejected. Women on the other hand can, they can have a very close male friend who they only perceive as a friend with 0 interest romantically. Please realize this and move on with your life, either distant yourself from them to where it doesn't hurt anymore or accept that fact and don't anticipate anything
I ain't ugly, I ain't broke and I'm over 6'1". Women are just not interested, many have said I'm too nice then they go and get with someone fresh out of jail SMH
Hey @Tripp, nice video ..but i need some advice here. So i told this girl(co-worker) that i like her and she told me she never thought i saw her like that and that we had a different vibe in office (before covid-19) and now she is confused why am i suddenly interested in her. So we had some conversation i jokingly said maybe i will ask her out someday...and she replied we will see.. So not really sure what to do..i am confused by this...a little advice here please..
I’m just so tired of this girl, she rejected me cuz she wasn’t ready for a relationship, I pursued her and decided to quit when I realized that she didn’t know what she wants, so I told her I wanted to leave. She wanted to be friends but she ended up going back to her last guy. Now she re-added me on fb and I confronted her why? She still tells me that she still wants to be friends and she’s with the dude now. What am I? A backup plan?! I’m so exhausted, what a waste of time.
I've been in this situation for 4 long years man. Today when she was spitting bs about how she likes me as a friend and how she admires me a person,I finally cut her off and made my strong statement of not be friends anymore and that i need to move on..all this toxicity is not worth it fellas.. run,save yourself.. go see someone who's genuinely interested in you.
I think she’s playing the game with me to be fair. Spoke for a few month, slept together a few times, all over me when we meet up. She’s ever blunt in messages though and left me on read until the next day and said I thought I replied, you would know if you replied 😂 she asked me to go for drinks again though...I’m confused as I know I’m not in the friend zone but at the same time it’s like she’s totally different when texting to in person.
If she rejected you after you cheated & you wont even try to say sorry or show you understand her feelings....think ,is it her that really dumped you ??Dont be insecure after you caused her hurt! You are playing the victim when you are perpetrator. Fight for her love if she is hurting
I have a pretty same situation tho. Met a girl, two dates, went really great I knew she wanted me, so we nearly had sex on second date, we planned for a 3rd date and on the d day she decided to stop and say no, I have a lot of problems, no stability right now, don't want that. I was hum okay weird because I wasn't feeling that from you and stopped to text. But since that moment, she keeps texting me, not close as before but still when I don't text her for a long moment, she comes back to ask or talk even with a weird message but just to hear from me. I really feel like she likes me but something is blocking something lol, I guess she is with a dude on the end of a relationship or she is just loco 😅
What is this going on about?. First he says you’ve had sex a couple of time & then he says she just likes you as just a friend. Two contradictory statements
This is good but its better to seduce without verbally asking. You can do this gradually so its comfortable for both of you. She will either go along with it or not. If its no its no. If you verbally ask permission it kills the mood and make you seem unconfident.
This girl I’ve been somewhat seeing for the past 5 months still kisses/makes out w me before leaving, introduced me to her family and friends yet will drop hints about being single and not wanting a relationship, I’m confused af
You need to find other, better women. Ones that are not so wishy washy. Improve yourself, and you will attract better women. It will also make you spoiled for choices.
I just want a relationship I have no time for dead end friendships. I'm dealing with this now and about to cut the bitch off. I'm probably too nice of a person to be loved
I know this is to help move forward, and for a large portion of the time, this advise is spot on. However, there those times where it is a combination of reasons, politeness, wants the attention, missed opportunities, all that. The nuances are what drives us men, typically linear thinkers, to frustration then desperation to rejection which perpetuates the cycle. Physical intimacy is not the only tell-tale sign of interest, though it is usually a good one. To some women sex can be seen as a favor for a friend and lack true intimacy. You are still just a friend, but you did get your rocks off. This stuff is complicated, even in the best of times, but buck up Gents. Faint heart never won the fair lady.
She rejected me when we first met but I still saw her a lot so we developed a friendship and she seems to like me more so I am going to ask her out again something innocent like out to breakfast after Church. Hopefully she's learned more about me and will say yes. I'm not overly optimistic but I have to know. If she says no all future contact will have to come from her.
