How to Ikigai | Tim Tamashiro | TEDxYYC

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @princessleabacal6056
    @princessleabacal6056 4 года назад +495

    Listening to him was like listening to Uncle Iroh. It must be lovely to have a cup of tea listening to him anytime of the day.

    • @aidand.7911
      @aidand.7911 4 года назад +31

      This made me so goddamn happy to read. Iroh is literally the greatest thing to come out of fiction

    • @emr1d341
      @emr1d341 4 года назад +10

      I'm literally drinking tea rn lol

    • @marvinwenn330
      @marvinwenn330 4 года назад +8

      This was so good to read thank you

    • @adwiteeyarupanteepaul7637
      @adwiteeyarupanteepaul7637 4 года назад +6

      LOVE THIS COMMENT UGH

    • @Inammathe
      @Inammathe 3 года назад +6

      Wow could not understand why i felt so much familiarity with this man. Your comment reveals it!

  • @lalbertoch
    @lalbertoch 3 года назад +43

    This guy really lives up to his Ikigai: he delights! I loved this talk

  • @Antoine_Nicolas_
    @Antoine_Nicolas_ 6 лет назад +407

    For those who are curious,
    生き甲斐 (ikigai) literaly means "purpose in life", "something one lives for" in japanese. :)

    • @leavingitblank9363
      @leavingitblank9363 5 лет назад +4

      Can chocolate be my ikigai?

    • @joaolucasgaldino9872
      @joaolucasgaldino9872 5 лет назад +29

      @@leavingitblank9363
      Do you like it?
      Yes
      Are you good at eating it?
      Yes
      Can you get money from it?
      Yeah, do ASMR
      Can you change people's life?
      Yes, by feeding the chocolate economy.
      Good ikigai

    • @mishanguyen2147
      @mishanguyen2147 5 лет назад +2

      @@leavingitblank9363 Sure. How I can send it to you?
      P.s Have you ever tryed ukrainian chocolate?

    • @leavingitblank9363
      @leavingitblank9363 5 лет назад +1

      @@mishanguyen2147 Cannot say I have. At least I don't think so.

    • @vortexofficial7960
      @vortexofficial7960 4 года назад

      いきがい this is from Google translate and im confused

  • @vidhyaramesh1129
    @vidhyaramesh1129 2 года назад +82

    I have heard many talks on ikigai but this seems to be the best motivational speech which gives us the roadmap for finding our own ikigai.

  • @cynthianicole6183
    @cynthianicole6183 8 месяцев назад +3

    I just finished the book and this video truly helped me discover my ikigai = to heal, to make well. I've always loved health and wellness. To heal and help myself and others. This was so eye opening.

  • @EllaMaidinSaudi
    @EllaMaidinSaudi 6 дней назад

    The speech was so worth to listen to word by word. Hope everyone here will find our ikigai so soon. It's a process. Let us all pray and never give up on finding our purpose in life. Godbless us all.

  • @manoffriction
    @manoffriction 4 года назад +81

    Things which don't have impact on our base level happiness :
    1) Money
    2) House
    3) Job
    4) Good looks
    Things which do :
    1) Kindness
    2) Meditation
    3) spending time in what we love
    4) spending time with family/friends

    • @glovaldebenito
      @glovaldebenito 3 года назад +2

      What a great summary!! Thank you!!

    • @last_samurai6690
      @last_samurai6690 2 года назад +8

      Really? Slogans do not match reality. It would be really hard to find a broke homeless folk genuinely happy. Money, house, job are part of the whole thing. Indeed at basic level you will not be that happy of you cannot put food on the table. You won't have a family or friends if u r too broke and unemployed. Etc

  • @bw9680
    @bw9680 2 года назад +9

    Ikigai - do what you love, do what you are good at, do what the world needs and do what you will be rewarded for.

  • @erickdavid4257
    @erickdavid4257 5 лет назад +84

    This is the talk I needed for this specific moment in my life. I was so immersed in it I even felt like clapping at the very end.

  • @scottyg5403
    @scottyg5403 3 года назад +17

    What hit me about this talk is Martial Arts changed my life! Ouit so many bad habits, got in shape and went on to teach! I was also a professional musician for many years! I still love doing both!

