Ive never had a woman who rejected me ever change her mind. They all wanted nothing to do with me. Ive gotten bitter and resentful towards women because they lack empathy for my situation. 9/10 have rejected me because of my looks and attitude. The reality is that the women I like dont like me. Im considering suicide in the coming months because I have NPD and women dont view me as being datable.
Rejection is a part of life. Don’t be mad at the one who rejected you. I was for the longest time. Till one day I heard about my old crush’s ill reputation. Sometimes rejection can be a blessing for you.
No, don’t take it personally and don’t accept hurt in the first place. How do you know It’s a negative thing?? If you brought your best self, she could be nervous, intimidated. She could of just had a bad day. Could be heart broken from a previous relationship. You could be too much for her. Girls reject guys for many different reasons, bring your best self and never take it personally.
Don’t stalk, harass, bully, hack her phone, contact her friends, display a million negative emotions, react, steal her laptop, contact EVERYONE who she knows, intrude in her job prospects, ask people to belittle and argue with her, hold her back from being loved by guys who she’s willing to see, contact her friends or family, gossip about her, spread rumours, contact her relatives or anyone asking about her, etc. DO NOT project your misplaced emotions on her or ANY stranger, who you don’t even know. Move on. If you don’t practice moving on and letting go, early on, you’ll never learn the skill. You’ll become a weirdo in his 20’s and 30’s, using a stranger to distract himself from finding his own identity and his own purpose. Trust me, it’s not a good look!
@EmilyGloeggler7984 nope. Girls have the right to reject. Guys have the right to move on with their lives as well. If a girl just wants a friendship which is her right. The guy also has the right to reject that and move on
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If she rejected you it's because in her eyes, you're not good enough for her. Nothing is really gonna change that. Sorry to burst everyone's bubble but if she rejects you, odds are she won't change her mind. Even if she sees you 'levelling up'. Just move on to someone else and forget about her.
I’ve dealt with nonstop rejection from 12 years old all the way into my late 30s. Once I hit 40 and was more financially successful I stopped caring and now focus on spending my money on myself.
Same. First love led me on but would never be my girlfriend.. told me I could never tell anyone. And that was one I loved. Quite a few rejections after. I used to think women were great, I don't now. I know otherwise.
different for me, rejected even before i can say anything, but i was surprise i successt to even date, i'm guessing i am rejected because i am ugly or just not popular 😂
Those are called players and the wise woman knows to avoid modern Don Juans who could replace a woman whenever they feel like it. Ladies or men who act like that with that toxic mindset deserve no one.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984What utter foolishness. If I am rejected, I will move on to the next woman asap! There are literally billions of them on planet Earth. They are all replaceable. Who cares what they think? I live my life for me.
More like “complete rejection doesn’t exist.” She may reject you at one time, accept you the next. But for a long-term relationship you want someone who won’t put you through those ups and downs.
No. There’s a difference between a girl being unsure and a girl being sure. A girl who doesn’t leave a window open, doesn’t engage you when the topic of relationships comes up, talks about other guys she’s interested in and doesn’t envision you in her plans, is not leaving a door open to be with you. When that’s the case, it’s a closed case. There’s nothing to pursue. Why would you want to, anyway? Don’t you want to be with someone, who wants you the first time round and says YES instead of a million NO’s?
When she rejects you, you accept it and move on. Life is too short to fret over someone saying "No" to you. As far as I'm concerned, no means no, "They're not interested", so why waste your time even thinking about it. I once asked a woman out and she politely declined by saying, "Thank You For Asking, But No Thank You". I accepted it and moved on. Six months later I happen to run into this woman again and she came up to me with a big smile on her face and started asking me how I was and what's been going on. We chatted for a few minutes when out of the blue she said this to me, "When Are You Going To Ask Me Out?" I told her that I had already asked her out and that she told me thank you, but no thank you. She laughed and said this to me, "You Give Up Too Easy". I said to her, "What Do You Mean? I Asked You Out And You Said No And No To Me Means That You're Not Interested." I then went on to tell her that she never gave me any kind of reason to ask again, that she said "No" and didn't elaborate by saying something like, "Maybe Some Other Time" or "Not Now Because (Whatever)", or anything, that she said "No" and as far as I was concerned that was that. I also told her that I don't chase anyone, I ask once, and if the answer is no, I move on and never ask again. So, she then said this to me, "Then That Means You're Never Going To Ask Me Out Again?" I politely said "No", told her to have a nice evening and left. The shocked look on her face was priceless.
@iambeloved I used to be an overthinker, but one day, I discovered I was just wasting my time, and my time is worth much more than any woman's inability to make up her mind. Life is too short, and I have better things to do with my time than to be going around and around in circles getting nowhere. I don't play mind games, and I don't allow women to trap me in them. It makes life so much easier when you simplify.
If someone rejects you: - she knows what you wanted and what she did to you - she knows what she did to you - she knows that its over from her side - never chase that girl - forget her - immediately go to full no contact and don’t accept her trying to stay in contact with her - forget her and move on - take all your previous attention from her - respect yourself - she rejected you because she doesn’t care , so why should you care for someone who left you at the begging of something you wanted… - case close , never contact her again, because she could reject you again…
LOL!! This made me laught because its what I just felt. The girl I liked and asked out made up a "rule" that she couldn't date a guy that she saw at her job (she works at my gym). It was just 3 weeks ago and still hurts a little but right after she said no I put money in my savings at home that I planned on spending on the date. More money for me I guess.
@@FJano12 Bro I always chase the bag and purpose. Thought of approaching a girl or dating never crossed my mind. Once I started seeing girls throwing themselves at me with choosing signals. I became curious and learned about it. I started regretting because alot of high quality sexy girls wanted me to approach them all along. This made me fired up and angry. I always had unshakable self esteem and self confidence but this boosted it even more. Now all I had to do was learn how to approach and socialise with a girl as I had no prior experiences. I decided to take the coldest toughest doomed to go wrong path. I went out of bed, went to the mall, searched and found the most hottest, sexiest, gorgeous girl I ever saw and I approached her. The social anxiety as an introvert kicked in and I wanted to run away so bad but when I did, it stung me in the heart because I was doing the same mistake of not approaching due to social fear. So I conquered myself and cold approached her. I got rejected due to flawed inexperienced approach game but it gave me positive results because if I can approach the most sexiest girl without knowing her, then i can approach any girl, and this means it’s way easy to approach a girl who gives me choosing signals like most of them one before did. So my self esteem and self confidence as a high value man still remained intact, she just put a scratch which will heal. So yeah over all it was a positive result with a pinch of salt.
Good advice. Best thing to do when rejected is to act polite and nonchalant about it. Never burn a bridge but quickly move on to other opportunities. A certain SMALL percentage of the time, there may be an opportunity with her in the future so don't sabotage that, but don't count on it either.
It’s unlikely there’s an opportunity. In rare instances, you’ll only be friends. Most people are married with kids or divorced with kids. Marriage and divorce can change your perspective so can exposure. Girls typically marry up which means that they get exposure into a different world. If you’re not exciting with her current exposure, you can’t even hold her attention for 10 seconds after she’s exposed to an even better world.
This is hands down the best way to handle rejection. Respond with “ok no problem” and stay positive and up beat. Never act butt hurt. Ask her if her day is going ok and tell her it was nice speaking with her. She will never expect it. The Proof is bc it’s hard to do!! If you get rejected or dumped and you don’t know what to do, do what your feelings DON’T tell you to do. You’re feelings tell you look for an reason or explanation from her. Your feelings tell you to try again explain yourself, Your feelings tell you to get angry, get even, get revenge. But your feelings hardly ever tell you to walk away, treat the rejection as her problem, stay friendly and never take it personally and move on to another girl, the one that likes you.