*Stop caring for people who don't care about you. Stop being a psychological/emotional test dummy for women.*
Then again, Jesus said to love even your enemies.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer."
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 yeah. and how did that work out for him..
So true
Using her games as an educational tool. Practise makes perfect.
Women who do this are insecure (which manifests itself as narcissism), so by toying with you, and stringing you along... it gives her a (twisted) sense of empowerment. Women like this are a basket case, and trust me and Tripp... avoid this women as if she had Ebola and CV19!!! She actually did you a favor by rejecting you. Move on to greener pastures, fellas.
Scott Dunn Their INSECURE AF*
Half correct.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 what's the other half?
Perfect answer. This is exactly what I was going to post, but you hit the nail right on the head.
James Ha Because those women who do reject those they love are not always “basket cases” or fucked up, and they may have valid reasons for doing so, such as they may be happier being alone and living their own life without them or they may have medical reasons or they recognized that the relationship wasn’t worth keeping in the long-run, etc. Those are all valid reasons for both sexes. If a man I loved didn’t want to commit to me and I genuinely loved them, I would let them go and if we decided to be just friends, that’s okay too. From my experience, at first I reluctantly rejected a man who was loving, faithful, encouraging, etc and whom I mutually felt the same and we both wanted to be together but now being away from him, and having taken off the rose-tinted horny glasses, I realize that the relationship had superificial problems that were not going away, even though we were willing to accept them but I realized I don’t have to follow that toxic superficiality. So I broke up with him and committed to moving on.
I followed this advice after I noticed her losing interest. I went no contact, and now she sent me a text after nearly 3 weeks. It was so hard for me to resist, but I succeeded in not responding to her. I feel so relieved now!
Don't tell her that you're relieved
good for you
Keep your dignity and status by walking away and never looking back, no goodbye's, just walk, be the man
Be the man that walks away from a building blowing up like you didn't 😉
I'm a woman and that's what I did. It made me confident in myself and more attractive in the eyes of others.
I feel you should at least tell her, your not going to settle for friendship. That is either relationship or nothing. In a way walking away with dignity. Am i wrong?
@@xaviergarces3125 walk away not need to turn around
@@xaviergarces3125 not a t all. A woman has a right to reject and just want a friendship, a man has the right to not want that friendship. If you wanted to be friends with her, you wouldn't have told her you wanted a relationship. Good for you for walking away
Trip, really, thank you for all that you do for us men man. I'm 31 and still learning, bro Thank You and may God continue to bless you and your love one's...Thank You.
Never take back a woman that rejects you
You got that right 100% If you do, you're setting yourself up to get rejected again.
Depends. If you are a life’s loser or drug junkie then she probably is right. There are a LOT of weirdos and unfortunately MANY of them are guys.
However if you are a normal person then you can apply what you said.
@@CalculonTV Of course
She says she likes me but rejected my advances and wanted to keep me as a bestfriend. I don't have the energy for that.
Then you did her a favor by helping her move on from you, so she can find either God or find a wise and humble honest man.
NEVER take friendship from a girl that rejected you. she only wants to keep you around for attention. You don’t give your non sexual attention for free. Cut her off & move onto the next girl, G.
@@user-ub8uc8gq7r that’s right I’m tired of giving girls my attention without anything in return. I rather be doing anything else important than hace my time wasted
Bro she cuddled with me and we made out and shit but still sees me as a friend and now she won't even attempt to have a full conversation with me anymore. She wanted to see me so much and talked to me every day...it happened so quickly but it all ended so fast. I'm so confused right now and I'm scared that I was nothing but a temporary source of attention. She was literally the only person that made me seek a relationship 😞
I'm 3 months late, but sounds like you were too available and not much of a challenge. Take it on the chin and move on brother.
Same bro literally exact same deal 😔
She found a better option and was too immature and cowardly to tell you.