  • @Amina088
    @Amina088 5 лет назад +123

    The best Ikigai talk I've ever listened to! I've never thought of it was an action/verb before. Everyone tells me that this is a goal to strive forward and that sometimes make it feel like it's something too far away. Thank you for reminding us that meaningful life starts now, with each action we choose for ourselves!

    • @Anonymous-tm9jn
      @Anonymous-tm9jn 5 лет назад +3

      so true, thank you for highlighting this important point

    • @creativekaii
      @creativekaii Год назад

      Yes!! It is a verb and you can experience it at any given moment.. if you choose to💚

  • @abdulhameed_12
    @abdulhameed_12 3 месяца назад +2

    He nailed the explanation!
    From this video alone, I can categorically say that my Ikigai is "to teach".
    Thanks @TEDx for this piece

  • @Nabagabo22
    @Nabagabo22 5 лет назад +59

    I have been delighted by this wonderful talk, light hearted, yet deadly serious, it's not the 'what' we get in life, it's 'how' we live it, seeking to delight others cannot be done by forcing yourself on others, rather it is like stepping in as a dance partner, for a few moments drawing attention to something beautiful, telling, profound, meaningful, ultimately moving and thoughtful, a light touch and a happy smile, and magically we've dabbed a dot of colourful delight into another's life...

  • @sarahmclin2434
    @sarahmclin2434 Год назад +5

    He gave such a great presentation! What a sweet and friendly person he seems to be.

  • @toddrlyons
    @toddrlyons 6 лет назад +216

    None of you will mispronounce "Ikigai" again. Tim's Speedo will never leave your mind.

  • @ValentinGao
    @ValentinGao Год назад +5

    The idea of having a purpose in life seems so simple yet difficult. Before listening to this Ted Talk I was lost and didn't really know where to even begin. The concept of Ikigai is just what I needed to make my mark and begin my life purpose. Thank you Ted Talk and Tim 🙂.

    • @ayeshafayyazaf
      @ayeshafayyazaf 10 месяцев назад

      How has this talk helped you so far ? Can you give your story as an example?

  • @tarokitano4021
    @tarokitano4021 2 года назад +15

    I hope everyone here has earned their yellow belts, the world needs it. Good luck on your Journey everyone❤

  • @pooyajahan2586
    @pooyajahan2586 4 года назад +4

    I have been reserching IKIGAI. This guy puts it across very well. A true doer of what he preaches.

  • @RobinHunuki
    @RobinHunuki 3 года назад +6

    Saying Ikigai can only be said with a smile... thanks to Tim, we're haunted if we choose to do it without a smile!
    I'm quite new to the concept Ikigai, but boy am I thankful to of learnt it.

    • @Skippp
      @Skippp 3 года назад +1

      Sameeee! Needed to find this

  • @pranabjyotideka6265
    @pranabjyotideka6265 4 года назад +3

    This man
    Ugh i love his energy and personality.

  • @wsxtgbujm581
    @wsxtgbujm581 4 года назад +2

    I want to be a fighter, its what I love, its what im good at, its something i can earn a fortune from, but most importantly eventually I can give back to the world in the form of teaching too.

    • @somguy728
      @somguy728 3 года назад

      This is Shinto - see 'The Last Samurai' - still true today. Just don't expect your snowflake friends to hang around.

  • @thehylers1021
    @thehylers1021 Год назад +2

    I love Tim and his talk. Exited to discover Ikigai "life guide purpose". I want to grow in this deep, thoughtful and adventurous philosophy/way of thinking. I am believing God for my next project / what I love to do to serve mankind (my ikigai). Blessings to all and may you find your way!💓🙏

  • @vivekpathre4901
    @vivekpathre4901 3 года назад +6

    So delightful words of the man who has already enjoying his own ikigai....... thank you so much for your kind words that gave us an idea of what a meaningful life could be like.....☺️☺️☺️🙏🙏🙏

  • @AndrewTriLe
    @AndrewTriLe Год назад

    Thank you Ted Talk & a Big Appreciation to Tim Tamashiro on formulating the Ikigai equation. It's important that we have a pause in our work life as short as a weekend, a 2week- vacation, a 1-year sabbatical, or even quitting the current job and take 1 to 2 years off the marketplace. When we stop being active full-time in the corporate world, there is a morbid feeling of being stuck in the mud, confused, desperate for something better, and wonder what is "the best is yet to come". At the end of the day, we have an urgency to use our finite time wisely on this playground that we call Earth. You mention time Affluence, and I remember this quote: rich people have money, wealthy people have time. If tomorrow would be my last day playing in my playground, I would still stand ready to sing my last song on the theatre of life. My rewards would be an applause from my audience for a job well done, for moving them to tears, for giving them a tiny bit of inspiration to look forward to the future and to make a difference in the lives of others by being who you are in their own unique way. Thank you Tim, you make my day!