You speak the truth man. This happened to me last year. It's a burden to carry, but I stood tall and walked away after the rejection and continued on my path. Guess what? As of a couple months ago, shes constantly trying to initiate conversations with me and even wants to hang out with me at times(even with her still with the dude/new bf she chose over me). But nah, still not giving in, as I'm doing better than ever. This made me also realize why even try to date her anymore if shes trying to talk to me even with her new bf lol.
A girl I had something going on with (we had met up about 7 times, and went on 1 date). Used the ”I see this more as a friendship” card on me. I told her that I have enough friends and wished her good luck on everthing going on in her life.
Started this video in tears and ended it without tears and a peace I didn't realize I had before. Ive heen dealing with this rejection for like 5 years. It's been so painful. This is a reminder of who I am. This is not pride or false humility. It is a privilege. Thank you!
This is so true. After so many rejections, I think the best way to deal with rejection is just simply by being true to yourself. Understanding who you are and just be nice to them. Hey you are living for yourself here, if you like them just like them, treat them nicely (without for wanting them to rethink of course) and if they don't like you back, yeah you still have your life ahead. Be nice yo everyone guys, the right ones will come. Thanks for the video TheSingleGuy :D
My dude this so true and I hope every viewer listens. Almost every time I got rejected I was nice but did try to convince them to give us a chance lol my goodness the cringe. Last girl I dated though, i wished her the best and played along. Did express i was thankful for my time with her, but only truthful stuff that i really meant. By this point I was happy myself to move along, and essentially ghosted her after since i didn’t owe her anything. Months and even more than a year after she’s been reaching out and wanting another chance. I can only feel sorry because i am not longer available for her, but it is worth pointing out that this girl DID mention that one main reason she wanted another chance was because other guys usually take rejection horribly and i was the first dude to not react that way. So yes, it truly flips the script. This isn’t to brag about this poor girl, she’s great and i hope she’s moved on to some other great dude, this is about the fact that trying to force things never works
@@rperolino bro there’s no games here, It’s literally just being truthful, making a decision for your own well being and sticking to it. People, not just women, just respond very well to maturity and acting like a descent human being. It’s so rare that it makes you more attractive just by the scarcity of it.
@@zukondis I totally agree with what you said from your original comment. What I meant by mind games is how she came back to you AFTER you moved on with your life. That to me is a form of mind games, it's as if she was just testing how you would take her rejection instead of just being honest with you.
@@rperolino I'm in this situation right now, I've courted this girl for 1 year. She's having a mental episodes where in she's slitting her wrist. I chat her if she needs someone to talk to, I'm here but her reply was " No, I don't need your help just leave me alone" so I gave what she wanted. It's been 3 weeks since that incident and she's fine now posting funny stuff in social media but I'm still not giving her attention or any form of communication I just go radio silent. P.S I've been in a roller coaster of a relationship with her due to her excuse of not being mentally stable but she's actively on fb and active commenting with her friends. It feels like she's not feeling sorry on what she said to me.
Rejection is difficult for me. It’s been a lifelong issue. My own Dad rejected me when I was 12, so I’m always finding ways to deal with rejection, as a whole, in a more positive way.
Or, you can think of it this way.. You father rejected you, so you can take ANY rejection from ANY woman.. Correct..? I say that because I was abandoned by my "father"..
I'm writing this as a successful man Lloyd. With your wisdom I lost my membership to the club if you know what I mean :) You're a lifesaver and I really appreciate what you're doing. Keep on doing your thing mate, respect.
Well i got rejected twice from the same girl. And i was planning to ask her again, but after this video i got some confidence and i realized that will be a needy thing. Well said. Thanks for this.
*Rejection can sting, but it’s not the end of the world. The key is to stay composed and learn from the experience. Take it as a chance to reflect on how you approached her, but also remember - it’s her personal preference, not a reflection of your worth. Brush it off, keep your head high, and move on to the next opportunity!*
The timing of this video is insane man! Just watched your video because this girl I liked was inviting me to go out a month ago and then she distanced herself for a while after a few weeks but she still watches my stories! I tried hitting her up today and a week before and I realized I’m the one that’s being too needy! I noticed when you let it come to you they come back it’s weird it’s like reverse psychology sometimes haha! So right now I’m playing it cool and just being supportive about it! Thank you for your videos Lloyd they have helped me out a lot in keeping my confidence while at the same time not losing myself over a girl or over rejections! Have a blessed day man and keep the videos coming!😁🤙
Your being OK with her wanting to be with her friends signified "your self worth" to her. That you are a high caliber guy and its her loss and not yours. Bravo my friend!! Exactly how I would have acted. You have to look at yourself as being the prize and not her
Bro I always chase the bag and purpose. Thought of approaching a girl or dating never crossed my mind. Once I started seeing girls throwing themselves at me with choosing signals. I became curious and learned about it. I started regretting because alot of high quality sexy girls wanted me to approach them all along. This made me fired up and angry. I always had unshakable self esteem and self confidence but this boosted it even more. Now all I had to do was learn how to approach and socialise with a girl as I had no prior experiences. I decided to take the coldest toughest doomed to go wrong path. I went out of bed, went to the mall, searched and found the most hottest, sexiest, gorgeous girl I ever saw and I approached her. The social anxiety as an introvert kicked in and I wanted to run away so bad but when I did, it stung me in the heart because I was doing the same mistake of not approaching due to social fear. So I conquered myself and cold approached her. I got rejected due to flawed inexperienced approach game but it gave me positive results because if I can approach the most sexiest girl without knowing her, then k can approach any girl, and this means it’s way easy to approach a girl who gives me choosing signals like most of them one before did. So my self esteem and self confidence as a high value man still remained intact, she just put a scratch which will heal. So yeah over all it was a positive result with a pinch of salt. I am happy that I conquered a fear that held me back.
Awesome video Lloyd! Great advice, very good! You can always turn things around, in every situation in life, but the point is why should you exert efforts towards someone who rejected you? You are awesome and it's a privilege spending time with you, this is really the best way you should think about yourself
When an old ex tried those tricks, I thanked him and was able to focus on bettering myself and moving on without them. I met another man who has now become my life-long husband. I thank the ex for indirectly realizing my own self worth and setting me free so God can lead me to focus on improving my life and meet my husband.
i just got rejected by my crush yesterday strange thing is... i actually feel really great ( which is kind disturbing yes i know but hear me out ) The simple fact is : you don't chase the thing that trying to shoo you away, that's just logic, what i am trying to prove is, if you got rejected multiple times in your life, chances are, after about the 5th time, you probably will feel great afterward, they are the one who rejected you, show them the consequences of that action by : being happy, confident, don't chase them, work on yourself, be the best version of yourself, cause let be honest here, if you confessed your crush you probably already stir something up in that person, give them sometimes, and let them win you back ( since they chased you away, why are you the one who trying to pulling them back, you should let them put some effort into winning you back )
Some rejections are actually postponements. I got rejected by a crush years ago. I thanked her for her candacy and told her:- not a problem at all. About a week later, we were at the same dance function and she pulled me up for a dance, and told me I gave up too easily. What I did was leave it alone because I knew the ball was now in her court. I played my part prior. We went on to get married. We later got divorced.........but not before enjoying lots of good sex for a few years! 💃😁
Thank you for the positive and non toxic advice. I feel motivated to move on, if she comes to my life again thats great but i will not beg for her to come back right now I will be focusing on my self growth.
