My girlfriend and i are both 50 and both have been married and have grown kids, we are extremely compatible and fell in love after just 2 months. The nice thing is there was no game playing, no shit tests, she's so feminine and traditional values, wants respect but also wants to be submissive to me, very sensual and a freak in the sheets, not one of those masculine women in any way, but the type to cook for us wearing nothing but my see through button up white shirt. I mean this woman is amazing!
Yes of course the magic of romantic love is primal behaviour, it is evolutionary useful biology, however it ALSO goes beyond the physical realm into the realm of emotions, because emotions are non-physical material forces capable of interacting in limited ways with physical matter. I know this firsthand, since i have been in a number of telepathic relationships (some good, some bad), and i'm also currently feeling the emotions of the women i date that are thinking about me, this makes it easier to know who is more invested in me (thus who to invest more into), but it also can make my life harder when i feel their ups and downs even when they are not around me, and this affects my motivation and energy levels, thus i must work harder to stay confident, motivated and happy when i feel their downs (but it's easy as pie when i feel their ups). I'm doing my best to be confident, happy, assertive, a bit caring, and thus attractive when being around those i'm interested in, and keeping to myself when i'm feeling down, because i'm not weak.
Living in a small village with like 3k people, no traffic lights, closest city with 100k people is 100km away. Online dating doesn’t work here nor cold approach. Time to move
Hey Tripp, Which of your videos do you recommend for the relatively inexperienced? Obviously everything is on hold right now but I’m talking about when this crisis is over as I really think I want to start meeting consistently for the first time. I am over 40, never had a girlfriend, & have a limited social life as most of my friends are married, so I simply am not around single women much. I have not been intimate in many years. Just want to know what a good first step or two would be to try and basically rewire my brain and gain confidence around women. Thanks, stay well.
I get the whole TED thing but one thing I've never really understood is when is the right time to ask a new girl you're talking to about sex? Like granted you're looking for a relationship and not just a hookup but want her to know you're sexually interested without pushing her away
@@TrippAdvice That makes sense. I always felt like there had to be like a magic "time" to talk about it or something. I guess displaying TED should be enough to set up everything right. But is there ever a time where it's appropriate to bring it up in conversation if she doesn't first?
@@thefirestillburns dont bring it up in conversation. Just start kissing and then if it gets intense then put your hand on her breasts slowly Lol. If she's ok with this maybe pull her shirt up and kiss those puppies a bit. It goes on from there. Dont talk about sex, you'll scare her away. just do it if she's into it and the timing is right.
Denots I think the better strategy is actually being able to tell when a woman actually WANTS to be kissed. What you’re describing is subtle coercion, like high school guys used to do. Men are not very good at determining when a woman is interested, turned on, etc. ESPECIALLY at the beginning stages. This is where the real skill is. My guess is that’s what the program teaches.
Hey Tripp! I love the concept of TED system. Here I have a question about the dominance part. Don't you think that there's an equal chance that when you're dominant, might make the girl think you're bossy or trying to control her or something and stay away from the man?
Listen to the advice he gives but put very little effort into women themselves. They ARE NOT meant to take up your time, THEY ARE meant to take up your free time and SOME of your attention. You ABSOLUTELY MUST spend 75% OR MORE of your time invested into your life and making it MORE valuable to women in general. DO NOT marry a woman, DO seek more women in your life, and DON'T play the "nice guy." She earns EVERYTHING from you, and you give back with attention and SELDOM, items of value. Women find men who are good with women, adored by other women, and sexually active with women, a valuable man. A man worth cheating for, a man worth having sex with, a man she wants to *WIN*.
From experience, formulas are not reliable, there are so many intangibles impossible to predict. Great when someone likes you for who you are- while just doing your best.