  • @fredriddles1763
    @fredriddles1763 5 лет назад +70

    I am struggling to sort out matters in my life right now. This video helps, thank you Mr. Tamashiro.

    • @TheNewLemurian
      @TheNewLemurian 5 лет назад +3

      I am sure you will find your ikigai, it not already. Blessings.

    • @svandehurk
      @svandehurk 3 месяца назад

      And now, 5 years later ?

    • @fredriddles1763
      @fredriddles1763 3 месяца назад +1

      @@svandehurk Completely different set of problems now. Can scarcely remember what was going through my head five years ago. I am happy though!

    • @svandehurk
      @svandehurk 3 месяца назад +1

      @@fredriddles1763 Great to hear! Thanx for reacting

  • @shareofmoney
    @shareofmoney Год назад +1

    Such an excellent speech. Very impressive, clear and concise breakdown of Ikigai. This guy is amazing.

  • @belencampos9466
    @belencampos9466 8 месяцев назад

    I loved this talk. Thank you so much Tim Tamashiro.

  • @project-pe6ly
    @project-pe6ly 5 лет назад +7

    this man is very likable

  • @rajeshhkkapoor8549
    @rajeshhkkapoor8549 4 года назад +2

    Read his book instead....worth a read....worth the money n time spent...ten times more powerful than this wonderful presentation....hope we all find r ikigai n do what's needed.

  • @PrashantZombade
    @PrashantZombade 5 лет назад +46

    side-hustle = A side hustle is any type of employment undertaken in addition to one's full-time job. A side hustle is generally freelance or piecework in nature, providing a supplemental income.

    • @glovaldebenito
      @glovaldebenito 3 года назад +1

      As a non-native English speaker, this was super helpful. Thanks!!

  • @altaykaan
    @altaykaan Год назад +4

    Sometimes western influences recommend choose a job what you like to do, but it is not make sense. Sometimes what we like could be not valuable skill in life, but this Japanese philosopy, ikigai says better something, it is kind of combination "what you like", "what can you earn", "what you are good at "

  • @raptrhound38
    @raptrhound38 9 месяцев назад

    What a beautiful definition of Ikigai.

  • @laripolimata
    @laripolimata 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you, you made me realize I have already been having some Ikigai in my day for a long time and didn't know, and judging myself for not doing more in life for getting what societies wants to project on me (get that big house, that work that gives prestige, etc)

  • @anaclaraotoni
    @anaclaraotoni Год назад +1

    Ikigai is action/verb
    To Serve
    To Create
    To Delight
    To Nourish
    To Provide
    To Teach
    To Heal
    To Connect
    To Build

  • @arthurthomasware5004
    @arthurthomasware5004 6 месяцев назад

    A concise way into real happiness. Thank you, Tim.

  • @harveyli547
    @harveyli547 2 года назад

    This is how you speak publicly, nice

  • @TheCultureCounselor
    @TheCultureCounselor 5 лет назад +27

    Great concept but more than that he's such a naturally good speaker! Lots to learn from him in that area. Do feel like he kind of rushed through the last part of it.

  • @kennithg.c.dillena1880
    @kennithg.c.dillena1880 5 лет назад +5

    Ikigai sounds same with passion. Finding passion is finding lifes worth...rewards

    • @Jofranz
      @Jofranz 4 года назад +1

      Passion is combination of what you're good at and what you love.

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa 3 года назад

      @@Jofranz I love spending time on my phone, watching anime, videos, listening music, drawing
      I don't have anything I'm good at

    • @menamjaikeeree3348
      @menamjaikeeree3348 Год назад

      @@anuragsosa Aren't you good at drawing? Maybe spending more of your time drawing will lead you to your ikigai.