Same thing as me. I feel you man
@Shinsei: @ least u got to make out. I've been the victim of female narcissism WITHOUT that
Short story !! Got rejected when I told her I liked her and still wanted me around. I truly hated the fact that she said maybe in the future which is literally just playing with me tbh then I decide to keep distance and starts to notice this and basically acts like I never told her my feelings towards her and thinks we can still talk as before. Again I needed space but she just kept nagging that it’s all good. Tbh this is toxic fellas because that girl will obviously start seeing other dudes. I missed a crucial sign before I revealed my feelings which was that she said I was her best friend and that she appreciated me for that. If a girl tells you this then you are hardcore in friend zone. Don’t waste your time lads. I also feel like I couldn’t be friends with her because she’s the type of girl that likes to receive compliments and ego boosted. She was clearly still trying to keep me around for that since she knew I liked her and she could literally ignore me if she wanted to and she would think that I would still chase her because in a sense she had the leverage. Find you someone who don’t play games and tell you “maybe in the future”
IF A GIRL REJECTED YOU, DELETE HER FROM YOUR LIFE. NO SUCH THING AS FRIENDS BETWEEN A MALE AND FEMALE. DO NOT ALLOW IT. ONLY GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT. ALSO, TRUST YOUR GUT! IF SHE ACTS INTERESTED THEN SHE IS INTERESTED BUT SHE WANTS ATTENTION ONLY! DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER.
Same story here..
I had this pretty woman who actually had a crush on me ( or what she said).. and the moment I gave her attention, we went out for couple of dates.. that were awesome.. it was frisky and fun.. and clearly romantic.. we made out many times ..we have been doing this for a year… I supported her in every aspect of life.. emotionally and financially. I was always there for her..and gradually what she felt for me started to fade way… she got cold and distant… made up excuses not to meet.. texted every now and then… and when I got distant, she would reconnect again..giving me vibes that she was still interested… but again she got distant and cold. And when I started to ignite feelings again.. she gave me we are only friends shit.. that was confusing as hell… I am sure there were many red flags I ignored because I loved her and cared for her.. she was sure manipulative.. and this was all my fault…I manned up.. and blocked her from all my social media..simply disappeared.. without any warnings..
But unfortunately I am still hurting
My man you are not alone I'm going through the same stuff,are you feeling any better now though?
Unfortunately not
But I have nothing else to do ..
@@ahmedelkhatib1036 we will get better bro trust me🙏💪
She still texting me, but I am not gonna reply... No looking back.
My neighbor who I had the hots for years. I actually got the courage to ask her out. She agreed to drinks with me and ended up giving me a fake number. So, I stopped pursuing her. I don't try to talk to her unless she initiates first. Hell, I have even tried finding other women to move on with.
I highly doubt she is interested. But keeps trying to start conversations while I'm trying to create distance.
I wondered if I should even ask about that fake number shit but I've just figured that it wouldn't matter. It'd be better if she weren't my neighbor.
I've had this girl who gave me all signs she rejected me after 3 months later she got a bf 3 years later still not over it
Women who put guys into friendzone are usally very manipulative. She knows you are hurting,but she looks passed that becasue you give her all the attention and care without being any kind of a challenge. Is a summer breeze for her to let some steem off and get back into the action with guys she finds attractive. But,I can't see how those women can have healthy relationships even with the guys they do find attractive. At some point,they probably get manipulative with them also and seek some sort od drama. I've let a woman go twice beacue I realized she was WAY more into me than I was into her. I knew what was best for them,I've let them go instead of keeping them around untill I find somebody I'm actually attracted to.
If the “friends” thing isn’t mutual, and the guy wants her, walk away. I am sure that the friend thing is a selfish thing about the attention.
So it’s just another form of friend-zoning. Not good enough!!!
i friendzoned a woman (which i enjoyed) for one and half year cuz her bodytype was not as per my liking.. she got a very handsome boyfriend and now she is friendzoning me... im in love with her
3 simple words to avoid all these pointless games gentlemen. Go monk mode.