Hey Tripp. I met this girl once in uni (we literally have NEARLY ZERO connection!), and after 6+ months, out of nowhere, I just feel like I want to ask her out when this quarantine is over! (We rarely ever talk, text, etc. - apart from Instagram, I don't think she knows me that well!). How do I do this? Just be direct, or...?!
@The Darkest Knight it's okay buddy, I've been rejected, ghosted and other things countless times recently. It's all worth taking a shot in the end, that's all that matters!
My online dating experiences are nothing short of being used as a drug mule... also, most of the “good” sites charge out the nose, How does that help in these times?
Tripp I’m sure you have read the book called “the ultimate player’s guide handbook” because a lot of the things you said are stem from the book, so I believe u! because ive used and it works wonder! Sadly the book doesn’t exist anymore
Yep behavior... I'm 35 she is 45, I'm in shape, i keep the house clean, cook, have a job, know how to fix the car/things around the house, no kids never been married, and my "manhood" is definitely not small, and love kissing her lady; but we almost never have sex. She see's me as a forgetful dipshit that has been a "nice guy"... so I need to be more decisive and masculine.
Not possible. They say just to "video call" but from my experience nobody actually wants to do that. They say they do but they don't. Basically just don't even bother
It is very much possible .Just try to find people who do not buy crap they serve them in the media. There are lot of people who are against restrictions.
I'm pretty damn sure no woman in my entire life has ever thought about having sex with me. Like I'm sure that would never ever happen,to other men obviously but definitely not me.
@@TrippAdvice I'm quite sure no woman has ever found me attractive. Like I did try in my teens and twenties but no women ever wanted me so I gave up.I had just no luck and got friend zoned every time which convinced me that women don't see me in a sexual way. I'm get older and older and it's not getting any easier to deal with.Also I'm still a virgin and women don't like virgin men as they see them as losers and damaged in some way.
Is it a good idea to have sex with a girl in the first date... or to hold it in a way showing her that i am not knowing her because of just having sex ?
Yeah, I honesty find it hard to find a girl who wants to do it right away. Heck, I've even had girl who were reluctant to go to restaurant or similar places becasue they felt 'not ready yet'. In large majority of cases, they don't want to coe off as too easy, especially if you don't know them too well. Some things require time. I don't think being too fast with stuff is actually helpful, despite what many PUAs preach.
Say you get a girl attracted to you, but then you're not interested in her anymore but keeps contacting you with different phone numbers, because you're constantly blocking them.. and the person shows up at your work and house, what do you do? If you try calling police, the person always leaves before they show up.
@@sandowpiano3826 just tell her "I love you" and desperately compliment her 10x a day, and in less than a week she wouldn't want to see you ever again!
@@StackingTrucker Lol, just be polite and tell her you're not interested. Maybe you have a friend you could hook her up with. Maybe she has a younger hotter friend with less cats. Just be kind, friends and admirers are always good to have.
Wtf are you supposed to do if you live at home but are saving to get out and you just got laid off? Just give up on talking to women? I don’t know about you but I’m not going to just stop talking to women because I live at home or because I got laid off lol
No definitely not. Continue to meet women and go out (post pandemic) and don't give up. One day you will have your own place and you'll be all set. Keep working on the social skills.
T for tension
E for entertainment
D for dominance.
Good advice. Noted. Thanks!
My girlfriend and i are both 50 and both have been married and have grown kids, we are extremely compatible and fell in love after just 2 months. The nice thing is there was no game playing, no shit tests, she's so feminine and traditional values, wants respect but also wants to be submissive to me, very sensual and a freak in the sheets, not one of those masculine women in any way, but the type to cook for us wearing nothing but my see through button up white shirt. I mean this woman is amazing!
You Too haha, awesome stuff man, sounds like you've seriously hit the jackpot! 💪👍
Good for you bro!
You are very fortunate.
You mother lucker!
Fake
fine line to negotiate: 'Dominance' and being assertive ie. getting her on a date etc....versus, backing off (esp if she's ghosted you for a few days)
He’s dishing out some dope content in THIS time of need
Glad it's helping!
