Why “No Contact” Works So Well

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024

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  • @kms5922
    @kms5922 4 года назад +245

    This is the best explanation for me about No Contact. Tnx for this. I feel good.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      Message me on WhatxApp

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      And I will direct you to someone who can help you bring back your ex or a specific person

    • @BillClinton228
      @BillClinton228 Год назад

      I was attracted to a woman that put me in the friendzone. I'm doing no contact not because I want to get her to see me as more than a friend, but because there's no chance of anything happening and I need to cut off all contact and focus on women that like me. There are 4 billion women on this planet whats the point of hanging around ONE woman waiting?
      Being in the friendzone is the most degrading, time wasting things that can happen to a guy and no she will not wake up one day and fall in love with you, that doesnt happen in reality.

  • @michaelking9818
    @michaelking9818 3 года назад +484

    Been in no contact for ten years now , I think it might be working

  • @Mancer1980
    @Mancer1980 4 года назад +9

    I think Tripp does an excellent job explaining what no contact is really about here. It USUALLY makes the other person comes back but that's not REALLY the point of it - the point of it is for your OWN mental healthy and happiness. Girls can drop a relationship for ANY number of emotional reasons - a guy walking away is the most masculine thing he can do.

    • @andreabest8846
      @andreabest8846 4 года назад

      Hello are you planning to get your ex back why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back....

    • @andreabest8846
      @andreabest8846 4 года назад

      Whatsaap
      +234-905-978-27-93

  • @Cocom0tion808
    @Cocom0tion808 4 года назад +13

    During this quarantine and prolonged self isolation, I was cheated on, long distance. Been doing no contact for a week. It’s been challenging. The memory hasn’t faded... it’s difficult to keep the NCR during this quarantine, with so much government restrictions. No gym, most friends not willing to go out on walks, not being able to work on myself outside of the home.... I hope No contact works in the long run because I’ve never experienced this kind of devastation before... thank you for sharing your insight on this process.

    • @c4411
      @c4411 4 года назад +3

      Stay strong, I feel you. I wasn't cheated on. But my ex is seeing someone else after being together 4 years and I really do love her. Some days are easy and some are hard. I cannot wait for normality to be with us again. Because being in lockdown don't help because that pain is there and that's all you can think about. Stay well

    • @richardmyers3989
      @richardmyers3989 4 года назад

      I know a man who can help you bring him back to love you more..within 24hours.

    • @SexAndCandyHair92
      @SexAndCandyHair92 3 года назад

      Update? How are you doing now?

  • @thomasvieira5611
    @thomasvieira5611 4 года назад +10

    i hadnt't watched any of your videos for years...came to check it out during these quarentine. I been missing out.
    Your advices helped me so much in 2015 and 2016... thanks so much man!
    I'm really enjoying the new stuff man!

  • @kyriakirussell5954
    @kyriakirussell5954 4 года назад +6

    Thank you so much. Your advice is really beneficial I am going through this face right now and it is very hard. But I am determined to fight it not just for getting him back but for my own self -esteem God bless you.

  • @ArjunaKunti
    @ArjunaKunti 3 года назад +4

    Man, you are a genius. This method works well regardless of the outcome of the relationship.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      Message me on WhatxApp

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      And I will direct you to someone who can help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @redhawks0526
    @redhawks0526 4 года назад +7

    The last girl I feel I got really obsessed with, long story short (she hinted on wanting to get together, but bad timing with things happened, she got tired of waiting, starting seeing other guys, I got jelous and cut things off) last time I looked at her facebook page and she's now engaged.... Big shot to the heart, and my brain has been throwing waves of regret for a few months.... But somehing strange happened last week. I drove a truck with some platforms and had one of my beautiful, very sexy coworkers ride with me to pick up these platforms and drop them off at the theater. We talked the whole drive and I had a lot of fun talking with her.... But I get the sense that since we occasionally work together (I freelance with this company from time to time) that asking her out would be a bad idea.... But that interaction has oddly enough got me thinking about this other girl I went on 1 date with last December I met on facebook dating. She lives close to me and I've been thinking about calling her up and see if she would like to go for a walk since it's getting warmer out.... Although, the coronavirus might make it a hard sell to go outside right now.... But it feels good that an interaction with a beautiful coworker has been igniting some interest for another girl....

    • @Zaysoto
      @Zaysoto 4 года назад +1

      Danny Drust bruh. Just be REAL WITH HER. Tell her you think she’s sexy! Woman know when you’re attracted to them, the want HONESTY. Stop tip toeing and TELL HER SHES HOT

    • @armin38822
      @armin38822 4 года назад

      Invite any girl out who you think is attractive or just has cool personality. Never be affraid to find them hot,attractive etc. Never...if it goes nowehere,that's fine to.