A, guy that I live near... &, I were "I thought" developing a friendship. &, I told him that I'm interested in him &, he gave me an Excuse as to Why he'd rather still be single 2+ years &, counting! For, me 4+ years &, ready to count My Life with The1. Anyways, he's acted as if we can still be Friends or, Like Nothing 💔 Transpired. Sooo... It , Can Go BOTH Ways! My, Advice to Me is to Remain True to Me in Ways That Feed Me❤️
I did go for it and was rejected for a date. She then said she wanted to hang out. I told her I don't want to be friends but she still texts me. Watching this I'm going to ignore her from now on.
You are very good, brilliantly simple factual realistic views.
You know what i find really annoying? after a girl at my work reject me when i ask her in a date, she is stil acting like she is intrest in me by always making the first move with talking to me.
I am like just leave me alone i don,t want to talk to you i don,t want to be friends so look for someone else to talk😡
Can someone relate to my story?
Thanks very helpful Top Man 👍
Great advice
My court hearing is after quarantine
Hi Tripp. Once this crisis has passed, what is a good jumping off point to get going in the dating world? I am over 40 and have never had a girlfriend. I am sure I’ve made every insecure/needy mistake there is, though I do think I am better with that. I also have anxiety about intimacy due to my lack of experience. It’s not that I can’t talk to women, but it never goes beyond casual friendship, and I don’t know how to make the transition to getting someone to see me as boyfriend material, or someone they would want to sleep with. What can I do to rewire my brain and improve my masculine instincts?
Dude at your age, dont worry about girlfriends, and never a wife. Just go meet women, have fun, have sex, no commitments. Done.
I don't think it's you. Most modern women are messed up. They want what they could never get. There really only one reason women go out with guys. Go buy a Porsche and find out. I meet women without money and it's a lot of work. Quite frankly, it ain't worth because you can't keep them anyway. You better get used to losing them because it's all about the bigger, better deal. Then once they have no options they come back, except now you no longer want them. That's life, women come and go.
And I approve this message.
Mine is new .Im building it up slow so she thinks it’s not just to get laid
If she kiss u but want to be friends still what that mean ?
You deserve a million 😁
It worked 😂
in my case it turns out she had a guy and then later broke up with him. I had figured there was no point in talking to her after that so i didnt but she would always just stare and have a sad look on her etc. with her i never knew what was going on with the mixed signals
Better don't involve with someone when there's an ex in the back
This video is basically talking about women who play men
I'm in that situation, or rather was... Anyways, I went out on a date with a girl 6 years younger than me who admitted her crush on me. We probably stayed with each other for 2 weeks total and then she played some 'Religious difference' card to break up. She's in a relationship with a guy who's much taller than me (she was almost my height, by the way). We still texted on IG like normal after the breakup and after she got committed again, but one day, out of nowhere, she said, "I shouldn't have broken up with you. Religion don't matter at all." I said, "Just be loyal to your current partner" and got offline. We haven't texted in a while but exactly today, she sent me a funny meme. I kept it on read, never replied.
It kinda falls into this category, so I wanted to know if what I did was right or wrong.
Edit - Sorry for the long story. I couldn't make a more summarized version in my head as I typed.
What's the question?
@Aqib Aadeez I know, even before you said so, I felt really bad when she texted me. I absolutely will not get back with her. I have made standards for myself.
Edit - Thanks for your response though. I feel kinda light!
@@TrippAdvice Like I posted, whether my decision to leave her on read was a good decision or not. And just like in the previous comment, I don't think I'll be able to have genuine feelings for her again. So I might even go on to block her altogether! I feel sad when I see her chat thread on Instagram.
At this point, it might be wasted advice even if you suggest that I should text her, but I just want to know if my decision to ignore her is right or wrong.
But does she like the friendship? Or the attention you give her? That’s my question…
Yeah
I hope a lot of women who get off on rejecting men grow old and ugly unwanted and suffer in some seniors home one day alone
this girl i am interested in, we had sex once along time ago. she told me she put me in the friend zone. she never told me the reason why. we haven't talked in years. she wants to firlt with me. she said she cares about me as a friend and loves me as a friend. she hardly talks to me or texts me once a month, sometimes twice. she acts like not a friend toward me. then she said she doesn't want to be rude. shen doesn't talk to me much. cause it alot and she been busy alot. i told her how i felt and this whole time i haven't tried to be a friend or anything like that to her.