Ive been rejected way too many times that i should be used to it at this point, but honestly it really never gets any easier. Specially if you been seeing this person for a while.
I was talking with a woman - we’re both very busy with work and college…I notice whenever I would ask her to go out - she would be busy with work - school project- etc. Recently, I asked her out to the movies and she told me “someone else asked first”…then she said she’s open to go with me afterwards…I felt a kind of way about that knowing that she prioritized someone else before me. Then, yesterday, being thanksgiving, I asked her what her plans were and she told me “someone” asked her to have dinner with their family so today, I just forthrightly asked if she was seeing someone else and she affirmed that she had “been” seeing someone. My heart dropped. This is what brought me to this video. Trying to find some understanding. Of course she tells me “I’ll also be her “friend” forever which doesn’t sound as pleasing as being her main man… so I’m somewhat in a sunken place…
Man, walk away as soon as possible from any situation like this. She is either using you for attention or validation and that is not fair for you. Protect your money, energy, attention, time and testosterone.
I guess this goes along the same lines, I met someone and given the circumstance of how we met we were able to take it slow and got to know each other and not rush into a relationship. Over several months we found we had a lot in common, connected, communicated well and were actually supportive of each others needs. She tried to push me into a relationship when I wasn't comfortable due to other things in life. I guess she was taking it as a rejection from me and began acting real childish and immature. I was patient with her and still tried to connect with her b/c I thought she was different and we had grown close. I guess her attitude changed back to being positive b/c she saw I was patient with her and her issues that I perceived plus she wasn't super attractive and maybe felt she wasn't good enough for me. By the time she had seen the error of her ways I was fed up with her poor attitude, and had seen a different side to her. I guess she tried to be nice to me again but I said what I had to say in a kind and gentle manner regarding how offended I was by her. Then became completely cold towards her. She told me she didn't want to see me anymore, I accepted that graciously and walked away but I just feel super guilty about something that seemed like it could've been good but didn't turn out that way. I'm not sure if this falls under the situation you're referring to in the video?
I still remember when I tried asking a girl for her number, and then suggest or she could have mine if she ever wanted to talk. She said no. I was like "alright, thats cool". 2 weeks later she calls me, and my first response was "wow, how did you get my number?" and she sounded surprised I said that. And I was serious, like it was weird. A friend gave her my number. Still annoyed that she didn't ask me directly for it, because if a I did that to her I would be the enemy/weird.
@@TheSingleGuy I been going back & forth with this girl for over year. Recently I texted her that I wanted to talk but she insulted me said she didn't want to do anything with me. But after 2 hours called me for the first time ever. I didn't pick up the phone. How do I deal with her. Now her response as phone call is stuck in mind. Should I use middle person.
Open up to a girl and tell her how you feel about her and she will friend you every time. They love it. Makes them feel powerful. They are petty evil beings.
Never always be angry at the person it’s whenever men or women will reject you or not it always happens. The only best way to do is to take a break for talking the same person for a while.
Yesterday I asked out a girl in school and thought I was joking, and today we don’t have school, but tomorrow I will tell her I was telling the truth and I have to sit by her everyday😕😕😕😕
I've been in a situation fairly recently. I asked this girl out at work and she originally said yes. She and I both have chemistry, both find each other very attractive. But she backed out of a date because our age gap bothered her im 30 she's 23. And I said oh okay that's your choice and went about my business. But she and I still talk all the time, and she's teasing the idea of meeting up for coffee. I dont know if I should keep trying or just leave it be.
I saw my ex crush...but I ignored her. She brushed me off in a rude way before I got the chance to ask her out. I am glad she did because I would not want to be with a former party girl turned born again christian. Past actions have consequences.
I agree with this concept but at the same time knowing WHY they’re rejecting you is important. Before a girl has told me this and I was chill but asked what was wrong before she decided to stop seeing g me. She was willing to explain she felt I wasn’t interested because I didn’t reach out to her enough. A little reassurance, communication, and a solution brought her back and we’ve been dating since. If they reject you because of neediness or just not bringing your best self then yea, don’t become weak and cry about it.before they leave, ask them because I think its easier for me to move on knowing I tried to at least find a solution. If they don’t open up, then you can move on because your tried
"I feel sorry for them for not wanting to spend time with me" is quite an arrogant reaction. People have different personalities, interests and values, it doesn't make sense for everyone to want to spend time with you.
I like your talking points man. There is a smile on my face the whole time I was listening to you. There is this girl whom I had a "love at first sight moment in 2013". I met her again in 2015 and from then on started hanging with her, hiking, going out on a trip with our families and etc. I'm not madly crazy in love with her, but grew to really care for her. I'll ask to start a courtship with her few days from now. I hope it will turn out good, but watching this to prepare myself 😅 just in case.
Good advises. The only thing I disagree with is that its very difficult thst they will change their mind: if she says no to hang out with you alone, its because she doesnt find you attractive, which is very difficult to change. Best things is simply move on, hit the gym (or sports you like), do hobbies you like (possibly hobbies that involve other people) and approach new women. If she rejected you half the time its because you made some mistakes so you can reflect on that but the main point is that you keep yourself busy with things you like. This way you wont think too much about it and when you see her you will be less akward. As I said, very difficult that she changes her mind even if you follow all this advises but at least rejections wont hurt for long.
I've been doing everything you said a high value male has been doing and nothing has changed. Why?! No matter what city I move to, what college I go to, or what social group I get involved in, the result always remains the same and it sickens me and it surprises me every single time! If it didn't happen every fucking time, it wouldn't bother me at all.
yo man could've used this video like 3 weeks ago. was talking to this girl and she rejected the idea of dating me and i tried so hard to make her stick around because i thought that was my job to do. to show her that i was good. from 3 weeks , i tried my best to make something happen but it didn't. last night i messaged for closure ( i was desperate ) and it got a bit heated. i got told that i wasnt a priority to her. should've left it at that. i made an assumption about why and that was very rude of me. apologized for it and told her she wont hear from me again. in hindsight, i shouldve stopped 3 weeks ago. but hey you learn something new everyday. thanks and keep the good stuff coming.
A good lesson for you to learn. You put this girl on a pedestal and when it didn't go right, it took you 3 weeks to get over it and embarrass yourself in front of her in the process. Don't put anyone on a pedestal like that again. Don't let this stop you from asking other people out though, and if you get rejected again (you will, we all do), just say "that's cool" and move on.
I totally get this now, I realize I haven't reacted favorably in the past to rejection, I thought if I tried super hard to change her mind that she would, but they never did, if I had acted cool and ok with it they might have stuck around, but I realized I was being needy and I thought I was gonna be ok with it, but I think I just felt so hurt by no one wanting to give me a chance. I will never make that mistake again, I feel like its not even rejection either, I think a lot of girls test guys by acting meek or like they don't like him but in reality they're seeing how they'll react so they can judge, don't play into their hands, and its true, being with any girl is a privilege you should cherish, unless shes a total bitch lol
I had girls in a night club get so close to me that they were standing to close so i go hello how are you one of the girls we are not talking to you and I go so you won't get off my feet that you are stepping on? Some girls think you are hitting on the m just by talking to them. Rejections are good thing it makes you stronger trust me. I even thanked girls for rejecting me because that saves me time.
Once you get "friendzoned" (rejected) move on! Being rejected hurts way less than staying "friends" with a person that rejected you! There is NO BEING FRIENDS after GETTING REJECTED!
Yeah, this chick who rejected me couldn't understand why I didn't want to talk to her and avoided/ignored her. She's like "What's the big deal?". She was clueless. I'm not gonna stay friends after that. Moving on, NEXT!