  • @gravHS
    @gravHS 3 года назад +1

    lol got this girls number I work with. We talked back and forth over the phone for a few weeks, asked her on a date. She canceled on me 30 minutes before the date. Acted like it was all good and took her off my social media/blocked her. Now I catch her staring at me all the time at work, and its a great feeling. Wish I felt bad, I gave her a chance and she didn't care enough.

    • @JamesBrown-xj9oz
      @JamesBrown-xj9oz 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️.......

    • @JamesBrown-xj9oz
      @JamesBrown-xj9oz 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 9 1 5 4 6 6 1 7 3 6

  • @Shazlii
    @Shazlii 2 года назад

    Naturally, am an introvert and i have a small circle of friends. No contact worked on my friends after i realized they were only using me when its convinient to them....i went radio silent and they kept contacting me now and again.

  • @andreamagyar7776
    @andreamagyar7776 4 года назад +7

    Fastest way to get over someone is to get under someone else. No one is irreplaceable. Learn from past mistakes it just gets better because you are smarter.

  • @Fear-Swag
    @Fear-Swag 2 года назад

    Some time forgetting ex is not easy things to do for some people 😔.. I am married now but still i go alone to those places where me and my ex met and had spent time together.

  • @themovienoob2994
    @themovienoob2994 4 года назад +2

    Tripp any advice on what to do if this is someone in the work place

    • @elenachristopher9852
      @elenachristopher9852 4 года назад

      @@danielsullivan5823 thank you Daniel for recommending this man to me... I really got back my ex

  • @weqqacry9723
    @weqqacry9723 4 года назад +1

    What if you work with the person? And when you say no contact does that mean we treat them bad?

  • @massagebynoe5114
    @massagebynoe5114 Год назад

    Saw this in recommendations and I thought this guy looked like Sam Harris.

  • @virenrodrigues1741
    @virenrodrigues1741 4 года назад +1

    What to do and how to react once she is back texting me , calling me

  • @marcelschaffrath848
    @marcelschaffrath848 Год назад

    Never be a simp.

  • @OmarBestREI
    @OmarBestREI 4 года назад

    I have always believed in that rule,and i even made videos about it.

  • @sudeshnabanerjee2560
    @sudeshnabanerjee2560 4 года назад

    What if that person with whom we should not contact is calling u or texting ?

  • @Zohairshanteer
    @Zohairshanteer 3 года назад +1

    No contact is bullshit. The girl I am dating for 3 months. She's really into me. She was the one pursuing me. Lately she's got temporarily busy and at the same time very cold and bitchy. I mirrored and withdrawn my initiations. After a week of this she texted me saying sorry she wasn't there the past week. I answered in a day and said "Okay" and she started talking to me again but was still cold. She kept the same attitude and I don't like it. I told her today that I don't like this. If this went on I won't be sticking around. She said "well you were cold too" which is bullshit. And now she's making it sound like I made this drama.. Hahahahahaha
    I left her for good tho not worth my effort

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      Message me on WhatxApp.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      And I will direct you to someone who can help you bring back your ex or a specific person.

  • @felixvega3129
    @felixvega3129 4 года назад

    It's been a month, since I've started " no contact"...but l owe her some money, so my question is should l "reconnect" so I can cut that last tie...then restart the no contact again ?... please share your view on this.?

  • @jackwilson9572
    @jackwilson9572 3 года назад

    Literally started watching this because I was frustrated from a girl, literally texts me while I'm watching it. 😂

    • @colinmorgan6439
      @colinmorgan6439 3 года назад

      My dear if you want help to get your ex, crush or sp, I know of a relationship helper who helped me bring back my ex in 48 hours. I’m highly recommending you to him today because he can also help you bring back your ex and put a smile on your face.

    • @colinmorgan6439
      @colinmorgan6439 3 года назад

      Message him on WhatsApp

    • @colinmorgan6439
      @colinmorgan6439 3 года назад

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  • @santo9032
    @santo9032 3 года назад

    Fuck the No-Contact rule, I just blocked them, move on, and NEVER talk to them again… 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @htokid7299
    @htokid7299 4 года назад

    Tripp or anybody!!! I need your help!!! I dated this girl for 3 years, and I fucked it up by not communicating and talking to other girls acting like hot shit. But I do want her back, our relationship was the deepest I’ve ever had and I know it was hers too. The last time we talked was over text and I dropped her a late bday gift I had held onto for a while hoping she’d come back. That was December. Do I contact her? Or completely never contact her again and wait for her to contact me??? HELPPPPPP

  • @chzh1529
    @chzh1529 4 года назад +2

    I broke up with my ex bf a week ago. We were a long distance relationship. He said he needs his own time and space bc of his circumstances arounds his family and himself. And he told me that his feelings towards me are not as strong since his feelings were damaged bc of circumstances. We broke up in a quite nice way and we still talk to each other as best friends I really want him back and I am gonna do no contact from now Would it be work????? I am so desperate and sad rn

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  4 года назад +1

      It’s your best option

    • @roshmalika1776
      @roshmalika1776 4 года назад

      I know someone who can help you get him back

    • @roshmalika1776
      @roshmalika1776 4 года назад

      A very strong powerful man message him on what's app

    • @roshmalika1776
      @roshmalika1776 4 года назад

      +2349043412646

    • @johncoe6304
      @johncoe6304 3 года назад

      Wait. You were in a long distance relationship, and he wants space? See how silly you sound.