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa Год назад

      @@menamjaikeeree3348 yea I draw sometimes... It's based on my mood... Sometimes I have something to draw but I don't cuz I'm not feeling it or lazy. But ig drawing can be my ikigai.

  • @alphamaleacademy8997
    @alphamaleacademy8997 2 года назад +1

    My ikigai is to create, teach, & heal

  • @NJColombiano777
    @NJColombiano777 Год назад +2

    Very good presentation! I am perplexed that I am just now at 43y/o finding out of this method of finding one's purpose when I, as many, have contemplated this very same conundrum. The funny thing is that I lived in Okinawa for 3 years and I absolutely loved it! I felt something different being there I have never since felt about feeling anywhere and now knowing that this method is from the Ryukyu Islands makes sense to me even more! I will begin to employ Ikigai very soon, and even though I may not be far from my path, I feel this will lead me to where "X" marks the spot!

  • @sumankumari6799
    @sumankumari6799 2 года назад

    His talks remind me of uncle Iroh 😍. "Avtar the last Airbender" is my most favourite series I ever saw.

  • @rozniyusof2859
    @rozniyusof2859 5 лет назад +57

    "Conan! What is ikigai?"
    "To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women"

    • @jameshumphrey9939
      @jameshumphrey9939 5 лет назад +2

      no, that is the ikigai of testosterone - no Conan ;]

  • @karabear8076
    @karabear8076 5 лет назад +3

    I am almost empty . I need helping finding mine still ! Thank you for your words. I found my life's purpose the day I became empty.

  • @karl-kenonuora3494
    @karl-kenonuora3494 4 года назад +25

    Mehn this presentation was awesome.... Cool sense of humour... Starting 2020 with Ikigai

  • @booksintamil
    @booksintamil 5 лет назад +3

    I read the book "Ikigai" and reviewed it on my channel. This video was very helpful!

  • @riadahamed2710
    @riadahamed2710 5 лет назад +3

    What a great talk in attractive way. He explained how to live happily.

  • @adg5889
    @adg5889 4 года назад +1

    I actually thought about what I love doing most as he spoke. Quite a lovely realization.

  • @Ficccs
    @Ficccs 2 года назад +4

    Great talk! I've been having a lot of issues trying to figure out exactly what I would like to do in the future but during this talk something hit me. Maybe my ikigai is to help others find their ikigai? I have no idea how to make that happen but let's see what happens!

  • @jerryjones7293
    @jerryjones7293 3 года назад

    I love Ikigai and Tim's outfit.

  • @xxmontayxx9033
    @xxmontayxx9033 Год назад +4

    This is a really cool concept that builds your heart and lifestyle, I wanna try to incorporate this in my lifestyle I think I might be too much to handle though haha.

  • @imaniafeni8126
    @imaniafeni8126 5 лет назад +40

    I want my children to spend their vacations at his house

  • @RubabAzim
    @RubabAzim Год назад +1

    Awesome 👌 I love his talk and his delight ❤

  • @kereminbolgesi7858
    @kereminbolgesi7858 5 лет назад +5

    To Heal. I think I finally found my Ikigai. Thank you. :)

    • @jonathanforsythe5336
      @jonathanforsythe5336 5 лет назад +1

      TO HEAL . . . NOW I KNOW MY IKIGAI . . .WITH ALL MY HEART THANK YOU - SUSAN

    • @India123.
      @India123. 3 года назад +1

      Mine too

  • @gco2075
    @gco2075 7 месяцев назад +1

    Material things have no impact on your base level of happiness. What does have an impact are things like kindness and meditation, time affluence, in other words doing with your time what you want to do with your time and spending time with friends and family. A little bit of job everytime is going to add up to a life time of joy.

  • @georgelampropoulos1704
    @georgelampropoulos1704 4 года назад +7

    Video description: "one of the highest percentages of *centurions* in the world"
    I didn't know the Romans conquered Okinawa too, good job TEDx admins XD

  • @worldview2888
    @worldview2888 Год назад

    His book is AMAZING!