Forget all that just get escort no games involve
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Fix your hairline bro lol
Nah
Exactly. When you get this kind of treatment from a chick, it means you are firmly in her friend zone. She knows that you like her but to her, you are pretty much like a brother. She does this to get your free attention and validation. You are an ego boost, a back-up plan when nothing else better is around.
Very true
True bro, I almost didn't believe it when I read your post
No matter how much she sees me as a backup plan, I do NOT tolerate being in a threesome!
Exactly, in my opinion she’s not worth being a friend too, that type of energy is toxic
Thank you
I was in this situation for about 2 months... She kept stringing me along, while telling me she likes me, and evading any advances I make... Good news. I cut her off today.
Mark Audu 👌 Proud of you. Forget her!
@@TomFox1 🙂💪🏿
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@suny123boy1 some people just want to keep you around for Thier own selfish reasons and will say whatever just to keep you. That's what I learned!
@Kal Judah yo! She kept hitting me up after a few months and trying to come back into my life, at first I gave her a chance and had a few conversations just to hear her out. But her agenda was thesame so I distanced myself again... She been trying to get my attention ever since but I'm done with her fam. I don't even feel the slightest need to re-connect anymore.
Why are you still talking to a girl who rejected you?
Sadly, Beta Orbiters. They are still hooked on the idea of Hope as in maybe she'll change her mind.
@@NNWillieProject exactly
@@NNWillieProject there is no hope to hoping is giving up , never waste your time hoping shell change her mind
School or work
Bcz she is a very good friend and at this point of time i really have very less friends
She's friendzoning you. Ghost her.
This isn't something I came up with on my own. But, it is something I've used when a woman is starting to steer a relationship towards the friendship cliff. The quickest way to get someone's attention is by removing yours. If she's becoming a friend and you want more, then move on to someone who wants what you want. In my experience she'll either be happy you found someone or she'll make a move
Your comment made my day
Yeah okay "corey wayne" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 we believe you! 🤣🤣🤣
who's watching this in quarantine?... say I
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The whole world bro
I
happy to say i just let this one girl go 2 months ago.. we were talking and she rejected me saying she is working on herself and doesnt want anything. long story short we kept hanging out my stupid ass thinking she will one day fall for me like the movies lol. anyway we stopped talking for like 2 months then she hits me up and we started to chat again. come to find out she met and starting seeing some other guy who broke her heart again lol...funny coz she had just told me she not looking for anything.. happy to say as soon as i found out i had to red pill myself and i told her to stop contacting me
She just wants attention she doesn't want love
Thanks for this. It happened years ago but I still find myself thinking about it and questioning if it was the right thing to cut off all contact. I made the right decision.
Sounds like a Attention Hor!
When you are in doubt, there is no doubt
Today after being in the friend zone for 1.5years. I took the decision to move on.
I said I totally stopped making a fool of myself. It took me very long to realize but you don't need to worry anymore. I am letting you go for your desired person. Wish you best of luck.
She replied ok
Okk. Enough manipulation enough emotional turmoils. Why again n again asking me to be her friend after rejected me very hard.
For me there is no such thing is friends with any woman
Same here! I'm a 30s single guy and I don't have a woman being just my friend in my vocabulary, I'm already trying to figure out if I want her as my girlfriend then one day wife! I don't need anymore time wasted, had enough of that in my 20s! The friendzone can get stuffed!
She Pursued me ... took her on a date she expressed how no one was ever made her nervous that im so sexy kissing hugging i visit her at work kissing hugging told me so much to talk about getting to know each other flirty dirty talk then pulled back ...... i did the same for a day didnt say good night then she texted a bit more i visited her yesterday kissed hugged grabbed she said text me i didn't i want to hang out more. Not another man because she posted a gift i gave her ..... never experienced this. Said shes so drawn to me. Stands me up when she says shes coming by says shes tired or oh tomorrow . Weird
I actually disagree with all the recommendations to cut her off. Just out her in your friend zone and build a big group of friends, throw parties, go on trips , and someday, after she sees you date other girls, then she might come around
why would you wANT HER to come around if you gonna be already seeing/dating other girls ?