So basically be dominant and a true man
Sw3t Filth not just with women, basically with anything you do in life.
Sw3t Filth yes, that will get you a lot further than a guy who just has good looks will get with women.
So all this "magic" that woman feel are just basically the primal behavior and phsycology
Same "magic" that you are feeling.
@@TrippAdvice you mean "hardship and suffering"
@Grim Reaper You must know everything about that.
@@boss4330 dude he's the grim Reaper and he knows about that!!!
Yes of course the magic of romantic love is primal behaviour, it is evolutionary useful biology, however it ALSO goes beyond the physical realm into the realm of emotions, because emotions are non-physical material forces capable of interacting in limited ways with physical matter. I know this firsthand, since i have been in a number of telepathic relationships (some good, some bad), and i'm also currently feeling the emotions of the women i date that are thinking about me, this makes it easier to know who is more invested in me (thus who to invest more into), but it also can make my life harder when i feel their ups and downs even when they are not around me, and this affects my motivation and energy levels, thus i must work harder to stay confident, motivated and happy when i feel their downs (but it's easy as pie when i feel their ups). I'm doing my best to be confident, happy, assertive, a bit caring, and thus attractive when being around those i'm interested in, and keeping to myself when i'm feeling down, because i'm not weak.
Love it. Don't look at it as changing but look at it as an upgrade
I already clicked the like button before I watched this video ^^
Respect from Romania! Great information man!!! 👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Thanks man!
Salut frate :D
Living in a small village with like 3k people, no traffic lights, closest city with 100k people is 100km away. Online dating doesn’t work here nor cold approach. Time to move
Shit man are you living north of Alaska or what? 😂😂😂
I watch videos on dozens of subjects (mostly financial) and its so great to see some broadcasters refine and get better and better.
Hey Tripp, Which of your videos do you recommend for the relatively inexperienced? Obviously everything is on hold right now but I’m talking about when this crisis is over as I really think I want to start meeting consistently for the first time. I am over 40, never had a girlfriend, & have a limited social life as most of my friends are married, so I simply am not around single women much. I have not been intimate in many years. Just want to know what a good first step or two would be to try and basically rewire my brain and gain confidence around women. Thanks, stay well.
Snap some high quality pics and create a tinder /bumble account brother, keep swiping till you get a match then set up a date. Good luck
Does this work on married coworkers lol
I get the whole TED thing but one thing I've never really understood is when is the right time to ask a new girl you're talking to about sex? Like granted you're looking for a relationship and not just a hookup but want her to know you're sexually interested without pushing her away
You don't talk about it. You make the move to a kiss. Then physically escalate from there. Ask for consent after you are hot and heavy.
@@TrippAdvice That makes sense. I always felt like there had to be like a magic "time" to talk about it or something. I guess displaying TED should be enough to set up everything right. But is there ever a time where it's appropriate to bring it up in conversation if she doesn't first?
@@thefirestillburns dont bring it up in conversation. Just start kissing and then if it gets intense then put your hand on her breasts slowly Lol. If she's ok with this maybe pull her shirt up and kiss those puppies a bit. It goes on from there. Dont talk about sex, you'll scare her away. just do it if she's into it and the timing is right.
Denots I think the better strategy is actually being able to tell when a woman actually WANTS to be kissed. What you’re describing is subtle coercion, like high school guys used to do. Men are not very good at determining when a woman is interested, turned on, etc. ESPECIALLY at the beginning stages. This is where the real skill is. My guess is that’s what the program teaches.
@@shermaynebrown5165 I am in high school and I get laid all the time so yea man, spot on!
Hey Tripp! I love the concept of TED system. Here I have a question about the dominance part. Don't you think that there's an equal chance that when you're dominant, might make the girl think you're bossy or trying to control her or something and stay away from the man?