  • @michaelowino228
    @michaelowino228 3 года назад

    Hello

  • @damien4v3
    @damien4v3 4 года назад +1

    What about 5 months after a break up to start this?

  • @bigtimbolim
    @bigtimbolim 4 года назад

    Hooked program could probably increase my success with women infinity fold let's be real here

  • @Terexzes
    @Terexzes 3 года назад

    we study at the same class - how do i do NC to the fullest ?

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      Message me on WhatxApp

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      And I will direct you to someone who can help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @sifugurusensei
    @sifugurusensei Год назад

    There seems to be so many different version of no contact. Each dating coach says different thing about no contact. I don't know which is right. It's a conspiracy. They just want our money

  • @GetFitPhil
    @GetFitPhil 3 года назад

    Would you go as far as removing her off social media?

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      Message me on WhatxApp.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      And I will direct you to someone who can help you bring back your ex or a specific person.

  • @tomstage1855
    @tomstage1855 3 года назад

    Not so easy when you work together

    • @maxethan7431
      @maxethan7431 3 года назад

      There's a powerful man that can help you get your ex back without any stress and delay,he helped me bring my ex back within 24hours, believe me that is 100% legit and really works...As soon as you contact him,he can start helping you with bringing solution to your problem...

    • @maxethan7431
      @maxethan7431 3 года назад

      H..e c..a,n h...e..l.p y.o.u..g.e.t...b.a.c.k.w.i.t.h.y.o.u.r e.x...

    • @maxethan7431
      @maxethan7431 3 года назад

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    • @maxethan7431
      @maxethan7431 3 года назад

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    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @thefnaffan2
    @thefnaffan2 4 года назад +533

    It's worse than a withdrawal from drugs, trust me.

  • @Electronite1978
    @Electronite1978 4 года назад +275

    No matter if you want your ex back or not no contact is always the best way to go.

    • @rrrrrrraaaa9
      @rrrrrrraaaa9 4 года назад +3

      Electronite1337 it's been a year since no contact, still hurts. lol

    • @Electronite1978
      @Electronite1978 4 года назад +2

      @@rrrrrrraaaa9 Yeah I understand, keep strong :)

    • @G20T
      @G20T 4 года назад +2

      Electronite1337 honestly it’s good to not have pain but only relief it’s good for your health

    • @tresawill6247
      @tresawill6247 4 года назад

      Thanks

    • @Benchmark243
      @Benchmark243 2 года назад

      There you are

  • @Fitmiam
    @Fitmiam 4 года назад +476

    The no contact mostly helps you to move on!

    • @Fitmiam
      @Fitmiam 4 года назад +42

      And that's great to be honest lol if someone makes you no contact them, then this person is not worth your time

    • @albertodeulofeu5277
      @albertodeulofeu5277 3 года назад +9

      It doesn’t work if you were together for a long time. That void will always be there

    • @twelveoclock4877
      @twelveoclock4877 3 года назад

      @@paolanamuncura8879 No entendi Paola.

    • @paolanamuncura8879
      @paolanamuncura8879 3 года назад

      @@twelveoclock4877 im sorry?

    • @twelveoclock4877
      @twelveoclock4877 3 года назад

      @@paolanamuncura8879 why you called on that person?

  • @connormitchell8048
    @connormitchell8048 4 года назад +389

    Got my ex back through no contact. When she dumped me I simply said nothing, no reaction no tears, got up and left. 3 weeks later texting me that she misses me and needs me in her life. Eventually we start dating again, only to break up a few months later. Never heard from her again. I often wonder if it's worth taking an ex back.

    • @sleek1978
      @sleek1978 4 года назад +89

      because something was broken and when she came back it wasn't fixed...simple as that

    • @joebiden6163
      @joebiden6163 4 года назад +25

      depends on the situation of taking an ex back. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.

    • @connormitchell8048
      @connormitchell8048 4 года назад +12

      @@joebiden6163 she has to have some feelings for you still. And she has to miss you.

    • @romankozlovskiy7899
      @romankozlovskiy7899 4 года назад +22

      Connor Mitchell ur problem is u took her back lol

    • @merenmeren4754
      @merenmeren4754 4 года назад +1

      Are you serious?