My husband is still platonic friends with someone who he rejected and she is now married and not interested in him. I honestly have no problem with that. :)
Can I tell her how wonderful I find her and bring up her qualities and how much I like them before moving on, hoping that she will reflect on it and eventually want to come back in the future?
Dude hell nah. They rly see you as a kind of a needy guy if u do some shit like that. I did that and I regret for doin it. A lotta times, you just have to say ok with a nice smiling face and get lost
Hey Loyd i recently just went into college i am still experiencing some rejection now and then both in school cumpus and back at the hotel were am staying for now it's no big deal to me lately coz i feel like am strong enough and this video really picked me up and I've kept pushing it came at a really perfect timing thanks a lot
TheSingleGuy is just giving tips on how to move on, 90% of women won't come back no matter how you play it, they just have an abundance of men chasing them so they wouldn't ever lower their egos, would you as a guy go back to a women you rejected if you had women chasing you, absolutely not, you'd forget them instantly. I tend to hit a girl with her weaknesses or insecurities if she GHOSTED, we need to discourage people from ghosting, not make it a valid easy way to leave by acting cool about it. No kid would ever learn manners or anything valuable if they didn't receive criticism. If she gave you a polite/valid answer, accept it and move on.
I've got a lady lined up for a classic car show next weekend. She was given a few weeks notice. I've already anticipated that she may flake out at the last minute and have adjusted my emotions to part expect it. Now, if she does, I plan on being very dignified about it. The best, if you will, 'revenge' you can take against a rejecter, is make them regret their decision not by being rude and vindicating them, but by being mature and graceful about it. The ball is from that point, in their court if they decide they like you afterall. Two things I will NEVER do is be rude, or simp after her. She said NO. And I won't ask her to any event again if she fails to accompany me next weekend. I can't waste my time and risk a stalking charge hanging off me.
A question for a friend: So, he was hanging out with a girl a few times who seemed interested in him, but she never initiated hang outs herself, which led him to start pursuing more to the point of confessing his feelings for her, and that's when she rejected him by saying she has a bf and that they can still be friends (he messed up abit by verbally agreeing to the friendzone, but in terms of action, he has walked away and not talked with her ever since). Now that he ignores her presence when they're in the same area, he notices that she sometimes seems to linger around where he is but never directly approaches him and he never gives in to try to give her attention. Should he carry on like this?
Absolutely not. He deserves to find a girl that will show him that she's interested and not play stupid games. Tell your friend to not bother with this girl. She's already rejected him and that's that. Move on and find someone that won't reject you.
You don't "confess feelings" to a girl. You ask her to get a drink with you and you escalate things. If you "confess feelings" you simply look weak and are less attractive to them. You've killed any mystery for them, and they love that aspect of the game. At this point he can and should still be polite to her, but should not pursue her or otherwise waste time on her. He should not ignore her when she comes up to him, but no more than brief polite chats, light flirting maybe, keep it fun and light but brief. He should pursue another girl or someone else she knows, that's about the only hope to get out of the friendzone with her. Women get super jealous when male attention that was once theirs goes to someone else, especially a friend of theirs. Moving on is a win-win for the guy here.
Haha bout to go express my interest, knowing I'm probally gonna get rejected. But it would feel worse not to be open about it. This video resonates and helps with the confidence, thanks!
Don’t be a jerk. Don’t react. Don’t over react. At the most, ask why, if you have that kind of equation. If you can’t talk to girls as human beings, you’ll find it very difficult to get a yes out of a girl and to have a healthy relationship/marriage with one.
All true, but the idea that someone doesn't want to spend time with you because there's something wrong, is I think a self deception, there are people that I don't hang out with, not because I don't like them, but because maybe we don't have the same values, maybe we don't have common ground, or maybe that person has certain issues that they wouldn't even veiw as an issue, however i would see it as a big one.
They usually wont even tell the truth about why they rejected either. So no point trying to salvage anything. Walk away and live your life. Life is short.
Do not move on to try and win her back. Do it for yourself.
Nah Man im chilling with boys
Nah man i rather try my luck in japan first coz many high value girls there that are in the right heads.
@@wilkinstokarev5705I lived in Japan for 2 years and I noticed that most of the girls are very very professional
Ive never had a woman who rejected me ever change her mind. They all wanted nothing to do with me. Ive gotten bitter and resentful towards women because they lack empathy for my situation. 9/10 have rejected me because of my looks and attitude. The reality is that the women I like dont like me. Im considering suicide in the coming months because I have NPD and women dont view me as being datable.
But then the next one rejects me!!! :@
The rejection thing doesn’t bother me much anymore. I’m just happy that I actually tried by approaching a lady
I love this mentality
But the worst part is that they reject you and go after someone who is below u or beneath you in every aspect ..
Thats really all that matters that you tried
Yea better do it than regret it later
@@shashwat3653 yea because they want to compete in a rela and be the dominant one..
Rejection is a part of life. Don’t be mad at the one who rejected you. I was for the longest time. Till one day I heard about my old crush’s ill reputation. Sometimes rejection can be a blessing for you.
Fact.
Best thing to do to a woman when she rejects you is to ignore, move on and don't give the person the satisfaction of seeing you hurt.
No, don’t take it personally and don’t accept hurt in the first place.
How do you know It’s a negative thing?? If you brought your best self, she could be nervous, intimidated. She could of just had a bad day. Could be heart broken from a previous relationship.
You could be too much for her.
Girls reject guys for many different reasons, bring your best self and never take it personally.
Classic ego stroking and self delusion.
Don’t stalk, harass, bully, hack her phone, contact her friends, display a million negative emotions, react, steal her laptop, contact EVERYONE who she knows, intrude in her job prospects, ask people to belittle and argue with her, hold her back from being loved by guys who she’s willing to see, contact her friends or family, gossip about her, spread rumours, contact her relatives or anyone asking about her, etc. DO NOT project your misplaced emotions on her or ANY stranger, who you don’t even know.
Move on. If you don’t practice moving on and letting go, early on, you’ll never learn the skill. You’ll become a weirdo in his 20’s and 30’s, using a stranger to distract himself from finding his own identity and his own purpose. Trust me, it’s not a good look!
Women do not care.
@EmilyGloeggler7984 nope. Girls have the right to reject. Guys have the right to move on with their lives as well. If a girl just wants a friendship which is her right. The guy also has the right to reject that and move on
If she rejects you she’s betting you aren’t good enough or ever be good enough. It’s your job to make sure she loses that bet
Exactly!!! Love this comment
Yessir
Eye for an eye
She doesn’t lose the bet. She can find better. I did. :)
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The greatest form of skill a man could learn is to know humility and acceptance on when to walk away. It's a form of self love.
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If she rejected you it's because in her eyes, you're not good enough for her. Nothing is really gonna change that. Sorry to burst everyone's bubble but if she rejects you, odds are she won't change her mind. Even if she sees you 'levelling up'. Just move on to someone else and forget about her.
I needed to read that. Thank you
Speak for yourself bud lol
@@Lvl22Cowboy You sound hurt. Guy actually gave you a hint to work on yourself.
this vid making FALSE HOPES to those guys that got rejected
She already moved onto someone else
I’ve dealt with nonstop rejection from 12 years old all the way into my late 30s. Once I hit 40 and was more financially successful I stopped caring and now focus on spending my money on myself.
A democrat member of Congress pulled a fire alarm to avoid a vote... and the media supported it
Same. First love led me on but would never be my girlfriend.. told me I could never tell anyone. And that was one I loved. Quite a few rejections after. I used to think women were great, I don't now. I know otherwise.