Dear Tripp, thanks for the lessons man..... I feel that you made this video for me.... You've shown me the path and a perfect plan to set up... Thank you so much man. Love U
I was rejected by a girl, who attends the same dance school. I see her at least once a week on a dance party in the school. She didn't say she wants to be friends, but it is what she meant with her rejection. I don't want to be in her friendzone, but I want that both of us feel themselves comfortable. I don't know what to do. Ignoring her is stupid. Dancing with her means be friend-zoned. I don't attend parties anymore, but I don't want to do it for ever.
There are some women, usually still school or college age, that are very much in the belief that she can be "friends" with guys who she knows like her as more than a friend, because in her mind, she was "clear" with you that she was not interested that way and if you keep trying to hang with her, that is cool with her because she was "clear" and that is kind of "your" problem. After age 25 or so women kind of learn not to do this as it does not work and the guy gets frustrated and causes drama for her because you like her and trying to be buddies with a guy who is interested in her does not work.
After 25 if they still do this, they are lonely or asexual but want the companionship without sex, but will kind of hint at it to keep you hooked as a companion. She wants someone to text, call and be in her life so she can go out and have fun and do vacations, etc.., but does not want the sexual part. This happens because they do not like sex but their GF's and even family members her own age are all getting married so she has no one to go out with and she knows that she kind of needs to hint at sex to get a guy to basically waste his time with her. It sucks but it is true.
your logic is way too black and white IMO. IDK where did you get that 25 age but whatever, I know many cases which are totally different from what you described. Not all guys search for sex, some prefer true friends, not fwb.
Bro you literally just descriped a 2 and a half month phase I had with this girl. That is exactly what she was doing, in person she would not respond to my advances, but then send sexy snapchats my way. She would want to hang out all the time, making her more available than even I was. We were planning a twi day vacation together, she flaked last minute which caused me to tell her how I feel and leave the situation for good. I felt like she was stringing me along this whole time, never intending on giving me anything. I know this girl from my hometown, she moved away from there into the big city where I live to start a new life basically. I have been here for a few years so I could show her a good time and entertain her and make her laugh. So obviously she likes me but wasn‘t planning on anything sexual, everytime she pulled some move she kept pulling me in with flirty texts or snapchats to keep me interested.
Funny enough she is almost 29 and her sister is already married with kids, while she doesn‘t seem to have three friends in this big city. Kind of a sad situation, but basically exactly what you described
Tripp,
Your wisdom gives me calm, Thanks, I wish you the best bro.
friendzone
Am still stuck on the "How to talk to women phase"
THIS IS WHY YOU NEVER DATE OR MARRY A COWORKER. Been thru this in school and can't imagine going thru this at my workplace
True, never mix business with pleasure.
TRUTH 🔥DRAMA...Not good for your purpose and life, drop her, no time to waste, big love from another youtuber🔥❤🔥 STAY AHEAD
One of the most annoying things they'll do is when I stop showing attention and try to communicate with another woman. They'll do things like hang out on my arm and get in the way of me meeting someone else.
Attention and validation.
The thing for me is this;
She rejected me, but afterwards started giving me weird looks, I also still do the same to her. I feel like she’s only looking at me because she feels like I’m still into her and she’s just worried in some way about it. But for some reason I can’t stop telling myself that she is interested in me.
I feel like an idiot whenever I realize myself midway through these thoughts and am trying to move on. Whatever happens, I could use some prayers.
How is it man
How it ended bro?
Using you for your resources and attention, walk away.
Fllip around.Get another girl.Then make the friend your friend.Dont answer her calls.When you do answer tell her bout the other girl! This works.
I like how calm you are when shooting this videos, got me paying attention to your content. and found that your videos are very useful.
Thanks man
What if it's the other way round? She never rejected me but never acted interested neither. We went on a few dates, made out, and everything was fine but I never felt that she was interested in me at all and everything that happened was because I made it happen, not because she had any intentions of it happening.