  • @MrPelikan500
    @MrPelikan500 6 лет назад +3

    ikigai ... note to myself: it's the end results that count, right? ...
    it's what we do that counts ...
    why would we not work on ourselves first ...
    to get the best out of ourselves ...
    to get us to "do" more ... more of our best ! :-)

    • @aleksssss
      @aleksssss 5 лет назад +1

      completely wrong. it is not an end result, think of it as rather a verb.

  • @thrivingonvuca3685
    @thrivingonvuca3685 3 года назад +1

    IKigai is always a great tool!

  • @jennieperez9402
    @jennieperez9402 5 лет назад

    Professor Laurie Santos from Yale University class on the Well Being on Happiness offers lots of insights between-what we think we need in order to be happy and what we actually need. A huge difference.

  • @Violetsurfer
    @Violetsurfer 5 лет назад +20

    I finally found the word for how I’ve been tryna live

  • @SineAruaKoete-ur5qs
    @SineAruaKoete-ur5qs 5 месяцев назад

    YOU ARE WORTH THE WORK 💯

  • @ScorpioSpy
    @ScorpioSpy 4 года назад +5

    This man made two low-key references to Borat by minute 6:43
    Did anyone else catch them?! 😍

  • @brunel23
    @brunel23 3 года назад +3

    What an amazing speaker, and so clever giving out the yellow belts at the end in order to connect with the audience. I want to find my Ikigai now. What if I am not happy with what I am good at though?

    • @nordic_vfx
      @nordic_vfx 3 года назад +2

      I truly believe there are 2 options:
      1. (this one is what I prefer thinking..) If you discover your talents and so on you will LOVE it, because this talent makes you to the person you are. There is no other person on the earth like you. :) And even if you don't love it to 100% you should remember that there are always a lot of ways you can use a talent. There is not only one way.
      2. If you reaaaaally unhappy with it you can go on with searching. If you are so unhappy with it I am sure you will find something else you are good in and I'm convinced that will be even better (way better) than the other thing you don't like. Because you will have passion on this thing :)
      Hope I could help a little bit. Have a great weekend!

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa 3 года назад

      I don't have anything I'm good at

    • @marybethmcmahon5937
      @marybethmcmahon5937 2 года назад

      @@anuragsosa I feel the same and at 73 with physical and health challenges, I feel very useless. I had a wonderful life, but that’s over..

    • @francescobondioli6294
      @francescobondioli6294 Год назад

      @@marybethmcmahon5937 If I'm not mistaken, Ikigai can work regardless the age. Try anyway what you might like and how you can reward yourself and others by doing so! For example: you can cook cakes, cookies and so on and sell what you create to others: you can get some money, you are happy because you cook and you can make others happy for what you cooked. This is just an example, but I hope you this comment could help you. :))) Have a good day!

  • @DanGott18
    @DanGott18 3 года назад

    Wonderful sharing of IKIGAI

  • @jadelemonade9237
    @jadelemonade9237 6 лет назад +4

    This guy is a joy to watch

  • @SubieDiecastCustoms
    @SubieDiecastCustoms 5 лет назад +8

    Important word to add to our vocabulary

  • @arlenehutchinson9259
    @arlenehutchinson9259 4 года назад +1

    Just had a light bulb moment 🌞 I have heard the term Ikigai severally and seen the map too, BUT this is the first time that I've heard it's a complex VERB 🙌🏾 I needed that important piece of the jigsaw THANK-YOU

  • @FakeGone
    @FakeGone Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this! This was a huge discovery for me!

  • @aubreythomas4477
    @aubreythomas4477 3 года назад +1

    love this dude! Such great positive vibes from him and contagious smile :)😊💖

  • @ridzyu2040
    @ridzyu2040 3 года назад

    I like the concept of IKIGAI. Can practice it in life and motivate others.

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 3 года назад +3

    God spoke to me and told me that my genuine purpose in life is to be an advocate and helper of the weak, when they are not strong. Healer of the wounded souls that do not have the love of Jesus and protect those whom are being mistreated. My family say that I'm sort of like Joan of Arc 🐺

  • @artemisphotinou1332
    @artemisphotinou1332 9 месяцев назад

    God blessssss

  • @franciscogoyo
    @franciscogoyo 4 года назад +3

    Thanks Tim i loved it.
    I would like to create subs in Spanish and Portuguese for it. I think this Ted Talk should reach most people.
    If somebody knows how to do it. Send me a message please!