🙌🏽
But did you get a gf now
different for me, rejected even before i can say anything, but i was surprise i successt to even date, i'm guessing i am rejected because i am ugly or just not popular 😂
I just move on. Plenty fish in the sea. The key word here is abundance mindset guys.
100%
Those are called players and the wise woman knows to avoid modern Don Juans who could replace a woman whenever they feel like it. Ladies or men who act like that with that toxic mindset deserve no one.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 not a toxic mindset at all, im not gonna chase a woman, period, it lowers confidence and people lead into depression
@@EmilyGloeggler7984What utter foolishness. If I am rejected, I will move on to the next woman asap! There are literally billions of them on planet Earth. They are all replaceable. Who cares what they think? I live my life for me.
It feels best when she is the prettiest and move to the next fast
The power of silence is the best. In my cases I usually don't give a damn about someone that rejected me.
More like “complete rejection doesn’t exist.” She may reject you at one time, accept you the next. But for a long-term relationship you want someone who won’t put you through those ups and downs.
Exactly
Yup
Facts
That’s not always the truth for all women.
No. There’s a difference between a girl being unsure and a girl being sure. A girl who doesn’t leave a window open, doesn’t engage you when the topic of relationships comes up, talks about other guys she’s interested in and doesn’t envision you in her plans, is not leaving a door open to be with you. When that’s the case, it’s a closed case.
There’s nothing to pursue. Why would you want to, anyway? Don’t you want to be with someone, who wants you the first time round and says YES instead of a million NO’s?
When she rejects you, you accept it and move on. Life is too short to fret over someone saying "No" to you. As far as I'm concerned, no means no, "They're not interested", so why waste your time even thinking about it. I once asked a woman out and she politely declined by saying, "Thank You For Asking, But No Thank You". I accepted it and moved on. Six months later I happen to run into this woman again and she came up to me with a big smile on her face and started asking me how I was and what's been going on. We chatted for a few minutes when out of the blue she said this to me, "When Are You Going To Ask Me Out?" I told her that I had already asked her out and that she told me thank you, but no thank you. She laughed and said this to me, "You Give Up Too Easy". I said to her, "What Do You Mean? I Asked You Out And You Said No And No To Me Means That You're Not Interested." I then went on to tell her that she never gave me any kind of reason to ask again, that she said "No" and didn't elaborate by saying something like, "Maybe Some Other Time" or "Not Now Because (Whatever)", or anything, that she said "No" and as far as I was concerned that was that. I also told her that I don't chase anyone, I ask once, and if the answer is no, I move on and never ask again. So, she then said this to me, "Then That Means You're Never Going To Ask Me Out Again?" I politely said "No", told her to have a nice evening and left. The shocked look on her face was priceless.
Lol nice. In my opinion I'd say that was the right choice as it seems possible she was trying to play games with you but who knows.
@iambeloved The indecisiveness of women can drive you crazy if you let it, but I don't. I don't allow myself to get wrapped up in any women's madness.
@@violeteyes5255 I am unfortunately an overthinker so I get all kinds of crap that goes through my head. Trying to figure out ways to stop doing that.
@iambeloved I used to be an overthinker, but one day, I discovered I was just wasting my time, and my time is worth much more than any woman's inability to make up her mind. Life is too short, and I have better things to do with my time than to be going around and around in circles getting nowhere. I don't play mind games, and I don't allow women to trap me in them. It makes life so much easier when you simplify.
@@violeteyes5255 good deal thank you for sharing maybe I stand a chance
If someone rejects you:
- she knows what you wanted and what she did to you
- she knows what she did to you
- she knows that its over from her side
- never chase that girl
- forget her
- immediately go to full no contact and don’t accept her trying to stay in contact with her
- forget her and move on
- take all your previous attention from her
- respect yourself
- she rejected you because she doesn’t care , so why should you care for someone who left you at the begging of something you wanted…
- case close , never contact her again, because she could reject you again…
Thanks bro, your words make
me feel motivated.
needed this rn ty bro, 👑
And if she does gain interest you will know!
I wish I could like this comment 1 million times
@@imcoop why?
We should move on and let it go if we get rejected
Exactly
@@TheSingleGuy I could be wrong it’s just in my opinion
@@TYE2020 you should but they do come back, so don’t neglect that
I wish all guys could have this mindset ❤
Getting rejectied is much better than not trying to approach a woman! At least, at the end of the day you'll not regret that you didn't approach her!
Love this thanks
Think about all that money you saved. You can even thank she rejected you lol
haha and all the time you saved too
@@TheSingleGuy Yeah time too! Since I think like this rejection never hurt me :)
LOL!! This made me laught because its what I just felt. The girl I liked and asked out made up a "rule" that she couldn't date a guy that she saw at her job (she works at my gym). It was just 3 weeks ago and still hurts a little but right after she said no I put money in my savings at home that I planned on spending on the date. More money for me I guess.
@@FJano12 Bro I always chase the bag and purpose. Thought of approaching a girl or dating never crossed my mind. Once I started seeing girls throwing themselves at me with choosing signals. I became curious and learned about it. I started regretting because alot of high quality sexy girls wanted me to approach them all along. This made me fired up and angry. I always had unshakable self esteem and self confidence but this boosted it even more. Now all I had to do was learn how to approach and socialise with a girl as I had no prior experiences. I decided to take the coldest toughest doomed to go wrong path. I went out of bed, went to the mall, searched and found the most hottest, sexiest, gorgeous girl I ever saw and I approached her. The social anxiety as an introvert kicked in and I wanted to run away so bad but when I did, it stung me in the heart because I was doing the same mistake of not approaching due to social fear. So I conquered myself and cold approached her. I got rejected due to flawed inexperienced approach game but it gave me positive results because if I can approach the most sexiest girl without knowing her, then i can approach any girl, and this means it’s way easy to approach a girl who gives me choosing signals like most of them one before did. So my self esteem and self confidence as a high value man still remained intact, she just put a scratch which will heal. So yeah over all it was a positive result with a pinch of salt.
Good advice. Best thing to do when rejected is to act polite and nonchalant about it. Never burn a bridge but quickly move on to other opportunities. A certain SMALL percentage of the time, there may be an opportunity with her in the future so don't sabotage that, but don't count on it either.
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Out of every comment I read on here yours made so much sense, thank you!!
It’s unlikely there’s an opportunity. In rare instances, you’ll only be friends. Most people are married with kids or divorced with kids. Marriage and divorce can change your perspective so can exposure.
Girls typically marry up which means that they get exposure into a different world. If you’re not exciting with her current exposure, you can’t even hold her attention for 10 seconds after she’s exposed to an even better world.
This is hands down the best way to handle rejection. Respond with “ok no problem” and stay positive and up beat. Never act butt hurt. Ask her if her day is going ok and tell her it was nice speaking with her.
She will never expect it.
The Proof is bc it’s hard to do!! If you get rejected or dumped and you don’t know what to do, do what your feelings DON’T tell you to do.
You’re feelings tell you look for an reason or explanation from her. Your feelings tell you to try again explain yourself, Your feelings tell you to get angry, get even, get revenge.
But your feelings hardly ever tell you to walk away, treat the rejection as her problem, stay friendly and never take it personally and move on to another girl, the one that likes you.
You speak the truth man. This happened to me last year. It's a burden to carry, but I stood tall and walked away after the rejection and continued on my path. Guess what? As of a couple months ago, shes constantly trying to initiate conversations with me and even wants to hang out with me at times(even with her still with the dude/new bf she chose over me). But nah, still not giving in, as I'm doing better than ever. This made me also realize why even try to date her anymore if shes trying to talk to me even with her new bf lol.