  • @andyg9872
    @andyg9872 3 года назад +84

    I’ve tried no contact and it definitely works. Gotta be strong and go total radio silence.

  • @Jacare1973
    @Jacare1973 4 года назад +186

    No contact worked so well, she never came back!

    • @franzmuller4145
      @franzmuller4145 4 года назад +23

      Dodged a bullet

    • @BLITZY261
      @BLITZY261 4 года назад +3

      @@franzmuller4145 ...minefield!!!!

    • @franzmuller4145
      @franzmuller4145 4 года назад +5

      @@BLITZY261 The guy survived it like Indiana Jones hiding inside of a fridge while a Nuke is exploding.

  • @funwithshay5945
    @funwithshay5945 4 года назад +161

    Because of the corona virus?

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 4 года назад +11

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Nessaholiclover1
      @Nessaholiclover1 3 года назад

      You could argue that she is the Rona lol. Keep 6ft distance haha

  • @marymattering
    @marymattering 4 года назад +72

    my grandma used to say "absence makes the heart grow fonder, yes, of somebody else"

    • @andreabest8846
      @andreabest8846 4 года назад

      Hello do you need help why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back

    • @andreabest8846
      @andreabest8846 4 года назад

      Whatsaap
      +234-9059-78-27-93

    • @davefenton102
      @davefenton102 3 года назад +10

      The only problem with the old saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder", is the other old saying, "Out of sight, out of mind"

  • @Mr.Meme1885
    @Mr.Meme1885 4 года назад +76

    *When the no contact bullshit starts: delete them from your contact list; and give them the silent treatment forever.* *Don't be a psychological/emotional test dummy for women.*

  • @KristinaNorman
    @KristinaNorman 4 года назад +259

    From a woman’s perspective, no contact works every time. No matter who dumped who. I recently did it unintentionally to move on and heal but it was NOT to try to get him back first. My attraction for him didn’t change at all. Usually attraction is never the root issue for the breakup. However, If you want to get an ex back, you have to understand why you two broke up, consciously work on starting a NEW relationship (because the last one was a flop) with each other, so you don’t breakup again. If that’s not the goal, use no contact to move on and find someone new and don’t care if she comes back or not.

    • @gracehelper4126
      @gracehelper4126 4 года назад +8

      Help me get back my ex.

    • @mochiicecream260
      @mochiicecream260 4 года назад

      ❤️

    • @johncoe6304
      @johncoe6304 3 года назад

      Hey Kristina! Very nice.

    • @apartmanin8145
      @apartmanin8145 3 года назад +1

      No it doesn't work.

    • @jonecementum3468
      @jonecementum3468 3 года назад +1

      @@gracehelper4126 My dear if you want help to get your ex, crush or sp, I know a relationship helper who helped me bring back my ex in 48 hours. I’m highly recommending you to him today because he can also help you bring back your ex and put a smile on your face.

  • @tomaszsosnowski9279
    @tomaszsosnowski9279 4 года назад +74

    1. Remove all pictures, videos of her or you together
    2. Realise she exists as a fantasy
    3. Always keep in mind the worst and nastiest things she did to you and your relationship.
    4. If you feel you don’t want to ever see her again, you made it.

    • @andreabest8846
      @andreabest8846 4 года назад

      Hello do you need help why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back

    • @andreabest8846
      @andreabest8846 4 года назад

      Whatsaap
      +234-905-978-27-93

    • @joycearguelles8242
      @joycearguelles8242 3 года назад +5

      Think that they are died already and never going back😅

  • @cuddlycooper8169
    @cuddlycooper8169 4 года назад +215

    Almost been 5 months since the last girl I was seeing dumped me, and i havent heard anything from her, and I have not reached out either. Im willing to bet I will never see or hear from her again, but at least I have strength, diginity and Im proud of myself for not contacting her either

    • @elenachristopher9852
      @elenachristopher9852 4 года назад +1

      Cuddly, why can't you go for what you want. I know someone who can help you out, he helped me get back my ex in less than 48hours and we are happily married now

    • @elenachristopher9852
      @elenachristopher9852 4 года назад

      Text him on Whats App and thank me later

    • @elenachristopher9852
      @elenachristopher9852 4 года назад

      +2349017347541 °°°°

    • @halo091
      @halo091 4 года назад +1

      Does she still view stories?

    • @robertswift6101
      @robertswift6101 4 года назад +18

      the one who cares the least holds all the power,,,remain strong

  • @Johnphilips1234
    @Johnphilips1234 4 года назад +47

    If you are doing it to get an ex back it is imperative that you use the no contact rule to completely change your attitude and mindset so that when you re-enter the relationshop you do so with a different perspective which will prevent you from repeating the same experiences again.

  • @bryanbugin8865
    @bryanbugin8865 4 года назад +44

    Doing no contact is same as doing no fap journey.. You have to get rid of the addiction. It is hard but its worth.