Not if you do it correctly. Dominance is about leading. Not taking control of her. Someone needs to lead or else it won’t go anywhere.
@@TrippAdvice Awesome!! Will keep that in mind. I love all your videos. I recommended your channel to couple of my friends too. Thank you!
TIMMY?!!!! TIMMMMMMMAY!!!!
Hey Tripp ,,,, are girls impressed and desire male singers ?
Ah, the ETERNAL question!
Right? lol
And when he can't help but smirk/smile. 😂
Love that hoodie you're wearing. Like to know where you got it, please.
TED system is like a cheat code for men. Just have to test and used it day by day to be good. Thanks tripp!
Strong mind is what attracts women
He got me at the guitar. 🤣
@tripp your the man .
Great jobs
Your script to subject question needs organised point wise written and presented in simple manner.
But you try nicely.
Hey Tripp hope ur doing well bro, how can I make her flirt with me?
Listen to the advice he gives but put very little effort into women themselves. They ARE NOT meant to take up your time, THEY ARE meant to take up your free time and SOME of your attention. You ABSOLUTELY MUST spend 75% OR MORE of your time invested into your life and making it MORE valuable to women in general. DO NOT marry a woman, DO seek more women in your life, and DON'T play the "nice guy." She earns EVERYTHING from you, and you give back with attention and SELDOM, items of value.
Women find men who are good with women, adored by other women, and sexually active with women, a valuable man. A man worth cheating for, a man worth having sex with, a man she wants to *WIN*.
Understand female mind is the key
From experience, formulas are not reliable, there are so many intangibles impossible to predict. Great when someone likes you for who you are- while just doing your best.
Great advice Tripp. Also, random thought but you look similar to Claudio Sanchez from Coheed and Cambria. Long lost brother?
Where IS this TED VIDEO?
Tripp is the bro that we never had.✌️
Hey Tripp. I met this girl once in uni (we literally have NEARLY ZERO connection!), and after 6+ months, out of nowhere, I just feel like I want to ask her out when this quarantine is over! (We rarely ever talk, text, etc. - apart from Instagram, I don't think she knows me that well!).
How do I do this? Just be direct, or...?!
Just be direct and start conversation and go for it. Doesn't work then move on and find another girl.
@The Darkest Knight it's okay buddy, I've been rejected, ghosted and other things countless times recently. It's all worth taking a shot in the end, that's all that matters!
yo i thought this channel gave advice on travelling, not dissapointed tho.
My online dating experiences are nothing short of being used as a drug mule... also, most of the “good” sites charge out the nose, How does that help in these times?
Then pay for it. They are giving you an opportunity to meet women.
You missed the cost issue... not everyone has $50-150 extra on hand right now.
Tripp I’m sure you have read the book called “the ultimate player’s guide handbook” because a lot of the things you said are stem from the book, so I believe u! because ive used and it works wonder! Sadly the book doesn’t exist anymore
Never heard of it
I like how the title was "What" not "How" Makes A Woman Think About Sex With YOU, it much different though! It's more logic as "what".
Yep behavior... I'm 35 she is 45, I'm in shape, i keep the house clean, cook, have a job, know how to fix the car/things around the house, no kids never been married, and my "manhood" is definitely not small, and love kissing her lady; but we almost never have sex. She see's me as a forgetful dipshit that has been a "nice guy"... so I need to be more decisive and masculine.
How do you date while this coronavirus is going around?
Not possible. They say just to "video call" but from my experience nobody actually wants to do that. They say they do but they don't. Basically just don't even bother
Turn off the news and live your life.
It is very much possible .Just try to find people who do not buy crap they serve them in the media. There are lot of people who are against restrictions.
First
😂
First of what?😦
Didn't realise Wes Borland was a dating coach.
YOU ARE THE MAN!
when you finally buy the book and he puts up a video that is basically chapter one lol.
How they doing it lmao. Called putting on a act .