  • @MichaelBiebersWorld
    @MichaelBiebersWorld 3 года назад +2

    I like that he pronounced Karate incorrectly initially, because it's what westerners are used to hearing. Then he pronounced it 'correctly' while explaining what it meant.

  • @olivierchartrand5229
    @olivierchartrand5229 4 года назад +3

    5:44 to see what an ikigai is composed of.

  • @tennesseethalerdare2beyou117
    @tennesseethalerdare2beyou117 2 года назад

    My Ikigai is To Heal (myself and others)!

  • @yz4043
    @yz4043 3 года назад

    This guy is cool and happy so I'm all in!

  • @a19lee
    @a19lee 4 года назад

    What a delightful man. BAAI~!

  • @Ggma8989
    @Ggma8989 5 лет назад +1

    I live in a bigger house than the other ppl that I know and I’m happy af knowing about it everyday.

  • @PiaPie
    @PiaPie 4 года назад +1

    I just finished listening to the audiobook and it is definitely worth my time :)

  • @prasadpuranik1754
    @prasadpuranik1754 5 лет назад +1

    Monk name bodhisatwa from India, went to chaina he taught chikung, karate, kungfu as meditation method, maybe names were different that time.

  • @MilkyLegs-n7k
    @MilkyLegs-n7k 2 года назад +6

    As a Japanese, i feel it strange
    In dictionary, Ikigai(生き甲斐) is joy of living. In everyday life we ​​use this word to refer to something that makes our life worth living. I like this word but There’s no more meaning

  • @jyothikamalesh7586
    @jyothikamalesh7586 2 года назад

    We are definitely worth the work😁💥💥💥💥

  • @PirateOfTheNorth
    @PirateOfTheNorth 5 лет назад +53

    Almost 30 and feeling depressed that I haven’t achieved much with my life so watching this video.

  • @cartuchito1
    @cartuchito1 3 года назад

    ikigai = reason to live thats all

  • @JamieNelson.
    @JamieNelson. 5 лет назад +8

    Barbara Sher can help you find your ikigai. Read her books.

  • @ianm6204
    @ianm6204 2 года назад

    That was an excellent presentation.
    I took a lot from it.

  • @somguy728
    @somguy728 3 года назад

    Kaizen and Ikigai are two reasons to respect Shintoism.

  • @jejebynature1192
    @jejebynature1192 18 дней назад

    What i noticed about the IKIGAI topic and speakers is that OCCUPATION is not mentioned in the course off the teachings.. instead, PROFESSION is advocated....

  • @anuragsosa
    @anuragsosa 3 года назад +2

    Something that I love : Watching anime, videos, playing games, drawing, listening music
    Something that the world needs : Healthy life
    Something that pays me well : I'm a medical student so my job as a doctor
    Something that I'm good at : studying ? Idk

    • @brunel23
      @brunel23 3 года назад +2

      If you enjoy drawing, why not learn and become good at it? That could be your half ikigai.

    • @anuragsosa
      @anuragsosa 3 года назад +2

      @@brunel23 Yeah I can do that 🤗

  • @monikazarashine26
    @monikazarashine26 5 лет назад

    Excellent sir... Thank u so much

  • @erinpompa
    @erinpompa Год назад

    Beautiful thank you

  • @steveb4400
    @steveb4400 3 года назад

    Ikigai can bring World Peace.

  • @persistentviolinnoob126
    @persistentviolinnoob126 3 года назад

    The number of views is 401K. Now that's a path to Ikigai too.

  • @RadhaMohan
    @RadhaMohan 5 лет назад +2

    Thanks! Loved the session on Ikigai!

  • @fredengaymusic7242
    @fredengaymusic7242 5 месяцев назад

    I am trying to work on my music as well. I hope i can find my ikigai there.

  • @macus21f96
    @macus21f96 6 лет назад +3

    Hey uncle tim much love hope to see u soon

  • @KiranVarri
    @KiranVarri 5 лет назад +3

    beautifully explained... thank you :)

  • @remotedarren
    @remotedarren 3 года назад

    Mind blown 🤯

  • @joyfullearning855
    @joyfullearning855 4 года назад +2

    It's awesome. Great motivation. Very relaxed full of humour and a lesson in life of significance. You are really great sir