    • @TheHasselBoff
      @TheHasselBoff 4 года назад +3

      I'm literally doing both, currently on day 30 hard mode and not looking at her Facebook or Insta.

    • @tzukhi
      @tzukhi 4 года назад

      What does fap means please

    • @hafidhrendyanto2690
      @hafidhrendyanto2690 4 года назад

      Im also doing both. This is the hardest thing that I have ever done in my life

  • @pinoy122793
    @pinoy122793 4 года назад +91

    The better response is to move on. That way the other woman will see your value.

  • @JonathonAslay
    @JonathonAslay 4 года назад +24

    From my experience, this does work and I appreciate the reminder. Thanks Tripp

  • @HAPPYPANDA53
    @HAPPYPANDA53 4 года назад +82

    Last night she clicked like on one of my posts for the first time in several months. I know she's just trying to lure me and I'm not taking the bait. She's dead to me until she makes a real effort.

    • @EJayyDreadHead
      @EJayyDreadHead 4 года назад +8

      Just log out all social media

    • @samarztk
      @samarztk 4 года назад +4

      Block her

    • @jaydot9825
      @jaydot9825 4 года назад +2

      She shooting her shot again bro

    • @danielsea6479
      @danielsea6479 3 года назад +3

      She’s thinking of you. If she doesn’t care she would not click or view anything.

  • @tommygunn6901
    @tommygunn6901 3 года назад +11

    I do not believe in no contact for 30 days! Obviously, if they weren't interest 30 days ago, what's to say they will be 30 days later? No, I never circle back. It tells them I'm pathetic and desperate and those are two things I'm not!
    If they're not interested, they aren't interested....PERIOD! People complicate shit way too much

  • @zilfariza2010
    @zilfariza2010 4 года назад +16

    OMG! This is the best advice about no contact ever. I’m a girl btw. You are so right...eventually you will be forced to go into no contact anyway...as the relationship gets worse or you meet someone better. So why wait, do it now and save time. Also the better you break away from this person he/she will soon just become a distant memory saving you from agonising over the why’s and blame etc. Thank you so much ❤️.

  • @nickg4252
    @nickg4252 4 года назад +36

    In the short term It works when u want to find out if a girl likes u especially when there showing mixed signs

  • @BrothaNeo
    @BrothaNeo 4 года назад +13

    One of THE BEST explanations of the no contact rule that I have ever heard within this last month while on RUclips lol. Very clear, straight forward and understandable. Thank you!

  • @dr.leonardhofstadtersavage6413
    @dr.leonardhofstadtersavage6413 4 года назад +28

    I was watching this tripp, it spoke to me so well. Seven months i was with Jessica, i decided myself to use the complete " no contact" im going through a heartache. She might still call me, she has in the past. Im a college student, 37 years old. Have no children, single guy. I really feel like giving up on relationships.

  • @j.t.r1976
    @j.t.r1976 4 года назад +26

    Becouse she doesn't have control over you,when there's no contact.she desires control of you .

  • @nb1168
    @nb1168 4 года назад +11

    No contact ok - no reply is rude af

  • @underclassh3r058
    @underclassh3r058 4 года назад +54

    So true. I'm on day 58 and I'm really feeling better about myself and not thinking about my ex anymore in a painful way. We were together 4 years and she left me for our neighbor and moved in with him after 2 months. That'll probably crash and burn because she didn't take time for herself and self reflect. I've had time to heal and self reflect and I feel great being single and it's fun to have these other women flirt and have fun with me.
    I'm also getting so good at no contact that I'm using it on a friend of 3 years because there's a lot of games she's playing and I'm not going to be the backup QB option for her. I'm the starter and if she's wasting my time, then it's time to move on as well so I can keep my focus on people who do appreciate my value. 15 days with that one.
    No longer in simp mode

    • @shav12
      @shav12 4 года назад +3

      Underclass H3r0 Had a similar situation. With GF for 3 years then caught her texting and meeting up with another guy. Within a few days of moving out, she already had him over. It truly demonstrates the character of the person and how thankful we should be that it happened prior to marriage or children. My advice would be to stop counting the days and to stay off these videos if they become a habit for you. I’m in month 4 and I still long for her at times, but I’m much better off now

    • @erictufloo622
      @erictufloo622 2 года назад

      How did 15 days go?

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 Год назад +1

      @@shav12 It's been 2 years, do you have any update what happened later on?

    • @shav12
      @shav12 Год назад

      @@blair5475 I’m very grateful that it ended and I’m in a much healthier place in all ways. It gets easier as time goes on

  • @a-zero68
    @a-zero68 4 года назад +50

    It was almost a year-and-a-half ago when my my first ex girlfriend cheated on me and I did the no contact thing for my own well-being. I blocked her out from everything a part of my life.
    I want to get back with her during the six-month of the break up but then I didn't want to do that anymore because if someone you really loved you and cared about you they wouldn't lie or treat you harshly for something they did or give no fuks on your feelings.
    No I'm technically 6 months into my new relationship with someone that actually cares about me and is everything I wanted. I wouldn't be where I'm at because of the no contact rule.