Thanks for the great and valuable advices and techniques
You're welcome :D
Explain in presentations
I'm pretty damn sure no woman in my entire life has ever thought about having sex with me. Like I'm sure that would never ever happen,to other men obviously but definitely not me.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you're continuing to put yourself out there.
@@TrippAdvice I'm quite sure no woman has ever found me attractive. Like I did try in my teens and twenties but no women ever wanted me so I gave up.I had just no luck and got friend zoned every time which convinced me that women don't see me in a sexual way. I'm get older and older and it's not getting any easier to deal with.Also I'm still a virgin and women don't like virgin men as they see them as losers and damaged in some way.
Don’t give up
Dont tell them you are a virgin. Go get a hooker
Thanks
will somebody buy this man a t shirt
Wes Borland, is that you?
He did it all for the nookie.
Before this video finishes, I'm going to guess TED
Accurate💯
Is it a good idea to have sex with a girl in the first date... or to hold it in a way showing her that i am not knowing her because of just having sex ?
depends on the vibe you get when you’re with them
Yeah, I honesty find it hard to find a girl who wants to do it right away. Heck, I've even had girl who were reluctant to go to restaurant or similar places becasue they felt 'not ready yet'. In large majority of cases, they don't want to coe off as too easy, especially if you don't know them too well. Some things require time. I don't think being too fast with stuff is actually helpful, despite what many PUAs preach.
You're assuming the viewer wants to attract the girl. But where's advice on how to push her away??
Push how? Because you’re not interested?
Say you get a girl attracted to you, but then you're not interested in her anymore but keeps contacting you with different phone numbers, because you're constantly blocking them.. and the person shows up at your work and house, what do you do? If you try calling police, the person always leaves before they show up.
@@sandowpiano3826 just tell her "I love you" and desperately compliment her 10x a day, and in less than a week she wouldn't want to see you ever again!
@@sandowpiano3826 lol why don't you just be a man and tell her?
all u gotta do is be a magnet with two poles.
Don't live at home with parents, you will never get the girl.
Can make a video of what to do when a woman pursues you but you're not interested and she doesn't take no for. An answer
Sounds like a good problem to have
@@TrippAdvice not when she 12 years older and has 10 cats I'm we are talking straight up old cat lady here
@@StackingTrucker Lol, just be polite and tell her you're not interested. Maybe you have a friend you could hook her up with. Maybe she has a younger hotter friend with less cats. Just be kind, friends and admirers are always good to have.
So like you have a female stalker?
I wanna hear people who follow these tricks. Is it working for you?
It's a primal thing Tripp, and once you see it for what it is (ie female nature), you cannot unsee it.
You NEED to create a sexual tension. This is a must if you want to make her sexually desire you. Not entertaining her or being a chump.
Yes, I agree.
How do you create sexual tension then?
Money
No women thinks about having sex with me
That's a bummer then
Wtf are you supposed to do if you live at home but are saving to get out and you just got laid off? Just give up on talking to women? I don’t know about you but I’m not going to just stop talking to women because I live at home or because I got laid off lol
blackout2430 read books invest in urself
No definitely not. Continue to meet women and go out (post pandemic) and don't give up. One day you will have your own place and you'll be all set. Keep working on the social skills.
Tripp Advice appreciate it
Sw3t Filth I do more than enough with that now and I know what I want in life it just hasn’t happened at the right time yet
@@blackout2430 go online dating for now, or FaceTime/video call someone and practice your skills!
You always take to long to get into your topic bla bla bla so lets get straight to it bla bla bla ok here it is bla bla bla
This will save you 13 mins of watching this video: give her your credit card
Yawn
Nah
who says that youre charismatic ?
Tripp Never Disappoints..
Tripp Advice
Going out and having to talk to lots of women is BullShit and All in your Script.
I love TED
The movie 🤔 what did u think I was talking about 😂😂😂
And to me TED is this public speaking platform ;p