Yes brother love that!
She still wants to know you have those feelings for her. It's a trap and you made the right move
That's awful how can she initiate convos with you after hurting you and while having a partner
⛳ To me
@surbhi_27 Agreed. Something don't add up.
A girl I had something going on with (we had met up about 7 times, and went on 1 date). Used the ”I see this more as a friendship” card on me. I told her that I have enough friends and wished her good luck on everthing going on in her life.
Hell nah man no friendship let her know you want something romantic
Started this video in tears and ended it without tears and a peace I didn't realize I had before. Ive heen dealing with this rejection for like 5 years. It's been so painful. This is a reminder of who I am. This is not pride or false humility. It is a privilege. Thank you!
I normally just say something like: It's sad that you feel that way, but I respect your choice. Wish you all the best and proceed to move on.
This is so true. After so many rejections, I think the best way to deal with rejection is just simply by being true to yourself. Understanding who you are and just be nice to them. Hey you are living for yourself here, if you like them just like them, treat them nicely (without for wanting them to rethink of course) and if they don't like you back, yeah you still have your life ahead. Be nice yo everyone guys, the right ones will come.
Thanks for the video TheSingleGuy :D
My dude this so true and I hope every viewer listens. Almost every time I got rejected I was nice but did try to convince them to give us a chance lol my goodness the cringe. Last girl I dated though, i wished her the best and played along. Did express i was thankful for my time with her, but only truthful stuff that i really meant. By this point I was happy myself to move along, and essentially ghosted her after since i didn’t owe her anything. Months and even more than a year after she’s been reaching out and wanting another chance. I can only feel sorry because i am not longer available for her, but it is worth pointing out that this girl DID mention that one main reason she wanted another chance was because other guys usually take rejection horribly and i was the first dude to not react that way. So yes, it truly flips the script. This isn’t to brag about this poor girl, she’s great and i hope she’s moved on to some other great dude, this is about the fact that trying to force things never works
That my friend is a form of mind game. Props to you for moving forward
@@rperolino bro there’s no games here, It’s literally just being truthful, making a decision for your own well being and sticking to it. People, not just women, just respond very well to maturity and acting like a descent human being. It’s so rare that it makes you more attractive just by the scarcity of it.
@@zukondis I totally agree with what you said from your original comment. What I meant by mind games is how she came back to you AFTER you moved on with your life. That to me is a form of mind games, it's as if she was just testing how you would take her rejection instead of just being honest with you.
@@rperolino I'm in this situation right now, I've courted this girl for 1 year. She's having a mental episodes where in she's slitting her wrist. I chat her if she needs someone to talk to, I'm here but her reply was " No, I don't need your help just leave me alone" so I gave what she wanted. It's been 3 weeks since that incident and she's fine now posting funny stuff in social media but I'm still not giving her attention or any form of communication I just go radio silent. P.S I've been in a roller coaster of a relationship with her due to her excuse of not being mentally stable but she's actively on fb and active commenting with her friends. It feels like she's not feeling sorry on what she said to me.
@@jcm2789 that's a tough spot to be on man. Give her your best wish and focus on you. We cannot help someone else when us ourselves are falling apart.
Focus on you, and the women will too
yes but make sure they meet you at some point
Rejection is difficult for me. It’s been a lifelong issue. My own Dad rejected me when I was 12, so I’m always finding ways to deal with rejection, as a whole, in a more positive way.
sry to hear that smh. yo dad ain't shxt. u gon b aight tho
I’m sorry to hear that as well. Rejection suck’s It’s the worst thing in life but u are closer to finding everything that’s ahead of u
Or, you can think of it this way.. You father rejected you, so you can take ANY rejection from ANY woman.. Correct..? I say that because I was abandoned by my "father"..
@@Maya_heart I’ll kill it ver rejection
Bro go for a sales job, you will forget your dad's rejection 😂 JK stay strong
I'm writing this as a successful man Lloyd. With your wisdom I lost my membership to the club if you know what I mean :) You're a lifesaver and I really appreciate what you're doing. Keep on doing your thing mate, respect.
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Well i got rejected twice from the same girl. And i was planning to ask her again, but after this video i got some confidence and i realized that will be a needy thing. Well said. Thanks for this.
How's it going bro
*Rejection can sting, but it’s not the end of the world. The key is to stay composed and learn from the experience. Take it as a chance to reflect on how you approached her, but also remember - it’s her personal preference, not a reflection of your worth. Brush it off, keep your head high, and move on to the next opportunity!*
The timing of this video is insane man! Just watched your video because this girl I liked was inviting me to go out a month ago and then she distanced herself for a while after a few weeks but she still watches my stories! I tried hitting her up today and a week before and I realized I’m the one that’s being too needy! I noticed when you let it come to you they come back it’s weird it’s like reverse psychology sometimes haha! So right now I’m playing it cool and just being supportive about it! Thank you for your videos Lloyd they have helped me out a lot in keeping my confidence while at the same time not losing myself over a girl or over rejections! Have a blessed day man and keep the videos coming!😁🤙
Aye can you update us on what happened between you and her
Your being OK with her wanting to be with her friends signified "your self worth" to her. That you are a high caliber guy and its her loss and not yours. Bravo my friend!! Exactly how I would have acted. You have to look at yourself as being the prize and not her
Bro I always chase the bag and purpose. Thought of approaching a girl or dating never crossed my mind. Once I started seeing girls throwing themselves at me with choosing signals. I became curious and learned about it. I started regretting because alot of high quality sexy girls wanted me to approach them all along. This made me fired up and angry. I always had unshakable self esteem and self confidence but this boosted it even more. Now all I had to do was learn how to approach and socialise with a girl as I had no prior experiences. I decided to take the coldest toughest doomed to go wrong path. I went out of bed, went to the mall, searched and found the most hottest, sexiest, gorgeous girl I ever saw and I approached her. The social anxiety as an introvert kicked in and I wanted to run away so bad but when I did, it stung me in the heart because I was doing the same mistake of not approaching due to social fear. So I conquered myself and cold approached her. I got rejected due to flawed inexperienced approach game but it gave me positive results because if I can approach the most sexiest girl without knowing her, then k can approach any girl, and this means it’s way easy to approach a girl who gives me choosing signals like most of them one before did. So my self esteem and self confidence as a high value man still remained intact, she just put a scratch which will heal. So yeah over all it was a positive result with a pinch of salt. I am happy that I conquered a fear that held me back.
If she rejects you, walk away. If you keep pursuing her, then you're harassing her.
Yep, walk away and pretend she never existed.
What a bs, but whatever
Rejection just a misunderstanding 💯
Awesome video Lloyd! Great advice, very good! You can always turn things around, in every situation in life, but the point is why should you exert efforts towards someone who rejected you? You are awesome and it's a privilege spending time with you, this is really the best way you should think about yourself
Do not do this to try and 'win her back' do it for yourself
When an old ex tried those tricks, I thanked him and was able to focus on bettering myself and moving on without them. I met another man who has now become my life-long husband. I thank the ex for indirectly realizing my own self worth and setting me free so God can lead me to focus on improving my life and meet my husband.
Wow. I literally got rejected today and this came up on my suggestions. Shout out to the RUclips algorithm! Great video btw
i just got rejected by my crush yesterday
strange thing is... i actually feel really great ( which is kind disturbing yes i know but hear me out )
The simple fact is : you don't chase the thing that trying to shoo you away, that's just logic, what i am trying to prove is, if you got rejected multiple times in your life, chances are, after about the 5th time, you probably will feel great afterward, they are the one who rejected you, show them the consequences of that action by : being happy, confident, don't chase them, work on yourself, be the best version of yourself, cause let be honest here, if you confessed your crush you probably already stir something up in that person, give them sometimes, and let them win you back ( since they chased you away, why are you the one who trying to pulling them back, you should let them put some effort into winning you back )
Some rejections are actually postponements.