  • @j4miee
    @j4miee 4 года назад +21

    worked for me man, only 7 days into no contact her attitude has changed completely calling me non stop crying saying she misses me and she loves me, me met up and talked and it was so nice, just letting her do the chasing now and playing it cool. thanks!

  • @Jeanninecomeau
    @Jeanninecomeau 4 года назад +16

    They just tell you to go no contact to get your ex back, so you eventually move and shut up, not because it works. Haha!

  • @kamranhamidfar1725
    @kamranhamidfar1725 Год назад +3

    You look Sam Harries the scientist. Thanks for sharing this useful information.

  • @abdulrahim.a3488
    @abdulrahim.a3488 4 года назад +7

    I was subconsiously using this and it is better to go for self improvement and give them freedom to think
    But. Bro your eyes are very nice

  • @emotears151
    @emotears151 4 года назад +6

    She says she prefers to go back to normal be cool and friends again and have me there I never replied i don’t want to speak to her she said she didn’t want to lose me

  • @ericross441
    @ericross441 4 года назад +6

    Really great advice. At the very least, they don't have the satisfaction of knowing you give a shit lol

  • @docmontejo8585
    @docmontejo8585 4 года назад +8

    I broke up with my girlfriend and I went to no contact. She came back only for short time and was never the same she left and I move on .

    • @jaredbellard2777
      @jaredbellard2777 4 года назад +6

      It's cause the other dude wasn't acting right.

  • @natibet7546
    @natibet7546 4 года назад +6

    What happens if both ex-partners listen to the same advises and go both no-contact? Like, really. I have the feeling that is what my husband, who just moved out, is doing with me right now and IDK how to act. :(

  • @jarrettwilkins8031
    @jarrettwilkins8031 3 года назад +2

    Day 29. It sucks so bad man

  • @MMKnight_1
    @MMKnight_1 11 месяцев назад +1

    After no contact, how do you come back? Simply asking her out? Start talking with her?

  • @katiesbagels2051
    @katiesbagels2051 4 года назад +7

    But doesn't the same apply for him? I will also become a distant memory to him as well..

    • @richardmyers3989
      @richardmyers3989 4 года назад

      I know a man who can help you bring him back..

    • @lillathos7887
      @lillathos7887 3 года назад

      no, this won't work on men unless they are already attracted, men don't run on attention, so if you can get them to bite, no contact is reeling in.

  • @mehwishowais9793
    @mehwishowais9793 4 года назад +21

    I didn't know guys needed to heal from break ups. I thought most guys just get over stuff.

    • @andyfma123
      @andyfma123 4 года назад +16

      Mehwish Owais usually it’s when guys over-invested in the relationship. They stopped pursuing their other missions in life. The breakup is then much more traumatic because they lose a large portion of their purpose. Guys with a strong purpose can then redirect their energy away from the relationship and back towards pursuing their goals.

    • @chadbaker2224
      @chadbaker2224 4 года назад +18

      Guys have feelings? No way?

  • @donkndave7811
    @donkndave7811 4 года назад +7

    Fading Affect Bias... look it up

  • @dawn6232
    @dawn6232 4 года назад +15

    The trauma bond between cluster B personalities, like narcissistic personality disorder and either codependents or just good hearted empathetic people is like a junkie detoxing from opiates. What may be perceived as love or a soul mate connection is actually this trauma bond. It’s a physical addiction. Therefore, if you mentalize what’s actually happening in the break up, you may be able to persist in the no contact solution better. You “love” the addiction, not necessarily the person.

    • @ghug8340
      @ghug8340 2 года назад

      'Good hearted empathetic people' are quite manipulative themselves lmao

  • @davemcdonald7143
    @davemcdonald7143 3 года назад +6

    No contact doesn't work if they don't have any feelings for you anymore.its more about getting yourself back

    • @maxethan7431
      @maxethan7431 3 года назад

      +2..34..90..63..73..16..50....
      ...

    • @maxethan7431
      @maxethan7431 3 года назад

      There's a powerful man that can help you get your ex back without any stress and delay,he helped me bring my ex back within 24hours, believe me that is 100% legit and really works...As soon as you contact him,he can start helping you with bringing solution to your problem...

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад +1

      My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      Message me on WhatxApp

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5

  • @OnderHassan
    @OnderHassan 4 года назад +16

    For me, no contact is realising that the person I was with isn't good for me and not worth pining over. It's very common to not want your ex after they come back or to put her as a booty call while you pursue better options.