Give it more time. If you don't like it just walk away
This has happened to me a couple of times, they try and get back on talking terms with me but i just shut them out
I had a call who called me several times over a 4 year period during my high school/ college years, and everytime I asked her out she'd say she had a boyfriend but she wanted to be friends. I'd stop calling or responding to her, and then after a long time she'd come out of the woodwork again and she'd call me.
How long should you wait till you get physical
I tried it on first and second dates and she said I'm too fast and we just met after I tried to go for kiss or even hold hands
You can keep trying but if you're not liking what's happening you can move on.
Superman bro. she'll tell you yall moving too fast. she'll tell me we're not moving fast enough, man let her go, on to the next one, Trip being nice to you, Trip knows dam well a woman that really likes you will give it up the 1st or 2nd date with you.
She said she wishes she never met me. Shes totally in to me dude
This is not someone can considering it "Tripp said that" ,ok that it is. Any situation is different and any guy is different.There are a lot of factors that playing role in "relation" man to women. Move on it's bad advice Tripp to give to someone who starts now learn the basics.Move on is when you know that this girl is uninterested in you in 100%.If you move on from that girl and she is interested in you then maybe you can't get back.
It's not good to move on when you just say I will move on from my "feeling" cause Tripp said that so it is that,no,you must try learn about what she feels and then you can move on. Otherwise,you will regret it that you move on. It's signs -it's not 100% that those things apply to you guys.
She always staring at me but when I gave her my number she said no.
This happened to me also.
@qzny0s angry at me or just in general
@qzny0s Neurotic females just make me fucking laugh...man.
TO COMPLICATED....I'LL GET A DOG / CAT
got rejected as well few weeks ago..., i used to be the guy next door ,i didnt took it too serious , ...now i am ukraine veteran
why?
No big secret or mystery.
Women just want to have
their cake and eat it, too.
Is it possible for a guy to get out of that situation? I have never seen it personally but nothing is impossible in this world bow. Thoughts???????
At that point, she sees you as a friend, and you are in the friend-zone. If you were me, I would completely “no-contact” this girl and pretend she didn’t exist. Another thing you could do is after not speaking to her for a while, you could try sparking sexual attraction in her, but honestly that’s the best that can happen.
@@kartikrayavarapu2044 If she contacts you,ask her to come over for s*x.Anything other than a yes =no.Then you block her.
What to do with our female friends? Get rid of them? I have many attractive female friends, but I find it very difficult to be around them. The sexual desire is so strong. Yet, I don't want to give up on them, they are good friends.
I know it's hard dude. But you need to see the bigger picture. If they don't like you, move on. It's really painful to know that you are not loved, SO YOU HAVE TO LET IT GO. The more time you spend with these women the more heartbroken you will feel.
Trust me, I know..
Same here, I had this one girl... man she looked okay. but the body of a goddess, had a phat azz too, but anyways. We were close, met her whole family. even her bf that I knew she really didnt like, so I thought, I'll be her friend until they break up and shit, well long story short. I told her how I felt, she didn't fell the same, after 5 years of being best friends, now we don't talk at all, it hurts losing her, but but but, I rather it hurt than to suffer seeing her with men and not me, especially when you know you'll treat her way better, they not your true friends bro, you're dead to then when they find a man they really really like..
Men and women are fundamentally different in that regard like it or not. A man will always see a close friend that he's comfortable with as a romantic interest, any other answer is a lie. They might not act on those feelings because maybe they're already in a relationship or they know they will be rejected. Women on the other hand can, they can have a very close male friend who they only perceive as a friend with 0 interest romantically.
Please realize this and move on with your life, either distant yourself from them to where it doesn't hurt anymore or accept that fact and don't anticipate anything
I ain't ugly, I ain't broke and I'm over 6'1". Women are just not interested, many have said I'm too nice then they go and get with someone fresh out of jail SMH
A lot of women are just weirdos. They fantasy about having six with vampire, werewolf and pirates... just ignore them all for good!
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Hey @Tripp, nice video ..but i need some advice here. So i told this girl(co-worker) that i like her and she told me she never thought i saw her like that and that we had a different vibe in office (before covid-19) and now she is confused why am i suddenly interested in her.