I got rejected by a crush years ago. I thanked her for her candacy and told her:- not a problem at all. About a week later, we were at the same dance function and she pulled me up for a dance, and told me I gave up too easily.
What I did was leave it alone because I knew the ball was now in her court. I played my part prior. We went on to get married. We later got divorced.........but not before enjoying lots of good sex for a few years! 💃😁
@@noelgibson5956 well you see, you still need to let her go tho, but i really hope you are doing okay now, hope you will find someone better
Thank you for the positive and non toxic advice. I feel motivated to move on, if she comes to my life again thats great but i will not beg for her to come back right now I will be focusing on my self growth.
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Sometimes, two great compatible people meet at the wrong time and just can't be together, and it has nothing to do with you!
"They must be going through a lot, I hope tehy're well" Best way of thinking haha
This is no different than a sales pitch. You are the product.
Ive been rejected way too many times that i should be used to it at this point, but honestly it really never gets any easier. Specially if you been seeing this person for a while.
Somehow heard a point of view I never did! Great video as usual. Keep up the underrated real tips.
I was talking with a woman - we’re both very busy with work and college…I notice whenever I would ask her to go out - she would be busy with work - school project- etc. Recently, I asked her out to the movies and she told me “someone else asked first”…then she said she’s open to go with me afterwards…I felt a kind of way about that knowing that she prioritized someone else before me. Then, yesterday, being thanksgiving, I asked her what her plans were and she told me “someone” asked her to have dinner with their family so today, I just forthrightly asked if she was seeing someone else and she affirmed that she had “been” seeing someone. My heart dropped. This is what brought me to this video. Trying to find some understanding. Of course she tells me “I’ll also be her “friend” forever which doesn’t sound as pleasing as being her main man… so I’m somewhat in a sunken place…
Bruh ik what you feel I truly do, I had my heart broken last week
😂😂😂😂😂bro how is it going?
Man, walk away as soon as possible from any situation like this. She is either using you for attention or validation and that is not fair for you. Protect your money, energy, attention, time and testosterone.
I guess this goes along the same lines, I met someone and given the circumstance of how we met we were able to take it slow and got to know each other and not rush into a relationship. Over several months we found we had a lot in common, connected, communicated well and were actually supportive of each others needs. She tried to push me into a relationship when I wasn't comfortable due to other things in life. I guess she was taking it as a rejection from me and began acting real childish and immature. I was patient with her and still tried to connect with her b/c I thought she was different and we had grown close. I guess her attitude changed back to being positive b/c she saw I was patient with her and her issues that I perceived plus she wasn't super attractive and maybe felt she wasn't good enough for me. By the time she had seen the error of her ways I was fed up with her poor attitude, and had seen a different side to her. I guess she tried to be nice to me again but I said what I had to say in a kind and gentle manner regarding how offended I was by her. Then became completely cold towards her. She told me she didn't want to see me anymore, I accepted that graciously and walked away but I just feel super guilty about something that seemed like it could've been good but didn't turn out that way. I'm not sure if this falls under the situation you're referring to in the video?
No
I still remember when I tried asking a girl for her number, and then suggest or she could have mine if she ever wanted to talk. She said no. I was like "alright, thats cool".
2 weeks later she calls me, and my first response was "wow, how did you get my number?" and she sounded surprised I said that. And I was serious, like it was weird. A friend gave her my number. Still annoyed that she didn't ask me directly for it, because if a I did that to her I would be the enemy/weird.
she obviously liked you
@@TheSingleGuy I been going back & forth with this girl for over year. Recently I texted her that I wanted to talk but she insulted me said she didn't want to do anything with me. But after 2 hours called me for the first time ever. I didn't pick up the phone. How do I deal with her. Now her response as phone call is stuck in mind. Should I use middle person.
@@anonymous2964 how is it going brother?
Open up to a girl and tell her how you feel about her and she will friend you every time. They love it. Makes them feel powerful. They are petty evil beings.
😂😂😂" pretty evil " hahaha 😂
no girl who ever rejected me ever came back
Is that a good or a bad thing 😂?
Bro what did you do💀
Thank you. I just got rejected because I am 15 years older and my height is short. This is enlightening. I appreciate your wisdom.
Nice to meet yall my fellow rejected bros..
Fck that, but at the same time, good thing it happened. I went through tough times like the rest of us in 2020.
Never always be angry at the person it’s whenever men or women will reject you or not it always happens. The only best way to do is to take a break for talking the same person for a while.
Yesterday I asked out a girl in school and thought I was joking, and today we don’t have school, but tomorrow I will tell her I was telling the truth and I have to sit by her everyday😕😕😕😕
Mark this guy's words. Best video on this subject. More accept than support. one word answers of "okay" or "alright" are perfect
I've been rejected over the years by several very attractive women... trust me, I've NEVER heard from them again.
I've been in a situation fairly recently. I asked this girl out at work and she originally said yes. She and I both have chemistry, both find each other very attractive. But she backed out of a date because our age gap bothered her im 30 she's 23. And I said oh okay that's your choice and went about my business. But she and I still talk all the time, and she's teasing the idea of meeting up for coffee. I dont know if I should keep trying or just leave it be.
I saw my ex crush...but I ignored her. She brushed me off in a rude way before I got the chance to ask her out. I am glad she did because I would not want to be with a former party girl turned born again christian. Past actions have consequences.
Really needed this, thanks king ❤️
I agree with this concept but at the same time knowing WHY they’re rejecting you is important. Before a girl has told me this and I was chill but asked what was wrong before she decided to stop seeing g me. She was willing to explain she felt I wasn’t interested because I didn’t reach out to her enough. A little reassurance, communication, and a solution brought her back and we’ve been dating since. If they reject you because of neediness or just not bringing your best self then yea, don’t become weak and cry about it.before they leave, ask them because I think its easier for me to move on knowing I tried to at least find a solution. If they don’t open up, then you can move on because your tried
Completely agree and surprised no one else has said this.
"I feel sorry for them for not wanting to spend time with me" is quite an arrogant reaction. People have different personalities, interests and values, it doesn't make sense for everyone to want to spend time with you.
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love this video man
3:06 - 3:38 is gold, keep ya head up homies
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I like your talking points man. There is a smile on my face the whole time I was listening to you. There is this girl whom I had a "love at first sight moment in 2013". I met her again in 2015 and from then on started hanging with her, hiking, going out on a trip with our families and etc. I'm not madly crazy in love with her, but grew to really care for her. I'll ask to start a courtship with her few days from now. I hope it will turn out good, but watching this to prepare myself 😅 just in case.
Good advises. The only thing I disagree with is that its very difficult thst they will change their mind: if she says no to hang out with you alone, its because she doesnt find you attractive, which is very difficult to change. Best things is simply move on, hit the gym (or sports you like), do hobbies you like (possibly hobbies that involve other people) and approach new women. If she rejected you half the time its because you made some mistakes so you can reflect on that but the main point is that you keep yourself busy with things you like. This way you wont think too much about it and when you see her you will be less akward. As I said, very difficult that she changes her mind even if you follow all this advises but at least rejections wont hurt for long.
Rejection is better than regret. Plus Chemistry is best when its reciprocal.