    • @paolanamuncura8879
      @paolanamuncura8879 3 года назад

      What do you mean by making her your booty call

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 Год назад +1

      @@paolanamuncura8879 It means contacts with her is strictly for sexual purposes(Friends with benefits/FK buddy/hook up/flings). No chance of getting back together and entering a serious relationship.

  • @rossjacobs8447
    @rossjacobs8447 3 года назад +8

    Hands down, the best way to get over a breakup. I know from my own experience too.

    • @nickdoggone5053
      @nickdoggone5053 3 года назад

      My dear if you want help to get your ex back

    • @nickdoggone5053
      @nickdoggone5053 3 года назад

      Message me on WhatsApp

    • @nickdoggone5053
      @nickdoggone5053 3 года назад

      +1️⃣(9️⃣1️⃣4️⃣)2️⃣0️⃣6️⃣4️⃣0️⃣8️⃣5️⃣

    • @nickdoggone5053
      @nickdoggone5053 3 года назад

      And I will direct you to someone who can help you bring back your ex

  • @billytessio6326
    @billytessio6326 4 года назад +6

    Def thought this was COVID-19 science

  • @DarkKnight--22
    @DarkKnight--22 Год назад +1

    7 weeks and counting now she's started turning up at my work when she could easily go somewhere else 🤦‍♂️

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan 4 года назад +4

    I don’t see how getting back with an ex is very exciting.

  • @vincentvictory7204
    @vincentvictory7204 3 года назад +4

    It's so interesting how hard this used to be for me and how nowadays it's just 2nd nature.

  • @hawkeyflow
    @hawkeyflow 4 года назад +8

    Does this work with a chick you talked to on tinder for a month? Lol

  • @jeffupton8620
    @jeffupton8620 4 года назад +7

    Dude I needed to hear this. Thanks

  • @JasTDW
    @JasTDW 4 года назад +5

    How long should you wait before trying to reattract a girl, where you and she didn't really get serious but she thought you were initially?

    • @virgoteaze
      @virgoteaze 4 года назад

      JasTDW I had no idea guys struggled with the same stuff

    • @richardmyers3989
      @richardmyers3989 4 года назад

      I know of a man who can help you bring her backed within 24hours..

  • @hugorivera385
    @hugorivera385 3 года назад +4

    This used to be called the 3 month rule. Before cell phones I messed up w/a girl. I got jealous & told her I never wanted to see her again. Broke her heart then regretted it. She was always busy after that & going out w/her friends & dating. 3 months later I called her & asked her out for Friday night. When she asked me what we were going to do, I said go to the hotel. She was taken aback but accepted. So this works!!! Either you will have moved on or she. So this is a win-win...!!! Time will heal both of you & if there's still a spark. Hit it or quit it!!!

    • @JamesBrown-xj9oz
      @JamesBrown-xj9oz 3 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️.......

    • @JamesBrown-xj9oz
      @JamesBrown-xj9oz 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 9 1 5 4 6 6 1 7 3 6

  • @nikkibrittain
    @nikkibrittain 4 года назад +5

    I'm sad and hurting. Only about a week fresh... but what if the person was also your friend and you want to keep that part?

    • @richardmyers3989
      @richardmyers3989 4 года назад

      I know of a man who can help you bring him back within 24hour...

  • @a11an72
    @a11an72 3 года назад +3

    This explains my relationship with carbohydrates when I go on low carb diet

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok 2 года назад +3

    I broke no contact after 2 days to send an apology message for the way I acted during the breakup and it felt like I was back to square 1 after that, I regret breaking it. so I’m learning if no contact is gonna do anything it’s gonna help me move on, if he comes back in the process then that’s good too.

    • @IntoTheWild361
      @IntoTheWild361 2 года назад

      Any updates?

    • @outroseok
      @outroseok 2 года назад

      @@IntoTheWild361 he just got in a new relationship after not even 2 months and we were together for 6 years. I’m thinking it’s a rebound but I guess I’ll never know..

    • @IntoTheWild361
      @IntoTheWild361 2 года назад

      @@outroseok I’m going through the same thing. Not sure if she is seeing someone but she’s being hot and cold

  • @UncleBensChannel
    @UncleBensChannel 3 года назад +2

    NC best way to move on. This video is best explanation of NC I've seen.

  • @hiatusmyles7036
    @hiatusmyles7036 4 года назад +5

    What if we both go no contact?

    • @richardmyers3989
      @richardmyers3989 4 года назад

      I know a man who can help you bring you ex back ..within 24hours..