So we had some conversation i jokingly said maybe i will ask her out someday...and she replied we will see..
So not really sure what to do..i am confused by this...a little advice here please..
I’m just so tired of this girl, she rejected me cuz she wasn’t ready for a relationship, I pursued her and decided to quit when I realized that she didn’t know what she wants, so I told her I wanted to leave. She wanted to be friends but she ended up going back to her last guy. Now she re-added me on fb and I confronted her why? She still tells me that she still wants to be friends and she’s with the dude now. What am I? A backup plan?! I’m so exhausted, what a waste of time.
I've been in this situation for 4 long years man. Today when she was spitting bs about how she likes me as a friend and how she admires me a person,I finally cut her off and made my strong statement of not be friends anymore and that i need to move on..all this toxicity is not worth it fellas.. run,save yourself.. go see someone who's genuinely interested in you.
I think she’s playing the game with me to be fair. Spoke for a few month, slept together a few times, all over me when we meet up. She’s ever blunt in messages though and left me on read until the next day and said I thought I replied, you would know if you replied 😂 she asked me to go for drinks again though...I’m confused as I know I’m not in the friend zone but at the same time it’s like she’s totally different when texting to in person.
If she rejected you after you cheated & you wont even try to say sorry or show you understand her feelings....think ,is it her that really dumped you ??Dont be insecure after you caused her hurt! You are playing the victim when you are perpetrator. Fight for her love if she is hurting
I have a pretty same situation tho.
Met a girl, two dates, went really great I knew she wanted me, so we nearly had sex on second date, we planned for a 3rd date and on the d day she decided to stop and say no, I have a lot of problems, no stability right now, don't want that. I was hum okay weird because I wasn't feeling that from you and stopped to text.
But since that moment, she keeps texting me, not close as before but still when I don't text her for a long moment, she comes back to ask or talk even with a weird message but just to hear from me.
I really feel like she likes me but something is blocking something lol, I guess she is with a dude on the end of a relationship or she is just loco 😅
Almost the same they are crazy bro😭😭
We will never understand them. When your gut says walk. WALK. Tripp is dead on after my experience age 15-42
What is this going on about?. First he says you’ve had sex a couple of time & then he says she just likes you as just a friend. Two contradictory statements
This is good but its better to seduce without verbally asking. You can do this gradually so its comfortable for both of you. She will either go along with it or not. If its no its no. If you verbally ask permission it kills the mood and make you seem unconfident.
If you don't kiss her on the first date it's probably not Gona happen. Just go for it
This girl I’ve been somewhat seeing for the past 5 months still kisses/makes out w me before leaving, introduced me to her family and friends yet will drop hints about being single and not wanting a relationship, I’m confused af
You need to find other, better women. Ones that are not so wishy washy. Improve yourself, and you will attract better women. It will also make you spoiled for choices.
I just want a relationship I have no time for dead end friendships. I'm dealing with this now and about to cut the bitch off. I'm probably too nice of a person to be loved
How do I initiate holding hands. Make it look unplanned.
I know this is to help move forward, and for a large portion of the time, this advise is spot on. However, there those times where it is a combination of reasons, politeness, wants the attention, missed opportunities, all that. The nuances are what drives us men, typically linear thinkers, to frustration then desperation to rejection which perpetuates the cycle. Physical intimacy is not the only tell-tale sign of interest, though it is usually a good one. To some women sex can be seen as a favor for a friend and lack true intimacy. You are still just a friend, but you did get your rocks off. This stuff is complicated, even in the best of times, but buck up Gents. Faint heart never won the fair lady.
She rejected me when we first met but I still saw her a lot so we developed a friendship and she seems to like me more so I am going to ask her out again something innocent like out to breakfast after Church. Hopefully she's learned more about me and will say yes. I'm not overly optimistic but I have to know. If she says no all future contact will have to come from her.
You are a simp who is being used by your crush
This guy comes across like he's holding back so much anger xD
Thanks Tripp. ..I love you and your advice! !!!!