Timing is a factor
I love your way of thinking ! I'm going to apply this to guys as well
You are so right
I've been doing everything you said a high value male has been doing and nothing has changed. Why?! No matter what city I move to, what college I go to, or what social group I get involved in, the result always remains the same and it sickens me and it surprises me every single time! If it didn't happen every fucking time, it wouldn't bother me at all.
Mans eyebrows go so high dayum
yo man could've used this video like 3 weeks ago. was talking to this girl and she rejected the idea of dating me and i tried so hard to make her stick around because i thought that was my job to do. to show her that i was good. from 3 weeks , i tried my best to make something happen but it didn't. last night i messaged for closure ( i was desperate ) and it got a bit heated. i got told that i wasnt a priority to her. should've left it at that. i made an assumption about why and that was very rude of me. apologized for it and told her she wont hear from me again. in hindsight, i shouldve stopped 3 weeks ago. but hey you learn something new everyday. thanks and keep the good stuff coming.
A good lesson for you to learn. You put this girl on a pedestal and when it didn't go right, it took you 3 weeks to get over it and embarrass yourself in front of her in the process. Don't put anyone on a pedestal like that again. Don't let this stop you from asking other people out though, and if you get rejected again (you will, we all do), just say "that's cool" and move on.
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If she tries to come back, exit stage left.
If you can continue living your life as if nothing happened
This is when you win
I totally get this now, I realize I haven't reacted favorably in the past to rejection, I thought if I tried super hard to change her mind that she would, but they never did, if I had acted cool and ok with it they might have stuck around, but I realized I was being needy and I thought I was gonna be ok with it, but I think I just felt so hurt by no one wanting to give me a chance. I will never make that mistake again, I feel like its not even rejection either, I think a lot of girls test guys by acting meek or like they don't like him but in reality they're seeing how they'll react so they can judge, don't play into their hands, and its true, being with any girl is a privilege you should cherish, unless shes a total bitch lol
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I look at it this way, I think that a rejection is Gods way of saying you dodged a bullet.
The quality of these videos are amazing
thanks homie. I'm stepping it back up
strong projection keep up the good work man
Excellent advice 🙏🏽❤. I did the exact thing when i got rejected by someone i was really interested in.
Amazing video bro, like your attitude.
It’s all about the mindset
I had girls in a night club get so close to me that they were standing to close so i go hello how are you one of the girls we are not talking to you and I go so you won't get off my feet that you are stepping on? Some girls think you are hitting on the m just by talking to them. Rejections are good thing it makes you stronger trust me. I even thanked girls for rejecting me because that saves me time.
Once you get "friendzoned" (rejected) move on! Being rejected hurts way less than staying "friends" with a person that rejected you! There is NO BEING FRIENDS after GETTING REJECTED!
Incel
Yeah, this chick who rejected me couldn't understand why I didn't want to talk to her and avoided/ignored her. She's like "What's the big deal?". She was clueless. I'm not gonna stay friends after that. Moving on, NEXT!
Exactly
My husband is still platonic friends with someone who he rejected and she is now married and not interested in him. I honestly have no problem with that. :)
Block them, ignore them and slander them. Dating advice 101
you're kidding righ
My voice sounds a little harsh because I hurt my throat in Jiu Jitsu
I thought you got Covid.
From guillotine,rear naked choke,d'arce,anaconda?We need some details man😂
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Love that positive thinking be a beast
Can I tell her how wonderful I find her and bring up her qualities and how much I like them before moving on, hoping that she will reflect on it and eventually want to come back in the future?
Dude hell nah. They rly see you as a kind of a needy guy if u do some shit like that. I did that and I regret for doin it. A lotta times, you just have to say ok with a nice smiling face and get lost
Hey Loyd i recently just went into college i am still experiencing some rejection now and then both in school cumpus and back at the hotel were am staying for now it's no big deal to me lately coz i feel like am strong enough and this video really picked me up and I've kept pushing it came at a really perfect timing thanks a lot
TheSingleGuy is just giving tips on how to move on, 90% of women won't come back no matter how you play it, they just have an abundance of men chasing them so they wouldn't ever lower their egos, would you as a guy go back to a women you rejected if you had women chasing you, absolutely not, you'd forget them instantly. I tend to hit a girl with her weaknesses or insecurities if she GHOSTED, we need to discourage people from ghosting, not make it a valid easy way to leave by acting cool about it. No kid would ever learn manners or anything valuable if they didn't receive criticism. If she gave you a polite/valid answer, accept it and move on.
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Rejection is better than getting regret
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I like the message of this video.ITS BURNING🔥
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Lloyd, i'm grateful for this video. You're awesome.
Dude thanks man!
Awesome vid brotha. The message I got from this vid and what you did was indifference💯
I've got a lady lined up for a classic car show next weekend. She was given a few weeks notice. I've already anticipated that she may flake out at the last minute and have adjusted my emotions to part expect it. Now, if she does, I plan on being very dignified about it. The best, if you will, 'revenge' you can take against a rejecter, is make them regret their decision not by being rude and vindicating them, but by being mature and graceful about it. The ball is from that point, in their court if they decide they like you afterall.
Two things I will NEVER do is be rude, or simp after her. She said NO. And I won't ask her to any event again if she fails to accompany me next weekend.
I can't waste my time and risk a stalking charge hanging off me.
Don't change yourself for anyone
A question for a friend: So, he was hanging out with a girl a few times who seemed interested in him, but she never initiated hang outs herself, which led him to start pursuing more to the point of confessing his feelings for her, and that's when she rejected him by saying she has a bf and that they can still be friends (he messed up abit by verbally agreeing to the friendzone, but in terms of action, he has walked away and not talked with her ever since). Now that he ignores her presence when they're in the same area, he notices that she sometimes seems to linger around where he is but never directly approaches him and he never gives in to try to give her attention. Should he carry on like this?
Absolutely not. He deserves to find a girl that will show him that she's interested and not play stupid games. Tell your friend to not bother with this girl. She's already rejected him and that's that. Move on and find someone that won't reject you.
You don't "confess feelings" to a girl. You ask her to get a drink with you and you escalate things. If you "confess feelings" you simply look weak and are less attractive to them. You've killed any mystery for them, and they love that aspect of the game. At this point he can and should still be polite to her, but should not pursue her or otherwise waste time on her. He should not ignore her when she comes up to him, but no more than brief polite chats, light flirting maybe, keep it fun and light but brief. He should pursue another girl or someone else she knows, that's about the only hope to get out of the friendzone with her. Women get super jealous when male attention that was once theirs goes to someone else, especially a friend of theirs. Moving on is a win-win for the guy here.
I accepted and moved on. That was a few years ago. No have never heard back at all.
Haha bout to go express my interest, knowing I'm probally gonna get rejected. But it would feel worse not to be open about it. This video resonates and helps with the confidence, thanks!
I love how you said this, I needed this video❤
What to do when she rejected you but offered friendship instead?
What you say makes sense. Great video.
Don’t be a jerk. Don’t react. Don’t over react. At the most, ask why, if you have that kind of equation. If you can’t talk to girls as human beings, you’ll find it very difficult to get a yes out of a girl and to have a healthy relationship/marriage with one.
Thank you for this positive video!
I've found that their rejection is for my protection.
All true, but the idea that someone doesn't want to spend time with you because there's something wrong, is I think a self deception, there are people that I don't hang out with, not because I don't like them, but because maybe we don't have the same values, maybe we don't have common ground, or maybe that person has certain issues that they wouldn't even veiw as an issue, however i would see it as a big one.
They usually wont even tell the truth about why they rejected either. So no point trying to salvage anything. Walk away and live your life. Life is short.