  • @neonpop80
    @neonpop80 2 года назад +1

    No contact has NEVER worked for me. EVER!! It's actually pretty bad. They get hurt and feel they deserve better treatment and then it's no recovery after the bad feelings.But also they move on to another interest which usually makes gives them good feelings from the bad feelings you give them of no contact. This is BS and lots of games

  • @barkhagusain4485
    @barkhagusain4485 2 года назад +2

    This one is most rational most pragmatic video i have ever come for such its very true, it makes things less and less frigment

  • @sudeshnabanerjee2560
    @sudeshnabanerjee2560 4 года назад +5

    But that way don't we loose the feelings like love we have for that person from both maybe??

  • @21copyCat
    @21copyCat 2 года назад +1

    i almost gave up after 3 months of no contact - then the phone rang

  • @iamfaithfulvlog6286
    @iamfaithfulvlog6286 4 года назад +2

    Everytime I try to do the ano contact I always failed because im missing him .. and now I deleted his number i blocked him on social media so that I will not attempt to contact him do you think this is a good Idea?

    • @sneakysquirrel4253
      @sneakysquirrel4253 4 года назад

      I deleted their number and haven't been contacted for a few weeks but yeah it helps cause u know there's nothing you can do so fuck it.

  • @bibibibi5806
    @bibibibi5806 4 года назад +3

    Hello. My pregnant girlfriend and I had a fight I said something that now I know was wrong. I tried calling her but she's not responding I've sent messages with no luck. Do you thing a no contact would be my only option?

    • @srrazer__2676
      @srrazer__2676 4 года назад

      bibi bibi just give her space for a few days and than try to contact. It would be weird if she keeps ignoring you while she’s pregnant. You didn’t break up yet

    • @richardmyers3989
      @richardmyers3989 4 года назад

      I know a man who can help you bring her back and make her love you more.within 24hours.

    • @johncoe6304
      @johncoe6304 3 года назад

      Dude. Shes pregnant. No contact ain't gonna work.

  • @donkndave7811
    @donkndave7811 4 года назад +21

    Corey Wayne has been teaching this for at least 6 years

    • @calvados7754
      @calvados7754 4 года назад

      So? Whats the point of your comment?

    • @donkndave7811
      @donkndave7811 4 года назад

      Go to Corey Wayne on youtube and find out.

    • @chillydawgg4354
      @chillydawgg4354 4 года назад +6

      He's one of the less likeable 'coaches' imo

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person.

    • @nicolasbarros4507
      @nicolasbarros4507 3 года назад

      Message me on WhatxApp.

  • @susano5070
    @susano5070 4 года назад +3

    No contact does NOT work. He now thinks I cut him off when he “needed me” the most, but I even told him I need to distance myself bc I needed time to get over him and couldn’t be friends with him at that time... and now he doesn’t want to speak to me bc I “shut him out” when I really just needed time to heal

    • @substancenotvibes.4914
      @substancenotvibes.4914 4 года назад +2

      You mention "he needed you". NC by definition, I believe- is after a Breakup. Not when you pull away after an argument or WTV happened between you two. Perhaps re-evaluate the situation.
      Love × peace. ♡●

    • @johncoe6304
      @johncoe6304 3 года назад

      It works, overall. There's always variations

  • @ciscosan5932
    @ciscosan5932 4 года назад +4

    Going through this..we were together for 1.5 years then the last 2 months she was very distant,I ended it now it's been 3 months no contact...losing hope fellas

    • @rrrrrrraaaa9
      @rrrrrrraaaa9 4 года назад +3

      Francisco Costa Sukete If you did dumping thn you should call her if she did dumping than no contact forever..

    • @elenachristopher9852
      @elenachristopher9852 4 года назад

      Francisco, you don't have to lose hope dear. I can recommend you to the same people that help me get back my ex in less than 48hours. I know he will help you

    • @elenachristopher9852
      @elenachristopher9852 4 года назад

      +2349017347541 °°°°

    • @elenachristopher9852
      @elenachristopher9852 4 года назад

      Text him on Whats App and thank me later 😊

  • @RyuEnGamer
    @RyuEnGamer 4 года назад +2

    Yes men. You are the prize. Do not forget that.
    Unfortunately, you've gotta do the scorched earth tactic in instances like this. No phone calls, texts, delete social media connections and any apps or w/e you guys shared. Because women that do this want their cake and eat it too. You pretty much need to ninja vanish completely and indefinitely with this person and go see someone else and do something else.
    Guaranteed that there is someone already eyeing and looking to treat you like a king.

    • @andreabest8846
      @andreabest8846 4 года назад

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    • @andreabest8846
      @andreabest8846 4 года назад

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  • @eggnogdelicious7719
    @eggnogdelicious7719 4 года назад +2

    I just began no contact. However this girl is 2 of my college classes. So I we will have to see each other. However, I am going to act like she is another person in the room and not engage in any eye contact, like we are strangers. I don’t expect anything magical to happen.

  • @MarquiseMiller-yg6nu
    @MarquiseMiller-yg6nu 14 дней назад

    My ex told me no contact for now. But I’m not sure she’ll reach out